
The Living Truth Podcast - Freedom From Unwanted Sexual Behavior, Hope & Healing For the Betrayed
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Nothing is Wasted - Davey Blackburn
Years after coming home from the gym and finding his wife lying on the floor having suffered three gunshot wounds, Davey Blackburn answers questions like “where is God in the midst of tragedy?” and “how would I ever have the strength to work through trauma like this?” Davey shares about his ministry “Nothing is Wasted”, and the resources they offer. As a pastor and ministry leader, Davey also takes an honest look at handling sexual purity issues in the church today. You can learn more at Nothingiswasted.com.
3 Essential Truths About Sex Addiction with Bob & Connie Spiegel
Bob & Connie fervently sought help for the crisis in their marriage brought on by his sexual addiction. The misguided advice they received actually enabled Bob's addiction & Connie's betrayal trauma to grow and fester. Their marriage suffered tremendous damage. But over time, with the right help, they've experienced a healing and restoration they longed for and now their life's work is helping men and women caught in these cycles of pain and destruction.. Bob & Connie are both professional coaches serving with Daring Ventures. You can get in touch with them at [email protected] [email protected]. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Where Is God In Our Mess?
Kathy had done everything she could to salvage her marriage to Conrad but it collapsed, along with her faith. Several years later, through a delicate balance of hard work in recovery AND surrender to God, both Kathy and Conrad became ready for a new relationship built on truth and safety. Their story is filled with HOPE that God is still with us and at work, even in the mess. You'll gain practical wisdom in what you need to lay a new foundation for a stronger, better marriage after sexual betrayal. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Navigating Triggers to Build Connection with Clinton & Charity Muñoz
In early recovery triggers can seem endless & extremely overwhelming. But this is not a hopeless, unending inevitability! Kristin interviews Clinton & Charity Muñoz about how they navigate triggers to build connection and intimacy in their marriage! Clinton & Charity are the founders of Restored 2 More. They help couple rebuild connection and reflect God’s design for marriage after the impact of pornography and sexual brokenness. You can find them at https://restored2more.com/ The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
The Intimacy Pyramid with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith
How do you rebuild your marriage after sexual betrayal? The Intimacy Pyramid is a guide for couples to lay a new foundation and rebuild a relationship that thrives. The Raabsmiths have used the principles of the Intimacy Pyramid to build a strong, joy-filled marriage for themselves AND they share it with the couples they coach and counsel. You can learn more about Matthew & Joanna at www.Raabsmithteam.com & see a visual of the Intimacy Pyramid at http://www.intimacypyramid.com/. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
A Pastor’s Perspective On Dealing With Problematic Sexual Behavior
Sexual secrets & problematic sexual behavior are pervasive even among Christians. Pastor and sexual addiction recovery expert Darrell Brazell and Kristin offer insight into how churches and Christian counselors can point people with sexual secrets and their spouses toward a path of true freedom and real healing. You can reach Darrell at www.newhope4si.com and www.protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
The Secret Sexual Basement with Darrell Brazell
“The Secret Sexual Basement” is a metaphor developed by Dr. Omar Minwalla that reveals = the concept of a deceptive, compartmentalized, sexual-relational reality (DCSR) that is common among sexual addicts and causes tremendous damage to the spouse and family. Kristin interviews pastor and recovery expert, Darrell Brazell who brings tremendous compassion, insight, and decades of experience serving sexual addicts and their spouses to this conversation. You can reach Darrell at www.newhope4si.com and www.protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Worthy of Her Trust
What needs to happen in order to rebuild sexual integrity in a marriage which was broken by sexual betrayal? How can someone earn back the trust of their spouse after hurting them in this way? Listen in as. Michael interviews Jason Martinkus on his incredible book, Worthy of Her Trust. You can access the resources mentioned in this podcast at https://WorthyofHerTrust.com and https://redemptiveliving.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Sex is a wonderful gift not a fundamental need!
Digging into the archives, we'd like to replay this incredible episode where Michael interviews author and ministry leader Nate Larkin about his book Samson and the Pirate Monks, his ministry with Samson Society, and his personal story. Listen as they unpack so many fundamental truths about human sexuality and sexual addiction as well as the truth about what it really takes to become free. You can learn more about Nate's ministry at SamsonSociety.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Prayers That Heal the Heart
When Jesus stepped to the front of the crowd and announced His ministry, one of the things He said He wanted to do is to bring Healing to the brokenhearted. How do you know you have a heart that is in need of healing? How can you go about receiving the healing Jesus mentioned in the Scriptures? Listen in as Michael interviews Dr Mark Virkler on these life giving topics from his incredible book Prayers That Heal the Heart. Here are the websites referenced during the podcast; CWGMinistries.org, CLUSchooloftheSpirit.com, https://www.cluschoolofthespirit.com/courses/prayers-that-heal-the-heart-revised/, CLUonline.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
How to go directly to God for Counseling
Do you know God as "Wonderful Counselor"? Have you ever went directly to God for counseling? Listen in as Michael interviews Dr Mark Virkler on these life giving topics from his incredible book Counseled by God. Here are the websites referenced during the podcast; CWGMinistries.org, CLUSchooloftheSpirit.com, CLUonline.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
4 Keys to Hearing God‘s Voice
Dr Mark Virkler has taught millions across the globe on how to clearly hear the voice of God on a daily basis. Listen in as Michael interviews Dr Virkler on this incredible life giving podcast episode! Here are the websites referenced during the podcast; CWGMinistries.org, CLUSchooloftheSpirit.com, CLUonline.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Divorce with Dignity- How to heal & rebuild your life after the trauma of divorce (Part Two)
Kristin continues the discussion about Divorce with Dignity with Gaelyn Rae Emerson. When we first get married, nobody imagines that the loss and pain of divorce will become their reality. But when a marriage dies there can still be a redemptive ending for the individual who chooses to fight for their own healing. Gaelyn shares practical ideas for how to process and leverage the grief to emerge into a new dream for your life. You can learn more about Gaelyn at www.womeneverafter.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Divorce with Dignity- How to heal & rebuild your life after the trauma of divorce (Part One)
Kristin discusses Divorce with Dignity with Gaelyn Rae Emerson. When we first get married, nobody imagines that the loss and pain of divorce will become their reality. But when a marriage dies there can still be a redemptive ending for the individual who chooses to fight for their own healing. Gaelyn shares practical ideas for how to process and leverage the grief to emerge into a new dream for your life. You can learn more about Gaelyn at www.womeneverafter.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Equipping People Helpers to Love Women in Destructive Marriages Well with Leslie Vernick
What are the characteristics of an emotionally destructive marriage? How can pastors, counselors, ministry leaders and even friends support a woman in an emotionally destructive relationship? Why do people helpers who come alongside couples in emotionally destructive relationships often recommend a course of action that actually enables the destructive spouse and makes the victim seem like the crazy one? Leslie shares 4 important questions we can ask to help a woman to become more aware of how serious the problems are in her marriage and shed light on what she needs. Listen to the biblical principals that are often misused to keep women stuck in destructive patterns and the truth that sets us free! The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
One Man's Journey from Same Sex Attraction to a Heterosexual Marriage - Part 2 of 2
Is it possible to move from being same sex attracted to not being attracted to the same sex any longer and have a healthy heterosexual marriage? What are the root causes of unwanted sexual behavior? Tune in as Michael interviews Brad Grammer, the author of the book "Examining the Impact of Trauma". You can grab a copy of Brad's incredible book at Amazon or anywhere you purchase books. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
One Man's Journey from Same Sex Attraction to a Heterosexual Marriage - Part 1 of 2
Is it possible to move from being same sex attracted to not being attracted to the same sex any longer and have a healthy heterosexual marriage? What are the root causes of unwanted sexual behavior? Tune in as Michael interviews Brad Grammer, the author of the book "Examining the Impact of Trauma". You can grab a copy of Brad's incredible book at Amazon or anywhere you purchase books. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
How We as The Church Respond to the Problem of Pornography
93% of pastors agree that pornography is a problem in their church and yet only 7% of churches have programming in place to address it. Kristin interviews Catherine Etherington, Director of Recovery at the Naked Truth Project (https://thenakedtruthproject.com/) whose mission is to Open Eyes & Free Lives. Kristin will be one of many speakers at their upcoming online conference designed to equip the Church (ministry leaders, parents, recovering addicts & partners alike) to effectively engage this most pervasive problem of pornography, offering real solutions for healing the brokenhearted & setting captives free. The P Word Conference will be September 28th-30th. Learn more at https://www.pwordconference.com/ The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Trauma Brain & Empowerment After Betrayal with Dr. Sheri Keffer
Sexual betrayal is traumatic, causing chronic stress which can alter our brain functions. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares her simple and easy to understand explanation of what is happening in our brains and how we can manage triggers to move from hopelessness into empowerment. Dr. Sheri sheds compassionate light on how both the partner and the addict can manage the chronic stress of unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal. Learn more about Dr. Sheri at www.braveone.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage with Leslie Vernick
Hey friends! For this episode, we decided to dig into the archives and post our most downloaded podcast ever!! It is estimated that 1 in 4 Christian women are in an emotionally destructive marriage. Listen as Leslie equips us to break unhealthy patterns so that we can thrive & live the life God intended for us. Learn more about Leslie at https://leslievernick.com/. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
The Truth Shall Set You Free; How Full Disclosure Can Benefit Couples in Recovery with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill
When sexual secrets disrupt a marriage there is often a debate: To Tell or Not To Tell. How much does the betrayed spouse need to know in order to heal and rebuild the relationship? Kristin interviews CSATS and Partner Betrayal Specialists Dan Drake & Dr. Janice Caudill about the benefits & best practices of Full Disclosure in this episode!
Intimacy Anorexia with Dr. Janice Caudill
Intimacy Anorexia (IA) is the deliberate withholding of emotional, sexual, and/or spiritual intimacy from one’s partner. This deeply painful condition within a marriage is not uncommon but rarely correctly diagnosed as IA is a newly recognized condition that many people helpers don’t yet recognize.. Join Kristin as she interviews Dr. Janice Caudill whose expertise is in working with sexual addiction, partner trauma, and Intimacy Anorexia. Even through the devastation of these three issues there IS hope to overcome and heal! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
A man's journey from porn struggle to freedom from unwanted sexual behavior - Part 2 of 2
What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted sexual behavior most of his life. He shares his story with much courage and vulnerability in this incredible two part podcast series! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
A man's journey from porn struggle to freedom from unwanted sexual behavior - Part 1 of 2
What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted sexual behavior most of his life. He shares his story with much courage and vulnerability in this incredible two part podcast series! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Parentified Kids- The Impact of an Addicted Family System on Kirsten’s Life (part two of two)
Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles and this was certainly the case for Kirsten’s. Listen to the first part of her story full of vulnerability and courage!
Parentified Kids- The Impact of an Addicted Family System on Kirsten’s Life (part one of two)
Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles and this was certainly the case for Kirsten’s. Listen to the first part of her story full of vulnerability and courage! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Erotica, Silence, Shame, Repeat…How a Christian mom walks toward Jesus in the midst of her struggle.
