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Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss whether or not you ask waiters for their opinions on the menu, and parenting strategies in bringing up "the birds and the bees." We also read a submission from someone who thinks she may want to be an F Boy. As a single divorced mother, her life is very fulfilled. Except for one thing–sex. She doesn't want a relationship, and is wondering how to fulfill her sex life while still being a good parent. We then get to our callers. Our first caller is moving in with her ex who won't speak to her. In a few weeks, she'll be studying abroad through her grad program, and living in a house with 20 other students, including her ex who hates her. Our second caller's person left to find herself in London. Fresh off the devastating breakup from someone she dated for a year, and has known since they've been children, she's unsure whether to keep the friendship in the hope of rekindling one day, or cutting off communication. Our final callers have been in a 6 year long-distance situationship and can't seem to fully commit or break it off. He is currently in a relationship, but they plan to see each other this weekend. They don't want to cross that line, but can't seem to cut ties fully with each other. "We have to prioritize the quality of someone wanting to be with us." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Zocdoc - Go to http://www.Zocdoc.com/VIALL and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. HelloFresh - Visit http://www.HelloFresh.com/50viall and use code 50viall for 50% off plus free shipping. Helix - Helix is offering 25% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows by going to HelixSleep.com/VIALL and use code HELIXPARTNER25. OneSkin - Listeners can get 15% off OneSkin with our code VIALL at http://www.oneskin.co. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special "where are they now" update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what's happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. We bring on our first caller whose boyfriend was faking his orgasms. We encouraged her to initiate a conversation surrounding sex, and find out if her towels are still bone dry, or if he was able to confront the issue. Our second caller was wondering whether she should shoot her shot with someone who ghosted her two years ago. She was going to be in his area, and we urged her to reach out just to see. We see what his response was, or if he ghosted yet again. Our third caller had originally called in regarding a text requesting a "romantic tryst" with her, but has since started to date women and exhibit some toxic dating habits. She calls in this time after reconnecting with her ex and realizing she may be addicted to drama. We also have some written updates - Our caller whose boyfriend had an ex wife from hell, our caller who was turned off by her partner's lack of ambition, and our caller who was debating firing the bridesmaid that cheated on her brother. To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers: Original Episode numbers for callers: Episode Number: 605 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Fakes His Org*sms Episode Number 616 Going Deeper with Jojo Siwa - Growing Up Famous, Pet Peeves, and Shooting Your Shot Episode Number 575 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 7 (First appeared on Episode Number 545 Francesca Farago - Likable Villain Gone Bad) Original Episode numbers for written updates: Episode Number: 598 Ask Nick - His Ex Wife Filed a Restraining Order Against Me Episode Number: 598 Ask Nick - His Ex Wife Filed a Restraining Order Against Me Episode Number: 610 Going Deeper with Scott Evans - The Barbie Movie, Childhoods, and Nick's Lake House Update "People are very attracted to someone who can demonstrate self control." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://www.viallfiles.supportingcast.fm Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! Today we are joined by friend of show Teddi Mellencamp to dive into all things pop culture and reality TV - we first get her thoughts on the four-part Rachel Leviss podcast with Bethenny Frankel. We also talk about Scooter Braun being dropped by his largest clients, Taylor Swift and her impersonator both creating chaos, and Ariana Grande releasing new music. We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who is a new mom and struggling to establish boundaries with one of her friends, who continues to grab, hold, and feed her baby without her permission. "This was a W for Bethenny and an L for Rachel." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Vuori - Vuori is an investment in your happiness. For our listeners they are offering 20% off your first purchase. Get yourself some of the most comfortable and versatile clothing on the planet at https://www.vuori.com/VIALL Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine, and spirits, with delivery to your door when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com Lily's Garden - Download Lily's Garden for free today on iOS and Android and discover how many mysteries and romance one garden can hold! Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @teddimellencamp @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! We are joined by Justin Glaze to break down the finale of The Bachelorette. We first speak with Justin and Natalie about current pop culture moments - such as Rachel's three part interview with Bethenney Frankel, and Dax Shepard feeling financially anxious. We then dive into Charity's finale - from sending Aaron B home to choosing Dotun to Joey as our new Bachelor (with an audience member joining his season). We finally ask Justin about his dating life and get to the bottom of why he's single. "I am not that easy." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Aura - Aura is offering our listeners a 14 day trial plus a free check of your data, visit https://www.Aura.com/VIALL FabFitFun - Create your box now at https://www.FabFitFun.com/VIALL EveryPlate - Get $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.EveryPlate.com/podcast and enter code 49viall. Rakuten - Start shopping at https://www.Rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @[email protected] @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss August Birthdays (spoiler alert–two members of the Household have birthdays coming up), and if it's simply too hot to have sex in the summer. We also read a submission from someone who is trying to have a "Sex Goddess Summer." She wants to know how to toe the line between having casual sex, and not being treated like an object. We then get to our callers. Our first caller is engaged, but has changed her mind about having kids. Her fiance really wants children, but she's worried she may not want them on his timeline, or at all. Our second caller is not ready to move in with her boyfriend. After only 6 months of dating, she's worried moving in already would seem too soon to friends and family. Our final caller wants to save her parent's marriage. Her father recently cheated on her mom, but refuses to talk about it, so our caller is wondering how to get through his emotional stonewalling and see if she can repair the damages to her family. "Shame is a powerful tool." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Article - Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more by visiting http://www.Article.com/VIALL. BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Grammarly - Go to http://www.Grammarly.com/GO to download for FREE today. Care/Of - For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to http://www.TakeCareof.com and enter code viall50. Blueland - Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to http://www.Blueland.com/VIALL. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we sit down to talk about Rachel's first interview since Scandoval, and what she had to share about why she made her decisions and the growth she's had since. Then, we are joined by Ciara Miller and Maya Allen from Summer House to talk about their time filming, what they thought about Tom Schwartz and Tom Sandoval on Winter House, their friendship, and their dating lives. We also have a Texting Office Hours caller who is hoping to ask a guy out on a date - but just saw that he unmatched her on Hinge. "I would rather be alone than be uncomfortable." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine, and spirits, with delivery to your door when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com Beis - Right now, BÉIS is offering our listeners 15% off your first purchase by visiting https://www.BEISTRAVEL.com/VIALL Sundays For Dogs - We worked out a special deal for our dog-loving listeners. Get 35% off your first order of Sundays. Go to https://www.SundaysForDogs.com/VIALL or use code VIALL at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @ciaramiller___ @myallen @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! We are joined by Emma Slater to break down this week's episode of The Bachelorette. We first speak with Emma about Dancing With The Stars and cover pop culture topics and celebrities such as Harry Styles, Kevin Costner, and Rachel Zegler. We discuss the Men Tell All drama - from the men posting cryptic messages in their Instagram captions, to Xavier having to confront Charity after their infidelity conversation, to Brayden giving Jesse earrings. We also cover the reveal of our Golden Bachelor Gerry and our initial thoughts of the season. "It's hard for me to lean on people, because I feel like a burden." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Brooklinen - Use promo code VIALL for $20 off your online purchase of $100 or more plus free shipping on https://www.Brooklinen.com. IQ Bar - This episode is brought to you by IQBAR. Now get twenty percent off every IQBar product, plus free shipping when you text FILES to sixty four thousand (64-000). Nutrafol - Take the first step to visibly thicker, healthier hair. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to https://www.Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code THEVIALLFILES. Quince - Upgrade your closet this summer with Quince. Right now, go to https://www.Quince.com/viall to get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @theemmaslater @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss what your favorite color says about your love life. Are you a wonderful lover? Or emotionally detached? We dive into all the colors of the rainbow and more. We also read a submission from someone who's boyfriend still hasn't said "I love you" after three years of dating. We then get to our callers. Our first caller is catching feelings for her prison pen pal. After coming across his videos on TikTok, they've been messaging and video-chatting for months. She now has the opportunity to visit him in-person in jail, and is wondering if she should follow through or not. Our second caller is worried she'll get back together with her revenge situationship. Her ex-husband is getting re-married soon, and it looks like everything is going right for him. She's anxious her jealousy and loneliness will drive her back into the arms of her toxic ex, and is wondering how to overcome these feelings. Our final callers are getting married in a month, and just had their matron of honor and best man dump them. The dumping seemingly came out of nowhere, and they're not sure if they're the problem or not. "Is this Drama Me or Healthy Me?" Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Canva - Right now, you can get a 45-day extended trial when you go to Canva.me/viall. Hello Fresh - Go to http://www.HelloFresh.com/50viall and use code 50VIALL for 50% off plus free shipping. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent (and mother-to-be) Natalie Joy to share some exciting news about her pregnancy. We also touch on some pop culture news such as Vanderpump Rules Season 11 and celebrity sightings at the Tour. Then, we are joined by Bobby Berk to talk about interior design, his marriage, and various jobs he's been fired from before his career took off. We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who was submitted by her daughter to talk about an upcoming date. "Chaos around you creates chaos in your mind." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HelloFresh - Go to https://www.HelloFresh.com/50viall and use code 50viall for 50% off plus free shipping! HelloFresh: America's #1 Meal Kit Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine, and spirits, with delivery to your door when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com Rocket Money - Stop wasting money on things you don't use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions – and manage your money the easy way – by going to https://www.RocketMoney.com/VIALL Lume Deodorant - As a special offer for listeners, new customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code VIALL at LumeDeodorant.com. That equates to over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit https://www.LumeDeodorant.com and use code VIALL. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @bobby @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! We are joined by Elizabeth Wagmeister to break down this week's episode of The Bachelorette. We discuss Charity's Fantasy Suites in Fiji, and the shocking twists of Xavier being sent home and Aaron showing back up. We also discuss other reality television headlines and pop culture topics, such as Taylor Swift's Eras Tour, Bethenny Frankel advocating for reality TV stars, and Lizzo's dancers coming out with allegations against her. "This was all the producers' magic." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Caraway - Visit https://www.Carawayhome.com/VIALL to get 10% off your next purchase. Article Furniture - Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit https://www.ARTICLE.COM/VIALL and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout. Care/Of - For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and enter code viall50. Wooga: June's Journey - Discover your inner detective when you download June's Journey for free today on iOS and Android. OneSkin - Get 15% off with the code VIALL at https://www.oneskin.co Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @ewagmeister @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the Women's World Cup, a woman who turned down an ice cream date for being the "bare-minimum," and the deadly power of icks. We then get to our callers. Our first caller has been dating someone for a month, and she's worried she's becoming emotionally abusive. She's toeing the line between asking for what she wants and demanding unrealistic expectations, and isn't sure what is too much. Our second caller is three months post break-up and is wondering whether he should reach out and fight for her. After his 8-year relationship ended, he's not ready to give up, and wants to know if and how he can save what he's lost. Our final caller's best friend has been cheating on her boyfriend, and she's not sure what to do. She loves her friend, and is worried about her friend group of enablers, but can't stand by and watch her exhibit this toxic behavior. "Just because you're sad, doesn't make them special." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Rakuten - Go to http://www.Rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today. Helix Sleep - Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for our listeners. Go to HelixSleep.com/VIALL. Zocdoc - Go to http://www.Zocdoc.com/VIALL and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we discuss the season two cast of Special Forces, including our very own, Nick Viall! We also dive into the recent developments in Ariana Grande's new relationship, more toy movies from Mattel, and Harry Styles' "Olivia" tattoo. Then, we are joined by new RHONY housewife, Sai De Silva to talk about joining the franchise, how to keep the spark alive, and her content creation career. We also ask her about her castmates, emotional affairs, and friendship pet peeves. We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who is always the one to initiate dates with the guy she's seeing, and she's wondering if she's just not getting the hint. "What if your husband thumbs-upped your nude?" Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Shopify - Sign up for a $1-a-month trial period at http://www.Shopify.com/viall. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @scoutthecity @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! We are joined by Susie Evans to break down this week's episode of The Bachelorette. We go through our four hometown dates–Who's family did we love the most, which Uncle totally outshined all other family members, and if "That's a good question," is actually a kiss of death. We debate who we think will be her final rose pick and who will be the next Bachelor. We also discuss other reality television headlines and pop culture topics, such as Ariana Grande not being a girl's girl, Taylor Swift's seismic activity in Seattle, and if Travis Scott's new song is shading Timothée Chalamet. "I don't think in the history of the show anyone's parents made any difference." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: IQ Bar - This episode is brought to you by IQBAR. Now get twenty percent off every IQBar product, plus free shipping when you text FILES to sixty four thousand (64-000). Aura.com - For a limited time, Aura is offering our listeners a 14 day trial plus a check of your data to see if your personal information has been leaked online, all for FREE when you visit https://Aura.com/VIALL True Classic - Get 25% OFF @trueclassic with promo code VIALL at https://trueclassictees.com/VIALL! #trueclassicpod Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @susiecevans @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @liffordthebigreddog @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the surprisingly high percentage of doctors and nurses that cheat on their partners, and whether or not you should give up your seat on an airplane so families can sit together. We then read a written submission–Our writer is in a new relationship with a gentleman, a rarity for her after a string of toxic men. However, she recently ran into said toxic ex, and is worried she'll fall back into old patterns and ruin things with her new guy by re-exploring her past. Then, we get to our callers. Our first caller was ghosted three times by someone who conned her out of over $1,000, but she can't stop thinking about what they could have been. This mutual friend, who she never actually met in person, convinced her to send him money to invest in stocks. After three years, she's not sure if she'll ever see that money, or him. Our second caller's partner's situational health issues have been affecting her attraction to him. She has been very patient, but doesn't feel he's putting as much effort into being his best self as she is into supporting him. She's not sure on how to get through to him on this topic. Our final caller took back her boyfriend after he proposed to her when they were broken up, but is questioning her sanity now. She wants to end the relationship, again, but is worried about taking away a father figure for her children. "You have created a fantasy in your head about this guy." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Grammarly - Go to http://www.Grammarly.com/GO to download and learn more about GrammarlyGO. BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Blueland - Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to http://www.Blueland.com/VIALL Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special "where are they now" update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what's happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. We bring on our first caller who had a pattern of dates ending abruptly after blowjobs. We advised her to take more time in order to get to know her dates before hooking up. She recently went on a first date, so we find out how it went and if she was able to be more selfish in the bedroom. Our second caller was interested in a girl who kept flaking. We learn if she's taken our advice of leaning back and letting her reach out, and if their relationship has progressed beyond noncommittal texts. Our third caller was in love with two guys. She had an emotional connection with one and a sexual chemistry with the other. We find out if she's still acting on her f boy tendencies or if she's finally chosen a guy to commit to. We also have some written updates - Our caller who had a failed third attempt at a father figure, our caller who wasn't sure if it was a deal breaker that her hinge date was allergic to her dog, and our caller who was having trouble with her brother-in-law. To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers: Original Episode numbers for callers: Episode Number: 582 Ask Nick - Blowjobs Are Ending My Dates Episode Number 578 Going Deeper - Vanderpump Finale, Prenups, Met Gala and Ronny Woo Episode Number 589 Ask Nick - My Husband Isn't Empathetic Original Episode numbers for written updates: Episode Number: 566 Ask Nick - My BFF Flirts With My Husband Episode Number: 523 Going Deeper with Dr. Maya Shankar - Keeping New Year's Resolutions With Science Episode Number: 600 Going Deeper with Justin Long - Plus Wedding Updates, Harry & Meghan Drama and Bebe Rexha Trauma "As inconvenient as people find boundaries, they find them equally as attractive." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://www.viallfiles.supportingcast.fm Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we discuss current pop culture topics such as a woman being contacted by Playboy after throwing her bra on stage at a Drake concert, Raven Symone actually having visions in her real life, and Ed Sheeran performing karaoke at a local bar. Then, we are joined by JoJo Siwa to catch up on all things career, family, and romantic relationships. Nick asks hard questions such as something JoJo feels misunderstood about, her coming out and public dating journey, and where things stand with Candace Cameron Bure. We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who is debating shooting her shot with a guy who ghosted her two years ago. "I want to complain with JoJo Siwa for ten minutes." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Beis - Right now, BÉIS is offering our listeners 15% off your first purchase by visiting https://www.BEISTRAVEL.com/VIALL Miracle Brand - Upgrade your sleep with Miracle Made! Go to https://www.TryMiracle.com/VIALL and use the code VIALL to claim your FREE 3 PIECE TOWEL SET and SAVE over 40% OFF. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @itsjojosiwa @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! We are joined by Andrew Spencer to break down this week's episode of The Bachelorette - we see our first two on one date, and learn that while Xavier is sure he wants to get engaged and be married, he's not sure if it's with Charity or not. We also ask Andrew exactly what is happening with all of the Andrew, Susie, and Justin content we've been seeing online. "I've never seen someone whine their way to hometowns." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine and spirits, with delivery to your doorstep right when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com FabFitFun - If you join FabFitFun as a NEW seasonal member right now you'll also get 20% off your membership so your 1st box is only $47.99 - for up to a $300 value box each season. But only while supplies last - FabFitFun boxes sell out! Join FabFitFun today and save at https://www.FabFitFun.com/VIALL Paramount - Your Great Reality Escape is with Paramount Plus. Stream Now. HexClad - Some would say that Gordon Ramsay is the toughest critic in the world, and these are the pots and pans he uses. Get 10% off with the code VIALL at hexclad.com That's 10% off https://www.hexclad.com with code VIALL. Bon Appetit, Let's Eat with Hexclad's revolutionary cookware. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @andrewzspencer @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @liffordthebigreddog @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we have an Ask Nick session with our very own, Addison, a part-time editor on the show. She is currently in a long-distance situationship, which is strictly forbidden for members on the show, so we learn about the relationship and offer advice on how to get what she wants. Our first caller is concerned about her dating habit of getting into relationships with men who have girlfriends. After finding out for a second time that the guy she was seeing had a secret girlfriend, she seeks advice on how to stop this pattern that's developing and how to spot red flags. Our second caller just got divorced and is contemplating taking a European vacation with a guy friend that has feelings for her. She's wondering if this decision is unhinged considering her recent divorce. Our final caller found Mr. Right, but thinks he's unattractive. She's never met a guy who understands or treats her the way he does, but is worried his hairiness is something she can't look past. "It's a lot easier to change how a guy dresses, than how he treats you." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Vuori - Vuori is offering 20% off your first purchase by visiting http://www.vuori.com/VIALL. Viacom - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Nutrafol - For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to http://www.Nutrafol.com and enter promo code VIALLFILES. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman @addi.oconnor

