Transforming 45

What This Episode Is About Menopause is often reduced to symptoms—but what if it’s actually a profound identity shift? In this episode, Lisa sits down with Lasara Firefox Allen to explore menopause through a wider lens—one that includes gender identity, power structures, and the deeply personal experience of transformation. This conversation opens up new ways of understanding menopause as not just a biological event, but a life transition that impacts who we are, how we see ourselves, and how we move through the world. What You’ll Learn Why menopause is more than a physical experience How identity shifts during perimenopause and menopause The connection between menopause and gender-affirming care How medical systems fail many people in menopause Why language and diagnosis models don’t fully capture this transition How menopause can be a pathway to liberation About Lasara Firefox Allen Lasara Firefox Allen is an author, menopause doula, educator, and speaker focused on expanding inclusive menopause care. Their work centers on supporting trans, non-binary, and gender-expansive individuals through menopause, while also educating care providers to create more affirming and accessible systems. Buy Lasara's Book Gender Queer Menopause: Navigating Menopause for Trans, Non-Gender Conforming, Gender Fluid and Other Queer-Bodied FolksAvailable on Amazon and major book retailers. Connect with Lasara: Website: https://www.lasaraallen.com Instagram: @lasaraallen Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboateFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Lisa sits down with entrepreneur and investor Danny Rudyak to unpack one of the biggest gaps in modern healthcare: the lack of proactive, personalized care—especially for women navigating hormonal health. Danny shares the deeply personal experiences that led to the creation of ReadyRx, including his father’s health journey and a life-threatening misdiagnosis involving his partner. Together, they explore: Why healthcare systems are reactive instead of proactive The lasting impact of misinformation around hormone therapy The critical role of personalized medicine The truth about GLP-1s and why they’re not a “quick fix” How lifestyle, support, and community are essential for long-term health Why health coaching may be the missing link in care This conversation is both validating and challenging—especially for women who have felt dismissed, misdiagnosed, or left to navigate their health alone. Connect with Danny + ReadyRx Website: https://readyrx.com Let’s Stay Connected Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this deeply embodied episode of Transforming 45, Lisa Boate sits down with modern mystic, adventurer, and embodiment guide Tina Erdman to explore what it truly means to come home to yourself in midlife. From nervous system healing and frequency, to identity, safety, and reclaiming your voice, this conversation weaves together science, spirituality, and lived experience. Tina shares how trekking mountains, living nomadically, and healing childhood patterns taught her that the body is the gateway to truth, joy, and authentic connection. If you’re a midlife woman feeling exhausted, disconnected, or ready to stop performing and start being, this episode will meet you exactly where you are. In This Episode, You’ll Discover: Why your nervous system—not your mindset—runs your life How identity is formed from survival, not truth What “raising your frequency” actually feels like in the body Why joy is not selfish, but essential for collective healing How to tell the difference between unsafe and uncomfortable The power of heart coherence and embodied safety How childhood patterns shape adult relationships Why midlife is the initiation into coming home to yourself How to rebuild trust in your body and intuition A compassionate way to have hard conversations without blame Powerful Takeaways for Midlife Women: You are not broken — your nervous system learned to survive Safety is a felt experience, not a thought Expansion can feel scary and aligned at the same time Healing happens through the body, not just insight Conscious relationships require curiosity, not performance Joy is a nervous system regulator and a form of service About Tina Erdman Tina Erdman is an embodiment guide, nervous system educator, and modern mystic who blends neuroscience, energy work, NLP, and lived experience to help people reclaim their life force, truth, and authentic voice. From summiting mountains to living as a nomad, Tina teaches that the body is the gateway to healing, purpose, and connection. Listen If You’re: In perimenopause or midlife and feeling emotionally raw Healing from people-pleasing or burnout Navigating identity shifts after divorce, parenting, or career change Curious about nervous system regulation and embodiment Ready to feel safe being fully yourself Let’s Stay Connected: 🌐 Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca📸 Instagram: @lboate📘 Facebook Page & Group 📩 Contact: [email protected] 🔗 Connect with Tina LeAnn 🌐 Website: https://thesovereignsoul.co/ 🌐 Future You Framework: https://www.thefutureyouframework.