The Glam Reaper Podcast

What happens when the people who stand beside grief every day are expected to carry it quietly?In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Dwight, a former funeral director turned therapist, for a deeply honest conversation about the emotional toll of working in death care. Having lived both roles, Dwight speaks with real understanding about what funeral professionals hold day after day, the sorrow they witness, the stories they carry, and the parts of themselves they often have to set aside just to keep going.Together, they talk about how little support exists for the mental health of people in funeral service, and how often their pain goes unseen. They explore the silence, the stigma, and the weight of doing work that asks so much from the heart while giving so little room to process it. This episode also shines a light on the importance of community, shared understanding, and spaces like Funeral Professional Peer Support where people can finally feel less alone.Tune in for a moving conversation about grief, compassion, and what it means to care for others when no one has taught you how to care for yourself.Key Topics:-The hidden mental health toll of funeral work-Why funeral professionals often suffer in silence-The lack of real support for people in death care-How stigma keeps funeral directors in the shadows-The need for research, resources, and peer support in funeral serviceQuotes from the episode:“If we would just face the fact that we are dying, we live better and we love more.”— Jennifer Muldowney“No one in these mental health spaces are talking about funeral directors. And that to me is alarming."— Dwight ThompsonTimestamps:[01:43] Funeral Professionals Are Human Too[03:18] Dwight’s Journey from Funeral Work to Therapy[06:49] Seeking Help and Not Being Understood[08:37] The Gap in Mental Health Training[09:36] Why Funeral Directors Are Not First Responders[14:31] The Overlooked Reality of Funeral Service[17:58] Stigma Around Death Care Work[21:20] The Power of Peer Support[33:02] Why the System Needs Outside Help[36:26] What Comes Next for the IndustryConnect with Dwight Thompson at:Websites - https://www.funeralpeersupport.ca/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dwight-thompson-msw-rsw-rmft-s-31160621a/Email: [email protected] with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram -   / jennifermuldowneyTikTok -   / therealglamreaperYouTube -    / @theglamreapermuldowneyLinkedIn -   / jennifermuldowneyFacebook Page -   / muldowneymemorialsEmail us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/p...Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh

In this season six premiere, Jennifer Muldowney welcomes viral sensation and dear friend Vivienne Sayers for a St. Patrick’s Day conversation that goes beyond surface-level celebration. Together, they explore the bittersweet soul of Ireland, from red carpets like the Oscars to the sacred traditions of the Irish wake. They unpack why Irish culture has long been a masterclass in holding both joy and deep, generational grief at the same time.They dive into the power of visceral storytelling through films like Hamnet, share the hilarious realities of being Irish in New York, including a mortifying run-in with Ed Sheeran, and reflect on how Irish identity is evolving. The conversation highlights how the traditional Irish funeral is entering a “chrysalis stage,” shifting alongside changing beliefs and modern perspectives. They also challenge the drinking stereotypes tied to St. Patrick’s Day, encouraging a return to deeper roots like language, community, and the ancient practice of keening. Tune in for a celebration of the “Yin and Yang” of the Emerald Isle: the heart that smiles, the soul that cries, and the community that holds it all together.Key Topics:The Dual Soul: Navigating the “tear and the smile” in Irish cultureKeening and The Craic: The role of professional mourners and the social nature of Irish wakesThe Modern Irish Identity: Moving beyond stereotypes and reclaiming language and heritageGenerational Trauma vs Wealth: How history shapes emotional expression and resilienceWake 2.0: Why funerals and life itself require community, connection, and presenceQuotes from the episode:"There’s room for everyone at the table, no matter what industry... even if you're bloody identical twins, they still create their own corners of the world for themselves."— Jennifer Muldowney"America has generational wealth; Ireland has generational trauma. And we totally laugh about it, but... we are looking to broaden the Irish narrative of who we are as people."— Vivienne SayersTimestamps:[02:16] Irish Excellence: Discussing the Oscars, the Rugby Triple Crown, and Jessie Buckley’s visceral performance in Hamnet.[05:57] The "So Irish" Airport Encounter: A red carpet for celebrities, but no one to help with the heavy lifting.[07:54] The Ed Sheeran Incident: A hilarious story of mortification and mocking a global superstar to his face in Williamsburg.[10:33] The Irish in NYC: Why Irish people message you after they see you in a bar rather than approaching directly.[14:09] The Social Event of the Season: Why the rural Irish funeral is a communal milestone worth preserving.[16:13] The Chrysalis Stage: How declining church influence is changing funeral experiences for younger generations.[19:06] Beyond the Green Beer: A call to support Irish culture, language, and businesses.[25:32] Corned Beef vs Boiled Ham: The contrast between Irish-American traditions and growing up in Ireland.[29:26] The Art of Keening: Exploring the history of the Bean Chaointe and the lasting impact of ritual mourning.Connect with Vivienne Sayers at:Websites - https://viviennesayers.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vivienne_in_nyc/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - / jennifermuldowneyTikTok - / therealglamreaperYouTube - / @theglamreapermuldowneyLinkedIn - / jennifermuldowneyFacebook Page - / muldowneymemorialsEmail us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/pListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcastThe Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh

What if talking about death openly is what actually helps people feel less afraid?In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Eileen Hollis to explore how conversations, community, and education are reshaping death care. Eileen shares her journey from working quietly behind the scenes to becoming a trusted voice online, helping people understand what happens after death and how families can feel more prepared when loss arrives.They talk about the rise of death education on social media, the responsibility that comes with visibility, and how Eileen navigates misinformation by only sharing what she would say to a family sitting across from her. The conversation also looks at why funeral traditions are changing, how personalization matters more than formality, and what it really means to meet families where they are.Tune in to hear why opening up about death may be one of the most meaningful ways to support the living.Key Topics:-Learning to face death with openness and less fear-Offering families clarity, honesty, and reassurance-Bringing humanity back into funeral care-Honoring personal wishes and lived stories-Finding connection and comfort through communityQuotes from the episode:“Talking about death doesn’t make it happen, but avoiding it doesn’t stop it either.”-Eileen Hollis“There are bad people in every industry, and that doesn’t define everyone.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:25] Eileen Hollis reflected on attending her first national funeral conference, describing how industry connections and emerging innovations inspired her, while also recognizing the time, cost, and staffing challenges for small funeral homes.[08:49] Eileen shared how she uses social media to foster community in death care, navigate a crowded digital space, address misinformation thoughtfully, and communicate with care and integrity.[17:09] Eileen explained her approach to social media as an optional educational resource that normalizes conversations around death, planning, and grief while meeting families with openness and respect.[22:38] Eileen discussed the importance of personalization in funerals, emphasizing comfort, authenticity, trust, and meaningful human connection over rigid traditions or sales-driven practices.[39:01] OutroConnect with Eileen Hollis:Email: [email protected]: HollisFunsralHome.comTikTok: @hollisfuneralhomeInstagram: @hollisfuneralhomeConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if the way we fear death is actually what makes it harder?In this episode, Jennifer sits down with Hospice Nurse Penny to talk about what really happens at the end of life, the moments most people never see, and the truths that change how we think about dying. Penny shares her journey into hospice later in life, how her own fear of death led her to this work, and why caring for dying people became some of the most meaningful work she’s ever done.They explore deathbed experiences, the signs people show when they know they’re dying, and why many loved ones pass when family step out of the room. Penny explains how open conversations around death can ease anxiety, bring peace, and help people live more fully long before the end arrives. These are stories that are honest, emotional, and deeply human.The conversation also dives into how Penny took hospice education online, why one story went viral, and how social media has become a powerful way to normalize death for millions of people. Together, Jennifer and Penny talk about authenticity, trust, misinformation, and why talking about death openly may be one of the most important conversations we’re avoiding.Tune in to hear the stories we rarely say out loud, and why understanding death might actually help us live better.Key Topics:-Finding purpose through caring for the dying-Losing fear by facing death honestly-What people reveal at the end of life-Trust, truth, and authenticity in sharing death stories-Why talking about death helps us live more fullyQuotes from the episode:“Talking about death doesn’t make it happen, but avoiding it doesn’t stop it either.”-Hospice Nurse Penny“The more we talk about death, the more normal it becomes.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:22] Hospice Nurse Penny opens up about finding hospice work later in life, the personal turning points that led her there, and how caring for the dying gave her work lasting meaning beyond a traditional career.[07:59] Through shared stories of loss and bedside moments, Penny and Jennifer reflect on how direct exposure to dying reshaped their understanding of what comes after and reduced fear around death.[19:09] Penny explains how the pandemic pushed her to share hospice experiences online, how one story changed her reach overnight, and why each platform serves a different kind of connection.[28:18] The conversation closes on why authenticity matters more than saturation, how trust is built through honesty, and the responsibility of speaking clearly when discussing death in public spaces.[39:01] OutroConnect with Hospice Nurse Penny:Instagram: @hospicenursepennyWebsite: hospicenursepenny.comConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if the way we talk about death is the reason so many people feel lost when it finally happens? In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer sits down with Symon, a thanatologist working at the intersection of end of life care and technology, to unpack why death education is outdated, why the funeral industry feels confusing to so many families, and how better knowledge can restore choice and peace during some of life’s hardest moments.Simon shares their deeply personal journey into hospice work and research, explains what thanatology and death technology really mean, and explores how tools like AI could help people understand their options before grief and urgency take over. Together, Jennifer and Simon challenge common myths about funerals, pricing, and planning, and talk honestly about why pre-planning, cultural awareness, and open conversations can change everything.Tune in for a real, eye opening conversation that will leave you thinking differently about choice, legacy, and how we prepare for the end of life.Key Topics:-Choosing to talk about death before crisis-Finding meaning and comfort in end of life planning-Honoring personal values over fear and pressure-Expanding choice through education and awareness-Building a more humane future for death careQuotes from the episode:“My goal is to make death education accessible, modern, and available before people are in crisis.”-Symon Braun Freck“Not everyone wants the same ending, and that’s something we need to respect..”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:18] Simon discussed their work at the intersection of thanatology and technology, and how research and AI can expand access to end of life care information so people can make informed choices with clarity and confidence.[09:28] Simon reflected on how early, personal experiences with death shaped their path into hospice work and research, and why those experiences now guide their commitment to ethical, culturally aware end of life tools.[17:07] Simon explored why the funeral industry often feels exploitative, pointing to a lack of preparation and education, and emphasized how early conversations can shift decisions away from fear and toward personal values.[22:40] Simon addressed how urgency, limited options, and missing knowledge during grief restrict meaningful choice, reinforcing the need for better education, advocacy, and more flexible end of life pathways.[26:45] OutroConnect with Symon Braun Freck:Email: [email protected]://www.linkedin.com/in/symon-braun-freck-833b94197/Website - symonbraunfreck.comConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

Have you ever wished there was a place where you could speak about loss without feeling judged or rushed?In this episode, Melanie Wilson shares how the sudden death of her father led her to create Death of the Party, a gathering where people can show up exactly as they are and feel understood in their grief. What began as a small idea in New York has grown into meaningful events that help strangers feel less alone.Melanie also talks about Life and Soul, her new service that supports grievers through ceremonies, after loss tasks, estate needs, and end of life planning. She explains how real care often comes from community, honest conversation, and simple guidance during a time when everything feels overwhelming.This episode is a gentle look at grief, connection, and the courage it takes to build something that helps others heal. It will make you rethink how we show up for the people we love and how we accept support when we need it most.Tune in and discover a fresh way of understanding grief and the power of community that holds space for both pain and growth.Key Topics:-The comfort found in sharing grief with people who understand-Building community through Death of the Party events-The evolution of loss into purpose and service-Creating Life and Soul to guide grievers with care-The power of honest connection during moments of deep changeQuotes from the episode:“Death of the Party came from wanting a space where no one has to hide their loss.”-Melanie Wilson“Community matters, especially in grief, because not everyone can afford or access professional spaces.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:33] Melanie shared how losing her father pushed her to create Death of the Party, a grief focused gathering that gives people a safe place to meet others, express themselves in creative ways, and feel supported through shared loss.[10:31] Melanie talked about how each event brings returning and new faces, why she keeps Death of the Party as an in person one time experience rather than a long term group, and how it offers community connection but not formal therapy, even though therapists sometimes recommend it.[17:20] Melanie explained how Death of the Party led her to build Life and Soul, a service that blends ceremony work, after loss guidance, and practical support so grievers can move through funerals, paperwork, and planning with clarity and care.[24:45] Melanie shared that her services are priced based on each person’s needs, that Life and Soul is a queer owned but welcoming space for all, and she encouraged listeners to connect, join future events, and follow the growth of her work.[39:25] OutroConnect with Melanie Wilson:Email: [email protected] linkedin.com/in/melanie-mwWebsite - thelifeandsoul.coInstagram: @thelifeandsoul.coConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

This episode takes you behind the scenes of the NFDA 2025 International Convention & Expo and the Future of Deathcare Summit, held in Chicago this October.Despite a few uninvited audio gremlins (yes, apologies in advance for the glitches!), this conversation captures the energy, innovation, and sense of community that defined the week.Host Jennifer Muldowney – The Glam Reaper – shares personal reflections from the Summit panel on generational shifts in funeral service, insights from NFDA’s biggest educational event of the year, and key takeaways for funeral professionals in Ireland and beyond. Even though all our audio died from the NFDA we still tried! Check out our blog piece for more info. https://www.muldowneymemorials.com/blogs/chicago-connection-change-highlights-from-nfda-2025-and-the-future-of-deathcare-summitKey Topics What made the Future of Deathcare Summit a breath of fresh air for our profession Highlights from Jennifer’s panel: “Generational Expectations: How Gen X & Millennials Are Redefining Funeral Service” The NFDA 2025 Convention at McCormick Place — record attendance, new innovations, and a renewed focus on human connection The rise of AI tools, digital legacy, and sustainability in modern funeral care Why “personalisation is no longer optional” for today’s families Work in funeral service, celebrancy, or end-of-life care Are curious about how the profession is evolving globally Missed this year’s NFDA Convention and want to catch the vibe Love hearing how community, creativity, and compassion collide in our work🤦‍♀️ Audio DisclaimerFair warning — the audio gods were not on our side this time!A few sections sound like they were recorded in a wind tunnel (they weren’t, promise). But the insights and spirit of the conversation are well worth the ride.Thanks to NFDA (National Funeral Directors Association) – nfda.org and Future of Deathcare Summit – hosted by Sympathy Brands & Fortitude Marketing

Why do we wait until someone dies to learn how to deal with death?In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Jennifer Lares, a licensed funeral director, educator, and former U.S. Army mortuary officer who managed repatriations across Europe and Africa. Together, they open a side of the funeral world that most people never see — where compassion, ethics, and resilience meet REALITY.Jennifer Lares reveals what it’s really like behind military and civilian funerals, how empathy and education can change the way we face loss. From exposing industry silence and scandals to rethinking Direct Cremation and modern airbrush cosmetics, this conversation challenges everything you thought you knew about death care.It’s real. And it might just change how you see life, grief, and the people who serve behind the curtain of death.🎧 Tune in to discover how curiosity, courage, and compassion can transform the way we say goodbye.Key Topics:-Honoring the fallen and the unseen work behind repatriation-Redefining empathy and teamwork in funeral service education-The courage to speak up in an industry built on silence-Reimagining beauty, dignity, and goodbyes through modern death care-Learning to face death with curiosity, not fearQuotes from the episode:“We know that we’re all going to die, and yet we don’t learn anything about it until you have to. So why would you not involve this in education when you’re growing up?”-Jennifer Lares“But if you don’t evolve, you dissolve.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:29] Jennifer Lares shares her experience as a U.S. Army mortuary officer in Germany, reflecting on the challenges of repatriating fallen service members, cultural differences around death, and her mission to elevate funeral education through advanced embalming and training.[10:23] She talks about teaching empathy-led teamwork, sensitive communication with grieving families, and modernizing end-of-life care through airbrush cosmetics and progressive education.[21:52] The conversation moves to licensing and specialization in funeral service, the staffing challenges across states, and Jennifer’s honest take on the California mortician scandal—why abuses happen and why the industry needs stronger ethics and protection.[32:30] Jennifer discusses gender bias, inequality, and society’s fascination with scandal and death. She calls for rethinking cremation, respecting diverse beliefs, and re-educating the public on the sacred value of ritual and the body.[43:19] To close, she highlights the need for transparency, curiosity, and higher standards—urging the profession to embrace accountability, continuous learning, and stronger oversight to restore trust in death care.[53:57] OutroConnect with Jennifer Lares:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jennifer-lares-a09163302Websites - mullingmortician.comInstagram: @mullingmorticianConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

How do you heal when the one who gave you unconditional love is gone?In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney goes beyond grief to uncover the new ways people are reshaping how we say goodbye to our pets — from compassion, creativity, to community.Adam Greenbaum, founder of Love Baxter, shares the raw story of losing his dog Baxter and realizing how unprepared the world is for pet loss. His experience led him to build a first-of-its-kind digital resource that helps pet parents make informed, heartfelt decisions during one of life’s hardest moments.Dr. Paula Rivadeneira, the heart behind Old Souls Animal Rescue, brings light to the overlooked — senior and special-needs pets who often lose their homes when their owners pass away. Through humor, honesty, and deep empathy, she shows what true devotion looks like, one rescue at a time.John, founder of Ever After Art, introduces a striking form of remembrance — transforming ashes into luminous crystal artworks that carry the chemistry and soul of every beloved companion. It’s grief turned into art, loss turned into legacy.This episode isn’t just about saying goodbye. It’s about discovering the many ways love continues to live on.Key Topics:-Healing the heartbreak of pet loss-Redefining compassion in end-of-life care-Honoring pets through art and remembrance-Giving forgotten animals love and dignity-Finding connection and meaning through griefQuotes from the episode:"My dog didn’t die — my son died. He was the love of my life."-Adam Greenbaum“When someone loses a pet, it’s not just loss — it’s losing a heartbeat that follows you everywhere.”-Paula Rivadeneira“We take just a teaspoon of ash and turn it into crystal — a unique, one-of-a-kind artwork that carries the essence of your pet’s soul.”-JohnTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:21] Jennifer sits down with Adam Greenbaum, who shares the moving story behind Love Baxter, an online resource created to help grieving pet owners find guidance, compassion, and community during one of life’s hardest goodbyes.[13:55] Jennifer meets Dr. Paula Rivadeneira, founder of Old Souls Animal Rescue, to talk about caring for senior and special-needs animals, the emotional reality of pet loss, and how her TikTok community inspires support for forgotten pets.[18:33] Jennifer chats with John from Ever After Art, exploring how he transforms pet ashes into mesmerizing crystal artworks, a unique and healing way to preserve the spirit and memory of beloved companions.[29:52] OutroConnect with Adam Greenbaum:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/adamgreenbaumInstagram: @greenbaumlyWebsite: beacons.ai/greenbaumConnect with Paula Rivadeneira:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/paula-rivadeneiraWebsite: oldsouls.org (Other)chollaafterlife.com (Company)Connect with John:Website: https://everafterart.com/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

In this special episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney takes us inside the CANA Convention to uncover bold ideas, inspiring stories, and the future of funeral service.Jennifer sits down with powerhouse women and industry innovators making waves in the profession. Lisa Bowie shares how Funeral Women Lead is breaking barriers with the first-ever Wellness Summit and Women’s Leadership Academy. Melissa talks about her work with Security National and why advocacy, mentorship, and support for women entering funeral service is more urgent than ever.You’ll also hear from Darren at Passages, whose eco-friendly urns and biodegradable memorial products are reshaping how families honor loved ones—from Himalayan salt urns to GPS-tracked scattering memorials. And Will and Hannah Laura from Cold Spring reveal the artistry behind their 127-year legacy in quarrying and bronze memorialization, including national monuments, private mausoleums, and even hand-sculpted angels and granite castles.Tune in to discover how innovation, mentorship, and community are redefining the funeral profession and why now is the time to support the leaders driving it forward.Key Topics:-Empowering women in the funeral profession-Mentorship and community supportz-Innovation in eco-friendly memorial products-Honoring legacy through artistry and tradition-Building confidence and leadership for future generationsTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:20] Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Lisa Bowie at the CANA Convention to discuss empowering women in the funeral profession through Funeral Women Lead, leadership and wellness programs, and her new book Wake Up Calls.[04:41] Jennifer chats with Melissa about her role at Security National, her advocacy with Funeral Women Lead, and why supporting women entering the funeral and cremation profession matters.[08:50] Jennifer speaks with Darren from Passages about eco-friendly urns and burial products and innovative memorial tools that blend sustainability with remembrance.[19:34] Jennifer connects with Will and Hannah Laura from Cold Spring to explore the company’s 127-year legacy in quarrying and bronze memorialization.[28:09] OutroConnect with Darren Crouch:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/darren-crouch-9a450236Websites: passagesinternational.com (Company)Connect with Lisa Baue:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lisa-baueWebsites: yourfuneralcoach.com (Company)Connect with Melissa Posey Loose:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melissaplooseConnect with Hannalora and Will:Website: https://coldspringusa.com/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

Sometimes the stories we carry are heavier than what the world ever sees.Sarah Cunningham McWilliams sits down with us to share a life marked by loss, resilience, and unexpected hope. From 14 miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies to surviving cancer in the middle of a global pandemic, she shows what it means to keep standing when life consistently knocks you on your ass.Sarah opens her heart about the quiet battles no one prepares you for, the humor that kept her sane, and the way nature and the sea became her refuge when words and medicine failed. She speaks about love, survival, and the small moments of light that pulled her through the darkest seasons.This is not just a story of pain or survival. It is about the courage to keep moving, the grace to laugh even in grief, and the reminder that strength often comes in the softest of forms.Tune in to hear a story of fierce grace from an Irish warrior woman that will irrevocably change the way you think about resilience and the hidden weight so many of us carry.Key Topics:-Enduring miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies with unspoken grief-IVF and its hidden toll on body and spirit-Confronting cancer while raising young children ..all in a worldwide pandemic-Holding on to humor as a shield in moments of deep pain-Finding refuge in sea swims, nature, and quiet resilienceQuotes from the episode:"If you keep your inner voice negative, you will collapse. I had to keep saying "yes I can, yes I will."-Sarah Cunningham"I come from a long line of warrior women with soft hearts."-Sarah Cunningham"Life can look so amazing on the outside, but you never really know what’s going on in the pains that are happening on the inside."-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:22] Sarah shares how her friendship with Jennifer, her struggles with miscarriage and illness, and the resilience of Irish women shaped her way of looking at life with humor and kindness.[08:52] Sarah opens up about living with permanent health struggles, multiple miscarriages, an ectopic pregnancy, and a difficult fertility journey in America that tested her strength. [23:30] Sarah talks about turning to surrogacy after countless miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies. She endured a painful experience with a carrier yet found gratitude in her children while carrying the unseen pain behind what looked like a perfect family.[31:30] Sarah recalls how finding a lump led to a breast cancer diagnosis, life-saving surgery, and lasting effects. [44:51] Sarah shares how medical negligence, unprocessed trauma, and years of battles left her with PTSD. [52:51] Sarah reflects on how IVF drugs may have fueled her cancer, exposing the profit-driven side of healthcare. She endured harsh chemotherapy and relied on her inner strength, natural supports, and the will to survive for her family.[1:14:54] OutroConnect with Sarah Cunningham:Website: https://goodgrief.ie/Email address: [email protected] with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if the moment that shaped your life happened when you were only twelve years old?In this inspiring conversation, Dr. Tanya Scotece shares her journey from the medical world to becoming a funeral director and embalmer, and now a professor leading the mortuary program at Miami Dade College. She opens up about how a single childhood experience at a wake sparked a fire that stayed with her for life, and how every step along the way became a lesson in courage and growth.Tanya talks about wearing sparkles as a reminder of her why, the reality of serving families in a profession that offers no second chances, and the importance of inspiring students who will become the funeral directors of tomorrow. This is more than a career story. It is about following a calling, finding light in unexpected places, and reminding us that it is never too late to learn and begin again.Key Topics:-Finding purpose from a childhood experience that shaped a lifelong calling-Transitioning from the medical world to mortuary service with courage and faith-The meaning behind sparkles and how small symbols can carry deep purpose-Teaching and guiding students to serve families with compassion and integrity-Standing for dignity and truth through expert witness work in funeral lawQuotes from the episode:“This isn’t a do-over profession. You only have one chance to make a funeral right.”-Tanya Scotece“These are the funeral directors of tomorrow, and the more resources they have, the better.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:41] Dr. T opens up about her journey from a long career in medicine to discovering her true calling in funeral service. She shares how pursuing advanced education led her to become a professor and program coordinator for mortuary science at Miami Dade College, where she now guides future leaders in the profession.[13:34] Beyond the classroom, Dr. T has become a trusted expert witness in funeral law, standing beside families in times of grief and ensuring justice when wrongful practices occur. She reminds Jennifer that in this field ethics and integrity are everything because in death care there are no second chances.[21:03] Reflecting on her shift from industry to academia, Dr. T speaks about the diverse students who choose mortuary school, the many paths available in funeral service, and the joy she finds in inspiring others to keep learning and proving it is never too late to chase new dreams.[29:18] The conversation closes on a warm note as Tanya and Jennifer celebrate their bond. Together they share exciting opportunities for students such as celebrant training, memorial planning, and pet loss education while highlighting the power of collaboration, support, and nurturing the next generation of funeral directors[35:49] OutroConnect with Tanya Scotece:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tanya-scotece-ph-d-lfd-cfsp-🪄✨”dr-t”-a85a6226Email: [email protected] with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if we stopped judging grief and started honoring it instead?In this powerful episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, we sit down with Michaelene Dowers, a licensed funeral director, thanatologist, and founder of Pollen Care—a one-of-a-kind resource for children facing grief, from the loss of a parent to the pain of divorce or even the death of a pet. We open up about the hard conversations many avoid—how children process loss, why every type of grief matters, and the emotional cost of showing up for others in dark moments.We also explore why some families avoid holding services, how judgment sneaks into our grief culture, and the deeply personal ways loss can show up. From a missing stuffed goat to a life lost too soon. Michaellean shares how she curates books and tools to help kids and parents cope when words fall short, and why no loss, no matter how “small”—should ever be dismissed.Tune in to feel seen, understood, and reminded that no one’s grief should be compared, measured, or ignored. Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone who's simply loved and lost—this one will stay with you.Key Topics:-Children deserve honest tools to process grief-No loss is too small to be acknowledged-Judgment has no place in someone’s mourning-Grief after tragedy needs care for all involved-Healing begins with presence, not pressureQuotes from the episode:“The grief is as real for a child as it is for an adult—it just looks different.”-Michaelene Dowers“I don’t understand this hierarchy of grief—why does it matter whose pain is worse?”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:20] Michaelene Dowers, a funeral director and thanatologist, shares how she helps grieving families by carefully choosing books and resources for children based on their age, background, and the kind of loss they’re facing. [09:40] Michaelene and Jennifer talk about how grief often shows up in quiet, unexpected ways. They reflect on how parents make tough choices during painful times and how even small moments, like missing a funeral or losing a pet, can leave lasting marks on a child’s heart.[16:09] The conversation opens up to the deeper truth that every kind of grief matters. Whether someone is grieving a person, a relationship, or even a cherished item, what they feel is real.[22:40] As they wrap up, they speak honestly about the emotional weight carried by those who work with grief every day. From tragic events like school shootings to heartbreaking family situations, Michaelene continues to offer comfort and hope through her work with Pollen Care, making sure no family feels alone.[28:09] OutroConnect with Michaelene Dowers:LinkedIn:linkedin.com/in/mdowersWebsites - Pollen.Care (Company)Quietusbee.com (Company)Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if grief had no rules and love had no limits?In this deeply moving episode, We sit down with Lauren Seeley, a death educator and community death doula, to talk about the raw, real, and often misunderstood world of grief, loss, and end-of-life care. We talk about what it means to support people through the death of a beloved pet, how intuitive moments show up in the funeral space, and why honoring our own unique grieving process matters.Lauren opens up about her own funeral plans, the emotional work behind death care, and how spiritual connection can guide us through the hardest goodbyes. This isn’t just about funerals—it’s about love, presence, and the quiet power of being seen when it matters most.If you’ve ever loved and lost a human or animal, this conversation will speak straight to your heart.Tune in to hear stories, insights, and truths we often keep hidden and feel less alone in the process.Key Topics:-The emotional weight of pet loss-Why grief has no hierarchy-What a modern death doula really does-Intuition in the death care space-Pre-planning your own goodbyeQuotes from the episode:“Sometimes having somebody step in, validate their feelings, help them make those decisions, can make a world of difference”-Lauren Seeley“We’re all working in the space for one common goal and that is to help the bereaved to grieve and grieve well, and help the dead have a good death”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:55] Lauren shares how she supports people through grief and end-of-life care for both humans and pets—guiding in-home euthanasia, planning ceremonies, and building deep, lasting relationships with grieving families.[08:38] She and Jen talk about the evolving role of death doulas, the emotional weight of the work, and the importance of blending holistic and traditional care as society becomes more open to conversations about grief and death.[16:37] Lauren opens up about her own funeral wishes, her work as a death educator, and how her intuitive gifts have grown through this work—something she now teaches others to recognize and trust.[21:11] She shares personal stories of spiritual signals during funerals and emphasizes how honoring intuition can bring comfort and deeper connection when supporting grieving families.[26:08] OutroConnect with Lauren Seeley:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lauren-seeley-19531a179Instagram - @ahhsweetdeathConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What Really Happens Behind the Scenes in the Funeral Industry?Have you ever wondered what it’s really like to work in death care? In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, I take you inside the Independent Funeral Directors of Florida Convention where I met the changemakers shaping the future of funerals.From AI-powered tribute videos to autopsy cases that reveal shocking truths, this episode is filled with raw and heartfelt stories. I spoke with funeral tech innovators, long-time directors, a scholarship-winning student, and a forensic pathologist whose second autopsies are changing lives.We dive into grief, regulation, compassion, second chances, and the deep humanity behind every service. This is not just about funerals. It is about people, purpose, and the power of doing meaningful work.Tune in to hear what no one tells you about the funeral world and why it matters more than ever.Key Topics:-The human side of funeral innovation-Serving families with compassion and clarity-Regulation, second chances, and doing the right thing-Finding purpose through grief and service-Stories that reveal the heart behind every farewellTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:32] We had a chat with Zach from Tukios to hear how his team evolved from creating tribute videos to building modern websites for funeral homes. He opens up about how they now use AI to restore photos, protect families from harmful content, and even support writing obituaries with care.[05:50] We talk with Earline Blumhagen, a licensed funeral director and print coordination specialist, who reflects on her 28-year journey in the funeral profession. Her dedication and wisdom shine through as she shares the heart behind her work.[11:44] We meet Darrell, a future funeral director whose passion for serving his community led him to this path. He opens up about how a professor’s encouragement and a scholarship changed his life and deepened his calling.[12:48] We speak with Tyler from Repose, a platform that helps families plan funerals with ease and clarity. Tyler shares how Repose empowers families to compare options and connect with funeral homes that meet their needs.[15:34] We have a meaningful conversation with Crystal from Florida’s funeral regulation board. She offers insight into how licensing decisions are made with both compassion and fairness and why standards matter so deeply in this work.[21:24] We chat with Heather, executive director of IFDF, who shares how she reimagined the annual convention into something truly special. She talks about creating a space where professionals feel seen, supported, and part of a caring community.[26:26] We close with Dr. Daniel, a forensic pathologist whose stories stay with you long after they’re told. He shares moments from second autopsies that changed lives and one unforgettable case involving handwritten notes hidden inside a man’s body—offering a glimpse into the powerful intersection of grief, truth, and healing[41:08] OutroConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper®️ AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh

What If We’ve Been Grieving All Wrong?How do we truly honor the people we love after they’re gone?In this deeply moving episode, Jen sits down with Lauren from La Mort to talk about what most people don’t know about death, grief, and connection. From the lost art of caring for our loved ones' bodies to the power of pen pals and handwritten letters, this conversation is full of stories that will make you reflect, feel, and maybe even rethink how we say goodbye.They open up about the emotional toll of modern funerals, the frustration of navigating corporate death care, and the healing that comes from choice, education, and community. Whether you've lost someone, are supporting someone who has, or simply want to understand grief on a deeper level, this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed.Key Topics:-Reclaiming sacred death rituals-The emotional impact of COVID on connection-The power of tangible, embodied grief practices-The importance of informed choice in death care-Advocating for change and education in the funeral industryQuotes from the episode:"Taking care of our loved ones is not an easy task — death is a tangible thing."-Lauren Carroll“It’s the bad eggs that don’t want to innovate who give the whole industry a bad reputation.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[01:02] Lauren shares how she moved from co-founding Deathwives to creating La Mort, a heartfelt collective that weaves together grief, art, and joy.[08:16] Lauren and Jen laugh about their shared clumsiness and reflect on how the pandemic changed human connection. Lauren talks about the importance of simple, tangible rituals like writing letters, being together in person, and caring for a loved one’s body. [18:38] The conversation turns to the power of giving families real choices around death care. Lauren and Jen explore how informed decisions can bring comfort and clarity in times of loss.[25:32] Together, they call for more education and open-mindedness in the funeral world. They highlight how listening to families and embracing innovation can transform the way we honor life and death.[39:25] OutroConnect with Lauren Carroll:LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/lauren-carroll-deathwivesWebsite - https://www.lamort.org/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What If Talking About Death Could Actually Bring Us Closer to Life?In this powerful and unexpectedly uplifting episode, we sit down with Gabrielle Gatto—death doula, cemetery educator, and creator of Grim Reaper Gossip—to talk about what it really means to face mortality with heart, humor, and humanity.Gabrielle opens up about working at Greenwood Cemetery during the pandemic, how she turned personal purpose into public healing, and why she believes we need to bring death back into everyday conversation. We talk about grief in all its forms—from the loss of a loved one to pet loss and unspoken sorrow—and how judgment has no place in healing. You’ll hear stories of family, culture, legacy, and the small things—like a chocolate-scented lip balm or a keychain—that can make a lasting difference.Whether you’re in the field of end-of-life care or simply human (yep, that’s all of us), this conversation is a warm invitation to reimagine death as a natural, even beautiful, part of life.Tune in to hear why grief needs more compassion, why death work is a team effort, and how honest conversations—however awkward—can open the door to deeper love, purpose, and peace.Key Topics:-Working Through Grief at Greenwood-Finding Purpose Through Death Care-Normalizing Grief in All Its Forms-Community Over Competition in Death Work-Making Death Conversations Less ScaryQuotes from the episode:“Death work is ancient work… we've been living as long as we've been dying.”-Gabrielle Gatto“I may not be a licensed therapist, but I can still sit with someone in grief and be a vessel for them to pour into.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:57] Gabrielle opens up about what it was like to work at Greenwood Cemetery during the height of the pandemic, sharing the emotional moments that shaped her and deepened her connection to the work.[09:28] She talks about how her love for family, culture, and meaningful connection led her to create Grim Reaper Gossip—a heartfelt, creative way to help people feel less afraid to talk about death.[19:12] Gabrielle and Jennifer dive into the many faces of grief, including pet loss and overlooked pain, and why it’s so important to hold space for all of it without judgment—especially through honest, gentle conversations.[27:16] Together, they reflect on how everyone in death care—whether a doula, director, nurse, or friend—has a unique role to play, and how working together with respect and heart can truly support the people we serve.[37:14] OutroConnect with Gabrielle Gatto:LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/gabrielle-gatto-391677113Instagram - @gabriellegatteauxConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if the most powerful way to process grief... wasn't with words, but with music?In this emotional and eye-opening episode, Jennifer sits down with violinist and music-for-healing expert Concetta, who shares her journey from wedding performer to creating personalized music ceremonies for funerals, memorials, and even hospice homes. From honoring lost loved ones to comforting families during their hardest moments, Concetta reveals how music becomes a voice when words fall short.They talk about living funerals, pet memorials, end-of-life rituals, and how music can bring people together—even in times of pain and conflict. You'll also hear honest stories about burnout, emotional boundaries, and the quiet signs that show up when you’re truly present with grief.Tune in to hear a powerful conversation about healing, service, and the real meaning of celebration in life and death. If you’ve ever felt the weight of loss or wondered how to support someone grieving, this episode will stay with you long after the final note.Key Topics:-The healing power of music in grief-Personalizing farewells through sound-Navigating emotional burnout as a caregiver-Rituals for all forms of loss, not just death-Building connection through end-of-life ceremoniesQuotes from the episode:“Music is not simply something in the background to create a vibe. It is really there to process the feelings and the emotions”-Concetta Abbate“Grief and loss aren't just specific to human life loss”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[01:19] Concetta opens up about her lifelong relationship with the violin, how it led her into the deeply meaningful work of playing music at funerals, and the birth of her organization, Sound and Memory. She shares how music has become her way of helping people grieve together, honoring lives through heartfelt, personalized, and non-religious ceremonies.[11:29] Concetta and Jennifer explore the emotional weight that music carries—whether played live or recorded—and how it can touch something deeper in moments of loss.[19:52] They dive into how music softens tension, brings comfort to those facing anticipatory grief, and creates space for meaningful goodbyes—through personalized funerals, living celebrations, or even intimate hospice concerts at home.[30:08] The conversation expands beyond death itself. Concetta and Jennifer talk about how grief shows up in many forms and why we need rituals to help us move through all types of loss. They also reflect on the often-unseen emotional cost of caregiving.[40:21] They wrap with an honest look at the complexities of end-of-life work—from emotional burnout to the need for healthy boundaries and strong collaboration among professionals who support others through their most vulnerable times.[54:02] OutroConnect with Concetta Abbate:LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/concettaabbateInstagram - @concettallegraWebsite - https://www.concettaabbate.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/concetta.abbate/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if one small act of kindness could save a life?In this deeply moving episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, We sit down with Brent Pope—a former Rugby and TV pundit turned mental health advocate/super hero to many. Brent opens his heart about his own struggles with anxiety, depression, and grief, and how those battles inspired a global movement rooted in empathy. Through his “Elephant in the Room” project, he’s brought powerful symbols of hope into workplaces, schools, and communities—reminding people that it’s okay to not be okay, and even more okay to talk about it, especially coming from the world of sports.This conversation isn’t just about mental health—it’s about being human. It’s about showing up for each other, meeting people where they are, and realizing that the most meaningful thing we can give someone is the feeling that they’re not alone.Key Topics:-Opening up about mental health struggles and finding healing-The story behind the Elephant in the Room movement-How small acts of kindness can truly make a difference-Why time and connection matter more than anything-Creating safe spaces for honest conversations and real careQuotes from the episode:“The connections that you make in your life—that's what's most important”-Brent Pope"Tomorrow is not guaranteed, so pick up the phone, send the damn text, live your life, take the trip—do whatever you can to make your life that marginally bit happier.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[03:01] Brent Pope opened up about his mental health journey and deep passion for art, sharing how a powerful moment on a construction site sparked the idea for a movement.[10:22] Reflecting on years of personal struggle and his path to becoming a psychotherapist, Brent explained how one honest conversation became the catalyst for a global effort to shift how we approach emotional support in workplaces and beyond.[20:35] Brent highlighted that real change in mental health culture doesn’t start with policies—it starts with small, human moments of care, listening, and choosing to show up for one another.[32:22] Speaking with raw honesty, Brent reminded us that healing begins with how we treat ourselves and the people around us—with empathy, presence, and the courage to connect.[43:13] As the conversation came to a close, Brent urged listeners to stop waiting for “someday” and start living with intention—finding joy in the simple things and making time for what truly matters before it’s too late.[46:52] OutroConnect with Brent Pope:LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/brent-pope-93a0323bInstagram -@popeapparelX- @RealBrentPopeConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney chats with Allison Danger—a seasoned embalmer, funeral director, and now a Death Studies master’s student—about her deeply personal and evolving relationship with death care. From the front lines of embalming to the quiet pages of academic research, Allison shares how a life-changing moment pushed her to dive deeper into understanding death, not just professionally, but personally.They talk about what it’s like juggling work, motherhood, and studies, and how Allison still finds time for creativity—whether it’s writing graphic novels, podcasting, or exploring big questions around humanity and grief through storytelling. Her passion for education shines through as she shares why she believes death needs to be part of everyday conversations, especially for younger generations.The two also dig into the digital future of memorialization, including AI and legacy tech, and the emotional weight that comes with preserving memories in such new ways. It’s a thoughtful, raw, and inspiring conversation that reminds us how death can be a space for growth, connection, and even creativity.Key Topics:-From funeral work to deeper understanding of death-Turning personal loss into purpose-Balancing life with compassion and growth-Bringing honest talks about death to light-How tech shapes grief and connectionQuotes from the episode:“We’re really under-serving ourselves by not talking about death.”-Allison Danger“I've realized that I'm less about the academic side of things than I am about the practicality of it.”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:46] Allison Danger opened up about her evolution from years in embalming to pursuing a master’s in Death Studies.[08:41] With honesty and curiosity, Allison shared how her fascination with biology and her desire for meaning steered her away from traditional medicine and toward a calling that blends science, care, and research in death care.[15:27] She spoke candidly about the need to reclaim creativity just for joy, how the things we love can so easily become just another task if we don’t protect them.[17:22] In a powerful reflection, Allison reminded us that healing and purpose often show up in unexpected places. And that even in grief and loss, there’s room for connection and hope.[18:11] Through her work in graphic novels, Allison uses storytelling to explore profound questions about identity and existence, bringing depth and emotion to complex themes like transhumanism and digital legacies.[22:39] Allison raised powerful questions about the rise of AI in memorialization, reflecting on what it really means to preserve someone’s digital self—and whether, in doing so, we might be avoiding the very grief that helps us heal.[25:30] OutroConnect with Allison Danger:Website- allisondanger.comInstagram - @allisondangerousX- @allydangerousConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Laura Musselman of the Humane Prison Hospice Project to explore the often unseen world of end-of-life care behind bars. Through a powerful and deeply personal conversation, Laura shares how her journey through loss and grief led her to support incarcerated caregivers offering dignity to fellow inmates in their final days.The episode uncovers the human side of prison life that many overlook, where empathy, purpose, and community still thrive in the harshest environments. Laura and Jennifer reflect on the complexities of compassion, the weight of judgment, and why every person, regardless of their past, deserves to be seen and cared for. See also Jennifer’s previous blog on the topic here https://www.theglamreaper.com/2025/03/a-life-sentence-is-death-sentencejust.htmlThis conversation is a reminder that even in the most difficult circumstances, people are capable of profound kindness, and when given the chance, community gathers and they will rise to care for one another.Key Topics:-Finding purpose through grief and personal loss-The power of compassion behind prison walls-Honoring dignity and care at the end of life-Seeing the human beyond the sentence-How healing begins when we choose to careTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:46] Laura shared with Jen how personal loss and a calling to support life transitions drew her from teaching into end-of-life care in prisons, where she now works to restore dignity for aging and terminally ill inmates often forgotten by society.[07:09] She challenged the idea that care must be earned, telling Jen that compassion isn’t a prize, it’s a reflection of our shared humanity and the kind of society we want to be.[11:25] Laura emphasized that every person, even those behind bars, carries a story shaped by life experience, not just a sentence, and that offering care shouldn't depend on someone’s perceived worth.[17:22] She reflected on witnessing deep empathy in the most unlikely places, reminding Jen that healing and purpose can thrive even in the darkest corners, if we allow space for it.[25:30] Laura explained how her team listens to each prison specific needs, training incarcerated peers with trauma-informed skills to provide compassionate care for fellow inmates facing aging, dementia, or death.[32:05] She described the trust-based, peer-led programs that bring meaning, responsibility, and connection to both caregivers and those nearing life’s end, proof that humanity doesn’t stop at prison walls.[38:59] OutroCheck out a blog post on this also: https://www.theglamreaper.com/2025/03/a-life-sentence-is-death-sentencejust.htmlConnect with Laura Musselman:LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/laura-musselman-3aa42174Website - humaneprisonhospiceproject.orgConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh

In this (part 2 of 2) episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney reconnects with Sydney Tracy to continue their powerful conversation (Glam Reaper in the Wild Series!) at the annual conference of IAOPCC (International Association Of Pet Cemeteries & Crematories). This part focuses on the intriguing unseen lives of Latter-day Saint women. They dive into themes of faith, culture, and the layers of Sydney’s beliefs, inviting you to look past the stereotypes and see the deeper stories that often go untold.Jennifer and Sydney talk openly about the portrayal of Mormon women in reality TV, touching on shows like Hulu's "Mom Talk," and how these narratives can shape misunderstandings. Sydney offers her perspective on modesty, church traditions, and the deeply rooted cultural and spiritual values of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Through her reflections, she helps bridge gaps in understanding, sharing insights into the church’s history and dispelling myths with a message of love and acceptance.Join them for a heartfelt conversation on faith, culture, and the shared journey through life’s ups and downs.Key Topics:-Exploring faith and culture with an open heart-Breaking down misunderstandings around beliefs-Honest reflections on how Mormon women are seen-Embracing love and acceptance in all differences-Finding strength through life’s shared strugglesQuotes from the episode: “If crying is what you need to do, then do it.”-Sydney Tracy“I like to think the universe puts things in a certain way for me”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:17] Sydney opens up about how cultural perspectives shape the way people view the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS).[06:01] Jennifer and Sydney share genuine concerns about how reality TV tends to portray the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.[12:41] Sydney thoughtfully shares her beliefs, highlighting the importance of understanding the true values behind the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.[18:26] With clarity and care, Sydney explains the Church’s belief in the plan of salvation.[25:45] Jennifer and Sydney reflect together on the profound nature of grief.[31:56] Wrapping up, Jennifer and Sydney encourage listeners to stay curious, approach life with an open heart, and find joy in the everyday journeys and challenges.[33:53] OutroConnect with Sydney Tracy:Website - https://pawprintsonwoodland.com/aboutFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/sydney.r.tracy/?locale=ms_MYConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/productsListen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145

This episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast is split into two parts - Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Sydney Tracy, a former elementary school teacher who now runs a pet cremation business in Arizona. Paw Prints on Woodland, a pet cremation facility inspired by her grandfather’s legacy, had Sydney returning to her hometown with a heart-centered mission to support grieving pet owners.Jennifer and Sydney are together (Glam Reaper in the Wild Series!) at the annual conference of IAOPCC (International Association Of Pet Cemeteries & Crematories) and during this episode they dive into what defines her work, and the emotional journey behind every service. Sydney shares her insights on different types of grief—preemptive, sudden, and traumatic—highlighting the importance of patience and gentle support. Together, they remind us that healing isn’t about replacing lost loved ones but creating space for new love while cherishing old memories.Catch this episode for a deep dive into the types of grief and the healing process when saying goodbye to a beloved pet. Key Topics:-Meet Sydney and her journey into the world of pet cremation-From teacher to comforter in times of loss-How compassion and strength create a safe space for grieving pet owners-Navigating the different types of grief and finding healing after loss-Sydney’s heartfelt vision to grow her business and help more familiesQuotes from the episode: “I don't believe in coincidences. I believe that there is a reason for everything that happens.”-Sydney Tracy“I don't think that any adult goes through life or gets to the end of their life without multiple scars on their heart”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:52] Sydney opens up about her unexpected path into pet cremation, drawing from her background in teaching and life experiences.[10:11] Jennifer and Sydney share a conversation on the emotional journey of pet loss.[14:57] They reflect on how adopting pets isn’t about replacement but rather about making space in one’s heart for more love.[17:01] Sydney shares her dreams of growing her pet cremation business and creating a space that truly meets her clients’ needs.[20:22] Sydney thoughtfully weighs the benefits of fire cremation versus aquamation, considering what’s best for her clients and business.[26:18] Jennifer and Sydney explore how client needs, location, and new methods of aftercare shape the future of their services.[28:05] OutroConnect with Sydney Tracy:Website - https://pawprintsonwoodland.com/aboutFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/sydney.r.tracy/?locale=ms_MYConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/Mu

In this inspiring episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Jeff Holcomb, a funeral director who’s been in the industry for over 43 years. He’s also the mind behind Continuing Vision, an educational platform for funeral professionals.What makes Jeff’s story so powerful is the deeply personal journey behind his work. He created Continuing Vision in memory of his late son, Brian, building a legacy that continues to touch so many lives in the profession.Continuing education for funeral directors is very important, especially for those who can’t attend the state or national conventions. Jeff’s platform makes these invaluable resources accessible to everyone. He discusses the new mentorship program launched at the convention—something close to Jeff’s heart—as it helps guide young professionals through the unique challenges they face. This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a conversation that could change how you approach your work and life. Take a moment and tune in!Key Topics:-The heartfelt story behind Continuing Vision and family legacy-Launch of a mentorship program to support new funeral directors-Inclusivity through the celebrant program for all families-The future of Continuing Vision focused on learning and growthQuotes from the episode: “We want it to be a safe place for for these young people that there's no judgment”-Jeff Holcomb“Inclusion, diversity, and just making sure everyone's seen and heard. And that's really what it's about, serving the families at the end of the day”-Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:19] Jeff shared the origin and purpose of the Continuing Vision company.[04:00] Jeff elaborated on the personal meaning behind the name "Continuing Vision," explaining how it reflects both the importance of continuing education for funeral professionals and the fight to restore the vision of their children.[06:06] Jeff introduced the launch of a new mentorship program, designed to pair seasoned funeral professionals and educators with mentees.[08:41] Jennifer and Jeff emphasized the importance of creating a safe, judgment-free space for young funeral professionals in the mentorship program, where they can seek guidance without fear of criticism or anger from their superiors.[09:53] Jeff discussed how their partnership in the celebrant program will be a game-changer for offering meaningful services.[11:55] OutroConnect with Jeff Holcomb:Website - https://www.continuingvision.com/the-morticians-blogLinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/jeff-holcomb-194b8615Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaperYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowneyLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/Facebook Page Memorials -https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Email us - [email protected] Merch -

In this captivating episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, host Jennifer Muldowney, aka The Glam Reaper, takes listeners on a journey through New York City’s darker history with the brilliant K. Krombie, a British author, freelance writer, journalist, and founder of Purefinder New York. All while sitting in Central Park!!Krombie is renowned for her deeply researched walking tours that shine a light on the city's untold stories of death and cemeteries.Jennifer and Krombie dive into the fascinating world of burials in the Big Apple, spanning over 400 years of history. Together, they discuss Krombie’s book, Death in New York: History and Culture of Burials, Undertakers and Executions, and explore the mismanagement of death in Manhattan, from overcrowded cemeteries to forgotten burial grounds. They also uncover how epidemics, riots, and even forgotten skeletons have shaped the city’s landscape and reflect on the ongoing challenges of honoring the dead in a space-challenged metropolis.Whether you’re a history buff or simply curious about New York’s hidden past, this episode will transport you to a side of the city you’ve never seen before. Don’t miss this insightful conversation packed with forgotten tales, burial scandals, and thought-provoking discussions about life and death in the concrete jungle.Tune in now to learn about the past that’s still buried beneath New York’s streets!Key Topics:-History of cemeteries and honoring the deceased-Epidemics and changes in burial practices-Cemetery belt and space for loved ones-Grave robberies and respect for remains-Krombie’s book and tours on death and legacyAwesome facts from the episode: Washington Square Park holds a secret: There are approximately 20,000 bodies buried beneath it, a result of yellow fever epidemics in the 1800s.Grave robbing was a serious issue in New York: In 1788, a riot broke out when student doctors were caught stealing bodies from cemeteries for dissection, leading to legal reforms.In the 1700s, drinking water in New York often flowed through graveyards, including a fountain at Trinity Church, contributing to cholera outbreaks.Seneca Village, located in what is now Central Park, was a black settlement in the 1820s with churches and burial grounds, many of which remain under the park today.The Bone Bill of 1854 allowed unclaimed bodies, particularly vagrants, to be dissected by medical students, a law that remained in place until it was finally amended in 2016.Timestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:59] Jennifer and Krombie focused on the fascinating history of cemeteries and death management in New York City.[05:23] Jennifer and Krombie talk about the extensive cemetery belt in Queens and personal experiences of exploring cemeteries during lockdown.[08:45] Jennifer and Krombie recounted experiences at a haunted funeral convention in Savannah, Georgia, and explored the history of grave robbing in New York City.[12:13] Krombie covered a grim historical event where a student doctor in 1788 provoked a riot by claiming a dismembered arm belonged to a boy's recently deceased mother.[15:01] Jennifer and Krombie reflected on how much there is to learn about death and burial practices.[18:42] Krombie shared their various tours in New York.[22:41] OutroConnect with K.Krombie:Website - https://www.purefindernewyork.com/Twitter/X - @KKrombie Promotional code to get 15% discount: Glamreaper

Sweta Vikram, a renowned Author, Doctor of Ayurveda, Speaker, and Professor, sits down with Jennifer, The Glam Reaper to discuss grief and the profound journey to healing.Sweta shares her personal experiences of losing her father and father-in-law, offering an intimate look at the initial stages of mourning. The discussion highlights the significance of treating those who are grieving with compassion and understanding.Jennifer and Sweta explore the unique nature of grief, underscoring the importance of recognizing each individual's grieving experience. They also address the impact of unresolved grief on both mental and physical health, stressing the need to avoid labeling those who are grieving as simply strong or resilient.Tune in to understand the unique and individual nature of grief and why it’s crucial to recognize it!Key Topics:-Personal loss stories reveal deep emotions-Essential ways to support grieving families-Yoga and Ayurveda secrets for funeral directors-Understanding unique grief reactions at funerals-Hidden dangers of unresolved grief in the funeral industryQuotes  From The Episode: "The grief also brings around this dark side in us. No one talks about that, because the world we live in, we are just supposed to discuss highlighted reels of our lives"- Sweta Vikram"Often times a stranger can be more kind to you and your grief space, where you're in your grief than your friends and your family" - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[03:42] Sweta shared her personal experience of losing her father and father-in-law.[06:23] Jennifer highlighted the importance of treating people who are grieving.[08:48] Sweta emphasized the transformative impact of Yoga and Ayurveda on mental self-reliance.[11:41] Jennifer discussed the importance of recognizing the unique and individual nature of grief.[14:31] Jennifer and Sweta talk about the impact of unresolved grief on mental and physical health.[17:59] Sweta stressed the importance of not labeling those who are grieving as strong or resilient.[20:46] Jennifer delves into the importance of self-care and clear communication in dealing with grief.[24:53] Jennifer and Sweta highlighted the importance of preserving the memory of loved ones through actions.[30:06] Sweta  shared insights from her book "The Loss that Binds Us”.[35:53] OutroConnect with Sweta Vikram:LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/swetavikramWebsite - swetavikram.com Instagram - @swetavikramTwitter/X - @swetavikramConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

In this episode of the Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer has a thoughtful conversation with Kevin Toolis, a writer and BAFTA-winning filmmaker, as they dive into the often overlooked aspects of death and the rituals that surround it.Kevin shares stories from his Irish and Scottish roots, reflecting on how these cultural traditions have shaped his views on life and death. He introduces the Irish wake, a communal and therapeutic practice that offers a striking contrast to modern funeral customs. Drawing from his book, My Father's Wake, Kevin reveals how the open nature of Irish wakes provides a space for grieving and healing, emphasizing the importance of properly honoring the dead.Tune in to explore the timeless rituals that influence our understanding of life, death, and the healing power of communal grief.Key Topics:-Kevin Toolis shares his deep cultural roots and family history-The healing power of the Irish wake in grief-How modern funeral practices change our way of grieving-The comforting role of keening in collective mourning-The keening festival’s efforts to keep these rituals aliveQuotes  From The Episode: “The first best hope of life is that you will be born into a family and people who will love you and the last best hope of life is that you will die within a community who will love you too”- Kevin Toolis“We kind of are born into this world, naked, with no shame, no guilt, you know nothing, and then we go back basically naked” - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:23] Kevin shares insights about his Irish and Scottish heritage, his life on Achill Island, and his book on the traditional Irish wake.[05:28] Kevin elaborates on his book "My Father's Wake: How the Irish Teach Us to Live, Love, and Die.[09:36] Jennifer reflects on the complexities of Irish attitudes toward death and funerals.[15:17] Kevin contrasts the differences between Irish and English funeral practices.[17:29] Jennifer shares her perspective on the importance of modernizing the Irish wake to create personalized.[20:02] Kevin discussed the ancient and cross-cultural tradition of keening.[25:22] Kevin conveyed that the Keening Festival was a tremendous success.[27:15] Kevin emphasized that the festival is designed to be participatory rather than academic.[28:50] OutroConnect with Kevin Toolis:LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/kevin-toolis-43a48912Website - www.wondersofthewake.comInstagram - @thewondersofthewakeTwitter/X - @KevinToolisFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/kevin.toolis/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Tamara Kneese, Author, and Leader of the Data & Society Research Institute’s Algorithmic Impact Methods Lab. They explore the intersection of death, and technology. Tamara, an academic and writer, shares her unique insights into how technology is rapidly changing the landscape of digital legacy and mourning. From her book "Death Glitch" to recent discussions on AI and grief, Tamara reflects on the evolving challenges and the necessity for continuous research in the field of Death and Tech.The conversation delves into the history and evolution of digital cultures, highlighting the rise and fall of startups in the funeral space.Don't miss this insightful discussion on the future of digital legacy and the intersection of technology and mortality!Key Topics:-How technology impacts our final farewell-Navigating digital legacies in the funeral industry-The rise and fall of tech-based funeral services-Preserving memories in a digital age-Ethical concerns with future tech in funeralsQuotes From The Episode: “A lot of my work is more focused on the people who are creating companies and so the startup ecosystem and understanding the motivations behind that”- Tamara Kneese“A funeral is both for the living and the deceased” - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:36] Tamara explored the intersection of digital subcultures[02:49] Jennifer and Tamara shared their experiences and interests in the death industry.[09:00] Tamara expressed discomfort with interviewing grieving individuals for her book.[17:01] Jennifer highlighted the complex emotional and ethical issues surrounding AI and digital legacies.[19:08] Jennifer and Tamara discussed the increasing potential for deception and scams with AI technology.[21:06] Jennifer talks about the limited control over one's digital legacy after death.[23:37] Jennifer and Tamara delve into the need for big tech companies to include memorialization in their policies.[25:18] OutroConnect with Tamara Kneese:LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/tamara-kneeseWebsite - https://www.tamarakneese.com/ Twitter/X - @tamigraphConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

In this third and final part with Caleb Wilde on The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney will discuss the evolving landscape of the funeral industry and nurturing diversity and adapting to different cultures.They delve into the necessity of adapting funeral homes to cater to individual preferences, moving away from rigid scripts and traditions. Caleb reflects on the impact of globalization and changing religious beliefs on traditional funeral services. The conversation touches on the Catholic Church's influence on funeral proceedings and the growing desire for more personalized and inclusive services.Caleb shares his personal experiences with misogyny in the funeral industry, highlighting the ongoing gender inequality and the challenges women face in leadership positions. They discuss the toxicity within the industry, including outdated views on gender and racial profiling in hiring practices.Tune in to understand how funeral homes can better meet the diverse needs of today's families while addressing the significant issues within the industry!Key Topics:-Meeting families' unique needs in funeral services-Navigating the effects of globalization and changing faith on funerals-Addressing gender inequality and support for women in the funeral industry-Combating racial profiling and promoting fair hiring in funeral homes-Prioritizing mental health support for funeral professionalsQuotes From The Episode: I'm attempting to provide people who are burnt out or who have come to a place where they've lost themselves in this business and give them somebody to talk to and somebody who can walk with them. - Caleb WildeFor me, I don't need to go to mass to prove I'm Catholic. I don't need to go to mass to have some guy I don't know preach to me. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:53] Jennifer emphasized that funeral homes need to adapt to the varying needs of families by offering personalized options and meeting families where they are.[02:05] Jennifer and Caleb explained that the decline in traditional funeral services is largely due to the changing role of the church in people's lives.[05:40] Jennifer elaborated on how the church's attempt to remove eulogies from funerals to focus more on the mass and ritual might lead to a purer but smaller congregation.[08:31] Jennifer and Caleb highlighted the similarities between the lack of adaptation in both traditional religion and the death care industry in the United States.[12:32] Caleb shared his early awareness of the misogyny in the funeral industry and recounted numerous stories of harassment he had heard over the years.[17:38] Jennifer noted that while there is a growing number of women entering the funeral industry, many are still in school and won't enter the workforce or attain leadership positions for years.[20:14] Jennifer expressed his desire to start a conversation about mental health in the funeral industry.[25:10] OutroConnect with Caleb Wilde:Facebook - /ConfessionsofaFuneralDirectorWebsite - book.calebwilde.comInstagram - @confessions_of_a_funeral_dirTwitter - @CalebWildeConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145YouTube - https:/

In part 2 of this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney continues her conversation with Caleb Wilde and delves into how the funeral industry is evolving due to generational shifts and technological advancements. Caleb talks about the challenges funeral directors face with rapid changes and resistance to new ideas. He highlights the different communication styles across generations and the pressure to conform to traditional practices in family-owned businesses.Jennifer acknowledges the industry's shift towards more personalized and diverse practices, recognizing that the funeral industry is not static but continually evolving to meet the needs of modern society.Tune in to this enlightening episode as Jennifer and Caleb delve into the evolving challenges and triumphs within the funeral industry!Key Topics:-Struggles of funeral directors with societal changes-Generational differences in adapting to changes in Funeral industry-Challenges between family-owned and corporate-run funeral homes-Importance of trust, transparency, and understanding individual values in supporting grieving families-Mental health challenges faced by funeral directorsQuotes From The Episode: They would rather feel the comfort of doing what they already know, than the discomfort of being challenged to think about something new. - Caleb WildeAll of these moments are sewn together to make these moments happen. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:30] Caleb highlights how funeral directors are struggling to adapt to rapid societal changes.[01:47] Jennifer reflects on generational differences in adapting to change.[04:28] Caleb emphasizes the differences between family-owned and corporate-run funeral homes.[10:29] Jennifer delves into the importance of trust, transparency, and understanding individual values in the funeral industry.[13:58] Caleb talks about his personal journey and experience of writing books.[17:23] Caleb discussed the mental health challenges faced by funeral directors, including burnout, depression, and anxiety.[24:54] Jennifer acknowledges that the funeral industry is evolving towards more personalized and diverse practices.[27:49] OutroConnect with Caleb Wilde:Facebook - /ConfessionsofaFuneralDirectorWebsite - book.calebwilde.comInstagram - @confessions_of_a_funeral_dirTwitter - @CalebWildeConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145You Tube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

In this part 1 episode of the Glam Reaper podcast, Jennifer Muldowney welcomes Caleb Wilde, a prominent funeral director, author and early adopter on social media and as a 'death-influencer’.Caleb is a sixth-generation funeral director and the conversation delves into cultural sensitivity in America, funeral planning and he discusses his upbringing and familial influences that propelled him into this profession.Through candid exchanges, Jennifer and Caleb offer listeners a glimpse into the complex tapestry of funeral directing, navigating personal convictions, familial legacies, and industry dynamics with empathy and insight.Tune in to hear first hand from the man himself some confessions of a funeral director!Key Topics:-Funeral directing with a sixth-generation expert-Reality in Growing up in a family funeral home-Transparency and authenticity in the funeral industry-Generational differences in funeral practices-Navigating tradition and change in funeral worldQuotes From The Episode: We're being changed and molded by the Internet and by globalization.- Caleb WildeI sort of started this podcast because I wanted to have these really interesting conversations with people. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[03:08] Caleb discussed growing up in a family of funeral directors.[08:18] Caleb started "Confessions of a Funeral Director" to find their own voice and self-expression amid the challenges of working in a family-run funeral business.[12:24] Caleb shares how he transitioned from writing about theology to focusing on death and the funeral industry.[17:26] Jennifer delves into her motivations for starting the podcast.[21:38] Caleb reviewed the generational gap within the funeral industry.[27:02] OutroConnect with Caleb Wilde:Facebook - /ConfessionsofaFuneralDirectorWebsite - book.calebwilde.comInstagram - @confessions_of_a_funeral_dirTwitter - @CalebWildeConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145You Tube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer sits down with Mandy Benoualid, co-founder of TalkDeath and Keeper.Mandy shares her journey of recognizing a need for educational content in the death care industry, which led to the creation of TalkDeath and their online memorial provider company Keeper.Jennifer and Mandy conversed about the impact of social media on death and grieving, normalizing conversations around death. They touch upon their social media presence across various platforms and their strategies for engaging with their audience. They talk about the almost mandatory live streaming that is a growing trend in the funeral space.Tune in for a fascinating exploration of unconventional approaches to death and grieving, along with the impact of social media on the funeral industry!Key Topics:-Crafting Heartfelt Online Memorials-Saying Goodbye in the Digital Age-Streamlining Farewell Services Online-Different Perspectives on Death and HealingQuotes From The Episode: It's not just black and white ….. It's also talking about who actually has access to a good death.-Mandy BenoualidI think at the end of the day, what anybody in this space on social media is trying to do is have the community talk about it, like literally talk about death. -Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:59] Mandy discussed how Talk Death originated from her work at Keeper.[03:21] Mandy narrated how Talk Death is primarily supported by Keeper.[05:30] Mandy explained the inception of Keeper Memorials in 2013.[07:58] Mandy described Keeper Memorials as a modern online platform.[09:44] Mandy outlined how Keeper Memorials offers a range of services.[12:20] Mandy elaborates on how Keeper Memorials experienced significant growth during the COVID-19 pandemic.[15:30] Jennifer and Mandy highlight the increasing trend of hybrid funeral services.[18:40] Jennifer and Mandy comment on the prevalence of live-streaming companies specializing in funeral services.[23:57] Mandy shared insights into Talk Death's community engagement efforts.[26:36] Jennifer delves into the importance of open conversations about death and the diverse content available for different audiences.[31:36] OutroConnect with Mandy Benoualin:LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/mandy-benoualidWebsite - https://www.talkdeath.com/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/talkdeathdaily/Twitter - https://twitter.com/TalkDeathDailyConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter -

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer sits down with Rebecca Soffer, Co-founder and CEO of Modern Loss. Rebecca opens up about her personal journey as a grief coach and author, sharing how Modern Loss has become a beacon of solace for countless individuals navigating the tumultuous seas of bereavement.Rebecca also emphasizes the significance of creating safe spaces for individuals to share their experiences and feel understood and Jennifer states the value of providing solace to those grappling with loss, underscoring the universal nature of grief and the need for greater societal understanding and support.Tune in now as we navigate the depths of grief and loss with Rebecca Soffer!Key Topics: -Starting the profound journey through sorrow and grief. -Creating strong connections amid modern experiences of sadness and loss. -Obliterating Stigma Around Grief -Creating Safe Spaces for Sharing -Importance of Being Heard in GriefQuotes  From The Episode: There is no fix for grief, there is no fix for loss- Rebecca SofferWe don't necessarily need somebody to solve all our problems, we just need to be seen, heard, And that's it. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[01:37] Rebecca recounts her journey founding Modern Loss, an online publication and community focused on navigating grief and loss in various aspects of life.[07:46] Jennifer reflects on their unconventional career path, contrasting it with societal expectation.[09:49] Rebecca discusses her diverse approaches to connecting with people through various mediums.[16:27] Rebecca expresses gratitude for Stephen Colbert's support of Modern Loss, discusses the evolution of societal attitudes toward grief.[21:33] Rebecca talks about her focus on real-life interactions and speaking engagements following the release of her second book.[24:21] Jennifer and Rebecca explored various subjects concerning grief, writing, and individual encounters.[27:04] OutroConnect with Rebecca Soffer:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rebeccasoffer/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccasoffer/Twitter - https://twitter.com/rebeccasoffer?lang=enWebsite - https://modernloss.com/the-modern-loss-handbook/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer welcomes Lauren Leroy, a Licensed Funeral Director and the creative mind behind the blog and YouTube channel "Little Miss Funeral." Lauren opens up about the inspiration behind her online platform and how it became a safe space for sharing her journey in the funeral industry.Lauren talked about her decision to prioritize her role as a parent over her career as she explored the delicate balance between family obligations and professional pursuits.Don't miss out on this episode as Jennifer and Lauren discuss prioritizing family over career obligations and the impact that can have on your career and your mental health within the death space. Tune in now!Key Topics:-Fulfilment and Challenges of Balancing Motherhood and Funeral Directing-Coping Mechanisms and Gratitude in Funeral Directing-Mental Health & Self-Care in the Funeral Industry-The Influence of Social Media on Death Care-Emotional Toll of Funeral Directing during COVID-19Quotes From The Episode: I just think that it's very difficult to be a devoted funeral director and a present parent at the same time.- Lauren LeroyI can sleep at night knowing I gave that family all that I could in whatever way I could. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:55] Lauren discusses the origins of her blog and YouTube channel, "Little Miss Funeral.”[07:12] Lauren deliberated her personal experiences of dealing with pregnancy and then motherhood as a funeral director.[08:53] Jennifer reflects on the profound shifts in life trajectories, particularly for women.[11:27] Lauren on her decision to prioritize her role as a parent over her career as a funeral director.[13:38] Jennifer talks about prioritizing family over career obligations, and reflects on the finite nature of life.[15:55] Lauren explored her initial expectation of returning to work soon after having children due to her love for her profession as a funeral director.[18:23] Jennifer analyzed the need for a shift in perspective within the funeral industry towards part-time work arrangements[22:39] Lauren emphasised the personal growth gained from experiencing loss themselves.[27:24] Jennifer acknowledged the role of funeral professionals as informal therapists due to their empathetic nature[28:51] Lauren talked about the evolution of the funeral industry in the age of social media.[34:47] Jennifer and Lauren conversed about the coping mechanisms used in dealing with traumatic situations in the funeral industry.[38:14] OutroConnect with Lauren Leroy:LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/lauren-k-leroy-1679a3179https://twitter.com/lttlemissfunerl?lang=enhttps://littlemissfuneral.wordpress.com/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYb7bNwEw59Gew3w0S5Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials &

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, our host Jennifer sits down with Megan Sheldon, the CEO and founder of Be Ceremonial to talk about Megan’s journey with recurrent pregnancy loss and grief, which ultimately inspired her to create the Be Ceremonial app. As the conversation unfolds, Megan highlights the significance of marking life's significant moments, a sentiment that resonates deeply with Jennifer. Together, they explore the innate human inclination towards ceremony, reflecting on the ways in which rituals enrich our lives and offer comfort in times of need.Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that celebrates the human spirit and the transformative power of ceremony. Tune in now!Key Topics:-Celebrate life's moments uniquely with loved ones.-Nurturing healing through meaningful traditions.-Crafting cherished moments that honor your journey.-Embracing tradition while adapting to modernity.-Cultivating self-care habits for a balanced life.Quotes From The Episode: So many of us are scared to bring that grief to the surface. - Megan Sheldon And that's really what grief is. It's just the closing of a chapter. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:35] Megan discussed her personal experience with recurrent pregnancy loss and grief, leading to the creation of an app called Be ceremonial.[3:19] Megan described how the pandemic prompted them to consolidate their knowledge of creating ceremonies into an accessible platform.[06:12] Megan explained how they structured their app around the traditional rite of passage.[10:57] Jennifer reflects on the importance of marking significant life moments.[13:06] Jennifer and Megan emphasizes that humans are inherently ceremonial beings.[14:52] Megan recounts a touching story of her father's improvisation of a meaningful ritual during a lunch gathering for a terminally ill friend.[17:46] Jennifer shares her experience of celebrating her 40th birthday in Ireland with friends.[20:19] Megan reflects on Maya Angelou's sentiment about the lasting impact of emotions over words or actions.[24:16] Megan discusses the inception of their app during the early days of the pandemic.[30:11] OutroConnect with Megan SheldonLinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/megansheldonWebsite - beceremonial.com - seekingceremony.com Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]: http://www.theglamreaper.com/

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, your host Jennifer engages in conversation with Lisa, co-creator of the “Death Deck.” Lisa unveils the inspiration behind her creation, the Death Deck, a tool designed to foster open conversations about the often-taboo topic of death.Jennifer and Lisa openly discuss the challenges associated with entering the death-related industry, shedding light on the nuances and sensitivities involved. As the episode unfolds, Jennifer delves into the significance of early exposure to death, unraveling the layers of understanding and acceptance that come with confronting mortality from a young age.Join them as they discuss headless chickens, drowned kittens, farm living, playing cards, talking death, challenging societal norms, and embracing the profound wisdom that these conversations bring!Key Topics:-Journey into the Realm of Death with the Death Deck Card Game-Approaching Change in the End-of-Life Industry with Compassion-Understanding How the Irish View Death-Facing Death with Open Hearts and a Touch of Humor-Farm living = Life and Death.Quotes From The Episode: Is this reality that if we really contemplate the fact that we're going to die, and that our time is finite, then are we living the lives who want to be living? - Lisa PahlPeople are not going to change overnight in terms of suddenly want to talk about death, because it's a very scary topic. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:54] Lisa discussed the creation of the death deck as a tool to encourage open conversations about death and end-of-life preferences[02:11] Jennifer reflects on the misconception that Irish people are adept at discussing death[3:37] Lisa discusses the gamification aspect of the Death deck[05:10] Jennifer and Lisa shares insights on the challenges of entering the death-related industry[09:11] Jennifer discusses the gradual acceptance of conversations around death[11:29] Jennifer and Lisa discussed questions from the Death deck[16:19] Jennifer shares memories of her grandmother's tough but pragmatic approach to life and death on the farm in Ireland[19:12] Jennifer delves into the significance of early exposure to death[21:52] Jennifer and Lisa discuss the concept of the Death deck as a tool to encourage people to contemplate their mortality and live more intentionally[25:39] OutroConnect with Lisa Pahl:Website - https://thedeathdeck.com/pages/about-usInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedeathdeck/Linkedin - linkedin.com/in/lisa-pahl-lcsw-89669070Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaper<

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, our host Jennifer sits down with Heather Taylor, a mortician with a wealth of experience in the funeral business. Heather shares her journey from Pittsburgh to Seattle and eventually settling in Michigan, recounting the pivotal moment that led her to make these life-changing moves. She also spills the tea on her experience with dating in deathcare!Heather reflects on the versatility of a degree in the mortuary field, emphasizing the diverse interests and skills that draw individuals to the funeral industry. Jennifer adds her unique perspective on different aspects of deathcare, highlighting the importance of continuous learning and knowledge-sharing within the profession.Tune in as they navigate the intricate world of dating, deathcare and beyond!Key Topics: -Dating and catfishing in the deathcare business! -Insights into Eye Recovery and Organ/Tissue Donation -Impact of Social Media on the Deathcare Profession -Continuous Learning in the Funeral Industry -Challenges in Finding Qualified Personnel for Mortuary Positions -Autopsy and Anatomic Age LearningQuotes From The Episode: Be careful what you put on the internet because you never know what's gonna go viral. - Heather TaylorWe're all learning, we're all humans, we're all subject to imperfections - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:01] Jennifer and Heather discussed Heather's experiences as a mortician in the United States.[01:17]  Jennifer and Heather discuss her recent move from Pittsburgh to Seattle and then to Michigan.[02:51] Heather shares her story of meeting someone he admired and moving to Michigan.[04:45] Heather recounts the unexpected and challenging aspects of his long-distance relationship.[06:15] Heather describes her work in Michigan, specifically in eye recovery for transplants.[08:09]  Jennifer and Heather conversation shifts to the challenges of online dating and the curated image people present on social media.[10:29] Heather provides insight into the process of organ and tissue recovery after clinical death.[13:22] Heather reflects on the versatility of a degree in the mortuary field.[14:35] Jennifer discusses her perspective on different aspects of the funeral industry and how it attracts individuals with diverse interests and skills.[16:36] Jennifer and Heather discuss the importance of individuals in the funeral or deathcare space being eager to learn and share knowledge.[18:26] Jennifer and Heather discuss the various facets within the deathcare profession.[22:09] Heather delved into her journey from using social media for fun to becoming a professional content creator.[24:42] Jennifer discussed her frustration with online negativity towards influencers.[27:33] Jennifer and Heather discusses their desire to explore spooky places in the US, including a potential road trip to Poughkeepsie, New York, and mentions the infamous Poughkeepsie tapes.[32:19] Jennifer shares her idea for a TV show exploring the history of cemeteries.[34:37] Podcast OutroConnect with Heather Taylor:Website - https://linktr.ee/beforethecoffinInstagram - instagram.com/beforethecoffinYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSHafduJWhCBzxjnJpVVddQTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@beforethecoffinConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials:

In this episode, Jennifer sits down with Kim Zavrotny of Funeral Peer Support to explore the world of global (peer) support for funeral professionals. The conversation kicks off with Jennifer expressing her admiration for their podcast "Stronger Together" and delving into her personal journey of discovering and connecting with the tight-knit funeral peer support community.The discussion takes an insightful turn as Jennifer opens up about facing resistance to unconventional attitudes within the funeral profession.Kim, the driving force behind the peer support group, shares the origin story of this vital community. As they delve into the volunteer nature of the organization, Kim sheds light on the heartfelt commitment that fuels this network. Tune in to gain valuable insights into the impactful work of this volunteer-driven global community!Key Topics: -Exploring the Unconventional Perspectives Within the Funeral Profession -Origin Story of the Funeral Peer Support Group -Certification and Licensing in the Funeral Profession -Contemplation of Death and Mental HealthQuotes  From The Episode: What we want to do is we want to be that that person or that entity that people have to turn to - Kim ZavrotnyBut if it's not helpful for one person, does that mean it shouldn't be done at all?. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[01:25] Kim discussed the global peer support network for funeral professionals[04:35] Jennifer expresses admiration for the podcast "Stronger Together" and shares their personal journey of discovering and connecting with the funeral peer support community.[6:46] Jennifer discusses encountering resistance to unconventional attitudes in the funeral profession[09:39] Kim shares the origin story of the peer support group[12:31] Kim explains the volunteer nature of the organization[15:35] Kim provides the website link for donations and information about sponsorship levels[18:20] Podcast OutroConnect with Kim Zavrotny Linkedin - linkedin.com/in/kimberly-zavrotny-37485426Website - https://funeralspeersupport.com/Events - https://www.cremationassociation.org/event/peersupportConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaper<

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, our host Jennifer sits down with Emily Nelson, Founder & CEO at Be a Tree Cremation, to delve into a unique and eco-friendly approach to end-of-life disposition – also known as water cremation, resomation or alkaline hydrolysis.Take a listen as Jennifer and Emily explore the emotional and sometimes perplexing choices people make when it comes to end-of-life disposition. From the initial care of the deceased to the actual water cremation procedure, Emily provides insights into the thoughtful process they follow at their facility.In addition, Jennifer and Emily discuss the legal aspects and regulations surrounding water cremation, acknowledging the challenges and variations in state regulations across the United States.Tune into this insightful conversation as they navigate the waters of water cremation and its impact on the funeral industry!Key Topics:-Introducing water cremation as a compassionate and innovative way to bid farewell.-Understanding the final metamorphosis of bones in the concluding stages of the process.-Exploring unconventional choices and anticipating transformation within the funeral space-Water cremation - what it is and isn't-Navigating the legal intricacies and regulations associated with water cremation Quotes From The Episode: We created Be a Tree cremation because I wanted to give people a viable path to get to that point and feel that connection. - Emily NelsonIt's not always logical why people choose what they choose. - Jennifer MuldowneyTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[00:52] Emily talks about Be a Tree Cremation, where they use a process called water cremation or alkaline hydrolysis[04:37] Jennifer addresses the misconception and controversy surrounding water cremation.[7:22] Emily explains that they don't encounter much resistance or negative reactions from people who have a direct interaction with their facility or receive proper education about the process of water cremation.[09:10] Jennifer and Emily discuss the emotional and sometimes illogical aspects of people's choices regarding end-of-life disposition.[13:45] Emily walks the audience through the process of water cremation, starting from the initial care of the deceased to the actual procedure.[16:49] Jennifer and Emily talk about the final breakdown of skeletal remains in water cremation, highlighting the similarity to traditional cremation where the remains are transformed into ash-like powder. [19:48] Jennifer and Emily briefly go over the legal aspects and regulations surrounding water cremation.[22:26] Jennifer’s take on the challenges and variations in state regulations regarding cremation methods in the United States.[24:07] Emily expresses her perspective on how disposition methods reflect individuals' values and desires in treating their bodies.[25:28] Podcast OutroConnect with Emily Nelson Website - https://www.beatreecremation.com/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/beatreecremation/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Be-a-Tree-CremationTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@beatreecremationConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.faceboo

