The Will to Win Podcast

In this episode accountant & financial strategist Vanessa Ziino reframes wealth as mindset and systems, sharing practical tips on intentional spending, paying yourself first, automating savings and investments, and addressing emotional buying. She explains budgeting, tracking expenses, and balancing income growth with cost control to build long-term stability without feeling financially deprived. Vanessa emphasizes reviewing your budget regularly, delaying impulse purchases, aligning spending with values, and using simple, sustainable systems so you can design the life you want now and in the future.

In this episode Taisha Kay shares her five-year journey from starting on Instagram to modelling runways, workshops and themed shoots. She talks about preparing for shoots, working closely with her mum, and winning an eco-themed newspaper dress competition. Taisha discusses challenges like being a shorter model, how she stays unique and confident, brand ambassadorships, and practical advice for aspiring models. She also explains recovering from having her account hacked and why she got verified to protect her future online presence. Follow Taisha on social media to connect, ask questions about modelling, or even collaborate.

This episode outlines practical stages and principles for men to improve dating, relationships, and personal growth. Stage three is about building connection and sharing intent; stage four advances to asking for the next step; stage five is leading and closing the interaction. Learn to test, adapt, and escalate with small micro-steps, while developing communication, confidence, and emotional impact.

In this episode Shae provides some practical steps to overcome hesitation and build real confidence when meeting women: how to create permission in your mind, approach with pure intent, and use simple hooks and storytelling to connect. Learn the five essential gears—get noticed, give a memorable compliment, connect, hold your frame, and use push-pull—to steadily attract the right partner by practicing direct, respectful action and raising your personal standards.

This episode explores why dating feels like competition, how apps and superficial standards skew attraction, and what men can do to improve their chances of finding the one. It covers practical basics—grooming, style, fitness—then moves into inner skills like confidence, social technique, and moving conversations from small talk towards deeper conversations. Through building self-trust, learning to approach women without appearing weak, and facing fear and vulnerability, the episode shows how integrating inner work with outward presentation helps men become more empowered, respected, and effective in dating.

In this episode Inner Game Coach Shae Matthews explores how men's unconscious beliefs and shadow material shape their emotions, relationships, and identity, and how coaching, mentorship, or therapy can help people create better patterns. Listeners are guided through the idea of masculine initiation: developing skills, intention, and emotional maturity to become a balanced, responsible, and liberated man in today’s changing culture.

In this episode The Inner Game Coach Shae Matthews explores masculine energy, how to build confidence, and how to communicate with women while staying authentic. He discusses his journey, the changing rules of masculinity, and core pillars—playfulness, softness, and ferocity—that men can use to balance their energy effectively and lead with purpose. The episode offers practical insight into expressing strength without shutting down emotion, developing presence and leadership, and learning to modulate between assertiveness and sensitivity in relationships and life.

In this episode Steve breaks down practical steps to build social confidence and form high-quality relationships. He covers three core skills: how to approach new people without fear, how to listen attentively, and use your words more effectively. His short actionable advice, encourages people to practice kindness, remain mindful of their speech, how to deepen their connections and become more confident socially.

In the latest episode of The Will to Win Podcast myself and Political Activist Zaky Khalil discuss the widening political divide in America, Charlie Kirk’s influence on college campuses, and how Christian faith informs views on abortion, gender identity, gun rights, and the Constitution. We reflect on Kirk’s legacy, recent violence, the shifting party landscape, and urge open debate, peaceful civic engagement, and a return to core values as the nation moves forward while under influence of President Donald Trump.

In this episode, Steve & Nav explore the complexities of forming and maintaining friendships as you age, particularly focusing on the shift from having many friends during early adulthood to valuing a few, quality ones in adulthood. Joined by special guest Nav on Track, together they delve into the personal experiences and challenges of making new friends in your 30s and beyond. Steve and Nav discuss the key attributes that define a true friend, such as consistency, support during tough times, and being able to be vulnerable with one another. They also tackle the sometimes painful necessity of outgrowing friendships that no longer align with your values. The episode offers practical suggestions on where to meet new friends, like meetups, health and wellness groups, social sport, dancing & networking events, emphasising the importance of mutual growth, shared interests, an genuine alignment which all help foster meaningful relationships. Tune in for insightful anecdotes and actionable steps on how to enhance the quality of your social life and build high quality friendships that will stand the test of time. Steve also touches on his book called Making Friends Made Simple towards the end of the show.

Get ready for an enlightening episode with Xavier Crowe, a professional mentalist, keynote speaker, and expert in human behavior and communication. With over two decades of experience performing worldwide, Xavier shares his unique approach of blending mentalism with real-world psychology to enhance communication skills. In this episode, Xavier reveals how subtle body language cues can help in reading people, tips for building confidence, and insights into why connection is the real magic in leadership. Learn how mentalism offers a transformative perspective on everyday communication, and discover why Xavier believes that entertainment is more than just amusement, it’s a pathway to genuine transformation.