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtinaleann 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamtinaleann 👥 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sovereignselfgroup 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinaleannerdmann/ New episodes of Transforming 45 drop every Thursday. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Midlife symptoms can feel confusing, frustrating, and sometimes even frightening. Many women hear the same response when they seek help: “Your labs look normal.” But normal doesn’t always mean your body is functioning well. In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with functional health practitioner and author Claudine François to unpack what’s really happening in the body during perimenopause and menopause. Together they explore why symptoms are actually powerful clues, how stress impacts hormones, and why supporting the whole body—not just one hormone—is essential during midlife. If you’ve ever felt dismissed, confused, or like your body suddenly changed overnight, this conversation will help you understand what may be happening and where to start. Episode Highlights: • Why traditional hormone blood tests often miss the bigger picture • The difference between medical lab ranges and functional ranges • Why symptoms should be treated as clues rather than annoyances • The impact of chronic stress on hormones and resilience • Why mineral depletion is common in midlife • Simple ways women can begin supporting their bodies today Key Takeaways: Symptoms are communication. Your body uses symptoms to signal where support is needed. Hormones don’t operate in isolation. Gut health, minerals, stress, sleep, and metabolism all impact hormonal balance. Midlife is a biological transition. Just like puberty, the body is changing and needs new forms of support. You can’t out-hustle exhaustion. Trying to push harder often worsens the underlying imbalance. Connect with Claudine François: 🌐 Websitehttps://yourmidlifebodycode.com 📖 BookThe Midlife Body Code 📸 Instagramhttps://instagram.com/ingoodcleantaste 📸 Instagram (personal account)https://instagram.com/claudine.r.francois 📘 Facebookhttps://facebook.com/claudine.francois.52 📝 Bloghttps://claudine-francois.com/blog Connect with Lisa: 🌐 Websitehttps://liberatedmenopause.ca 📸 Instagramhttps://instagram.com/lboate 📘 Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ 👥 Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467📧 [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rewriting Your Inner Story After 40 with Suzanne Longstreet What if the patterns holding you back today were decisions your brain made before you were seven years old? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with master coach Suzanne Longstreet, creator of the Quantum U Activation Process. Suzanne works with high-achieving women who are ready to release subconscious blocks, reconnect with their true identity, and build lives and businesses that feel aligned and prosperous. In this conversation, Suzanne shares her own story of losing her corporate career in her early forties and how that turning point led her into the world of neuroscience, NLP, and transformational coaching. Together, Lisa and Suzanne explore the hidden patterns that shape our decisions, relationships, and confidence. They also dive into the powerful midlife moment when many women begin asking the question: “Who am I now?” This episode is about courage, rewiring old stories, and stepping back into the version of yourself that existed before the world told you who you should be. In This Episode We Talk About: Why so many women experience a major identity shift in their 40s and 50s How subconscious beliefs formed in childhood shape adult decisions The four core root beliefs that drive most self-sabotaging patterns Understanding how your brain filters the world The connection between neuroscience, energy, and personal transformation How to anchor confidence and step into a higher level of self-trust Why midlife can be the most powerful time to reinvent your life Connect with Suzanne Longstreet: Master Coach & Creator of the Quantum U Activation Process Website: https://www.successandclarity.