The Niche Is You
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The Hardest Conversation You're Avoiding Is Probably the One That Would Change Everything
The Season Between "This Could Work" and "This Is Working" Will Test Everything
The Right Opportunities Feel Like Continuations, Not Disruptions
Your Life Expands When You Stop Trying to Control Everything
Nine Questions That Reveal the Soul
Ep 765What If Operating From Love Was Your Baseline?
In this episode we’ll talk about:Love as a baseline, not a strategyWhy relationships have become transactionalHow fear of being hurt limits intimacyThe importance of inconvenience in loveLoving without expecting romance or returnHow operating from love deepens connectionRebuilding intimacy in modern cultureAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 764What If You're Not Struggling With Direction… You're Struggling With Permission?
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why most people think they're confused when they're actually afraidThe difference between not knowing what you want and not letting yourself want itHow we suppress our own clarity to stay safeWhy permission doesn't come from outside — it comes from withinHow old narratives keep us stuck in "figuring it out" modeThe moment clarity becomes available when you stop asking for approvalAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 763Sometimes the Greatest Way to Love Someone is Through Prayer
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why love isn't always about fixing someoneHow prayer becomes a form of love and supportPraying for someone even when you're hurtLetting go of control and trusting GodHow prayer heals both the other person and yourselfThe spiritual depth of loving someone through prayerAnd more…CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 762Faith Often Grows Most in Uncertain Seasons
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why uncertain seasons often deepen faithHow loss or removal creates space for GodWhy loneliness sometimes leads to spiritual clarityThe beauty of returning to the basicsHow uncertainty builds trust and surrenderHow to sustain faith when life improves againAnd more…CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 761Why Receiving Is One of the Hardest Lessons to Learn
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why receiving is difficult for self-reliant peopleThe relationship between trust and receivingReceiving from God vs receiving from peopleWhy over-giving can create imbalanceReceiving in romantic relationshipsHow receiving creates reciprocity and alignmentWhy receiving is not weakness — it's maturityAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 760The Right Doors Don’t Require You to Become Someone Else
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why some opportunities feel exciting but internally misalignedThe difference between opportunity and alignmentHow misaligned opportunities often require you to reshape your identityWhy the right opportunities expand your authenticity instead of replacing itHow discernment helps you recognize doors worth walking throughWhy trusting alignment leads to more sustainable successAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 759Growth Feels Like Loss Before It Feels Like Expansion
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why growth often feels uncomfortable or uncertain at firstThe emotional reality of outgrowing old environments, identities, and expectationsWhy letting go is often part of alignmentThe difference between loss and transformationHow to navigate transition seasons with clarity and trustWhy expansion comes after identity shiftsAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 758The Vision Feels Bigger Because It Is
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why bigger visions often take longer to unfoldHow responsibility, challenges, and waiting shape characterWhy your path may feel longer — but more meaningfulThe relationship between commitment and callingLetting go of attachment to timingTrusting God's preparation over rushing outcomesAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 757Make Money Without Losing Yourself in the Process
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why income isn’t just financial — it’s energetic and emotionalThe difference between aligned effort vs. draining effortHow misalignment quietly creates friction in your lifeWhy you don’t have to “sell out” to succeedHow to position yourself toward aligned opportunities (even early on)Practical ways to start shifting toward income that fits who you areAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 756The Right Person Feels Like Peace… and Calls You Higher
In this episode we’ll talk about:The difference between safety vs. comfortWhy real love supports growth, not stagnationHow to recognize a relationship that aligns with your becomingThe role of peace, respect, and expansion in healthy partnershipWhy the right person doesn’t compete with your purpose — they support itAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 755Stop Niching Down… Build a Perspective
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why the common advice to “niche down” often limits creatorsThe difference between niching and integratingHow powerful creators operate through a lens rather than a categoryWhy perspective creates coherence across different mediumsWhat we can learn from Virgil Abloh’s cross-disciplinary workHow developing your own lens unlocks creative freedom and clarityAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 754Stop Trying to Win the Game You Were Never Meant to Play
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why many people feel exhausted chasing definitions of success that don’t truly fit themHow cultural metrics of success can distract from alignment and purposeThe difference between external competition and internal clarityWhy comparison often signals that you’re measuring your life against the wrong scoreboardHow identifying the right metrics can transform your direction and energyWhy building your own lane leads to more meaningful successAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 753What If the Frustration You Feel Is Actually Trying to Guide You?
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why frustration often signals misalignment rather than failureThe difference between temporary difficulty and deeper dissatisfactionHow frustration can reveal what needs to change in your lifeThe role of awareness and reflection in interpreting emotional signalsQuestions that help you understand what your frustration may be pointing towardHow frustration can lead to clarity, growth, and realignmentAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 752The Work That’s Meant for You Won’t Feel Like Performance
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why work that is aligned with who you are feels different from work performed for validationThe difference between devotion to craft and performing for attentionWhy the visibility economy pressures people to constantly promote themselvesHow alignment transforms work into something sustainable and meaningfulWhy devotion to your craft often produces deeper impact than chasing exposureHow to recognize when you’re creating from truth versus performing for approvalAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 751The Person Who Stays Curious… Wins
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why curiosity is one of the most powerful growth traitsHow curiosity keeps people adaptable and humbleThe role curiosity plays in personal growth, relationships, faith, and workWhy certainty often limits growthHow curiosity leads to better decisions and deeper understandingAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 750The Way You Wait For the Blessing Matters
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why waiting seasons can challenge gratitude and faithThe emotional tension between expectation and timingHow comparison makes waiting harderWhy God often prepares the environment before delivering the promiseThe hidden preparation happening during delayed seasonsHow shifting from “what am I waiting for?” to “how am I waiting?” changes everythingAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 749The Beautiful Cost of Saying Yes to Your Calling
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why discovering your calling simplifies your life instead of complicating itHow purpose naturally reshapes prioritiesThe beautiful refinements that happen when you follow what you’re meant to doWhy alignment removes friction that misalignment createdHow faith and clarity make the path feel lighter over timeWhy saying yes to your calling expands who you becomeAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 74810 Questions That Reveal What You Really Want
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why so many people feel unclear about what they wantThe difference between external expectations and internal truthHow stillness and reflection create clarityTen powerful questions to help you uncover what truly matters to youWhy discovering what you want often starts with letting go of what you think you should wantAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 747Love the Creation, Not the Theater
In this episode we’ll talk about:The difference between loving the craft and loving the spectacle around itWhy many creators feel pressured to chase visibility at any costHealing the need to be seen before the work maturesTrusting your natural pace instead of forcing expansionProtecting your values, joy, and life while creatingLetting God magnify the work instead of chasing recognitionAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 746Why Does It Get Harder When You Start To Follow God
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why choosing God often begins a process of refinementThe difference between abandonment and trainingLessons from Joseph’s journey before the palaceWhy surrendering control can feel uncomfortable at firstWhen God removes things that were good, not just badHow alignment transforms hardship into purposeAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 745What to Look For Before You Build a Life Together
In this episode we’ll talk about:5 Questions to consider before you build a life togetherRespect and having a deeper connectionWhat does peace feel like in a relationship What does support in a relationship look likeAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 744Do You Need a Sign… Or Do You Need Stillness?
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why most people chase signs instead of creating silenceStillness as a competitive advantageThe difference between doing nothing and receivingWhy quick decisions aren’t the same as precise decisionsHow stillness strengthens business, relationships, and faithLearning to trust clarity over urgencyAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 743Regulating Your Nervous System Expands Your Net Worth
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why wealth requires internal capacityHow regulation increases clarity and decision qualityThe relationship between pressure tolerance and income growthWhy expansion feels unsafe before it feels stableRegulation as a trainable wealth skillSpiritual anchoring as nervous system strengthAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 742Peace Is a Competitive Advantage in a World Addicted to Urgency
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why urgency has become a cultural addictionThe hidden cost of reactive decision-makingEmotional regulation as a form of wealthWhy calm leaders outperform loud onesNervous system leadership in business, relationships, and faithHow peace sharpens discernment and executionAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 741Preparation Before Partnership: Questions to Ask Yourself Before Marriage (pt. 1)
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why marriage preparation begins with personal responsibilityThe difference between wanting love and preparing for itUniversal questions every adult should ask before partnershipHow self-awareness strengthens future marriageWhy individual devotion protects collective unionAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 740Discipline, Consistency & Showing Up… All 3 Are An Answer To Your Prayers
In this episode we’ll talk about:How discipline, consistency, and showing up are not productivity tactics — they are spiritual formation tools.Why discipline is not punishment, but self-respect in action.How consistency builds trust in your path, your intuition, and your decisions.Why showing up — especially when nothing is visible yet — is the truest expression of faith.How character developed in obscurity becomes the capacity to steward what’s coming.Why responsibility often arrives before revelation.And how love, trust, and faith are formed internally long before they appear externally.And more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 739When God Clears the Room
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why sudden removal can be divine realignmentHow space is often created before new capacity arrivesThe difference between punishment and preparationWhy stillness is an invitation, not abandonmentLearning to receive instead of reactHow subtraction increases intimacy with GodAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 738Partnership Reveals Levels You Can’t Reach Alone
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why personal growth alone eventually plateausThe difference between preparation and integrationPartnership as refinement, not rescueHonoring vs managingHow safe love expands your capacityWhy you need a teammate to access new levelsAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 737Calm Love Isn’t Loud… Why Stable Love Feels Different
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why calm love can initially feel unfamiliarThe difference between intensity and intimacyWhy stability feels different than emotional highsWhat secure, mature love actually looks likeWhy growth inside love requires safetyHow to recognize stability without mistaking it for dullnessAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 736The Process is the Gift Your Prayers Are Really Answering
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why God answers preparation, not shortcutsThe difference between praying for outcomes vs praying for capacityHow provision often looks like responsibilityWhy discipline is a form of blessingReframing delays as developmentUnderstanding process as the giftAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 735She (Alysa Liu) Won Gold When She Stopped Needing It
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why tying your worth to performance creates internal pressureThe difference between force-driven ambition and joy-rooted masteryHow burnout is often a signal of misalignment, not weaknessWhy detachment can actually improve performanceReframing success as devotion to craft instead of validationAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 734Does Your Calendar Reflect the Life You Say You Want?
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why your calendar is the most honest reflection of your prioritiesHow reactive scheduling quietly shapes your identityThe difference between being busy and being alignedWhy fulfillment must be architected, not hoped forDesigning space before the life you want arrivesHow to audit your week for energy, alignment, and marginReclaiming your time as a spiritual and strategic decisionAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 733If You Were Given the Vision, Then There’s Already Room for the Outcome
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why vision is not random and not accidentalThe difference between shrinking to your resources vs trusting provisionWhy provision follows movement, not overthinkingThe relationship between obedience and clarityTrusting God’s pace instead of forcing your ownAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 732Success Doesn’t Require Self-Abandonment
In this episode we’ll talk about:You don’t have to extinguish parts of your life to succeed.You have to design your life so your success doesn’t cost you yourself.How hustle culture subtly normalizes sacrifice as maturityWhat sustainable success actually requiresAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 731You Don’t Disrupt an Industry by Fighting It… You Disrupt It by Outgrowing It
In this episode we’ll talk about:The difference between your assignment and the system housing itWhy reform-from-within often turns you into a threatThe hidden cost of fighting infrastructure built on misalignmentHow leverage grows quietly outside rigid structuresWhy building adjacent is often more powerful than battling insideHow to create traction without burning yourself outAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 730When Your Growth Makes Others Uncomfortable
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why growth naturally exposes insecurity in othersThe difference between opposition and spiritual refinementHow to stay grounded when people you admire turn distantWhy you are not responsible for managing other people’s envyWhat it means to carry favor without arroganceHow to respond like David — steady, not reactiveWhy dimming yourself to keep peace is a form of disobedienceAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 729If You Wouldn’t Build With Them for Life… Don’t Build With Them at All
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why most burnout isn’t from work — it’s from misalignmentHow small relational compromises become long-term consequencesThe difference between chemistry and compatibility in businessWhy pressure magnifies characterChoosing people with long-term integrity, not short-term talentHow to evaluate who deserves access to your futureWhy relational standards protect visionAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 728Your Dream Doesn’t Have to Make Sense to Somebody Else
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why “realistic” advice can quietly derail your callingHow limitations are often inherited, not chosenThe difference between discernment and consensusWhy concern and fear sound similar but produce different outcomesHow to recognize borrowed ceilingsStaying anchored to God, intuition, and your assignmentProtecting vision without becoming defensiveAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 727The Power of Staying in the Reps… Craft Over Crowd
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why studying trends too much weakens your instinctsThe difference between observation and participationHow iteration builds originalityWhy craft is developed through repetition, not researchHow to respond honestly to feedback from your own workWhy attention + reps = masteryThe hidden advantage of staying in when it’s not glamorousAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 726The Blessing Isn’t Delayed… The Surrender Is
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why anxiety often comes from resisting what we already knowThe difference between waiting on God and hesitating in fearHow surrender creates clarity instead of chaosWhy obedience brings peace faster than overthinkingWhat real surrender looks like (it’s not passivity)How to move forward without needing the full blueprintAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 725When Your Resistance Reveals Your Calling
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why early criticism doesn’t always mean misalignmentHow systems mislabel natural abilitiesThe difference between performance failure and wiringHow resistance can sharpen resilienceWhy mastery requires internal trustHow to discern between real redirection and projected limitationReclaiming what you were subtly discouraged from pursuingAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 724The Difference Between God-Given Vision and Self-Generated Ambition
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why ambition isn’t wrong… but isn’t always divineThe emotional signatures of vision vs. egoThe markers of God-given visionThe markers of self-generated ambitionPractical questions to discern what you’re building fromThe surrender testHow to pursue greatness without losing alignmentAnd more…CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 723Why Refinement Feels Like Loss Before It Feels Like Strength
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why growth often begins with subtraction, not additionHow refinement can feel like loss even when it’s actually progressThe difference between losing identity and shedding excessWhy strength rarely feels empowering at firstLearning to trust who you’re becoming before it feels rewardingHow refinement creates stability you couldn’t access beforeAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 722Preparation For Love Isn’t About Becoming More Impressive… It’s Becoming More Available… to God, Peace & Each Other
In this episode we’ll talk about:Waiting seasons aren’t passive — they’re formativeLove doesn’t arrive because we perfected ourselvesIt arrives when the inner world becomes stable enough to receive itThese questions aren’t meant to be answered aggressivelyThey’re meant to be noticed, felt, and returned toAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Ep 721Why Modesty is One of the Most Misunderstood Forms of Confidence
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why modesty isn’t about shrinking, silence or humility as self-denial but about confidence so settled it doesn’t need constant reinforcement.The difference between expression and posturing and visibility and validation-seekingWhy modesty is so attractiveHow character, work and contribution naturally draw the right attention… without chasing it.Getting the right attention versus getting the wrong attentionAnd more…CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN