The Starting Messy Podcast

Apply to work with me HEREIn this raw and honest episode, Misty breaks down the dark side of self-awareness that nobody talks about: how awareness without action stops being a growth tool and starts becoming your identity. If you've ever caught yourself saying "I know I need to raise my prices," "I know I need to set boundaries," "I know I need to look at my numbers" — and then done absolutely nothing about it — this episode is for you.Misty walks you through the three-step shift from awareness → acceptance → choice, and why skipping the middle step is exactly why you're spinning in the same patterns year after year.In this episode you'll hear:Why "awareness is everything" is actually incomplete adviceHow self-awareness becomes a comfort zone disguised as growthThe difference between awareness and actual identity changeReal examples from salon life: pricing, boundaries, and money mindsetThe one question you need to stop asking — and the one you need to start askingA simple first step you can take TODAY to break out of the identity you've built around your stuck pointshairstylist personal development, salon owner mindset, self-awareness trap, growth mindset for stylists, salon business coaching, hairstylist confidence, money mindset for hairstylists, salon boundaries, stylist pricing confidence, personal growth podcast for beauty professionals, salon owner podcast, Misty Jayne podcast

Do you ever feel lonely — not the "I'm home alone" kind of loneliness, but the deeper kind? The kind where you're surrounded by people but can't find anyone who gets your ambitions, your struggles, or your desire to grow?In this episode, Misty Jayne gets real about the funk she found herself in last year — and what she did to pull herself out of it. Whether you're a hairstylist in a suite feeling isolated, a salon owner craving deeper conversations, or a beauty professional who's ready to stop scrolling and start connecting, this episode is for you.Misty shares:Why hairstylists and salon owners are especially vulnerable to a unique kind of lonelinessHow she went from struggling in silence to flying across the country solo to a retreat — and finding her business bestiesThe birth of The Messy Meetup, her intimate monthly digital community built for deep, real conversationsWhy social media creates a false sense of connection (and what to do instead)How to stop waiting for your people and start creating the rooms where they gatherWhy you don't need a big budget or a big platform to build community — just a bat signalIf you're a hairstylist or salon owner who's into personal development, building a thriving beauty business, and showing up as your fullest self, this episode will light a fire under you.

What happens when the business blueprint isn’t enough? In this raw and honest conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with seven-figure entrepreneur, published author, and salon owner Kelly Cahen to talk about the pivot that changes everything — not just in your business, but in how you see yourself.Kelly built two thriving hair salons and spent years coaching other salon owners on systems, financials, and management. But she kept hitting the same wall: her clients had all the tools and still weren’t moving. Why? Because the real entry point to business success isn’t strategy — it’s self-leadership. It’s knowing who you are, what you stand for, and what you’re no longer willing to tolerate.If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who’s been doing all the things but still feels stuck, afraid to raise your prices, terrified to lose clients or team members, or quietly wondering if this is really what you want — this episode is your mirror.In this episode, you’ll hear:Why salon owners know exactly what to do — and still don’t do it (hint: it’s not a strategy problem)The "Who the f*ck are you?" moment that reframed everything for KellyHow fear of losing clients and team members keeps hairstylists stuck in their own wayWhy pivoting your business identity feels like losing yourself — and how to do it anywayThe difference between awareness, acceptance, and actually making a decisionWhat self-leadership really means for women who wear too many hatsHow to stop over-explaining, stop seeking approval, and start making choices for youThe friendship audit every woman in the beauty industry needs to takeWhy the stories we create about other people’s opinions are keeping us smallMisty’s personal journey of stepping away from alcohol, identity shifts, and learning to experiment without commitmentPerfect for: Hairstylists, salon owners, beauty entrepreneurs, and any woman in the service industry who is ready to stop people-pleasing and start building a life that actually feels like hers.

Looking for support Mastering Your Mess: Apply hereIf you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who loves personal development, this episode might feel like a little bit of a wake-up call.In this episode , Misty is sharing the perspective that took her years to understand: personal growth isn’t about controlling everything. It’s about learning how to respond differently when they show up.

