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S3 Ep 83#83 TERRY WILSON | Turning Tragedy to Triumph

In this powerful episode, Terry Wilson Jr., a retired Green Beret with over 20 years of service in the Special Forces, shares his incredible journey from a challenging upbringing to becoming a Sergeant Major and finding his true purpose beyond the military. Terry opens up about the sacrifices he made during his time in the military and the critical role his supportive spouse played in his success. He emphasizes the importance of prioritizing family and faith over career achievements, offering valuable insights into what it means to be an authentic masculine leader. Dive into the warrior mindset with Terry as he explores the qualities that define an effective Green Beret—stoicism, empathy, humility, and self-awareness. He also delves into the significance of brotherhood, the power of giving and receiving feedback, and the vital role of self-awareness in leadership. The conversation takes an emotional turn as Terry recounts the profound challenges of family leadership, particularly after the heartbreaking loss of his son. He candidly discusses the struggles of rebuilding his life post-retirement and finding renewed purpose, highlighting the importance of self-care to better serve others. As the episode unfolds, Terry reflects on the healing power of therapy, the need to focus on positivity and gratitude, and the pivotal role faith and community have played in his journey. His story is a testament to resilience, self-reflection, and the strength found in a supportive community. Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with valuable lessons on overcoming trauma, finding purpose, and leading with love and humility. Follow Terry on IG: https://www.instagram.com/terry.m.wilson.jr/ Follow Terry on X: https://x.com/Trailer7233

Aug 28, 20241h 37m

S3 Ep 82#82 DANIEL HICKMAN | The Competitive Edge

Daniel Hickman shares his journey of rediscovering his competitive edge and prioritizing his family. He discusses the influence of his father, the role of competition in personal growth, and the moment that sparked a change in his life. Daniel emphasizes the importance of being uncommon and not settling for a normal, unfulfilling life. He also highlights the need for strong leadership in marriage and the value of having a supportive circle of friends. In this conversation, Daniel Hickman shares his journey of personal growth and transformation as a husband, father, and entrepreneur. He emphasizes the importance of building deep friendships and brotherhoods to process emotions and maintain a strong leadership role in the family. Daniel also discusses the significance of following your heart and pursuing your passions, as well as the importance of taking action and not being afraid to fail. He shares his fitness journey and the impact it has had on his overall well-being and confidence. Daniel's legacy is defined by the positive influence he has on others and the lessons he passes on to his children.Daniel is host of The Competitive Edge Podcast:SUBSCRIBE to Daniel here: https://www.youtube.com/@DanielHickman26

Aug 21, 20241h 1m

Bridging the Gap Between Generations of Men | Building a Better Future

In this conversation, George Hayworth and Brendan Schlittler discuss the challenges faced by younger men in today's world when it comes to marriage and dating. They debunk the myth that younger men have no desire to get married and explore the reasons behind this perception. Brendan shares his personal experience of getting married at a young age and the intentional approach he took in finding a partner. They also discuss the negative stereotypes surrounding marriage and the importance of renewing the mind and filtering what goes into it. They highlight the need for older generations to meet younger men where they are and provide mentorship and guidance. The conversation explores the importance of making intentional decisions, seeking fulfillment in life, and the significance of surrounding oneself with the right people. The main themes include recognizing the impact of decisions, rewiring the mind for fulfillment, understanding the influence of self-perception on relationships, the power of brotherhood, and the difference between being a good man and a nice guy. Follow Brendan here: https://x.com/_The_Good_Man Follow George here: https://x.com/EliteSentinelx

Aug 16, 202454 min

S3 Ep 81#81 CHRIS LEE | Beyond the Battlefield

Chris Lee, a former Green Beret, shares his journey from being a youth pastor to joining the Army and becoming a Green Beret. He talks about the challenges he faced, the lessons he learned, and the importance of having a clear vision and purpose in life. Chris emphasizes the need to not shy away from difficult challenges and to constantly strive to become the best version of oneself. He also discusses the importance of maintaining strong relationships with family, even during long deployments. Chris shares his experiences in the military and the challenges he faced in finding his identity and purpose after leaving. He emphasizes the importance of supporting and insulating others who may be struggling with their identity. Chris also discusses his book, Beyond the Battlefield, which focuses on personal growth and the importance of knowing who you want to be rather than just what you want to achieve. He offers advice for those considering leaving the military and highlights the significance of having a plan and maintaining a supportive community. In fatherhood, Chris emphasizes the importance of cherishing every moment, being present, and setting a positive example for his daughters. Get Chris' Book Here: https://a.co/d/aMHodz3 FOLLOW CHRIS: https://www.instagram.com/coach_chris.lee/

Aug 14, 20241h 7m

S3 Ep 80#80 JACOB PETERS | The Dark Reality of Healthcare - A Comedy of Incentives

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Jacob Peters is the Co-Founder and CEO at Superpower.com, the world's most advanced healthcare platform for prevention and longevity. Prior to Superpower, Jacob started two companies worth over $500m by age 26 – all while overcoming a near-death health experience that left him without 3 major organs, a $2m hospital bill, and a prescription to medicate for life. After an extensive healing journey that led him to the frontier of modern medicine, he realized there was an opportunity to build a new type of technology company that makes it easier to be healthier and disease-free. Superpower is funded by top venture capitalists and billionaires like Cameron & Tyler Winklevoss, Balaji Srinivasan, Cyan Bannister, and the founder of Doordash ($70B IPO). Episode 80 chronicles Jacob's unbelievable story and shares valuable insight into how Americans can reclaim their health.Learn more at Superpower.com

Aug 7, 20241h 7m

S3 Ep 79#79 DANE PALARINO | From Chaos to Purpose - A Journey of Transformation

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Dane Palarino is a husband and father who helps men reclaim their confidence and direction through fitness. He is the founder of Dad Bod Sculptors and is on a mission to help every man be fit and lead with confidence.Dane shares his story in this episode overcoming years of bad habits and compromising his values for the sake of others. He shares how much he struggled to respect himself and to hold himself to basic disciplines. Eventually he made a change and in turn redirected his entire life. Follow Dane on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/dadbod_sculptors/ and start your fitness transformation now!

Jul 31, 20241h 14m

S3 Ep 78#78 DINO - THE ART OF PURPOSE | Reclaiming Masculine Purpose

Dino, also known as The Art of Purpose, shares his journey from being an educator to becoming a successful social media influencer. He started his social media account during the COVID-19 pandemic to spread positivity and inspire others. Dino emphasizes the importance of defining one's purpose and staying true to it. He offers advice on starting a business while keeping a day job and the financial considerations involved. Dino also discusses the power of networking on X, a social media platform that connects individuals and allows for real-time business growth. The conversation explores the importance of fatherhood and the role of men in celebrating the success of others. It delves into the idea that becoming a father unlocks a primal instinct and leads to personal growth and improved decision-making. The conversation also discusses the dangers of defining one's identity solely through work and the need for men to reclaim their identity and purpose. It emphasizes the power and fulfillment that women find in their roles as wives and mothers, and the negative impact of societal conditioning that devalues these roles. The conversation concludes with a call for men to lead their families and for a return to biblical values. In this conversation, Dino and the hosts discuss the importance of men taking on leadership roles in their families and the negative consequences of a godless society. They emphasize the need for men to lead their households and prioritize their relationships with their wives and children. They also discuss the impact of societal pressures on women and the importance of providing a strong foundation for their families. The conversation touches on the concept of legacy and the significance of instilling values in the next generation. They also address the attempts to diminish the role of fathers and the importance of spending quality time with children. The hosts share personal experiences of becoming fathers and the challenges they faced. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the power of authenticity and the importance of sharing one's true ideas and beliefs. Follow The Art of Purpose on X: https://x.com/creation247

Jul 24, 20241h 14m

S3 Ep 77#77 SETH GEHLE | Behind the Scenes Debrief

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After recording Episode 68 with Seth Gehle, we did a little debrief to unpack some of what we discussed. Seth's story is very heavy. He has overcome an incredible amount of abuse through childhood and has risen above it all. Here is the behind the scenes look at our candid conversation after recording the episode.You can hear his full story in episode 68 of the podcast

Jul 17, 202424 min

S3 Ep 76#76 DENNY GIAMAZZO | Raised Without a Father "I doubt he even knows I exist"

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Denny Giamazzo is host of the Be The Standard Podcast and joins us in Episode 76 to share his life story.Denny had an incredibly difficult upbringing. He never knew his father. His mother had him when she was very young and she struggled with severe substance abuse. Denny's early childhood is marked by very difficult circumstances.Later in life Denny joined the Army National Guard and deployed to Afghanistan. He has overcome significant trials in his life and helps men today Be the Standard. Subscribe to: https://www.youtube.com/@BeTheStandardPodcast And Follow Denny on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dennygiamazzo/

Jul 10, 20241h 29m

S3 Ep 75#75 TYLER BUTTERWORTH | Independence Day Freedom Special

Happy 4th of July Ladies and Gentlemen! This is a Star-Spangled Special episode to celebrate Independence day with our legendary guest @Butterworthdasyrup. He's a man who's taken the internet by storm, making hilariously wholesome content! This mustachioed superstar joins us for this Freedom Loving Special! Strap in, grab a can of liquid freedom and try to hang on to your fingers and toes this 4th of July as you light off as many fireworks as possible. GOD BLESS AMERICA! Happy Independence Day! Please enjoy the episode. Follow Tyler here: linktr.ee/butterworthdasyrup

Jul 4, 202450 min

S3 Ep 75Army Veteran Confessions: The Best and Worst of Military Life

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In this joint episode with Denny Paul from the Be the Standard podcast and Seth Gale from Go Beyond the Shadows, the three Army veterans discuss the best and worst aspects of Army life. They share funny and wild stories, as well as reflect on the importance of Memorial Day. The worst thing about the Army, according to Denny and Seth, is the constant hurry up and wait, where soldiers are expected to be ready at a moment's notice but often end up waiting for hours. The best thing about the Army, they agree, is the camaraderie and friendships formed. They also share crazy and dumb moments from their time in the Army, as well as the tough lessons they learned. In this conversation, the speakers discuss their experiences in the military and reflect on the lessons they learned. They talk about the importance of accountability and responsibility, their favorite weapon systems, their experiences in combat, and the impact they had on other countries. They also discuss the surprises they encountered in the military, such as the prevalence of drugs and steroids, and the contrast between the perception of the American flag in other countries versus in the United States. The speakers share their proudest moments, including graduating college and the influence they had on their soldiers.

Jul 2, 202444 min

S3 Ep 74#74 HARRISON SCHENCK | Save Your Sons: Winning the Culture War

Harrison Schenck is helping dads at Sherwood kids, Fatherizer Incubator and the Dad Biz Podcast. He is a Husband, Father, Social Media writer and thought leader and is a graduate of UNC Chapel Hill. In this episode, Harrison discusses his journey as a father and entrepreneur. He emphasizes the importance of men setting a positive example and being involved in their children's lives. Harrison also talks about the need to challenge the dominant cultural narrative and create a better alternative. He highlights the significance of personal growth and constantly striving to improve oneself and the world around them. The conversation also touches on the value of brotherhood and the importance of choosing the right partner in life. Harrison discusses the importance of finding a good wife and building a strong marriage. He emphasizes the need for men to be discerning and look for subtle signs in a potential partner, such as how they act around kids, animals, and their own family. Harrison also highlights the importance of personal growth and taking accountability in a marriage, as well as the role of communication and intentional parenting. He shares his thoughts on legacy and the desire to create a multi-generational family that stays close and supports each other. He also mentions his involvement with Sherwood, a streaming platform for kids that offers wholesome and low-stimulation content. Check out Sherwood: https://www.sherwoodkids.com/ Follow Harrison on X: https://x.com/SaveYourSons

Jun 19, 20241h 10m

S2 Ep 73#73 RICK BLINSON | Father's Day Special

In this episode, Rick, the father of the twins, shares his story of overcoming adversity and achieving success. Despite a difficult upbringing with an abusive alcoholic father, Rick made a choice to not let his circumstances define him. He worked hard, saved money, and eventually became a successful salesman. Rick emphasizes the importance of never accepting defeat and always striving for success. He also highlights the value of having a strong work ethic, treating others with respect, and continuously improving one's skills. The episode also includes stories of Rick working two jobs and the importance of creating balance in life. In this conversation, Rick reflects on his life experiences and shares valuable insights on leadership, work-life balance, and leaving a legacy. He emphasizes the importance of leading by example, instilling values in children, and prioritizing family. Rick also discusses the significance of discipline, exercise, and healthy habits in maintaining energy and focus. He shares memorable family moments and expresses pride in his children's accomplishments. Rick's advice to aspiring fathers is to prioritize family, live according to one's values, and treat others with kindness and respect.

Jun 16, 20241h 2m

S2 Ep 72#72 Dr. ARJUN NANDA | The Importance of Play and Mental Health

Dr. Arjun Nanda is a husband and father and he is a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist currently working at Monterey County Behavioral health, where he serves as Medical Team Lead of the Children's System of Care. He also consults for startups in the mental health spaces providing clinical expertise. He completed his residency at Case Western Reserve University - Metrohealth and child psychiatry fellowship at the University of Southern California, where he served as chief fellow. In this episode he shares insights on ADHD, parenting, and mental health. He emphasizes the importance of play and joy in father-child relationships and recommends books for dads. He also discusses the impact of discipline and the role of fathers in creating a safe and supportive environment for children.

Jun 12, 202447 min

S2 Ep 71#71 ROBERT BURNHAM | Leading with a Servant's Heart

In this conversation, Dustin interviews his grandfather, Robert Burnham, discussing family, values, work ethic, and the importance of giving back. They explore the influence of family members, the impact of reading, and the significance of community involvement. Robert shares stories from his life, including his experiences with famous individuals and his work on the railroad. The conversation delves into the value of hard work, the impact of technology on relationships, and the importance of fostering a sense of community and connection. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including personal anecdotes, career experiences, investment strategies, leadership, and the future of America. It delves into the speaker's life journey, from college to law school, career transitions, and the founding of his own business. The discussion also touches on the importance of a liberal arts education, the role of leadership in society, and the need for a servant mindset. The speaker shares insights on investment strategies, the future of nuclear energy, and the impact of DNA technology on healthcare. The conversation concludes with reflections on family, grandchildren, and the future of the country.

Jun 5, 20241h 17m

S2 Ep 70#70 CODEY GANDY | Leadership Masterclass with Echelon Front Coach

Codey Gandy is a husband, father, former U.S. Marine, and currently a leadership instructor, speaker, and strategic advisor for Echelon Front. Codey spent just over 5 years working as a ground combat leader for various units in the Marine Corps. He brings unmatched experience in demonstrating combat leadership in dynamic environments, building winning teams, and developing relationships across all levels of an organization. In this episode, Cody Gandy discusses his background, his family, and his work at Echelon Front. He emphasizes the importance of perspective and taking ownership of one's actions. Cody shares his journey from wanting to be a cop to joining the Marine Corps and eventually becoming an instructor at Echelon Front. He talks about the challenges of teaching leadership at home and the need to modulate emotions and show vulnerability. Cody also highlights the burden and honor of being a husband and father, and the importance of having a strong why. In this conversation, Cody Gandy discusses the challenges and lessons he has learned as a father. He emphasizes the importance of being prepared for the unexpected and being open-minded about the realities of parenthood. Cody shares personal experiences of dealing with health issues and emergencies with his children, highlighting the importance of capturing lessons learned and being willing to ask for help. He also emphasizes the role of strategic thinking and vision in parenting, and the importance of setting up children for success. Cody encourages parents to create core memories with their children by being intentional and present in their interactions. Follow Codey here: https://www.instagram.com/codey.gandy/

May 29, 20241h 14m

S2 Ep 69#69 DR. RAJEEV PURI | Balancing Trauma Surgery and Fatherhood

Rajeev Puri, MD, is a board-certified Surgical Hospitalist who came to Health First from Central Maine Medical Center in Lewiston, Maine. He has expertise in trauma care, laparoscopic surgery and general surgery. Dr. Puri is a fellow of the American College of Surgeons and is accredited in rib plating in trauma. He received the Mohan Das Award for Outstanding Chief Resident in 2011 from Einstein Medical Center Philadelphia in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. In this episode he shares his experiences on becoming a doctor as well as fatherhood.

May 22, 202458 min

S2 Ep 68#68 SETH GEHLE | Overcoming a Lifetime of Abuse

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Seth Gehle is a multi-talented individual, excelling as an ultra marathon runner, BJJ athlete, veteran, speaker, and author. Despite facing a tumultuous upbringing marked by adversity and hardship, Seth has emerged as a powerful advocate for resilience and self-empowerment. As a speaker, he inspires audiences to harness their inner strength and overcome life's challenges with unwavering determination. Seth shares his harrowing story in this episode. It takes a great deal of courage to talk about the things he shares. Be inspired from his story and learn how you too, can Go Beyond the Shadows. Follow Seth here: https://www.instagram.com/gobeyondtheshadows/

May 15, 20241h 44m

S2 Ep 67#67 MATT MURPHY | Silent Victims: The Reality of Child Trafficking

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Matt Murphy is a husband, father, former Green Beret and now serves as President for the Sentinel Foundation for US. (https://foundationsentinel.org/) In this episode we uncover the sinister and brutal world of child sex trafficking. This pervasive problem is destroying millions of lives, daily. Matt is uniquely positioned to speak about how serious this issue is and give specific advice for parents to step up today and put a stop to this. This evil is growing and preying upon the most helpless people on the planet - children. Help fight against this by sharing this episode and taking immediate action to protect children locally. We must stand up for these vulnerable populations and take preventative measures to ward off this evil. We also urge you to consider a donation to the Sentinel Foundation to help them rescue as many children as possible. The Sentinel Foundation is "bringing the fight to those who exploit the helpless". Donate here: https://foundationsentinel.kindful.com/campaigns/1184598 This is the most important battle of our generation. Will stand and fight? Or will you remain silent and pretend it isn't happening. Follow Matt Murphy: https://www.instagram.com/matt_murphy_official/

May 8, 20242h 4m

S2 Ep 66#66 GRANT SMITH | One Life, One Chance: Lessons from a Veteran

Grant Smith is a Husband, Father, Soldier, and Leader. In this powerful episode, Grant shares the details of his story: his struggles, fears, failures, and most importantly the lessons he has learned along the way. This episode is full of strong advice and wisdom for everyone. Grant's sole mission is to help others succeed where he has failed. His heart's desire to give the leadership and teaching to others to rise above their struggles and pain and to thrive. Subscribe to Grant here: @DashLegacy79 on all his platforms

May 1, 20241h 43m

S2 Ep 65#65 NICK KOUMALATSOS | The Secret Pain of Men Revealed

Nick Koumalatsos is a former Marine Raider and Recon Marine. He is an entrepreneur (most notably owner of Johnny Slicks) and he is a devoted husband and father. In this episode we explore why men suffer and what we must do to raise the next generation of young men to be modern day knights. Men are Lonely, Angry, Tired, and Stressed. We uncover why in this episode. Learn more about Nick's Programs here: https://nickkoumalatsos.com/

Apr 24, 202453 min

S2 Ep 64#64 STEVE ECKERT | Turn Suffering into a Superpower

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Steve Eckert shares his journey of overcoming adversity and turning his suffering into a superpower. He emphasizes the importance of being intentional, setting boundaries, and having fun as a man. He also discusses the significance of being a man of your word and keeping promises to yourself. Steve highlights the value of reading books, particularly those on stoic philosophy and emotional intelligence, for self-improvement. Overall, he encourages men to embrace their imperfections, be open-minded, and continuously learn and grow. Steve Eckert discusses the importance of being present and engaged as a father, creating a balance between intensity and calmness. He emphasizes the need for fathers to prioritize fun and create intentional moments with their children. Steve also shares his family's rituals and how they set goals and create a vision for their family. He talks about their decision to homeschool their children and the benefits it has brought. Steve highlights the importance of self-care and finding a balance between being selfish and selfless. In this final part of the conversation, Steve Eckert emphasizes the importance of being a present and engaged father. He discusses the need for men to prioritize self-care and take care of themselves first in order to show up as the best fathers they can be. Steve highlights the issue of fatherlessness and the impact it has on society. He also shares his perspective on legacy, stating that legacy is not about the future, but about the present moment and how we show up in our daily lives. The conversation concludes with Steve discussing the Modern Day Knight program and its mission to help men overcome their challenges and become better husbands, fathers, leaders, and men.Subscribe to Steve here: https://www.youtube.com/@SteveEckertOTD

Apr 17, 20241h 22m

S2 Ep 63#63 PENNY2X | Why We Must Protect Free Speech

Our guest in this episode is Penny2x. Penny, a single father of three daughters, shares his perspective on fatherhood and his mission to make the world a better place for his kids. He discusses the positive and negative aspects of social media and the importance of free speech. Penny also emphasizes the need for critical thinking and communication skills in raising his children. He touches on the challenges of the California school system and the importance of personalized education. Through single fatherhood, Penny has learned valuable lessons about himself. In this conversation, Penny2x reflects on the lessons he has learned as a single father and the importance of communication and managing expectations in relationships. He emphasizes the need to be open and honest about oneself and to set clear expectations with others. Penny2x also discusses the challenges of balancing fatherhood with other responsibilities and the importance of perspective and gratitude. The conversation then shifts to the story of Saheed, a young content creator from Nigeria, and Penny2x's mission to help him. The themes of understanding and helping others, creating win-win situations, and being a mentor or father figure are explored. The conversation concludes with a discussion on critical thinking, legacy, and the importance of education in fatherhood. Follow Penny on X: https://x.com/imPenny2x

Apr 10, 202451 min

S2 Ep 62#62 NICK ALFANO | Reprogram Your Life

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In this episode I sit down with Nick Alfano, founder of The Program. Nick is a successful serial entrepreneur and former attorney who has embarked on a transformative mission to empower men to build the lives they truly desire. Nick is a husband and father on top of his business ventures. In this episode, Nick gets vulnerable with his personal story, sharing the painful details of his childhood and upbringing, having success with money but at the cost of a successful marriage, and the lessons learned along the way. Nick shares the secrets and methods he used to overcome his trauma and mistakes and grow as a man to be a better husband and father. Nick believes men need to focus more on making an Impact over Income and teaches them how through his renowned program. Learn more about The Program here: https://www.reprogram.ai/

