We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam mix humor with real-life commentary as they recap their weekends and react to trending headlines, including Angela Simmons’ controversial dating advice, viral internet moments, and unexpected tragedies that spark deeper conversations about accountability and awareness. The hosts also unpack airline drama, the realities of no-fly lists, and how everyday situations can quickly escalate—bringing their signature blend of humor, storytelling, and unfiltered perspective. The conversation shifts into bigger-picture topics like AI, cyber warfare, and emergency preparedness, exploring how technology and global instability are shaping the future. AJ and Tam discuss the importance of survival skills, community support, and staying ready in unpredictable situations—from natural disasters to worst-case scenarios. Balancing comedy with insight, the episode encourages listeners to think critically, stay informed, and prioritize resilience in an ever-changing world.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam turn weekend chaos into a meaningful conversation about relationships, household responsibilities, and emotional connection. Joined by comedian and author Jordan Carlos, they unpack themes from his book Chore Play, exploring how everyday tasks like cleaning, cooking, and shared responsibilities can strengthen intimacy and partnership. The discussion highlights how upbringing shapes expectations around domestic roles and why modern relationships require more balance, effort, and intentional communication. The conversation also dives into division of labor, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics, offering practical advice on recognizing signs of strain and improving connection. AJ, Tam Bam, and Jordan emphasize the power of small gestures, mutual respect, and understanding each partner’s background to build healthier, more supportive relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam deliver a candid and humorous conversation on relationships, financial literacy, self-growth, and navigating life as unapologetically Black women. Through personal stories and real-life experiences, they reflect on the importance of learning from past mistakes, listening to older generations, and making intentional decisions that support long-term growth. Their unfiltered dialogue blends laughter with life lessons, offering relatable insight into everyday challenges and wins. The conversation also explores self-care, evolving friendships, health awareness, and money management, emphasizing the urgency of making necessary life changes before it’s too late.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor, pop culture, and relationship talk as they recap weekend stories and trending headlines. The hosts react to reports of a home invasion attempt at Rihanna’s residence, discuss the controversy surrounding Dak Prescott’s canceled wedding over a prenup dispute, and revisit the music industry conversation around Adina Howard’s career challenges.  The discussion shifts into a candid debate about dating, marriage, and gender dynamics, exploring the emotional labor women often carry in relationships and the different ways men and women approach commitment. AJ and Tam Bam unpack topics like attraction, compatibility, settling in relationships, and the societal expectations placed on both genders—ultimately emphasizing the importance of communication, compromise, and self-awareness in building healthy partnerships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with filmmakers Laura Dyan Kezman and William Howell to discuss their powerful documentary Cycle, which investigates the tragic police killing of 18-year-old Tyrese West in Racine, Wisconsin. The conversation explores the challenges of turning real-life tragedy into impactful storytelling, the resistance the filmmakers faced while uncovering the truth, and the responsibility of presenting sensitive cases with journalistic integrity and accuracy. Kezman and Howell also reflect on the broader implications of police violence, media narratives, and systemic injustice, while sharing how the documentary aims to break the recurring cycle of outrage followed by public forgetfulness. Through personal insight and honest dialogue, the episode highlights the role of documentary filmmaking as activism—encouraging viewers to engage with the story, confront uncomfortable truths, and work toward meaningful awareness and change. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam re joined by returning special guest Jackie Woodyear and unpack a mix of pop culture and relationship dynamics, from their weekend recaps to the story of Juanita Jordan and the ongoing tension between 50 Cent and T.I. They break down how celebrity drama reflects deeper themes of loyalty, ego, and public perception. The conversation shifts to male-female friendships, exploring the realities of “work husbands” and “work wives,” blurred boundaries, and hidden intentions. AJ and Tam Bam challenge listeners to examine trust, emotional safety, and the difference between genuine friendship and ulterior motives—reminding everyone that clear communication and strong boundaries are essential in modern relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam are joined by special guest Jackie Woodyear for a candid, eye-opening conversation about the reality of the American Dream, home ownership, and financial empowerment — especially for Black women and underserved communities. The trio breaks down today’s housing market, rising debt, credit challenges, and the real barriers many people face when trying to buy a home and build long-term stability. They also explore financial literacy, generational wealth, gentrification, and hustle culture, unpacking how systemic inequality and economic pressure shape modern life and decision-making. With practical tips for first-time homebuyers and honest talk about money habits and mindset, this episode delivers both game and perspective for anyone navigating real estate, credit, and wealth building in today’s economy.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam unpack the real meaning of love, relationships, and self-care as Valentine’s Day approaches. The hosts share personal stories and honest reflections on dating, romantic expectations, and the emotional pressure that social media can place on modern relationships. From Valentine’s Day gift culture to relationship standards, they challenge fairytale narratives and encourage more grounded, intentional connection. The conversation explores love languages, communication in relationships, self-love, and partner expectations, highlighting how couples can better understand each other without performance or pressure. With humor and transparency, AJ and Tam Bam remind listeners that healthy relationships require clarity, reciprocity, and emotional awareness — not just grand gestures for the timeline.