How Do I Tell The Kids?

Concerned about how, what and when to tell the kids about divorce? The stakes are high, so start by not making the mistake too many parents fall into.

In this episode, I share insights on having difficult conversations with your kids about divorce. You'll learn the importance of timing, heart-centered communication, and ensuring their safety by not sharing uncertain details. We'll explore avoiding common pitfalls, like using your kids for emotional support, and how to collaborate with your ex in the children's best interest (well, we can try, right?). Plus, learn how you can access our free resources to navigate your divorce journey more smoothly.

00:00 Introduction: The Big Concern for Divorcing Mamas

00:31 The Importance of Mindful Communication with Kids

02:00 Avoiding Common Pitfalls

04:15 Timing and Strategy in Telling the Kids

07:11 Concrete Information and Planning

09:04 Collaborating with Your Ex for the Kids' Sake

10:17 Conclusion and Resources for Support

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The Intuitive Divorce Podcast helps mothers navigate the messy waters of divorce to achieve the best outcomes for themselves and their kids. Your host, divorce coach Kristen Noel, explores strategies to engage with lawyers and courts, communicate with and protect your children, apply boundaries with a high-conflict or narcissistic partner, and prepare yourself emotionally and financially for this difficult transition — so you can heal, reclaim your mojo and set yourself up for a beautiful next chapter. Learn more at: intuitivedivorce.com