It all started with a dimestore romance novel given to her at the tender age of 13. Intrigued and curious, yet filled with shame at her desire to read more “Anna” unpacks her struggle with erotica (porn in written form). When her youth group’s sex talk for the girls portrayed sexual struggle as just a guys’ issues Anna’s belief that she was dirty, shameful, and better keep her mouth shut about this battle was cemented. But there’s hope….Anna sheds light on some of the deep spiritual work she has done to break the chains! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
John Eldredge -Get Your Life Back
Michael interviews New York Times best-selling author, John Eldredge, in this "1 year anniversary" podcast episode! John shares vital information on why this is such a brutal time to be a human being, as well as life giving tools on how to maintain mental health and connect with God in this technology crazed culture we live in. We thought it so pertinent to share this episode with you again, remixed, as this info is needed now more than ever (although we didn't know we were heading into a pandemic when this was recorded). Thank you, our listeners, for making the dream of a successful podcast. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Taylor- A Daughter in the Battle Episode Two
How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s betrayal trauma. A few months later Taylor walked into the very first Daughters in the Battle meeting- the safest place for teen and young adult daughters to get the support they desperately need after the impact of sexual betrayal on their family. You’ll learn so much from hearing Taylor honestly share her experience and the relief she found from not having to cope all alone. For more information about Daughters in the Battle which meets over zoom the first Tuesday of every month, subscribe to our email list at living-truth.org
Taylor- A Daughter in the Battle Episode One of Two
How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s betrayal trauma. A few months later Taylor walked into the very first Daughters in the Battle meeting- the safest place for teen and young adult daughters to get the support they desperately need after the impact of sexual betrayal on their family. You’ll learn so much from hearing Taylor honestly share her experience and the relief she found from not having to cope all alone. For more information about Daughters in the Battle which meets over zoom the first Tuesday of every month, subscribe to our email list at living-truth.org
Immanuel Approach w/ Dr. Karl Lehman part 2
Dr Lehman begins with a deeply moving story of one man with a sexual addiction who did NOT want Jesus to be with him as he entered a strip Club. Jesus’ response is just stunning. Learn more about Dr. Lehman’s pain processing pathway including why trauma isn’t just rooted in false beliefs about what has happened to us, but our feelings of isolation and inadequacy to process what has occurred. Visit Immanuelapproach.com for more information! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Immanuel Approach with Dr. Karl Lehman (Part 1)
The Immanuel approach is a lifestyle of interactive connection with Jesus developed by board certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Lehman. This can be used as a safe and effective inner healing prayer experience facilitated by any lay person with training in basic Immanuel Approach principles. The practice of Jesus’ presence through the Immanuel Approach can help us self regulate when we’re upset and turn the relational circuits of the brain on to build emotional capacity. Kristin has had profound experiences with this inner healing tool personally and has been using it with betrayed partners with incredible results. If you want a deeper connection with God and increased capacity you’ll want to hear Kristin and Dr. Lehman’s dialogue in this episode! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Your sexual brokenness is not a life sentence to shame or addiction, it is a roadmap to healing with Jay Stringer
Has anyone ever said to you, "You should be ashamed of yourself!" If so, did it help you identify and change an unwanted behavior? Or did it just make you feel guilty and defeated? Jay Stringer, author of the incredible book, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, shares with us a new approach to the conversation around sexual brokenness. Traditionally most approaches to unwanted sexual behavior are about suppressing desire or removing the shame associated with your choices. But neither of these truly lead to freedom. Jay offers a third approach, based on years of research, which shows that unwanted sexual behaviors are not random. These behaviors were both shaped and predicted by the parts of our story that remain unaddressed. The implication is that if you want to find freedom, you need to identify the unique reasons that bring you to it in the first place. Instead of trying to escape shame, let's look right at it and let it teach us. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Finding Clarity and Connection After the Crisis of Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction or Betrayal with Michael & Kristin Cary
Exciting upgrades to our recovery programs for men and women are upon us! Listen in as Michael & Kristin unveil how their years of experience in the trenches has led to the development of The Living Truth Together Community! Men in the Battle® & Women in the Battle® are expanding in depth and impact with our creation of 6 months of custom curriculum, more options for recovery small groups, and more congruent messaging for couples working these programs at the same time! Take your recovery to the next level with us! Sign ups begin January 2nd for existing members and January 5th for new members. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
The Power of The Group - Why 2 Successful Women Keep Giving Back at Women in the Battle®
Jen & Brenda are both beautiful, smart, successful professionals whose worlds turned upside down when they discovered sexual betrayal in their marriages. Not one area of their lives was untouched by this crisis. They both helped Kristin start Women in the Battle in 2016 and continue serving because of how strongly they believe in The Power of the Group to transform women’s lives after sexual betrayal. Most women who come to Women in the Battle (including Jen and Brenda) are initially VERY resistant to the idea of going to a group. But well run betrayal trauma groups are such a powerful force of healing for women -leading them from utter devastation to post traumatic transformation. Listen in as Jen & Brenda discuss with Kristin why they keep showing up and serving to give back to newer women long after their own personal crisis has passed!
Trauma Informed Care For the Sexually Betrayed Partner with Donna Dixon
Sexual betrayal causes ongoing complex trauma. How can we effectively walk alongside betrayed partners? Donna Dixon has developed trauma informed training and certification for peer led partner betrayal groups (she trains all of our Women in the Battle leaders!) In this episode, Donna and Kristin reflect on the incredible healing power of simply bearing witness to another’s pain... to just be with them in it. Donna's tender heart and wise insight sheds light on the effects of betrayal trauma on partners. She challenges us to grow in our view of suffering as a normal part of the human experience in a broken and fallen world and compassionately normalizes the crisis of faith that so many traumatized people experience. This episode can offer profound hope for the broken…that their faith in the goodness and power of God can actually be deconstructed and reconstructed. The result of this rebuilding can be an utter masterpiece! So many partners emerge from their betrayal trauma recovery work with hearts of greater compassion, removal of judgement, and tender authenticity that reflect Jesus like never before!
The Questions You’ve Always Wondered About - A Women’s Panel Discussion Part 3 of 3
What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series!
The Questions You’ve Always Wondered About - A Women’s Panel Discussion Part 2 of 3
What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series!
The Questions You’ve Always Wondered About - A Women’s Panel Discussion Part 1 of 3
What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series!
How Can a Godly Woman Break Unhealthy Patterns in Her Marriage with Leslie Vernick
Kristin interviews counselor, coach, & author Leslie Vernick. In this episode Leslie unpacks the difference between a disappointing marriage, a difficult marriage & a destructive marriage. She explains why Christian women tend to be more vulnerable to emotionally destructive relationships and what they can do to overcome these unhealthy patterns. With biblical truth & grace, Leslie offers insight into the difference between true biblical headship and spiritual oppression and she dismantles the oft cited scriptures that get misused to keep women trapped in destructive patterns in their marriage. You can learn more about Leslie and her resources at https://leslievernick.com.
What our Sexual Fantasies Tell us About Ourselves with Shannon Ethridge
Sexuality is woven into the fabric of our humanity and one of the enemy’s prime targets. How do we overcome our past sexual trauma? Learn incredible truths about sexual fantasies and listen to practical tips on developing healthy sexuality too! In this episode, Kristin discusses these topics and more with Shannon Ethridge, an award-winning author of 22 books including the best-selling Every Woman’s Battle series. She is a certified life coaching and loves to help people make PEACE with their sexual past and cultivate RICH and REWARDING romantic relationships. Learn more about her at www.shannonethridge.com.
An incredible process that can change your marriage and relationships!
Have you ever found yourself getting defensive and retreating in the face of conflict, especially in marriage? In this episode, Michael interviews Dr. Jacob Porter of Daring Ventures about an incredible process that could change your life if you use it. Jake was a pastor for 13 years before issues surfaced in his own life leading him to become a professional counselor and creating many life changing tools such as the one discussed in this podcast. After listening, you will likely want to dive even deeper into this subject by watching Jake’s in depth webinar which can be found at http://daringventuresathome.com/makingsaves. Jake also offers a 50% off coupon code for this webinar toward the end of this podcast. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Regulate your mind and your body to change your reactions to stress!
Julie St Onge is a Professional Life Coach specializing in betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and wholistic health. She also leads Women in the Battle in New Hampshire. Julie spent 20 years as a nurse, working primarily in Labor and Delivery. Her her professional experience with coaching women through the physical pain of birth laid a foundation for how she walks women through the excruciating emotional pain of betrayal. Having personally walked the road of betrayal trauma recovery through a Women in the Battle group, Julie knows the power of recovery community to reduce our shame and bring us back to life! In this episode Julie leads us through "top down" and "bottom up" strategies to calm the brain and body that have gone into overdrive due to severe stress. You’ll walk away with some helpful tools and a perspective shift in how you treat yourself as you walk through difficulty!
What it takes to help kids walk away from porn
Kristin talks with Sally Groff who runs a large Christian counseling practice in Indianapolis and has years of experience doing therapy with children. Sally shares how pornography impacted her own life as a child. She also gives invaluable insight into how a parent can respond when they find out their child has been viewing pornography. With grace and a focus on the heart, Sally offers wise counsel on how to connect with our kids and help them develop internal longing to pursue what they truly need. Her insights will inspire and encourage you in your own journey toward wholeness as well! Learn more about Sally’s counseling practice at https://groffandassociates.com/. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Porn and Marriage Don’t Mix
In March, 2020, Michael & Kristin spoke at The Marriage Mastery Summit; an online Summit geared toward helping people develop a deeper and more meaningful marriage. We believe you will benefit from listening as Anne Nelson from Fully Thriving interviews us about the damaging affect of porn and infidelity on marriage, and the path to healing, redemption and restored intimacy. The summit was held at https://themarriagemasterysummit.fullythriving.com/summit-welcome. You can find more information about Anne Nelson and the resources she offers at FullyThriving.com.
Sex is a wonderful gift not a fundamental need!
Michael interviews author and ministry leader Nate Larkin about his book Samson and the Pirate Monks, his ministry with Samson Society, and his personal story. Listen as they unpack so many fundamental truths about human sexuality and sexual addiction as well as the truth about what it really takes to become free. You can learn more about Nate's ministry at SamsonSociety.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
Women Struggle with Lust and Broken Sexuality Too!
Kari’s pursuit of online sexual encounters & pornography began in 2015. When she realized the level of self destruction she was headed for, Kari got help. Here, she vulnerably shares her struggles with sexual integrity as a Christian woman . As Kari discovered, “acting out sexually is one common symptom of unresolved pain and insecurity”. Listen in as Kristin & Kari explore insights into the keys to freedom and healing in this episode! If you are a woman struggling in this area, please contact Kristin at [email protected] for additional help and resources. Men, please contact Michael at [email protected].
Empathy for the Betrayed Spouse with Carol the Coach
In this episode, Kristin interviews Carol Juergensen Sheets (aka Carol the Coach). Carol is the only Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in the Indianapolis area. She also has the heart and understanding to help betrayed partners through the trauma model. Carol has seen first hand which couples survive and even thrive after sexual betrayal. And empathy is a key element! In this podcast Carol shares why is it so difficult for spouses with problematic sexual behavior to demonstrate empathy and why partners are often afraid to trust that empathy. She sheds light on how long it takes to see actual trust being rebuilt for a better marriage than ever before! Carol is the author of Help Her Heal, and the host of three Podcasts; Sex Help With Carol the Coach, Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery and Betrayal Recovery Radio. For more information or to contact Carol, visit her website: Carolthecoach.com
An Unexpected Podcast
In the midst of the global medical crisis caused by Coronavirus COVID-19, everything in our lives has been disrupted, including our originally planned Podcast schedule. We believe you will find this conversation with Michael & Kristin Cary helpful and relatable, with some ideas on how to cope during this stressful time, especially for those who are in recovery. You can get more info on our ministry and the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org including links to Men in the Battle® and Women in the Battle®. Many God grant you grace & peace along with protection during the unprecedented time.
When The Church Shoots Its Wounded- Spiritual Trauma & The Betrayed Spouse
The two most important covenants Corri made, to marriage and to full-time ministry, were pulled out from under her in 2014 when she discovered ongoing addiction in her marriage, sought help from her leadership, and was fired. While Corri’s heart and marriage have been resurrected, the journey of belonging again after spiritual trauma is ongoing. The marginalization she experienced at the hands of the body of Christ, due to common misunderstandings about sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, continue for others in ministry and church communities. Corri and Kristin unpack their personal and professional experiences with grace and truth regarding this pandemic affecting the church and they give tangible advice for how to love someone reeling from the devastation of betrayal.