This episode delves into the pressing issues facing community housing residents in Sydney who have been issued eviction notices which incudes the Waterloo Tower Blocks due to large-scale redevelopment projects as the NSW State Government prepares to transfer the Landlord responsibilities over to Private Equity. Many residents are facing a ticking clock with just six months to relocate, raising concerns not just about finding new homes but also about the broader implications for community housing. Join us as we look further into community housing as the Birdman of Surry Hills Pierre goes onto explain how he has tirelessly fought for the rights of vulnerable individuals and stood up against systemic injustices. From filing court cases to strategizing community resistance, Pierre shares his experiences of being a Legal Warrior without formal qualifications, driven by the necessity to fight for justice. In the final part of this episode both Pierre and Steve discuss the upcoming documentary "Cracks in the System," emphasizing the need for fairness and equality in an environment that has already been stretched beyonds it's limits.

In this episode of the Will2Win show, guest Ray Leary shares his personal journey through institutional abuse and his tireless advocacy for the forgotten Australians. As someone who experienced the harsh realities of being removed from family at a young age, Leary discusses how these experiences have fueled his drive to push for political change. He hopes to secure a seat in Blacktown to represent the State of NSW to ensure that past traumas are acknowledged and that future generations receive the recognition and care they deserve. Leary brings to light the struggles of the many who were once termed 'forgotten Australians,' advocating for them to be remembered and recognized for their pain and resilience. The episode highlights his dedication to ensuring that the history of these individuals is neither overlooked nor forgotten, and his efforts to push for systemic change in how we approach institutional care and support is fully addressed.

In this episode I interview Denny Mars, an Intuitive Life Coach & Healer who helps neurodivergent women recover from complex trauma and step into their souls mission. During this mini podcast, we delve into the transformative journey of helping women discover their authentic selves. We explore the challenges of breaking free from societal conditioning and empowering individuals to pursue their passions and discover their ultimate purpose. Our discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself, recognizing past traumas, and healing from within. We touch on inner child healing, overcoming mental blocks, and the integration of mind, body, and spirit for holistic well-being. Moreover, we address the silent struggles many face, the misconceptions around mental health medication, and the importance of reconnecting with one's power through mindfulness. Join us in discovering how self-love, resilience, and a willingness to change can lead to a life of fulfilment and confidence.

In this episode Steve Scarnie delves into the challenge of control in our lives. He emphasizes understanding what is within our control and letting go of what isn't, advocating for a peace of mind that comes from focusing on the present and embracing self-awareness. Through exploring the three levels of control, Steve inspires listeners to find harmony amidst life's chaos by focusing on personal growth and self-belief. He stresses the importance of wise decisions in fostering growth and highlights how self-talk and surrounding oneself with uplifting people can lead to a more fulfilling life. The episode concludes with a call to embrace challenges and aim for continual self-improvement, knowing that learning is a life long process. Steve empowers listeners to unleash their potential and achieve greater things.

In this episode Steve & Nav delve into the intricate dynamics of modern dating and relationships. As the digital age transforms how we find love, the discussion centers around building genuine connections and overcoming the challenges many face in today's fast-paced world. Steve & his Co Host Nav offer candid insights into the complexities of finding the right person. They explore the importance of consistency, authenticity, and compatibility in relationships, while also discussing the role of values and emotional intelligence in sustaining long-term partnerships. From setting high standards to saying goodbye to dating apps, this episode provides valuable advice for those seeking to enhance their dating journey and establish meaningful, lasting relationships. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that aims to inspire and guide listeners in their quest to find love.

In this enlightening episode, we delve into the world of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) with Dr. Michelle Li a fourth-generation acupuncturist and herbal medicine practitioner. We explore the holistic approach of TCM, emphasizing the balance of yin and yang, the flow of Chi, and how these ancient practices can enhance energy, emotional well-being, and treat various health conditions. Dr. Li shares her expertise on managing chronic digestive issues, skin conditions, eating healthy, and managing sleep patterns, offering insights into integrating TCM with modern living for optimal health. Join us for a journey into natural healing methods that can transform your health and wellness.

