The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

On this episode we are joined by Miss Kay & Lisa Robertson as they share their stories of how they fought for their marriages. Both ladies have incredible stories of redemption in their marriage, and we believe this episode will be a blessing to you. ---- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Check out Lisa & Miss Kay's new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Sister-Roar-Authentic-Discover-Sisterhood/dp/1400235456 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Hump Day Q&A! Our brand new mid-week episode where we are answering one of your questions each week. To submit questions, visit https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage/ and submit your question. Today's question is so important. what's the difference in being helpful & being nagging? ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode our friend Arlene Pellicane joins us to talk through what healthy screen time looks like for you, your marriage and your spouse. ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Wednesday & that means HUMP DAY Q&A!! Our brand new mid-week episode where we are answering one of your questions each week. To submit questions, visit https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage/ and submit your question. Today's question is what to do when you & your spouse have different sex drives from the wife's perspective. ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you completely honest with your spouse? All links mentioned in this episode & more XO content: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------- 6 Toxic Marriage Behaviors Mini Series // Episode 3 How do you talk to your spouse How do you talk about your spouse Swearing at your spouse Physically Abusing your Spouse Keeping secrets from your spouse Giving your spouse the silent treatment ----- Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Hump Day Q&A! Our brand new mid-week episode where we are answering one of your questions each week. To submit questions, visit https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage/ and submit your question. Today's question is so important. As a married man can you be attracted to someone? In a visual world is there a difference in noticing someone is attractive vs lusting in your heart after them? Listen in today to find out! ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

WARNING - This episode is about physical and verbal abuse. We are committed to tackling tough issues on this podcast, but if you are recovering from trauma be aware of the content of this episode. If you are in an abusive relationship please seek help immediately: XOmarriage.com/crisis All links mentioned in this episode & more XO content: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------- 6 Toxic Marriage Behaviors Mini Series // Episode 2 How do you talk to your spouse How do you talk about your spouse Swearing at your spouse Physically Abusing your Spouse ----- Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Hump Day Q&A! Our brand new mid-week episode where we are answering one of your questions each week. To submit questions, visit https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage/ and submit your question. Today's question is about having sex after having kids, this is an important discussion and we hope we can bring some light to a conversation. ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Toxic Marriage Behaviors Mini Series // Episode 1 How do you talk to your spouse? How do you talk about your spouse? We are kicking off our first mini series on the podcast talking about two super important issues in marriage. The words we use carry so much weight, and not just the ones we say to our spouse, but what we also say about our spouse. Plus a great question about how to handle the inability to reach climax. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, we are joined by our dear friends Brandon & Susan Thomas for a great interview! Brandon & Susan are the founding pastors of Keystone Church in Keller, TX and we believe you'll learn how to better handle conflict in your marriage from them! ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this bonus episode we had the opportunity to sit down with Eric Close to talk about his newest movie, The Mulligan. Based on the bestselling novel The Mulligan by Ken Blanchard and Wally Armstrong, the Mulligan shows the power of a second chance. Find a showing near you at: themulliganmovie.com ---- For more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gabe & Rebekah Lyons are a superstar couple that are truly a blessing to the body of Christ. Enjoy this great interview where we talk through finding your calling, rest, and the importance of rhythms. For 10% of your ticket to the Q Ideas Summit, visit: qideas.org/2022 and enter the code: XO at checkout! ------ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We had a great time interviewing our new friends Chad & Tori Masters. ------ Check out their youtube channel for more of their great content! For more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this special episode, Dave and Ashely interview their good friends Travis and Josie Pittman. The Pittmans share their journey of healing through the aftermath of a sexual affair. Their story gives important insights to help couples understand how affairs happen, to learn how to prevent affairs and to understand the path to healing once infidelity has taken place. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we have our friends Chris & Steph on the podcast from Out of the Dust Music. We hope their story of reconciliation inspires you and gives you hope that you can overcome in your marriage. Check out Out of the Dust Music HERE or connected with them on Facebook or Instagram. --------- Buy our new book, The Counterfeit Climax HERE Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness and get a 7 day free trial! Check out the newest podcast to the XO Podcast Network with our friends Ed & Lisa Young, The Creative Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A term often used at work, is "work wife" or "work spouse," is this a harmless saying or is there potential danger in thinking this way? On today's episode we tackle what is appropriate conduct in the workplace to protect yourself and your spouse. Today's Question (21:00): My in laws have a sad marriage from the outside looking in. They argue every time we are together, they sleep in separate rooms, they have complete separate bank accounts, they bad mouth one another when they are not together, and my father in law always complains and unloads on us kids about his wife and how that us kids are the only thing that keep him going. They need help but who am I as a daughter in law to tell them that? Any advice on how to approach this conversation with them? ------- Buy our new book, The Counterfeit Climax HERE Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness and get a 7 day free trial! Check out the newest podcast to the XO Podcast Network with our friends Ed & Lisa Young, The Creative Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you experiencing pain in your sex life? Sometimes looking for, and asking for answers can be difficult, shameful & embarrassing. On today's episode we interview two pelvic health physical therapists who bring some practical answers to common questions. ------- Buy our new book, The Counterfeit Climax HERE Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness and get a 7 day free trial! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You've heard us talk about it often, but have you ever wondered what we post for our premium podcast subscribers? Well today we have a free preview of one of our episodes for you! Join our team at nakedmarriage.supercast.com. As a premium member, you support this podcast and get ad-free episodes, early access to new episodes, member-only episodes like you just heard, & you can ask us questions! With the subscription, you will get access to your very own private premium feed that you can listen to on your favorite podcast platform. Just go to nakedmarriage.supercast.com to sign up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Low Testosterone. Many men struggle with it but aren't aware of the silent impacts it's having on your sexual intimacy. On this episode we cover a wide range of issues that could be having an impact on your sex life. ------- Buy our new book, The Counterfeit Climax HERE Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness and get a 7 day free trial! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Was your first honeymoon so long ago that it was a blur? Has it been a while since just you and your spouse got away? On this fun episode we talk about the importance of getting away together and why it might be time for you to go on a second honeymoon! Buy our new book, The Counterfeit Climax HERE Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness and get a 7 day free trial! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Who is the inventor of sex and why does that matter for our sex life? On today's episode we are taking the misconceptions about who created sex and how it leads to worship. ----- Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness and get a 7 day free trial! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pre-order our latest book, The Counterfeit Climax HERE and get free bonus content! Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, Dave and Ashley sit down with Pastor Ed and Lisa Young for a conversation full of laughs and epic stories plus some incredible nuggets of wisdom from the Young's four decades of marriage and ministry. The Young's also give a sneak peak at what listeners can expect on their brand new podcast, "The Creative Marriage", which is launching on the XO Podcast Network. Sign up as a Premium Member: nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley are thrilled to welcome Pastors Ed & Lisa Young to the podcast studio to discuss the upcoming XO Marriage Conference. Join us for the XO Conference at Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas, or online via our at-home live stream on February 11 and 12th. https://xomarriage.com/conferences/xo-2022/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One of the most controversial topics within modern marriage is the concept of “Duty Sex.” This term refers to sex that is given out of pressure, guilt or obligation. Dave and Ashley dissect this nuanced topic and also gift tips for what to do when there is a lopsided sex drive dynamic in your marriage. Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more great marriage content, visit xomarriage.com Ready to get healthier and strengthen your relationship with your spouse? Sign up for XO Fitness: XOnow.com/fitness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley are thrilled to welcome their good friends Chris and Paulette Monroe to the podcast studio to discuss the launch of XO Fitness. This episode is full of laughter plus practical tips to help you and your spouse create a fitness routine together. To start working out with your spouse, sign up for XO Now at XOnow.com & get a 7 day free trial! Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As Dave and Ashley continue episodes based on themes from their new book, The Counterfeit Climax, they explore the prevalence of toxic messages related to sex and sexual experimentation being taught on college campuses. They explore how these modern myths about sex are causing damage to people of all ages. Pre/Order Counterfeit Climax Episodes Mentioned: Episode 78: Porn and Sex Addiction Episode 163: How to Confess Your Porn Addiction Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything For more marriage content: xomarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Exhaustion is one of the biggest enemies of intimacy. When busyness, stress, kids, illness, sleep deprivation or any other factor creates "energy obstacles" in the bedroom, what do you do? In this episode, Dave and Ashley continue discussing themes from their new book, "The Counterfeit Climax," by giving you and your spouse practical tools for finding solutions when one or both of you feels too tired for sex. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking ahead to the new year, Dave and Ashley share some practical tips, tools, and strategies to make this your very best year of marriage yet. This is about more than just resolutions; it's about new mindsets that could potentially change things for the better. Sign up as a Premium Member nakedmarriage.supercast.com Membership Includes: Ad-Free episodes Early access to new episodes Member-only episodes And a place you can ask us anything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special year-end episode, Dave and Ashley share some of their favorite clips from this year's podcast episodes. This episode is a celebration of some great moments, some hilarious moments and some poignant ones as well. This recap episode will help you discover (or rediscover) some of our favorite moments from 2021. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave & Ashley are joined by a very special couple, Dave's parents! This episode is filled with laughs, great marriage advice and some deep emotions as we discuss how the difficult times draw us closer together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's special bonus episode, we are reviewing the movie "American Underdog." Our friends the Erwin Brothers were kind enough to let us have a sneak preview before the release and we want to share with you our thoughts on the movie! Grab your tickets here: https://americanunderdog.movie/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley sit down with bestselling author, Gary Thomas, to discuss his new book, "Married Sex." Gary Thomas is the author of multiple bestsellers including the modern classic "Sacred Marriage." Links/Offers mentioned in this episode: Pre-Order Counterfeit Climax Amazon Pre Order American Underdog Movie https://americanunderdog.movie/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some years, it can feel stressful to find a fun, thoughtful and affordable gift for your spouse. In this episode, Dave and Ashley share some fresh ideas that your spouse is sure to love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"What do I do when I or my spouse starts feeling some same sex attraction?" This question is one that has been whispered often but rarely spoken out loud in Christian circles due to the misconceptions and taboos attached to this issue. On this groundbreaking episode, Dave and Ashley will tackle this important topic. Even if this issue isn't currently an issue in your own life or marriage, there are many important truths discussed here that will be relevant to you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this fun and festive episode, Dave and Ashley share some of their favorite family holiday traditions and talk about ways to cultivate your own family tradtions this Christmas and in the years to come. Dave and Ashley Willis have built a strong following, reaching millions of married couples through their blogs, books, and videos. Their mission is to create resources focused on building Christ-centered marriages and families. To find more books and resources from Dave and Ashley Willis go to xomarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

During the holiday season, tensions can arise when there are delicate dynamics with family or in-laws. In this timely episode, Dave and Ashley talk about strategies for keeping peace and sanity during the holidays. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley sit down with Bryon and Jenn Harvey who are the authors of "Operation Thriving Marriage." This inpsiring couple shares their journey of marriage and ministry which includes insights from Jenn's legal practice, Bryon's military experience and tips for staying connected during a military deployment, Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pornography impacts the majority of modern marriages, and often one spouse is battling a porn problem in secret. In this episode, Dave and Ashley talk about how to have the conversation to bring everything out into the open to start the healing process. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode based on Dave and Ashley's upcoming book, "The Counterfeit Climax," we'll explore the 4 biggest lies about sex and how those lies can sabotage your sex life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley sit down with relationship coaches Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman to discuss their new book, "The Argument Hangover." Both couples share stories and tips on how to overcome conflict in marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley are huge proponents of Christian counseling. On this episode, they share their own experiences from individual counseling and couple's counseling through the years to give listeners more context and courage about the counseling process. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When your own sexual past or your spouse's past sexual experiences is creating baggage or insecurity in the marriage, it can be an intimate and frustrating dynamic. Dave and Ashley discuss this delicate topic with grace and practical tips. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all have insecurities on some level and insecurities can sabotage intimacy. Dave and Ashley explore some of the most common insecurities related to sex and intimacy plus tips on how to overcome them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, Dave and Ashley sit down with Ashley's parents to share laughs, stories and insights from their more than 40 years of marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley share an interview that will inspire you to look at your world in a different way. They also share their own experiences with the world-changing organization, Compassion International. Text XO Marriage to 83393 Compassion.com/XOMARRIAGE Order our new book Naked and Healthy: xomarriage.com/store Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Trust is the foundation of every marriage, and when it's broken, it can seem difficult to navigate the way back to intimacy. Dave and Ashley explore the factors that impact trust and explain the "5 Stages of Trust in Marriage." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many of us grew up in the "Purity Culture" movement which had a positive aim of keeping kids away from premarital sex, but it had some negative repercussions in terms of the baggage it left in its wake. In this episode, Dave and Ashley share their own experiences with Purity Culture and talk about how the movement has impacted modern marriages. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode marks a new season of topics inspired by Dave and Ashley's upcoming book, The Counterfeit Climax. We'll be exploring different aspects of sex and marriage starting with this topic of what to do in marriage when physical attraction no longer feels present. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we answer a listener’s question about the perpetual fighting in her marriage and we share the single most important tip we’ve discovered for how to resolve conflicts in marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices