This Naked Mind Podcast

Can one brave choice give you the strength to transform your relationships? Brent turned to alcohol in high school to cope with his parents’ divorce. This choice hurt his grades, led to car accidents, affected his health, and nearly ended his marriage. After undergoing major surgery and realizing the impact of his habits on his family, he decided to make a tough but necessary change. He worked hard to rebuild his marriage and has now been happily married for 42 years. In this episode, Brent shares with Annie how making intentional choices allowed him to strengthen his family relationships and inspire others. Today, he feels healthier and enjoys being fully present for moments like cheering on his grandson at baseball games. In this episode, Annie and Brent will discuss: - Drinking to cope with parents’ divorce as a teenager - Rebuilding his marriage after alcohol’s impact - How society’s view on alcohol shapes our choices - Facing health issues and undergoing surgery - Rethinking his habits after discovering This Naked Mind - New research on alcohol's effects - Why education about alcohol leads to better choices - Enjoying holidays and special occasions in new ways - Recognizing positive changes among friends and family - Inspiring change without being forceful - Being fully present for his grandson - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 396: Reader Question – How Can I Tell My Family the Truth About Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-396-reader-question-how-can-i-tell-my-family-the-truth-about-alcohol/ EP 682: Reader’s Question – What Are The Health Benefits of Drinking Less? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-682-readers-question-what-are-the-health-benefits-of-drinking-less/ EP 733: You Are Not the Problem, Alcohol Is – Naked Life Story https://thisnakedmind.com/you-are-not-the-problem-alcohol-is-naked-life-story-ep-733/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What thoughts are you holding on to, and are they still serving you? Souren has been on The PATH but is afraid of falling behind and not making it. This brings feelings of loneliness and not belonging. Meanwhile, Deanna has had a 40-year relationship with alcohol. She used it to deal with stress, anxiety, and trauma but realized it wasn’t helping her feel better anymore. Now, after nine months of not drinking, she sometimes hears inner voices pulling her back to old habits. In this episode, Coach Hayley guides Souren as he reframes his thoughts, recognizes his strengths, and focuses on his journey. At the same time, Coach Ruby works with Deanna to explore her inner thoughts with curiosity, understand their meaning, and use them to grow. In Souren’s session: - Facing his fear of falling behind and feeling left out - Unpacking feelings of not belonging - Overcoming the urge to give up - Reframing "I’m not going to make it" into positive beliefs - Questioning the beliefs that hold him back - Shifting from self-doubt to self-reliance - Letting go of comparison and embracing your own pace - Using the ACT technique to create lasting change In Deanna’s session: - Her thoughts on rehab and This Naked Mind’s approach - Using alcohol to handle anxiety, stress, and trauma - Recognizing how alcohol hid both joy and pain - Becoming more present in daily life - Learning to manage her emotions mindfully - Understanding the inner voices pulling her to drink - Responding with curiosity instead of reacting - Rebuilding a stronger relationship with her daughter - Taking control of habits through yoga and meditation - Viewing setbacks as a chance to grow Hayley Scherders is a certified TNM Coach with training from the Canadian Addiction and Mental Health Association. Drawing from personal experiences, Hayley understands how tough change can be and provides a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free space where her clients can feel supported. She believes that with the right mindset, anyone can change their life at any time. Learn more about Coach Hayley: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/hayley-scherders/ Ruby Williams is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach dedicated to helping people rethink their relationship with alcohol. With 19 years of experience in the wine industry, Ruby understands how alcohol can become a regular part of life, especially in social or stressful situations. After finding freedom in 2019, she was empowered to improve her health, lose weight, and achieve lifelong goals. Ruby uses thoughtful questioning to help clients shift their mindset and build a more balanced, fulfilling, and healthier relationship with alcohol. Learn more about Coach Ruby: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/ruby-williams/ Related Episodes: EP 646: Reader’s Question – Why Is It So Hard to Become Alcohol-Free? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-646-readers-question-why-is-it-so-hard-to-become-alcohol-free/ EP 670: Reader’s Question – How Do You Stay Motivated to Be Alcohol-Free? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-670-readers-question-how-do-you-stay-motivated-to-be-alcohol-free/ EP 741: Overcoming the Fear of Drinking Again: Erin’s Naked Life https://thisnakedmind.com/overcoming-the-fear-of-drinking-again-erins-naked-life-e741/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Can you create space for the simple moments that bring you the most joy? Stephanie first tried alcohol at age 14 but she didn’t react well to it. However, seeing people enjoy drinking at her dad’s bar later shaped her idea of fun. As a young wife, she often attended parties to have a good time. What started as social drinking grew into drinking more often at home, especially during challenging times, like losing her job and navigating her daughter’s health struggles. A family vacation became a turning point when she realized she had lost joy in life’s simple moments. Inspired to change, Stephanie now embraces a mindful lifestyle, finding happiness in fitness, nature, and meaningful connections. In this episode, she joins Annie to share her journey to a confident, intentional, and joyful life. In this episode, Annie and Stephanie will discuss: - Experimenting with alcohol as a teenager - How her dad’s bar shaped her idea of fun - Navigating different drinking habits in marriage - Parenting challenges after adopting her daughter - Losing her job during the pandemic - Using alcohol to unwind during tough times - The struggle to find joy in little things - Finding support through apps and online communities - Exploring her relationship with alcohol through curiosity - Staying motivated and smashing fitness goals - Building deeper connections with family and friends - Rediscovering confidence at a high school reunion - Finding joy in simple things like morning walks - Breaking free from the stigma of not drinking - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 326: Reader Question – Why Am I So Confident Now That I Don’t Drink https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-326-reader-question-why-am-i-so-confident-now-that-i-dont-drink/ EP 362: Reader Question – Will I Ever Have Fun Without Drinking Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-362-reader-question-will-i-ever-have-fun-without-drinking-alcohol/ EP 744: Is Alcohol Blocking Your Peace? Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/is-alcohol-blocking-your-peace-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e744/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if the fear of change is just a sign of how much it matters? Caterine has gone 27 days without alcohol, which is the longest she’s ever gone in the past 20 years. With all the extra free time, she’s unsure how to fill her days. She feels she should be doing more but the fear of failure has held her back. Belinda, who has also had a long relationship with alcohol, believes her meals are incomplete without a drink, which makes her avoid eating out. Coach Ruby encourages Caterine to practice being kind to herself, reminding her that it's okay to try new things at her own pace. She also helps Belinda build the confidence to say no to alcohol when it’s offered and start thinking about alcohol in a healthier way. In Caterine’s session: - The struggle to find new ways to spend her free time - How alcohol shaped her routine for over 20 years - Adjusting to her first 27 days without alcohol - Positive changes in her mood since going alcohol-free - Letting go of the 'should' mindset and going at your own pace - Using the power of 'yet' to keep moving forward - Leaning into comforting and soothing activities - The four C’s of making lasting changes - Building confidence through action and small wins - Overcoming the fear of failure and success - Enjoying the journey, not just the outcome In Belinda’s session: - Her journey to building new habits around alcohol - The link between better-tasting food and wine - How eating out triggers her drinking habits - Discovering how food tastes without alcohol - Shifting the belief of “deserving” a drink - Making practical plans when dining out - Dealing with the fear of missing out when not drinking - Handling setbacks with compassion - Finding comfort in saying no to a drink Ruby Williams is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach dedicated to helping people rethink their relationship with alcohol. With 19 years of experience in the wine industry, Ruby understands how alcohol can become a regular part of life, especially in social or stressful situations. After finding freedom in 2019, she was empowered to improve her health, lose weight, and achieve lifelong goals. Ruby uses thoughtful questioning to help clients shift their mindset and build a more balanced, fulfilling, and healthier relationship with alcohol. Learn more about Coach Ruby: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/ruby-williams/ Related Episodes: EP 220: Reader Question – Doesn’t Wine Add to the ‘Foodie’ Experience? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-220-reader-question-doesnt-wine-add-to-the-foodie-experience-2/ EP 741: Overcoming the Fear of Drinking Again: Erin’s Naked Life https://thisnakedmind.com/overcoming-the-fear-of-drinking-again-erins-naked-life-e741/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Does your current identity reflect who you truly are? Marc worked in sales and often used alcohol to connect with colleagues and clients. As he got closer to his forties, he noticed that it took him longer to recover from hangovers. At that point, he realized he needed to make healthier choices. Since his last conversation with Annie on the podcast, Marc has left his sales career to focus on building a life outside work. He is now prioritizing his family, giving back to his community, and embracing a healthier lifestyle. In this "Where Are They Now" episode, Marc joins Hayley to share the tools and mindset shifts that helped him rediscover his energy and motivation. In this episode, Hayley and Marc will discuss: - Feeling sick after his first drink but trying alcohol again - How alcohol became part of his work culture - Drinking more to cope with hangovers - Choosing to change his habits without labeling himself - Managing the awkwardness of not drinking at events - How personal choices can inspire change in others - Replacing sugar cravings with healthier snacks - Exploring non-alcoholic options for social moments - Creating a supportive, nonjudgmental environment for change - Using exercise to boost energy and healthy - The importance of having a strong 'why' - Shifting focus to health, family, and giving back - Building a new identity beyond work and drinking - Rediscovering energy in everyday life - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 154: Reader Question – Why Am I Having Sugar Cravings During a Break from Alcohol?https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-154-why-am-i-having-sugar-cravings-during-a-break-from-alcohol/ EP 352: Reader Question – Am I Going to Be the Butt of Jokes? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-352-reader-question-am-i-going-to-be-the-butt-of-jokes/ EP 574: Reader’s Questions – Is It Better to Drink in Moderation or Not at All?https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-574-readers-questions-is-it-better-to-drink-in-moderation-or-not-at-all/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Is your fear of being judged holding you back? Molly grew up relying on people’s opinions to feel good about herself. As a physician, she struggles to talk about alcohol use without fear of being misunderstood and judged. She worries that people will think something is wrong with her for choosing to live alcohol-free. Since her self-worth has relied heavily on external validation and appearing perfect, being judged by others would hurt her self-esteem. In this episode, Coach Rina helps Molly see that her fear of judgment is really about how she judges herself. By learning to be kinder to herself and letting go of the pressure to be perfect, Molly can start living a more authentic, balanced life. In this episode, Coach Rina and Molly will discuss: - The fear of being judged for choosing to stop drinking - Letting go of the need for external validation - Dealing with the pressure to be perfect - Feeling misunderstood about her choices regarding alcohol - Different views on what healthy drinking looks like - Protecting her professional life while sharing her story - Worrying about what others will think if she drinks again - How her parents’ struggles with alcohol shaped her journey - Her choice to parent differently from the way she grew up - Taking ownership of your journey without blaming others - Learning to show compassion to yourself - And other topics… Rina Bowring is a certified TNM Senior Coach who built a successful career in the outdoor advertising industry. After discovering This Naked Mind and transforming her relationship with alcohol, she decided to pursue her passion as an alcohol freedom coach. Inspired by the changes she experienced, Rina now shares the TNM method with the Christian community. She wants to help people break free from harmful habits, let go of guilt and shame, and find joy again. Learn more about Coach Rina: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/rina-bowring/ Related Episodes: EP 540: Reader Question – How do you not force self-compassion? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-540-reader-question-how-do-you-not-force-self-compassion/ EP 604: Reader Question – Embracing Your Authentic Self: Overcoming Self-Judgment and Insecurities https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-604-reader-question-embracing-your-authentic-self-overcoming-self-judgment-and-insecurities/ EP 734: Shed the Fear of Judgment – Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/shed-the-fear-of-judgment-alcohol-freedom-coaching-ep-734/

