United Not Uniform

Not What You Thought invites you into an authentic conversation with people whose paths to faith were anything but predictable. Through stories of doubt, hope, and discovery, you'll find new ways to see God at work - even in the unexpected. This final week features Rev. Titiana's story!To learn more about United Not Uniform and upcoming projects, check out unitednotuniform.com!

Not What You Thought invites you into an authentic conversation with people whose paths to faith were anything but predictable. Through stories of doubt, hope, and discovery, you'll find new ways to see God at work - even in the unexpected. This week features Jon's story!To learn more about United Not Uniform and upcoming projects, check out unitednotuniform.com!

Happy New Year, United Not Uniform Community! If you’re in a season where nothing feels certain and trusting God feels especially hard, this episode is for you. Today, I’m sharing honestly about my own journey of life transitions and what it looks like to hold onto faith in the midst of it. I will share how I have been wrestling, my questions, the challenges of waiting, and the quiet ways God has met me. You’re not alone. I believe by sharing my journey while in the waiting, that you may be encouraged as well. Let's do this together. To learn more about United Not Uniform, check out unitednotuniform.com!

Not What You Thought invites you into an authentic conversation with people whose paths to faith were anything but predictable. Through stories of doubt, hope, and discovery, you'll find new ways to see God at work - even in the unexpected. This week features Chasity's story!To learn more about United Not Uniform and upcoming projects, check out unitednotuniform.com! 

Not What You Thought invites you into authentic conversations with people whose paths to faith were anything but predictable. Through stories of doubt, hope, and discovery, you’ll find new ways to see God at work—even in the unexpected. This week features Jay's story!To learn more about United Not Uniform and upcoming projects, check out unitednotuniform.com!

Not What You Thought invites you into authentic conversations with people whose paths to faith were anything but predictable. Through stories of doubt, hope, and discovery, you’ll find new ways to see God at work—even in the unexpected. This week features my own journey of faith—an honest look at how God met me in the lowest moment of my life. In the midst of shame, I was met with love, hope, and a freedom I never could have imagined.To learn more about United Not Uniform and upcoming projects, check out unitednotuniform.com!

In this week's episode, I'm joined by my friend Dani Jaye, author of It's Not Just a Man's World, for a deep and honest conversation about something many of us struggle with—learning how to truly rest. In a world that glorifies hustle, rest can feel like a luxury or even a weakness. But what if it’s actually a gift?Are you feeling drained, exhausted, or constantly running on empty? Do you long for a different way of living—one that embraces limits, renewal, and joy? You're in the right place! Join us as we unpack why rest matters, how to embrace it without guilt, and what it means to find real restoration in your everyday life.Resources mentioned:It's Not Just A Man's World - Dani JayeSacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity - Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, MDTo learn more about United Not Uniform, check out unitednotuniform.com!

In the Can We Be Real? series, we’re tackling the crucial topic of disability awareness and care in the church. Join us as our special guest, Natalie opens up about her personal journey living with a disability, the untapped opportunities for churches to be more inclusive, and how we can intentionally remove barriers to create a welcoming space for all. This episode is packed with powerful insights and practical takeaways that you won’t want to miss!To learn more about United Not Uniform, be sure to check out unitednotuniform.com.

A lot has happened in 2025 and we are only two months in! In this episode of United Not Uniform, I explore the topic of lament and what does it look like to allow spaces to lament with God and in community. I also share my heart and calling for seeing those most unseen and building up the multicultural church.To learn more about United Not Uniform, check out the website at www.unitednotuniform.com

Valentine's Day often symbolizes love and connections. For singles, however, it can often be a reminder of the desire for love, frustration, joy, and everything in between. In this honest conversation about navigating unmet expectations, desires for marriage, and being willing to look goofy on the dance floor, my hope is that, regardless of your relationship status, you will be brave enough to try something new, allow yourself to fully experience where you are in the present, and see how far you have come.To learn more about United Not Uniform, check out unitednotuniform.com!

In this episode of Kicking it with Krystal, we explore an honest conversation on the dissonance between what is and what we hoped for. In this 2024 wrap-up, I discuss navigating unfulfilled desires and relationships and celebrating both the wins and lessons learned. This year has been a mix of laughter, tears, and everything else.To learn more about United Not Uniform and upcoming projects, check out unitednotuniform.com!*Episodes will resume on January 24, 2025

How many of you have struggled with imposter syndrome? Have you ever thought - I don't belong here? I'm not qualified. I am not good enough. In this episode, my friend Daina and I unpack the lies of imposter syndrome and the ways we have found healing, love, and peace. To learn more about upcoming projects and more, be sure to check out unitednotuniform.com!

In this series of Kickin It with Krystal, I talk candidly with you about life after the election. What does it look like to grieve with those who grieve and rejoice with those who are rejoicing? Is it even possible? While I don't have all the answers, my hope is that this episode is a safe space for however you are feeling during this time. To learn about upcoming projects and more, be sure to check out unitednotuniform.com!

In this series, Kickin' It with Krystal, I share my journey in re-discovering myself through creativity. Whether you are a professional artist or someone just starting out, this episode is for you. Creativity has allowed me to uncover my true self. And, my hope by sharing is that you will give yourself the permission to do so as well.To learn more about upcoming projects and more, be sure to check out unitednotuniform.com! 

In this series called Making Moves, I invite an expert to share their area of expertise and provide practical insight that you can apply in everyday life. In this episode, we hear from Shikina Tellis, the CEO and founder of TWS Coaching and Consulting Group. Shikina shares what led her into becoming a certified coach, the difference between coaching and counseling, and the valuable support coaching can provide.If you are interested in exploring coaching, check out TWS Coaching and Consulting Group at https://twscoaching.com/life-coach-bookingBe sure to stay connected to United Not Uniform in between podcast episodes at unitednotuniform.com!

Requested and Received is a series where the topic is decided by listeners like you! In this episode, special guests, Vivi and Taek share insights on their own multicultural relationships and how they each learned to embrace difference. Whether you are single, dating, or married, this is an episode you don't want to miss!To stay connected and learn more about other projects, check out unitednotuniform.com! 

Can We Be Real? I know many of us have questions about the bible and what these means for people who follow Christ today. In this episode, we will discuss the story of Sarai (before she became Sarah) and Hagar. Their stories are often told in contradiction to each other, however, by looking at how their stories intersect, we can learn more about ourselves and the character of God. 

How many of you feel like you have a dream that seems impossible and too big? Should you give up or wait? In this episode, Dee, from T.E.A. with Dee, and I unpack having God-sized dreams, trusting in God's timing, and the lessons we have learned along the way.To learn more about Dee's ministry, check out her website: https://www.deespassionfilledexperience.com/this-season

How many of you are in a season of loneliness? In this episode, I share my own personal experience with loneliness and embracing the season I am in. If you have questions or would like to submit a topic to discuss on the podcast, please contact me at [email protected]!

What does it mean to seek wisdom? Is there a difference between wisdom and intellect? In this episode, Pastor Kimberly Williams unpacks the meaning of wisdom and what it looks like to actively seek it.  If you have questions or would like to submit a topic to discuss on the podcast, please contact me at [email protected]!

In this episode, my younger sister, Lauren, joins us to talk about turning 30, lessons learned, and all that is to come in this new decade. Get ready to laugh, relate, and leave feeling encouraged and uplifted.If you have questions or would like to submit a topic to discuss on the podcast, please contact me at [email protected]!Please note: We will be releasing episodes every other Friday starting in 2024! Make sure to follow the show to stay up to date with episodes!

In this episode, we will be discussing a wide range of topics, including the challenges of stereotypes, counseling, emotions, and more. Charles Tellis, an experienced military leader, will be sharing his views on counseling, navigating emotions in high-stakes situations, and leading others. If you have any questions or would like to submit topics to discuss on the podcast, please feel free to contact me at [email protected]. Also, please note that we will be releasing new episodes every other Friday.

Join us for a follow-up episode to our conversation on boundaries! Sequins Camille Gooding, my spiritual Big Sis, returns to continue an honest conversation on boundaries and emotions, communicating our needs and how we can practically apply this to our lives. If you have questions or would like to submit topics to discuss on the podcast, please contact me at [email protected]!Please note: We will be releasing episodes every other Friday in 2024! So make sure you follow the show!

In this week's episode, I discuss understanding the weight and influence our words carry. Whether you have physically lost your voice like me or still need to remember the power of your voice, this episode is for you! 

In this modified podcast, I share my experience with grief and embracing new traditions. Whether you have recently experienced the loss of a loved one, there is something in this podcast for you. As always, if you have any questions or content that you would like to see, contact me at [email protected]!

Need help deciding whether to cancel or continue a relationship? In this episode, Sequins Camille Gooding, my spiritual Big Sis, and I discuss the importance of boundaries. Yes, we go there. In this honest and real conversation, we share the benefits, challenges, and lessons learned with setting, respecting, and owning our boundaries. So, whether you have experience setting boundaries or trying to set them for the first time, there is something here for you!If you have questions or would like to submit topics to discuss on the podcast, please get in touch with me at [email protected]!

How many of you struggle with perfectionism or with basing your value on how you perform? In this first episode of United Not Uniform,  I share my story of seeking perfectionism and control over my core values and living fully. And the powerful, ongoing journey of getting back to me. Welcome to United Not Uniform! Where there is more than enough space for us to better see and understand our own stories so that we can better see others!If you want to learn more or connect, email me at [email protected]