
The Purple Pawedcast
Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).
Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.
Show overview
The Purple Pawedcast has been publishing since 2023, and across the 3 years since has built a catalogue of 96 episodes. That works out to roughly 100 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a fortnightly cadence.
Episodes typically run an hour to ninety minutes — most land between 1h and 1h 6m — and the run-time is fairly consistent across the catalogue. None of the episodes are flagged explicit by the publisher. It is catalogued as a EN-language Science show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 2 weeks ago, with 8 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2024, with 43 episodes published. Published by Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D..
From the publisher
Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind). Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.
Latest Episodes
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Undoing a Lifetime of Programming - with Terraine LeBeau
Ep 94Falling in Love with Life Again - with Serena Saint Sinclair
Today's episode features Serena Saint Sinclair's story of deconstructing religion to build a new magical practice. Serena is a Chaos witch, Persephone devotee, and hostess of "The Pomegranate Path" project. Serena and I mull over topics as fascinating as the Problem of Evil, Western health care, and why every kid deserves to have pomegranates peeled for them.REFERENCES:Serena Saint-Sinclair’s Linktree: https://linktr.ee/serenasaintsinclairFollow Serena on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/serenasaintsinclairFollow Serena on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/serenasaintsinclairFollow Serena on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SerenaSaintSinclair(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:27) - Introducing Serena Saint Sinclair (03:04) - Finding intrinsic meaning in life (05:48) - Evil in God's Image (10:32) - Finding Chaos Magic and Persephone (20:40) - Holding multiple truths at once (24:47) - Co-creating with the Universe (30:51) - Hating on the US health care system (38:58) - Life force and balance (45:38) - Duality, pomegranates, and Persephone (52:07) - How to find Serena Saint Sinclair on the internet (55:41) - Show closing (58:27) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 93Know That You Deserve Better - with Gloria Battini
This week, we hear Gloria Battini's story of overcoming real life to reclaim her spiritual gifts. Gloria is a transformational guide, spiritual teacher, and empathic visionary whose work empowers humanity to reach its highest potential. Gloria and I discuss fascinating topics, such as how social healing really happens, listening to your soul's messages, and Ami's stunning ability to recognize Greek letters.REFERENCES:Gloria Battini’s Website: https://www.gloriabattini.com/Follow Gloria on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gloriabattini(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:27) - Introducing Gloria Battini (02:20) - From paralyzing OCD to seeing clearly (08:33) - Matching outside to inside (15:03) - Beating OCD with a great life (16:36) - Not really able to read Greek (18:23) - Healing from the bottom up (21:54) - The layers of conditioning (27:32) - Build a stronger foundation (32:43) - Healing yourself is enough (36:16) - Follow what makes you curious (39:52) - See your child for who they are (41:45) - The soul is chatty! (45:26) - The beginning of a new cycle (52:10) - How to find Gloria Battini on the internet (55:15) - Show closing (56:54) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 92Anchor Your Gender in Joy - with DR Z PHD
This week's episode was a tremendous treat for me - I got to talk to Dr. Natalia Zhikhareva, or DR Z PHD! Natalia is a clinical psychologist specializing in gender identity and author of the book “On Your Terms: Gender Transition Redefined for Adults.” Natalia and I discussed topics as widely diverse as the origin of gender identity, the only person able to define your identity, and why we should all learn not to give a shit.REFERENCES:Dr. Natalia Zhikhareva’s website: https://drzphd.com/Follow Dr. Z on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DRZPHDFollow Dr. Z on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drzphd/Follow Dr. Z on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DRZPHDpractice/Follow Dr. Z on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drz.phd/Follow Dr. Z on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/thedrzphd/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:26) - Introducing Dr. Natalia Zhikhareva (03:27) - Doing what comes naturally (08:47) - Why is gender only important now? (14:42) - The underlying cause of gender dysphoria (20:50) - Failure to sit in the unknown (26:38) - Nature vs Nurture (32:37) - Let gender evolve (37:42) - Anchor yourself in what feels like you (41:15) - How biology relates to gender (43:56) - Health insurance is for healing pain (50:59) - How to find Dr. Z on the internet (55:04) - Show closing (55:32) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 91Reality Seen Through the Eyes of Love - with Gregory James Thelian
This week, we hear about identity made manifest through boudoir photography with Gregory James Thelian. Gregory is an award-winning photographer and speaker on self-perception whose work focuses on helping clients see themselves as the rest of the world does. Gregory and I muse through topics as diverse as seeing yourself through self-worth, how Photoshop isn't evil in the right hands, and why Kim Kardashian should be BFFs with Gregory and Ami. REFERENCES:Gregory James Thelian’s Website: https://www.gregoryjamesphotography.com/Gregory's "Reframing the Top 12 Self-limiting Beliefs" Guide: https://gjp.myflodesk.com/reframing-self-limiting-beliefsFollow Gregory on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gregoryjames.photo/Follow Gregory on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gregory.james.photography.nycFollow Gregory on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gregoryjames.photoFollow Gregory on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gregoryjamesphotography(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:29) - Introducing Gregory James Thelian (03:10) - Discarding outside perceptions (09:45) - Finding the soul in photography (15:30) - How the people who love you see you (22:16) - Photoshop is not necessarily evil (27:27) - Connecting the dots of who you are (35:22) - Feeling heard and being seen (40:58) - Life changes when you are worthy (48:13) - Other people's small thinking inhibits your full thinking (53:35) - How to find Gregory James Thelian on the internet (54:54) - Show closing (59:23) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 90Re-Enchanted by the Unknown - with Dr. Richard Kaczynski
This week's episode is a story of science, politics, and ignorance with Dr. Richard Kaczynski. Richard is a psychologist, Thelemite, and author of the book "Mind Over Magick." Richard and I muse over topics as far afield as the human penchant to fill in where there are no blanks, why humans choose ignorance over science, and what "Ghostbusters" can teach about statistics.REFERENCES:Richard Kaczynski’s Website: https://richard-kaczynski.com/Follow Richard on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/richardkaczynski.bsky.socialLearn more about Richard’s book “Mind Over Magick”: https://www.innertraditions.com/mind-over-magick(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:28) - Introducing Richard Kaczynski (02:42) - Just a typical magical childhood (08:44) - Awkward pop culture references (10:26) - Filling in where there are no blanks (15:41) - Open or closed to magick, it still happens (22:41) - We have no idea (27:17) - Throwing out what we don't understand (31:01) - Why do we choose ignorance? (36:19) - Lost confidence from bullshit answers (41:58) - Challenging what we already know (47:19) - The disenchantment of the world (52:58) - Applying science to magick (57:12) - How to find Richard Kaczynski on the internet (59:06) - Show closing (01:01:21) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 89Enhancing What Humans Do Better than Technology - with Derek Crager
Today's episode features a raw discussion with Derek Crager about the value of AI in human society. Derek Crager is a tech founder, an AI thought leader, and author of the upcoming book "Human First AI." Derek and I consider what AI excels at doing for humans, how humans can co-create with AI effectively, and why a printer telling you about its broken parts would be creepy.REFERENCES:Derek Crager’s Website: https://www.practicalai.appFollow Derek on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amazonleadership/Learn about Derek’s book: https://www.humanfirstai.net/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:28) - Introducing Derek Crager (02:22) - How to create the Universe (05:40) - How humans can use AI best (08:54) - AI is great at answering questions it already knows (12:37) - But AI struggles to understand context (16:03) - Mentorship, not copying and pasting (22:02) - Conversing with yourself on any topic you choose (28:37) - Co-creation or co-opting? (37:41) - Specialized training just for you! (44:25) - AI could actually prevent failure (47:42) - Trust the human (51:11) - Replacing humans while avoiding catastrophe (55:25) - How to find Derek Crager on the internet (56:38) - Show closing (57:07) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 88Great Sex for Life - with Eve Hall
