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The SHIFTup! Podcast

The SHIFTup! Podcast

26 episodes

S1 Ep 26The KEY mindset

Summary In this episode, Cameron Berry discusses the concept of an empowered mindset and its importance in achieving success. He emphasizes that taking ownership of one's actions and recognizing the influence one has on their own life is the foundation for achieving any goal. Cameron also explores the idea that while we can influence our future, we cannot control it entirely. He encourages listeners to adopt an empowered mindset and take responsibility for their influence on the world. By doing so, they can move from a state of need to a state of desire and create a more powerful and fulfilling life. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Jun 6, 202412 min

S1 Ep 25Transforming Pain into Growth

Summary This conversation explores the transformative power of suffering and failure, emphasizing the opportunity for growth and positive change. It delves into personal experiences and the conscious choice to take ownership and responsibility for one's life and relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of mindset, intention, and radical ownership in navigating hardships and crisis moments. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

May 28, 202430 min

S1 Ep 24Are transactional relationships toxic?

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of being conditional in all aspects of life and the cost that comes with it. They share personal experiences of recognizing their own conditional relationships with God and each other. They explore how conditional thinking affects our beliefs, actions, and relationships, and how it limits our growth and happiness. They emphasize the importance of letting go of expectations, having open and honest communication, and seeking to understand each other's perspectives. They also highlight the power of choosing a positive mindset and focusing on the blessings and miracles that come from letting go of conditions. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

May 16, 202441 min

S1 Ep 23Success is closer than you think

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of creating and how we often limit ourselves in achieving our goals. They share personal stories and examples of individuals who have overcome limitations and achieved remarkable success. They emphasize the importance of having faith, taking action, and allowing God to work in our lives. They also discuss the parable of talents and how they relate to creating and multiplying our talents. They highlight the relevance of these principles in the context of marriage and encourage couples to actively create and work together towards their dreams. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

May 10, 202432 min

S1 Ep 22Arguing Smarter not Harder

Summary In this episode, Heather and Cameron discuss the topic of arguing and confrontation within marriage. They share their personal experiences and observations about the role of conflict in relationships. They explore the idea of whether it is healthy to never fight or have conflict, and the potential consequences of avoiding confrontation. They emphasize the importance of self-reflection, taking responsibility for one's own emotions, and approaching arguments as teammates rather than adversaries. They also discuss the need for clear communication and gratitude for the efforts made by partners. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

May 1, 202430 min

S1 Ep 21Choose your reality and other lessons we learned from Mel Robins

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of synchronicity and how it can positively impact our lives. They share personal stories and examples of synchronicity, highlighting the importance of recognizing and attributing meaning to these experiences. They also discuss the power of framing and choosing a positive mindset, even in challenging situations. The episode concludes with a discussion on declaring and stating what we want in life and approaching it with positive energy. In this conversation, Cameron Berry discusses the power of synchronicity and how it can lead to unexpected and positive outcomes in life. She shares a personal story of her car being stolen and how a series of events and coincidences led to its recovery. Cameron emphasizes the importance of having faith, declaring what you want, and being intentional in looking for synchronicity in everyday life. She also discusses the effectiveness of vision boards in manifesting goals and the importance of being open to different outcomes. The conversation concludes with a challenge for listeners to identify something they want, act as if it has already happened, and look for evidence of synchronicity in their own lives. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Apr 25, 202457 min

S1 Ep 20Resentment is awesome!

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss how resentment can be used as a positive tool for personal growth. Resentment is defined as feeling a sense of injustice or entitlement when something doesn't go as expected. By reframing resentment and understanding what it is pointing to, individuals can uncover hidden desires or areas of their life that need change. The hosts emphasize the importance of defining what you want and taking deliberate action to achieve it. They also discuss how resentment can arise in motherhood and the need for mothers to prioritize their own desires and goals. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Apr 17, 202436 min

S1 Ep 19Differentiation: The third party in your relationship

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of differentiation in relationships. They explore the idea that the relationship itself is separate from the individuals involved and that each person is responsible for their own happiness. They share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate difficult emotions and conflicts in a way that strengthens the relationship. The key takeaway is that by expressing vulnerability, practicing self-care, and maintaining a team mindset, couples can build a healthier and more resilient relationship. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Apr 9, 202434 min

S1 Ep 18Soothing Vs Confronting

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of picking soothing over confronting in various aspects of life. They explore the importance of having a goal or intention, defining what you want, and the role of planning and preparation in confronting. They also highlight subtle ways of soothing, such as procrastination, and emphasize the value of finding mentors and creating your own blueprint for success. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize self-care and share the podcast with others to build strong relationships. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Apr 3, 202430 min

S1 Ep 17The Damned Truth: How you can break the dam

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of damnation and how it is not just a future punishment, but something that can happen in the present. They share personal stories of damnation and how they were able to break free from it by being honest and making difficult choices. They emphasize the importance of questioning limiting beliefs and celebrating successes along the journey of progression. The episode concludes with a reminder to keep working towards epic intimacy in marriage. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Mar 27, 202437 min

S1 Ep 16The One Where They Choose Themselves First

Summery Heather and Cameron dive into the power of choosing oneself in the journey of marriage, overcoming addiction, and the path to authentic attraction. They share their own experiences with vulnerability, the struggle with societal pressures, and the beauty of owning one's flaws and decisions. Join us as we explore how turning inward to make changes for oneself rather than for others can transform relationships and lead to true happiness. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Mar 20, 202435 min

S1 Ep 15The one where we think Jordan Peterson got it wrong (a little bit)

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss their experience attending a Jordan Peterson seminar and delve into the topic of addiction and healing. They share their personal journey and insights on overcoming addiction, emphasizing the importance of evaluating the cost and setting goals. They discuss different approaches to addiction recovery and highlight the power of being fully seen and bursting the shame bubble. They also explore the concept of crossing the river and the benefits of confronting irrational behavior. The episode concludes with encouragement to take the leap and fully commit to change. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Mar 14, 202440 min

S1 Ep 14The One Where Truth Transforms

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the concept of radical honesty and its impact on their relationship. They share their personal journey of discovering the power of complete honesty and the healing effects it had on their lives. They emphasize the importance of being a trustworthy listener and the challenges of owning and sharing one's truth. They also discuss the rewards of living in truth and the attractiveness of radical honesty in relationships. Overall, they encourage listeners to embrace radical honesty and experience the transformative power it can have in their own lives. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Mar 6, 202439 min

S1 Ep 13The One Where We Unpack Insecurity

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss their personal insecurities and how they impact their healing journey. They explore the feeling of not being chosen and the comparison trap that often accompanies it. They also discuss the importance of recognizing personal responsibility in insecurities and the role of childhood development in shaping these feelings. The episode concludes with a reminder that everyone has areas where they feel stuck, but it is possible to become unstuck and overcome these challenges. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Feb 28, 202431 min

S1 Ep 12Change is Hard. Challenge Accepted?

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the challenges of breaking old patterns and embracing change. They explore the concept of the 10X principle and how it can lead to personal growth. They also delve into the fear of change and the comfort of familiar patterns. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing one's identity and the role it plays in personal development. They conclude by offering steps to navigate the journey of change and celebrate progress. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously *Shawna Edwards Music Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Feb 24, 202443 min

S1 Ep 11Boundaries vs Manipulation

Summary In this conversation, Cameron and Heather discuss the topic of boundaries in relationships. They explore the difference between boundaries and control, emphasizing the importance of differentiation and intention in setting boundaries. They also discuss the role of agreements and compromise in creating healthy boundaries. The conversation highlights the need for self-awareness and the importance of approaching boundaries with love and a desire to improve the relationship. They also touch on the impact of bitterness and the value of teamwork in navigating boundaries. Overall, the conversation provides insights and guidance for establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Feb 15, 202441 min

S1 Ep 10More Q&A - Navigating Love's Toughest Questions

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss how to communicate about difficult topics or emotional needs. They emphasize the importance of removing bitterness from conversations and setting boundaries. They also explore the challenges of change and upleveling in relationships. The couple shares personal experiences and highlights the significance of being curious, graceful, and understanding in conversations. They discuss the importance of taking ownership of emotional needs and opening dialogue about them. They also express their desire to improve communication by avoiding assumptions, controlling perceptions, and managing frustration. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Feb 7, 202436 min

S1 Ep 9Q&A - Unveiled Shadows: Navigating Pornography in Love

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss their personal experiences with discovering and dealing with pornography use in their marriage. They share their initial reactions, the challenges they faced, and the growth they experienced as a result. They emphasize the importance of radical honesty, compassion, and reevaluating boundaries in the context of marriage vows. They also encourage anonymous questions from viewers who may be dealing with similar issues. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Ask/Comment anonymously Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Jan 31, 202440 min

S1 Ep 8The Victimization Trap

Summary In this conversation,we discuss the concept of victimhood and the importance of choosing to be a victor in life. We explore the difference between being victimized and identifying as a victim, emphasizing the power of taking ownership and responsibility for one's own life. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Jan 24, 202454 min

S1 Ep 7Bitterness: It's everyone's drug of choice... yes even you.

Summary Heather and Cameron share an insightful conversation about the roots and impacts of bitterness in our lives. Drawing from personal struggles in their marriage, they explore how bitterness stunted their growth as individuals and as a couple. Cameron's hidden pornography addiction and its painful revelation brought bitterness that permeated their relationship. They also discuss bitterness in the broader social context, noting the role of social media and news in fomenting negativity. Cameron shares how disengaging from these platforms improved his outlook. They emphasize bitterness's insidious impact on relationships and personal well-being and how letting go of entitled resentment is key, even when it feels justified. Ultimately, Cameron and Heather's journey illustrates how understanding one's role, practicing self-compassion, and focusing on personal growth are key to overcoming bitterness. By taking ownership and proactive steps, bitterness can give way to understanding. Links Podcast Site: https://www.unstuckmedia.com/ Chris Williams Story: https://www.ldsliving.com/just-let-go-one-lds-mans-story-of-tragedy-and-the-power-of-forgiveness/s/71058 Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Jan 17, 202448 min