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we discuss current pop culture topics such as Olivia Rodrigo's new song and "professional friends" in LA, along with Skims saving a woman's life and what Matt Damon and his wife agreed on in couple's therapy. We also ask if you would rather have your text messages shared online, or have an ex write a song about you. Then, we are joined by Gina Kirschenheiter from The Real Housewives of Orange County to talk about this season's drama, her relationships with her castmates, and how she is navigating her personal relationships with her partner and ex-husband. We dive into pop culture topics like Miranda Lambert stopping a show to selfie-shame, and Sofia Vergara's divorce announcement. We also discuss Bebe Rexha posting screenshots of her boyfriends' texts, and if that's ever okay (during or after a relationship). We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who isn't sure if her long term best friend is either protective or manipulative - she's made some judgemental comments about her ex, the city she lives in, and the choices she's making. "Is Jenn a mid-40s Pick Me?" Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine and spirits, with delivery to your doorstep right when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com Brooklinen - Use promo code VIALL for $20 off your online purchase of $100 or more plus free shipping on https://www.Brooklinen.com Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Rocket Money - Stop throwing your money away. Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to https://www.RocketMoney.com/VIALL Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @ginakirschenheiter @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! We are joined by Manon Matthews to talk about all things reality TV and pop culture - including Nick's weekend with Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes, Vanderpump Season 11 filming, The Golden Bachelor reveal, and a potential dark side to Sean McLaughlin's family. Then we break down Episode 4 of Charity's season - did Brayden deserve to go home, or was he actually speaking the truth? And who is more likely to win Charity's heart - Dotun or Xavier? "She's a f*ckboy magnet." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: IQ Bar - This episode is brought to you by IQBAR. Now get twenty percent off every IQBar product, plus free shipping when you text FILES to sixty four thousand (64-000). Lume Deodorant - Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code VIALL at https://www.lumedeodorant.com/viall #lumepod Paramount - Your Great Reality Escape is with Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Sundays For Dogs - We worked out a special deal for our dog-loving listeners. Get 35% off your first order of Sundays. Go to https://www.SundaysForDogs.com/VIALL or use code VIALL at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @manonmathews @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @liffordthebigreddog @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the Jonah Hill situation and the trend of people weaponizing "therapy-speak" for their own benefit. We also get into a written Ask Nick topic where our caller talks about struggling to have a healthy relationship with her boyfriend's family, with her partner putting pressure on her instead of stepping up. We then get to our callers. Our first caller is struggling to deal with her in-laws. After being with her now-husband for 9-years, she feels she knows his family incredibly well, and is frustrated that her father-in-law has been openly berating her. Our second caller's boyfriend recently broke up with her over text, claiming he's not ready for a real relationship. They said they'd check in throughout the summer and re-assess their relationship in a few months, and she's wondering if she should wait around or move on. Our final caller's long distance boyfriend recently told her he's losing feelings for her. She still loves and respects him, but doesn't feel as though she's being made a priority and isn't sure whether the relationship is salvageable after so much distance. "All this energy you're using thinking about him is energy you're taking away from yourself." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Hello Fresh - Go to http://www.HelloFresh.com/viall50 and use code viall50 for 50% off plus free shipping. Drizly - Download the Drizly app or go to http://www.Drizly.com. Helix - Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for our listeners! Go to www.HelixSleep.com/viall. Babbel - Get up to 55% off your subscription by going to http://www.Babbel.com/viall. Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we get an exciting update from Nick about how he was finally able to purchase the lake house that his grandfather built and give it back to his mom. Then, we are joined by Scott Evans to talk about his role in the upcoming Barbie movie, what filming was like, and his thoughts on Margot Robbie, Ryan Gosling, and Will Ferrell. We also ask him about his current relationships with his boyfriend and his siblings - and get some great childhood stories about his brother Chris. We then have a Sweating the Wedding caller who isn't sure if she should fire her bridesmaid after finding out she cheated on her brother - while the bride is pro-fire, her mother is adamantly against it. "My crazy partying antics finally got me a job!" Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Lume Deodorant - As a special offer for listeners, new customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code VIALL at https://www.LumeDeodorant.com Wondery - Follow Diss and Tell wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen ad-free on the Amazon Music or Wondery app. Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Blueland - Blueland has a special offer for listeners. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to https://www.Blueland.com/VIALL Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @scottevansgram @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Bachelor Recap Edition! We are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent Natalie Joy to break down the third episode of Charity's season. Brayden gets a 1:1 date that includes a helicopter through his hometown and landing in a baseball stadium, the group date is Barbie themed, and Warwick gets sent home after a failed date and lacking conversation. We discuss Charity debating keeping Brayden or if she should take his rose back, and if Jesse Palmer was actually moved to tears. "She's a sucker for a f*ckboy." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Article - Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit https://www.ARTICLE.COM/VIALL and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout. Kosas - Don't choose between wearing great makeup, and taking care of your skin. Right now, Kosas is offering our listeners 15% off your first purchase of $50 or more when you go to https://www.Kosas.com/VIALL Aura - For a limited time, Aura is offering our listeners a 14 day trial plus a check of your data to see if your personal information has been leaked online, all for FREE when you visit https://www.AURA.com/VIALL Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine and spirits, with delivery to your doorstep right when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com Paramount - Your Great Reality Escape is with Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the relationship milestone when you're finally allowed to bring your significant other on a family trip. Our first caller needs help on how to deal with her s*xting buddy after he sent her an unsolicited d*ck-in-hand shot. She wants to know how to end things, since he has her nudes on his phone. Our second callers are recently engaged and struggling to deal with an invasive mother/in-law. As a mother of an only child, she wants to know every detail of her son's life, but often twists the information to use against his fiance. The couple are unsure how to set boundaries, and make she follows through. Our final caller's boyfriend is frustrated that she's lost her sex drive after having their child. She would love to discuss this issue with a couple's counselor, but her partner is very resistant to go after a bad experience with an ex. "Mom likes the drama." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Caraway - Go to http://www.Carawayhome.com/VIALL to take advantage of 10% off your next purchase. BetterSleep - Download BetterSleep from your App Store or Google Play. ZocDoc - Go to http://www.Zocdoc.com/VIALL to download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we discuss the age old summertime question–Marry, F*ck, Kill…Lake, ocean, pool. Then, we are joined by life coach Marie Forleo who explains how to tell a legit life coach from a scammer, how to change your mindset, and how to learn to trust your body and learn to decipher what it's telling you. She also shares her advice for young professionals who feel stuck in their life and want to initiate a life change. Additionally, we are joined by a caller who had been blocked by a guy she was dating who had opposing desires on having children. After a recent reconsideration on having children, she wants to reach out again, but isn't sure how to connect with him. "The most important words are the ones we tell ourselves." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Béis - Go to http://www.BeisTravel.com/VIALL for 15% off your first purchase. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @marieforleo @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Bachelor Recap Edition! We are joined by friend of show Cathy Kelley to break down the second episode of Charity's season. We discuss Charity's first one-on-one and group dates. We get into what it means to be an MVP, Kiss Gate, and unique styling choices by one particular contestant. What men are already causing drama, and is Charity ignoring certain red flags? "In Bachelor Nation, to question Character is their C-word." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: IQBAR - Text FILES to 640-000 to get 20% off AND free shipping. Message and data rates may apply. See terms for details. Hello Fresh - Go to https://www.HelloFresh.com/VIALL50 and use code VIALL50 for 50% off plus free shipping. Paramount - Your Great Reality Escape is with Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @cathykelley @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss Goodnight Ettique between romantic partners. Should there be an expectation to receive and send a goodnight text? If so, at what stage in the relationship is that expectation established? We then share our Breakup Song of the Week. Our first caller recently discovered her boyfriend flipped the script and has been faking his orgasms. She isn't sure how to broach the topic without making him feel even more insecure. Our second caller can't understand why she keeps getting ghosted by her close female friends. This self-proclaimed "guy's girl" wants more female friendships, but can't figure out why these women keep cutting her out of their lives. Our final caller can't get over her dream guy - a 40-year old virgin who's waiting for marriage but can't seem to find the perfect woman to finally do it with. "He's a Christian trapped in a F*ck Boy's body." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Grammarly - Go to http://www.Grammarly.com/GO to download and learn more about GrammarlyGO. Helix Sleep - Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for our listeners. Go to http://www.HelixSleep.com/VIALL. Shopify - Sign up for a $1 a month trial period at http://www.shopify.com/viall. Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special "where are they now" update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what's happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. We bring on our first caller whose father broke up their family to date the woman his son had been interested in. After speaking with his father, was he able to mend the relationship, or had far too much happened to be able to repair the damage? Our second caller was considering firing her maid of honor in her wedding after feeling like she wasn't a priority. We find out if the MOH is still in the wedding and the status of their friendship. Our third caller was scared to break up with her boyfriend of nearly five years, since she knew he wouldn't see it coming. There had been many existing problems in their relationship, with the culminating incident being that he didn't want to go to a wedding with her where he wouldn't know anyone, making her feel like she wasn't fun enough to make his experience enjoyable. Did she finally have the courage to leave him? We also have some written updates - our caller who was trying to define her situationship, and our caller who was in love with her childhood best friend and wanted to know if he felt the same. To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers: Original Episode numbers for callers: Episode Number: 579 Ask Nick - My Dad Stole My Girlfriend Episode Number 555 Going Deeper with Kristen Doute - Ariana's Mouthpiece Episode Number 592 Ask Nick - I Need To Stop My Soulmate's Wedding Original Episode numbers for written updates: Episode Number: 601 Ask Nick - I'm Dating A Bad Kisser Episode Number 572 Ask Nick - Don't F*ck With Betty / Chemistry vs. Comfort "At the end of the day, he ain't coming to your kid's baptism." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://www.viallfiles.supportingcast.fm Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! Today we are joined by Rayna Greenberg and Ashley Hesseltine from Girls Gotta Eat to talk about their business and friendship. The two talk about crazy hookup stories, semi-nude live shows, and what they would say to Raquel if she was their friend. Then, we are joined by a Texting Office Hours caller who isn't sure how to save a relationship now that he thinks she's a witch. She sent him a letter explaining why she wasn't a witch, but he hasn't been convinced. "Everybody's body is like a different amusement park wonderland." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Paramount Plus - Embrace reality. Paramount Plus. Stream now. Rocket Money - Stop throwing your money away. Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to https://www.RocketMoney.com/VIALL Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @girlsgottaeatpodcast @rayna.greenberg @ashhess @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Bachelor Recap Edition! We are joined by Arden Myrin to break down the premiere episode of Charity's season. We talk about everything from the limo exits, to Charity's brother bartending, to her first impression rose recipient. Is Charity's picker off? Are we in for a season filled with drama? We discuss who we think is already a front runner for hometowns, Bachelor in Paradise, and the next Bachelor. "That was an advertisement for p*ssy." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: JuneShine - We've worked out a special offer for our listeners. At any store, you can buy 1 JuneShine package and get the 2nd for only a penny ($0.01). Go to https://www.JUNESHINE.com/VIALL text them a photo of your receipt, and they'll Venmo you immediately. It's that easy! Paramount Plus - Embrace reality. Paramount Plus. Stream now. OneSkin - Get 15% off with the code VIALL https://www.oneskin.co Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @ardenmyrin @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss our strong feelings towards Nick's new haircut. We then read an email from a listener who's moving in with her boyfriend. She's currently still paying rent in her old apartment, and wants to know how much is fair to divide the new rent with her boyfriend. Finally, we get our latest Breakup Song of the Week submission. Our first caller is dating a bad kisser and wants to know if men are teachable and capable of change. Our second caller needs help dealing with her brother's manipulative and toxic girlfriend so that her family won't lose him for good. Our final caller is ready to define her situationship after three months in, but isn't sure how to approach the conversation after a failed first attempt. "It's like training a dog. Men are pretty similar." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Helix Sleep - Go to https://www.HelixSleep.com/VIALL for 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows. Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent to discuss current headlines such as Meghan Markle's podcast being dropped from Spotify, Kelly Osbourne's commentary about Prince Harry, Bebe Rexha's concert injury, and Cyndi Lauper not being inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Then, we are joined by friend of show Justin Long to talk about everything from skydiving to childhood memories to love lives. He shares a glimpse into his marriage and what attracted him to his wife, and asks Nick some great questions about his relationship with Natalie. Finally, we have a Texting Office Hours caller who got in an argument with her brother in law and since then has been receiving the silent treatment. We sit down with her (and her husband) to create a plan of action. "I'm not good at many things, but I'm good at apologizing." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: IQ Bar - Now get twenty percent off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your twenty percent off, just text FILES to sixty-four thousand. Paramount Plus - Embrace reality. Paramount Plus. Stream now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @justinlong @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Freestyle Edition! Today we are joined by friend of show Eilise Guilfoyle and our Pop Culture Correspondent Natalie Joy to break down the second half of the Bachelor Bios for the upcoming season of The Bachelorette. "His favorite local eatery is Walmart." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: ShipStation - Get a 60-day free trial at https://www.shipstation.com/viall Thanks to ShipStation for sponsoring the show! Aura - For a limited time, Aura is offering our listeners a 14 day trial plus a check of your data to see if your personal information has been leaked online, all for FREE when you visit https://www.aura.com/viall Sundays For Dogs - We worked out a special deal for our dog-loving listeners. Get 35% off your first order of Sundays. Go to https://www.SundaysForDogs.com/VIALL or use code VIALL at checkout. Paramount Plus - Reality ain't so bad. Paramount Plus. Streaming now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @itseiliseguilfoyle @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the new 7 Love Languages. We then share the breakup song of the week. Our first caller is dating the man of her dreams, but has an ex-wife from hell. After multiple restraining orders from his ex, and outbursts from his teenage son, she isn't sure if the relationship is worth it. Our second caller is extremely motivated and turned off by her partner's lack of ambition. Our final caller is being pursued hard by a guy who never follows through. After hooking up with him once, he constantly reemerges in her life, often by sending very dated salacious pictures. "Your nude has dust on it." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - The Viall Files is sponsored by BetterHelp. Find more balance with BetterHelp. Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. June's Journey - Escape reality and immerse yourself in June's Journey. Download the free game today. Vuori - Enjoy 20% off your first purchase and free shipping on any US order over $75 with free returns by visiting https://www.Vuori.com/VIALL. Kosas - Don't choose between great makeup and taking care of your skin. Get 15% off your first purchase of $50 or more when you go to https://www.Kosas.com/VIALL. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent to discuss the latest Vanderpump episode of unseen footage from Season 10. Then, we are joined by Danielle Fishel Karp to talk about motherhood and parenting styles, how she feels about the viral birthday party debate, if she would want her children to work as actors, and what other careers she's considering later in life. Finally, we have a Sweating the Wedding caller who isn't sure how to support her sister, who has been engaged three times in the last four years. She wants to give her some tough love, but is afraid of losing their relationship altogether. "Kids pick up on everything." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Be Free By Danielle Fishel: https://www.befreebydaniellefishel.com/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Rothy's - For stylish and comfortable shoes, shop Rothy's. Get $20 off your first purchase at https://www.rothys.com/THEVIALL Canva - Collaborate with Canva for Teams! Right now, you can get a FREE 45-day extended trial when you go to canva.me/viall IQ Bar - Now get twenty percent off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your twenty percent off, just text FILES to sixty-four thousand. Paramount Plus - Embrace reality. Paramount Plus. Stream now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @daniellefishel @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Freestyle Edition! Today we are joined by friend of show Eilise Guilfoyle and our Pop Culture Correspondent Natalie Joy to break down the first half of the Bachelor Bios for the upcoming season of The Bachelorette. Who is vying for Charity's heart, what are their fun facts, and who do we immediately see as final rose material? We also dive into the Vanderpump Reunion aftermath, and what's been said since the explosive third part of the reunion episodes. "Why does Chris look like my server at Olive Garden?" Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: June's Journey - Can you crack the case? Download June's Journey for free today on iOS and Android. Juneshine - You can buy 1 JuneShine package and get the 2nd for only a penny ($0.01). Go to https://www.JUNESHINE.com/VIALL and text them a photo of your receipt, and they'll Venmo you immediately. It's that easy! Paramount Plus - Reality ain't so bad. Paramount Plus. Streaming now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @itseiliseguilfoyle @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss an update from our last Ask Nick with a caller whose soulmate is getting married to someone else. We also get into the horror that is Tuesdays, and why it may be the most dramatic day of the week. We then get our Breakup Song of the Week submission. Our first caller loves her current long-term partner, but is missing her sex-life with her ex. Our second caller's ex-turned-situationship recently cut her out of his life, and brought their friend group with him. Our final caller is considering ending a life-long friendship after her "best friend" started dating her crush. "It feels like it goes from zero to penetration really quickly." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - Visit http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. ZocDoc - Visit http://www.ZocDoc.com/VIALL to find and book a doctor today. Babbel - Get up to 55% off your subscription when you go to http://www.Babbel.com/viall. Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent Natalie Joy to talk about recent pop culture headlines, such as a woman who hired a hitman on the dark web to kill the new wife of a man she matched with on a dating site. Then, we get into the Vanderpump Reunion Finale. What did we think of the last five minutes, Tom saying that Ariana wore a T-Shirt when they hooked up, Raquel offering to be in a throuple with Ariana and Sandoval… the household is ready to offer their opinions. We finally have a Sweating the Wedding caller who needs help deciding who to walk her down the aisle - her dad or her step-dad. We encourage her to make a decision based on what she wants to do, rather than her mother. "Raquel apologized for lying, but not her actions." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Fast Growing Trees - Go to http://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/VIALL NOW to get 15% off your entire order. Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now. Rocket Money - Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to http://www.RocketMoney.com/VIALL. Manscaped - Get 20% + free shipping with the code VIALL at http://www.Manscaped.com. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Freestyle Edition! Today we are joined by LA Times Investigative Journalist, Amy Kaufman to discuss her expose on Randall Emmett and everything Scandoval. She shares behind the scenes information on writing the article, what was left out of Hulu's Documentary, The Randall Scandal, and what she's heard the big reveal in Part 3 of Vanderpump Rules reunion is all about. "If you have to push the narrative, I don't buy it." Raquel TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeminormcmanus/video/7239175685514759467 Amy's Articles: https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/00000188-35ac-db74-ab9d-37af84c70000-123 https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/randall-emmett-scandal-hulu-documentary-latt-123 Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Shipstation - Go to https://www.shipstation.com/viall for a free 60-day trial! BetterSleep - Improve your quality of life in as little as one week by downloading BetterSleep from your App Store or Google Play. Nutrafol - Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to https://nutrafol.com and enter the promo code VIALLFILES. Paramount - Paramount Plus has your great reality escape! Stream Paramount Plus now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @amykinla @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we read an email about lifestyle compatibility - our writer lives a fast paced life in the city and has been talking with a guy who lives a much quieter life an hour away. Is that a red flag, or a way to balance each other out? We then get our Breakup Song of the Week submission. Our first caller's soulmate is marrying someone else, and she wants to speak now before the wedding. We end up drafting (and sending!) a long text message where she confesses her feelings and asks if he would consider trying things again. Our second caller wants to break up with her boyfriend of nearly five years, and he doesn't see it coming. There have been problems throughout their relationship, including him not wanting to go to a wedding with her because he won't know anyone there and she isn't fun enough to make his experience enjoyable. Our final caller matched with her boss on Hinge and is interested in him, but isn't sure what her next move should be. They bantered back and forth in the messages, but she was the last one to reach out. "I don't think you can go too hard here. You're literally trying to break up an engagement." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Caraway - Visit https://www.Carawayhome.com/VIALL to take advantage of this limited-time offer for 10% off your next purchase. This deal is exclusive for our listeners, so visit https://www.Carawayhome.com/VIALL or use code VIALL at checkout. Caraway. Non-Toxic cookware made modern. Grammarly - You'll be amazed at what you can do with GrammarlyGO. Go to https://www.grammarly.com/GO to download and learn more about GrammarlyGO. Babbel - Right now, get up to 55% off your subscription when you go to https://www.babbel.com/viall Article Furniture - Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit https://www.article.com/VIALL and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we are joined by our Pop Culture Correspondent Natalie Joy to talk about Part 2 of the Vanderpump Season 10 Reunion. Then, we are joined by Brad Kearns, friend of Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix, to get a behind the scenes look into Scandoval. What has it been like at the house once the news broke, what has Tom threatened to take away, and what is Ariana working on next? We also talk Part III of the reunion, to see what Brad thinks the major surprise will be. "It was right in front of us and we didn't even know." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code viall49. IQ Bar - Now get twenty percent off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. Just text FILES to 64000. Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/viall Paramount - Escape into new seasons of the biggest competitions, with the boldest personalities, and the wildest drama. Plus hundreds of previous seasons, all streaming at your fingertips. Paramount Plus. Stream now. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @bradxbrad @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Freestyle Edition! Today we are joined by Selling Sunset's Marry (Fitzgerald) Bonnet to break down all of Season Six. What happened behind the scenes in Palm Springs, who does she side with in Chrishell and Nicole's argument, and why is Chelsea saying she isn't cut out to be a manager? And why did Amanza unfollow Chrishell on Instagram? "I have the whole scoop." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Hello Fresh - Go to https://www.HelloFresh.com/viall16 and use the code viall16 for sixteen free meals plus free shipping! Sundays For Dogs - We worked out a special deal for our dog-loving listeners. Get 35% off your first order of Sundays. Go to https://www.SundaysForDogs.com/VIALL or use code VIALL at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @themarybonnet @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we talk about our weekend field trip to Schwartz & Sandy's, what we thought about it, and what the staff had to say! Our first callers are a husband and wife that have different understandings of empathy. Holly wishes Will was more empathetic and could help with her emotions while running a business, but Will is hoping for more understanding that it doesn't come naturally to him and he also has a very stressful job. Our second caller recently broke up with her long term boyfriend, only to have one of her guy friends shoot his shot. We analyze all of the signs to figure out if he's being supportive or wanting more out of their friendship. Our final caller is in love with two men she's dating - one of whom she has a deeper emotional connection with, the other with great chemistry in the bedroom. She's been dating both of them for five months, and isn't sure who to pursue fully. "Guys can often act like a boyfriend, and not want to be a boyfriend." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - The Viall Files is sponsored by BetterHelp. Find more balance, with BetterHelp. Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Kosas - Don't choose between wearing great makeup, and taking care of your skin. Right now, Kosas is offering our listeners 15% off your first purchase of $50 or more when you go to https://www.Kosas.com/VIALL Juneshine - We've worked out a special offer for our listeners. At any store, you can buy 1 JuneShine package and get the 2nd for only a penny ($0.01). Go to https://www.JUNESHINE.com/VIALL, text them a photo of your receipt, and they'll Venmo you immediately. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special "where are they now" update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what's happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. We bring on our first caller who was grieving the loss of a 17 year relationship and unsure of how to move on from her childhood crush. We check in to see how she is feeling and if she's followed Nick's advice to stop referring to it as a 17 year relationship. Our second caller wanted to break up with her boyfriend but was financially dependent and living with him. Did she take Nick's advice to swallow her pride, move back home, and dump him? Finally, we hear from our Texting Office Hours caller who has been updating us on her dating life ever since making out with a Tryst-seeking man at a basketball game. When she last updated us, she was trying to decide between a girl and a new guy she'd begun dating. We'll find out if she is still seeing one, both or neither of them. We also have some written updates - our caller who was trying to escape her former situationship at the Crossfit gym, the Texting Office Hours caller hoping to reignite the laundry room meet cute, and a caller whose mom was considering getting a tattoo to memorialize her ex. To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers: Original Episode numbers for callers: Episode Number: 563 Ask Nick - My Fiancé Paid for a SexBot Episode Number: 575 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 7 (First appearance: 545 Francesca Farago - Likable Villain Gone Bad) Episode Number:507 Ask Nick - Bad Sex, Good Connection Original Episode numbers for written updates: Episode Number: 537 Ask Nick - There's No Medal For Staying Friends Episode Number: 565 Love is Blind Recap with Phoebe Robinson Episode Number: 516 Ask Nick - I Want a Tattoo to Memorialize My Ex "If I see him around I can say hello with confidence knowing I took my shot and it was incredibly well received." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://www.viallfiles.supportingcast.fm Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we talk about pop culture headlines like Ariana Madix's latest interview, Jeff Bezos' engagement, and an altercation over a Hot Pocket. Then, we are joined by musician G Flip to discuss their Vegas wedding with Chrishell Stausse, filming Selling Sunset, releasing the single "Be Your Man," and what we can expect from their upcoming first North American tour. We then have a Sweating the Wedding caller who recently un-invited their girlfriend from a family wedding and isn't sure where their relationship stands. "We just fell in love but we were actively trying not to." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Find G's tour dates here: https://www.gflipmusic.com/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: June's Journey - Find hidden clues and uncover a murder mystery. Can you crack the case? Download June's Journey for free today on iOS and Android. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @gflip @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Vanderpump Recap Edition! Today we are joined by Vandepump cast member Charli Burnett and journalist Kate Aurthur to break down the shocking and infamous Vanderpump Season 10 Finale. We talk to Charli about her friendship with Raquel and the rest of the cast, and what finally gave the affair away. She is extremely generous with telling us what Raquel and Sandoval were hoping to have happen after revealing their love for one another, and what Season 11 is going to look like if Ariana refuses to film with either of them. Kate provides invaluable knowledge having covered all of the seasons of Vanderpump, and recently having published a Scandoval article for Variety. "I think they were getting off on being sneaky." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Storyworth - Give all the "fathers" in your life a meaningful gift you can both cherish for years to come - StoryWorth! Right now, for a limited time, you can save $10 on your first purchase when you go to https://www.storyworth.com/viall ZocDoc - Go to https://www.Zocdoc.com/VIALL and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @charliburnett @kateaurthur @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we talk to Tinx about her new book "The Shift," what inspired her to write it, and who she hopes reads it. We then read a listener's email and give some advice about friendship. Our first caller is addicted to her four year situationship - they met on Halloween only to end things around New Year's, and have been repeating that same cycle three years running. She isn't sure how to end it (and we're not sure she wants to). Our second caller recently broke up with her boyfriend of four years, but has an upcoming trip to Tulum that's too late to cancel. She hasn't been able to find a friend to go with her, and is debating going with her ex anyways. Our final caller was ghosted by an amazing first date on the same week her dog died - she isn't sure if she should reach out or how to move on from him, or what to do if he ever resurfaces. "You're not his mommy and you're not his therapist." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles Tinx's book, THE SHIFT: Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself is available now at www.theshift-book.com. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Article - Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit https://www.article.com/VIALL and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout. Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine and spirits, with delivery to your doorstep in under 60 minutes. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com Helix Sleep - Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for our listeners! Go to HelixSleep.com/Viall. This is their best offer yet and it won't last long! With Helix, better sleep starts now. True Classic - True Classic is hooking our listeners up with an exclusive deal to help you get ahead on gifting. For a limited time only, get 25% off with the code VIALL at https://www.trueclassic.com Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @tinx @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we talk about the just-breaking headlines of Harry and Meghan's car chase in New York, and what we can expect from "The Golden Bachelor." Then, we are joined by comedian Anjelah Johnson-Reyes to discuss her newest special, her first pregnancy, and how she feels about current pop culture headlines like Kim Kardashian dating Tom Brady and Martha Stewart modeling for Sports Illustrated. Finally, we have a Sweating the Wedding caller who's not sure how to address a girl that hooked up with her fiancé before they started dating. She's aware of the situation and wants to squash it before the wedding, but the other girl seems to want to hide it. "Babies come with blessings." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Vuori - Vuori is an investment in your happiness. For our listeners they are offering 20% off your first purchase. Get yourself some of the most comfortable and versatile clothing on the planet at https://www.vuori.com/VIALL IQ Bar - This episode is brought to you by IQBAR. Now get twenty percent off every IQBar product, plus free shipping when you text FILES to sixty four thousand (64-000). Message and data rates may apply. See terms for details. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @anjelahjohnson @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Vanderpump Recap Edition! Today we are joined by our pop culture correspondent Natalie Joy, and former Bachelorette Gabby Windey, to talk all things Vanderpump. We discuss the drama of this season versus past seasons, the fact that this week's episode was supposed to be the finale, and what Katie told Natalie about the conception of the show. We also pull up proof that the Toms were on a double date with Jo and Raquel right before the "Something About Her" opening event. "I think Raquel is extremely produced." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/ To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Rothy's - For stylish and sustainable shoes, shop Rothy's. Get $20 off your first purchase at https://www.rothys.com/VIALL Nutrafol - Take the first step to visibly thicker, healthier hair. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to https://www.Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code VIALL Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @gabby.windey @nnataliejjoy @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we talk about an engaged man in Vegas who was buying women drinks and potentially trying to cheat on his fiancée (a week before his wedding). We then read an email from a listener who isn't sure if she can handle her ex moving in with her childhood friends. Our first caller has a pattern of her dates "finishing" too soon. Recently, she's had three separate instances of guys seeming like they're into her and wanting to pursue her, only until they hook up and she's left feeling unsatisfied and confused. We dive into a conversation about modern dating and hook up culture, and when is the right time to have sex with someone you're dating. Our second caller has been dating her boyfriend for five years, but is worried that they're too young to be getting married. There's also been some issues surrounding trust in their relationship after his mistakes, but only she has started therapy because of it. Our final caller is fighting over childcare with her husband - they both work from home and could use some help, but he doesn't want to reach out to his parents and instead insists that they should be doing everything themselves. "You should expect very little from these guys." Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/ Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with "Texting Office Hours" in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - The Viall Files is sponsored by BetterHelp. Find more balance with BetterHelp. Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Grammarly - You'll be amazed at what you can do with GrammarlyGO. Go to https://www.grammarly.com/GO to download and learn more about GrammarlyGO. Canva - Collaborate with Canva for Teams! Right now, you can get a FREE 45-day extended trial when you go to Canva.me/VIALL Babbel - Right now, get up to 55% off your subscription when you go to https://www.BABBEL.com/viall Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell