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120 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 4
Season 6 · Episode 120

120 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 4

The Place We Find Ourselves

August 1, 202235m 10s

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Show Notes

This is the final episode in a four-part series on how to engage another person's story. We conclude by looking at the final seven tactics for effective story engagement. Tactic 6: Continually bring your dialogue with the storyteller back to the story they have shared. Tactic 7: Identify the storyteller's feeling of complicity in their abuse. Tactic 8: This is going to sound both odd and wrong: you have to amplify the storyteller's shame. Tactic 9: Notice when the storyteller turns on themselves… and name it. Tactic 10: Invite the storyteller to feel their grief. Tactic 11: Use data points from their story to build a case. Tactic 12: Explore their posture toward the boy or girl in the story.

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