The More Sibyl Podcast

What happens when the people who believed in you before you believed in yourself finally sit across from you and you get to say thank you on a mic? That is exactly this episode. I am joined by two of my oldest friends and fellow members of what we proudly call the Sisterhood of the Traveling Scarves. Temi, an endoscopy nurse visiting the US for the very first time, and Bisi, an ER nurse who has been holding it down stateside in Texas. We met in college over two decades ago. We have survived a lot together. And this episode felt like exactly what it was: a reunion, a reckoning, and a love letter to the friendships that refuse to let you stay small. We get into Temi's first impressions of America: the roads, the houses, the sheer scale of everything. We do not shy away from the food conversation, because what better lens for a culture than what it puts on a plate? Temi had opinions. Bisi had receipts from her own early years in the US. And I had plenty to say about the gaps between what looks good and what actually nourishes. We also talked about what it means to travel on a Nigerian passport, and how a single document can determine how much dignity you are afforded at a border. How bureaucracy becomes a tax on ambition. How some of us carry an extra weight just to move through the world. But here is what sits at the heart of it all: Temi saw something in me before I saw it in myself. She is the one who pushed me to start this podcast. Seven years ago, when I was still hesitating, still making excuses, she would not let me hide. She kept saying, "You need to do this. You have something to say." So we sat down and talked about what those seven years have held. The episodes that became therapy. The stories entrusted to a microphone. The listeners who made it all worth it. And where this show still needs to go. We also talked about transformation. About the surgery that split my life into before and after. "Something snapped in me," I said. "I told myself I'm going to live my life." About growing up under surveillance, sheltered, silent. About finding my voice and never looking back. About the friends who see you clearly, even when you are still figuring out who you are. Because here is the truth: you cannot make old friends. The ones who knew you before you became who you are now? The ones who pushed you when you wanted to shrink? Those are irreplaceable. This one is personal. And I think you will feel that. If this episode moves you, share it with a friend who has been your Temi. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-sisterhood-of-the-traveling-scarves-6def9aff811e

The Relationship Room Presents: In this episode, Mo! and I talk about money, not just how it shows up in our relationships, but how it shapes our lives. We dive into the infamous Black Tax, something so many of us can relate to whether we live at home or abroad. There’s the pride that comes with being able to support family, and the quiet responsibility that follows. Mo! reflects on a moment when she looked back at a year’s worth of money sent home and felt overwhelmed, not with regret, but with awareness. It clarified just how much love, effort, and sacrifice can be tied up in a single decision. If you’ve ever felt guilty for not wanting to send as much as you “should,” or selfish for needing to choose yourself sometimes, you’re not alone. We see you. We also take on a very delicate topic, prompted by a question from one of our listeners: to prenup or not to prenup, especially as Nigerians in the diaspora and as Christians. Why does the word feel so scary? Why does it sound like you’re ending a relationship before it even begins? Mo! captures it perfectly when she says it feels “like putting a lawyer in the room.” We don’t have all the answers. We’re still figuring things out too. But this conversation is honest, personal, and rooted in lived experience. If any part of this sounds familiar, pull up a seat and listen. Read Blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/1175d517d43e

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: In a moment where diaspora conversations often swing between "I miss home" and "I'm never going back," what happens when you actually spend two months living—not visiting—in the place you left behind? This episode brings Doc Ayomide back to us on the podcast for an unfiltered conversation about my recent two-month stay in Nigeria. What started as a trip home became a masterclass in adaptation, comparison, and the uncomfortable work of holding two realities at once. We explore why we romanticize past lives from a distance, the classism we have been trained not to notice, and how obtaining a simple passport became a months-long ordeal that cost nearly a million naira and still has not been fully resolved. We also talk domestic staff, Lagos airport chaos, the five-year-old who is picking up "ọ" faster than expected, and why something about Nigeria's resilience makes American "breaking news" feel a little dramatic. Three weeks, we decided, is probably the sweet spot. Two months will teach you things you did not ask to learn. This episode will not give you closure. But if you have ever been caught between loving a place and being exhausted by it, between the version of home that lives in your chest and the one that charges you 250k for a letter, you will find company here. PS: Shout out to Nigerian teachers who reminded us what patient, collectivist education actually looks like. And to the government officers charging 250k for letters, we see you, and we are tired. Available now on all major podcast platforms. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/romanticising-home-bfe44dfde5c5

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how many of us are holding two things at once: prescription bottles on one hand, herbal teas and mindfulness practices on the other. Somewhere in the middle, a question keeps surfacing for me: what does healing look like when we stop asking it to choose between science and soul? In this episode, I sit with Dr. Tokunbo Akande, a board-certified pediatrician, clinical informaticist, and dual-trained fellow in integrative medicine and Ayurveda. Dr. Akande moves with ease between worlds. He can talk vaccine schedules and electronic health records, and in the same breath speak to doshas, herbs, and the wisdom he grew up with. We talk about how ancient healing traditions can live alongside modern medicine, why stories matter in clinical spaces, and what sustainable wellbeing really looks like when you’re navigating burnout, cultural displacement, and the quiet loss of inherited knowledge. Dr. Akande shares his journey, from growing up with childhood asthma in Nigeria to nearly leaving medical school, to rediscovering the herbs that reshaped his relationship with healing during the pandemic, and eventually founding Harmony 360 Health. Along the way, we reflect on what gets lost when medicine forgets the body, and what becomes possible when we learn to listen again. If you’re tired of the false choice between East and West, traditional and modern, this conversation offers something gentlerand truer. A reminder that healing isn’t something we outsource, and balance isn’t passive. It’s a practice. At the end of the episode, Tokunbo offers a short guided body scan. It’s a small gift; five quiet minutes that might help you come back home to yourself. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-integrative-pediatrician-334071454c21

The Relationship Room Presents: You know that moment when you start to text someone you used to speak to every single day… and then your spirit just says, leave it? Welcome to the very first episode of The Relationship Room, a new segment of the award-winning More Sibyl Podcast, created because some conversations just need their own space. A space where we can talk plainly about the relationships that shape us, challenge us, and sometimes drain us. In this debut episode, Mo! and I get into a season almost every adult recognizes: when your circle shrinks as you grow. Not because anything dramatic happened, but because you finally see things for what they are. We talk through the things most people feel but rarely say out loud, how “I don’t chase anymore” stopped being a caption and became a boundary, how friendships now live on voice notes, delayed replies, and calendar availability, and how choosing peace brings both relief and a quiet question of whether you’re evolving or just exhausted. We get real about the parts life never posts: how boundaries can feel like guilt before they feel like freedom, how family photos can look perfect while conversations stay awkward, and how money can subtly shift power in relationships. And we name that moment you realize you’d rather enjoy your own company than shrink yourself for people who never really heard you. There’s laughter too — the random Facebook voice notes, the dating audacity, the ways adulthood humbles us all. But the thread running through everything is simple: real connection still exists and still feels good, but only when it’s mutual and doesn’t drain you. Wherever you are in your journey with friendships, family, or love, this episode reminds you that you’re not the only one trying to figure it out. Pull up a chair. Let’s talk Read Blog here: https://medium.com/@mosibyl/the-room-conversations-small-circles-big-peace-517831088f89

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: In this age of going no-contact, and in a moment where the word “narcissism” is often slapped on everything, family conversations can feel more divided than ever. Stay or leave. Set boundaries or keep the peace. As we close out the year, we wanted to slow that binary down and make space for nuance. In the final episode of this year, we talk about the weight of family and how cultural expectations around loyalty, obedience, and sacrifice can quietly blur into hurt. I’m joined by Agatha Peters, a Nigerian-American psychotherapist, founder of Beautiful Sunshine Therapy, and author of Trapped in Their Script, who brings both professional insight and lived experience to this conversation. Together, we explore family dynamics without rushing to labels or extreme conclusions. We talk about control, unmet emotional needs, boundaries, distance, and the often overlooked middle ground between staying and leaving. As the year comes to a close, and holiday gatherings make family dynamics feel especially tender, we hope this episode offers reflection rather than pressure. A reminder that you do not need perfect language or drastic decisions to honor your experience. You are allowed to choose what care and connection look like for you. Thank you for listening with us this year. We’ll see you in the new year with more thoughtful, grounded conversations. PS: You can find Mrs. Agatha’s book, Trapped in Their Scripts, wherever books are sold, and her practice, Beautiful Sunshine Therapy, through the link below. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/lets-talk-about-narcissistic-parents-other-stories-2954d1c61de5