Apr 3, 20241h 27m

S2 Ep 61#61 FARZAD MESBAHI | Farzad Reveals His Biggest Challenge Yet

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In this episode, we speak with Farzad ( @farzyness ) who is (at the time of this recording) just 2 months away from becoming a father! Farzad shares his journey to becoming a father and the personal growth he experienced along the way. He discusses the importance of working together as a couple and setting boundaries with family and friends. The conversation also touches on the challenges of filtering advice and the excitement of becoming a father. Overall, Farzad emphasizes the need to be present and embrace the journey of fatherhood. The conversation explores the emotional changes in men during fatherhood and the scientific basis behind these changes. It delves into the evolutionary purpose of these emotional changes and how they contribute to a comprehensive understanding of masculinity. The importance of emotional intelligence and its impact on leadership and personal growth is discussed. The conversation also highlights the lack of rites of passage in modern society and the need for guidance in defining manhood. The potential impact of technology, particularly AI, on the future of work and human potential is explored, with an emphasis on the importance of love, empathy, and emotional intelligence in navigating this future. The conversation explores the potential of AI and quantum computing, discussing the fusion of the two technologies and the implications for the future. The limitations and risks of AI are also examined, including the need for open source and equal access to AI. The concept of maximum AI and the challenges of conceptualizing its potential are explored. The conversation delves into the ethical concerns surrounding AI and the control and distribution of the technology. The fear of not being present as a parent and the importance of staying positive are discussed. The conversation concludes with a focus on preparing for the future and leaving a legacy. SUBSCRIBE to @farzyness here on YouTube X - twitter.com/farzyness Website - farzadmesbahi.com

Mar 27, 20241h 31m

S2 Ep 60#60 ERIK ALLEN | Inspiring Comeback from Abuse, Homelessness and Addiction

In this episode, Erik Allen (@ErikAllenMedia) shares his challenging upbringing and the turning point that changed the trajectory of his life. He discusses the importance of mentors and finding the right environment for personal growth. Erik emphasizes the role of commitment and having the right people in your corner. He also reflects on God's protection and purpose in his life. Erik offers advice on taking time to build a strong foundation in marriage and being present in difficult times. In this conversation, Erik Allen shares his experiences and insights on fatherhood. He discusses how fatherhood has changed him and the impact his children have had on his life. Erik also talks about the importance of legacy and the rewards of marriage and fatherhood. He emphasizes the need to stay present and make time for family, as well as the importance of learning and growing as a father. Erik shares a favorite core memory with his children and offers advice for other dads. Key Takeaways - Find mentors in the church who are living the life you want to live. - Change your environment to make positive changes in your life. - Commitment and being surrounded by the right people are crucial for personal growth. - God's protection and purpose can be seen in challenging circumstances. - Take time to build a strong foundation in marriage and be present in difficult times. Fatherhood teaches patience, love, and the importance of not stressing out about things. Being present and spending quality time with family is more important than material possessions. - Expressing love and affection to your children is crucial for their emotional well-being. - Legacy is about breaking generational curses and making positive changes for future generations. Subscribe to Erik @ErikAllenMedia Learn more about Erik: https://erikallenmedia.com/

Mar 20, 202457 min

S2 Ep 59#59 DELIAN ASPAROUHOV | Defying Gravity: Manufacturing in Space

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In this episode we have special guest, Delian Asparouhov. Delian is the founder of Nightingale and Varda Space Industries. He was offered a Thiel Fellowship at the age of 19 and dropped out of MIT to pursue his dreams. Delian is a brilliant mind, but more than this he is a passionate father. Delian shares his vision for what he sees as a patriotic duty - having babies and building families! We cover a wide range of topics in this episode: space exploration and innovation, founding companies, becoming a father, culture, and so much more! Follow Delian on X: https://x.com/zebulgar?s=20 And check out Varda: https://www.varda.com/

Mar 18, 202459 min

S2 Ep 58#58 BILL ATKINSON | Surviving World War II - The Jolly Roger

In this special episode, our guest is Mr. William Atkinson "Mr. Bill". His father was an airman in WWII serving in a B-24 Bomber Crew. Mr. Bill co-wrote a book with his father to recount his incredible story. In this episode Bill shares his story and the impact his father had on him. Below is a brief description of the book: James C. Atkinson began life the descendant of an impoverished farming family in rural east-central Mississippi. While a high school senior, he enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Force and, like so many young men of his generation, left his home to fight for his country in WWII. After a year of rigorous training, he was qualified as a Radio Operator/Gunner on a B-24 bomber, and what began as the adventure of a lifetime for Sgt. Atkinson, ended in horror and tragedy in the war-torn skies over Ploesti, Romania. Though this is Dr. Atkinson's personal story, it is not unique. Rather, it is representative of the stories of legions of young men from the Greatest Generation who would face the challenge of rebuilding their lives after rising from the ashes of the most destructive war in history. Get the book here: https://a.co/d/2TmQMVu

Mar 6, 20241h 36m

S2 Ep 57#57 DR. STEWART PERRILLIAT | Breaking the Cycle of Fatherlessness

In this episode our guest is Dr. Stewart Perrilliat, founder of Man 2 Man Urban Youth Advocate. Dr. Stewart Perrilliat's journey, marked by Marine Corps service and founding Perrilliat Enterprises, showcases resilience and discipline. As a devoted father, he champions family values. Stewart empowers fathers and men through Man 2 Man Urban Youth Advocate, impacting rehabilitation and reintegration. An ordained clergy member, accomplished author, and holder of a Masters in Theological Studies and a Doctorate in Executive Leadership, his educational prowess enriches his mission. Dr. Perrilliat's life embodies hope restoration, guided by the principles of strong families and responsible fatherhood. In this episode we discuss the following key topics: 1) Fatherlessness is a significant issue that affects communities and contributes to social problems. 2) Emotional regulation and communication skills are essential in fatherhood and should be taught from an early age. 3) Coaches and schools play a crucial role in teaching these skills and supporting fathers. 4) Building trust and rapport with fathers who may be resistant to seeking help requires finding common ground and creating a safe space for open communication. To learn more about Dr. Perriliat's mission, visit his website here: https://www.man2man-uya.org/

Feb 28, 20241h 7m

S2 Ep 56#56 CAM HALL | How to Make a Difference

In this episode we welcome special guest, Cam Hall host of the Dads Making a Difference Podcast. Cam is a leadership development expert and team growth specialist. Over the last 15 years, Cam has experienced leadership success in both the public and private sectors. Cam is a Master Educator and has led teams of 100+ people toward a shared vision. Over the last 3 years, Cam has practiced as a leadership consultant to online coaches and business leaders, knowing that the shift from solo-prenuer to full-time online CEO takes guts and hard work. Takeaways from the episode: - Be present and intentional in parenting, showing love and support to your children. - Recognize the impact of parental influence on children's development and strive to be a positive role model. - Pay it forward by helping and mentoring younger men, sharing your experiences and wisdom. - Maintain a healthy work-life balance, setting boundaries and prioritizing family time. - Prepare for the challenges of the teenage years by listening, asking questions, and adapting to your child's needs. Struggling with weight and health can have a significant impact on one's mental and emotional well-being. - Seeking guidance and mentorship from others, especially in areas where one is struggling, can be incredibly beneficial. - Self-care is not selfish and should be prioritized to maintain overall health and well-being. - Knowing your why, aiming for growth, and taking ownership are important principles to live by as a father. Learn more about Cam here: https://www.fightthedadbod.com/ https://dmdmastermind.com/

Feb 21, 20241h 18m

S2 Ep 55#55 DR. MEG MEEKER | Becoming the Hero Dad: Expert Training from Best-Selling Author

Dr. Meg Meeker is a practicing pediatrician for over 30 years and one of the top parenting experts and father-inclusive advocates of our time. She's an international speaker, the author of 7 books, including the bestselling book and now movie STRONG FATHERS, STRONG DAUGHTERS, the host of the popular podcast, “Parenting Great Kids”, and is a social media influencer with a community of nearly 700,000 followers. Dr. Meg's parenting philosophy is centered on proven, simple, and actionable strategies for raising strong kids. She's on a mission to equip and champion dads to transform their relationship with their kids. And data clearly shows how a father's presence in children's lives is essential in developing them into healthier, kinder, and more resilient adults. In this episode we dive directly into Dr. Meeker's advice and guidance for fathers. We discuss raising daughters, raising sons, the differences between the two, navigating our challenging cultural influences, and so much more. You can learn more about Dr. Meeker at: https://meekerparenting.com/ Order Her incredible books here: https://meekerparenting.com/books/

Feb 19, 202452 min

Ep 54#54 DALLAS ALEXANDER | World Record Sniper and Father

This is Episode 54 with legendary guest, Dallas Alexander @dallasalexandermusic Dallas is a former member of Canada's elite special operations unit called JTF2. Dallas was trained as a Sniper with numerous deployments world wide. He is credited as being part of the 4-man sniper team that recorded the longest confirmed kill in history with a distance of 3,540 meters. Dallas eventually left the military and pursued his full time career as a musician. He is a songwriter and singer who plays country-inspired music. You can find all of it here: https://www.dallasalexander.ca/ On top of being a Soldier and Musician, Dallas is a father of 4 children. He shares his story in this episode and his thoughts on fatherhood and the importance of being there for your family. Dallas has an inspiring story and has such a genuine heart. We had such an incredible time speaking with him and are honored to share this episode with you. Follow Dallas on IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdallasalexander/

Feb 17, 20241h 29m

S2 Ep 53#53 TRAVIS RICHEY | When Dad Gets Home, He Sets the Tone

Travis Richey is a devoted husband and father to four children. Travis is a perfect example of rising above your circumstances. He was raised with an extremely rough upbringing but decided to forge his own legacy for his family. Travis shares his incredible advice and wisdom not just for fathers but for everyone to understand that hardship WILL happen to us, at some point. However, we can all choose to use it for good and reject being a victim to the situation. Learn more about Travis at his website: https://www.theinnercircleevent.com/about-us Follow Travis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/i_am_travis_richey/

Jan 31, 20241h 33m

S2 Ep 52#52 - NICK "MACHINE" LAVERY | Fatherhood & The Warrior Mindset

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Our guest in this episode is Nick Lavery. Nick is the founder and CEO of Precision Components LLC where he and Team MACHINE train, advise, enable, and inspire organizations and individuals to unlock capacity and increase capability. He is also the best-selling author of Objective Secure—the battle-tested guide to goal achievement. Nick is a warrior, leader, teammate, and most importantly a proud husband and father of two young boys. In this episode we cover Nick's incredible background, lessons learned from his service as a Green Beret as well as lessons for Fatherhood, and discuss a wide range of topics for mastering our life and achieving success. In 2013, while deployed to Afghanistan, he and his Detachment fell victim to an insider attack ultimately resulting in the amputation of his leg. Following a year of surgeries and initial recovery including the use of a prosthetic at Walter Reed National Medical Military Center, he returned to his unit. Refusing a military medical retirement, Nick set his sights on returning to operational status. In 2015, at the conclusion of a challenging, comprehensive assessment designed to evaluate Nick's abilities to operate, he returned to his Detachment and was subsequently deployed once again to Afghanistan conducting full spectrum combat operations. Nick is considered the first Special Forces operator to return to combat as an above-the-knee amputee.Learn more about Nick at https://teammchn.com/

Jan 24, 20241h 38m

S2 Ep 51#51 - DUSTIN BURNHAM | Overcoming Childhood Wounds & Instilling a Sense of Wonder in Children Pt. 2

Dustin Burnham is one of our founding members and co-hosts on the podcast. He is a proud husband and father to his young son. In this episode we dive into his story of growing up without a father and there are some unique details around his circumstances. Dustin struggled with many aspects of manhood and his views on marriage as a result of his upbringing. THIS IS PART 2 OF DUSTIN'S STORY In this episode we cover the following topics: -Healing from the past -Instilling a Sense of Wonder and Exploration in our kids -Role Models and the Future for our children -Most important dad advice and lessons learned from Dustin's experience Many men can relate to the lack of a father figure in their upbringing. This wound cuts deep and sets young men up for failure. However, Dustin's story serves as a source of inspiration. Despite these wounds, a man can start a new legacy in his life. He can correct the course for himself and his future family. Follow Dustin on X: https://twitter.com/dustinthedad

Jan 18, 202455 min

S2 Ep 51#51 - DUSTIN BURNHAM | Deep Wounds of Fatherlessness Pt. 1

Dustin Burnham is one of our founding members and co-hosts on the podcast. He is a proud husband and father to his young son. In this episode we dive into his story of growing up without a father and there are some unique details around his circumstances. Dustin struggled with many aspects of manhood and his views on marriage as a result of his upbringing. In this episode we cover the following topics: -The importance of a father figure in a boy's life -Maturing and Desiring Marriage and Fatherhood -Terrifying, near death birth experiences -Struggling with shame and embarrassment Many men can relate to the lack of a father figure in their upbringing. This wound cuts deep and sets young men up for failure. However, Dustin's story serves as a source of inspiration. Despite these wounds, a man can start a new legacy in his life. He can correct the course for himself and his future family.Follow Dustin on X: https://twitter.com/dustinthedad

Jan 17, 20241h 2m

S2 Ep 50#50 - MIKE THOMPSON | Enhancing Family Leadership With Fitness

Mike Thompson is a husband, father, former Nashville Metro Police Officer and a Men's Fitness Coach and Trainer. Mike helps busy men get back in the best shape of their lives while excelling at work and at home. In this episode, we cover Mike's background and upbringing. Mike credits his father with playing a major role in his life that has helped shape him into the man he is today.We discuss Mike's love of fitness and how he used it as a tool to channel himself into a better version physically and mentally. It became an outlet for him and drives him. Mike also discusses his journey becoming a police officer with the Nashville Metro PD and how through this experience he came face to face with severe anxiety and stress. Mike was forced to make serious changes in his life in order to become the man his wife and child deserve. Mike was an incredible guest and you'll love his passion for helping others. Learn more about Mike at mjttraining.com Follow Mike on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mjttraining/

Jan 10, 20241h 24m

S2 Ep 49#49 - GUILLERMO VIDAL | Embracing Personal Responsibility to become a Family Leader

Guillermo Vidal aka G Vidal is the founder of @alphadadconsulting and is a fellow Apogee Strong brother to George Hayworth. G is a husband and father and shares his personal story of embracing responsibility to become the man he was meant to be in order to become a true family leader. G has overcome marital strife and the wounds of a strained upbringing with his own father to become an outstanding husband and father today. He now coaches men through his experience and lessons learned in order to help them rise to the calling of being the best husband and father possible. G unpacks his story and key lessons learned in this episode. Follow G at his website: https://www.alphadadconsulting.com/ Follow on YouTube: @alphadadconsulting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gvidal_adc/ Curious about Apogee Strong (G Vidal and George are both members) learn more here: https://apogeestrong.com/

Jan 3, 20241h 30m

S2 Ep 48#48 - BRANDON BLINSON | The Lessons of a Father Pt. 2

In this episode we are interviewing one of our own, Brandon Blinson. Brandon is a devoted husband and father of 2 children. He is an avid reader and learner and is jokingly referred to as the podcast philosopher because he has so much wisdom to share. Our group has learned immensely from Brandon and that is why we want to share his story with you! Brandon is an expert at building a strong marriage and being an involved father. He has worked very hard to overcome his struggles and break generational curses. His example is one we should all emulate. Follow Brandon on X: https://twitter.com/brandonblinson OUR MERCH STORE IS LIVE! Check out this amazing dad gear: https://thepresentfathers.shop/

Dec 27, 20231h 0m

S2 Ep 48#48 - BRANDON BLINSON | From a Deadly Car Crash to Visionary Family Man Pt. 1

In this episode we are interviewing one of our own, Brandon Blinson. Brandon is a devoted husband and father of 2 children. He is an avid reader and learner and is jokingly referred to as the podcast philosopher because he has so much wisdom to share. Our group has learned immensely from Brandon and that is why we want to share his story with you! Brandon is an expert at building a strong marriage and being an involved father. He has worked very hard to overcome his struggles and break generational curses. His example is one we should all emulate.Follow Brandon on X: https://twitter.com/brandonblinson And Check out our Merch Store: https://thepresentfathers.shop/

Dec 20, 20231h 14m

S2 Ep 47#47 - JOEL BERRY | The Joke That Made Elon Buy Twitter

In this episode we are joined by Joel Berry of The Babylon Bee (babylonbee.com) Joel Berry is a ''grumpy dad' and managing editor for the Babylon Bee. He was homeschooled and developed a love of philosophy at an early age. He served as a US Marine and upon leaving the military began working in corporate supply chain sales. Eventually he started working part time for The Babylon Bee and ultimately accepted a full-time position with them. He has authored The Postmodern Pilgrim's Progress and the Babylon Bee's critically acclaimed Guide to Wokeness and Guide to Gender. We cover a wide range of subjects in this episode. Joel is an outstanding husband and father and provided us with some incredible insight on culture as well as fatherhood.

Dec 14, 20231h 25m

S2 Ep 46#46 - GEORGE HAYWORTH | From Separation to Restoration Pt. 2

This is Part 2 of George Hayworth's story. In this part we dive into the healing process for George both on a personal level with his childhood wounds and on a joint level in his marriage with his wife. George walks through the actions and resources and people that played a pivotal role in recovering from the damage he created in his marriage. In order to show up better as a husband he also had to heal and grow as a man. There is a great deal of lessons learned in this part 2 that you can apply in your own life. In addition to the story of restoration, we cover some broader topics like legacy, fatherhood, and some of George's personal stories. The lesson George hopes everyone will take from this episode is this: If you are willing to do the work and humble yourself to accept responsibility for your mistakes, you can have healing and restoration. George's marriage was on the brink of divorce numerous times and even included a separation, yet now his wife have celebrated over 10 years of marriage and are stronger than they ever imagined.

