
The Three Month Vacation Podcast
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Re-run 01 The Elegant Strategy
How to Overcome Information Overload (And How To Do It Almost Overnight)
How I Overcame My Three Fears
When clients look at us, me in particular, they see an almost unblemished trail of success. But you can't see the fear behind what we've been through. Yes, it's fear. Let's go into storyland and learn about the fear and possibly how to overcome it.
How to stay calm when the world is falling apart around you
If you ask anybody, you will hear that things have gotten a lot worse. But is that the case? And do we have any control over what's happening around us? How do you stay calm even when things don't work for you? Let's find out in this episode
Why We Write—Part 2
We sometimes believe we write for a client, or for a website. And that belief is true. Except, it's not true for most of the time. There comes a time when we go on a trip, a discovery of ourselves. We write for a completely different reason. Let's have a look, shall we?
Why We Write: Part 1
Writing seems so laborious at times. We feel like giving up, but there's a reason why we write. Actually, many reasons.
Why Every Day Learning Matters More Than We Think
We all seem to know how every day matters. However, what causes people to plateau suddently and how does every day activity help in avoiding that messy situation? Dig deeper into the very average concept of every day learning and you'll see it's anything but mundane.
25 years of writing: Simple advice that will improve your articles
I've now been writing articles for 25 years. And in those 25 years I've learned some things that you may not always find on a writing site, or even in any writing article. LIsten to this episode and you'll suddenly have a completely different view of how to go about writing your article.
The Four Tyrannical Arms of Perfection: A Deeper Insight
We all want to be somehow perfect. It doesn't matter that we know it's not possible. In this podcast, we have four crazy arms of perfection brought to life by writer Keith Rhys. I wish I could have said it better, but Keith (alumni of the Article Writing Course) says it eloquently. You'll relate to these arms of perfection, no matter who you are or what you do.
The Concept of Take Off-Speed (And How it Enables You to Manage Many Things All At Once)
If you feel overwhelmed and seem to get nothing much done, you're not alone. That's because many of us go around in circles. We never attain take-off speed and are doomed to circle the airport endlessly. Or are we? In this podcast, we will examine why top speed is so crucial and how to get to the point where you can fly on autopilot.
The Five-Year Lease Concept (And How It Builds Resilience)
Do you sometimes think you have "shiny object syndrome"? Do you seem to hop from one thing to another, only to feel disappointed? What if you couldn't change your mind so often? That's what the "five-year" lease is all about. You somehow have to make it work. Let's find out how to use the "five-year" lease concept to your advantage.
Travel stories through India – another rollercoaster trip.
This is back to back travel series. First it was Europe, now it's India. Enjoy the journey!

How to become smarter by utilising the "Database Concept"
Imagine there are two computers. One computer is a standalone connected to nothing but the electrical supply. The second one is connected to a network of computers. Which of the two is likely to be more useful to you? A similar concept applies to learning. People with a greater database are almost always seen as "more talented". A database is something we can control, and learning how to use it makes us more "talented". Here's where you start on the journey.

Stories of travel through India, Singapore and France
This podcast is called the Three-Month Vacation, and yet we almost never cover vacation stories. Well, that's about to change. Here are some stories from India and also from Singapore and France. Allons-y!

How to get clients: An open secret
How do you get clients? This is one question that repeats itself endlessly. You'd think the answer would be common knowledge by now, and it is. The answer lies in a concept called "groups". We fail to understand the power of groups, and that's where the struggle begins. How do you use the power of groups? Let's find out.

Burnout: Why friends and family are more likely to be early warning systems to avoid overwork
"Hard work" has never been considered a problem. If anything, we're all told to work hard. How do you know when you've crossed the line from hard work to overwork? Surprisingly, the answer doesn't lie within ourselves. Here's how to use your family as an early warning system.

How to get free of your phone addiction without software
It's clearly impossible to avoid using a phone. Which is why software seems to come to the rescue. However, the way to avoid the phone (at least once a week) is simpler than you'd think. What's more, the habit grows. You start avoiding the phone more than you'd expect. How is it all done? Let's find out.

How do you manage everything? Part 1
Podcasts, membership site, cartoons, photography, Whatsapp—the list goes on and on. And it's puzzling to clients how I (Sean) manage so much. Well, there are bound to be some principles. Here are just four of them, and we cover two of them in this first episode.

Re-run 07 The Five "Psychological Stages" of Entrepreneurship—And One That's More Scary Than The Rest

Re-Run 06 Why You Have to Keep Writing Articles (Even If You Have Written Articles for 20 Years)

Re-run05 Why does learning seem to take forever? The surprising reasons behind slow learning

Re-run 04 Why is Storytelling so Important in Marketing (and how to use it in your marketing)

Re-run 03 The Art of Praise (How to Give Genuine Praise)

Re-run 02 Three "Slightly Boring" Ways to Create Metaphors for Your Articles

Re-run 01 - How to stay on track with you goals, guest appearance by Keira Menon

How To Avoid Jet Lag
It's that time of the year when many of us travel. If it's even a short trip, we get jetlagged for days. How do you beat it? Here's a theory based on my "diaries". Diaries? Yes, diaries. Let's find out.

Why Random, Tiny Projects are the Key to Future Business Growth
It's normal to want to wait for the perfect moment to start a project. However, that's usually a mistake. A tiny, random project can be started right away. And in a little while, a whole decade or two decades pass. Find out how tiny, random projects make a huge difference.

The Power of Analogies (Part 3): How to transform analogies from tired to fresh
At times, you simply can't think of an analogy, and you reach for something that's been used many times before. However, there's zero fun in using a tired analogy. How can you take this rather overused analogy and turn it into something with oomph? Let's find out.

The Power of Analogies (Part 2): How to use everyday life to create stunning analogies
The Power of Analogies (Part 2): How to use everyday life to create stunning analogies Probably the biggest mistake that most of us make is that we try to find analogies. We sit down at a desk and wrack our brains trying to find an analogy that's just right. Instead, we end up with analogies that have been used repeatedly by other people. Or analogy doesn't seem fresh—and certainly not memorable. Yet, there are dozens if not hundreds of analogies waiting for us round the corner. And by that I mean literally round the corner. It's a secret waiting for us in plain sight. Let's find out how to go about creating those analogies by the dozen!

The Power of Analogies (Part 1): Working Backwards
When we sit down to write an article, or design a presentation, we tend to slip in an analogy. However, most of the analogies that we seem to come up with a "boring and tired". The reason why we struggle so much is because we're going about it the wrong way. And allergies – in general – should be written backwards. How do you write an analogy going backwards? That's what we'll find out in this episode.

Why we lose motivation (and how a "base level of success" is crucial to keep going)
We start on a learning journey and then we quickly get lost. Why is this the case? We might have systems in place, reminders that keep going off, but we still don't have a clear understanding of what will get us to a level of fluency. This level of fluency is called "base level of success". Unless, you and I know the base level, we simply practice, and while we get better, we don't get very good at a skill. Well, it's about time.

Why sequences are crucial for your business and how to go about implementing it.
When you go for a meal, you follow a sequence. When you are part of a wedding ceremony, there's also a sequence. Sequences allow us to follow a thread, but it also gives the client a clear pathway. In this episode we look at the power of sequences, how to implement one and why you may want to change your sequence as technology moves forward. Let's go!

Why you need to get off the Internet – and meet real people instead
The Internet has and will always be a great source of getting clients. However, if you notice, it's also a very crowded space. There's a place that's a lot less busy. It's called "the world offline". Here's why you need to do some exploration away from your computer.

Rerun 5 Why Willpower Is Weak (And How Numbers Help You Stay on Track Instead)

Rerun 4:The Results Paradox: Why We Have To Keep Searching For New Clients

Rerun 3 Why A "Lack Of Memory" Causes You To Be Less Talented In Life

Rerun 2 How To Create An Intensely Curious First Line For Your Article

Rerun 1: How To Get Clients To Go From "No" To "Yes" (And Why The Right Mindset Is Crucial)

The "Unobvious Reasons" WhyAdults Struggle With Language Learning - Part 2
We continue on our two part series of why adults struggle with learning. And this time around, we have an unusual enemy. The enemy is "vocabulary". How can that be the case?

The "Unobvious Reasons" WhyAdults Struggle With Language Learning - Part 1
We all believe that languages should be learned early, and we're not wrong. However, most adult learning is based on a school system that's boring and plainly illogical. Why do adults struggle so much? The short answer is that they don't learn like kids. The question is: what do kids do differently that makes learning so enduring? Let's find out.

How to increase prices from left to right (or right to left).
In most cases, you can increase your prices by as much as 15% by moving from left to right. But what if you wanted to increase your prices by, say, 20%, instead. Well, then you move from right to left. What does all of this right, left, right mean? Well, listen to the podcast and it will make sense in a few minutes.

How to calm your nerves before a speaking opportunity
Giving a presentation is often nerve wracking. You know you need to relax but you are driving yourself up the wall. The usual way to solve the problem seems to be that you need to practise more. You practise, practise, and practise, but the stress won't go away. So what does reduce the pain? It's simpler than you'd think.

The "Pain Map of Learning": How Trainers Can Make Learning Fun Again
When we get into a learning situation, we're usually excited. Then, almost immediately we feel unsure. We stumble along, not keen to move ahead. What's happening in our brain? I'll tell you what: a pain map is being created. This pain map is because of a lack of good instructional design. How do we avoid creating this pain map for our kids and especially for our clients? Let's find out

Why Catching Up Is a Poor Strategy (And Why the "Next Sunrise" Method is More Powerful)
When we fall behind, the core instinct is to catch up. In most cases, that's a strategy that stresses us out, and achieves very little. It feels like one foot inside and another outside. But is there a better method? Try the "next sunrise" method and see how well it works for you..

Why "Prompts" Speed Up Learning (And Avoid the Boring Hard Work Syndrome)
We are told time and time again that we need to practice. That we need to work hard. That's usually a load of rubbish. Learning depends less on you as a learner and more on how the learning is designed. Here's an understanding of how "prompts" in learning make the client eager to get to and finish an assignment, even if the learning journey is extremely long and complicated.

A Memory Test: Are you bad with names or is it a myth?
You've probably heard it before: I am bad at names. I don't remember names so well. But are you truly bad at names? Or is it something that we all say? In this podcast you can test yourself and figure out how impressive your memory really happens to be. Best of all, you will never say that you're bad at names – or even have a bad memory. Your perception of memory will change quite substantially. Let's go, shall we?

The elegant strategy to overcome "information overload" (and how to do it almost overnight).
We all struggle with information. We're almost always behind, always making notes, trying to catch up. Should we cut back on information completely? Is that the solution? Or is there a simpler, more elegant way to relax and take in endless amounts of information? Let's find out

Re-run 7 Storytelling: Why Fairy Tale Endings Are Unnecessary for Article Writing

Re-run 6 Balanced Feedback: Why People Want Endless Amounts of it

Re-run 5 How to Systematically Generate a Uniqueness (Even If You've Struggled With It Before)