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: This episode asks something quietly radical in our moment: what if the real crisis isn’t ignorance, but the steady erosion of how we relate to knowledge, to one another, and to responsibility? In my conversation with Mr. Gbane Okolo, we talk about what it’s like to think deeply in a world that often feels impatient with nuance, how curiosity can start to feel risky, how expertise can be misunderstood. How simply asking careful questions can come with social and emotional costs. Gbane reflects on anti-intellectualism not as a buzzword, but as something people quietly bump into every day. We also make room for the pressures people don’t always say out loud, especially financial stress. Not the dramatic, headline kind, but the quieter strain of living “in between”: planning a future while your footing still feels temporary, carrying responsibility before stability fully arrives, trying to stay hopeful while the timeline keeps stretching. It’s a reality many students, immigrants, and early-career professionals recognize immediately, even if they rarely hear it named with tenderness. From there, our conversation moves through faith, science, and intellectual humility; through technology, AI, and the strange way modern tools can mirror our fears as much as our progress. Gbane shares why he believes a shift is coming—a growing hunger for authentic connection, critical thinking, and human presence in a world that’s becoming increasingly automated. At its heart, this episode is about staying curious when it would be easier not to. About thinking carefully, living honestly, and giving ourselves permission to ask better questions, even when the world seems uncomfortable with depth. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/thinking-in-an-age-of-distrust-afcb05b8d5f0

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Some friendships don’t arrive with fireworks; they arrive quietly, like a warm breeze on an unfamiliar coastline. That’s what meeting Seohan was like for me. This episode is a gentle, honest look at how unexpected connections can shape how we survive, grow, and soften while living far from home. In today’s conversation, recorded in Busan, South Korea, Seohan and I revisit the story of our friendship—one that began in Oklahoma, deepened over food and laughter, and quietly carried us through awkward transitions, cultural differences, and the strange tenderness of young adulthood. We talk about what it meant to be two immigrants navigating loneliness and identity in a place that looked nothing like any version of home we knew. We reflect on the early days of shyness, the way vulnerability opened doors, and how the simplest gestures, a ride, a shared meal, a late-night conversation, can become anchors during life abroad. There’s an honesty to our friendship that makes this episode feel like sitting on a porch at sunset, listening to two old friends remember who they were before life scattered them to different continents. You’ll hear stories about fear, courage, language, faith, and what it means to love people with intentionality. But more than anything, this episode is a reminder that God sometimes sends us the right people at the right time, not to stay forever, but to shape us in ways we only understand years later. If you’ve ever lived abroad, healed abroad, or reinvented yourself far away from everything familiar…this one will sit close to your heart. Listen, breathe, and maybe text that friend who walked you through a season you didn’t have words for. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/busan-memories-and-%EB%A7%88%EC%9D%8C-heart-47ae5bac7510

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What does it mean to belong everywhere and nowhere at once? In this episode of The More Sibyl Podcast, I sit with Dr. Xin She, a pediatrician, global health scholar, researcher, mindfulness educator, polyglot, and Fulbright Fellow, whose life spans continents, cultures, and ways of knowing. Together, we explore what it means to heal beyond medicine, to find wholeness not in prescriptions but in purpose, compassion, and connection. Born in 1980s Shanghai, in a one-room home without hot running water, Dr. She’s earliest lessons in resilience came from bucket showers and blackouts long before she ever entered a clinic. Those childhood experiences later shaped her calling to global health, from Haiti’s pediatric wards to the U.S.–Mexico border, where a simple Coke bottle filled with stones can spark joy for a child processing trauma. We talk about motherhood and migration, burnout and rebirth, and the tender work of raising a global citizen; a child who learns empathy not from textbooks, but from refugee camps, shared meals, and birthday cakes at the border. We also reflect on our Fulbright journeys, hers in Mexico and mine in Korea, and the quiet, unseen sacrifices our families make so we can stand in the places we feel called to. Our conversation moves through the meaning of work-life integration, the courage to say no without guilt, and the discipline of creating joy even in places marked by pain. And woven through it all is a simple truth: despite our differences, people everywhere long for the same things: wellness, dignity, connection, and meaning. This episode is a reminder that across borders and experiences, there is always common ground. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-geography-of-being-human-e6fd0d48d5fe

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: To close out our Prostate Cancer & Men’s Wellness Awareness Series, we sit with Dr. Timi Adepoju, a physician, leadership coach, entrepreneur, and living proof that adversity can be a launchpad. From growing up in Ibadan during Nigeria’s era of scarcity to building thriving clinics and leadership programs in the U.S., his story is a masterclass in grit, grace, and growth. He reflects on how childhood lessons, faith, and a “make the most of what you have” mindset shaped the man he is today and why he refused to abandon his dream of becoming a physician, even when others urged him to take an easier road. But this conversation isn’t just about achievement. It’s a full reset on men’s wellness and balance; a candid look at why men around the world are dying younger, how the “provider” mindset fuels silent exhaustion, and why rest, nutrition, yearly checkups, and breathing space are not indulgences, but survival tools. Dr. Adepoju shares his own transformation from 100-hour workweeks to building rhythms of rest, intentional vacations, and sustainable balance. For leaders and multitaskers, his thoughts on clarity, structure, and letting go will resonate deeply: how to create systems, trust your team, set weekly anchors, and accept that the world will keep spinning even when you take a day off. We also explore how he built Empower Children’s Clinic in Mississippi by turning barriers into blueprints — seeing poverty, health disparities, and limited pediatric access as opportunities to serve. “Light comes out of darkness,” he says, and his clinics, now in multiple locations, prove it. In the end, we return to what greatness truly means. Vulnerability. Accountability. The courage to grow and evolve year after year. If you’re a physician with a vision, a man redefining strength, or anyone learning to balance ambition with well-being, this episode will both ground and inspire you. Tune in to hear the full conversation; available now on all podcast streaming platforms. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/becoming-a-well-built-man-fd6c07daa8c6

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: In this episode, I sit down with Mr. Mark A. Harris, a men's health advocate whose story redefines what it means to face illness with faith, courage, and community. Recorded on Father’s Day, this conversation goes beyond prostate cancer; it’s about legacy, love, and learning to “do it afraid.” Mr. Harris opens up about his prostate cancer diagnosis, the heartbreaking loss of his son to a rare cancer, and how both experiences shaped his mission to help men speak up, get checked, and live fully. From the power of early detection to breaking the silence around men’s health, Mr. Harris reminds us that strength and softness can coexist, and that sharing your story doesn’t make you weak; it makes you a guide for others finding their strength. 🎧 Tune in to hear: Why fear and shame shouldn’t stop men from seeking help How illness reshapes relationships and faith The importance of early detection and open conversations What true advocacy looks like when love meets loss This episode will move you, challenge you, and remind you that healing isn’t just about the body, it’s about connection, courage, and community. Listen now wherever you get your podcasts, and don’t forget to share this episode with someone who needs the reminder that it’s okay to be strong and soft at the same time. 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/breaking-the-silence-against-prostate-cancer-41885e507480

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What does it mean to live well, even in the face of illness? How do we care for those navigating both the physical and emotional realities of cancer? In this episode of The More Sibyl Podcast, we sit down with one of the pioneers of psycho-oncology, Dr. Andrew Roth, Professor Emeritus of Clinical Psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medical College and longtime attending psychiatrist at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Together, we explore the emotional ripple effects of a cancer diagnosis, how anxiety and shame often hide beneath stoicism, and why naming our fears can sometimes be the most courageous act of all. Dr. Roth introduces tools like the Distress Thermometer and MAX-PC (Memorial Anxiety Scale for Prostate Cancer), simple yet profound ways clinicians can detect emotional suffering early, before it turns into isolation. These tools, he explains, aren’t just checklists; they’re bridges that reconnect patients to language, to care, and to hope. But perhaps the most powerful insight from Dr. Roth is this: healing doesn’t always mean cure. Sometimes it means learning how to live with uncertainty, reclaiming joy in moments that medicine can’t measure, and building relationships that remind us we are more than our diagnosis. He speaks of the courage it takes for men to open up, for partners to listen without judgment, and for doctors to lead with empathy rather than ego. In sharing his own journey, from community organizing in Brooklyn to a lifetime of helping patients find meaning in the midst of uncertainty, Dr. Roth shows how emotional honesty can transform medical care and what it truly means to “live better” with illness. Whether you’re a clinician, caregiver, patient, or loved one walking beside someone in pain, this conversation will leave you with a renewed understanding of how connection, courage, and curiosity can shape the way we heal and the way we live. Because healing, as Dr. Roth reminds us, isn’t just medical. It’s profoundly human. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-human-side-of-cancer-d06690f1375e

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: At five or six years old, Mr. Roland Odeleye walked miles through the chaos of Nigeria’s 1966 military coup, guided by an inner compass that brought him home safely. That moment became a defining spark in his journey, from Bodija’s fruit-filled streets to a life of purpose, advocacy, and resilience in the face of prostate cancer. In this deeply moving episode of The More Sibyl Podcast, I sit down with Mr. Roland Odeleye, a Nigerian-born patent attorney, nonprofit leader, and prostate cancer advocate, whose story redefines what it means to live with purpose after illness. From his joyful childhood in Bodija, Ibadan, surrounded by fruit trees and family warmth, to decades of service providing free prostate screenings in Nigeria, Mr. Odeleye’s life reflects resilience rooted in community, faith, and knowledge. But when the advocate became the patient, his mission took on a new meaning. Diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2017, he chose active surveillance (regular checkups) instead of immediate surgery, leaning on his family and faith through the journey. Years later, when surgery became necessary, he faced the realities of recovery: physical limitations, emotional healing, and redefined manhood. In this candid conversation, he opens up about: Growing up in Ibadan and the lessons of love, diversity, and resourcefulness. Building a foundation that offered free prostate and cataract screenings across Oyo State. His prostate cancer journey, from diagnosis to surgery, and what “healing” really means. Honest reflections on manhood, quality of life, and faith after prostate surgery. Why he rejects the label “survivor” and calls himself “a man who lived through cancer and carries its legacy.” His ongoing mission to track and support men from his foundation’s past medical outreaches. Mr. Odeleye’s story is not one of mere survival, but a call to redefine strength through vulnerability, to talk openly about men’s health, and to find purpose even in pain. Whether you’re on a health journey, supporting a loved one, or seeking inspiration, listen in to be inspired by a story that blends courage, humor, faith, and service, and reminds us all that healing is not a destination, but a daily act of purpose. Because, as the Yoruba saying goes, ”T’aba Mọ Ọna A kò baje”: if we know the way, we won’t get lost. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/on-prostate-cancer-purpose-and-the-power-of-openness-3ebc6d3c6f8c

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses suicide and depression. Please take care of your heart before you listen. How do we talk honestly about youth suicide, parenting, and mental health in communities where silence has been the norm? In this episode of The More Sibyl Podcast, we present a raw, necessary, and profoundly human conversation on one of the most pressing issues of our time. Joined by Dr. Jessica Puri, Dr. Mathero Michelle Nkhalamba, and Doc Ayomide, this panel takes us inside the struggles too often hidden behind children’s smiles. From Jessica’s courageous story of attempting suicide at eight years old, to Michelle’s reflections on breaking cycles of toxic parenting, to Ayomide’s insights on why children need the language of emotions, each voice calls us to pay closer attention to the silent battles our young people fight. Together, we explore what it means to create psychologically safe environments in homes, schools, faith-based spaces, and communities. We discuss how technology can be guided by wisdom rather than fear, why parents must confront their own unresolved trauma, and how the phrase “it takes a village” is more than just a proverb. This episode offers more than reflection. It is a blueprint for prevention, equipping parents, teachers, and communities with tools to name emotions, build safe support networks, and confront the “not my kid” mindset Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or caring friend, you’ll leave with the tools to spot silent suffering and the courage to discuss it openly.

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: It’s back-to-school season, and while many families are packing lunches and buying supplies, some of us — especially in immigrant or multicultural homes — carry invisible loads. We’re advocating for kids who don’t “fit the mold,” navigating behavioral concerns, or trying to decode school systems never designed with us in mind. That’s why we hosted “More Than a Backpack,” a live panel born out of my own rough start to kindergarten with my daughter. What followed was a raw, honest, and deeply needed conversation with parents and professionals who know this weight firsthand. Ms. Farah, worship pastor, creative leader, and mom of six, shared wisdom from home and ministry. Her reminder: the system is too overwhelmed to parent our kids and knowing their individual needs is our sacred work. Dr. Ihyembe, developmental-behavioral pediatrician, explained why some appointments can’t be squeezed into 15 minutes and how parents must see themselves as advocates, not outsiders. She drew a clear line between what pills can and can’t do and when to seek professional help. Mr. Afolabiyi, husband and dad of three, spoke with candor about the quiet weight fathers carry, urging couples to stay united and keep children’s needs first. Ms. Millicent, nurse practitioner, content creator, and mom of four, brought humor and honesty. She reminded us that “real” parenting isn’t about being perfect, and that grace and connection matter just as much as grades. Ms. Shola Adewumi, mom of two and nursing student, shared her journey raising a son labeled “too emotional.” Guided by faith, she learned to trust her instincts and advocate for him in ways that mattered. In my own reflections, I compared navigating U.S. schools with Nigeria’s system and saw how adaptation isn’t optional; it’s essential. Across all stories ran the same thread: parents filling gaps with lessons, encouragement, and relentless advocacy, because our children are more than grades or labels. We closed with book recommendations that echoed this truth: parenting is less about perfection and more about presence, perspective, and persistence. - The Belonging Paradox – Dr. Otito Iwuchukwu - The Cost of Control – Sharon Hodde Miller - The Circle Maker – Mark Batterson - The Last Lecture – Randy Pausch - Mindset – Carol Dweck - 21 Seconds to Change Your World – Mark Rutland So if you’ve ever left a parent-teacher meeting with more questions than answers, or wished someone would say, “You’re not crazy. You’re not alone,” this conversation is for you. And if you know another parent carrying more than a backpack, share this episode. We see them. We’re in this together. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/back-to-school-panel-534bb245fc71

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 볼 수 있어야 꿈꾼다| From Ikorodu to the World: Testimony of Purpose and Possibility — The One With Testimony Adebiyi | Episode 27 (2025) In this powerful episode, we sit down with Miss Testimony Adebiyi, a passionate changemaker whose story begins in the low-income neighborhood of Ikorodu, Lagos. The daughter of a teacher and a pastor, Testimony grew up facing the harsh reality of being unable to attend school due to financial constraints. But instead of being defined by scarcity, she used it as fuel. Now a first-class graduate in Library and Information Science and a Programs Coordinator at Millennium Campus Network, Testimony has impacted over 4,000 people globally through her work in education, leadership, and youth development. She opens up about the pain of near-missed opportunities, the power of books and community, and her decision to live an intentional life rooted in faith, impact, and advocacy. She also shares her vision for the future: leading programs that support youth development, gender equality, and meaningful change, not just in Nigeria, but across Africa. We also dive into a spirited conversation about Gen Z values, digital distractions, and bridging generational gaps with compassion and curiosity. There’s honesty, laughter (yes, even a “japa” moment), and how she went from surviving survivor’s guilt to giving back through mentorship and storytelling. This is the story of a woman who turned obstacles into stepping stones. If you’ve ever felt like your beginnings were too small for the dreams you carry, this episode is your reminder to keep going. 🎧 Listen now and be inspired to make meaning of your journey and pay it forward. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/from-ikorodu-to-the-world-3f6307a9dd29

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Can you imagine sending your 8-year-old back to your home country for school after immigrating to another country? Before you say, “Heck no!” Especially my Naija people, you might want to listen to this episode. This week, we’re joined by the remarkable Dr. Elizabeth Ajayi-Bridges: educator, community builder, founder, and mother extraordinaire. We both met in boarding school almost three decades ago. In this captivating conversation, she takes us on a journey through her life as a Nigerian-American woman shaped by both Brooklyn and boarding school. And yes, she made the bold decision to send her American-born daughter back to Nigeria for high school, not as a punishment, but as an intentional investment in identity, discipline, and legacy. From her own cross-continental upbringing to raising bicultural children, Dr. Elizabeth shares how early immersion in a Nigerian boarding school (beginning at age 8) sharpened her independence, forged resilience, and even earned her an unforgettable nickname. We unpack what it means to truly belong, as she redefines home not as a zip code but as “where you make an impact.” This episode is for every parent questioning how to raise grounded kids in a culture that often feels disconnected from their roots, and for anyone navigating the in-between of heritage and new beginnings. We also explore her passion for civic leadership, the role of faith, and how she’s preparing the next generation to lead with both heart and heritage. Tune in now to learn why, for some families, going “back” can be a powerful step forward. Contact Dr. Elizabeth directly: [email protected] Let her know you found her through The More Sibyl Podcast. 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/back-to-the-roots-why-i-sent-my-american-kid-to-a-nigerian-boarding-school-332912b8ae22

