Episode 292
#292: Yes, you can still lead effectively as a people-pleaser
The Thoughtful Leader Podcast with Ben Brearley
August 24, 202517m 0s
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Show Notes
If you've ever been told you're "too nice" to lead, this episode is for you.
Being a people-pleaser doesn't disqualify you from being an effective leader. It just means you need to develop a few key skills to protect your energy and set clear expectations.
In this episode, I talk about:
- Why people-pleasing can feel like the easier option
- How it undermines your leadership (and what to do about it)
- Small steps to lead more assertively without losing your empathy.
Leadership isn't about being harsh or cold, it's about leading with care and clarity.
Resources:
- 1:1 Coaching: Work with me
- The Useful Thinking Journal