
The Rabbi and I
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S3 Ep 113Don’t ignore the 7th command
The temptation to ignore this commandment is great, don’t give in. Focus on one committed relationship at a time. The burdens of “cheating” far outweigh the benefits.

S3 Ep 114The Shot Heard Around the Internet
The blame game started before the sounds of the shots faded. Politicians and their supporters have sown the seeds of fear, hate, anger, and violence. We, the citizens of America, are reaping the harvest.

S3 Ep 112Have The Courage to Be Disliked
Organizing our lives around making decisions just to please others is is a fruitless waste of time and energy. My goal in life is to have those who dislike me have the courage to tell me why they dislike me!

S3 Ep 111Don’t Take That
When we hear the 8th commandment we think of objects and stop there. We steal spiritual and non material “things” as well. We steal time from ourselves and employers, we steal love and affection from our families and friends, and trust and respect from our supporters.

S3 Ep 110Your Answer is Not Blowing in the Wind
“Whomever creates problems in his household will inherit the wind”. This proverb is so true today. Politicians are creating problems, then give us solutions, and then we support them! We are fighting each other over made up issues and the real problems are ignored.

S3 Ep 109Hey Jude, Make it Better
Praying and good wishes will not make the United States a better place. Our actions however will make the USA a better place. Don’t be seduced by simple slogans, judge the candidates by how they act.

S3 Ep 108Bears Make Bad Witnesses
The commandment that one should not bear false witness does not apply only in a court of law. The 9th Commandment means we should not lie and make statements that are false. Particularly to get elected or for personal gain. God said it, not me don’t lie

S3 Ep 107Commandment 10 That Coveting Thing
The goal is to be able to appreciate what other people have without wanting to possess that object. The desire to have something better than what others have is self destructive. We can never enjoy what we have if something else is always better.

S3 Ep 106The Not Invisible Man
The media reports that older people are invisible are greatly exaggerated. I have been given the attention and concern that a 78 year old deserves. Neither I nor anyone I know personally has been treated as if they were invisible. You are not invisible

S3 Ep 105The Big Ten-The Beginning
Welcome to the 10 Commandments and politicians. In coming episodes we’ll compare Trump’s and President Biden’s behavior to the 10 Commandments. How does Trump and Biden measure up to the TEN

S3 Ep 104What Sense Is Fashion Sense?
Do you remember Fernando Lamas' famous words? “It's better to look good than to feel good, and darling, you look marvelous!”How you look is the message

S3 Ep 103It’s Not The Flag That is Upside Down
Extremism and cultism are the new norm, not good. We are mistaken thinking that electing an autocratic, dictator, seeking revenge will make America great again. Nor will re-electing a far left candidate who is out of touch with the average American make us better. The values of our politicians are not American values.

S3 Ep 1021948 Israel and Palestine
How did it get to be such a mess and how will it end. Pre World War I colonialism created countries in the Middle East that were not historically countries. Arab nationalism was ignored and land was taken and given without any thought. Palestine and Israel recognizing each other is the only, best, and last hope.

S3 Ep 101Why The Toxic Attitude?
It gets tiresome being bombarded with everything being negative. “Fair & Balanced” has become a meaningless phrase. Not all Democrats are right and all Republicans wrong and vice versa! Why not present your positives & negatives, instead of you are right and they are wrong. The Present President is Always a Bad Choice

S3 Ep 100Don’t Wait For The Music, Just Dance
Don’t let everything you see, read, or hear cause you to freeze. Inaction results from our being influenced by everything except what we want to do. It is all about you, not about what others say. Be yourself and not anyone else.

S3 Ep 99Good Enough is Not Really Good
Stop saying “good enough”. The word “enough” qualifies the good and diminishes enjoying the good. Judging what we do against all the social media posts creates an unnecessary unhappiness. Things that we do can and are good, no compromise necessary. Something good is good, enough already making it less.

S3 Ep 98The Seven Deadly Sins Envy
You are not going to Hell. You are not a sinner. A sin is acting in a harmful or destructive way. The key word is act. We are all going to experience envy, whether we sin or not depends on how we respond to our feelings. You are not going to “Hell”

S3 Ep 97The Seven Deadly Sins Lust
Lusting after things that are unnecessary is definitely missing the mark. What do I need to be happy and satisfied? We can recognize that we want and desire are the result of lust or are they things that would make us happy. How does your lust work for you?

S3 Ep 98Ritual Your Way
Rituals for both religious purposes and non religious purposes can benefit us or distract us. Rituals are not the end goal. They keep us focused and remind us of our goals. Use religious rituals as intended

S3 Ep 96The Seven Deadly Sins Pride
Sin is not a state of being, you are not in a sinner who needs to be saved. You just missed the mark! Pride is not the sin, hubris is. We all should take pride in who we are and we do, it is excessive pride that destroys us. Hubris goes before the fall!

S3 Ep 95Where The Truth Lies
Social Truth, Twitter, Facebook, X, CNN, Fox New, Al Jazeera, just to name a few. Let’s sort this stuff out! We have the ability and can do it. Perhaps you can’t handle the truth!”Social Truth” can you handle the truth

S3 Ep 94The Seven Deadly Sins: Sloth
Remember sinning means missing the mark, it is not a state of being. So you spent time off task, projects were late, not all the household chores got done and you aren’t a sinner. You set up your work schedule, you decide how to spend your time, and then decide if you followed your plan. A Sin Means Missing the Mark You Set

S3 Ep 93There Once Was A Bridge
Our money should not be spent on rebuilding the Key bridge. The owner of the ship is responsible for the damages it caused. Why aren’t we considering the collision a terrorist event. Was the collision of the cargo ship with the Key bridge a terrorist attack?

S3 Ep 92Your Religion is Perfect For You
Just because your religion is perfect for You doesn’t mean it is perfect for me. Every religion is great for someone just not everyone. Stop using politics to promote your religion

S3 Ep 91The Seven Deadly Sins Gluttony
This is the sin of excess. Moderation is the goal, enjoying that which is not harmful is not a sin. Too much of anything is not only a sin but is destructive. No one ever sinned by choosing the middle way

S3 Ep 90What’s Up Doc
Medical science gives us more information than we can use. We have reached the point where our knowledge exceeds our ability to act on that knowledge and information. Do I really need to know that much about my cancer?

S3 Ep 89The Seven Deadly Sins, Greed
Sin in Judaism means missing the mark, it is about our actions. We are not sinners nor are we In a state of sin. We choose to act in ways that result in harming ourselves and others. Actions that destroy and harm are deadly

S3 Ep 88What do We Do Now That We Are Down To Two
It has been over 60 years since I voted for a political candidate in any election! I am tired of voting for the least objectionable candidate. We have 2 great political parties, why can’t either of them present us with a candidate that I can support!Democrats and Republicans give me a suitable candidate

S3 Ep 87BS, MS Piled Higher & Deeper
A degree in Higher Education has been elevated to an unnecessary position. Most jobs, occupations, and professions don’t need the level of education that is required. Educational requirements are used to exclude Hispanics, Blacks, Gays, Lesbians, Trans, or any one else that the employer doesn’t want to hire

S3 Ep 86Don’t Buy Into Fear
Fear is necessary and important for human survival. We want to avoid that which may kill us. We don’t want to let others control us by using fear. Politicians of all colors use fear to get our votes without concern for how we respond to our fear. Voice mail from President Trump and President Biden: “Be Afraid, details to follow!”

S3 Ep 85War Isn’t Hell, It’s Worse
Captain Benjamin Franklin "Hawkeye" Pierce, given the war In Ukraine and Gaza I would add to your observation much, much, worse. Politicians and the media are using the wars for self promotion. The wars in Gaza and Ukraine are much worse than Hell.

S3 Ep 84A Zionist With A Small z
I am a spiritual and cultural zionist, not a religious or political or practical Zionist. The State of Israel has mixed Orthodox Judaism with secular politics and the result is an unmitigated disaster. Israel as a nation has a right and an obligation to defend itself. Palestine & Israel recognizing the sovereignty and right to exist is the only solution to the war in Gaza.