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 Roses Are Red, Flags Are Too | Season 6 PremiereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this upbeat episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam reconnect after quiet weekends, turning everyday moments into laugh-out-loud commentary. From battling freezing temperatures to candid reflections on weight loss, wellness goals, and body changes, the hosts unpack the realities of trying to live healthier in real life—not just on social media. They also explore trending health topics like peptides, diet shifts, and lifestyle discipline, offering honest takes on what works, what doesn’t, and what’s simply hype. The conversation flows into hilarious and relatable discussions about dating standards, personal quirks, and the chaos of modern relationships, blending humor with real-life observations. The episode closes with a celebratory reflection on the podcast’s growth, marking five seasons of unfiltered conversations, friendship, and laughter.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and Tam Bam catch up on personal health updates and weekend highlights before diving into timely conversations around pop culture, celebrity relationships, and the latest moments from the Golden Globes. They break down Hollywood dynamics, public image, and how fame often complicates relationships behind the scenes.The discussion then shifts to financial literacy and emotional spending, with the hosts examining how money habits are often tied to self-worth, relationships, and personal healing.   Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam ease back in after the holidays with candid conversations about rest, reflection, and resetting for the new year. They touch on evolving health and wellness trends, shifting attitudes toward alcohol consumption, and an unexpectedly generous moment that sparks a broader discussion about kindness, reciprocity, and human connection.The episode also explores personal growth, navigating romantic relationships, and the importance of self-care, boundaries, and choosing joy in everyday life. With their signature humor, AJ and Tam share lighthearted “dumb b*tch story" from a listener—rooted in past missteps that offer lessons on self-awareness, confidence, and growth.   Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Originally aired October 16th, 2025 In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @goodmoms_badchoices @watcherica @milah_mappSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam kick things off with weekend recaps, beauty tips, and candid reflections on navigating the hustle and pressure of the holiday season. The conversation deepens as they unpack the importance of accountability, intention, and manifestation, introducing the concept of “12 Days of Miracles” as a framework for personal growth and self-reflection. Moving through zodiac energy from Aries to Pisces, the hosts explore how astrology, discipline, and alignment can influence mindset and momentum. The episode wraps with a powerful discussion on surrendering control, honoring self-worth, and maintaining integrity while trusting the universe to meet you halfway on the path to your goals.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ and Tam Bam recap highlights from a recent cruise while opening up about the real-life conversations that followed once the vacation ended. From the emotional realities of aging parents and family health concerns to the growing responsibilities that come with adulthood, the hosts reflect on how life shifts as priorities change. The discussion expands into modern relationship dynamics, with a sharp focus on financial boundaries, expectations, and independence. AJ and Tam Bam unpack topics like financial celibacy, navigating friendships with money disparities, being the so-called “broke bestie,” and how grief and healing play out publicly in the age of social media.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with Dr. Kelly Elmore for a candid and educational discussion about perimenopause and menopause—two stages of women’s health that are often misunderstood and overlooked. Dr. Elmore breaks down the myths surrounding menopause, highlighting the benefits and risks of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and the crucial role of lifestyle choices in navigating this transition. They explore the impact of stress, nutrition, and intentional fitness on hormonal balance, as well as the importance of community support and open dialogue among women. Dr. Elmore shares her personal journey into medicine and emphasizes the need for proactive, holistic health care as women age. Together, they stress the importance of educating future generations about women’s health, empowering listeners to embrace menopause not as an ending, but as a powerful new phase of womanhood.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back,  AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into a wide range of relatable topics—from weekend wins and personal milestones to cultural shifts around alcohol consumption and evolving body standards. They break down the influence of celebrity glow-ups, the rise of life coaches, and the emotional stability required to maintain healthy relationships. With humor and honesty, the hosts explore the dynamics of cuffing season, the importance of boundaries, and the role of self-awareness in dating. The conversation delves deeper into relationship expectations, examining emotional availability, communication, and the effort required to sustain meaningful connections. AJ and Tam discuss how to evaluate partners, identify toxic patterns, and date intentionally to understand personal preferences. They wrap with candid advice on how to exit unhealthy relationships gracefully, emphasizing self-worth, emotional safety, and choosing partners who contribute to real growth.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the We Talk Back podcast, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam dive into a candid and entertaining conversation that spans personal stories, community recognition, and the realities women face around motherhood, relationships, and reproductive choices. They discuss the societal pressures surrounding abortion and motherhood, unpack the layers of friendship loyalty, and explore how celebrity relationships often mirror broader cultural issues. They also examine the impact of media narratives on women’s reputations, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness when navigating toxic relationships and life transitions. The episode wraps with a hilarious and revealing “Would You Rather” segment that showcases AJ and Tam Bam’s unique perspectives on personal growth, accountability, and the choices that shape our lives. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam serve up a lively and candid conversation centered around Thanksgiving gratitude, culinary responsibilities, and the pressure of holiday expectations. They explore the emotional weight of hosting, family dynamics, and the tradition-filled stress that comes with preparing the perfect holiday. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into Summer Walker’s recent relationship controversy, unpacking themes of self-worth, accountability, and emotional boundaries in modern dating. The hosts examine how societal expectations, especially for successful and financially independent women, impact romantic relationships and the perception of femininity. They also touch on Kandi Burruss’s rumored divorce, using it as a doorway to explore the impact of success, ego, and financial imbalance on partnerships. AJ and Tam highlight how ego—not success—destroys relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional security, support, and mutual celebration of wins. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and TamBam explore the true characteristics of masculinity, breaking down what defines a “real man” in the context of modern relationships. They contrasts genuine confidence, emotional maturity, and self-awareness with the behavior of men who engage in negativity and performative opinions online. AJ emphasizes that while money may enhance a man’s appeal, true charisma and attraction come from inner confidence, presence, and authenticity. The conversation also delves into the influence of cultural figures like Kevin Samuels on men’s dating perspectives, self-image, views on relationships and the importance of emotional intelligence, accountability, and respectful communication in building healthy connections.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back AJ & TamBam discuss the urgent need for support for communities in crisis, particularly in Jamaica. Also joining the episode is Michael Johnson, CEO of the Boys and Girls Club of Dane County, who shares his inspiring journey from adversity to leadership. The conversation covers the importance of community support, financial literacy, and the mindset needed for effective leadership. Michael emphasizes the role of empathy in leadership and the significance of building connections within the community. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage and support their local communities. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holliday and Tam Bam dive into an eclectic mix of topics—from their weekend escapades to the growing influence of blockchain technology and artificial intelligence in modern society. They unpack Gucci Mane and Keyshia Ka’oir’s recent interview, exploring the emotional depth and mental health challenges that often accompany celebrity relationships. The conversation also takes a reflective turn as they discuss Nicki Minaj’s controversial remarks, examining the power of public influence in today’s digital landscape. To close, the hosts share eerie and captivating ghost stories, blending historical accounts with personal experiences that explore the unseen energies shaping our world. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into an honest and hilarious conversation about self-care, discipline, and the complexities of modern relationships. They share personal weekend stories, offer candid takes on hygiene and confidence, and critique the unrealistic standards of the modeling industry. The discussion expands into topics like emotional health, body image, and the ups and downs of dating in the digital age — including their experiences with dating apps. With humor and vulnerability, AJ and Tam highlight the importance of communication, self-worth, and self-awareness in relationships, closing with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories,” where they reflect on love, growth, and lessons learned the hard way. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @goodmoms_badchoices @watcherica @milah_mappSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam share their weekend highlights before diving into trending celebrity news, including Diddy’s sentencing and Porsha Williams’ new relationship. The conversation takes a candid turn as they explore the complexities of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, questioning whether women still fake orgasms in 2025. With humor and honesty, the hosts discuss the differences in sexual expectations between men and women, emphasizing the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual pleasure in healthy relationsh Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam reflect on their uneventful weekends, their shared love of scary movies, and the recent passing of Assata Shakur, a pivotal figure in Black history. They critique the controversy surrounding a poorly received Tina Turner statue and highlight Young Thug’s surprise community service concert. The conversation dives deep into personal fears—ranging from homelessness and illness to struggles with self-image and parenthood—while examining how authenticity and self-acceptance play critical roles in today’s social media-driven world. AJ and Tam also discuss the nuance of dating, the importance of financial independence, and the courage to ask for help. The episode ultimately encourages listeners to confront their fears head-on as a pathway to personal growth, stronger relationships, and emotional freedom.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam get candid about their personal dating experiences before diving into the buzz around Cardi B’s new album and its impact on the music industry. They also unpack the ongoing debates about freedom of speech, spotlighting the controversy surrounding David Anthony Burke. They also embracing the fall season, from wellness practices and seasonal rituals to cozy home décor ideas. The episode concludes with a guided meditation designed to welcome autumn with clarity and intention. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and Tam Bam open up about personal grief and ongoing health challenges. The conversation explores the weight of political violence, systemic racism, and the pressures of Black excellence in today’s society. They also reflect on generational differences in work ethic, highlighting how cultural expectations around productivity often clash with the need for self-care and they also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, prioritizing mental health, and redefining success on their own terms. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! This week, AJ and Tam Bam kick things off by sharing their weekend highlights, including AJ diving into a new reality series her friend is producing. In the S.I.N.S of the week, they break down the latest drama from The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Then, they take a nostalgic trip back to the ‘90s with a review of A Thin Line Between Love and Hate, unpacking the film’s portrayal of toxic relationships and the traits that fueled the chaos. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam celebrate the fifth anniversary of the Black Effect Podcast Network while diving into an honest conversation about love, dating, and self-discovery. They reflect on recent concert experiences and family visits, then shift into the realities of modern relationships—unpacking societal expectations, trust, and the challenges of commitment. The hosts explore the difference between loneliness and solitude, the power of communication, and the importance of choosing the right partner.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam unpack a mix of cultural and personal themes, weaving their weekend reflections into a deeper conversation about relationships, loyalty, and shifting values. They explore the public perception of marriage in light of Offset’s recent controversial comments, while also examining the concept of snitching within hip hop culture and the fading relevance of street credibility in today’s society. They highlight the importance of family, accountability, and moving away from destructive cycles toward building healthier, more positive community values. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.