What if change is always possible, no matter how many times you try? At 25 years old, Jana was married and living in Hawaii, where she began exploring alcohol after losing access to marijuana. Three years later, her husband asked for a separation, which brought up deep feelings of rejection, especially from not having her dad in her life. To cope with the pain, Jana began drinking more. Later, she took a job at a winery and started drinking daily until she realized she didn’t feel as in control of her drinking as she once did. She tried different ways to manage her relationship with alcohol but found herself returning to old patterns. In this episode, Jana shares with Annie how continuing her journey, even when progress felt slow, helped her rediscover joy in everyday life, build stronger relationships, and feel more connected to who she truly is. In this episode, Annie and Jana will discuss: - Exploring alcohol after losing access to marijuana - Marriage, separation, and dealing with feelings of rejection - Using alcohol to numb emotional pain - Building a daily drinking habit while working at a winery - When Jana realized she didn’t have control over her drinking - Acknowledging the effects of alcohol on decision-making - Trying different approaches to mindful drinking - Starting a new career path in healthcare - Why hangovers can be tougher after taking a break - Rediscovering joy in everyday moments - Rethinking drinking as part of adulthood and socializing - Navigating friendships and different drinking choices - Being patient with yourself during hard moments - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 390: Coaching Questions with Scott Pinyard https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-390-coaching-questions-with-scott-pinyard/ EP 410: Reader Question – Do I Need to Cut Ties with My Drinking Friends? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-410-reader-question-do-i-need-to-cut-ties-with-my-drinking-friends EP 570: Reader’s Questions – Why do I keep going back to drinking? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-570-readers-questions-why-do-i-keep-going-back-to-drinking/ EP 740: Drinking Less in Wine Country – Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/drinking-less-in-wine-country-alcohol-freedom-coaching-ep-740/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What steps can you take today to get closer to the life you imagine? Meri started drinking regularly in her twenties after a tough breakup. Since then, she has struggled to maintain a healthy relationship with alcohol. Now, in her late forties, she hopes to build a future where alcohol takes up less space in her thoughts and daily life. Lola is a busy mom who often feels tired and stressed at the end of the day. She uses alcohol to relax and “reward” herself for all her hard work. In this episode, Coach Mike helps both women explore their relationship with alcohol, understand the motivations behind their habits, and take steps toward a happier and more balanced life. In Meri’s session: - Using alcohol to deal with pain from a breakup - Imagining a healthier, happier version of herself - Focusing on small wins to feel more in control - Why change can feel uncomfortable at first - Being kind to herself while trying new habits - The value of investing time, money, and effort to grow - Viewing setbacks as a normal part of the journey - Embracing a future full of hope and possibilities In Lola’s session: - Why alcohol feels rewarding after a busy day - How alcohol influences energy levels over time - Shifting from just surviving to finding joy in daily life - Turning boredom into a chance to try new things - Making daily chores feel better with positive framing - Viewing parenting as a choice, not a chore - Discovering simple and fun ways to relax at home - Rethinking what it means to reward herself - Building a balanced and fulfilling life Mike Shennan is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach. He was a long-time social drinker, and his drinking habits increased in his forties due to various life events. However, he has been alcohol-free since February 23, 2018. By sharing his personal experiences and using techniques from This Naked Mind, Mike supports clients who feel their drinking habits have grown as they age, helping them regain control and create a healthier relationship with alcohol. Learn more about Coach Mike: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/mike-shennan/ Related Episodes: EP 116: Reader Question – Does Alcohol Really Relax Us? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-116-reader-question-alcohol-really-relax-us/ EP 358: Reader Question – Why Do I Reward Being Alcohol-Free with a Drink? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-358-reader-question-why-do-i-reward-being-alcohol-free-with-a-drink/ EP 690: Reader’s Question – How Long Does It Take To Feel Better After Quitting Drinking? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-690-readers-question-how-long-does-it-take-to-feel-better-after-quitting-drinking/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

How can you embrace who you are without needing to fit in? Madison didn’t realize how shy she really was until she got to college. She turned to alcohol as a way of finding confidence and making friends. She seemed to be having a great time, but after a while, she was no longer drinking just to fit in. Alcohol became a way to cope with life’s struggles, including trauma, depression, and a bad relationship. Things took a turn when she got a DUI, which made her feel ashamed and led her to research ways to make lasting changes. In this episode, Madison shares with Annie how she rediscovered herself, found true confidence, and built a life she loves through songwriting, teaching kids, and embracing simple, positive daily habits. In this episode, Annie and Madison will discuss: - Using alcohol to manage social anxiety - How trauma influenced her relationship with drinking - Facing guilt and shame after a DUI - Exploring different methods of mindful drinking - Leaving her real estate job to teach kids music - Madison’s life as a musician and songwriter - Being a musician in bars without alcohol - Learning to handle emotions instead of avoiding them - Unpacking popular beliefs about drinking - Understanding why our brains crave alcohol - How alcohol affects sleep and emotional well-being - Simple habits that made a big difference for Madison - Letting go of the pressure to be someone else - And other topics… Connect with Madison: Madison’s Band: http://www.modernmoxieband.com/ Related Episodes: EP 53: Science & Social Conditioning with Annie Grace & Michael Patrick https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-53-science-social-conditioning-annie-grace-michael-patrick/ EP 253: Sleep, with Michael Gradisar https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-253-sleep-with-michael-gradisar/ EP 582: Reader Question – How Do I Become Socially Confident Without Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-582-readers-question-how-do-i-become-socially-confident-without-alcohol EP 738: Fun Without the Hangover: Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/fun-without-the-hangover-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e738/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Would you feel more confident if you could trust yourself every step of the way? Jan struggles with how she sees herself with and without alcohol. While it helps her feel fun, it also leaves her dealing with shame and low energy after drinking. She’s afraid of making big decisions without it and facing the difficult emotions tied to her past. Meanwhile, Susan panics when there’s no alcohol at home. Having it nearby helps her feel calm, and she worries about how her body and mind might react without it. In this episode, Coach Zoe helps Jan create a more authentic social life, trust herself to grow from within, let go of people-pleasing, and find calm. Coach Pam encourages Susan to face her feelings with curiosity and patience, helping her manage anxiety and take control of her choices. In Jan’s session: - Exploring who she is with and without alcohol - How alcohol shapes our social skills - Jan’s fear of seeming boring without alcohol - Building a more authentic social life - The impact of her friend’s comment about her drinking habit - How childhood experiences influence our self-worth - Using alcohol to cope with work stress and abandonment - The fear of starting a new life in a rural area without alcohol - Finding peace by changing from the inside - Trying new ways to relax, like walking and meditation - Embracing your fears instead of avoiding them - Letting go of the need to please everyone - Imagining a life where she feels calm and free In Susan’s session: - Why she panics when there’s no alcohol at home - How her body reacts to the idea of running out of alcohol - Understanding why her brain links alcohol to comfort - Exploring ways to handle the anxiety of not drinking - Small but noticeable changes since joining The PATH - Learning to respond to alcohol with more control - Recognizing anxiety and learning to embrace calm - Making thoughtful choices without rush or pressure Zoe Ewart is a Certified Senior TNM Coach with four children and more animals than you can count. For 15 years, she has taught Pilates, speaks French and Spanish, and has been living alcohol-free since March 2020. Zoe’s coaching helps people take control of their relationship with alcohol in a fun, enjoyable, and safe environment. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/ Pam McRae is a Certified TNM Coach, Master Life Coach, and Gray Area Drinking Coach. Since rethinking her relationship with alcohol in 2017, she considers herself a non-drinker. Pam empowers others through her Freedom Connection group coaching, where people support each other in their alcohol journeys. She also uses her experience and knowledge to guide you through tough times such as grief. Learn more about Coach Pam: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/pam-mcrae/ Related Episodes: EP 480: Reader Question – What is the correlation between alcohol and anxiety? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-480-reader-question-what-is-the-correlation-between-alcohol-and-anxiety EP 522: Reader Question – How do I combat the automatic giving in to cravings? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-522-reader-question-how-do-i-combat-the-automatic-giving-in-to-cravings/ EP 669: Naked Life Story – Megan W. https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-669-naked-life-story-megan-w/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if the first step to change is just being honest with yourself? Amy grew up in a family where alcohol wasn’t a big part of life. She didn’t drink in high school and was teased for it. During college and law school, she began drinking to fit in. Later, wine became part of her career as a lawyer. Over time, she used alcohol to deal with stress, lack of sleep, and feelings of guilt as a mom. Hearing stories about other people’s drinking made Amy feel like her habit wasn’t a big deal because she wasn’t letting it affect her work. But after struggling with guilt, shame, and even suicidal thoughts, she knew something had to change. In this episode, Amy talks with Annie about her steps toward making lasting changes, what didn’t work, and how she found her passion for coaching others in the legal profession to rethink their relationship with alcohol. In this episode, Annie and Amy will discuss: - Growing up without alcohol - Getting teased for not drinking as a teenager - Drinking to fit in during college and law school - How wine became part of her work and social life - Using alcohol to deal with stress and lack of sleep - Struggling with shame, mom guilt, and suicidal thoughts - How the Alcohol Experiment changed Amy’s mindset - Why hearing stories about alcohol made her drink more - Amy’s attempts at drinking in moderation - The difference between quick relief and real growth - Creating new habits like walking and gratitude - Understanding the intentions behind drinking habits - Finding purpose through coaching - Helping others in the legal industry with their alcohol journey - Learning how alcohol affects the brain and body - Building stronger friendships beyond drinking - And other topics… Connect with Amy: Amy’s Website: https://www.reframingwellbeing.com/ Related Episodes: EP 88: Reader Question – Social Drinking – How Do I Muster the Willpower Not to Drink? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-88-reader-question-social-drinking-muster-willpower-not-drink/ EP 158: Reader Question – How Do You Deal With Stress Without Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-158-how-do-you-deal-with-stress-without-alcohol/ EP 718: Reader’s Question – Does Not Drinking Hurt Job Prospects? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-718-readers-question-does-not-drinking-hurt-job-prospects/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

How do you face your fears and make changes when your partner isn’t ready yet? Charlotta grew up with a parent who struggled with alcohol and drugs, which shaped her views on drinking. As an adult, wine became a way for her and her husband to bond, but over time, she began to feel trapped and unhappy with her life. Meanwhile, Donni has been married for 26 years, and drinking played a big role in her connection with her husband. When she decided to stop drinking, her husband continued, which affected their relationship. Now, Donni feels sad, lonely, and worried about his drinking habits. In this episode, Coach Sam encourages Charlotta to focus on living in the moment, trusting herself, and taking small steps toward the life she dreams of. Coach Mike helps Donni focus on her growth, practice compassion, be patient, and gently share her concerns with her husband. In Charlotta’s session: - Feeling trapped in her current life - Her mom’s struggle with alcohol and drug use - Sharing a bond with her husband over wine - Imagining what life would look like without alcohol - Charlotta’s fears about changing her life - Discovering her true self and identity - Learning to trust herself and listen to her inner voice - Finding peace by focusing on the present - Making changes from within In Donni’s session: - The role of alcohol in her relationship with her husband - Dealing with feelings of fear, sadness, and loneliness - How retirement added stress to their relationship - Why it’s hard when only one partner stops drinking - Balancing dependence on your partner and personal growth - Focusing on yourself instead of trying to “fix” someone else - How to have tough conversations without creating conflict - Using alcohol to cope with tough emotions and life changes - Inspiring others to change by taking care of yourself first - Sharing ideas gently and giving them time to grow - The importance of patience in making big changes Sam Goldfinch is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach, and the founder of Rebel Spirituality and the Rebel Spirituality podcast. He also co-hosts the Present & Sober podcast with Ellie Crowe. Having lived nine years alcohol-free, Sam will show you how to live your best life and uncover the truth of YOU before and beyond your conditioning. Learn more about Coach Sam: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/sam-goldfinch/ Mike Shennan is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach. He was a long-time social drinker, and his drinking habits increased in his forties due to various life events. However, he has been alcohol-free since February 23, 2018. By sharing his personal experiences and using techniques from This Naked Mind, Mike supports clients who feel their drinking habits have grown as they age, helping them regain control and create a healthier relationship with alcohol. Learn more about Coach Mike: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/mike-shennan/ Related Episodes: EP 222: Reader Question – What if my marriage is dependent on alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-222-reader-question-what-if-my-marriage-is-dependent-on-alcohol/ EP 615: Naked Life Story – Amy Edwards https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-615-naked-life-story-amy-edwards/ EP 636: Reader’s Question – The Art of Balancing Your Needs in a Relationship https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-636-readers-question-the-art-of-balancing-your-needs-in-a-relationship/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What happens when you start questioning a habit you’ve known your whole life? Michaela grew up in a family where alcohol was always a part of life. Her parents owned a winery, and drinking was normal at every meal. Seeing her dad become happier after a drink, she began to link alcohol with fun. At age 14, she started drinking and continued until her thirties. Over time, Michaela began to black out often. One day, after drinking with friends, she blacked out and got lost on her way home. This moment made her question her drinking habits and led her to discover This Naked Mind. In this episode, Michaela shares with Annie how curiosity and learning about alcohol’s effects helped her make lasting changes, and how questioning family and cultural norms around drinking led to a life filled with more clarity, joy, and self-awareness. In this episode, Annie and Michaela will discuss: - Growing up in a wine-loving family - Using alcohol to feel more comfortable in relationships - Embracing the drinking culture at work - Building a personal and social identity around wine - Marriage, motherhood, and drinking patterns - The turning point after years of blackouts - How This Naked Mind helped Michaela see alcohol differently - Learning to say no to wine in a wine-loving family - The American drinking culture that surprised her - Breaking the link between fun and alcohol - How curiosity makes your first experiences without alcohol easier - Finding clarity, joy, and better sleep without alcohol - The key principles that can help change any habit - Embracing change with curiosity and courage - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 574: Reader’s Questions – Is it better to drink in moderation or not at all? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-574-readers-questions-is-it-better-to-drink-in-moderation-or-not-at-all/ EP 618: Reader’s Question – Annie Grace’s Tips for Dealing with Family Members Who Continue to Drink https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-618-readers-question-annie-graces-tips-for-dealing-with-family-members-who-continue-to-drink/ EP 738: Fun Without the Hangover: Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/fun-without-the-hangover-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e738/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