In this first episode for Season 4 of The Glam Reaper podcast, Jennifer sits down with Dr. Sara Murphy—a death educator, certified thanatologist, bereavement consultant, and expert in suicide and disenfranchised grief with an unconventional journey into the field. During the discussion, Jennifer and Dr. Murphy touch on their convention sessions, including the groundbreaking launch of safe zone training and a candid exploration of suicide risk in the death care professions.The conversation takes an emotional turn as Jennifer delves into the challenges of addressing societal issues in the field of death care. Tune in to this episode for a human perspective on the intersection of psychology, death care, and the intricate threads that bind them together.Key Topics:-Diving into prevention strategies with Dr. Sara Murphy-Empowering funeral service experts through prevention and education-Enhancing prevention efforts and cultivating awareness on suicide-Cultivating mental wellness in the funeral industry-Dealing with emotional distress, fostering psychological well-being, and tackling the aftermath of violent incidents in an educational settingNotable Words From The Episode: And I think because we live in a culture that is both in an epidemic of suicide, but also in an epidemic of interpersonal violence, there is this weird shifting between horror and normalization of living like this- Dr. Sara MurphyThese school shootings and with everything, there's so many facets to it as the point that it's not just clear cut; it's not black and white. - JenniferTimestamp:[00:00] Podcast Intro[01:13] Jennifer and Dr. Sara talk about the involvement with the NFDA (National Funeral Directors Association), their presentations at the convention, including the launch of safe zone training and a session on suicide risk in the death care professions[03:25] Dr. Sara talks about her unconventional path to becoming a certified thanatologist.[7:36] Jennifer discusses the emotional challenges involved in dealing with societal issues[09:46] Dr. Sara  emphasizes the significance of language in discussing suicide[11:46] Dr. Sara describes their 14-week, in-person course on suicide, covering classical theories from Freudian and Durkheimian perspectives before delving into a more integrated theory.[15:04]  Jennifer expresses interest in the fascinating topic of psychology and the human brain[17:04] Dr. Sara discusses their presentation on suicide risk within death care professions at the NFDA[22:16] Jennifer shares her thoughts on the complex and multifaceted nature of traumatic events.[29:47] Dr. Sara delves into the impact of mass death events on communities and individuals.[38:12] Podcast OutroConnect with Dr. Sara Murphy Website - https://www.deathdoc.com/Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Memorialshttps://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Petshttps://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials Twitter - https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaperEmail us - [email protected] to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts:

Have you ever wondered how someone becomes a "Death Doula"? Stream this week's episode and discover the incredible journey of Kelly Fabiano, aka "The Death Doula,” and get ready to dive into her unique life story that led her to this remarkable path.Join your host, Jennifer, as she chats with Kelly about her mission to empower women to embrace life unapologetically and stop putting off their own happiness. Kelly's insights and guidance have helped countless women live boldly and authentically. Tune in to uncover her inspiring strategies that will leave you feeling motivated to make the most of every moment.And that's not all! With the future of the funeral space rapidly evolving, Kelly shares her thoughts on where she thinks the industry is headed. Don't miss this thought-provoking conversation that sheds light on the changing landscape of saying goodbye!LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- A sneak peak into Kelly’s life journey and how she became known as the “Death Doula”- How Kelly supports women who are ready to stop postponing their happiness to live boldly, authentically, and unapologetically- The future of the funeral industry Connect with the Kelly Fabiano:Website: https://lifeanddeathwithkelly.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tilldeathdoulaparts/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tilldeathdoulapartsConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]

In this episode of The Glam Reaper podcast, your host Jennifer sits down with Brienna Smith, the Chief Operating Officer of Return Home—a full-service green funeral home offering Terramation (human composting services). They dive into important topics that might sound unfamiliar but are essential for understanding the cycle of life.Return Home was born with the idea of providing families with a kind, clear, and open way to take care of their loved ones after they pass away. It’s a unique and natural approach that keeps the circle of life going. And while the concept of Terramation may sound strange, it's also a way to let a person's body become part of the Earth again naturally. No fancy chemicals, just nature doing its thing.Ever wondered how long it takes for a body to return to the Earth? Brienna breaks it down for us. It's not something we think about every day, but understanding the process can help us appreciate the Earth's ways.Methane and other gases are also on the agenda. You’ve probably only heard these terms in science class, but here, they're connected to the natural process of a body returning to the Earth. Brienna explains how these gases are involved in the cycle.Tune in to this episode to learn about these down-to-earth topics on how to embrace the end of life with openness while understanding the natural journey we all take.LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- The Birth of Return Home: Providing families access to inclusive, gentle, transparent death care that continues the cycle of life- What is human composting?- How long does it take to return a body to Earth?- What role do methane and other gases play in the process of terramation?Connect with the Brienna Smith:Website: https://returnhome.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@returnhomenorInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/returnhomenor/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@returnhomenorConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]

Welcome to another episode of the Glam Reaper Podcast! This time, Jennifer sits down with Amber Carvaly, who you probably know as the 'Mortician in the Kitchen'. Curious how she got that name? Tune in as Amber shares her life story and everything that led her to this special title.But there is more to this conversation than just Amber’s story, as she and Jennifer also chat about topics that some find hard to talk about death, dying, and yes, even food. So if you’ve ever thought of turning feelings of loss into something tasty, you’re not alone! Stream this episode and learn about Amber’s unique recipe, which is inspired by the ways we remember and honor our loved ones. And, make sure you don’t miss out on their tips on how you can make it easier to talk about difficult topics such as death and dying. We hope you enjoy this episode!LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- Amber’s journey through life that led her to becoming the ‘Mortician in the Kitchen’- The fascinating and oftentimes taboo topics of death, dying, and food- Irish funerals and food- How to bring these taboo topics to light and make them more accessible for everyone.- Converting grief into recipes: A recipe inspired by funerals and memorial servicesConnect with the Amber Carvaly:Website: https://www.morticianinthekitchen.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morticianinthekitchenInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/morticianinthekitchen Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]

Welcome to another episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast! This week, your host, Jennifer, welcomes an exceptional guest who shares not only her name but also a deep interest in understanding the complexities of loss, grief, and death. Meet Jennifer Moran Stritch, a leading light in the field of grief research at the Technological University of the Shannon: Midlands Midwest.First up, Jennifer walks us through her personal journey. From her early interests and experiences to her current position as the Primary Principal Investigator of the Loss and Grief Research Group, we'll get an insightful glimpse into the path that led her to become an expert in this field.Then, we dive into something that is often overlooked in schools—the all-important conversation surrounding loss, grief, and death. Why is it that these vital subjects don't make it to the classroom discussion often enough? Listen as Jennifer shares her perspective on this crucial issue and emphasizes the importance of breaking the silence around these ‘taboos’ in schools.And, as we all know, the COVID-19 pandemic dramatically shifted the world's perspective on many things, including how we view death. Our two Jennifers delve into this significant shift and explore how the global health crisis has changed our collective understanding and experience of death.Finally, we cap off this episode with a fascinating look at the evolution of how people perceive death. How have our views changed from the past to the present? What can we learn from these changes? Don't miss out on this intriguing discussion! Join us on this journey as we continue to demystify death and provide a safe space for these essential conversations. Whether you're a faithful follower or a new listener, this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast is sure to provide valuable insights and foster a deeper understanding of life's ultimate inevitability—death.LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- Get to know more about Jennifer Moran Stritch’s background and journey- Why students don't talk enough about loss, grief, and death- The importance of talking about loss, grief, and death in schools- How COVID drastically changed the way people view death- The evolution of people’s perspective on death: Past vs. PresentConnect with Jennifer Moran Stritch:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermoranstritch/Twitter: https://twitter.com/stritchj Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmai

In this heartwarming episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, your host Jennifer Muldowney sits down with the amazing Dr. Kathryn Mannix, author of the insightful and thought-provoking book 'With The End In Mind.' Together, they delve into the profound wisdom of dying and death that the book captures.Dr. Mannix's contributions to the realm of palliative care extend far beyond authorship. She is recognized for initiating the first Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) clinic exclusively dedicated to palliative care patients, potentially a global first. She has also created a 'CBT First Aid' training module designed to empower her fellow healthcare professionals and help them up-skill and improve patient care. The topic of death often invokes fear and apprehension. However, Dr. Mannix's extensive experience in caring for the dying suggests an alternative perspective, one that portrays death as less frightening and more peaceful than generally perceived. This episode highlights the reasons behind the common fear of dying and discuss potential ways to alleviate such anxieties. But today's discussion is not just about death and the fears that people associate with it. It’s also a conversation of hope and resilience, as Dr. Mannix also tells stories from her years in palliative care that highlight these qualities. These narratives are proof that love and hope can flourish even in the most challenging circumstances. Stream this episode and join us for this insightful and inspirational discussion on hope, resilience, and death.LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- Dr. Mannix’s book, With the End in Mind, which reacquaints us with the universal, but deeply personal, process of dying- Her 30-year career in palliative care and her life’s journey- How Dr. Katherine's experience in palliative care reveals that the process of dying can be less frightening and more peaceful- Why most people fear dying- The beauty of human resilience: Dr. Kathryn’s stories from dark places of hope and loveResources Mentioned:With the End in Mind: https://www.amazon.com/End-Mind-Dying-Wisdom-Denial/dp/0316504483Connect with Dr. Kathryn Mannix:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrKathrynMannix/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkathrynmanniWebsite: https://withtheendinmind.co.uk/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter -

Welcome to another soul-stirring episode of The Glam Reaper podcast! This time, our host, Jennifer, invites us into a heart-to-heart conversation with Louise Griffey, the founder of Light After Loss. Louise isn't just your typical guest - she's an Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist specializing in helping individuals grieving the loss of a pet. With her journey marked by the end of a significant relationship and the loss of her beloved pets, she found solace and purpose in The Grief Recovery Method®. Her experience is a compelling exploration of grief, recovery, and the strength of the human spirit.This episode of The Glam Reaper is a profound conversation that underscores the power of empathy, compassion, and resilience in the healing process. Here, Louise's dedication to assisting others through their grief, whether it concerns a human or a pet, shines brightly. This is not just a conversation; it's an invitation to understand the power of healing.Join Jennifer and Louise for an inspiring and insightful episode that offers a fresh perspective on loss, love, and the journey towards recovery.LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- Louise’s journey through life that led her to found Light After Loss- How does the Grief Recovery Method work? - The therapeutic benefits of the Pet Loss Support program- Different ways to overcome pet lossConnect with the Louise Griffey:Website: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/louise-griffeyWebsite: https://www.lightafterloss.ie/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]

What if the final stage of your human journey could support the circle of life in the most natural and earth-friendly way?Welcome to an inspiring discussion that pushes the boundaries of tradition and catalyzes a much-needed conversation about eco-consciousness, even after life. In today's episode, Jennifer dives into that which is not just shaking the ground, but actually, returns us to it. Join Jennifer and Sandra, aka ‘The Radical Reaper,’ as they explore this groundbreaking concept, shedding light on how we can take our environmental responsibilities beyond our human experience. Get ready to redefine the cycle of life and death, as we explore the delicate, but profound intersection of mortality, dignity, and eco-consciousness. One of Sandra’s goals for 2023 is to get the word out there, and educate families on their rights in the funeral service. What are the thoughts of our fellow Irish people? Do you think alkaline hydrolysis or green burial will take off in Ireland?“My goal is to educate families on their rights that they have in the funeral service.” - Sandra BakerLITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:- How Sandra, The Radical Reaper, became a licensed mortician in three states. - Freelance funeral director? Explore the possibility of stepping into the world of freelancing!- TheEnd.Green Foundation: Providing access to education, support, & funding for those advancing a more symbiotic relationship with death and dying.- What happens when our planet’s burial space reaches its full capacity?- The green future of human composting, alkaline hydrolysis, and other types of green burial arrangements.Connect with Sandra Baker:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandra-baker-4106b71a6Instagram: @The_Radical_Reaper Website: www.theradicalreaper.orgConnect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:Facebook Page - Muldowney Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/Facebook Page - Rainbow Bridge Memorials: https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcomInstagram - @muldowneymemorials & @jennifermuldowneyTwitter - @TheGlamReaperEmail us here: [email protected]