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Not Having Kids Is Not a Tragedy

Not Having Kids Is Not a Tragedy

Under the Influence with Jo Piazza · Jo Piazza

March 5, 202649m 43s

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Show Notes

What if you do not want kids, but everyone acts like you are making a mistake?

This week, we’re talking with Helena DeGroot, creator of the podcast The Creation Myth, about choosing a child-free life in a culture that refuses to believe that choice can be valid. Helena knew early that she did not want children. Her husband said he was on the same page, until he was not. After years of pressure, their marriage ended and she went on a deep, audio-documentary style search for the truth of what she actually wanted, without the noise of strangers, expectations, and the myth that motherhood equals fulfillment.

We get into doubt, identity, the “mother or selfish” binary, and why you can love kids, show up for them, and still not want to be a parent. Also, why the deepest personal stories often become the most universal mirror.

Listen to more of Helena's story on The Creation Myth.

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