The INFJ Whisperer

This is one of my main problems with being an INFJ. I am obsessed with perfectionism in all things. I share a story about a pair of rollerblades I wanted to find in this episode - it still pains me to think of that time of my life.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Some INFJs will doorslam their ex and pretend they don't know they exist. And others will stay friends with them. I have a tendency towards the latter. And you?Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have the tendency to oscillate between buying nothing for a long time and then spending their money as if it were water for another period. Why do we do this to ourselves? Because balance is definitely not our middle name.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs like to be minimalists, not because of any other reason except it saves them time, energy, and effort. We like to conserve all three of these to the max, whenever possible, as you might already know.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have a hard time trusting that other people will do things as perfectly as they themselves will. So we end up not delegating and doing everything ourselves, which burns us out.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Even though we are terrible at using dating apps, INFJs keep on trying with them, because we also don't want to be alone for the rest of our lives. We don't want to be perpetually single. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs are great at solving other people's problems, and more than that, we are obsessed with solving other people's problems. So please let us!!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have very set routines and schedules, and we despise it when someone else comes in and starts disrupting it and putting their own agenda on our plates. We will hate you for it, I'm warning you all.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs can be quite stubborn and set in the way they think. But we can change. It just takes us time. A long time, in certain cases. So much time that you might think we never change our mind.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There is a tendency to use the label of healthy versus unhealthy INFJ in the online world. But I think developed versus developing describes it much better, because it makes us realize that it's all about time, patience, and self-development. One group isn't better than the other.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As INFJs, we spend a lot of our time in our heads, in our daydream lands, in our imaginary worlds. That's why some INFJs worry that it would be unsafe for them to travel around the world. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The constant back-and-forth tires others out, INFJs. We might be comfortable going into our caves and then into love mode, but the other people around us don't get us and get this motion at all. Maybe explain yourself more, INFJs.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How to set healthy boundaries with friends - this is something that INFJs have a hard time with, because once we like someone as a friend, we give our all to them. Stop that INFJs! Set healthy boundaries with everyone around you.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Difference between healthy and unhealthy INFJs - I get asked this question a lot. I think there are three main differences that I highlight in this video. Do you agree with my list? Add to it, if you don't. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Becoming friends before dating - INFJs take a long time to get comfortable with people, so we usually are friends before we become lovers. Do you do this as well? Friend zoning might upset others, but it's a crucial step in our dating process.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you grasp at sand too tightly, it slips away faster. The looser your hold, the easier to hold sand. The same applies to INFJs. The tighter you grasp at an INFJ, the further we slip away from you. Don't cling at us too tightly.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you show love by improving others? INFJs do. It seems counterintuitive to others, but it makes sense to us. We are not trying to change you, but we want to show you what you are capable of. We see your potential and we want you to grow into it. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do introverts deal with marriage? Just being in this lockdown and stuck with family for a few months has made me realize I could never ever be with someone 24/7. Maybe it's just me. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are you not living up to your potential, INFJs? I have been thinking about this, for myself, and I find there are two particular reasons for it. Fear of failure and fear of success. Maybe even fear of rejection. What do you think??Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Work from home is really great for introverts - because it ensures that our social battery doesn't run out, and we can socialize on our own schedule, rather than on the 9-5 schedule, which might not work for us.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Stop being so cruel to the people who like you, INFJs. You are not going to shrivel up and die, if you are nice to them, or if you give them kind attention. I am so sad whenever I hear ENFPs and ENTPs upset because the INFJ they love is being cruel to them. It breaks my heart!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have a tendency to overthink, and included with that is holding onto embarrassing things they have done from years and years ago. We never let go. Like an elephant never forgets, we never ever forget either, much to our detriment.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs assume that just because we are mind readers, that everyone else must be so as well. Well, that's not how it works. People need to be told that they are tired and going home to rest. So stop freezing them out and leaving without another word. That's how relationships break.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have a fault social program in their heads, which causes them to be socially awkward and say silly things that anyone else would deem inappropriate and nix instantly. For some reason, we are just no good at social situations, unless we try really hard at it - which we usually don't.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have been in many situations where they just said one word like 'Hello' to the person and instantly, the person opened up to them about all of their childhood traumas and abuse. That's why INFJs are careful about making eye contact with strangers as they get older.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs don't understand if you are flirting with them and they don't know how to flirt back. If you are trying to send them subtle hints that you like them, don't. Just be honest and direct about it. Be upfront and stop wasting the INFJ's time. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Interestingly enough, lots of INFJs have been telling me that the fact that the lockdown has given them a lot of time on their own has actually positively impacted all of their relationships, romantic or not. Has that been the case for you as well?Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is the simplest rule you will ever need to be with an INFJ. If they are still around, they still care about you. That's all. Period. No need to think any further about this at all. An INFJ shows love through giving their time. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs think of their time to be as precious as gold or diamonds. If you end up wasting their time, it's a huge show of disrespect to them. If you want to stay in their good books, don't waste their time, ever!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have a tendency to keep their various circles separate and they are quite fastidious about it - kind of like a person who likes to keep their different foods separate on their plate. Funny, but true!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I get asked this question a lot by non-INFJs who want to date an INFJ. INFJs tend to go into their caves unannounced, and that causes non-INFJs to fret, worry, and overthink, maybe the INFJ doesn't love them anymore? Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are four tells that INFJs have when they like someone romantically. Usually, INFJs keep these kinds of things close to their chest, but sometimes they can't help expose their heart's true feelings. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs tend to be tough love junkies - we want to show love and empathy, but we end up being a bit mean about it, unintentionally. We might come across as cold, but we aren't on the inside. I promise you.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the most frequent questions I get from non-INFJs is about the hot and cold nature of INFJs. Why do we do this? What is the reason behind this mysterious swinging of behavior? Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have this weird delusion that if they suffer, they will somehow be able to balance out the world a bit. No, that's not true. And you need to stop doing that to yourself, INFJs. Your suffering doesn't make the world a better place or balance it somehow. Stop doing that!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs pendulate back and forth between being as warm as freshly-baked apple pie, to being as cold as the frigid Arctic winters. That confuses the people around us, and I get asked this question of why do INFJs do this, the most by non-INFJs.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs dislike clingy people because clinginess is a shadow of theirs. The same applies to anything else that we dislike - if you hate something, it's in you as well. That's the basic of shadow work, which I highly recommend to everyone as a daily self-improvement practice!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone is imperfect, but INFJs have this fear of being labeled as imperfect not only by others but by themselves. We want to do our best, and our best is too high on the pedestal to even reach. Therefore, we never end up finishing anything or doing anything. What a curse it is!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are so many people in our circles and around us that are weirder than us, that INFJs wonder why they are always labeled as the weird ones. Oddballs, kooky, quirky, crazy, different, unique - all of these names have been given to INFJs throughout their lives.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The world can be chaotic, and INFJs like balance, harmony, and peace, as much as possible. So, we tend to run to our abodes, our caves, our inner sanctuaries, to hide from the madness of the world.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INFJs have this tendency to go over and beyond in things or to not give a rat's ass at all. There's no middle ground. We are at either extreme and we swing back and forth like a pendulum. Back and forth all of our lives.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There is this idea we have as INFJs that we need to fix everyone around us. The Fixer INFJ, as we are called sometimes. But most people do not want to be fixed, or improved, or changed. They want to remain the same. So why are we banging our heads against the wall? Why??Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Opening up our hearts after walling ourselves up for years and years is quite hard, INFJs. I get it. I have been in the same boat as you. It's been tough and crazy, but it is possible. If I can do it, so can you.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Don't wall yourself off from others, INFJs - the reason we are lonely, alone, and depressed, is because of this behavior of ours. We close ourselves and then we wonder why we have no one. It's not a big mystery - we created the situation. And we can change it.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The top four things we care about as INFJs have been outlined in this article as beauty, independence, continual learning, and impact. What do you think? Do you resonate with these?https://introvertdear.com/news/infj-needs-dont-ignore/Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Choosing between love and family - INFJs are all about harmony in all of their relationships, which means that if it ever came down to choosing between one or the other, we would be stymied. Such a difficult choice to make!Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

External vs internal validation or appreciation - INFJs want to be appreciated, I get that. I'm like that, too. But with or without external appreciation, we need to keep on doing what we love. Sometimes, we stop doing what we love because we aren't getting external appreciation and that sucks only for us. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We can see both sides of the coin, that's why INFJs can be terrible at giving MBTI tests or giving any kind of personality test. We can see ourselves in both situations that the test asks for, and that confuses us. No wonder we are always confused about what our MBTI type would be. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you straightforward, my dear INFJs? Are you also really rude about it?? Can you try a different way? Can you be straightforward and also nice? Is that possible?Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Fear of failure holds us back - INFJs have a tendency to be a jack or jill of all trades, rather than specialize in something and become an expert in it. Is it because of fear of failure? Is fear holding us back?Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.