This week's episode features a candid conversation about sex with my dear friend Eve Hall. Eve is a physical therapist for sexual wellness and an award-winning hostess of the Please Me! Podcast. Together, Eve and I consider topics as diverse as pelvic floor health, the patriarchy, and awkward ways to describe what humans do naturally.REFERENCES:Eve Hall’s Website: https://pleaseme.online/Follow Eve on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094393249379Follow Eve on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEo1qdyY9pXicqeXYeyca9QFollow Eve on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/please.me.by.eve.creations/Follow Eve on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@please_me__?lang=en(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:29) - Introducing Eve Hall (04:20) - Reclaiming sexual liberation (08:10) - Pelvic floor health and sexual health (14:28) - Vaginoplasty and the pelvic floor (19:19) - Awkward conversation about the prostate (23:02) - Sex, shame, and the patriarchy (30:28) - Perpetuating the human species (33:07) - Blood flow and sexual health (38:10) - Self-exploration on a daily basis (43:53) - Gender-affirming surgery made better sex! (48:37) - A bit about furries (52:08) - Communicating with your partner (57:57) - How to find Eve Hall on the internet (01:01:00) - Show closing (01:02:33) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 87Developing as the People We Already Are - with Mary Kathleen Mehuron
Today's episode features a story of old-school New Jersey coming-of-age with Mary Kathleen Mehuron. Mary Kathleen is an author, educator, and artist whose most recent novel "Down on the South Beach Drag” explores Queer self-discovery. Mary Kathleen and I discuss the New Jersey art and music scene, The Boss, and giving children the space to grow up to be just who they are.REFERENCES:Mary Kathleen Mehuron’s Website: https://www.marykathleenmehuron.com/Follow Mary Kathleen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mary.mehuronFollow Mary Kathleen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marykathleenmehuron ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 86Respect and Humanity on the Campaign Trail '25 - with Erica Deuso
Today's episode features the new Mayor of Downingtown, PA, Dr. Erica Deuso. Erica is a scientist, advocate for the marginalized...oh, and the first openly transgender Mayor in the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania. Erica and I discuss topics as weighty as the dirty business inherent in politics, how education is the best form of activism, and how long a buffalo would need to be in electrolysis before a vaginoplasty.REFERENCES:Erica Deuso’s Website: https://www.ericadeuso.com/Follow Erica on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/ericadeuso.bsky.socialFollow Erica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Erica_Deuso/Follow Erica on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EricaForPA/Follow Erica on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EricaforPAFollow Erica on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@erica_deusoEmerge Pennsylvania: https://pa.emergeamerica.org/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:31) - Introducing Erica Deuso (04:34) - More worried about empty storefronts than gender (09:45) - Just qualified for the job (14:43) - The dirty business of politics (19:15) - A quick jaunt into global finance (25:32) - Dealing with hate on the campaign trail (31:58) - Fighting hate with critical thinking (37:50) - Activism means constantly learning more (44:30) - Humanity is all about respect (49:47) - The Good Neighbor Mayor (53:45) - Deuso Herrick 2028! (58:13) - How to find Erica Deuso on the internet (01:03:36) - Show closing (01:04:00) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 85End Self-Sabotage with Discomfort - with Dr. Albert Bramante
Today's episode features insight into self-defeating behavior with Dr. Albert Bramante. Albert is a psychology professor, author, talent agent, and hypnotist whose newest book is titled "Rise Above the Script: Confronting Self Doubt and Mastering Self Sabotage for Performing Artists." Albert and I muse over topics as diverse as how self-sabotage stems from comfort, whether more physical danger would make for better people, and why drama majors inspire less drama than academics.REFERENCES:Albert Bramante’s Website: https://albertbramante.com/Read “Rise Above the Script”: https://a.co/d/b770wPbFollow Albert on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/albertbramanteFollow Albert on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dralbramanteFollow Albert on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/albertbramante ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 84The Mirror of Who We Really Are - with Dr. Stacy Friedman
This week's episode features advice on having great sex by Dr. Stacy Friedman. Dr. Stacy is a clinical sexologist, podcaster, and Certified Sex Coach. We discuss topics as weighty as why we only learn about the negative aspects of sex, how teaching your partner what makes you happy is your gift to them, and why alliteration with P is the best there is.REFERENCES:Dr. Stacy Friedman’s Website: https://drstacyfriedman.comFollow Dr. Stacy on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrStacyFriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drstacyfriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstacyfriedman/Follow Dr. Stacy on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrStacyFriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drstacy(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:33) - Introducing Dr. Stacy Friedman (02:43) - The few willing to be open about sex (06:59) - We only learn the negatives of sex (11:45) - Why we struggle to make sex better (16:24) - The gift of knowing how to make your partner happy (21:05) - Honesty, curiosity, and authenticity are never selfish (26:31) - Overcoming our personal stigmas and taboos (33:27) - Getting over the religion thing (43:57) - The beauty of full expression of identity (50:50) - The role of fantasy is our sex life (54:37) - How to find Dr. Stacy Friedman on the internet (57:45) - Show closing (58:08) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 83Learning to Step into Our Power - with Tracey Napier