How can we rebuild our sense of self when we let go of the things that define us? Bek is learning how to live without alcohol, which has been part of her life since she was 14. She feels sad and unsure of who she is without it. Jeanette is also figuring out who she is after growing up with the feeling that she has to fight for love and self-worth. She turned to alcohol as a way to numb those feelings. In this episode, Coach Zoe helps both women explore their feelings, change the way they see themselves, and reconnect with parts of themselves that have been hidden for a long time. In Bek’s session: - Why not drinking feels so hard - Understanding the sadness and fear of letting go - Exploring beliefs about alcohol and joy - Addressing Bek’s physical and emotional reactions - Setting your “alive” goal and what it means - Using the “ladder thinking” mindset to turn habits around - Defining Bek’s emotional goals - How alcohol affects the body and brain - Practicing mindful drinking - How alcohol numbs our feelings - Preparing Bek for her first alcohol-free holiday In Jeanette’s session: - Why figuring out ‘who you are’ feels so hard - How childhood shapes our self-image - How conditional love kills our inner child - Breaking free from harmful patterns and beliefs - Why we feel the need to escape - Using self-compassion to heal old wounds - Confronting the voice of your inner critic - Learning to love yourself no matter what Zoe Ewart is a Certified Senior TNM Coach with four children and more animals than you can count. For 15 years, she has taught Pilates, speaks French and Spanish, and has been living alcohol-free since March 2020. Zoe’s coaching helps people take control of their relationship with alcohol in a fun, enjoyable, and safe environment. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/ Related Episodes: EP 654: Reader’s Question – Overcoming Subconscious Beliefs Around Self-Worth https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-654-readers-question-overcoming-subconscious-beliefs-around-self-worth/ EP 706: Reader’s Question – Healing Emotional Pain Without Alcohol https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-706-readers-question-healing-emotional-pain-without-alcohol/ EP 736: ​​Self-Love is the Key: Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/self-love-is-the-key-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e736/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Is your way of coping still working for you? Cari grew up in a religious home where alcohol wasn’t a part of her life. In her twenties, she started drinking from time to time because her job was very stressful, and she felt anxious. She wanted to do well at work. Over time, the more she worked, the more she drank. She soon noticed that as she did better at work, she drank more. After losing her mom to cancer, Cari relied on alcohol even more to cope with the loss. It wasn’t until the anniversary of her mom’s death that she realized she needed to make a change. A turning point came when her child questioned her drinking. This led Cari to explore her relationship with alcohol through a year and a half of “sober curiosity.” During this time, she discovered her true passion for life coaching. In this episode, Cari shares her inspiring journey of self-discovery and healing with Annie, and how embracing curiosity helped her create a life filled with peace, joy, and purpose. In this episode, Annie and Cari will discuss: - Growing up in a religious home with no alcohol - Using alcohol to cope with job stress and anxiety - Turning to alcohol for comfort after losing her mom - The impact of alcohol on Cari’s parenting - Key turning points in her alcohol journey - Exploring a “sober-curious” journey - Choosing self-love and healing without alcohol - Resources that helped transform her relationship with alcohol - Finding a new purpose in coaching others - How society normalizes drinking to celebrate turning 21 - The pressure to achieve and its link to drinking - Navigating anxiety with self-acceptance and compassion - How self-judgment fuels alcohol use and slows healing - Understanding how trauma affects the body - Connecting with Cari - Discovering self-worth, peace, and purpose - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 262: Reader Question – How Do I Deal With Death and Grief Without Alcohol https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-262-reader-question-grief-without-alcohol/ EP 378: Reader Question – Can I Just Take a Break From Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-378-reader-question-can-i-just-take-a-break-from-alcohol/ EP 684: Reader’s Question – Why Does Drinking Alcohol Make Me Anxious? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-684-readers-question-why-does-drinking-alcohol-make-me-anxious/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if joy was already here, waiting to be embraced? Joanne has been working on building a healthier relationship with alcohol for the past eight months. Through this journey, she’s noticed that her joy feels different. It’s sometimes unpredictable, but also more hopeful. She finds it hard to balance work, daily tasks, and future worries with the joy she feels in the moment. In this episode, Coach Rina shares how the brain begins to find balance after changing drinking habits and suggests simple actions to help Joanne focus on the present moment. She also encourages Joanne to let go of big expectations and enjoy the little things in life. In this episode, Coach Rina and Joanne will discuss: - Dealing with unpredictable joy - Balancing work with joyful activities - Feeling content in daily life - The power of staying in the present - How journaling and the 30-day ACT challenge helped Joanne - Building gratitude through everyday moments - Focusing on small actions that bring joy - Redirecting your thoughts by asking better questions - Finding joy by letting go of expectations - And other topics… Rina Bowring is a certified TNM Senior Coach who built a successful career in the outdoor advertising industry. After discovering This Naked Mind and transforming her relationship with alcohol, she decided to pursue her passion as an alcohol freedom coach. Inspired by the changes she experienced, Rina now shares the TNM method with the Christian community. She wants to help people break free from harmful habits, let go of guilt and shame, and find joy again. Learn more about Coach Rina: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/rina-bowring/ Related Episodes: EP 445: Finding Joy with Catherine Gray https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-445-finding-joy-with-catherine-gray EP 606: Reader Question – Dealing with Discomfort in the Alcohol-free Journey https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-606-reader-question-dealing-with-discomfort-in-the-alcohol-free-journey/ EP 698: Reader’s Question – What’s the Link Between Alcohol and Depression? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-698-readers-question-whats-the-link-between-alcohol-and-depression/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