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/successandclarity LinkedIn: (add link) https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzanneglongstreet/ https://www.facebook.com/successandclarity https://www.instagram.com/successandclarity https://www.youtube.com/@suzannelongstreet1174 https://www.successandclarity.com/ Connect with Lisa: Website:https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467Email:[email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Transforming 45, I’m joined by the brilliant Farah Jamani—pharmacist, functional medicine practitioner, and founder of ResetRx—who is helping women break free from burnout and step into real vitality. Farah shares her personal journey from high-performing burnout to deep healing, and what she discovered along the way will change how you think about menopause, health, and what your body is trying to tell you. This conversation goes beyond the “quick fix” culture and into what actually creates sustainable health in midlife. We talk about: Why burnout is a signal—not a failure The missing piece in most menopause conversations Why hormone therapy is part of the playbook—not the whole solution How your nervous system shapes your health The identity shift of midlife (and the grief we don’t talk about) What women actually want (hint: it’s not going back to their 20s) Simple, foundational shifts that support long-term health span This is a grounded, honest, and empowering conversation about what it really takes to feel good in your body again. Connect with Farah Jamani Website: https://resetrx.health Instagram: @the_holisticpharmacist Email: [email protected] Program: ResetRx (12-week transformation program) Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What Happens When You Finally Ask: What’s Next? With Nick Shelton This week, Lisa sits down with Nick Shelton—bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and creator of The Reset Button—to talk about what really happens when you reach the life you worked for… and still feel lost. After retiring at 49, Nick expected freedom. Instead, he found himself untethered—without structure, identity, or purpose. What followed? A powerful reinvention framework that helps you rebuild your life from the inside out. In this episode we explore: Why freedom without purpose can feel like collapse The identity crisis that comes after “doing everything right” How to reconnect with your worth through a “dignity scan” Why midlife requires freestyle—not choreography The role of grief, play, and imagination in reinvention How to actually become a new version of yourself (not just think about it) Nick's Reinvention Framework: 1. Audit Your Life What’s working? What needs to go? What wants to come back? 2. Honour + Release the Old You Write the letter Burn it (yes, really) 3. Design Your Next Version What do they eat, do, believe, try? 4. Make It Stick Create a “private uniform” to embody your new identity Build a new social circle around who you’re becoming Curate your environment to reflect your next chapter Lisa's Reflections: Midlife isn’t the breakdown—it’s the moment the choreography ends. And yes… it’s uncomfortable. But it’s also where: play returns identity deepens and truth finally gets a voice Connect with Nick: Website: resettheman.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholasleonshelton/ Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa speaks with Jesse Robertson, founder of Husbands for Menopause, about what happens when men finally begin to understand the realities of perimenopause and menopause. Jesse shares how one podcast flipped a switch for him and led him to advocate for compassion, education, and relationship-preserving conversations between partners. This discussion explores identity shifts, intimacy changes, emotional intelligence, and why menopause is not just a women’s issue — it’s a relationship and workplace issue too. In this episode we discuss: Why most men are never educated about menopause The impact of symptoms on intimacy, confidence, and identity The “Decade of Chaos” — career peak, caregiving, empty nesting, and hormone shifts Feelings vs. actions in communication How empathy can strengthen marriages What children learn when menopause is openly discussed Why systemic change must happen in medicine and the workplace Memorable takeaways: “You don’t need to be an expert — you need to care.” “Menopause doesn’t happen in a vacuum.” “Move from talking about actions to talking about feelings.” “Compassion changes marriages.” “It’s like learning a new operating system.” Connect with Jesse Robertson: Husbands for Menopause Instagram / TikTok / YouTube: @husbandsformenopause Free Husband’s Guide - https://stan.store/husbands4menopause Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if birth control didn’t come with daily hormones, side effects, or shame — and instead supported pleasure, autonomy, and confidence? This week Lisa welcomes Saundra Pelletier, CEO of Evofem Biosciences and the force behind Phexxi, the first hormone-free, on-demand prescription birth control. Together they explore the intersection of sexual health, empowerment, midlife identity, and why women deserve both protection and pleasure. This conversation moves beyond fear-based messaging into joy, agency, and informed choice — especially for women navigating perimenopause, postpartum years, or simply wanting an alternative to long-term synthetic hormones. What We Talk About Why traditional hormonal birth control may impact libido, mood, and identity The concept of a “Hormone Holiday” Perimenopause + still needing pregnancy protection Why women are conditioned to live with discomfort Teaching sons empathy and body literacy Pleasure as a revolutionary act Empowerment vs. fear-based sexual health messaging Reclaiming desire and confidence after 40 Key Takeaways You deserve options that align with your body and your life stage. Birth control does not need to equal daily medication. Sexual pleasure is not shameful — it is information, agency, and identity. Men want language and permission to participate in these conversations. Midlife is not the end of sexuality — it can be the beginning of intentional sexuality. Guest: Saundra Pelletier CEO of Evofem Biosciences, advocate for women’s reproductive health, and mission-driven leader bringing hormone-free contraceptive options into mainstream conversation. Connect with Saundra: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saundra-pelletier/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saundrapelletier/, https://www.instagram.com/phexxi/ Website: sayvaginastore.com Let’s Stay Connected – Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: @lboate Facebook: Liberated Menopause Facebook Group: Liberated Menopause Community Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful conversation, Lisa sits down with Shirley Weir, founder of Menopause Chicks, to unpack what women truly need during perimenopause and menopause — not just hormone information, but clarity, critical thinking, and permission to advocate for themselves. They explore why so many women ask “Is this normal?”, how workplace stress and caregiving intersect with hormonal change, and why menopause is not something to “fix” but a transition that invites us to meet ourselves honestly and compassionately. What You’ll Learn: Why menopause hormone therapy is important — and not the whole story How to identify root causes (sleep, stress, cortisol, iron, burnout, identity shifts) The danger of normalizing women’s suffering Why informed decision-making is empowerment How menopause exposes systemic issues in workplaces Why midlife is a time to reclaim voice, agency, and worth How to stop “powering through” and start advocating Why you are the center of your healthcare team Key Topics: Perimenopause • Menopause hormone therapy • Insomnia • Cortisol & stress cycles • Bone health • Workplace advocacy • Women’s health literacy • Identity in midlife • Canadian menopause education • Critical thinking in healthcare • Menopause policy & leadership • Gen X women’s health About Shirley Weir: Shirley Weir is the founder of Menopause Chicks, one of Canada’s most trusted, evidence-informed menopause education platforms. Through community, workplace education, and advocacy, Shirley empowers women to understand their bodies, ask better questions, and make confident, informed health decisions in midlife and beyond. Connect with Shirley & Menopause Chicks: Website: https://menopausechicks.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/menopausechicksFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/menopausechicksCommunity & Programs: https://menopausechicks.com Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboateFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiberatedMenopauseFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/liberatedmenopause Email: [email protected] Free Guide: How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty Download at: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Transforming 45 episodes drop every Thursday. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful midlife conversation, Lisa Boate sits down with healer and subconscious-mind expert Krishna Avalon to explore how women can reconnect with their inner compass, regulate their nervous systems, and stop abandoning themselves in midlife, parenting, and perimenopause. They unpack the difference between the conscious and subconscious mind, why 95% of our patterns live beneath awareness, and how trauma, boundaries, and sensory processing shape how we experience relationships, menopause, and the world. What You’ll Learn Why the subconscious mind drives 95–97% of your behavior and emotional responses How to stop people-pleasing and set boundaries without guilt Why perimenopause can feel like puberty in reverse—and why you deserve real support How highly sensitive, empathic women can stop carrying everyone else’s emotions Practical tools: breathwork, binaural beats, visualization, vision boards, and nervous-system regulation How parenting teens and young adults triggers identity shifts and abandonment wounds Why healing doesn’t have to be hard, and how safety in your body changes everything Key Themes: Subconscious reprogramming • Nervous system regulation • Midlife identity • Perimenopause brain fog • Boundaries • Empathy without self-abandonment • Parenting transitions • Somatic healing • Psych-K • Acupuncture • Internal Family Systems • Trauma-informed self-trust About Krishna Avalon: Krishna Avalon is a licensed acupuncturist, Psych-K facilitator, Reiki master, IFS practitioner, breathwork guide, and spiritual teacher who helps people transform subconscious patterns and reconnect with their inner safety and truth. Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: @lboateFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/Email: [email protected] Free Guide: How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guiltyhttps://pages.lisaboate.com/enrollment Connect with Krishna: 🌐 Website: https://www.krishnaavalon.com 📅 Book Sessions: https://krishnaavalon.janeapp.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/krishnaavalon/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/krishnaavalon/ 📧 Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa Boate sits down with Hussein Halleck, a Syrian-born Canadian whose life journey spans cultures, identities, and profound inner work. Together they explore authenticity, modern parenting, mental health in the age of acceleration, and what it truly means to define “enough” on your own terms. This is a conversation about navigating uncertainty, mastering the inner game of life, and learning to live with compassion in a world that never slows down. Takeaways: Authenticity and identity across cultures Parenting in an era of rapid social and technological change Mental health, nervous system overload, and modern life Redefining success and choosing “enough” Life mastery as an internal practice, not an external achievement Embracing uncertainty and the “dark arts” of self-discovery “Enough” is a personal choice, not a societal benchmark. Parenting is a co-evolution, not a one-way teaching role. Today’s children face emotional and systemic pressures unlike any previous generation. Technology accelerates life — and challenges our nervous systems and relationships. Understanding personal, community, and systemic domains helps us orient in complexity. True mastery is about inner alignment, not outer control. Compassion for self is essential in uncertain seasons of life. Embracing mystery can be a powerful path to growth and resilience. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Hussein Halleck 02:06 Hussein's Early Life and Background 06:20 Parenting and the Concept of Being a 'Clueless Father' 09:37 The Acceleration of Change in Modern Life 20:40 Navigating Personal, Community, and Systemic Domains 27:04 Understanding 'Enough' and Internal Choices 41:51 The Dark Arts of Life's Mastery Why This Episode Matters: If you’re navigating midlife, leadership, parenting teens or young adults, or simply questioning how to live well in a fast-moving world, this conversation offers grounded wisdom and permission to define success on your own term Let’s Stay Connected: Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Connect with Hussein: Website: husseinhallak.com Substack: husseinhallak.substack.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/husseinhallak BlueSky: darkal777.bsky.social Instagram: instagram.com/hhdarkal/ Facebook: facebook.com/TheDarkArtMentor Key TopicsTakeaways Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Transforming 45, holistic wellness and sexual awakening facilitator Carla Wainwright shares how women over 40 can heal trauma, deepen intimacy, and reclaim pleasure by reconnecting with the wisdom of the body. We explore perimenopause, nervous system regulation, conscious communication, and why listening, really listening, is a revolutionary act in relationships. Carla blends science and sacred practice to help women move from survival mode into embodied presence, emotional safety, and fulfilling sexuality in midlife. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating menopause, relationship shifts, or a desire for deeper connection and self-trust. Key Topics We Cover: • Trauma and the body in perimenopause • Why midlife can reawaken unhealed experiences • How to communicate without defensiveness • The role of pleasure and sexuality after 40 • Creating safety for vulnerability in relationships • Listening as a healing practice • The body’s innate intelligence • Walking and breath as nervous-system regulation tools • Expanding into a more conscious, compassionate love Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Holistic Wellness and Sexual Awakening 01:15 Carla's Journey: From Trauma to Transformation 08:33 Reconnecting with Nature and Childlike Wonder 13:42 Navigating Trauma and Healing in Perimenopause 19:41 The Impact of Physical Changes on Relationships 27:42 Creating Safe Spaces for Communication in Relationships 38:24 Resources for Vibrancy and Connection Stay Connected with Lisa Boate & Transforming 45 Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Connect with Carla: 🌿 Free Gift: https://vibrancyguide.com/ 🌐 Website: https://carlawainwright.com/📸 Instagram: @carlawainwright Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Menopause is not just a women’s health issue — it’s a life issue. In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa is joined by Mr. Menopause, Tafiq Akhir, to explore why men belong in menopause conversations and how education, empathy, and communication can transform the menopause experience. Together, they discuss the realities of perimenopause and menopause, the impact of misinformation, the role men can play as supportive allies, and why women deserve evidence-based care and real support during this transition. A must-listen for women navigating menopause, partners who want to show up better, and leaders building menopause-aware workplaces. 