Today's episode features Tracey Napier's story of shattering early perceptions of limitation to blossom into the Divine Plan. Tracey is an intuitive life coach, psychic, author, and speaker. Tracey and I consider topics as diverse as the beliefs that steal our control, how we can only delay the Divine Plan, and why we need to ask ourselves the right questions if we expect ourselves to answer.REFERENCES:Tracey Napier’s Website: https://www.traceynapier.com/Follow Tracey on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traceyjeannapier2/Follow Tracey on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@traceyjeannapierFollow Tracey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traceyjeannapier/Follow Tracey on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/traceynapier/Follow Tracey on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@traceyjeannapier(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:29) - Introducting Tracey Napier (02:15) - Opening the door to taking control (08:49) - Thoughts and beliefs that limit us (15:09) - Awakening to a spiritual calling (22:13) - Building compassion for all (26:53) - Allowing the Divine Plan to happen (32:38) - Revealing our true purpose (37:40) - Asking yourself the right questions (44:20) - Co-creating our path in life (47:05) - Making awareness a practice (50:18) - How to find Tracey Napier on the internet (52:41) - Show closing (56:07) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 82Curiosity Is Always Appropriate - with Anne Gillaspie
Today's episode features Anne Gillaspie's raw story of hitting bottom, finding purpose, and reclaiming who she is. Anne is a Brand Therapist, podcaster, and Worshiper of Why. In our discussion, Anne and I touch on all damage caused by manipulation, trusting our children to learn from their mistakes, and how to rank the Spice Girls correctly.CONTENT WARNING: Depression and SuicideREFERENCES:Anne Gillaspie’s Website: https://www.fixandform.com/ Follow Fix & Form on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fixandformFollow Fix & Form on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FixandForm/Follow Fix & Form on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/company/fixandformFollow Fix & Form on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fix.form.branding(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:29) - Introducing Anne Gillaspie (02:33) - Always stay curious (12:12) - Damage to the manipulator (17:54) - Existing as we are (23:09) - Coming back to her own body (28:55) - Getting out and surviving (36:49) - Only share your experience (45:27) - Trust cihildren to move through life (53:36) - Healing with healthy leadership (01:01:06) - How to find Anne Gillaspie on the internet (01:04:17) - Show closing (01:05:34) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 81The Opposite of Symptoms - with Dr. Jeff Feinman
Today's episode features Dr. Jeff Feinman and his Whole-istic approach to veterinary medicine. Dr. Jeff is a veterinarian as well as a Whole-istic connector and educator. Jeff and I muse over topics as far afield as context in science and medicine; life, death, and rebirth; and what to call the word 'laser.'REFERENCES:Jeff Feinmans’s Website: https://www.holisticactions.com/Follow Jeff on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/holisticactionsFollow Jeff on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticActionsFollow Jeff on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticactionsFollow Jeff on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-jeff-feinman-72422013/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:36) - Introducing Jeff Feinman (02:33) - Medical challenges from childhood (06:28) - Science may not know all (09:43) - It depends on the context (15:17) - The importance of mindset (19:36) - Rebirth of our most loved pets (26:13) - Including our pets in spiritual focus (32:07) - Behavior, Energy, Appetite, and Mood (38:07) - Happiness is fundamental (43:29) - Quality of Life and Healthspan (47:52) - The future of Whole-isitic care (53:40) - Treating humans as well as pets (55:55) - How to find Dr. Jeff Feinman on the internet (01:00:19) - Show closing (01:02:44) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 80Service over Self and Country over Party - with Dakarai Larriett
Today's episode is an honor I won't forget - Candidate for US Senate Dakarai Larriett tells his story of police brutality turned into a run for America's future. Dakarai is a businessperson, an advocate, a police brutality survivor, and 2026 US Senate Candidate for the state of Alabama. Our conversation floats over topics are diverse as qualified immunity, Queer representation, and how most states are purple...as they should be!REFERENCES:Dakarai Larriett’s Website: https://dakarailarriett.com/Read Dakarai’s book “Don’t Flush:” https://a.co/d/9evLdYtFollow Dakarai on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dakarailarriettforsenateFollow Dakarai on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/12H6Wmgbj8E/?mibextid=wwXIfrFollow Dakarai on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dakarai.larriettFollow Dakarai on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dakarail(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:31) - Introducing Dakarai Larriett (02:18) - Congress should represent America (05:42) - Racial profiling leads to police brutality (14:03) - Qualified immunity must go! (19:29) - Service over self and country over party (26:25) - Queer eye for the government (33:46) - What is true representation? (37:06) - Equal access to the American Dream (42:17) - American Dream or carrot and stick (47:37) - Red vs Blue (50:34) - Inspiring generations to come (54:27) - Collaboration, not competition (56:50) - How to find Dakarai Larriett on the internet (59:38) - Show closing (01:02:13) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 79Mirroring Humanity with Artificial Intelligence - with Lynn Colepaugh
Today's episode features Lynn Colepaugh and her conversation with Large Language Models (LLMs). Lynn is a brand strategist, music label founder, and Founder of Cyber PR Army, a woman-led digital strategy agency. Together, Lynn and I consider imagination as the Infinite Almost, how to keep your most important memories alive, and whether Pedro Pascal can conjugate.REFERENCES:Lynn Colepaugh’s Website: https://cyberprarmy.com/See Lynn's story and book a consultation: https://cyberprarmy.com/thecastleFollow Lynn on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lynn.daigleFollow Lynn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynncolepaugh/Follow Lynn on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lynncolepaugh/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:30) - Instroducing Lynn Colepaugh (05:30) - The importance of being seen (10:39) - Collapsing realities into The Almost (15:52) - Imagination is the Real World (18:38) - Humanizing ourselves through AI (22:06) - Who is the intelligent one in AI? (26:33) - Building a mirror of your Soul (32:48) - Random access to identity (38:50) - Trust through authenticity (45:16) - We are what we consume (50:11) - Discovering and developing who we are (56:13) - Past Participles for Pedro (57:47) - How to find Lynn Colepaugh on the internet (01:00:14) - Show closing (01:01:21) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 78Dyslexia and the Craft of Research - with Russell Van Brocklen
Today's episode features Russell Van Brocklen's struggles with dyslexia, and how he came out the other side. Russell is "The Dyslexia Professor" and founded the website https://dyslexiaclasses.com. In our discussion, Russell and I consider topics as diverse as language processing, how learning requires custom application per student, and why "Wonder Woman " was such a great movie.REFERENCES:Russell Van Brocklen’s Website: https://dyslexiaclasses.com/Follow Russell on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dyslexiaclassesFollow Russell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/teaching-students-with-dyslexia/Follow Russell on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dyslexiaclasses7755 ★ Support this podcast ★
Ep 77Rejecting Consensus Reality - with Christian de la Huerta
Today's episode features Christian de la Huerta and his story of reclaiming himself from other people's expectations. Christian is an author, TedX speaker, and personal transformation coach whose latest book explores the relationship of love, choice, and power. Christian and I discuss topics as wide as toxic masculinity, how power is not zero-sum, and the holistic nature of love.REFERENCES:Christian de la Huerta’s Website: https://soulfulpower.com/Follow Christian on Facebook: http://facebook.com/groups/unleashyourinnerheroFollow Christian on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christiandlh/Follow Christian on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@soulfulpower6929Follow Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiandelahuerta/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:31) - Introducing Christian de la Huerta (02:28) - Our ambivalent relationship with power (07:02) - Giving our power away (09:17) - Finding the balance between the masculine and feminine (12:20) - The price for men of toxic masculinity (15:03) - Misunderstanding our roles in the Universe (18:54) - Popping out of consensus reality (23:42) - Playing the victim card (28:04) - Power is not a zero-sum game (32:55) - Challenging our relationship to power (38:04) - Communication and power relationships (40:32) - Fulfillment as a definition of success (42:33) - Love and the ego (48:07) - Love, the Self, and Self-Love (54:21) - How to find Christian de la Huerta on the internet (59:54) - Show closing (01:02:19) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★