S3 Ep 83A Rabbi Anywhere But in Israel
Reform Judaism has turned the movement into a Pro-Israel movement. Israel is a country that is central to Judaism, but it is not the sumtotal of Judaism. Israel is losing support and the movement is losing members. It is time to put God and Torah back on the agenda and curriculum. Stop politicizing Reform Judaism

S3 Ep 82Occupying Gaza, A Bad Idea
In the history of bad political ideas occupying captured territory or a country is at the top of list of bad ideas. Netanyahu and the Knesset have the opportunity not to make a really bad decision. How is the occupation of the West Bank going?

S3 Ep 81Follow the Benjamins
It’s all about the money. It’s not about how, when, or where you earn. It’s who and why. The money trail

S3 Ep 80The Gaza War, A Radical Proposal
It is time for Israel to leave Gaza and create a Palestine. Both Israel and Palestine will recognize the sovereignty of each country to exist. The United States, Mexico, and Canada could not survive if any one of them had a charter/constitution based on the destruction of the other. Hamas release the hostages, Israel leave Gaza!

S3 Ep 79Talmud and Tunnels
History repeats itself! The Talmud is full of Jewish secret plots to control the world. The media uses quotes from the Talmud to show the decadence of Judaism. Jewish plans for world domination exposed!

S3 Ep 78One Religion Doesn’t Have A MonopoLy On Confession
Roman Catholics aren’t the only people who can go to confession. Anyone can benefit from the power of confession. Send me an email if you would like me to help you deal with your guilt. [email protected] is Good for everyone.

S3 Ep 77Happy New Year, Whichever One You Count On
The spiritual Jewish new year of Rosh Hashanah has passed time to celebrate the secular new year. Don’t miss out on welcoming 2024. Celebrate the New Year

S3 Ep 76Tie A Knot and Hang on to Hope
We all need hope, not just for survival but to live with serenity. Keep your hope or get your hope renewed something we all need. Realistic Hope is not the exclusive property of religion.

S3 Ep 75Hang On To That Magic Feather
We all need a magic “feather”. It can be a shirt, socks, or pen, anything that gives us the confidence we need to get something done. Dunbo had it right

S3 Ep 74You Can’t Handle the Truth
How is not handling the truth working for you? For the moment stop focusing on the things you can not control. Like Israel and Hamas, Russia and the Ukrainian and focus on your beliefs. Israel and Hamas Does Not Effect Your Life.

S3 Ep 73Merry Christmas Rabbi
I am not offended if you wish me a “Merry Christmas”. I am honored when you wish me a happy holiday of your choosing. Merry Christmas to All.

S3 Ep 72Prejudice Can Be Useful
Without making a prejudgment we would be seriously injured or dead. When making a prejudgment we often hurt ourselves and others. Prejudice is neither good nor bad. Prejudice the Key to Survival

S3 Ep 71Instead of Arguing
Family holiday gatherings are stressful enough without being a forum for arguing. Engage my strategy to have an argument free holiday. Thanksgiving , Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanza, or your holiday of choice can be stress free.

S3 Ep 70Israel is Not A Jewish Nation, It is A Nation of a Lot of Jews
Israel is a sovereign nation and deserves the support of the United Nations and the world community. David Ben Gurion said it clearly Israel is a nation of Jews and Muslims

S3 Ep 69This Is A Country of Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus, etc.
The US of A is not a Christian country, it is a country with many Christians and more people who belong to other religions. The USA is not a Christian Country, there are more non Christians in America than Christians

S3 Ep 68Since Everyone is Wrong No One is Right
Palestinians and Israelis are not blameless and both are wrong. By choosing sides because we think that that side is right has ended up in us turning against each other and violence has ensued. Violence and Destruction Spreads in The War Between Israel and Hamas.

S3 Ep 67Helping Ourselves When Feeling Helpless
We need to deal with our feelings of helplessness when we watch the news. Doing something local instead of trying to solve ending the war between Israel and Hamas is the key. The war is destructive to both sides.

S3 Ep 66Where Can We Find Hope
Watch events unfold in the Middle East along with events in Ukrainian mix in the US congress we might be tempted to give up hope. Don’t despair there is hope. Israel, Gaza, Ukrainian, & The House of Representatives weigh on us