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What is the most common question an online sex educator finds in her DMs? Danielle Bezalel, aka DB, is an executive producer and creator of Sex Ed with DB. She has a Master of Public Health with a focus on sexuality and reproductive health. In this conversation, she talks to Bryde and Jeremie about public health and its role with sex education, highlighting the need for age-appropriate and medically accurate sex education that covers topics such as boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, and contraception, and statistics relating to abstinence only sex ed.DB breaks down the benefits of masturbation, including effects on stress levels, mood, and confidence, and details on her own masturbation science project and the findings. Jeremie offers a brief history lesson on the Magic Wand. Other topics of conversation include the challenges of being a sexual health influencer on social media plus a workshop to help folks who are establishing their sex health brands online. DB also addresses questions about talking to children about masturbation and the most common questions she receives as a sexual health educator.Follow DB:XInstagramFacebookTiktokWebsiteWorkshopYoutubeOther episode mentions:Guttmacher InstituteKeywords: sex education, public health, abstinence-only, comprehensive, age-appropriate, medically accurate, boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, contraception, pleasure, orgasm gap, sex education, masturbation, sexual health, Magic Wand, confidence, parenting, sex toys, social media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's it like to make a decision in favour of your sexual and mental well-being that costs you everything you know and sometimes everyone you love? Julia and Jeremiah Postema are certified sex therapists who grew up in different religious communities, and from their experiences they speak to singles and couples who are on their own healing path from shame, disillusionment, and allegiance to the church. Jeremie and Bryde chat with today's guests about the restrictive gendered messages around relationships and sexuality that exist within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities. They also talk about the challenges of existing in both religious and philosophical spaces and the grief that can come with leaving a religious community. They highlight the importance of expanding options for healthy relationships and sexuality, at a pace that is appropriate for those in treatment.Find Sexvangelicals here:InstagramFacebookWebsiteSubstackKeywordssex, religion, sexuality, religious communities, sex therapy, gender norms, trad wife, evangelical, Mormon, Pentecostal, philosophy, spirituality, grief, leaving a religious community, healthy relationships, religion, sexuality, relationships, abstinence-only education, gender differences, shame, therapy, couples, communication Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered why your mother/daughter is such a bitch? Dr. Debra Mandel, nationally renowned psychologist and author of 4 books including the bestselling "Dump That Chump," joins Bryde and Jeremie for a conversation about Dr. Debra’s latest release, “Sassy & Rude, Her New Attitude: A Tough Love Guide for Moms on How to Bring Back The Sugar and Spice in Their Not-so-Nice Adult Daughters”. This conversation centers on the relationship between adult mothers and adult daughters, and this information is for you if you are either of those or anyone who knows and loves a mother daughter duo. The three talk through personal anecdotes and professional insights on themes of shame, power dynamics, shifts in relationship, independence, boundaries, expectations, body image, and more. Dr. Debra provides insights and advice on fostering healthy communication, addressing conflicts, and supporting each other's growth.Dr. Debra brings over 30 years working clinically with individuals, couples, and families with a range of specialties from relationship and daily life issues to depression, anxiety, eating disorders and addiction, and she speaks on her subject with humour and compassion at the forefront.LinksTwitter: @DrDebraMandelInstagram: @dr.debramandel Facebook: Dr. Debra Mandel, The LOVE Warrior Youtube: @debramandel7083Website: DrDebraOnline.comKeywordsparent-adult child relationships, healing, communication, power dynamics, open dialogue, understanding, mothers, adult daughters, boundaries, expectations, roles, responsibilities, self-care, body image, communication, conflicts, growth, empathy, understanding Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s time for a revolution in the sheets and the streets, as we sit down with Cindy Gallop, the genius at the forefront of the Social Sex Revolution. Cindy, the visionary behind MakeLoveNotPorn, shares the serendipitous inception of her platform and how it's challenging and reshaping societal norms around sex. But that's just the first layer. Delving deeper, Cindy unravels the complex web of gender bias in AI, advocating for a seismic shift towards inclusivity and safety in tech through the lens of female innovation. Imagine a world where AI not only serves us but enhances our creativity and nurtures ethical, consensual relationships in the digital age—Cindy believes it's not just possible; it's imperative. From the gritty challenges of entrepreneurship to the soaring potential of AI in the arts and sex tech, this conversation is a masterclass in disruption, diversity, and daring to dream.Relevant Links:MakeLoveNotPornTheArts.AIMakeLoveNotPorn WeFunderSocials:SubstackInstagramXLinkedin Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we’re passing the vibe check with VibeSlut, AKA Abby Jensen! Abby is the comedic force behind the Rat Girls podcast who joins us to blow the lid off women's health and sexuality. With a blend of humour and hard truths, she takes us on a wild ride through the often hushed world of orgasms, face-sitting tutorials, and the art of taking the perfect nude. It's a beginner's guide to the taboo. From the debate of beard versus stubble in intimate moments to navigating the murky waters of social media censorship, Abbyl doesn't shy away from anything. She even dishes out advice on keeping the flame alive in long-term relationships with a mix of flirting and open conversation about sex. This episode is a candid exploration of the challenges and triumphs in talking openly about sexuality.Links:Check out Abby's IGSex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love LifeRat Girls Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Enter a realm where play parties become immersive experiences. In this episode, Michael Hollice, founder of The Play, walks the hosts through the creation of something special on the play party scene.Inspired by what he found lacking in his initial forays into the play parties and backed with organizational experience in elevating artistic events, Michael was impassioned to shift the culture. Jeremie and Bryde hear about what to expect between the hours of 8 pm - 4 am at The Play, including special guidelines for socializing, expressive art as foreplay, and the four pillars behind this growing community that guide every event.Links:The Play - WebsiteThe Play - Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever thought of hiring a travel agent for your love life? Let Ally Iseman, the creator of Passport 2 Pleasure be your guide to alternative relationships. Ally shares her story with the hosts, emphasizing the importance of personal growth, understanding boundaries, and the transformative power of compersion in relationships. Ally challenges monogamous norms, spotlighting divorce rates and advocating for diverse relationship frameworks. Tune in for a conversation that offers insights applicable to all relationship types. Visit Ally's hub passport2pleasure.com for resources, featuring courses, retreats, and a couple of great prompts for self-discovery.Key Takeaways:Personal growth and self-reflection are essential in navigating healthy non-monogamy.Understanding and communicating boundaries is crucial for personal growth and relationship success.Compersion, the feeling of joy and excitement when a partner experiences pleasure with someone else, can enhance relationships.Relationship agreements, outlining boundaries and expectations, are valuable tools for all types of relationships.The skills and tools learned in non-monogamy are applicable to all types of relationships, including monogamous ones. Knowing oneself is crucial for building healthy relationships.Monogamy is not the only relationship framework, and it may not work for everyone.Divorce rates for monogamous marriages are high, indicating that it may not be successful for everyone.There are multiple ways to relate and love others and oneself.Links: Ally's Relationship RatioAlly's Big WhyInstagramTiktokFacebookYouTubeChapters:00:00Introduction00:45Ally's Journey to Non-Monogamy02:00Choosing a Career in Non-Monogamy Education03:19Exploring Non-Monogamy in a Relationship05:14Personal Growth and Emotional Casualties06:11Formal Education and Launching Passport 2 Pleasure07:51Understanding Boundaries and Personal Growth09:46Unrealistic Boundaries and Hindrances11:14Differentiating Discomfort and Lack of Safety13:47The Concept of Compersion15:14Discovering Compersion and Dealing with Jealousy18:20Explaining Compersion to Others21:46The Unique Feeling of Compersion23:16The Desire for a Partner to Be Everything25:22The Importance of Relationship Agreements27:15Creating Relationship Agreements29:04Applying Relationship Agreement Concepts to Friendships35:02Introduction to Passport 2 Pleasure36:34Planning Eco-Luxury Retreats38:04Applying Non-Monogamy Skills to Monogamous Relationships40:19Exploring Relationship Frameworks41:14Monogamy and Divorce Rates41:53Finding Ally Iseman Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Quick, honey. Grab the lube! This week the hosts explore the transformative world of sexual wellness with another conversation with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent. Jeff takes us through his inspiring journey toward revolutionizing the sexual wellness industry, emphasizing the critical role of medical certification and science-backed products. His narrative delves into the challenges of bringing Promescent to the forefront, highlighting the broader need for comprehensive sexual education and the obstacles encountered in advertising sexual wellness products. Throughout the conversation, Jeff addresses the societal stigmas and restrictions that often hinder the marketing efforts within the sexual wellness space, advocating for the recognition of sex as an essential activity of daily living. Jeff also shares insights into the expansion of Promescent’s product line, focusing on inclusivity and the importance of addressing common sexual health issues, such as premature ejaculation and the pleasure gap. Interested in Promescent?Check out our first conversation with Jeff!Make Love Not PornKey takeaways:Medical certification and evidence-based products are paramount in the sexual wellness industry.Comprehensive sexual education is essential for overcoming common sexual health issues.The advertising and marketing of sexual wellness products face unique challenges due to societal stigma.Recognizing sex as an integral part of daily living is crucial for holistic health.Expansion and inclusivity in product lines are key to addressing diverse needs in sexual health.Chapters: 00:00Introduction to Jeff Abraham and Promescent03:05The Importance of Medical Certification and Science-Based Products05:27Jeff's Journey to Promescent07:20Addressing Premature Ejaculation and the Pleasure Gap12:31Jeff's Understanding of Sexuality and Pleasure16:41The Need for Comprehensive Sexual Education21:30The Frustrations of Advertising Sexual Wellness Products25:17Sex as an Activity of Daily Living32:47Expanding the Product Line of Promescent49:15Continuity and Customer Experience50:08Expanding into Retail and Women's Products52:17Discreet Packaging and Retail Expansion53:40Financial Motives and Sexual Wellness54:34Family Planning and Women's Rights56:01Considering Other Locations57:22Educating Customers and Product Satisfaction59:11Authenticity and Trust in Marketing01:02:38Closing Remarks and Support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Turn Me On family is growing, and Jeremie and Bryde are excited to be introducing a new team member, Anna, who has come on board to bring her incredible support and help us delve deeper into the fascinating world of sexuality research. Anna's arrival marks a new chapter for the podcast, infusing the show with fresh energy and enthusiasm. After some Anna love bombs, the hosts dive into the sex lives of bugs. Digging into insect mating rituals, covering everything from seductive mating calls to the exchange of spermatophores (yum). Bryde and Jeremie explore the peculiar practices of feeding during mating, and even the ultimate sacrifice some insects make for reproduction.Key Takeaways:The addition of Anna to the podcast team has brought new energy and support to the show.The hosts plan to focus more on the research side of sexuality in future episodes.Bug sex is a fascinating topic, with insects using various strategies for mating and reproduction.Valentine's Day controversies, such as naming exes in cat litter boxes, can be seen as toxic and unnecessary.Chapters:00:00Introduction and Announcement03:08The Role of Anna in the Podcast06:56Exploring Bug Sex08:40Mating Calls and Musical Seduction09:31Spermatophore and Feeding During Mating10:19Fatal Attractions and Self-Sacrifice16:52The Pleasure Principle21:26Acknowledging the Listeners and Future Plans22:23Discussion on Valentine's Day Controversies25:59Conclusion and Call to Support the Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Who knew a plateful of nutrition could be your ally in the bedroom and beyond? Dive into the vital connection between nutrition and fertility with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack in this episode of Turn Me On. Celebrating her new book, Real Food for Fertility, Lisa emphasizes the power of diet in preparing for pregnancy and boosting fertility. She explores the importance of tracking the menstrual cycle for natural birth control, conception, and gauging overall health, highlighting the critical role of micronutrients in hormone production and building a healthy foundation for your baby. The conversation also covers navigating the transition off of birth control, the impact on fertility, and delves into sperm and egg quality. Learn about the significance of striving for optimal fertility markers, influenced by factors like age, diet, and lifestyle, and discover practical strategies to enhance fertility. Whether you're planning for pregnancy or are keen on reproductive health, this episode offers invaluable insights and actionable advice for anyone looking to optimize their fertility through real food and lifestyle adjustments.Key Takeaways: - Understanding the menstrual cycle and tracking it can support natural birth control, conception, and overall health.- Nutrition plays a crucial role in fertility, and women should prioritize their macronutrient and micronutrient intake.- Coming off birth control should be planned ahead to allow time for hormone normalization and nutrient replenishment.- Egg quality and quantity decline over time, and it is important to prioritize overall health and nutrition to support fertility.- Sperm quality is a significant factor in fertility, and men should also focus on their nutrition and overall health. The World Health - - Organization guidelines for sperm quality represent a low bar for fertility and do not reflect optimal parameters for conception.- There has been a significant decline in sperm quality over time, with the average man today having lower sperm concentration compared to men in the 1940s.- Factors such as aging, diet, and lifestyle can affect both sperm and egg quality.- Practical strategies to improve sperm and egg quality include incorporating nutrient-rich foods, avoiding heat exposure to the testicles, and addressing lifestyle factors like smoking and excessive exercise.Relevant Links: Real Food For Fertility BookLisa’s Podcast: Fertility Friday RadioTMO Ep. 200 - The Fifth Vital SignEpisode Chapters:00:00 - Introduction and Background02:15 - The Collaboration and Book06:05 - The Role of Nutrition in Fertility17:37 - Preparing for Pregnancy26:47 - Coming Off Birth Control36:08 - Egg Quality and Fertility42:03 - Sperm Quality and Fertility43:55 - Understanding Sperm Parameters and Guidelines46:20 - Optimal Sperm Parameters51:04 - Misconceptions about Sperm Parameters52:33 - The Importance of Sperm in Fertility59:46 - Factors Affecting Sperm and Egg Quality01:03:14 - Heat and Lifestyle Factors Affecting Sperm Quality01:05:21 - Improving Sperm and Egg Quality Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Casey Donatello knows a thing or two about Hotwifing — She guides Jeremie and Bryde through her daring dance of consensual non-monogamy that's all about trust, respect, and, yes, a whole lot of love. From untangling the intricate differences between hotwifing, cuckolding, and stag and vixen play, to navigating the complexities of desires and boundaries, Casey lays it all bare. She doesn't just share the theory; she takes the hosts on her personal journey through the highs and lows, the challenges, and the triumphant moments of embracing her true desires. But it's not just about the thrills; it's a lesson in communication, flexibility, and breaking down the barriers of stigma and judgment. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this conversation is a deep dive into the emotional, intimate, and sometimes misunderstood world of non-monogamy.Episode Takeaways: Hotwifing is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a wife is allowed to have sex with other partners with the knowledge and approval of her husband.Different dynamics exist within hotwifing, including cuckolding, stag and vixen relationships, and hot wife couples.Communication, trust, and respect are essential in hotwifing relationships to ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved.Hotwifing challenges societal norms and requires individuals to be open-minded and accepting of non-traditional relationship dynamics.Before and after the date rituals, as well as aftercare, play a crucial role in maintaining emotional connection and intimacy in hotwifing relationships. Open communication is crucial in non-monogamous relationships.Labels in the lifestyle can be flexible and may not always accurately represent individuals' roles or dynamics.Flexibility and adaptability are important qualities in maintaining healthy relationships. You can find Casey here - https://caseydonatello.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Kristal about the work of modern masculinity that she breaks down in her book "Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man". Bryde and Jeremie chat with Krista about her experience growing up in Japan and learning to date in college in the US, the 3 Ps of masculinity that are inhabited by men across cultures and generations, and building strength in the relational gym. You can find more on Krista's work at strong love.com, and follow Krista on socials @atxtherapist Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sophie Rhyder is a 20-year-old Romanian cam model who caters to mainly British and American members of the live-streaming service LiveJasmin. Sophie talks to Bryde and Jeremie about working independently versus working for a studio, the start-up costs of launching a modeling career, the 24-hour reality of working on an international schedule, and playing multiple roles - sometimes with detailed, scripted scenes. You can find Sophie at https://m.livejasmin.com/en/SophieRhyder , or on instagram @sophierhyder. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Catherine Hiller is an award-winning author whose work has been challenging social norms for decades. Her new book, "Cybil Unbound" (2023) is a novel about the sexual adventures of a freethinking and risk-taking older woman. Social history and autobiographical fiction are woven together in a novel that spans decades in the life of a woman who was a child of the 1950s. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Catherine about the cultural shifts in sexual perception over the past 70 decades, and why untraditional romantic needs of middle-aged/ older women are ignored in novels and her sons.Find more about Catherine at catherinehiller.net and sign up for her Substack, "The Pleasure Principle: Savoring Life After Fifty" at catherinehiller.substack.com. Her Wikipedia page is en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Hiller Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Madam Bella Cummins has reigned in the small city of Wells, Nevada, USA for 37 years - the longest-standing Madam in rural Nevada's legal brothels, and is a mentor to women seeking to evolve naturally in the courtesan industry, as well as an advocate for licensed establishments and workers in the industry. Bella's Hacienda Ranch sits in a town of just over 1,200 people that sees thousands of travelers every day at the intersection of Route 93 and Interstate 80 in Nevada. The hosts chat with Bella about how language and labels affect how we perceive professionalism and quality service, the importance of the destination as part of the draw, and how Nevada's legal brothel blueprints could help other small communities prosper from the destigmatization of sex work. Find the ranch at https://bellas.us/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yuval Mann is a teacher and founder of "Sensual Alchemy School of Integrated Sexuality". He leads programs for individuals and couples that help them become masterful lovers. The hosts chat with Yuval about erotic aliveness, contact dance, and the illusion of separation of the individual. You can find out more about Yuval through his website YuvalMan.com, and through all social links as Yuval Mann. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Susan Kaye is a sexologist and sexuality educator who began her career as a researcher and surrogate with Masters and Johnson in the 1960s. Following the suppression of sexual research triggered by the AIDS epidemic in the 80s, Dr. Kaye re-emerged and reinvented the role of the surrogate in a therapeutic relationship. The hosts chat with Dr. Kaye about what the prerequisites and training look like for surrogates today, and the book she wrote based on the stories and experiences of her clients, "Am I Normal If?". You can find more on Dr. Kaye at drsusankaye.com, or reach out directly to [email protected]. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The hosts chat with Bobbi Bidochka, a fervent advocate for the inseparable connection between Love, Sex, and Power in the business world. Bobbi's mission is to challenge societal taboos and pave the way for a sex-friendly world, one conversation at a time. In this captivating conversation, they delve into the art of flirtation in the workplace and the significance of sexual intelligence. Bobbi shares insights on how harnessing your sexual energy can boost your daily performance, both personally and professionally. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Vagipreneur", Pamala Madsen, is a courageous advocate for women’s health and believes in a whole-body healing approach. A former fertility advocate who was outed for her erotic blogging has since been running retreats, portals, circles, and coaching for women who are pursuing wellness through somatic and sexological bodywork. The hosts chat with Pamela about how a pussy is like a Chinese Puzzle, what it’s like to be in the Back to the Body immersions, and the ripe fruits of sensuality. Check out Pamela’s work at https://pamelamadsen.squarespace.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emma Barry is a teacher and novelist with a true lover's perspective on contemporary romance. The hosts chat with Emma Barry about how her interests inspire her stories, "too muchness", and why love is a risk. For rom-com readers everywhere, "Chick Magnet", a clever romance about a hot veterinarian and a chicken-loving influencer who can’t help but ruffle each other’s feathers, is available now. Find Emma's work here: authoremmabarry.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the hosts are joined by Court Vox! As a certified sex and intimacy coach, Court brings a wealth of knowledge and a passion for helping individuals explore their sexual desires and enhance their intimate connections. With his gentle yet exciting coaching style, Court dives deep into topics like sexual empowerment, communication, and sexual exploration. The gang dive into voice and somatics, partner surrogacy and the power of explicit acts of love and devotion. To find Court’s offerings, go to https://thebodyvox.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Amber Hull is a private practice pediatrician by day, and women’s pleasure advocate after dark. Based in Las Vegas, Dr. Hull is a board-certified pediatrician with extensive training in Women’s Health, Maternal-Fetal Medicine and Newborn Intensive Care. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jeremie and Bryde chat with Dr. Harper about the number one concern about sex expressed to her by her patients and a surprising behavioural health tool that can be used as a science-backed intervention, and they cover the Rosy app and what is unique about its approach to sexual health. Tune in to hear about HSDD and its significance to our mental and sexual well-being.For more information check out: https://meetrosy.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alison Rey is a multi-award-winning adult performer and model who has been working in the industry for a decade. The hosts chat with Alison about the many hats she wears including producer, director, and production manager in the adult film industry, current publicity stunts unfolding on the internet these days, and what it's like to date colleagues versus dating "civilians". To find out what else Alison is up to, check out her website, alisonreyfans.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gem Kocher is a non-binary queer feminist coach and pro domme who was formerly a full-spectrum doula. They are passionate about reproductive justice and sex work and the hosts got to chat with them about normalizing straight, monogamous couples booking an escort, and sex and intimacy after childbirth. There are many gems in the conversation. You can find them on Kaufmich.com at Goddxss_Gem or book coaching with them at rainbowdoulaberlin.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rosie Kay is a swinging lifestyle coach based in the UK, though she serves clients all over the world. The hosts chat with Rosie about her own path through debilitating jealousy, and the experience and expertise she offers her clients who want to dip their toes into the pleasurable waters of "the lifestyle". You can connect with Rose here: thiskindagirl.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anna and Gregor host the fetish and kink podcast, "Spank U, Next" and also work for fetish.com, the kink-positive BDSM community for fetish dating. The hosts chat with these Barcelonion-based kinksters about their take on creating a safe, online dating platform, what got them into the work they do, and things that challenge them in the world they work in. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Chad Braverman is the COO and CCO, as well as the self-acknowleged "Nepo Baby" of Doc Johnson, the world’s largest and most influential adult pleasure product company. The New York Times called them "the first family of sex toys" and Chad shares his dad's story of success in the industry and what it was like growing up and putting the puzzle pieces together to eventually learn the truth of the empire he chose to inherit. The hosts chat with Chad about the manufacturing facility he operates, the importance of community and relationships in the sex toy industry, and the artistry behind creating casts of celebrity genitals. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brenna McKenna is an exotic dancer and adult performer in Philadelphia. From her churchgoing, softball-playing childhood to putting herself through college by stripping, Brenna is a uniquely charming and authentic human being. The hosts chat with Brenna about her upbringing, boundaries, intuition, family, and more. Folks, you will absolutely fall for this generous, lovely woman. Enjoy! Connect with Brenna McKenna on Twitter and IG: @BrennvMcKennv and her backup IG: @xbrennamckennax Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Tara is one of the internet's favourite sex educators. On TikTok, she dishes sex and relationship advice to over 2 million followers and has a refreshing, fun approach to getting her research into the ears, minds, hearts, and other erogenous zones of folks who need it. The hosts chat with Dr. Tara about Thai cultural views on sexuality, the reciprocity rule, and how to be a Riz God. Bryde learns a new word! Check out more of Dr. Tara's offerings at luvbites.co Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Melissa is the brand manager for Kaufmich.com, Germany's biggest pay-for-sex community. After an introduction to the adult industry in Barcelona, exploring her sexuality and finding financial stability as a Sugar Baby, Melissa accomplished her vision of a marketing job by the sea. A move to Ibiza post-covid opened up a whole new world of self-care and peace for Melissa, where she also now teaches yoga to women who live with chronic pain and anxiety. The hosts chat with Melissa about an inclusive future for Kaufmich, and her experiences as a woman working within an adult business that passionately looks to support sex workers and change common misconceptions. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anna Kii is the founder of Figure of A, an accessory brand based out of London, UK. From her own experiences in the kink and fetish communities and her background in design, Anna produces beautiful Shibari bondage pieces for in or outside the dungeon. Also an ambassador for JOYclub, Anna is well-travelled in the world of erotic events. The hosts chat with Anna about the feeling of being tied and suspended, and how rope bondage can deepen intimacy and connection. figureofa.com joyclub.com/en/joyclub_entdecken/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Paula Dreidemie is a professional dominatrix via Kaufmich.com, a social network for sex workers. She is a 32-year-old Latina who has written a poetry book and is now in the process of writing a novel, whilst living and working in Paris as she currently owns a dungeon. The hosts chat with Paula about her chosen subject: LOVE. The hosts chat with Paula about love as a fetish and a sadomasochist act, and ponder the question, where does love lead for someone who doesn’t dream of the house the dogs the kids and the happily ever after? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A former figure skating coach and choreographer, Ashleigh Renard took the quest for perfection into marriage and motherhood, with some disastrous and hilarious results. Through her book "Swing" and her viral "How to Keep Monogamy Hot" video series, she's built a committed mass-following who tune in daily for her fresh, no-fuss advice. The hosts chat with Ashleigh about the experiences in the swinging lifestyle that lead her to write her book, as well as silent expectations, communication up-leveling, and the bro code (of which she is deeply immersed in with the raising of her teenage boys). ashleighrenard.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Chelsey Lee Fasano works with the brightest minds in science, sex and spirituality to find the most useful, accurate practices and theories from ancient traditions, in the hopes of making spiritual insight, intimacy, and deep pleasure more attainable and accessible. She now studies meditation, sexuality, and neuroscience at Columbia University, and offers counselling and instructions in the realms of spirituality, sexuality, and embodiment. The hosts chat with Chelsey about her podcast Orthogonal (available wherever you listen to podcasts), her extensive study of spirituality and sexuality, and the layers of selfhood that dissolve during orgasm. chelseyfasano.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kelli Moore is the co-founder and CEO of Soulfire Productions, co-host of "Ok, Babe" podcast, and a new mama! The hosts chat with Kelli about IVF, creating safe spaces for non-judgement, and the madonna-whore complex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gigi is an escort who specializes in foot, food, BDSM, and DDLG fetishes, whilst enjoying slave and uniform roleplays. Gigi is also a representative for ChiccaChicca (www.chiccachicca.com), a brand-new escorting platform which uses geo-location tracking technology to connect clients with escorts who are live and ready to meet within just a few miles of their current location. The hosts chat with Gigi about escorting versus OnlyFans, You can find Gigi on Instagram @gigi_p__ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kenneth has been called "The World's Greatest Sex Hacker" by GQ and Men's Health and his technical videos have millions of views. "Beyond Satisfied" is the manual that captures it all, healing sexual partners enhance their experiences together. The hosts chat with Kenneth about his sexual journey from adolescence to manhood, the experience of leading group squirting classes, and the science that keeps him going, Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author and a licensed psychotherapist with almost thirty years of experience working with individuals and couples. In private practice, she focuses on helping people of all ages, orientations and genders find love, healing and passion.Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is the Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a licensed sex and relationship therapist in practice for over thirty years. She teaches at several Universities, is a TEDx speaker and is the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex.The hosts chat with Tammy about new monogamy, maintenance sex compared to sex dates, and how sex is like a bridge.Listeners of this podcast who are interested in participating in a free counselling session over zoom for education purposes, please contact Dr. Tammy Nelosn through her website and let her know you heard about this opportunity on Turn Me On! drtammynelson.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The hosts catch up after a couple of weeks of radio silence. They talk about separate bedrooms and interior design. References include the New York Times article "I Love You But I Don't Want to Sleep With You" and Netflix Canada's, "How to Build a Sex Room", with host Melanie Rose. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Catherine M. Roach is a Professor of Gender and Cultural Studies at Alabama U. She has over twenty-five years of research and teaching experience on gender and sexuality studies in American popular culture. Her new book, "Good Sex: Transforming America through the New Gender and Sexual Revolution" (Indiana University Press, 2022), is an engaging, accessible guidebook featuring such topics as equity, intersectionality, and shared pleasure while offering a lively discussion that is inclusively feminist, queer-friendly, and sex-positive without being divisive.https://newcollege.ua.edu/people/catherine-roach/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gigi Engle is an award-winning author, certified sex educator, and psychotherapist in training. The hosts chat with Gigi about sex journalism, book burning, and how approaching someone for a threesome can be more chill whether online or in person. FInd all of Gigi's offerings at https://www.missgigiengle.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Juliana has a Ph.D in Counseling Education and has carved out a professional niche in relationships, sex and sexuality.She's worked as a Gender Studies and Counseling Education professor, a clinical director of a university’s counselling center and ran a halfway house for women in addiction recovery. Dr. Juliana worked with male college athletes and fraternities about consent and sexual agency and sexual violence prevention. Today, Dr. Juliana runs a thriving private practice where she counsels and coaches couples and individuals on topics such as infertility, divorce, facing incarceration, life after losing a spouse, body image, transgender identity, and advanced sex ed for adults, amongst other topics.https://dr-juliana.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily Gindlesparger is a ghostwriter and book coach at Scribe Media, and author of "Please Make Me Love Me: A Memoir". The hosts chat with Emily about the process of opening her long-term relationship and the mistakes and triumphs along the way. https://www.emilygindlesparger.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mara Hall is an actress, producer, and author of "LOVEBOMBING: How To Avoid Narcissists, Scammers, and Unlock The Treasures of Self Love". The hosts speak with Mara about her experience writing this book in the real-time as she journaled her way through a confusing and disastrous relationship.https://www.instagram.com/mara_hall/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Host episode! The hosts chat about personal values and using them to connect to meaningful goals, and share a significant announcement about their relationships. As the title of the episode implies, ch-ch-ch-changes are afoot. The hosts are getting a divorce but fret not. Weekly episodes will still be coming at you from these soon-to-be-divorced best friends. Jeremie serves up some aftercare with some interesting stats about low libido and mortality in Japan. Values lists can be found at brenebrown.com/resources/dare-to-lead-list-of-values, or at actmindfully.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Values_Checklist_-_Russ_Harris.pdf, or plenty of other spots you can google for inspiration. Other references include Joseph Goldstien's podcast "Insight Hour", epsiode 144 "The Law of Karma", and you can find that wherever you listen to poddcasts! Finally, the article Jeremie read can be found here: https://www.iflscience.com/low-sex-drive-has-been-linked-to-all-causes-of-death-among-men-in-japan-66701Thank you as always to our wonderful patrons. If you like what you hear, please head to patreon.com/turnmeon to support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Thomas Murray is an international trainer, education and couples' sex therapist. He's also the author of the new book, "Making Nice with Naughty, An Intimacy Guide for the Rule-Following, Organized, Perfectionist, Practical, and Color-Within-The-Line Types". The hosts chat we Dr. Tom about the pros and cons of being an over-controlled person, and how that manifests in our sexual relationships. https://drtommurray.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Amir Amashi is an internationally acclaimed OB/GYN and vaginal surgeon who has dedicated his 20+ year career to revolutionizing the standard medical approach to female anatomy, promoting sexual wellness, and providing orgasm equality for people with vaginas. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Lori Beth Bisby is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London, England. Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. Dr. Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®. You can find more here: DrLoriBethBisbey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers is a therapist and sex educator who is particularly interested in erasing shame from sexual intimacy. Her books, "Sex, God, and the Conservative Church", and "Shameless Parenting", are helping folks to heal their own shame and raise their children with a different lens on sexuality. The hosts chat with Dr. Tina about the history and context of sexual education in schools as well as her own unique sex education experience growing up in a Christian immigrant family in the US. You can find out more at tinaschermersellers.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.