Are We Failing Our Kids? A Substance Abuse Counselor Speaks Out

Raising kids in today’s world is harder than ever: social media, school pressures, bullying, isolation, and rising mental health challenges. In this episode of Time to Head North, hosted by Vincent “Rocco” Vargas, we sit down with David Morantes, a social worker and substance abuse counselor, to talk about how parents can better support their kids before things reach a crisis point.

David shares his journey from wanting to be a police officer to becoming a master’s-level social worker, addiction counselor, and youth wrestling coach. Together, he and Vince dive into how community, honest conversations, and healthy structure at home can protect kids from feeling alienated, acting out, or slipping into dangerous behaviors.

You’ll hear real talk on:

• How sports, clubs, and community activities help kids feel like they belong

• Why some kids feel isolated and how that can lead to risky choices or violence

• How to spot subtle changes in your child’s mood, behavior, or social patterns

• Why “practice begets mastery” applies to emotions, resilience, and self-worth

• How dads and moms parent differently—and why kids actually need both

• The impact of social media, cyberbullying, and the loss of face-to-face accountability

• Practical ways to talk to your kids about drugs, sex, friends, and pressure at school

• How simple things like hugs, touch, and one-on-one time build deep trust

If you’re a parent, coach, teacher, or anyone who works with kids, this conversation is a powerful reminder:
Make your kids feel heard. Make your kids feel loved. That is one of the strongest foundations for mental health, resilience, and school safety.

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