🎧 New episodes every Thursday. Key Topics We Cover: Why menopause impacts everyone, not just women How lack of education fuels confusion, stigma, and silence The role men can play as informed, supportive allies Why empathy and communication change everything The overwhelm many women feel — and how support helps Navigating supplements, wellness claims, and misinformation Why menopause symptoms can begin earlier than expected The importance of self-advocacy and self-care Evidence-based decision-making in menopause health A powerful reminder: women deserve to feel well Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Menopause Awareness 01:23 Personal Journey into Menopause Education 03:53 The Importance of Inclusive Conversations 04:55 Men's Role in Menopause Discussions 08:37 Navigating Communication Challenges 11:03 Bridging the Gap Between Genders 16:15 Creating Supportive Environments 18:49 Understanding Menopause Beyond the Physical 22:00 Empowering Women Through Education 23:56 The Importance of Nuanced Conversations in Women's Health 28:06 Understanding Individual Experiences in Menopause 33:00 The Need for Education and Awareness 37:48 Empathy and Support in the Workplace 40:30 Embracing Self-Care and Personal Growth Let’s Stay Connected: Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Connect with Tafiq Akhir (Mr. Menopause): 🌐 Website: https://www.tafiq.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrmenopauseofficial/ 👍 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MrMenopauseOfficial/ 💼 LinkedIn (Personal): https://www.linkedin.com/in/tafiqakhir/ 🏢 LinkedIn (Company – Mr. Menopause): https://www.linkedin.com/company/mr-menopause/ 🎙 Podcast: The Mr. Menopause Show — available on Apple Podcasts & all major platforms ✉️ Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa Boate sits down with leadership development expert Kaneshi Hart for a grounded, honest conversation about what leadership looks like in this season of life — when identity is shifting, energy is changing, and the old ways of pushing through no longer work. This episode is especially for women in midlife who are: stepping into new roles questioning how they’ve led in the past navigating menopause, burnout, or reinvention craving a more human, values-led way of leading Kaneshi shares why so many new leaders struggle — and how midlife can actually become a powerful reset point for leadership rooted in clarity, confidence, and self-trust. What You’ll Learn in this Episode Why 60% of new managers fail — and what midlife women can do differently How self-leadership becomes essential during times of transition Why traditional leadership models often fail women in midlife The role of values clarity when everything feels like it’s shifting How to rebuild confidence without forcing or performing Why vulnerability and accountability are leadership strengths How to lead with more humanity, not more hustle Why relationships and community matter more than ever How to give yourself grace while redefining who you are becoming Leadership in midlife isn’t about proving yourself. It’s about leading from truth, experience, and self-awareness — and allowing that to evolve as you do. This conversation is a reminder that: You’re not behind You’re not failing You’re in a season of redefinition And that’s where the most meaningful leadership begins. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Leadership Development 02:06 Kaneshi's Journey: From Corporate to Coaching 06:25 The Challenges of New Managers 09:13 Navigating Midlife Changes in Leadership 12:04 Self-Leadership: The Key to Empowerment 16:07 Building Confidence Through Vulnerability 20:15 Shifting from Shame to Pride in Leadership 21:32 Living Your Values: A Leadership Challenge 23:49 Relationships Over Responsibilities in Leadership 25:49 Evolving Values: The Importance of Self-Reflection 27:15 The 48-Hour Decision-Making Process 29:08 Finding Clarity in Values and Leadership 31:24 Challenging the Status Quo: Growth and Change 34:18 Finding Joy in Leadership and Community Listen Now: New episodes of Transforming 45 drop every Thursday on all podcast platforms and YouTube. If this episode resonates: Share it with a woman navigating change Leave a review to help others find the show Join the conversation — your story matters here Let’s Stay Connected: Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Connect with Kaneshi Hart: 🌐 Website / Coach UP Podcast info: https://linktr.ee/theconnectioncollaborator 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconnectioncollaborator/ 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaneshihart/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hartkaneshi ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOFUlnS8tvJeZtdd1Tp782w Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices