What Kind of Man Are You

What kind of men were the Tragically Hip? They were for decades the seminal Canadian rock & roll band.Degan and Chris explore masculinity and personal growth through the lens of the documentary "Long Time Running," which chronicles the Hip's final tour. As fans of the band, they delve into the significance of the Hip's music, band dynamics, and the persona of lead singer Gord Downie. They reflect on the themes of vulnerability, masculine identity, and emotional connection that permeate The Tragically Hip's legacy. That last tour, especially the nationally televised final concert in Kingston, ON, was a moment of shared grief for Canada, and we couldn't have asked for better guys to represent us.Watch "Long Time Running" on CBC Gem.We would love to hear from you! Email Chris or Degan if you have any comments or suggestions!Our cover art was poorly designed by Chris, our theme music was brilliantly composed and performed by Degan. What Kind of Man Are You is a production of VQC Media.Join the mailing list for our newsletter where we will provide updates on our progress.Help us grow our podcast by buying us a coffee so we don't have to buy our own! We'll put that money towards a new computer which we desperately need!Degan is the author of the poetry collection of the same name, What Kind of Man Are You, available from Brick Books.

Identity, heroism, and what it means to do good. In this episode, we review the new Superman movie and explore the superhero's symbolic evolution over the years from a Depression-era champion of the oppressed to a modern-day figure wrestling with the public perception of him as an 'alien.' The episode also delves into broader themes of loneliness, heroism, and the complicated idea of the "maverick" making his own decisions without regard for anyone else's point of view.What other movies should we see?We would love to hear from you! Email Chris or Degan if you have any comments or suggestions!Our cover art was poorly designed by Chris. What Kind of Man Are You is a production of VQC Media.Join the mailing list for our newsletter where we will provide updates on our progress.Help us grow our podcast by buying us a coffee so we don't have to buy our own! We'll put that money towards a new computer which we desperately need!Degan is the author of the poetry collection of the same name, What Kind of Man Are You, available from Brick Books.

Degan and Chris delve into the 2012 Danish film 'The Hunt' to explore themes of masculinity, false accusations, and the devastating effects on a tight community. They discuss how these issues impact men's roles today, drawing parallels to social media and the broader cultural landscape. This is a tough movie to watch but worth seeing. It really provoked one of our favourite conversations yet for this podcast. We hope you like it!What other movies should we see?We would love to hear from you! Email Chris or Degan if you have any comments or suggestions!Our cover art was poorly designed by Chris. What Kind of Man Are You is a production of VQC Media.Join the mailing list for our newsletter where we will provide updates on our progress.Help us grow our podcast by buying us a coffee so we don't have to buy our own! We'll put that money towards a new computer which we desperately need!Degan is the author of the poetry collection of the same name, What Kind of Man Are You, available from Brick Books.

Are you tired of Chris and Degan agreeing all the time? Well they get into it talking about the portrayal of men and music in the Bob Dylan biopic, "A Complete Unknown."Is this a groundbreaking story of a genius coming of age or a cliche-ridden dud about a self-important artist? Spoiler - it's neither.We say very nice things about the cast, especially Timothee Chalamet, and we discuss the ongoing influence of Dylan's music and lyrics. Can you guess our favourite Dylan song? Then we wonder - who is the Dylan of today? Who is the "protest" poet who will meet the moment while keeping us dancing and singing along?We would love to hear from you! Email Chris or Degan if you have any comments or suggestions!Our cover art was poorly designed by Chris. What Kind of Man Are You is a production of VQC Media.Join the mailing list for our newsletter where we will provide updates on our progress.Help us grow our podcast by buying us a coffee so we don't have to buy our own! We'll put that money towards a new computer which we desperately need!Degan is the author of the poetry collection of the same name, What Kind of Man Are You, available from Brick Books.

Degan and Chris explore shifting social landscapes and men's roles through the lens of contemporary movies. Reflecting on themes of masculinity, courage, and vulnerability, they discuss emotional scenes from classic films and review the movies 'Wicked' and 'The Brutalist'. The episode also delves into how films represent male characters and the complexities of being men in today's world. Tune in for in-depth conversations on male privilege, social justice, and the intricate narratives that shape our understanding of manhood.We would love to hear from you! Email Chris or Degan if you have any comments or suggestions!Our cover art was poorly designed by Chris. What Kind of Man Are You is a production of VQC Media.Join the mailing list for our newsletter where we will provide updates on our progress.Help us grow our podcast by buying us a coffee so we don't have to buy our own! We'll put that money towards a new computer which we desperately need!Degan is the author of the poetry collection of the same name, What Kind of Man Are You, available from Brick Books.

Degan Davis and Chris Garbutt dive deep into the shifting landscape of politics, identity, and humanity, and what it means for men's roles today. With the world rapidly changing, they discuss the need for agile responses, the importance of small gestures, and ways to support affected communities. From exploring the state of masculinity to brainstorming actions that can make a difference, this episode is a clarion call for meaningful engagement and courage. Tune in to join the conversation on how to rethink masculinity, fight for justice, and feel a little less alone in the chaos.You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we need funds to keep us going - watch for a new campaign this summer! For now, feel free to to support our mission to be the best men we can be, and buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.00:00 Welcome to Season Two01:30 Reflections on Season One and Our New Reality04:20 Finding Calm in Chaos06:47 The Power of Art and Creativity09:59 Supporting Trans Rights and Community15:48 Navigating Male Privilege and Allyship20:00 Political Polarization and Personal Values23:31 National Identity and Masculine Energy25:39 Building Community and Inclusivity26:58 The Importance of Small Changes28:20 Supporting LGBTQ and Trans Communities31:29 Empathy, Compassion, and Action34:51 Challenges and Responsibilities of Privilege41:55 Concluding Thoughts: A Call to Action

It's the last episode of Season 1, but we'll be back! This month we talk about Joy - what makes us joyful as men and as humans. Degan shares a sneak peek of a memoir he is working on, and Chris shares what he considers to be his best Dad joke yet!What brings you joy? We often hear so much about men and toxic masculinity, but tell us about the joy of being a man or knowing a man! You can buy Degan's book of poetry at Brick Books.A HUGE THANK YOU to everyone who has supported us and provided feedback and suggestions. We have heard you and hope to incorporate some of that input into our second season. We still want to hear from you - leave a comment, rate us (we love those thumbs up!) or send us a note!Subscribe now to get notified when Season 2 drops. We will be opening up our podcast to advertising and sponsorship next season, so contact Chris to find out more about opportunities.We will also be keeping you up to date through our newsletter. Sign up here.

Hosts Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis discuss the tropes of action movies where male heroes transform shame into heroism, referencing classics like 'Rambo.' They relate this to real-life bullying and chronic shame, drawing distinctions between guilt and shame. The episode touches on the impact of bullying, the importance of friendships, and how male dynamics can either contribute to or heal shame. The hosts also explore broader societal influences and the importance of supportive male relationships. They end by hinting at an upcoming discussion on joy in masculinity for their next episode.You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

Hello to our audience! In the immortal words of the great but fictional psychiatrist Frasier Crane, we're listening. In this episode of 'What Kind of Man Are You,' hosts Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis respond listener feedback and comments on previous episodes. The hosts explore examples of famous male friendships, both in music and popular culture, and reflect on their own experiences. The conversation touches on societal expectations of men, the concept of stoicism, and the importance of emotional support among male friends. They also discuss the potential directions for future episodes, including more guest interviews and broader exploration of masculinity across cultures.You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

This episode delves into the complexities of masculinity through a detailed discussion of Degan Davis's poem 'Facebook Open Group for Men,' touching on themes such as masculinity, gender roles, and societal expectations. Degan Davis and Chris Garbutt reflect on personal experiences, societal influences, and cultural symbols like Jordan Peterson and drag performances. The conversation expands to include the nuanced expressions of gender seen in communities today, such as fluidity and the impact of traditional gender constructs. The episode concludes with a discussion on the beauty and strength of being a man, encapsulated in poignant examples from literature and the arts.You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In this episode, Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis delve into the complexities of love and masculinity touching on the dynamics of long-term relationships, the balance between individual needs and partnership, and the roles of masculine and feminine energies. They discuss practical challenges in modern dating and the societal pressures surrounding gender roles. Offering personal anecdotes and professional insights, they provide a nuanced look at how men can navigate love and relationships in a way that fosters emotional well-being and mutual respect. You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

Chris and Degan begin with a the poem 'Confession,' which reflects themes of unconditional acceptance and self-worth. The discussion broadens to various forms of love, emphasizing self-awareness and emotional clarity. Degan introduces the concept of men 'flying blind' due to their often unrecognized inner sensations and emotions, and the importance of emotional intelligence in partnerships. The hosts explore societal expectations, referencing figures like Esther Perel and Jordan Peterson to discuss roles in relationships and the dynamics of attraction. Practical exercises for enhancing communication in partnerships are shared, highlighting the significance of making explicit demands and maintaining individual identities within relationships. This comprehensive episode interweaves reflective questions, personal anecdotes, and actionable advice.You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In this episode, Chris and Degan explore the complexities of male friendship and vulnerability. They discuss societal expectations and cultural depictions of male friendships, delve into personal anecdotes about their own friendship, and consider how terms like 'bromance' limit men from exploring deeper connections. The conversation also touches on mentorship, with insights from music and literature, and the importance of emotional expression among men. The episode concludes with a reflection on the forms of love and friendship between men, emphasizing the value of genuine connections even in the absence of explicit declarations.You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In our second episode, Chris and Degan talk about their experiences of sports from playing baseball and soccer in childhood to the meaning of fandom as an adult. What is it about sports that define how we become men? What is it that makes it matter so much?Degan talks about whether they are feminists, and we find out what books are meaningful to Chris as a man. And listen for our new segment, Dad Joke of the Week!You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In this inaugural episode writer and communications professional Chris Garbutt, and therapist and author Degan Davis delve into their own experiences of learning masculinity. The opening poem is an excerpt from Degan's book, which has the same name as the podcast.Drawing from personal experiences, stories and literary works, Chris and Degan explore boyhood and how men become the way they are. Their vivid memories illustrate themes offreedomfearcrueltylearning to be mensocietal expectationscryingmusicand a discussion of men vs bears!You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/chrisgarbutt" target="_blank">https://cdn.buymeacoffee.com/buttons/v2/default-yellow.png" alt="Buy Me A Coffee" style="height: 60px !important;width: 217px !important;" >

Coming July 2!We are so excited to introduce our new podcast, What Kind of Man Are You, hosted by us, Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis. We're two guys who have written about this subject and spoken about it for years, decades even, and we believe that the best way to understand something is to talk about it openly. So for our first season, we're going to discuss our experiences as men, and our own evolving understandings of what masculinity means. Chris is a writer and communications professional, and Degan is a Gestalt therapist, writer and author of the poetry collection What Kind of Man Are You? To get a copy of Degan's book, head over to Brick Books.Please support this endeavour and ensure a season two! You can support us at Buy Me a Coffee. We want to stay in touch. Sign up for our newsletter, or contact Chris or Degan directly.