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Legacy. Leadership. Life Lessons. This episode on The More Sibyl Podcast is surely unforgettable. I had the privilege of sitting down with Professor Onatolu Odukoya, the former Chief Medical Director of Lagos University Teaching Hospital. What began as a conversation about legacy evolved into an enriching dialogue about purpose, faith, leadership, and the wisdom that comes with age. We explored his remarkable academic career, starting with his early days as a standout scholar who would later make his mark at Harvard. We discussed the evolution of Nigeria’s medical education system, particularly in light of emerging technologies like AI and their impact on diagnostics. Professor Odukoya expressed cautious optimism about the future, hopeful that, with the right reforms and vision, both medical education and the broader healthcare sector in Nigeria can grow and thrive. Now in retirement, Professor Odukoya is far from idle. He continues to serve on several medical and community boards, including the Holy Trinity Hospital Board and the Academy of Medical Sciences. He shared candidly about the fears many high achievers have around retirement, especially the fear of becoming irrelevant, but offered a powerful model for staying engaged and purposeful through service, planning, and faith. We also discussed his newly released memoir, which chronicles his life of discipline, faith, loss, and service. It’s not just a story of accomplishments, but of values: how he and his wife have deliberately passed down faith and integrity to their children and grandchildren. This episode is a rich blend of wisdom, history, and practical advice. Whether you’re an academic, a parent, a leader, or someone reflecting on your own legacy, Professor Odukoya’s story will leave you both challenged and inspired. Oh—and something BIG is coming this month. Mark your calendars for July 19th: More Than a Backpack is a live panel session featuring moms, dads, and a behavioral specialist, who will dig even deeper into how we can collectively advocate for our kids in the North American education system. That’s right, both the U.S. and Canada. Save the date, and we’ll see you there! 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-incredible-journey-of-an-academic-medicine-legend-fcf89fc24502 Order his book here: https://form.typeform.com/to/YNxANf4j

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Welcome to July! We’re kicking off the month with a deeply resonant episode featuring my dear friend, Dr. Otito Iwuchukwu. She’s no stranger to this space; it’s not her first rodeo! But this time, we welcome her back in a role that’s even more intimate and relatable: as a mother and, as you’ll hear, a fierce advocate. As immigrant parents prepare for another school year, it’s about more than just backpacks and supply lists. It’s about the emotional load we carry, navigating unfamiliar systems, decoding school emails that make our hearts race, and resisting the urge to turn our frustration inward on our children. In this timely and personal conversation, Otito shares how her son’s early struggles in school became a mirror, reflecting a lifelong journey of being misunderstood. We unpack the silent burdens immigrant parents bear while navigating Western education, especially in the U.S., with stories that will resonate deeply. One of the most significant aspects of our conversation centers on neurodiversity. As a mom to two neurodivergent sons, Otito reframes ADHD not as a deficit, but as a different kind of brilliance, changing not just how she supports her children, but how she affirms herself. We also explore the cultural dissonance between Nigerian and American schooling. For many of us who grew up trusting that teachers had our best interests at heart, it’s jarring to now feel the need to constantly explain, advocate for, and defend our position. As another school year begins, many immigrant families will return to systems not built with their context in mind. This episode offers solidarity. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or ally, now is the time to rethink what advocacy, success, and belonging really mean. Listen. Save. Share. Come back to it when August rolls around and you need a reminder: you are not alone in this journey. And if you know a parent trying to raise a child who feels seen, safe, and strong, send this their way. Also, go read The Belonging Paradox, Dr. Otito’s incredible book (available on Amazon). The episode only scratches the surface—its pages offer deeper truths about identity, parenting, and reclaiming belonging across cultures and systems. No spoilers here. Just go read it. Oh—and something BIG is coming this month. Mark your calendars for July 19th: More Than a Backpack is a live panel session featuring moms, dads, and a behavioral specialist, digging even deeper into how we can collectively advocate for our kids in the North American education system. That’s right—both the U.S. and Canada. Save the date, and we’ll see you there! Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/on-belonging-and-advocacy-for-ourselves-and-our-children-74c3b0f724af

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What does it mean to lead with heart—in the boardroom, in the clinic, and at home? On this special Father's Day edition of The More Sibyl Podcast, I sit down with the person who helped rescue me from a toxic work culture and coached me into becoming a more intentional leader. Dr. Brandon Jennings is a clinician, educator, father, and founder of Abilyn Consulting, with over a decade of experience transforming systems and lives alike. In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, we talk about healthy masculinity, emotional intelligence, fatherhood, and why knowing yourself is the first—and most important—step to leading others well. From corporate strategy sessions to parenting teenage daughters, Brandon leads with presence, not performance. His story is a masterclass in what it means to show up with self-awareness and humility across every area of life. Too often, men are stuck on autopilot, shaped by unexamined habits, cultural expectations, and outdated models of masculinity. Brandon challenges that narrative—not just in theory, but in practice. He shares personal stories of navigating a marriage where his wife's voice is the opposite of his own, working with emotionally intelligent men misaligned in rigid workplaces, and learning to parent with intention—not just instinct. We also unpack the 5 Voices framework, a tool that has radically transformed how I teach, lead, and relate to others. This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and start the work of leading from wholeness. Whether you’re a dad, a leader, or simply someone trying to show up better in the world—this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen in, share with a father or friend, and remember: leadership isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence If you’ve been looking for a sign to start the work—this is it. Connect with Brandon and the Abilyn Consulting team to begin your journey toward greater self-awareness and intentional leadership. Whether it's personal coaching or team development, they'll help you lead yourself so you can lead others better. Curious about my experience? I’m happy to share—just reach out. This work is too powerful to keep to ourselves. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/leadership-fatherhood-through-a-giant-lens-a2b288348c68

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What’s better than a blast from the past? Having a guest return—this time, even more vulnerable and wiser. Just 13 episodes ago, Chris Chime gave us a masterclass on entrepreneurship. Now he’s back with something even more profound: a masterclass on fatherhood, intentional partnership, and generational healing. As a child of divorce, Chris grew up watching a love that didn’t last. That experience left scars—but also planted the seeds of a promise: “When it’s my turn, I’ll do it differently.” And that’s precisely what he’s doing. In this emotionally honest episode, Chris opens up about what it takes to lead your family with love, clarity, and conviction. From making the bold decision to shield his wife from extended family interference, to redefining masculinity by being present with his kids, he reminds us that being a man isn’t about dominance. It’s about devotion. We discuss how unexamined loyalty to siblings or uncles can quietly erode a marriage, and why boundaries aren't a betrayal but a form of protection. Chris shares the quiet rituals that matter most: letting kids choose the restaurant on their birthday, hosting quarterly family meetings, and building trust through simple moments of connection. He also speaks openly about how he and his wife handle disagreements by protecting their values, maintaining open communication, and refusing to use divorce threats as a weapon. And to men in the diaspora, he offers a simple, powerful charge: “Help your wife.” Because true partnership is hands-on. Whether you’re a dad, a husband, a child of divorce—or still figuring it all out—this episode will challenge, encourage, and maybe even heal you. Missed Episode 9? Go back and catch Chris’s first take on purpose and business. Listen. Share. This one’s for the generational curse breakers. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/becoming-dad-356f075051cc

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Being chosen is a gift Sam White received early, and it’s a legacy he’s now passing on with intention. In this deeply personal and powerful episode, I sit down with Sam: entrepreneur, brand strategist, real estate investor, mentor, and proud new father. Adopted at six months and raised by Black parents in Arizona, Sam opens up about the layers of identity, healing, and quiet grief that adoptees often carry beyond childhood. He reflects on the moment he reunited with his biological siblings at age 34 and how his parents nurtured a deep sense of belonging that became the foundation for his emotional and spiritual resilience. We explore how fatherhood is reshaping his understanding of love and legacy, the joy and complexity of building a multicultural family, and the intentional ways he’s raising his son with both privilege and perspective. Sam also shares the remarkable story of meeting his wife, Sarah, on a random flight, and how they’ve built a mission-driven life together. We also talk hustle. From emceeing trade shows in college to founding a successful DJ and events company and launching The Pivotal Investment, Sam is on a mission to democratize access to commercial real estate for Black and Brown communities. He shares the sacredness of wealth with purpose, the importance of mentorship, and why meaningful relationships remain the core of everything he builds. This episode is a gift: grounded in lived experience, and brimming with quiet truths that challenge, affirm, and uplift. If you’re navigating transitions, legacy, or identity, you’ll find something here that speaks directly to your soul. And when you’re done, connect with Sam on Instagram @samdiego20. Tell him which part of his journey resonated most, and don’t forget to share this episode with someone else who needs the reminder: your story matters, even the messy parts. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/reflections-of-a-grateful-adoptee-41a4bd6213e1

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What happens when your “common-sense advocate” friend—often (lovingly) accused of being a chauvinist—joins the podcast to talk gender roles? You get a rich, rowdy, and unexpectedly tender Father’s Day conversation. In this special episode, I sit down with Dr. Ikechukwu Okoro (also known as Aikay, as I affectionately call him): a physician, artist, and one of the oldest friendships I’ve maintained since our NYSC days in Ibadan. Together, we explore the complex layers of ambition, masculinity, submission, grief, and family legacy. We dive into what happens when men marry ambitious women and later feel threatened by that ambition. Is ambition unbiblical? Can submission and purpose exist in the same household? We unpack these tensions with scripture, personal stories, and the Proverbs 31 woman as a backdrop. (Yes, there’s a twist at the end.) Aikay challenges my views while sharing his own, particularly on why ambition should never come at the cost of family. He also opens up about the loss of his father and what it means to grieve without tears. His story is both a celebration of a legacy and a powerful reminder that there’s no one way to mourn. This episode is a tribute to the fathers we’ve had, the ones we’ve lost, and the ones we hope to become. It’s about choosing honest dialogue over easy answers. Whether you're navigating marriage, grief, identity, or calling, this one’s for you. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/fatherhood-feminism-and-faith-d45bfd661566

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Five beautiful episodes. Seven amazing guests and several deeply personal stories. Sùúrùgate has reached its final chapter, and I can’t help but feel proud of the ground we’ve covered. We’ve peeled back the layers of infertility, parenthood, and the deeply intimate journey of surrogacy, giving voice to those often left out of the conversation. As we wrap this powerful series, we take a bold turn into a topic that’s rarely discussed: the legal realities of surrogacy in Nigeria. In this must-listen episode, I’m joined by the brilliant Lawyer Gbenga Adebisi, who brings unmatched clarity to Nigeria’s current surrogacy landscape, one that remains largely undefined by law. Gbenga walks us through the murky legal framework (or better put, the lack of one) and offers critical insight into why treating surrogacy as just a contract is not only misguided but potentially dangerous. His words surprised me, and they just might shift your perspective, too. We unpack the fundamental question: Is surrogacy even legal in Nigeria? The answer is not what most people think. Gbenga explains how the absence of federal legislation leaves all parties—intended parents, surrogates, and especially the children—exposed and unprotected. He also highlights the often-exploitative systems in place that leave surrogate mothers underserved, unsupported, and without recourse. If you’ve ever considered surrogacy, know someone who has, or simply care about protecting the most vulnerable in society, this episode is for you. You’ll walk away with practical insight into how to navigate this complex terrain more responsibly, even in the absence of clear legal guidelines. But more than that, I hope this episode ignites something deeper—a call to advocate for comprehensive legal reform in Nigeria. Surrogacy should not operate in the shadows. Every child deserves legal clarity. Every surrogate deserves dignity. Every family deserves protection. So please, don’t just listen—understand. Share this episode widely. Let’s raise our voices and push for a future where surrogacy in Nigeria is guided not just by hope, but by justice. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-legality-of-surrogacy-in-nigeria-39d355c8b2af

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: As we wrap up this month’s Sùúrùgate series, I thought it expedient to share a story that embodies resilience, vulnerability, and the power of community. It takes immense courage to share a journey that many are ashamed to even identify with. And when someone steps forward with that kind of bravery, it deserves to be honored. Our guest today, though she remains anonymous, chose to walk the courageous path of telling her truth to help others find theirs. In truth, she was one of the few people who held my hand through the immigration and surrogacy process. Her guidance, honesty, and unwavering generosity carried me in moments of fear and uncertainty, and I am forever indebted to her. In this deeply honest episode, I sit down with her to explore the often-unspoken realities of infertility and surrogacy, particularly within African communities. She shares her 16-year journey, one marked by the emotional weight of endometriosis, multiple failed IVF cycles, and heartbreaking miscarriages. Together, we discuss the physical and emotional costs of these experiences and the difficult decisions that come with choosing alternative paths to parenthood. She also opens up about navigating surrogacy as an immigrant, highlighting the legal and emotional complexities of commissioning a surrogate in Nigeria and the challenges of bringing her U.S. citizen child home via the Consular Report of Birth Abroad (CRBA) process. Her story sheds light on what it means to hope against hope and to take a leap of faith despite societal stigma and cultural silence. Perhaps most moving is her call to action—not just for women walking this path, but also for their partners. She urges husbands, especially in African communities, to offer patience, empathy, and unwavering support, reminding us that infertility is never just a woman’s burden to carry. Her message is a testament to love in action and to the transformative power of solidarity in the face of uncertainty. If you or someone you love is facing infertility or wants to understand the surrogacy experience more deeply, this conversation offers a powerful reminder: no one walks this path alone. Listen in for a compassionate dialogue that challenges stigma, honors each family’s unique story, and invites us all to widen our definition of what it means to become a parent. Tune in now and join us as we break the silence, share the truth, and offer hope. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/another-s%C3%B9%C3%BAr%C3%B9gate-surrogate-journey-9127b945be1d

When most people think of pregnancy, they think baby names, nursery colors, and tiny clothes. For Ms. Idowu Grace Abosede, pregnancy was about giving someone else the chance to experience all of that. In this gripping episode, we unpack her deeply personal journey through surrogacy—one she had to navigate the hard way, using her own body as the lesson. That journey became the catalyst for founding Boblu’nd Gray Surrogacy Agency, where she now advocates for safe, ethical, and compassionate surrogacy in Nigeria. Ms. Idowu shares the emotional and physical toll of being a surrogate and exposes the wide gap in protections for surrogates in Nigeria. From financial mistreatment—being offered as little as ₦30,000/month for food (in this T-Pain economy?!)—to unnecessary, non-consensual C-sections, she names the exploitative practices of individuals and institutions alike. Her message is clear: Surrogacy is not a transaction. It’s a relationship. One that requires empathy, informed consent, and long-term support. Whether you're a prospective surrogate, an intended parent, or a healthcare provider, this episode will challenge you to rethink everything you thought you knew about surrogacy. Listen now and be part of the conversation that centers care, dignity, and justice. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-mvps-of-s%C3%B9%C3%BAr%C3%B9gate-surrogate-journeys-44efc093578a Exploring Surrogacy or Global Family-Building? HOPES offers culturally grounded support for families navigating surrogacy and CRBA. Join our safe space for personalized, experience-based guidance. Complete the HOPES Intake Form to get started. Note: Not a legal or medical service—just a compassionate first step.

The More Sibyl Podcast: I have one goal this month: demystifying surrogacy. In this episode, I’m joined by three amazing people—Olubusolami Jeremiah-Yusuf, Chidinma Ewo-Mebradu, and my husband, Taiwo—to help me do just that. Together, we bring the dual perspectives of medical professionals and commissioning parents. We explore what it means to pursue surrogacy ethically, the emotional realities intended parents must be ready for, and the importance of building a strong, informed support system. Busolami and Chidinma offer invaluable professional insights and practical guidance on navigating surrogacy responsibly and compassionately. One of the key themes we highlight is the need to treat surrogates with dignity and fairness. From education and legal protections to emotional support and ethical practices, we discuss what it takes to ensure a positive and humane surrogacy experience. Taiwo shares his reflections on the role of honest communication between partners, while I open up about my own journey as a commissioning mom—what it meant to prepare for a child I wasn’t carrying, how I coped with anxiety and grief from previous losses, and the deep faith and trust required every step of the way. This episode is both a personal reflection and a practical guide for anyone considering or navigating surrogacy. We talk about everything from preparing for parenthood and supporting surrogates to managing logistics and navigating family dynamics. If you’d like to connect with Busolami or Chidinma for support or guidance, here’s how to reach them: Busolami – [[email protected]] Chidinma – [[email protected]] If you’re exploring surrogacy or building your family through other means, know this: you are not alone. There’s a growing community and support network here for you. That’s exactly what HOPES – Helping Our People Expand Safely – is all about. Begin here: https://forms.gle/o5pbimJr1NQ9oHAY6 You can also find Busolami and Chidinma on social media—their details are linked in the show notes. Till the next conversation, Mosiblings—see you then!