S1 Ep 6The Power of 'NOW'

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the power of living in the present moment and how past and future thinking can influence our mindset and actions. They explore the negative effects of dwelling on the past and the pressure of perfectionism. They also discuss the strengths and weaknesses of past and future thinking and the importance of finding hope and gratitude in the present. The conversation highlights the beauty in embracing challenges and the power of personal choice in shaping our future. They conclude by emphasizing the importance of taking action in the present moment and straightening the arrow of our lives. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Infographic Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Jan 10, 202444 min

S1 Ep 5The Shame Bubble

Summary In this conversation, Cameron and Heather Berry discuss the topic of pornography addiction and coping mechanisms. They emphasize the importance of honesty, accountability, and breaking the bubble of shame surrounding this issue. They share personal experiences and offer advice for parents dealing with children's pornography use. The conversation also explores the concept of the perfect mess and the power of choice in overcoming feelings of stuckness. Ultimately, they highlight the healing power of purging shame and being seen in a committed relationship. Links: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Jan 3, 202436 min

S1 Ep 4How I Stopped Watching Porn - Part 3

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the final part of their Truth Day journey. They emphasize that results are unique to each individual and cannot be compared to others. They also highlight the importance of focusing on oneself and taking ownership of one's actions. They discuss the role of support and accountability in the healing process and the need to let go of control over others. They emphasize the importance of patience, understanding, and growth in a relationship. They also share their experiences of healing and the power of gratitude in the process. In this conversation, Cameron and Heather discuss the importance of gratitude, healing, and hope in their lives. They emphasize the power of gratitude to heal and refocus one's life, even in the face of challenges. They also highlight the significance of dating and courtship in a marriage, sharing their own experiences and the importance of making time for each other. Finally, they stress the importance of communication and truly getting to know one's spouse, as well as the potential for miracles and growth in every marriage. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Music Mountains (instrumental) by Sascha Ende Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/259-mountains-instrumental Licensed under CC BY 4.0: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Disclaimer: The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Dec 27, 202352 min

S1 Ep 3How I Stopped Watching Porn - Part 2

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the next steps after taking ownership of one's actions and preparing oneself. They emphasize the importance of disclosure and truth, which they refer to as T-Day. They encourage listeners to approach disclosure with a spirit of joyfulness and excitement for the future. They discuss the principle of living in integrity and reclaiming personal power. They also explore the importance of going all in and not hesitating when facing something big and scary. The episode concludes with a discussion on the growth and joy that can come from facing difficult truths. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Disclaimers The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Dec 20, 202335 min

S1 Ep 2How I Stopped Watching Porn - Part 1

Summary In this episode, Cameron and Heather discuss the process of quitting addiction and the importance of being honest and vulnerable in a relationship. They share their personal experiences with relapse, and the mindset shifts that helped them overcome addiction. The chapters cover topics such as confronting shame, setting boundaries, taking responsibility, and the power of being seen and known. They emphasize the importance of ownership, preparing oneself for honesty, and the rewards of true intimacy. Takeaways Take ownership of your actions and recognize that you have the power to make choices and create change in your life. Confront shame and release it to experience true intimacy and connection in relationships. Set healthy boundaries and take responsibility for your own actions, rather than trying to control others. Prepare yourself to give and receive honesty, and be willing to go all the way in being vulnerable and open. Recognize the rewards of being seen and known and the joy of true intimacy and connection. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Disclaimers The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Dec 13, 202341 min

S1 Ep 1T-Day: How porn addiction saved our LDS marriage

Summary Cameron and Heather Berry share their journey of overcoming Cameron's porn addiction and the transformation it brought to their marriage. They discuss the initial discovery of the addiction, the fear and shock that followed, and the paradigm shift in their understanding of trust and intimacy. They emphasize the importance of radical honesty and openness in their healing process and deepening their love and connection. The couple also expressed their mission to share their story and help others struggling with similar issues. Takeaways Radical honesty and openness are crucial in overcoming addiction and building trust in a relationship. Recognizing personal contributions to relationship issues is essential for growth and healing. Choosing to be honest and vulnerable can lead to a deepening of love and connection. Healing and transformation are possible with commitment, support, and a willingness to change. Sharing personal stories and experiences can help others struggling with similar issues. Links mentioned in this episode: YouTube Unstuckmedia.com Disclaimers The content on Unstuck Media is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. The views expressed are personal and not meant to replace expert guidance. Use of this information is at your own risk. Unstuck Media and Heather and Cameron Berry are not liable for any direct or indirect consequences arising from its use. Always consult professionals for serious issues. The advice and opinions Unstuck Media LLC and it's representatives are their own are not official opinions of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We do not represent the official positions of the church. We refer you to official church sources and the church website to clarify any doctrinal questions.

Dec 8, 202347 min