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James van Cuylenburg - What’s Your Relationship Status?
Season 6 · Episode 65

James van Cuylenburg - What’s Your Relationship Status?

The Imperfects · Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

January 26, 20251h 35m

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Show Notes

It’s our last episode of Summer School, and today we welcome back clinical psychologist (and “clinical cousin” of Hugh and Josh), James van Cuylenburg.

In this episode, James tells us EVERYTHING we need to know about our relationships… well almost everything…there’s a lot to cover.

From attachment styles, to breaking trust, to learning how to own your feelings and navigating coupledom through life’s changing seasons.

Getting into the nitty gritty, Hugh asks James about intimacy and what happens when you’re not…. having any. And how to start a conversation with your kids about pornography.

Relationships make life worth living and whether they’re with an intimate partner, a friend, or yourself, they should be cherished and treated with care.

James, we thank you for your guidance.

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