Welcome to Episode 23 of The Will to Win Show. Join your host, Steve Scarnie, as he dives into an inspiring story of resilience and personal growth. This week, we welcome our special guest Lauren, a highly competitive Athlete from France, who shares her extraordinary journey of recovering from a serious ski accident. Lauren, who now calls Sydney home, recounts the life-changing incident that occurred on the first day of 2021. Despite the immense physical and mental challenges that came with it, Lauren's two-year recovery process became a transformative journey of self-discovery, resilience, handwork and relentless determination. In this episode, learn from Lauren's experiences as she reveals the lessons she embraced to overcome adversity, the joy of reclaiming her passion, how to stay disciplined, the importance of setting boundaries and learning how to love yourself. Discover how she turned a shattering event into a powerful personal development journey like no other. Steve Scarnie - The Will to Win Coach Making what seems impossible totally possible. www.instagram.com/stevescarnie www.youtube.com/@stevescarnie777 Lauren Blaise - Competitive Ski Athlete/Youtuber Feel the discomfort and do it anyway. www.youtube.com/@laurenblaise www.instagram.com/laurenbls

On today's show we meet Andre Dronoff, an up and coming Motivational Speaker who openly discusses his challenging journey from bullying and family loss to embracing discipline as a pathway to success. Andre reflects on his upbringing, highlighting the sacrifices made by his family and the circumstances and experiences hat shaped his resilience. Despite facing significant personal struggles, including numerous family losses and his father's cancer battle, Andre has forged a path of strength and determination. He candidly talks about overcoming bullying, mental health challenges, and transforming his mindset. Throughout the episode, Andre emphasizes the vital role of discipline in achieving personal growth and shares his inspiration from figures like David Goggins and Cristiano Ronaldo. Join us as Andre discusses his newfound purpose-driven life, the power of rewiring the brain for positivity and happiness, and his passion for inspiring others. The Will to Win Coach - Steve Scarnie Where there's a will, there's a way. https://www.instagram.com/stevescarnie Motivational Speaker - Andre Dronoff Empowering minds to break free from judgement. https://www.instagram.com/andredronoff

In Episode 21 of The Will to Win Show, up and coming entrepreneur Jia Rastogi talks about her experience in the finance industry. After learning the ropes of the property market firsthand from her parents, she developed a passion for improving financial literacy among young adults who would like to learn more about how to excel in property, save money more efficiently and create multiple streams of income. Jia discusses her Amazon bestselling book called 'Class Clown to Wealth Wizard: Uncovering the Real Estate Secrets that school Never taught.' The book tells a story about five high school friends who are committed to learning how to better manage their money after being inspired by the main character Sam. She simplifies financial concepts through storytelling, characterisation, metaphors and strategies that help enable people to set themselves up to make better financial decisions and capitalise on their investments. Explore strategies such as the 50-30-20 rule for managing income, ways to create multiple streams of income, understanding the cashflow quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki and the important balance of time, energy, and money throughout the course of life. Discover key insights about the power of your network and defining your "why" to ignite motivation to help you fulfil your financial goals. Join us to gain valuable strategies for achieving financial freedom and finding inspiration to make the seemingly impossible, possible.

In this mini podcast episode The Will to Win Coach, Steve Scarnie passionately encourages you to unleash your inner greatness and transform doubt into triumph. He underscores the importance of action and perseverance, emphasizing that success requires taking risks and stepping outside your comfort zone. Throughout this motivational monologue, Steve challenges you to stop procrastinating and start sowing seeds of personal growth. Drawing on personal stories and insightful quotes, he illustrates the necessity of sacrifice and hard work for achieving greatness. This engaging episode reminds you that while the journey to success may be difficult, it is also rewarding. Tune in to draw inspiration and valuable insights as Steve offers practical strategies to maximize your potential and create a life filled with purpose and success. Whether you're at the start of your entrepreneurial journey or seeking to push boundaries, "The Will to Win" provides the motivation neccessary to help you keep moving forward. Enjoy the ride!

Join host Steve Scarnie as he welcomes Nav on the show, a globetrotting travel extraordinare who shares her incredible journey of self-discovery and personal growth through travel. Listen as she recounts her experiences of exploring diverse cultures, overcoming language barriers, and learning valuable life lessons from people around the world. Nav's life journey began in a small town in the Western Himalayas, as she gradually navigated her way through her various life challenges which ultimately led her to become the World Traveller that she is today. Discover how travel has broadened her perspective, fostered understanding, and reinforced the universal language of kindness. Hear about memorable encounters, including a remarkable young girl in Kyrgyzstan who left a lasting impression with her confidence and maturity. The episode also delves into the challenges that Nav faced growing up in a modest environment and how these experiences shaped her resilience and optimistic outlook on life. You will gain insights into the transformative power of mindset and the inspiration drawn from motivational literature, including the works of Dr Joe Dispenza. As the episode unfolds, explore themes of gratitude, the importance of nature, and the quest for balance in life. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or a seasoned traveler, this episode offers valuable lessons on how to excel as a traveller and see all that the world has to offer. The world is your Oyster! You can find ‘Nav the solo traveler’ on Instagram below and see how her life has unfolded as she overcome her challenges and made a name for herself as an expert travel guide. You can find ‘Nav the solo traveler’ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nav_on_track/ You can find 'The Will to Win Coach' on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stevescarnie

In this inspiring episode, Steve Scarnie sits down with the talented Taiwanese-Australian Actor, J' Ma. Known for her emotional performances and versatility, J' Ma shares her incredible journey from aspiring young actress to a compelling talent in the film industry. J' Ma opens up about her early inspirations, including how watching Titanic with her Mom ignited her passion for acting. Despite cultural challenges and personal hardships, including a painful breakup, she found the courage to pursue her dreams. Through resilience and dedication, she navigated her way into the acting world, taking on lead roles in films like Streets of Deceit and Zilia. Throughout the conversation, J' Ma discusses the power of storytelling, the importance of connecting with audiences, and the unique challenges faced by actors. She reflects on the profound influence of her late best friend and how it has shaped her as an artist. J' Ma also expresses her desire to participate in Christian films, inspired by her faith and the impact of Movies like The Chosen. Tune in to hear J' Ma's heartfelt advice to her younger self and aspiring actors, encouraging them to believe in themselves and embrace every step of their journey. Don't miss this episode filled with wisdom, inspiration, and the spirit of resilience.

Join Steve Scarnie in episode 17 of The Will To Win Show as he welcomes long-time friend and Political Activist, Zaky Khalil. Together, they delve into the recent controversies surrounding P. Diddy and their far-reaching impact on American politics and society. Zaky, with his extensive knowledge of the political landscape which he has accumulated over the last seven years, sheds light on the hidden connections between the entertainment industry and American Politics. In this eye-opening discussion, Steve and Zaky explore the allegations against P. Diddy and their potential ties to broader societal issues, including the dark underbelly of the music and Hollywood industries. They also discuss the implications of these revelations on the upcoming U.S. presidential election and how they might influence public perception and voting behaviour. The episode provides a thought-provoking look at the intersection of fame, power, and morality, encouraging listeners to question the narratives presented by influential figures in both the music and political arenas. Tune in to discover how these revelations could reshape the landscape of American politics and culture.

In today's mini podcast episode, myself and Nav dive into the topic of mental health and well-being. We discuss how mental health impacts our daily lives and explore effective strategies for managing it. Join us as we share practical advice on acknowledging and dealing with emotions, the importance of gratitude, asking for help and the role of supportive relationships in optimising your mental health. Tune in to discover valuable insights and tips to help you navigate your mental health journey and tap into your highest potential. You can find 'The Will to Win Coach' on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stevescarnie/ You can find ‘Nav the solo traveler’ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nav_on_track/ Nav on Track (Spotify). https://open.spotify.com/user/31nvm4ugkspc5ew36ewg3ygiws3a?si=0bd1b152c7784fde

Welcome to episode 15 of the Will To Win Show! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of Instagram influencing with our special guest, Andrea Hetherington. Andrea shares her decade-long experience in the fashion and lifestyle industry and provides actionable tips on how to stand out, establish your brand, and profit from collaborations and partnerships. From understanding the impact of the algorithm to creating viral content, Andrea covers it all. She discusses the importance of consistency, the benefits of short, engaging reels, and how even accounts with 5,000 followers can start monetizing through paid partnerships and digital products. If you're looking to grow your Instagram following and turn your hobby into a profitable business, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we explore the fundamentals of personal branding, the significance of staying true to yourself, and the various ways to monetize your influence. Andrea also provides valuable insights into negotiating with brands, setting your rates, and creating content that resonates with your audience. Tune in to discover how you can standout and win on Instagram, skyrocket your following and make a living doing what you love.

In this episode, we welcome Michael Mojo back for a second round to show you how to up your game, the dangers of receiving an unprepared financial inheritance, and the value of emotional and mental stability. Using vivid analogies, he explains how focusing on the right things can transform your life and drive you toward success. Michael also shares his personal journey of overcoming negativity and how he learned to appreciate the small things, which ultimately led to a significant mindset shift. He emphasizes the importance of aligning your life with your values and how this alignment fuels productivity and can also lead to better results over the long term. Tune in to learn actionable tools and frameworks that can help you balance your emotions, drive your ambitions, tap into your entrepreneurial potential and breakthrough any barriers that may be holding you back from acheiving the things that matter most.

Welcome to episode 13 of The Will to Win. This week, we are joined by Michael Mojo, an expert in personal development and business coaching. Michael shares his journey from corporate dissatisfaction to creating a world class business called the Mojo Human Performance institute. Michael goes into detail about how he helps individuals and business owners master their mindset, raise their standards, and continuously outperform themselves, no matter what the circumstance. In this episode, Michael dives deep into his three-pillar success map: understanding what fulfils you, setting clear direction through vision, mission, and goals, and consistently managing energy over effort. He also discusses the importance of evolving as individuals and business owners, and how to handle the inevitable challenges and emotional hurdles that come with growth. Discover how to build a fulfilling life and business, navigate through stress and pressure, and maintain consistency for long-term success. Tune in to learn actionable strategies and insights that will inspire you to unlock your potential and make what seems impossible, totally possible.

In this episode we are joined by Guinness World Record holder Mario Bekes who holds the record for the longest uninterrupted radio show in history for a total of 55 hours and 26 minutes. Mario will share his own unique perspective on how to overcome life's obstacles and win your battles based on his own life experiences, not just in life and business but also while on the Podcasting circuit. Mario has had over two million Youtube views, with 32.5k subscribers and also amassed 26.6k TikTok followers all within the last 2 years. During this heart to heart conversation, you will discover the importance of having a clear objective, establishing a timetable, and leveraging fear as a catalyst to maximise your confidence. Learn why it's crucial to surround yourself with supportive people and how to convert losses into valuable lessons. Through personal anecdotes and heartfelt advice, this episode aims to inspire you to live your life to the fullest, create your own legacy and leave a lasting impact on the world. Tune in to explore how you can open up to your vulnerable side and embrace your emotions for all that they are without feeling any shame or guilt. Create the determination neccessary to pave the way to greatness, and overcome any situation or circumstance that might otherwise get in the way of your success.

Welcome to The Will To Win, where emerging entrepreneurs come to learn the best tips, strategies, and techniques to unlock their potential and become more successful. I'm your host, Steve Scarnie, and each week I bring on incredible guests who share their unique stories, knowledge, wisdom, and insights about bridging the gap between failure and success to live a life of greatness. In Episode 11, we dive into the power of branding with David Goldstein, also known as Dave Gold. As a digital nomad and personal brand consultant, Dave helps entrepreneurs elevate their personal brands to magnetically attract their ideal clientele and community. He emphasizes the importance of doing inner work, self-acceptance, and surrender to build a fulfilling and magnetic brand. Throughout the episode, Dave shares valuable insights on becoming self-aware, regulating the nervous system through breathwork, and making conscious decisions to change. Even making reference to NBA Superstar Luka Doncic's step back jump shot as a metaphor for change. He then goes on to further highlight the significance of pattern interrupts & transitioning to new environments to foster growth and transformation. Dave also provides actionable advice on conscious branding, including identifying unique selling propositions, creating magnetic market messages, and the importance of maintaining consistency and producing meaningful content to increase your exposure and attract your ideal clients.

Welcome to the tenth episode of 'The Will To Win', In this episode, Berenice Tan, a renowned Breathwork Teacher Trainer, Speaker and Coach, dives deep into the transformative power and life changing benefits of this practice, both personally and professionally. Ber turned childhood trauma into a global mission to empower coaches to heal heir communities at scale. She works with established coaches and visionaries to use breath as a vehicle to scale down time, energy and effort, while leveling up thier authentic expression and amplifying their impact. During this episode, you will discover how to break through imposter syndrome, master the relationship between thought and emotion, and how breathwork can help you tap into different parts of your unconscious mind. You will also learn how breathwork can aid in bringing about an abundant mindset and experience more flow in your life and business. In this enlightening conversation, learn about the power of incremental and exponential change and what steps to take to achieve it. Join in a short but impactful live breathwork session guided by our guest as you experience this potent practice first hand and realise its potential in facilitating self-mastery. If listening in your car, please pull over and park safely while listening to the session. Last, but not least, you will get to see the parallel drawn between strategic breathwork and business growth strategy. Learn about the discipline and dedication required in breathwork that mirrors the commitment necessary for ongoing business growth and expansion.

In the ninth episode of The Will to Win show, we're privileged to have a candid conversation with Dating & Relationship Coach Cristina Davy, the founder of the Love Map Dating & Relationship Program and host of the Hot & Spicy Podcast. After taking part in countless personal development courses and overcoming her own heartbreak, Cristina has become a vessel of hope for those who may be struggling to find their Soulmate. During the episode Cristina unveils the ideal traits a woman seeks in a man, and the critical role of clear, transparent, open communication in any relationship. Listen as Cristina passionately describes the changing gender dynamics and the innate desires of men and women, highlighting the importance of listening, being present, and asking the right questions. Deeply exploring the stark differences between men and women in relationships, we clear the fog around these differences that often lead to misunderstandings and provide a roadmap for navigating these effectively. We touch on various elements, including the distinctive communication styles between genders, the significance of genuine presence, and the importance of making meaningful compliments. Further, we illuminate the varying perspectives about pace in relationships, the pressure of appearing confident without seeming desperate, and how to assess and approach your partner's readiness for commitment. By shedding light on how men and women perceive sex and intimacy differently, we aim to clear any misconceptions around intentions and expectations. We also focus on the importance of emotional connection for women and the confusion that arises when there's a gap between being considerate and being ready for commitment. The discussion wraps up by emphasizing the significance of shared goals in a relationship and the role of financial stability in partner preference, underscoring that it's not about materialism, but a desire for security. Join us in this enlightening discussion, with Cristina Davy, where we delve into the complexities and unspoken dynamics of relationships. Cristina helps us understand how societal conditioning and expectations influence our desires in a partner and the potential downsides of a traditional gender role-based relationship. She also explores 'standards' in relationships, discussing why some women might have high expectations in their search for the right partner. Last but not least, Cristina talks about making compromises, meeting selection criteria’s, understanding values, the importance of finding the right balance between physical attraction and personality in relationships and how to show up for your partner. Providing a fresh perspective on modern-day relationships, this episode provides a treasure trove of enlightening information for both singles and those who are already in a relationship.

I was honoured to have the opportunity to interview Mindset Coach Kevin Paulraj over the Christmas holidays in 2023. Kevin has been featured by news outlets like Business Insider, Yahoo News & New York Weekly and is a mindset expert renowned for coaching thousands globally via his keynotes and life & business programs. During my interview with Kevin he discusses: The four things that help people to build a bulletproof mindset, purpose and why you exist, discipline, doing what you say, developing self-love, the power of alchemy to turn things around, maintaining consistency, values that are most important to us, verse those that are least important, breakthrough procrastination, things that inspire you, natural flow, living authentically, expressing your true self, standing up for yourself and taking charge, the response in the middle, the little voice in your head, using your intuition to push past your ego, non-attachment to the result, mastering self-love, the mind broken up into parts, self-judgement, staying calm and collected in the midst of a crisis, mindset shifting, adjusting to suffering, leveraging our obstacles, being resilient, turning problems into solutions, learning to laugh at your problems, personal productivity, the elements of productivity, giving yourself mini challenges, and using the streaks app to track your daily habits. Some of the key insights that Kevin shared throughout the interview include: Pride comes before the fall. Anytime you go into pride you’ll experience a consequence. The game is about keeping yourself in the middle being as authentic and centred as you possibly can. When you lie to yourself and you want to do things for the accolades, then you end up being inauthentic and it takes you a longer time to master something. Now when you’re saying, I don’t like another part of myself, what you are doing is you’re judging yourself. And when you’re judging yourself, that’s the antithesis of self-love. People can look at one situation and say it’s the worst thing ever but someone else can look at the same situation and say it’s the best thing ever and the only thing that makes the difference is the question that they choose to ask. The only difference between the levels is the is how many benefits that you see, and the more benefits you see of how the negative situation is serving you, is how resilient you’re going to be. When a situation hits us, that’s reality, you can’t resist it. The obstacle is the way, our obstacles, our challenges, our suffering is the way, because that’s what builds our character, that’s what helps us become the person we need to be to go & achieve our dreams. When you’re able to see that the traits that you want, the person that you want, the character that you want, is only going to be built by suffering, then it’s so much easier in the midst of suffering to look at a situation no matter how bad it is to see how it is serving us because it always is.

It was an honour to have the opportunity to interview Sebastian Bates, not only a friend, but also someone I look up to, admire and see an incredible role model for the next generation of children and young people looking to develop their moral compass as they endeavour to navigate their way through the day to day challenges of life. Sebastian Bates is the Founder of The Warrior Academy, an Entrepreneur, Mentor, Best Selling Author of the book, The Warrior Method, and host of the, “The Warrior Academy Podcast.” With a strong background in martial arts Sebastian launched a Martial Arts club in 2011 and Within 8 years it became a 7 figure, global organisation with 5,000 training, voted top 5 in the UK. By 2020 Sebastian was living in Dubai as the Personal trainer to the Royal Family and had launched a Global Anti Bullying campaign “Not A Victim,” which is regularly featured in the national press/radio. During this episode I interview Sebastian about character development, self-discipline, parenting, ant-bullying, empowering children, protection verse over-protection, how to nurture your children, empowering children to become independent, preparing your child for adult life, the most important trait of parenting, getting through bullying, addressing negative attitudes towards bullying, developing your courage muscle, the three zones comprised of the comfort-zone, protection-zone, and the high performance-zone, dealing with hyper anxiety, and building resilience. Some key points that were made included: If the child is in the comfort-zone, the parents are in the comfort zone. Parents need to step outside their comfort-zone first, and then encourage their child to follow them outside of it, then encourage them to do it on their own. This is how children move from the comfort-zone into the high performance-zone. When a child is in the high performance-zone, it’s when they do something that is within their ability, but feels uncomfortable. It’s in the arena of parenting that you really find out a lot about yourself and you have to learn how to live unselfishly. It’s a journey of self-discovery, just like Martial Arts. We talk about Sebastian’s first gig as a Personal Trainer at the age of 19 running an Inner City Thai Boxing Club, the struggles that come with having no moral compass to guide you and lack of character, planting black belt seeds of good conduct, resilience, higher confidence, self-esteem, self-love, concentration, respect courtesy, integrity, moral values and good character. Sebastian’s own unique story, living a life of adventure, taking huge risks pursuing base jumping around the world, while teaching martial arts in-between, how he escaped death and overcame the odds of never being able to walk again after a horrific wingsuit crash. While all this was going on, he ended up losing 15 of his closest friends doing the same sport that he loved. As this was happening, the Doctors treating him, believed he would remain disabled for the rest of his life and were shocked to see him make a full recovery. Some final key points that were made included: True fulfilment in life comes from serving others. Service through sacrifice leads to true fulfilment. Life is not about chasing happiness, part of the human experience isn’t just about happiness, since it is like a fleeting emotion that you transition through. The point of the human experience, is experiencing fulfilment and fulfilment is not a fleeting moment. The happiest people on earth are the people who make the greatest contribution to humanity and the more you impact people, the more you empower them, and ultimately the more fulfilled you become. If you can create a business which exists for a reason beyond making money, then suddenly you’re putting yourself in a position where you can have the worst financial year ever, but from an impact point of view, you might have had the best year ever.

It was an absolute pleasure to have the opportunity to interview my friend Adnan Rasool, a world class Blogger who has studied philosophy, psychology, spirituality, relationships and financial IQ for over a decade and has excelled in the investment management and superannuation industry helping Australians create long term investment strategies to enable them to retire comfortably and live life on their own terms. The wisdom offered in this episode is next level and I’m certain you’ll get a tone of value from it. In part 1 of this episode, we discuss how your values impact your life choices, break down your values hierarchy, understand how to become consciously aware of what your values are and avoid compromising them. In part 2, we discuss how our values and life choices impact our financial outcomes, what we can do to enhance our financial IQ, how to better manage our habits around money, and develop the emotional discipline that is required to become a brilliant investor. Key points that stood out with regards to mastering our Values included: There is always an opportunity cost of you doing anything. Health is the only actual wealth and you build everything on top of it. No amount of amazing relationships or money matters if you don’t have health. Cognitive dissonance means that if the behaviour does not match the value, either the belief has to change or the behaviour has to change. A good experience changes the way you do things, an amazing experience changes the way you think and that is priceless. Self-awareness is the root of all self-improvement. Key points that stood out with regards to mastering our Financial IQ included: Financial IQ means that you have the freedom to choose how you spend your time and you have the freedom to liberate yourself. Financial literacy in Australia is one of the lowest in the World, the financial literacy gap between women and men is quite large. Only 36% of corporate workers in Australia are certain about their retirement 75% of all suicides in Australia are adult men which is more often than not due to financial stress. 40% of suicide attempts in Australia have been due to financial stress. Money doesn’t solve problems, intelligence solves problems, you have to be smarter than money to make it work for you. Money and pleasure are very cruel masters. There is no point making money if you’re going to blow it. You must be willing to analyse your spending habits. Cynics always criticize, winners analyse, a pearl of wisdom from Rich Dad, Poor Dad. It is better to be nerd who has financial freedom rather than to be a rockstar who is homeless. Freedom from fear and greed is true freedom. There is only two ways to have enough, one is to seek more and more and the other is to be happy with less Disclaimer: This is not investment and/or personal advice and the content of this article is of general nature – as per financial regulator’s (ASIC) classification. Seek financial advice which is tailored to your circumstances, purpose, needs, return/risk preferences and don’t wants which usually defines the wants. To find out more about the host of the Will to Win Podcast, follow him on Instagram stevescarnie https://www.instagram.com/stevescarnie/ or even on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@stevescarnie?lang=en To find out more about Adnan’s blog, feel free to check out his website https://adnan-rasool.com/ or follow the socialinsanityblog on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/socialinsanityblog/

In this episode, I talk to Dr Vincent Candrawinata about the story behind his life altering health products and what led him to start his own health food supplement company in his pursuit to provide people with the optimum amount of antioxidant absorption within the human body. Through his company Revonatio which is endorsed by Coles & Woolworths, Vincent is committed to helping people live happier and healthier, so they can create what he likes to call a new life, one that empowers people to be able to create optimum health. Some of the key takeaways from this episode include: 1 - The majority of antioxidant supplements in the market only have an absorption rate of 3-5% but with Vincent's technology, his products have an absorption rate that goes all the way up to 97%. 2 - Before Dr Vincent came along, antioxidants were basically just promoted & marketed as just a beauty function or anti-aging substance but antioxidants do a lot more. They can help our body to be healthier and reduce the inflammation rate. 3 - You can't expect your body to function at an optimal level when you're feeding it nothing but junk food. Sometimes supplements are needed to supplement your life, your health & your nutritional requirements. 4 - You need to look after yourself so that you can look after other people in your life. This is since, if you're not feeling good about yourself, you're usually not in a good position to be able to look after anyone else. 5 - It's important to have good body posture throughout your day, since, whenever you slouch, your lung capacity is reduced by up to 30%. This means that your body is functioning with 30% less oxygen. As we work through the episode, topics of discussion include, physical strength, healthy living, mental & emotional well-being, surgery, walking, academics, science, biology, physiology, entrepreneurship, having the right heart, the law of attraction, contribution to the community, and embracing your vision. Product creation & development, higher education, The University of Newcastle, apple trees, antioxidants, essential nutrients, nutrient content, Australian apples, potency & absorption of antioxidants, PHD research, the downside of chemical solvents, disease, health issues, inflammation, and immunity. Creating a healthy diet, fruit & vegetable consumption, healthy food, the love-hate relationship with food, improving your relationship with food, meal preparation, saving money by preparing your own food, exercise, movement, smart watch, counting your steps, accountability, nutritional intake, drinking juice and taking supplements. Social media management, self-love, self-image, personal appearance, imperfection, looking after your mental health, leading my example, being positive, how to become selfless, metabolism, weight gain, weight loss, body image, eating habits, burning calories, lean body mass, asking for help & surrounding yourself with the right people. Sleep patterns, caffeine, coffee intake, priority management, daily tasks, duties & responsibilities, journaling your lessons, personal productivity, mobile phone habits, sleep deprivation and breathing patterns.

Nicole Burska goes into detail about the mind and body connection and how it impacts our health and relationships and shares her own personal journey from being broken to making a complete recovery. She now uses the lessons she has learnt along the way to help others overcome the same kinds of things that she herself went through. Some of the key take aways include: - When you start to improve your mental health, your digestion will improve and when your digestion improves, so does your mental health. - Physical touch, comfort, love, nurture, and warmth is more important than food. Our relationships proceed before our need to consume and digest food. - Parents who provide strong relationship stability as a child set their children up to become stable adults, while neglectful parents usually result in children becoming unstable as an adult. - Being vulnerable, opening up, and acknowledging the past pain and trauma that you experienced as a child growing up can lead to healing once you start to uncover the layers that have been repressed. In this episode Nicole talks about how the skin affects the body, improving body function without needing to resort to prescription drugs, how the quality of your relationships can enhance your mental health, how mental health impacts your digestion, understanding the gut/brain connection, how stress impacts your appetite, understanding the link between your mental health, relationships, digestion and hormones, how hormones impact your body functions, and stress management. Making sure your social circles are strong, rebuilding your relationships with friends, family work colleagues and so on, the power of emotional touch, the monkey experiment, why comfort and warmth is important, why humans need to feel comforted and socially fulfilled, how to meet your biological needs, what connections contribute to our survival and well-being, understanding the sympathetic & parasympathetic nervous system, dealing with trauma, and adverse childhood experiences. Addressing depression, childhood relationships, why having genuinely good parents is detrimental to a child's long-term mental health & well-being, relationship psychology, social skills, emotional intelligence, finding role models, managing conflict, processing feelings, embracing your emotions, acknowledging your pain and working through it, using a journal to process past emotions that hurt you, and how naming your emotions can help you recognise them. Committing to change, breakthrough, how to surrender, becoming aware of your self destructive patterns and behaviours, how to work through your layers of pain and unresolved conflict, making better life choices, learning what contributes to making you feel good, and creating habits that support your ongoing growth and development.

In this episode Edward Zia discusses how to use Linkedin effectively, why LinkedIn has become the platform of choice for business people, creating high value content, branding, getting exposure, expanding your social influence, and client conversion strategies, how to become more likeable, increase your following, embrace authentic business practices, increase your social attraction, create social proof, adding more value, flying with Virgin Airlines, booking flights, flying business class, copyright laws for content creation, and video production, relationship building, networking, conflict resolution, dealing with toxic people, haters and trolls and last but not least, choosing to stay positive in the midst of our storms.

In this episode Rik Schnabel discusses techniques for personal change, increasing your energy, raising your vibration, altering your attitude, overcoming problems, achieving breakthroughs, self-empowerment, creating a winning mindset, teamwork, coaching and fulfilling your mission.

This episode covers topics including self-love, self-esteem, confidence building, self-empowerment, being present, self-awareness and living your true authentic self.