In this episode Misty sits down with Chrystal Graves Founder of Liquid AI Salon Assistant (TRY IT HERE FOR FREE & tell it Misty sent you) to talk about decision fatigue in the beauty industry and why mental burnout has less to do with long days… and more to do with constant decision-making.They cover:Why stylists feel overwhelmed even when they’re fully bookedConfidence vs. discipline (and why motivation won’t save you)Why Instagram isn’t your business coachSmall pricing shifts that create big income changesHow to retain clients without chasing new onesIf you’re growth-minded but tired of overthinking every move in your business, this conversation will help you simplify, get clear, and move with intention.

Apply to work with me IF YOU'RE READY hereIf you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who wants more time, peace, money, or boundaries… but keeps circling the same decision, this episode is for you.In this episode, Misty dives into something she’s noticed after six years of coaching hairstylists and creative entrepreneurs:The difference between wanting change and actually choosing change.From filling out coaching applications and ghosting…To saying you’ll raise your prices but never sending the text…To talking about cutting back your schedule but never actually doing it…This episode explores:Why reaching out feels like progress (but often isn’t)The identity shift that happens when you move from “I’m trying” to “I’m doing”How hyper-independence can actually be procrastinationWhy potential feels safer than progressHow self-trust is built through tiny decisionsThe real reason discipline creates motivation (not the other way around)If you’re a growth-minded hairstylist who:Feels stuck between comfort and expansionKnows you want more balance outside the salonStruggles with boundaries, pricing, or stepping into your next levelKeeps saying “now’s not the right time”This episode will feel like a loving mirror.Because the gap between wanting and choosing?That’s where your self-trust is built.

If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who is fully booked but secretly exhausted… this one is for you.In this episode, Misty shares the story of one of her first Master Your Mess clients, a successful stylist and salon owner who didn’t need more clients… she needed her life back.Ready to work together? Apply Here

Have you ever known what you wanted to do… and still asked five people for their opinion before making a decision?In this episode, Misty dives into one of the most unexpected—but powerful—outcomes she sees in her coaching work with hairstylists and salon owners: self-trust.What started as just money coaching turned into something much deeper. Again and again, clients reflected back the same thing:“I learned how to trust myself.”If you're ready to start trusting yourself too... Click here for more details on working together. hairstylist podcast, salon owner podcast, hairstylist mindset, money mindset for hairstylists, self trust, confidence behind the chair, hairstylist burnout, life coaching for hairstylists

What happens when a former undercover police decoy becomes a salon owner, educator, and global business mentor?In this episode, Misty Jayne sits down with Alison Rodriguez, co-founder of two successful salons and creator of Mastermynd Beauty, to talk about growth, reinvention, and building a sustainable career in the beauty industry.Alison shares her unconventional journey—from working undercover with law enforcement as a teenager to opening and scaling multiple salons, training over 100 stylists, and eventually stepping into education, events, and global mentorship for salon owners and hairstylists.This conversation is a must-listen if you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who:Feels stuck doing the same thing and craving more growthIs overwhelmed by social media, business decisions, or leadershipWants to move beyond just “making money behind the chair”Is curious about education, mindset, automation, and long-term sustainability

What if the key to better clients, higher retention, and less burnout behind the chair wasn’t more skill… but better alignment?In this episode, Misty sits down with Kati Whitledge, founder of Maya and Host of Beyond The Technique Podcast, to talk about why who you work with matters just as much as what you do.This conversation goes beyond marketing and tech. It’s about building a career you don’t want to escape from, attracting clients who respect you, and creating success that actually feels good.If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who’s tired of feeling drained by your schedule — this episode will hit home.

In this episode of the Starting Messy Podcast, Misty sits down with Aryn Detres, founder of The Left Brain Group, to unpack the overconsumption problem in the hair industry—and why more education isn’t always the answer.If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who’s taken all the classes, saved all the screenshots, and still feels stuck… this episode is for you.

In this episode, Misty Jayne joins Jodie Brown, the host of the Hairstylist Rising Podcast to break down one of the most misunderstood topics in the beauty industry: the real difference between coaching, mentoring, education, and consulting and why more information isn’t always the answer.This conversation is for hairstylists and salon owners who feel stuck despite being talented, booked out, and knowledgeable. We talk about why overlearning can become a form of avoidance, how fear and identity play a bigger role than skill gaps, and when it’s time to stop searching for answers and start looking inward.In this episode, we cover:Why having all the strategy doesn’t guarantee actionThe difference between a coach, mentor, educator, and consultantHow coaching helps uncover the real reasons you’re stuckWhy confidence comes from action, not more classesHow people-pleasing, fear of being seen, and overthinking show up for stylistsWhen to hire a coach vs when education is actually the right moveWhat “Starting Messy” really means (and why your mess isn’t the problem)If you’ve ever thought, “What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I just do the thing?” this episode will feel like someone finally turned the lights on.

Looking for support? Click here to Master Your Mess In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down why life coaching can be one of the most supportive tools for hairstylists and salon owners—especially those who are booked out, successful on paper, but feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or disconnected behind the scenes.This isn’t about business strategy, marketing tactics, or raising your prices for the 47th time.It’s about separating who you are from what you do, regulating your nervous system, setting boundaries without guilt, and understanding why money stress is often about much more than money.

✨ Free Resource Mentioned: STARTING MESSY WORKBOOKAs the year wraps up, Misty gets honest about the work she’s been doing behind the scenes for years—and what she’s finally owning out loud in 2026.In this episode, Misty shares why so many hairstylists and salon owners think they have a money problem… when in reality, money is often just the symptom. Underneath it?Self-doubt. Overthinking. Fear of being seen. Fear of choosing the “wrong” path. And the exhaustion that comes from being the strong one everyone relies on.After years of coaching stylists through financial growth, confidence blocks, perfectionism, and identity shifts, Misty opens up about why she’s stepping fully into life coaching—without hiding behind the money conversation anymore.

Get your Starting Messy Workbook HereMisty breaks down why those negative thoughts feel so real, even when they aren’t, and how your brain is literally wired to cling to familiar stories, not true ones.This conversation is especially for hairstylists and salon owners who:Overthink every business decisionStruggle with self-doubt, comparison, or imposter syndromeFeel stuck in negative mental loops that kill confidence and momentumYou’ll learn:Why positive thoughts feel “fake” at first (and why that’s normal)How repetition — not truth — creates beliefHow to rewire negative thought patterns without toxic positivitySimple ways to practice new thoughts so they actually stickWhy your mindset directly impacts your confidence, money, and decisionsIf you’ve ever felt like your own brain is working against you, this episode will help you understand what’s happening — and how to change it.✨ Plus, Misty shares a free resource to help you get unstuck and out of your head. Get your Starting Messy Workbook Here

Misty sits down with Carly Zanoni @the.blonde.cronicles, the educator and stylist behind The Blonde Chronicles University, to talk about what hairstylists really want to know: how to start before you're ready, how to grow without losing yourself, and how to build something meaningful even when everything feels messy.Carly shares how she launched a digital education platform during shutdowns, why “doing it scared” is so important, and how simplifying your color placement (and your self-talk) can change everything behind the chair.If you're a hairstylist or salon owner navigating growth, perfectionism, burnout, or the pivot into education — this episode is like a permission slip and a pep talk wrapped together.

In this episode, Misty gets vulnerable about what it really looks like to build a career in education and coaching as a hairstylist — beyond what Instagram shows you. She breaks down the messy middle, the insecurities, the backwards steps, and the slow-burn confidence that has shaped her journey over the past six years.Perfect for: Hairstylists, salon owners, independent educators, new coaches in the beauty industry, and anyone trying to figure out if they’re “behind” (spoiler: you’re not).

As hairstylists and salon owners, clients trust us with more than their hair — they trust us with their stories, emotions, and vulnerability. But being a true “safe space” doesn’t just happen. It’s a skill. And for many of us? It's a skill we were not taught.In today’s episode, Misty breaks down four powerful communication shifts that transformed her from a reactive communicator into the grounded, emotionally-intelligent coach and leader she is today. Whether you're navigating heavy conversations with clients, building stronger relationships with your team, or improving communication at home — these skills will change how you show up.hairstylist communication skills, salon owner leadership, safe space behind the chair, emotional intelligence for hairstylists, client relationships salon, how to communicate with clients, stylist burnout prevention, hairstylist personal development, beauty industry education, salon team communication

In this conversation, Misty breaks down what consistency really looks like — not perfection, not hustle, not “do the most every day.” Real, sustainable consistency that builds trust with your clients, your audience, your business, and yourself.Whether you’re behind the chair, growing your visibility, building a salon team, or trying to stick to your money plan… this episode gives you permission to show up imperfectly — and still create results.hairstylist business tips, salon owner education, stylist money mindset, beauty business coaching, hairstylist consistency, client trust salon industry, stylist burnout support, hairstylist podcast, beauty industry podcast, money mindset for stylists, stylist personal growth, salon leadership tips

In this throwback episode Misty chats with Aly Mckinnon, a salon design and organizations coach who helps salon and suite owners nationwide to create the salon space of their dreams. Using aligned design and organizational systems she helps stylists to bring joy and ease into their day in the salon and help to attract their dream clientele.Find more from Aly here: theorganizedhairstylist.com

In this episode, Misty Jayne sits down with salon business coach Kelly Cahen to unpack the toxic trend of shame-based money coaching — and why guilt and “tough love” won’t fix your financial patterns.If you’ve ever felt judged for having debt, using credit cards, or not saving “the right way,” this conversation will help you breathe again. Misty and Kelly talk about:💸 Why traditional money advice often fails hairstylists and salon owners💬 How shame keeps you stuck in scarcity🧠 The mindset shifts that actually create financial confidence💪 How to build a plan that fits YOUR unique money story — without guilt or “shoulds”Listen now to learn how to build wealth your way, ditch the guilt, and take back your financial power behind the chair.

In this throwback episode, Misty sits down with one of her salon clients, Danielle Talley, to discuss what clients really think about price increases! They dive into:Why confidence is the foundation for client trust (and pricing)How to navigate money conversations without guilt or over-explainingWhat clients really think when stylists raise their pricesHow mindfulness connects to your money habits and business boundariesThe importance of letting failure shape your growth instead of stopping itThis conversation bridges the worlds of yoga, wellness, and hairstyling — showing how confidence, boundaries, and emotional awareness shape success behind the chair and beyond it.

In this throwback episode , Misty Jayne dives into a truth every hairstylist and salon owner needs to hear: you can’t be available, affordable, and skillful—you can only be two.If you’ve ever felt overworked, underpaid, or constantly booked but still broke, this episode will help you figure out which category you fall into—and how to shift into the stylist you actually want to be.👉 Tune in to hear:The real difference between available, affordable, and skillful stylistsWhy being booked out months in advance might actually mean it’s time to raise your pricesHow to attract the right clients without burning outThe mindset shift that separates confident stylists from overwhelmed onesThis episode is a must-listen for any hairstylist ready to grow beyond burnout and create a business that reflects their worth.

In this powerful throwback conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with Maddi Cook, the creator of Boss Your Salon, to talk about the real reason stylists struggle with pricing — and spoiler alert — it’s 90% mindset, 10% numbers.They unpack why “charge your worth” is a misleading phrase, how people-pleasing keeps you undercharging, and why confidence comes after you take the scary step — not before. You’ll also learn:Why you can’t wait to “feel ready” to raise your pricesHow fear, scarcity, and self-worth are all connectedWhat happens energetically when you start charging what your work deservesHow enforcing your boundaries actually attracts better clientsWhether you’re a booth renter, salon suite owner, or stylist behind the chair — this episode will shift the way you think about money, value, and the kind of clients you attract.

