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#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

The Pocket with Chris Griffin

November 21, 20251h 23m

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Show Notes

Today’s episode is with Chris Petkas, former Navy Seal turned VC investor. It was a powerful conversation around grit, determination and the willingness to fail.
Chris’ marriage with Codie Sanchez inspires me, Chris’ well rounded success inspires me and Chris’ calm nature inspires me.


I loved this conversation. We also recorded this in a horse stable just out of Austin with 5 real horses behind us.


Key Discussion Points:

  • Why calm men are often the most dangerous
  • How military training builds composure under chaos
  • Naivety as a superpower when starting hard things
  • The biggest risk in life: choosing who you marry
  • Jiu-jitsu, humility, and learning through losing
  • Patriotism, perspective, and seeing the world
  • Australia’s tall-poppy mindset vs America


Follow Chris Petkas:

https://www.instagram.com/chrispetkas/


Follow Chris Griffin:

https://www.instagram.com/morechrisgriffin/


Chapters:

00:00 Why Calm Men Are the Most Dangerous

05:20 Military Recruitment

10:40 Naivety, Risk and Starting Before You’re Ready

15:55 Failure, Ego and Learning Through Pain

21:00 Suffering in Training vs Real Combat

26:15 Leaving the Military and Entering Business

30:30 The Competence Ladder

33:45 Long Distance Love

36:50 Choosing a Partner is your biggest risk

39:40 Building Marriage and Business Together

46:30 The Loneliness Myth

49:40 Patriotism, Perspective and Seeing the World

53:50 Australia vs America: Ambition and Tall Poppy Culture

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