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Last year, I had my second child through surrogacy. It was a long, tedious, and rewarding journey that inspired this series: Sùúrùgate. This premiere episode of the Sùúrùgate series is a deeply personal monologue about my journey to motherhood. A journey that spanned nearly a decade and took me through infertility, loss, hope, adoption, and finally, surrogacy. I open up about the early days of trying to conceive, the countless medical procedures, failed IVF cycles, and the heartbreak that followed each disappointment. I speak honestly about the emotional toll, the spiritual wrestling, and the cultural expectations that made the experience even more isolating. After adopting our first child, Ariifeoluwa, surrogacy became another viable option to parenthood. My husband and I chose to explore that route in Nigeria. I walk you through how we selected a clinic, navigated contracts, and managed the long-distance process. I also reflect on the silence and stigma that often surround infertility in African and faith-based communities. Through this monologue, I hope to break that silence, sharing not just the hard parts, but also the faith, patience (sùúrù), and unexpected beauty that carried me through. This episode sets the tone for the rest of the Sùúrùgate series, where I’ll dive deeper into the practical and emotional aspects of building a family in unconventional ways, especially from an African and diasporan lens. So stay tuned for the whole month as we dive into Sùúrùgate. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/our-s%C3%B9%C3%BAr%C3%B9gate-journey-welcoming-our-joy-70bfc589f209

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Our final episode in our Reunion series is with our Third-Culture Aussie, Tanya Crossman. This episode is not what you would expect, but it was heartfelt and thought-provoking. Tanya Crossman is a well-known author, speaker, and educator. She focuses on Third Culture Kids (TCKs) and cross-cultural identity. She has lived in China for over ten years. She co-authored a book for Australian TCKs. She also helps globally mobile families with identity, belonging, and generational dynamics. Seven years after her first podcast, Tanya is back. She shares her thoughts on personal and global change. We explore how a major life event changed her life completely, how the pandemic changed her relationship with China, and lessons from her latest writing project, including a powerful exercise she developed to visually map the changing facets of home across different times and places. This tool revealed to her just how much her sense of identity, safety, and community had shifted over the years. In this episode, we talk about why character development matters more than achievements. We explore how hardship can lead to quiet growth and discuss how storytelling can heal, especially when our stories reveal truths we didn’t know we needed. Listen to the full episode to hear Tanya’s story, lessons, and insights. Connect with Tanya and explore her resources on Instagram:@tck_tanya 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/on-life-curveballs-crossing-cultures-47b76f42fd89

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: We're still celebrating our milestone anniversary by reconnecting with some of the incredible voices from our past — and in this episode, I'm sitting down again with my dear friend, Ms. Ada Unigwe, first featured in our 2018 episode, “The Life of a Woman.” In this honest and heart-centered conversation, Ada reflects on the changes the past seven years have brought — from navigating premenopause and parenting with intention, to building a foundation of faith for her children. She shares how her views on love, legacy, and purpose have evolved, and why she now chooses alignment with God's will over chasing societal expectations. We also get honest about the silent struggles of African single moms in the diaspora, the stigma of divorce in African communities, and how faith has helped Ada reframe loss, rejection, and healing. Plus, she opens up about her dating journey, her decision to step back, and what it looks like to trust God one day at a time. If you're navigating heartbreak, solo parenting, or simply seeking encouragement in your faith journey, this episode is a poignant reminder: your story matters, with its scars, softness, strength, and all. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/healing-growth-aging-and-living-life-gods-way-after-divorce-e68c83fa746b

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: In this soulful and wide-ranging reunion episode, Mo! reconnects with Dr. Henry Olamiju—physician, pastor, photographer, husband, and purpose-driven creative—seven years after his first appearance on The More Sibyl Podcast. What unfolds is a rich conversation on growth, calling, and the courage it takes to live authentically across multiple identities. They explore the power of showing up fully in community, the liberation that comes from bringing hidden struggles into the light, and how pain, when met with honesty, can become a wellspring of purpose and healing. From navigating pastoral responsibilities in London to balancing fatherhood, exams, and ministry, Dr. Olamiju shares how grace, discipline, and a supportive partner have kept him grounded. Together, they reflect on the beauty of community, the burden of silence, and the necessity of mentorship in our 40s and beyond. They uncover how our earliest experiences quietly prepare us for lives we couldn’t have imagined. Whether you're sitting with unresolved pain, navigating a transition, or trying to figure out your place in the world, this episode offers gentle encouragement, spiritual insight, and a reminder that legacy isn't what we leave behind, it's what we live into every day. Tune in for laughter, wisdom, and a soulful check-in that's equal parts therapy session, pep talk, and praise break. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/how-the-mission-is-going-bbf787109bb8

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Happy birthmonth to us! 🎉 Seven years ago, I launched the very first episode of The More Sibyl Podcast—and the journey since then has been nothing short of transformative, inspiring, and deeply rewarding. To mark this incredible milestone, we’re kicking off a special Reunion Series, reconnecting with some of the earliest voices that helped shape this platform. First up: Dr. Fiona Adanse (née Imarhia)—now a wife, mother, and dedicated clinical pharmacist—who also happened to be my very first guest. So, of course, it only felt right to begin this series with her. Back then, Fiona was an ambitious pharmacy student. Today, she’s thriving in her career, raising a growing family, and navigating the beautiful chaos of life with purpose and grace. In this heartfelt and reflective episode, we dive into how life has unfolded since Episode 001—what’s changed, what’s stayed the same, and all the lessons learned in between. Fiona shares her leap-of-faith love story, her experience in a multicultural Ghanaian-Nigerian marriage (yes, we talk jollof wars!), and how stepping into the podcast space, despite being naturally quiet, taught her more about her own strength and potential. We also explore parenting truths, time as a construct, and the power of rest, even during the whirlwind. Recording this felt like opening a time capsule—one packed with wisdom, laughter, and deep gratitude. Fiona’s voice, reflections, and vision for the future remind us that growth doesn’t always happen loudly, but it always leaves a mark. Whether you’ve been here since day one or just discovered the show, this episode is for you. Press play and celebrate with us—this one is full of heart, perspective, and inspiration for the road ahead. 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/jollof-joy-and-the-journey-f3a1978e209f

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: All good things must come to an end—and what better way to wrap up our entrepreneurial series than with today's powerhouse episode! We're joined by Adeola Kolawole, a seasoned corporate and real estate lawyer, to unpack the essentials of business law in Nigeria. From her path into the legal profession to the sobering realities facing young lawyers in Nigeria, Adeola brings clarity, candor, and a wealth of experience. In this episode, we explore the legal must-knows for starting a business, and take a deep dive into the layered complexities of real estate law—especially in Lagos State. (Spoiler alert: We ask the hard questions—like, why are Lagos rents so high?) But there's more to Adeola than her legal chops—she's also a wife, mom, mentor, and a Finnish language learner (yes, really!). This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering starting a business or purchasing property in Nigeria. It's also a clarion call to lawyers, policymakers, and law firms to create a legal ecosystem that truly serves the people. Learn more about Adeola and her firm at aalawsng.com , and don't forget to catch up on your favorite streaming platform. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-legal-hustle-business-law-real-estate-realities-in-nigeria-fb1f7f3920bc

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What happens when a serial entrepreneur takes a leap from Nigeria to Canada and builds business bridges across continents? You get Chris Chime—a man of grit, grace, and plenty of entrepreneurial spice. In this powerful episode, Chris walks us through his journey of growing up Igbo (business was in his blood!), starting a pest control company from scratch, pivoting to logistics in Canada, and maintaining integrity while managing cross-continental ventures. We talk about cultural transitions, immigrant hustle, starting over in a new land, the Nigerian community in diaspora, and what it means to make peace with the 80/20 rule—even when your employees are “corporately stealing.” Gems on mindset shifts, knowing when to pivot, and trusting the process await you. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, immigrant, or dreamer, this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen now on your favorite platform! 📲 Share, review, and tag @mosibyl if it resonates! 📩 Want to connect with Chris? Reach out to him at [email protected] or [email protected] Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/milking-the-hustle-secrets-from-an-entrepreneur-mastermind-b265e87d2c64

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: The March Entrepreneurship Series has been nothing short of phenomenal, and it's only getting better! In this episode of The More Sibyl Podcast, we sit down with Temitope Abiona, founder of Eriglow Organics, a skincare brand rooted in natural, plant-based ingredients. She takes us on her entrepreneurial journey—from running businesses in Nigeria to launching Eriglow in the U.S.—and the challenges of transitioning from a 9-to-5 job to full-time entrepreneurship. She opens up about the realities of business logistics, self-doubt, and resilience, including a tough pop-up market experience that tested her grit. Born from her personal skincare struggles, Eriglow is now helping countless others achieve healthy, radiant skin. Looking ahead, Temitope envisions expanding into haircare, launching a factory, and taking Eriglow global. She also reflects on how her Nigerian upbringing shaped her resilience, independence, and problem-solving mindset. This episode is packed with gems on entrepreneurship, perseverance, and building a purpose-driven brand. Don’t sleep on this one, entrepreneurs and aspiring entrepreneurs! Listen now on your favorite podcast platform! Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/how-she-built-eriglow-0262be050abb

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Imagine being a new mom, filled with joy and anticipation—only to be told that your child will need an amputation. The shock, the fear, the overwhelming uncertainty. Now, imagine channeling that pain into a movement that transforms not just your child's life but the lives of thousands. That’s exactly what Crystal Chigbu, founder of The Irede Foundation, has done. In this episode, Crystal shares her incredible journey from corporate leadership at Procter & Gamble to becoming a pioneer in disability advocacy in Nigeria. Her personal experience raising a child with limb loss led to the creation of a foundation that has provided over 600 prosthetic limbs to children across Africa, restoring their mobility, confidence, and hope. Crystal takes us through the challenges and triumphs of navigating career transitions with purpose and resilience, the realities of building and sustaining a successful social enterprise, and the role of mentorship, coaching, and gender dynamics in professional growth. She opens up about overcoming grief and emotional hurdles, the importance of storytelling with dignity in disability advocacy, and the groundbreaking innovations in prosthetics and the future of local production in Nigeria. We also explore fundraising and scaling a non-profit with credibility and transparency, ensuring long-term impact. Crystal’s journey is a testament to the power of community, purpose, and persistence. You can help amplify this impact! Support The Irede Foundation by: 💙 Donating to provide prosthetic limbs for children. 🤝 Volunteering your time or skills. 📢 Spreading awareness about disability inclusion. Visit www.theiredefoundation.org or follow @theiredefoundation on social media to get involved! At The More Sibyl Community, we believe in action, not just words. That’s why we’re leading by example with a $200 donation—and we encourage you to join us in making a difference! 🎧 Listen now, be inspired, and take action! Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/beyond-the-limb-a-mothers-fight-for-disability-advocacy-inclusion-7c09b6da01e5

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Join us as we launch our March series spotlighting entrepreneurs who are driving a new era of growth, innovation, and African ownership. In this episode, we sit down with Akaego Okoye—lawyer, business strategist, and founder of African Business Stories—for a deep dive into the realities of building, scaling, and sustaining businesses in Africa. She unpacks common misconceptions, explores the power of regional trade, and explains why an "Africa First" mindset is critical for sustainable growth and self-sufficiency. Throughout our conversation, we highlight some of Africa’s biggest success stories, from Botswana’s free education model and Kenya’s fintech revolution to Rwanda’s thriving startup scene and Nigeria’s leadership in local content policies that ensure African ownership in key industries. Akaego also breaks down Africa’s aviation and infrastructure challenges, from long-haul travel delays to inefficiencies in cross-border payments, and discusses how solutions like the Pan-African Payment and Settlement System (PAPSS) and Lobito Corridor could revolutionize trade across the continent. Beyond business, Akaego shares the hidden currency of success: networking, relationship-building, and storytelling. She reflects on how meaningful connections have shaped her career, how visibility empowers entrepreneurs, and why African women in business must take up space and own their narratives. She also delves into her pioneering work in business aviation, playing a key role in launching Nigeria’s first private jet terminal and reshaping corporate air travel in Africa. She emphasizes the importance of streamlined infrastructure and better connectivity for economic growth and trade across the continent. As Africa reclaims its economic identity, this conversation unpacks both the challenges and opportunities in intra-African trade, infrastructure gaps, payment solutions, and business ecosystems that prioritize African entrepreneurs. Tune in now for a robust conversation on Africa’s next chapter! Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/african-business-landscape-and-community-building-82da14d6cc01

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What if your curiosity could be your superpower? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Traci Bethea, an epidemiologist and researcher at Georgetown Lombardi Comprehensive Cancer Center, whose natural inquisitiveness led her to groundbreaking work in cancer health disparities. From growing up in a military family and exploring new places to investigating the environmental and social factors that influence breast cancer in Black women, Dr. Bethea shares how her passion for discovery and equity in healthcare has shaped her career. We explore her research on how factors such as childbirth, breastfeeding, and even personal care products may influence cancer risk and outcomes. If you’ve ever wondered why Black women are being diagnosed with aggressive breast cancers at younger ages—or what can be done about it—this episode is full of gems you won’t want to miss. But the conversation doesn’t stop at research. Dr. Bethea opens up about survivorship, the power of sleep, and how small lifestyle changes can have a big impact on long-term health. She also sheds light on how stress, environmental exposures, and historical health challenges may be shaping cancer risks in Black communities worldwide. For those navigating a cancer diagnosis or supporting loved ones through it, Dr. Bethea shares practical, empowering advice on making informed healthcare decisions. This episode isn’t just about cancer—it’s about understanding our bodies, advocating for better care, and ultimately, thriving. Tune in for a powerful conversation that just might change the way you think about health and prevention. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/empowering-ourselves-against-cancer-b9c1072ea22f

The More Sibyl Podcast Present: Was Apostle Paul a misogynist, or has history misunderstood him? In this thought-provoking episode, I sit down with our longtime bestie, Doc Ayomide, to dive deep into the controversial legacy of one of Christianity’s most influential figures. From debates surrounding his teachings on gender roles and inclusivity to his radical transformation from persecutor to preacher, we unpack the historical and cultural contexts behind Paul’s writings. Was he truly misogynistic, or have his words been misapplied over time? Together, we explore these questions and more, offering fresh perspectives on how Paul’s teachings can inspire us to bridge divides and build more inclusive communities today. This conversation isn’t just about history—it’s about relevance. We discuss how Paul’s cultural adaptability and commitment to inclusivity challenge us to engage with our faith deeply and critically. Doc Ayomide shares powerful insights into how Paul’s letters, written as a “Plan B” while imprisoned, became a timeless legacy of transformation and hope. Whether you’re navigating personal change, seeking to understand different perspectives, or striving to make an impact in your community, Paul’s story has something for everyone. Tune in to discover how his life and teachings can inspire your own journey—don’t forget to share your thoughts with us! Let’s keep the conversation going. Read blog: https://mosibyl.medium.com/i-paul-the-life-of-the-great-apostle-bc0bc893cee4

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Dr. Natalia Shcherbakova returns to the podcast for a thought-provoking conversation that dives deep into some of today’s most pressing issues—healthcare reform, AI’s impact on education, cultural identity, and the realities of academia. From the shocking assassination of UnitedHealthcare’s CEO to the hidden dangers of private equity takeovers in healthcare, Dr. Natalia provides sharp insights into a system that often prioritizes profit over patient care. We also tackle the rise of AI in the classroom, discussing the challenges of academic dishonesty, the struggle to foster critical thinking, and the evolving role of professors in an increasingly digital world. If you’ve ever wondered how technology, policy, and personal values intersect in education and healthcare, this episode is for you. But that’s not all! Dr. Natalia also shares her personal journey as an immigrant academic—balancing professional excellence while preserving her Russian heritage. She reflects on the differences between Russian and American education systems, the power of strong public speaking skills in academia, and her efforts to pass down cultural traditions to her daughter. Whether you’re an educator, student, or someone passionate about cultural identity, this episode offers rich insights and engaging discussions. Tune in for an enlightening exchange that challenges conventional thinking and sparks meaningful reflection. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/crises-in-academia-and-cultural-preservation-88ba2396b553

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 중간 자녀 기운|The One with Dr. Joannah Otashu: Middle Child Energy and Thriving in Corporate Spaces | Episode 2 (2025) Get ready for one of the most fun-filled episodes of the podcast yet! In this chaotic and hilarious conversation, I sit down with my dear friend Dr. Joannah Otashu— one of Arii’s beloved Aunties. From her childhood in Nigeria, growing up as the middle child in a perfectly balanced family of six, to her journey in Chemical Engineering at Ahmadu Bello University and PhD studies at UT Austin, Dr. Otashu takes us on a captivating ride. She shares how discipline, faith, and her family’s “Otashu Rule Book” shaped her values and her professional drive. You’ll laugh, you’ll reflect, and you’ll find inspiration in her story of navigating male-dominated spaces, turning delays into opportunities, and thriving as a Black immigrant woman in the corporate world. We also explore her transition from academia to software sales, the importance of building workplace allies, and how intentional relationships have opened doors in her career. Beyond work, Dr. Otashu speaks candidly about the challenges of immigrant responsibilities amidst Black Tax, the art of setting boundaries, and how she stays true to her core values of kindness, empathy, and justice. Whether she’s sharing wisdom on balancing career and personal life or teasing me about our adventures, Dr. Otashu’s story is one of authenticity and joy. Don’t miss this heartfelt, laughter-filled episode packed with lessons on community, purpose, and self-growth. Tune in, Mosiblings—you’re in for a treat! 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/middle-child-energy-and-thriving-in-corporate-spaces-486f76a8929d

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Happy New Year, everyone! Kick off 2025 with me as I sit down with the brilliant minds behind The More Sibyl Podcast—my incredible Virtual Assistants, Abimbola Olasupo and Ifeoluwa Adegbola. Together, we take a heartfelt look back at the highs and lows of 2024, celebrate the lessons we’ve learned, and relive some of our most memorable podcast moments (spoiler: picking favorites is so hard!). This candid conversation is filled with gratitude, insights, and laughter, highlighting the unique contributions of Abimbola and Ifeoluwa, who are the creative and strategic engines that keep this podcast running smoothly. Looking ahead to 2025, we’re diving in with big dreams and exciting plans just for you, our amazing listeners! This year promises to be packed with storytelling, meaningful connections, and plenty of fun surprises. Curious about what we have in store or want a peek into my thoughts on my VAs? Tune in for all the juicy details, valuable takeaways, and some inspiration to kick-start your year. Don’t forget to follow us on Instagram (@themoresibylpodcast) and TikTok (@the.more.sibyl.po) to stay connected and join our vibrant community. We’d love to hear from you! Drop us a comment about your favorite episode or share how the podcast has impacted you—your voice matters, and we can’t wait to listen. Hit play now, and let’s embrace 2025 together! Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/on-past-year-reflections-and-new-year-resolutions-8871eed00d9f

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: In this heartwarming episode, we’re joined by the incredible Vivian Nwogu, known endearingly as Vee. Her story of resilience, courage, and grace will leave you inspired. Imagine working while undergoing cancer treatments! This alone takes a huge amount of tenacity. From her early days in Nigeria to becoming a licensed nurse across four countries, Vee’s journey has been nothing short of extraordinary. But what truly sets her apart is her battle with breast cancer. Vee opens up about her emotional and physical journey, sharing how her cancer diagnosis sparked a fire to empower others and advocate for women’s health. Her strength, even in the face of unimaginable challenges, is a powerful reminder that we can rise above life’s toughest moments. Thie stories from Vee’s childhood struggles to her unyielding drive to become a nurse and cancer survivor left me in awe of her strength. As she continues to inspire women worldwide, Vee proves that our struggles don’t define us; our response to them does. Don’t miss this uplifting conversation—subscribe to the podcast, leave a comment sharing where you’re tuning in from, and join us in supporting Vivian’s journey. Tune in now and follow our platform for more empowering stories! You can also show your support by donating towards her cancer treatments, her GoFundMe is linked below. Follow Vivian’s story on her IG @vee.manifest. 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: Vivian’s GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/2815c2ec

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: What’s it really like to grow up with a built-in best friend—or partner in crime? In this lively and heartfelt episode, we explore the fascinating world of twins with two incredible sets: The Popoola Twins and the Adedipe Twins. Kenny Popoola, Kenny Adedipe, and Taiwo "T-Dawg" Adedipe—my husband and a twin himself—share stories ranging from childhood mischief to the unique bonds and challenges of twinhood. This episode unpacks myths, cultural traditions (hello, Yoruba tribe), and the individuality that makes twins so extraordinary. From the Popoola twins’ calm childhood to the Adedipe twins’ knack for stirring trouble, we explore how shared birthdays don’t always mean shared destinies. Plus, we uncover why even twins with telepathic legends don’t always pick up the phone to call each other every day—looking at you, T-Dawg! And the twin tales don’t stop here! Coming soon, we’ll bring in the wives to spill the tea on what it’s like being married to twins. Is it double the joy or double the competition? You won’t want to miss their take on navigating life and love with these dynamic duos. Whether you’re fascinated by twins, curious about cultural traditions, or just looking for a heartwarming listen, this episode is packed with laughs, insights, and surprising revelations. Tune in now, and stay tuned for more twin-themed magic! 🅻🅸🅽🅺🆂: Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/exploring-twin-dynamics-d80df1d5af89 You can watch the live show here: https://www.youtube.com/live/jV4wXoaV3Q8?si=1FY0F_Yvp3s0fFRV

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: This week's episode features the inspiring Mrs. Morenike Afolabi, a woman whose influence has deeply impacted someone very dear to this podcast: my former assistant's remarkable mother. She’s an administrator, professional chef, wife, mother, and business co-owner. She graciously shared her multifaceted journey, offering a wealth of wisdom on topics like growing up in a harmonious polygamous family, navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship in Nigeria, and modern parenting. Mrs. Afolabi candidly spoke about the hurdles of pricing and publicity in Nigeria’s catering industry and how she’s adapting to the evolving technological landscape to sustain her businesses. We also talked about parenting in today’s world, where Mrs. Afolabi shared her balanced approach to fostering discipline and friendship with her children. She emphasized the importance of intentionality in building strong parent-child relationships, especially in a generation that values open communication. The episode also took a poignant turn as we discussed the impact of prostate cancer on her family, with her father’s journey highlighting the importance of early detection and proactive health management. This conversation is a treasure trove of inspiration and practical advice on entrepreneurship, parenting, and prioritizing health—don’t miss it! Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/balancing-work-family-and-health-bffe955537fb

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: In this powerful episode, we sit down with Shawn Daniel, JD, whose journey from the rough streets of Englewood, Chicago, to military service, law school, and founding a tech company is nothing short of inspiring. Shawn shares how his life's challenges—shaped by the harsh realities of gang violence, a father's absence, and the trauma of 9/11—helped forge his unshakeable resilience and drive. He discusses the importance of mentorship, the wisdom he's gained from overcoming adversity, and how his faith has been his guiding light through some of the darkest moments of his life. This episode is packed with valuable insights on leadership, growth, and the power of community support. In addition to his personal story, Shawn dives into the creation of Triune Alert, an innovative app designed to bridge critical communication gaps during emergencies, including encounters with law enforcement. Triune Alert was inspired by life-altering experiences, such as his mother’s health crisis while he was stationed in Iraq and a similar situation with his grandmother. Recognizing the unique challenges faced by Black individuals, especially during high-pressure situations with police, Triune Alert provides a much-needed tool for keeping families connected and safe. By quickly notifying loved ones and legal contacts, the app ensures that individuals have immediate support, particularly in sensitive or potentially dangerous interactions. Shawn's journey exemplifies how adversity can fuel purpose and drive. His story is a powerful reminder of the impact of resilience, mentorship, and giving back to the community. Don’t miss the chance to hear Shawn’s incredible journey and learn from his experiences. Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/from-chicagos-south-side-to-tech-leadership-037884d76ca1

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: Resilience is spelled, Sola Adewumi, AKA my cousin, with whom I am well-pleased! Now a third-year nursing student in Canada, Sola returns to the podcast to share her incredible journey. Despite living with Retinitis Pigmentosa—a genetic disorder that causes gradual retinal degeneration, leading to progressive vision loss and, eventually, blindness—and having a career in digital marketing, Sola felt a calling toward nursing and boldly pursued it. Now thriving in her studies, she reflects on her resilience, faith, and the immense growth she has experienced along the way. Her determination and strength have not only shaped her life but also profoundly impacted her family and inspired everyone around her. In this heartfelt episode, Sola opens up about the highs and lows of navigating a demanding academic environment with a rare eye condition. From the support she’s received in school to the mental and emotional shifts that have empowered her, Sola’s story emphasizes the power of resilience and faith. We also explore the importance of breaking generational patterns, facing emotional challenges, and cultivating a positive vision for the future. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration to overcome life’s obstacles and discover joy and determination amid adversity. Tune in and be inspired by Sola’s journey to keep moving forward, no matter what. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/thriving-with-retinitis-pigmentosa-b734f44b8e2f Sola’s 2021 episode: https://mosibyl.podbean.com/e/solasaka2021/

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: TW: This episode discusses suicide and grief. In this powerful episode, we sit down with my dear friend, Debra Blaylock, who courageously shares her journey of grief and resilience following her husband's suicide, which took place just before the COVID-19 lockdown. The timing added layers of isolation and loneliness to her already immense sorrow, complicating the healing process. This episode aims to explore the immediate and prolonged aftermath of such a tragic loss and to share, in Debra’s words, how “the pain never leaves; it’s transferred down to the family.” Debra talks about the invisible nature of pain—how it can quietly consume loved ones and leave a permanent impact on those left behind. She reflects, “You have to realize you are not a person; you are just involved,” encapsulating how grief reshapes one’s identity. Debra stresses the importance of recognizing the signs of distress, having open conversations about mental health, and seeking support when needed. Her story is a poignant reminder that although the pain may be overwhelming, there is always hope, and no one is ever truly alone. She leaves listeners with the crucial message: “There is always hope, and you are never truly alone.” This conversation sheds light on the silent struggles many face and offers hope and guidance for anyone navigating a similar path. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out. Together, we can break the silence around mental health and be a source of light and support for one another. Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/life-after-the-suicide-of-a-loved-one-76b9dac957