Dec 6, 20231h 1m

S2 Ep 46#46 - GEORGE HAYWORTH | The Damage of Covert Wounds Pt. 1

In this episode, we change pace a little from our normal format and we interview one of our own: George Hayworth. George shares his story of childhood trauma, life in the military, marriage, fatherhood and how he and his wife fought through severe challenges to remain married. Part 1 of George's story chronicles his life and the internal struggles he carried from childhood into adulthood. After many failures and causing a great deal of harm to his family, George brought his flaws into the light and started on the path to healing. George fell prey to what is called emotional or covert incest. Two books that describe this in great detail are Silently Seduced and Healing the Wounded Heart. Watch George's story to learn more about this relatively unknown form of abuse that happens to children and adolescents.

Nov 29, 20231h 4m

S2 Ep 45#45 - WAYNE BOATWRIGHT | From Success to Prison: a Father's Story of Loss and Redemption

As an Ivy-league attorney, start-up techie, and someone who served a 6-year stint at San Quentin (also former Managing Editor of the San Quentin News) Father, attorney, and essayist, Wayne Boatwright left his career, wife, and two children behind when he arrived at California's infamous San Quentin prison to serve his time. Without disclosing he was an attorney, he became the Managing Editor of the San Quentin News (circulation 35,000). But what would you do if four months into your sentence, your wife asked you for a divorce? Would you figure that without being married, there was no way to stay connected to your children and give up trying to be a dad? Or would you humble yourself and ask for the help you needed to stay in their lives? Since his release, Boatwright uses his experiences to help others and promote awareness about the true cost of going to prison. Boatwright has started his own blog, detailing his life experiences before, during and after prison. You can find his blog here: https://wayneboatwright.medium.com

Nov 22, 20231h 40m

S2 Ep 44#44 - BARTON RAMSEY | From Metal Band to Pastor to Dog Trainer

Barton Ramsey is a father of three, a proud husband, founder and owner of Southern Oak Kennels, Cornerstone Gun Dog, former metal band member and associate youth pastor. Barton has such incredible insight into fatherhood and having a balance when it comes to our children. Barton shared a great deal about his personal story and the lessons he has learned along the way. We cover a wide range of topics from motorcycle crashes, marriage, founding a business, jiu jitsu and more! Learn more about Barton's business here: https://www.southernoakkennels.com/ And follow his IG account here: https://www.instagram.com/barton_ramsey/

Nov 15, 20231h 30m

S2 Ep 43#43 - DREW MANNING | The Man Who Got Fat On Purpose

Our guest in this episode is Drew Manning also known as @Fit2Fat2Fit. Drew is a fitness trainer who gained over 60 pounds of weight on purpose, twice to better empathize with his clients and understand their struggles. In this episode, Drew shares his personal journey, lessons learned, and a great deal of wisdom around Conscious Fitness - having our mind, body, and spirit all working together. This episode is full of sound advice directly from Drew. You can clearly see his passion and heart for helping others. Check out Drew's website: https://fit2fat2fit.com/ Also check out his IG: https://www.instagram.com/fit2fat2fit/

Nov 8, 202351 min

S2 Ep 42#42 - DAVID WALDY | Fierce Empathy

Our guest in this episode is David Waldy. David is the Fierce Empathy Coach and founder of The Ardent Man and Fierce Empathy Solutions. He provides support, solutions, and strategies for owners and leaders who want to calm the chaos, implement results-driven habits and systems, and intentionally cultivate lives and business filled with peace, purpose, passion and profit – all without sacrificing their family, health or wellbeing! David shares about his personal life and some very difficult experiences he had as a boy and young man and how he has grown from those experiences to be a better husband, father, and leader in business. David has a big heart and it was a real pleasure speaking with him and learning from him. Check out David's Website: https://www.davidwaldy.com/home Follow David on IG: https://www.instagram.com/davidwaldy/ And his linktree: https://linktr.ee/davidwaldy

Nov 2, 20231h 10m

S2 Ep 41#41 - DREW CAMP | How to Become an Epic Dad - The Epic Dad Company

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Our guest in this episode is Drew Camp. Drew is a husband and father, a combat veteran, and founder and CEO of The Epic Dad Company! His mission is to change the world by creating epic dads! Drew is working hard to change dad's lives and we cover a wide range of topics in this episode. Check out TEDCO's website: https://www.theepicdad.com/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theepicdadco/

Oct 25, 20231h 13m

S2 Ep 40#40 - ALEX WASSOM | You Are Stronger Than Your Pain

Our guest in this episode is Alex Wassom. Alex is a husband and father to 3 girls with a 4th child on the way! Alex has struggled with loss during his teenage years and subsequent depression and even thoughts of suicide and an attempt. Through his experience and self-study, Alex has found practical ways in which we as men must ensure we secure our mental health. This is even more important when you apply this to fatherhood as your family depends on you. Hear directly from Alex on the many factors that play into our mental health and learn from his incredible insight on securing your mental health. Always remember: You are Stronger than your Pain. You can follow Alex on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/alexwassom/ And his websites: https://linktr.ee/alexwassom Link to Article cited near the end of the episode regarding the "hope molecule" https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/healthreport/tiny-protein-packages-move-between-bodys-organs-during-exercise/9421678

Oct 18, 20231h 50m

S2 Ep 39#39 - NICK FREITAS | Green Beret and Delegate - Building Legacies and Changing Lives

Our guest in this episode is Nick Freitas. He is a husband, father, Green Beret combat veteran, and a pro-liberty member of the Virginia House of Delegates. He is also the host of the podcast called Making the Argument. Nick is outspoken on raising children to value freedom and for parents to take an active role. We cover some of Nick's military service and experiences, becoming a father, his views on culture, how we do better as fathers and a whole lot more. Nick left us with such incredible advice! There's a lot of laughs and even some emotional moments in this one. Subscribe to Nick on YouTube: @Nickjfreitas Follow his podcast on any platform called "Making The Argument" You can find him on every other social media platform @nickjfreitas

Oct 11, 20231h 44m