How much of your happiness is tied up in habits that no longer serve you? Brandi’s parents divorced three times, which made her teenage years hard. Back then, she turned to marijuana to cope. As she got older, she also struggled in her relationships, with both of her marriages ending because of problems with alcohol and emotional distance. Her turning point came when her third husband admitted to cheating while drunk. After going through a period of depression, Brandi met her doctor who recommended that she read This Naked Mind. But it wasn’t until she experienced a personal loss and a health scare that she read the book, which kickstarted her journey to freedom. In this episode, Brandi talks to Annie about how she created a healthier balance with alcohol, rebuilt her marriage, and discovered real joy by facing her feelings head-on. In this episode, Annie and Brandi will discuss: - How her parents’ divorce affected her childhood - Using marijuana to cope with teen life - Dropping out of college and doing well at work - Balancing work life with social drinking habits - How alcohol affected Brandi’s first marriage - Her second marriage and experience as a stay-at-home mom - Lessons from her second divorce - Growing through the struggles in her third marriage - Getting cut off from her family for seven years - Finding This Naked Mind - Dealing with the tragic loss of her first husband - Trying out the 30-day Alcohol Experiment - Brandi’s challenges and successes with staying on The PATH - The health scare that changed her relationship with alcohol - Embracing progress over perfection - Learning to socialize without alcohol - What Brandi wishes she had known about alcohol - Body changes when you stop drinking - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 222: Reader Question – What if my marriage is dependent on alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-222-reader-question-what-if-my-marriage-is-dependent-on-alcohol/ EP 262: Reader Question – How do I deal with death and grief without alcohol https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-262-reader-question-grief-without-alcohol/ EP 356: Reader Question – Do you lose weight when you stop drinking? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-356-reader-question-do-you-lose-weight-when-you-stop-drinking/ EP 430: Reader Question – How can I break free from Mommy Wine Culture? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-430-reader-question-how-can-i-break-free-from-mommy-wine-culture Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Why is it so hard to ask for help, even when we need it the most? After being diagnosed with tonsil cancer, eating became very painful for Debra because of the radiation treatment. So, she turned to alcohol to help her get the calories she needed, which seemed like the easiest solution at the time. She couldn’t work because she was sick, and her bills kept piling up, leaving her in debt. As someone who always tried to handle things on her own, Debra ignored her health until she became so ill and weak that she could hardly move. In the end, she had no choice but to ask for help. In this episode, Coach Onowa helps Debra understand why it’s okay to feel the way she does about asking for help and how powerful it can be to reach out. Debra learns that even though asking for help might feel uncomfortable, it doesn’t mean she is failing or doing something wrong. In this episode, Coach Onowa and Debra will discuss: - Her path to building a healthy relationship with alcohol - Why asking for help was hard for her - What happens when we don’t ask for help - Understanding and changing old beliefs - Emotions that hold us back from seeking support - ‘Changing the channel’ on your thoughts - Seeing life through a 'both-and' lens - Debra’s tool for managing anxiety - Creating the space to ask for support - The power of reaching out for help - How to stop fighting the voices in your head - Three feelings Debra wants to lead her life with - Learning through struggles - Staying true to yourself when seeking help - Moving forward with peace - And other topics… Onowa Bjella is a certified TNM Senior Coach with over 20 years of experience in teaching and coaching. She believes that self-compassion is key to creating a balanced relationship with alcohol. As a mom, Onowa is dedicated to healthy eating and living, and she helps other health-conscious moms take control of their relationship with alcohol and become their best selves. Learn more about Coach Onowa: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/onowa-bjella/ Related Episodes: EP 378: Reader Question – Can I just take a break from alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-378-reader-question-can-i-just-take-a-break-from-alcohol/ EP 398: Reader Question – Where do I start when I struggle with food and alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-398-reader-question-where-do-i-start-when-i-struggle-with-food-and-alcohol/ EP 550: Reader Question – Is there hope for long-time drinkers who keep relapsing? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-550-reader-question-is-there-hope-for-long-time-drinkers-who-keep-relapsing/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Could celebrations feel complete even without alcohol? Lauren's journey with alcohol began in eighth grade at a concert, where she had her first beer because drinking seemed cool. What started as casual drinking soon turned into binge drinking and blackouts. When she realized that alcohol was hurting her marriage and making it hard to be a good parent, she searched online for help and found This Naked Mind. In this episode, Lauren shares her story of moving from a life surrounded by alcohol to building a healthier relationship with alcohol and helping others do the same. In this episode, Annie and Lauren will discuss: - Her first encounter with alcohol - Going from weekend drinking to constant blackouts - Moving to a “drinking town” and working as a bartender - When the bad began to outweigh the good - How drinking made parenting harder for Lauren - The psychology of “the pause” - The beauty behind the “data point” - The surprising truth about alcohol and why we don’t know it - Enjoying celebrations without a drink - The principle of “firsts” in living alcohol-free - The power of a gentle approach to change - Embracing your past as part of your journey - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 470: Reader Question – When will I start feeling better without alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-470-reader-question-when-will-i-start-feeling-better-without-alcohol EP 568: Reader’s Questions – How To Deal with Pressure to Drink from a Loved One? https://thisnakedmind.com/podcast/ep-568-readers-questions-how-to-deal-with-pressure-to-drink-from-a-loved-one/ EP 652: Reader’s Question – How To Plan an Alcohol-Free Vacation https://thisnakedmind.com/?post_type=podcast&p=34941 Connect with Lauren: Lauren’s Website: https://coachlaurenohanlon.com Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Are you trying to change for yourself or are you doing it for your loved ones? For years, Wendy turned to marijuana to escape the hurt in her heart. When she realized it was affecting her life and her loved ones, she decided it was time to make a change. But more than anything, she wanted to do it because of her daughter who struggles with her relationship with alcohol. In this coaching session, Coach Sam helps Wendy dig deeper to solidify her true "whys." She realizes that in order to make lasting change, she must first do it for herself to become the responsible, confident person she aspires to be. And as she transforms, she knows her loved ones will benefit too. In this episode, Coach Sam and Wendy will discuss: - Why she’s on the journey to freedom - Her struggle to be present under the influence - What life will look like without marijuana - Running away from her own self - The anchor helping her let go of past insecurities - Being a better role model for her daughter - Changing for yourself, not for others - Building self-confidence from within - Solidifying her “whys” for making a change - And other topics… Sam Goldfinch is a Naked Mind Senior Coach, the founder of Rebel Spirituality and the Rebel Spirituality podcast, as well as the co-host of the Present & Sober podcast with Ellie Crowe. Having lived nine years alcohol-free, Sam will show you how to live your best life and uncover the truth of YOU before and beyond your conditioning. Learn more about Coach Sam: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/sam-goldfinch/ Related Episodes: EP 639: Naked Life Story – Annie Grace’s Husband (Part 2): https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-639-naked-life-story-annie-graces-husband-part-2/ EP 604: Reader Question – Embracing Your Authentic Self: Overcoming Self-Judgment and Insecurities: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-604-reader-question-embracing-your-authentic-self-overcoming-self-judgment-and-insecurities/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What small actions can help you make big changes in your life? Heather still struggled with anxiety, even as she learned to live without using alcohol to cope. It felt overwhelming at first, but she started to face her feelings head-on. She found healthier ways to work through her emotions, like therapy, journaling, and talking things out with friends. Over time, she built new habits that brought her a level of calm and joy she didn’t think was possible. In this ‘Where Are They Now’ episode, Heather and Hayley chat about her journey since her last conversation with Annie, from learning to manage the urge to drink at celebrations to building new habits that bring true peace and happiness. In this episode, Hayley and Heather will discuss: - Heather’s life-changing moment of clarity - The 100-reason list that opened her eyes - Why “liquid courage” isn’t what it seems - The true courage of having sober conversations - The power of celebrating wins - Finding and sticking to your “why” - ​​Letting go of shame and choosing grace - Building new, positive habits with intention - Discovering new passions and rekindling old ones - Creating healthy rituals that bring joy - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 266: Reader Question – Why do we desire alcohol for celebration? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-266-reader-question-why-do-we-desire-alcohol-for-celebration/ EP 406: Reader Question – How do you deal with shame and embarrassment around drinking? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-406-reader-question-how-do-you-deal-with-feeling-ashamed-or-embarrassed-about-drinking/ EP 572: Reader’s Questions – How do you stop cravings for alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-572-readers-questions-how-do-you-stop-cravings-for-alcohol/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if you could manage tough emotions without a drink? When Swarna’s daughter turned four, memories of her own trauma at the same age came flooding back. Although remembering was painful, it helped her realize she had been drinking because she felt unsafe in her own body. Meanwhile, Sarah often woke up with regret after drinking, saying "never again," but found herself reaching for a drink again in the evening. Over time, she felt she had lost touch with who she was. In this episode, Coach Ellie helps both women find clarity and learn to accept themselves as they are. While Swarna learns to be patient with herself because progress isn’t always a straight line, Sarah learns to embrace herself as she is instead of focusing on the idea of ‘fixing’ herself. In Swarna’s session: - How alcohol numbs everything, not just the bad - Why she felt unsafe in her own body - Using alcohol to cope with emotions - Alcohol’s positive feedback loop - Building a tough shell to hide her sensitive side - Why you need to listen to your body - How resisting feelings can get in the way of freedom In Sarah’s session: - The cycle of "never again" mornings - Recovering her true self - Drinking to numb emotions - The need to process emotions, not run from them - Forgiving the past - Accepting things as they are - Learning new ways to cope on The PATH Ellie Crowe is a Senior Certified TNM Coach and co-host of the Present & Sober podcast. As a once-strung-out, working mom of three who understands the trap of using wine to escape, Ellie’s mission is to help her clients discover joy, peace, and contentment by living wholeheartedly in the present moment. Learn more about Coach Ellie: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/ellie-crowe/ Related Episodes: EP 626: Reader’s Question – Unlocking Inner Peace: Practical Tools for Self-Forgiveness: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-626-readers-question-unlocking-inner-peace-practical-tools-for-self-forgiveness/ EP 689: Interview with Dr. Melissa Kalt: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-689-interview-with-dr-melissa-kalt/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Have you ever felt torn between the life you show and the life you hide? Megan, a devoted nurse and mom, lived a double life that tore her apart. She was at the top of her game during the week, but on her days off, she would binge drink. After a three-day binge during the holidays, Megan hit rock bottom. Ashamed that she couldn't be present for her kids, she knew something had to change. She found the courage to ask for help, made a promise to her nine-year-old daughter, and hasn’t looked back since. In this episode, Megan opens up about her journey from feeling trapped in a double life to living a more fulfilled life where she’s fully present for herself and her children. In this episode, Annie and Megan will discuss: - The stigma preventing health professionals from seeking help - Megan’s early struggle with body image issues - Drinking at 13 to feel ‘grown-up’ - The toll of living a double life - Numbing the joy as well as the pain - The myth of “normal” drinking - Mommy wine culture - Not being present as a mom - How drinking affected her physically and mentally - Letting go of perfectionism - Ticking off her bucket list - Rejecting the idea that she is powerless - How mindfulness brought her back to the present - The dopamine detox trend - Rediscovering joy in the small things again - Learning social skills without alcohol - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 385: Naked Life Story – Onowa: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-385-naked-life-story-onowa/ EP 430: Reader Question – How can I break free from Mommy Wine Culture? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-430-reader-question-how-can-i-break-free-from-mommy-wine-culture Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Are you struggling to trust yourself after years of drinking? When Jenna noticed that she wasn’t just drinking in the evenings anymore, but also in the mornings and afternoons, she became scared and overwhelmed. Having struggled with alcohol for over 40 years, she also felt guilty and unworthy, believing she was powerless to make the changes she really wanted. But it wasn’t her fault. Alcohol had robbed her of her self-confidence. In this episode, Coach Zoe helps Jenna make sense of her complicated feelings around alcohol, helping her understand that her value rests within herself and not in her actions or her past. For the first time in years, Jenna starts to feel worthy and begins to trust herself again. In this episode, Coach Zoe and Jenna will discuss: - Jenna’s 42-year struggle with alcohol - Going ‘duck mode’ to beat cravings - Drinking to cope with pain - Trusting herself again - Finding self-compassion - How This Naked Mind tools helped her make changes - Why it can be hard to feel worthy - Letting go of self-blame - The fact that alcohol is the problem - How drinking affected her confidence - Writing a letter to her old self to heal - Finally feeling worthy - And other topics… Zoe Ewart is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach who brings her experience and understanding to help with the tricky parts of life’s big changes. Her coaching gives you an enjoyable, light-hearted, and safe environment to effortlessly take back control of alcohol so you can feel better physically, mentally, and spiritually. Zoe taught Pilates for 15 years. She has four adult children and more animals than the Ark ever had. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/ Related Episodes: EP 654: Reader’s Question – Overcoming Subconscious Beliefs Around Self-Worth: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-654-readers-question-overcoming-subconscious-beliefs-around-self-worth/ EP 730: Alcohol Freedom Coaching – Progress Over Perfection, Learn to Embrace Self-Compassion: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-730-coaches-podcast-coach-ellie-with-lauri-m-tina-m/ EP 586: Reader Question – How do I avoid cravings when not drinking?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-586-reader-question-how-do-I-avoid-cravings-when-not-drinking Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Do you find yourself giving alcohol various 'jobs' depending on what you're facing? While Joy counseled young people about the dangers of alcohol, she secretly beat herself up for drinking more than she wanted to. Feeling torn, she quit her job as a counselor. She had always given alcohol different jobs in her life. First, it helped her fit in with her peers. Then, she used it to manage her grief and, later, to relax after a long day. Throughout her journey, drinking felt like the thing to do because everyone around her was doing it. But when she discovered This Naked Mind, she started picking apart her deeply held beliefs about alcohol. In this episode, Joy shares her incredible journey to living a more wholesome life for herself and eventually finding her way back to the career she loves as a coach. In this episode, Annie and Joy will discuss: - Drinking to mask insecurities and fit in - Blacking out after drinking at 14 - The influence of alcohol in her family history - The health consequences of heavy drinking - Partying heavily even as an academic student - How alcohol shaped her friendships and relationships - Drinking to mask pain and manage grief - Traveling to find herself - Counseling others while battling her own drinking - Giving kids the tools to understand alcohol - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 262: Reader Question – How do I deal with death and grief without alcohol: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-262-reader-question-grief-without-alcohol/ EP 439: Naked Life Story – Nat X: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-439-naked-life-story-nat-x EP 547: Naked Life Story – Claire: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-547-naked-life-story-claire/ Resources Mentioned: Joy’s Website: https://www.afreelifecoaching.com Joy’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/afreelife_/ Joy’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AFreeLifeCoach/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Could alcohol be stopping you from finding real peace? No matter how many alcohol-free programs Annette tries, she can’t seem to get past the sixth day without reaching for her favorite Twisted Tea. Meanwhile, Jane drinks to get some relief from the worry and stress of managing her challenging relationship with her aging parents. While Annette's roadblock is her belief that alcohol helps her relax, Jane feels stuck because of her struggle to set boundaries with her parents, whom she loves. In this episode, Coach Ruby guides Annette to explore her beliefs about alcohol, questioning whether it actually helps her relax. Likewise, she helps Jane unpack the complicated emotions she feels toward her parents, exploring healthier ways to cope and find peace. In Annette’s session: - Drinking to calm her anxiety - Her accidental first drink at her grandma’s - Does she truly like the taste of alcohol? - Acknowledging that alcohol numbs her taste buds - The main reason she drinks - The heavy cost of a short period of relaxation - Strategies to make her commitment easier - Opening up to her husband about her alcohol journey In Jane’s session: - Numbing herself with alcohol in her quest for peace - Progress toward her desired peace and freedom - Growing up around alcohol and anger - The burden of being the “rock” for her family - Seeing herself in her father - Learning not to beat herself up - How her unresolved anger fuels her drinking - Healthier ways to process her emotions - Balancing love for her parents with personal boundaries - Standing up for herself Ruby Williams is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach on a mission to help those rethinking their relationship with alcohol. Ruby helps her clients create profound mind shifts during sessions that can shrink the role of alcohol in their lives. Despite drinking every day to manage stress, she found freedom and was empowered to lose weight, get healthy, and achieve some lifetime goals. Ruby can help you reach a more fulfilling, healthy, and balanced life, free from relying on alcohol. Learn more about Coach Ruby: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/ruby-williams/ Related Episodes: EP 02: Reader Question – Why do I have so much anxiety the day after drinking? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-02-reader-question-much-anxiety-day-drinking/ EP 274: Reader Question – My biggest obstacle is that I love the taste of wine, I understand I acquired the taste but I still love it!? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-274-reader-question-my-biggest-obstacle-is-that-i-love-the-taste-of-wine-i-understand-i-acquired-the-taste-but-i-still-love-it/ EP 564: Coaching Questions – How to start healing from numbing? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-564-coaching-questions-how-to-start-healing-from-numbing/ EP 622: Reader’s Question – Effective Strategies for Setting Boundaries with Family: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-620-readers-question-effective-strategies-for-setting-boundaries-with-family/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Have you ever thought, "I can handle this on my own," only to realize you couldn't? Shelley struggled with her husband’s harmful behavior and drinking habit, which left her at the end of her rope. On top of that, her own unhealthy relationship with alcohol weighed her down. Thinking she could solve the problem on her own, she refused to accept help. But one day, she finally joined Al-Anon and got the support she had always needed. Later, she found Annie Grace's 30-Day Alcohol Experiment, which helped her look deeply into her relationship with alcohol. In this episode, Shelley shares her journey with Annie, from simply surviving to choosing herself and truly living. In this episode, Annie and Shelley will discuss: - Shelley’s journey with alcohol - What a "qualifier" is - Realizing she couldn’t fix her spouse’s drinking problem - Drinking to reward herself - The moment she stopped resisting help - How Al-Anon supported her - Guilt from leaving a challenging relationship - How This Naked Mind changed her life - The power of choosing yourself - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 48: Reader Question – I Quit Drinking But My Spouse Has Not. Any Advice?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-48-reader-question-i-quit-drinking-but-my-spouse-has-not-any-advice/ EP 637: Naked Life Story – Annie Grace’s Husband (Part 1): https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-637-naked-life-story-annie-graces-husband-part-1/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Have you ever sabotaged your progress because it felt easier than standing out? As seven-year-old Helga raced toward the finish line, it was clear she would win. But suddenly, she turned around and let everyone pass her. Why? Because she felt uncomfortable being in the lead. This moment captures a lifelong pattern of holding back when she’s about to succeed. Helga even found herself doing the same thing in her relationship with alcohol, feeling like she didn’t deserve a better life. In this episode, Coach Mike helps Helga see how her instinct to pull back is really about staying safe. Together, they explore how fear and guilt can actually become tools for growth, and why learning to love herself is the only way to break free. In this episode, Coach Mike and Helga will discuss: - Why we feel nervous about standing out - How negative emotions can benefit us - The problem with loving yourself conditionally - Toning down your true self with alcohol - How self-sabotage can be a way to protect yourself - Turning negative feelings into tools for growth - Learning to embrace your unique self - Why it feels safer to fit in than stand out - How to stop holding yourself back - Celebrating your wins without guilt - And other topics… Mike Shennan is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach who helps people take back control from alcohol, especially those who have seen their drinking habits gradually escalate as they reach mid-life. Using his own experiences and This Naked Mind methods, he guides his clients in changing how they think about drinking. Having lost both parents to alcohol-related illnesses, he is passionate about how drinking can have an impact not just on oneself, but on everyone around them. Learn more about Coach Mike: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/mike-shennan/ Related Episodes: EP 46: Reader Question – How Do I Let Go of Self-Sabotage?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-46-how-do-i-let-go-of-self-sabotage/ EP 596: Reader Question – Why do I self-sabotage?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-596-reader-question-choosing-hope-over-doubt/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Is the fear of drinking again keeping you from fully enjoying your life? After going through detox three times, Erin was afraid to drink again. She didn’t want to go on vacations or to bars because she was scared. Even though she stayed away from alcohol for years, she still felt stuck because she was often thinking about not drinking. She was eager to step into the next chapter of her life but couldn’t leave behind the structure that had supported her. Then, Erin found This Naked Mind, which helped her see that she could live without fear, shame, or anxiety. In this episode, Annie chats with Erin about what it took to change her mindset and finally live a life of true freedom. In this episode, Annie and Erin will discuss: - Why feeling powerless doesn’t help - Moving past the fear of drinking again - Learning and growing from mistakes - Feeling lonely on your alcohol-free journey - How ads trick our brains into thinking alcohol is fun - Seeing cravings as a chance to learn - Why she started drinking again during cancer treatment - Her initial resistance to This Naked Mind - Drinking to connect with your partner - The problem with using fear to stay in control - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 41: Relationships, Marriage & Alcohol with Stacey Martino: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-41-relationships-marriage-alcohol-with-stacey-martino/ EP 106: Reader’s Question – Why does living alcohol-free feel lonely?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-106-readers-question-living-alcohol-free-feel-lonely/ EP 184: Reader Question – Does alcohol advertising really work?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-184-does-alcohol-advertising-really-work-2/ EP 222: Reader Question – What if my marriage is dependent on alcohol?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-222-reader-question-what-if-my-marriage-is-dependent-on-alcohol/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Do you feel awkward drinking less than everyone else around you? Christine lives in wine country, where almost every social event is at a winery or involves wine. But now that she no longer drinks as much as she used to, she feels like she has to drink just to fit in. In this coaching session, Coach Cole helps Christine talk through her feelings of awkwardness about drinking less and how it affects her social life. Together, they explore practical ways to enjoy social events, feel more confident, and stay true to her goals without feeling left out. In this episode, Coach Cole and Christine will discuss: - Handling different drinking habits in your relationship - Drinking less than your friends - Balancing drinking with a healthy lifestyle - How to feel comfortable at events while drinking less - How alcohol prevents you from being fully present - Facing the fear of not fitting in - Mixing fun with confidence - Finding new ways to enjoy social events - Tips for confidently drinking less at parties - And other topics… Cole Harvey is a Certified Naked Mind Coach who helps others navigate the forest of their subconscious beliefs, guiding them to explore their own inner landscape. Cole loves nature and has spent years hiking through remote areas of the U.S. Having transformed his own life using the tools of playful curiosity, compassion, and empowerment, he brings a love of the wild and the hero’s journey to his coaching. Learn more about Coach Cole: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/cole-harvey/ Related Episodes: EP 439: Naked Life Story – Nat X: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-439-naked-life-story-nat-x EP 547: Naked Life Story – Claire: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-547-naked-life-story-claire/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Are you wondering how to build meaningful connections without drinking? Gregory once turned to substances to win fast friends. But that didn’t bring the deep, meaningful connections he really wanted. What he needed to realize, however, was that he had to connect with himself first, and reading This Naked Mind was the first step in the right direction. He took a leap of faith into a new way of life and never looked back. Since his last conversation with Annie on the podcast, he has been focused on his life and fitness goals, even becoming a CrossFit coach. In this “Where Are They Now” episode, Gregory and Hayley chat about the positive changes in his life and explore his journey toward building authentic relationships. In this episode, Hayley and Gregory will discuss: - Turning to substances to win fast friends - How This Naked Mind rocked his world - Truly connecting with himself - How drinking a lot can hinder connection - Having a good time without substances - Growing out of your comfort zone - The power of self-awareness - Gregory’s passion for health and fitness - Showing up for yourself even when it’s hard - Building authentic connections in a community - Why you need to be gentle with yourself - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 410: Reader Question – Do I need to cut ties with my drinking friends?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-410-reader-question-do-i-need-to-cut-ties-with-my-drinking-friends EP 109: Naked Life Story: Greg: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-109-naked-life-story-greg/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Does alcohol really lead to the good life, or is it taking more than it gives? For a long time, Rajinder believed alcohol was necessary to have fun at celebrations and on vacations. From the glass of mimosa on the plane to the pretty cocktail at resort check-in, Rajinder’s holidays were always wrapped up in alcohol. But the hangovers were awful, and the plane rides home left her feeling like she needed a vacation from her vacation. It wasn’t until she discovered This Naked Mind that she started to question how much alcohol was really adding to or taking away from her experience of fun. In this coaching session, Coach Onowa works with Rajinder to explore the belief that alcohol leads to the good life. In this episode, Coach Onowa and Rajinder will discuss: - Why we think alcohol equals fun - How advertising shapes our beliefs about alcohol - The illusion of fun that alcohol creates - What fun really feels like - Why you need to question long-held beliefs - How drinking can take away from real fun - Why it helps to understand how alcohol affects the body - How alcohol numbs not just the bad, but also the good - How drinking can mess with your sleep and mood - Planning alcohol-free vacations - And other topics… Onowa Bjella is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach with over two decades of experience as an educational professional. Having lost her mother at a young age, she understands how people with trauma often turn to alcohol. Onowa helps health-conscious moms like herself embrace self-compassion and take control of their relationship with alcohol. Learn more about Coach Onowa: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/onowa-bjella/ Related Episodes: EP 18: Reader Question – Is Not Drinking Really More Fun?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-18-reader-question-is-not-drinking-really-more-fun/ EP 164: Reader Question – Are vacations and holidays more fun without drinking?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-164-are-vacations-and-holidays-more-fun-without-drinking/ EP 184: Reader Question – Does alcohol advertising really work?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-184-does-alcohol-advertising-really-work-2/ EP 362: Reader Question – Will I ever have fun without drinking alcohol?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-362-reader-question-will-i-ever-have-fun-without-drinking-alcohol/ EP 652: Reader’s Question – How To Plan an Alcohol-Free Vacation: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-652-readers-question-how-to-plan-an-alcohol-free-vacation/ Other Resources: How To Understand Alcohol’s Effects on Your Body: https://thisnakedmind.com/alcohols-effects-body/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Have you ever felt like different parts of you are at war? Cole thought alcohol would always dominate his life. Drinking helped him cope with the grief of losing his father, and before he knew it, he couldn’t separate it from his identity. He endured many years of darkness and self-blame, feeling trapped in a war with himself. But one day, he decided it was time for a change. He committed to learning more about himself and soon found This Naked Mind, which gave him the clarity he needed. Not only did he find peace, but he also rediscovered his purpose—helping others as a coach. In this episode, Cole talks with Annie about his journey to finally embracing the different parts of himself. Together, they explore what it takes to move from putting yourself down to treating yourself with kindness. In this episode, Annie and Cole will discuss: - How alcohol provided relief from grief - Drinking as a way to connect with his late father - When alcohol became part of his identity - The downward spiral of self-criticism - The moment that marked his first step to freedom - How This Naked Mind empowered his journey - How journaling helped Cole face his demons - Healing through self-love - How to heal cognitive dissonance - Why “mindful” breaks are useful - Why demonizing part of yourself is counterproductive - Embracing all the different sides of ourselves - Why Cole is passionate about coaching - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 262: Reader Question – How do I deal with death and grief without alcohol: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-262-reader-question-grief-without-alcohol/ EP 654: Reader’s Question – Overcoming Subconscious Beliefs Around Self-Worth: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-654-readers-question-overcoming-subconscious-beliefs-around-self-worth/ Other Resources: Monthly Journaling Challenge: https://thisnakedmind.com/tag/monthly-journaling-challenge/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if you could find better coping mechanisms than alcohol? During Bek’s difficult marriage breakup, she used alcohol to comfort herself and numb painful emotions. Meanwhile, overachiever Emily drank to reward herself, even though she would end up feeling worse. For both women, alcohol was a way to cope with life’s challenges. In this episode, Coach Zoe helps Bek and Emily look back at their pasts to understand the childhood wounds that have kept them stuck as adults. While Bek learns that self-compassion is the key to lasting change, Emily confronts her unresolved beliefs about alcohol. In Bek’s session: - Bek’s struggle to believe in herself - Why changing behavior alone doesn’t work - Why you need to fall in love with yourself - Alcohol as a comforter during tough times - How childhood rejection shaped her behavior - Why you have to work on yourself first - Learning to trust yourself again - The exhaustion of hiding your true self - The importance of being kind to yourself In Emily’s session: - Using alcohol as a reward for working hard - The exhaustion from always trying to do more - The childhood need for approval keeping her stuck - The danger of loving yourself conditionally - When the brain tricks us into thinking alcohol helps - Emily’s mantra for managing everyday stress - How drinking affects her creativity - Why The PATH is different from other programs she has tried Zoe Ewart is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach who brings her experience and understanding to help with the tricky parts of life’s big changes. Her coaching gives you an enjoyable, light-hearted, and safe environment to effortlessly take back control of alcohol so you can feel better physically, mentally, and spiritually. Zoe taught Pilates for 15 years. She has four adult children and more animals than the Ark ever had. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/ Related Episodes: EP 609: Naked Life Story – Brian C.: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-609-naked-life-story-brian-c/ EP 407: Naked Life Story – Marilin: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-407-naked-life-story-marilin/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Do you ever feel like you’re going along with the crowd just to fit in? Patrick C. liked drinking because it made him more social. Instead of being the shy, quiet kid he used to be, alcohol made him feel more fun and confident. But when he started feeling worse every time he drank, Patrick realized he wasn’t drinking because he wanted to. Rather, he was drinking to please people and not let them down. In this episode, Patrick talks to Annie about his journey to a healthier lifestyle, his struggles with anxiety, and how he finally overcame the fear of explaining his choices to others. While Patrick was already on his way to freedom before his mother gave him a weathered copy of This Naked Mind, the book inspired him to finally open up and share his story with his loved ones. In this episode, Annie and Patrick will discuss: - Patrick’s experience with anxiety - The pressure young people feel to drink in social settings - How Patrick handles his anxiety now - Facing the fear of life without alcohol - Worrying about being judged for not drinking socially - How This Naked Mind inspired Patrick to write his story - How setting boundaries helps with his new social life - Other ways he has fun with friends now - How choosing yourself first makes it easier to do it again - Why it’s important to teach kids about alcohol - How Patrick now inspires his friends and family - Annie’s kids’ book, Buzz to Buzz Kill - The problem with the message “drink responsibly” - The role alcohol plays in the economy - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 655: Naked Life Story – Maria Warner: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-655-naked-life-story-maria-warner-2/ EP 684: Reader’s Question – Why Does Drinking Alcohol Make Me Anxious?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-684-readers-question-why-does-drinking-alcohol-make-me-anxious/ EP 523: How To Talk To Your Kids About Alcohol TNM Parents: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-523-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-alcohol-with-scott-pinyard-and-tnm-parents/ Other Resources: Is Drinking Alcohol Part of a Healthy Lifestyle? – Decoding the Buzz: https://thisnakedmind.com/is-drinking-alcohol-part-of-a-healthy-lifestyle/ Let's Talk About The Idea of "Drinking Responsibly": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnHkRs0V3xQ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

If you are truly yourself, will you still belong in your community? Deborah has always been a likable person who fits in effortlessly. But as she steps into her alcohol-free identity, she worries she will lose her connection with her community. In this coaching session, Coach Lance helps her break down her fears around rejection and judgment, showing her that real belonging comes from being unapologetically herself. Deborah discovers that the greatest gift she can offer herself and those around her is the freedom to be her most authentic self. In this episode, Coach Lance and Deborah will discuss: - Her decision to start The PATH with a fake name - The courage to be authentic in a conformist world - How societal norms shape our relationship with alcohol - The difference between fitting in and truly belonging - The fear of rejection when stepping into a new identity - Practical tools for embracing authenticity - The fear of missing out on connection - The unexpected freedom of giving up alcohol - How authenticity can be contagious - The exhausting cycle of being a social chameleon - And other topics… Lance Anthony Scott is a Certified TNM Coach who brings the same passion he once reserved for the arts to his coaching. He believes that both the arts and overcoming alcohol dependency are about truth, authenticity, and expressing a beauty that is honest and real. After breaking out of what he calls “booze jail” using the This Naked Mind methodology, Lance became deeply inspired to support others who, like himself, felt falsely imprisoned by alcohol. Learn more about Coach Lance: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/lance-anthony-scott/ Related Episodes: EP 675: Naked Life Story – Susie P.: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-675-naked-life-story-susie-p/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if the first step to freedom is realizing that you are not the problem? Kayla’s journey with alcohol started long before her first sip. With a father who became unpredictable when he drank and a mother with unresolved trauma, she grew up hating alcohol. When she started drinking to fit in with the college crowd, she justified it by telling herself she wasn’t like her dad. But each time she drank, she felt guilty and ashamed because it felt like she was betraying her younger self. In an unexpected twist, her father stopped drinking, inspiring Kayla to reevaluate her own relationship with alcohol and ultimately embrace her power over it. In this moving episode, Kayla shares her journey to accepting the liberating truth that alcohol was the problem, not her or anyone else. In this episode, Annie and Kayla will discuss: - How generational trauma shaped her relationship with alcohol - Her struggle with social drinking and self-judgment - The mental chess game of moderation - Social drinking as a mask for deeper issues - Using self-compassion and inner work to heal - The cognitive dissonance that kept her stuck - Realizing alcohol, not the person, is the problem - Cravings as a brain reaction, not a moral failure - Taking responsibility to change without shame - The truth about numbing emotions - Embracing sobriety without isolating from others - Living authentically to inspire curiosity and change - And other topics… Related Episodes: Episode 27: Naked Life Story – Jamie: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-27-naked-life-story-jamie/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Can alcohol really take away the pain—or is it secretly adding to it? Sarah, a mother burdened by chronic pain and daily pressures, turned to alcohol just to get through the day. But as she depended more on drinking, the impact on her health and happiness grew worse. The pain radiated through her body and she felt increasingly weighed down by feelings of unworthiness. In this coaching session, Sarah reveals the true stakes: her health, her peace, and the moments she fears losing with her children. With Coach Lance’s guidance, she faces the truth of her situation and learns that true relief and joy, like enjoying the warmth of the sun as she floats in the pool with her kids, are possible without alcohol. In this episode, Coach Lance and Sarah will discuss: - The core belief driving Sarah to drink - The hidden cost of using alcohol to numb pain - Challenging the belief that alcohol brings relief - The physical and emotional toll of drinking - Slowing down for true healing - The dangerous cycle of drinking to stay productive - The problem with linking productivity to self-worth - True relief beyond alcohol - And other topics… Lance Anthony Scott is a Certified TNM Coach who brings the same passion he once reserved for the arts to his coaching. He believes that both the arts and overcoming alcohol dependency are about truth, authenticity, and expressing a beauty that is honest and real. After breaking out of what he calls “booze jail” using the This Naked Mind methodology, Lance became deeply inspired to support others who, like himself, felt falsely imprisoned by alcohol. Learn more about Coach Lance: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/lance-anthony-scott/ Related Episodes: EP 719: Naked Life Story - Katie W.: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-719-naked-life-story-katie-w/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Are you really in control of your relationship with alcohol or is it just an illusion? From crushing it in the corporate world to managing life as a working mom, drinking helped Jenn M. wind down, meet new people, and belong in social circles. Alcohol helped her be the best version of herself, and she had it under control. Or so she thought. Over time, as she noticed the effects of alcohol on her mind and body, she began to question her relationship with it. She struggled to draw the line, but it wasn’t until she read This Naked Mind that she could really see alcohol for what it was. Now finally free, she has started to focus on creating a life she doesn’t want to escape from. In this episode, Jenn takes us through her journey of ups and downs with alcohol, from immersing herself in “mommy wine” culture to navigating major life stressors. In this episode, Annie and Jenn will discuss: - Why Jenn initially believed alcohol was making her successful - Jenn’s struggle to reconcile her success with her drinking habits - How the illusion of control over her drinking kept her stuck - The early warning signs alcohol was taking a toll on her health - How Jenn struggled to draw the line with her drinking - The pivotal moments that made Jenn question her drinking habits - The perception that drinking was cool in the 1980s - How feeling like she didn’t belong in her family drew her to alcohol - The family secret that exposed the true nature of her relationship with alcohol - Jenn’s experience navigating “mommy wine” culture - The struggles of going alcohol-free during vacations and social events - How she discovered This Naked Mind - Alcohol numbing the “real” fun - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 457: Naked Life Story – Zac: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-457-naked-life-story-zac/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Why do people go back to drinking? Our first episode of the Alcohol Freedom Coaching series offers some insight into what triggers people to drink again, even after experiencing success with quitting. Listen in as This Naked Mind Certified Coach Ellie Crowe gives you an inside look at two intimate alcohol coaching sessions. First, Ellie helps Laurie explore her fears about cravings returning and how to build a strong foundation for lasting alcohol freedom. Then, in a deeply moving conversation, Tina opens up about her complicated relationship with food and alcohol, uncovering the link between her past and her current struggles with binge eating and drinking. Coach Ellie guides both Laurie and Tina through using tools like self-compassion and self-awareness to gain confidence in themselves and their relationships with alcohol. In Lauri’s session: - The joy of reaching 30 days without alcohol - The fear of slipping back into old habits - Discovering a world of amazing non-alcoholic drinks - The hidden costs of relying on alcohol - The TNM tools that helped Lauri with her cravings - Finding strength in each small step forward - Trusting in the process, not the destination In Tina’s session: - How Tina’s childhood fueled her bingeing - Finding freedom by dismantling old patterns - The power of confronting our complex emotions - Healing through self-forgiveness and acceptance - How childhood survival mechanisms evolve into self-sabotage - Building self-compassion to support lasting change - The joy of letting go of perfection Ellie Crowe is a Senior Certified TNM Coach and co-host of the Present & Sober podcast. As a once-strung-out, working mom of three who understands the trap of using wine to escape, Ellie’s mission is to help her clients discover joy, peace, and contentment by living wholeheartedly in the present moment. Learn more about Coach Ellie: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/ellie-crowe/ Related Episodes: EP 707: Naked Life Story - Roberta R.: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-707-naked-life-story-roberta-r/ EP 719: Naked Life Story - Katie W.: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-719-naked-life-story-katie-w/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What’s the secret to thriving without alcohol when life gets hectic? When Kim first appeared on the podcast, she spoke to Annie about her journey from closet binge drinking to finding freedom. Despite a chaotic childhood that fueled her relationship with alcohol and eating disorders, she finally found compassion for herself. In this “Where Are They Now” episode, Kim catches up with Hayley to discuss the whirlwind of the past two years. She shares how she has managed to maintain her mental health without alcohol even while raising young children, relocating several times, and pursuing a master’s degree. This episode will inspire you to find stability and strength in your own journey, no matter how busy life gets. In this episode, Hayley and Kim will discuss: The healthy ways Kim now handles the pressures of a busy life The often-ignored link between alcohol and eating disorders How living alcohol-free helped Kim tackle stress The mental and physical release she finds through running What has given Kim clarity and resilience The powerful anticipation that fuels the urge to drink How "playing the tape forward" helps with resisting cravings New ways Kim takes the edge off without alcohol Why speaking up is key to breaking free and finding support And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 453: Naked Life Story – Kim S.: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-453-naked-life-story-kim-s/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

In a world where alcohol often holds the reins, it's easy to feel trapped, alone, and unsure of where to turn when you find yourself drinking more than you want to. But what if breaking free didn't have to be about willpower or pain? What if you could make alcohol small and irrelevant in your life without labeling yourself, feeling deprived, or white-knuckling your way through “sobriety”? Freedom is possible, without pain or struggle. Bestselling author Annie Grace is here to help you find freedom from alcohol, one empowering episode at a time. Every Friday and Saturday, we dive deep into the science of alcohol and the mind, unravel the myths that keep us stuck, and always remind you that you are not alone and you are not broken. Subscribe to This Naked Mind for a life-changing shift in your relationship with alcohol. Together, we will explore the role of alcohol in our lives and culture without rules, pain, or judgment.

Do you ever find yourself asking, "Why do I keep sabotaging my sobriety?" If so, you're in the right place. Many people struggle with this pattern of self-sabotage. On today's episode, we're talking about why this happens and what you can do about it. We'll explore the science behind cravings and triggers, and we'll share practical tips for overcoming them. Annie Grace will share her insights on how things like feeling happy or cooking dinner can set us off, and how to break free from these patterns. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

Are you a high-performing professional feeling the pressure to drink at work? Steve Wilt, a leader in the financial services industry, was right there with you. He'll share how alcohol became deeply ingrained in his career, from casual drinks with coworkers to lavish corporate events. Discover how reading Annie Grace's book and joining a 90-day challenge sparked him to take an extended break from alcohol, leading him to not only transform his own life but also champion promoting an alcohol-free workplace. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

How long does it take for alcohol to leave your system? And when will you start feeling normal again? In this episode of the podcast, Annie Grace uncovers the science behind alcohol's effects and shares her own personal experiences. Learn how long it takes for ethanol, the chemical in alcohol, to leave your system and why it might take even longer for your brain to fully rebalance. Annie also explains how our brains can get so used to alcohol that they start anticipating it, which can make it harder to cut back or quit. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

What if you could find a way to cope with life's stresses without relying on alcohol? In this episode, Sally, a woman working in the male-dominated construction industry, shares her journey of overcoming stress drinking and finding freedom from alcohol. Hear about her experiences with embarrassing incidents, the challenges of moderation, and how the Alcohol Experiment helped her see a different path. Sally also opens up about the devastating impact of losing a loved one to drunk driving, offering a powerful reminder of the importance of responsible choices. And don't miss Annie Grace's surprising revelation about her own experience with a breathalyzer during her drinking days. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

How does alcohol affect hormones, and why should you care? Join Annie Grace on This Naked Mind’s podcast as she uncovers the science behind alcohol's impact on your endocrine system. We'll explore how a few drinks can disrupt your body's natural balance, leading to issues like hormonal imbalance, thyroid problems, and a weakened immune system. Whether you're struggling with mood swings, low energy, or fertility concerns, this episode will shed light on the hidden ways alcohol might be affecting your health. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

Trigger warning: this episode contains mentions of suicide, cancer, and death. What if the very thing you're using to cope with trauma is actually preventing you from healing? In this emotional episode, Julie opens up about her decades-long struggle with binge drinking, using alcohol to numb the pain of her son's suicide, her husband's cancer diagnosis and death, and the challenges of the pandemic. With the help of This Naked Mind, Julie learned how to face her grief and emotions without relying on alcohol, ultimately finding strength in vulnerability. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

Are feelings of shame and embarrassment holding you back from fully enjoying life after drinking? You're not alone in this struggle. In this episode, we're digging into the nitty-gritty when it comes to overcoming shame and embarrassment after drinking. Join Annie Grace as she shares practical strategies and insights to help you release the heavy burden of past regrets. Discover how journaling can be a powerful tool for processing emotions, learn to challenge negative self-talk and replace it with self-compassion, and explore the transformative ACT technique. By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with actionable steps to rewrite your story and create a new narrative filled with hope, healing, and self-acceptance. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.

Do you find yourself constantly asking, "Why do I crave alcohol so much?" In this episode, Annie Grace addresses this question head-on. She shares personal anecdotes, like her experience in Hawaii where she explored the deeper reasons behind her craving for a Mai Tai. Join us to discover how to shift your mindset from fighting cravings to embracing curiosity, and learn how this change can pave the way for a healthier relationship with alcohol. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. If you’re ready to see how This Naked Mind can help you on your personal health and wellness journey and wanna learn more. Go to ThisNakedMindpodcast.com to learn more. Again, that’s ThisNakedMindpodcast.com. We have all of our free resources, programs, social links, and more available for you there. Plus, if you have your own Naked Life Story, you can submit it there as well. Until next week, stay curious.