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Tongue First

Tongue First

Siren and Wendy

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Show overview

Tongue First launched in 2025 and has put out 22 episodes, alongside 1 trailer or bonus episode in the time since. That works out to roughly 25 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a fortnightly cadence.

Episodes typically run an hour to ninety minutes — most land between 1h 3m and 1h 25m — and the run-time is fairly consistent across the catalogue. It is catalogued as a EN-language Society & Culture show.

The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed earlier today, with 18 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2026, with 18 episodes published. Published by Siren and Wendy.

Episodes
22
Running
2025–2026 · 1y
Median length
1h 18m
Cadence
Fortnightly

From the publisher

Two sapphic voices. One mic. A whole lot of questions people have queerly been asking.Welcome to Tongue First — a chaotic, heartfelt, and unfiltered sapphic + queer podcast hosted by Siren, the duo's resident trans woman, poet, and emotional-support-bottom, and her friend Wendy, our cis lesbian baddie with more confidence than a masc lesbian with a strap in her backpack. Together, they dive into the messy, magical, and hilarious sides of queer and sapphic life, love, and identity. Because curiosity is sexy — and consent is hotter.Each episode, Siren and Wendy explore taboo topics and queer curiosities with honesty, humor, and just the right amount of flirtation. From gay awakenings and red flags to butt stuff, friendship after breakups, and dating before realizing you were queer — nothing is too spicy or too real.Recorded live on TikTok, every episode invites the community to jump in, ask questions, and share the chaos in real time. Whether you’re here to laugh, cry, reflect, or feel a little more seen, Tongue First is your safe, queer-friendly corner of the internet.💋 Segments The Palate Cleanser — a cold, cheeky question to kick things off. The Courses — deep dives into three bold topics each week. The Last Lick — listener questions, confessions, and queer hot takes.New episodes drop every other Thursday. Follow us on TikTok @Sirenegade_440 and @WendyReeves81 to join the live recordings and submit your questions.Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly.

Latest Episodes

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Dungeons and Dragons, Assless Chaps, and Accidental Pride with Mitch Grzegorek

Aug 24, 20261h 28m

EMDR, Ballet, and Rear Naked Choke-Holds with Lisa Smith

Aug 19, 20261h 19m

Circling the Block, Consensual Non-Consent, and New Relationship Energy with Jo Del Carmen

Aug 11, 20261h 28m

Prime Rib, Choosing Peace, and Setting Boundaries with Geli Jimenez

Aug 3, 20261h 28m

AOL Searches, Shadow Work, and Emotional Support Chopsticks with Daisy Barton

Jul 28, 20261h 37m

Boxed Wine, Debriefs, and the Listener Mailbag

Jul 20, 20261h 17m

Gay Pancakes, Husbands, and Thirty Nine Raccoons with Adam & Topher

Jul 13, 20261h 27m

Murder Musicals, Iced Vanilla Berry, and Anxious Attachment with Miss Magali

Jul 6, 20261h 24m

Put Your Whole Mouth On It - Rebroadcast

Jun 29, 20261h 1m

Gay God, Childhood Trauma, and Warm Jello with Matthew Lush

Jun 22, 20261h 17m

Polycules, Religious Deconstruction, and California Fries with Sylvie Savage

Jun 15, 20261h 20m

Sultry Stories, Sweat, and Sapphic Snacks with Jo Del Carmen

Jun 8, 20261h 23m

Phone Scams, Love Languages, and Spicy Group Chats

Jun 1, 20261h 9m

Welcome to Tongue First: After Hours - Patreon Launch

May 28, 20269 min

Rainbow Kids, Survival, and Emotional Support Tweezers

May 25, 20261h 4m

Parasocial Panic, Polyamory, and Power Rangers

May 18, 20261h 3m

Powdered Sugar, Gay Bars, and Jared from the Internet

May 11, 20261h 20m

Eye Contact, Making Out, and Things That Escalate Quickly

May 4, 20261h 16m

Ep 3Gender Awakenings, Closet Cracks & Queer Epiphanies

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Siren and Wendy are back, diving Tongue First into the tender, chaotic, and life-shifting moments that shape who we are — from those first little closet cracks to the full-body ohhh moments of queer epiphany. This episode gets beautifully real about gender, identity, desire, and the messy magic of introducing a queer partner to your kids.In The First Course, Siren opens up about her gender awakening — the thousand tiny moments that whispered, then demanded, the truth. Wendy shares her own journey of expression, comfort, and androgynous attraction. Together, they explore the difference between wanting to be her… and wanting to kiss her.In The Second Course, it’s Queer-piphany time as the hosts listen to your community-submitted stories — raw, emotional, funny, and deeply relatable. From crushes to cooter tingles, every epiphany offers another angle of what it means to come home to yourself.In The Third Course, they get honest about queer love and parenthood: — introducing your partner to your kids for the first time, — navigating blended families, — honoring boundaries and communication, — and modeling authenticity so children grow up unafraid.Plus: The palate cleanser gets unhinged (ear-licking??), the chat gets feral, and Siren and Wendy roast their younger selves’ fashion choices without mercy. And finally, they wrap it all up with a juicy Last Lick featuring their L Word crushes… some of which get very passionate.Recorded live on TikTok, where the chaos is delicious and the community is loud.Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly.

Nov 25, 20251h 6m

Ep 2Red Flags, Butt Stuff, and Break-ups

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🎙️ Tongue First — Episode 2: “Red Flags, Butt Stuff, and Break-ups”Tagline: The queer curiosity podcast with bite.Episode Description: Siren and Wendy are back, serving up another round of sapphic chaos, laughter, and way-too-honest conversation. In this episode, they dive Tongue First into three pillars of queer discovery & disaster: red flags, butt stuff, and friendship after break-ups.From deal breakers and a tattoo of an ex's face to emotional maturity and healing through humor, this one’s equal parts sex ed and group therapy—with plenty of giggles, real talk, and a few forehead kisses along the way. Recorded live on TikTok, the community joins in to ask the spicy questions and share the chaos in real time.New episodes drop every other week — until next time, stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly. 💋Credits: Tongue First is written and hosted by Aubrey Jane Jones and Wendy Reeves. Produced and edited by Aubrey Jane Jones. Recorded live with our TikTok communities — where chaos and curiosity collide. Special thanks to our TikTok moderators for keeping things running smoothly, and to Brooke Dale for the intro and outro voiceovers.

Nov 11, 202559 min
Aubrey Jones and Wendy Reeves 2025