In this episode, Misty Jayne welcomes Jen Alden, an in-home salon owner and stylist, who shares her transformative journey towards financial awareness and empowerment. Jen discusses her struggles with debt, the importance of open conversations about money, and the pivotal decisions she made in her business.

Are you a hairstylist or salon owner who’s tired of feeling stressed every time you look at your bank account? In this episode, there is a replay of Jodie Brown's: The Hairstylist Rising Podcast, where Misty Jayne shares how beauty professionals can start feeling empowered and confident with money—without the guilt, shame, or outdated budgeting advice.If you’ve ever thought, “I make good money, but I’m still living paycheck to paycheck,” this conversation is for you.

In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down the 5 biggest money myths that keep stylists financially stuck—like believing you just need to make more money, that budgeting means restriction, or that it’s “too late” to turn things around.hairstylist money mindset, salon owner budgeting, hairstylist financial freedom, hairstylist debt payoff, hairstylist coaching

Hairstylists and salon owners—does it feel like every time you start a budget, something knocks you off track? From broken tools to last-minute cancellations, it’s easy to believe “it’s always something.”In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how a $20 parking ticket almost derailed her debt-free journey and the mindset shift that helped her pay off $48K in two years.Perfect for hairstylists and salon owners ready to stop living paycheck to paycheck and finally create a money plan that works.

In this episode, Misty sits down with Corey Gray of Hairdustry to share his life-changing experience with Hair Aid in Cambodia. Corey opens up about teaching haircutting skills to people living in critical poverty, the power of community support, and how hairstylists can create ripple effects of impact far beyond the salon.Whether you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or beauty industry professional, this conversation will inspire you to see how your skills can change lives—not only behind the chair but across the globe.

Hairstylists, are you wasting energy on the wrong things? In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down three triggers that keep stylists stuck: AI hair pictures, clients complaining about salon prices, and judging how other stylists run their business.

As a hairstylist or salon owner, your story is your greatest asset. In this episode Misty Jayne, talks about why your mess is your message—and how sharing it can attract the right clients, grow your confidence, and deepen connections in the beauty industry. Forget perfection; authenticity is what inspires and sells. hairstylist podcast, salon owner tips, hairstylist confidence, beauty business growth

Want to work with Misty? Click hereAre you a hairstylist or salon owner stuck in constant learning mode but not seeing real change? In this Starting Messy episode, Misty Jayne shares why personal development overload is holding you back—and how to finally take action.Learn the difference between learning vs. fixing, why confidence comes from doing, and how to quiet the noise so you can trust yourself and grow your salon business with clarity.hairstylist podcast, salon owner tips, hairstylist growth, salon business podcast, hairstylist mindset

Ready to Master Your Mess? Click here In this episode, Misty Jayne shares why money is only the symptom and how to create real success by setting boundaries, pricing with confidence, and regulating your nervous system.If you’re ready to feel wealthy without burning out behind the chair, this one’s for you.hairstylist money mindset, salon owner financial freedom, hairstylist burnout, hairstylist coach

Hairstylists and salon owners — ever feel guilty for not being busy?Misty Jayne unpacks the invisible pressure beauty pros put on themselves to hustle 24/7. Learn how to spot performative productivity, release the “shoulds,” and build a business that includes rest, ease, and actual freedom.hairstylist burnout, salon owner mindset, beauty professional pressure, people-pleasing stylist, rest is productive

Want more from Misty? Click hereHairstylists and salon owners — if you’re saying “yes” to keep clients happy but feel burned out, resentful, or drained… this episode is your wake-up call.Misty Jayne breaks down how people pleasing leads to broken boundaries, low energy, and inconsistent service. You’ll learn 4 practical strategies to protect your peace, set clear boundaries, and still give incredible client experiences — without sacrificing yourself.

Click here for more about Master Your Mess CoachingStruggling with money stress as a hairstylist or salon owner? It’s not just about budgeting—it’s about emotional intelligence. In this episode of Starting Messy, Misty Jayne breaks down how your emotions shape your money habits and what to do about it.Learn how to:💸 Recognize emotional money triggers💸 Build financial confidence💸 Create lasting money habits without burnoutPerfect for beauty pros ready to feel empowered—not overwhelmed—by their finances.

Head to Mistyjayne.com for more Master your Mess infoStylists—ready to raise your prices, leave the salon, or step into something new, but outside opinions are getting loud? In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how to quiet the noise, trust your gut, and move forward—even when others don’t get it.You’ll hear:✨ Real stories from Misty’s career and money journey🧠 Mindset tips to block out fear-based advice💬 How to ask for support without needing permissionPerfect for hairstylists, booth renters, and salon owners ready to level up.hairstylist mindset, money mindset for stylists, salon growth, hair career coaching, emotional intelligence hairstylist, trust your gut business

Misty Jayne is diving headfirst into a topic most stylists avoid talking about—debt. And more importantly, the shame that often comes with it. Misty shares her own journey of paying off $48K in debt, going back into business debt (on purpose), and how our money stories can keep us stuck in guilt and avoidance. This is a must-listen for hairstylists and salon owners who are ready to stop spiraling, start facing their numbers, and move from panic to power.👉 For coaching & details: MISTY JAYNE | financial & personal growth for hairstylist👉 Follow Misty on IG: @‌_mistyjayne_debt and shame, hairstylist debt help, money mindset for stylists, salon owner finances, stylist money coaching

Misty Jayne shares her personal journey from hiding behind industry experts to fully owning her voice—and why it’s time for you to do the same. If you’ve ever felt like the behind-the-scenes magic maker, the support person, or the stylist who pours into everyone but yourself—this one’s for you.👉 For coaching & details: MISTY JAYNE | financial & personal growth for hairstylist👉 Follow Misty on IG: @‌_mistyjayne_hairstylist podcast, salon owner mindset, beauty industry empowerment, personal growth for stylists, hairstylist business coaching

Rebecca Taylor joins Misty Jayne for a real, unfiltered convo about what happens when you walk away from your stylist identity and chase something bigger. They get into nervous system regulation, money shame, burnout, and what it actually looks like to stop performing and start feeling. Whether you’re building a retreat in Thailand or just trying to raise your prices without guilt, this one hits deep.www.rebeccataylorhair.com

Want more info on working with Misty? Click hereIn this episode, Misty sits down with Jennifer Alden, California-based stylist, in-home salon owner, and creator of Everywhere Hair Co., to talk about how she went from sleepless nights over debt to confidently owning her money decisions. Tune in as they discuss money shame, stepping into your next chapter, and how letting go of perfection led Jen to leave her salon suite, launch her merch line, and reclaim her vision for life and business.📺 Watch her YouTube: The Holistic Hairstylist

In this episode , Misty Jayne chats with former stylist turned subconscious reprogramming coach Mckenzie Sellers. They dive into burnout, identity shifts, money blocks, and why trusting yourself is the real game-changer for beauty pros.If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner craving deeper alignment and nervous system peace—this one’s for you.Click here to book a call with Mckenzie

Ready to work together to Master Your Mess? Click HereIn this final episode of the 4-part series, Misty Jayne helps you ditch the hustle and map out the real cost of your dream life—so you can stop panicking over cancellations and start building financial clarity.

Click Here For Master Your Mess Coaching InfoIn Part 3 of the Starting Messy money series, Misty Jayne breaks down why most hairstylists aren’t overspending out of irresponsibility—they’re reacting to emotions.From instant gratification behind the chair to shame spirals after big purchases, this episode explores the deeper why behind our money habits—and what to do once awareness hits.hairstylist money coach, emotional spending, money mindset for stylists