
The Elevated Man
Apollonia Ponti
Show overview
The Elevated Man has been publishing since 2023, and across the 3 years since has built a catalogue of 104 episodes. That works out to roughly 20 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a weekly cadence.
Episodes typically run ten to twenty minutes — most land between 9 min and 15 min — though episode length varies meaningfully from one episode to the next. None of the episodes are flagged explicit by the publisher. It is catalogued as a EN-language Education show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 1 weeks ago, with 13 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2024, with 52 episodes published. Published by Apollonia Ponti.
From the publisher
This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts!
Latest Episodes
View all 104 episodesNavigating Life's Seasons: Honest Lessons on Growth, Motherhood, and Emotional Strength with Apollonia Ponti
Trauma and Dating: What You Need to Know! (And how to Navigate this)
Entitled Woman Does This! (And How to Know if Your Dating One!)
Why Women Test Men — and What They're Really Looking For!
The Truth About What Women Say vs. What They Actually Choose (THE GOOD MAN TRAP)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti The Truth About What Women Say vs. What They Actually Choose (THE GOOD MAN TRAP) In this podcast episode, we dive into a conversation that challenges a common belief: if you're a good man, things should naturally work out. But what happens when the traits that define a "good man" aren't always what create attraction? Apollonia Ponti explores the disconnect between what women say they want and what they emotionally choose. She breaks down how trauma bonding, validation-seeking, and emotional familiarity can shape relationship decisions, even when a stable and grounded partner is present. Many men find themselves confused when their consistency and kindness don't lead to deeper connection, and this episode examines why that happens. This discussion also covers the validation addiction that can be mistaken for love, what often occurs when a genuinely good man enters the picture, and why rejection doesn't always mean you weren't enough. Apollonia explains how to interpret statements like "I just want peace," and what a grounded response looks like without over-pursuing or losing self-respect. The conversation offers a clearer perspective on the "good man trap," helping men understand attraction dynamics, avoid emotional overinvestment, and focus on building healthier, more balanced relationships! Key points in this episode! 0:32 — Why Women Think They Want a Good Man 1:18 — What Makes a Man "Good"? 2:17 — Trauma Bonding in Relationships 3:46 — The Validation Addiction 4:32 — When a Good Man Shows Up 5:30 — It's Not Always That You Weren't Enough 6:07 — When a Woman Says She Wants Peace. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
How To Spot An Avoidant Woman! (How A Grounded Man Should Respond)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Spot An Avoidant Woman! (How A Grounded Man Should Respond) In this podcast episode, we dive into a conversation many men quietly struggle with: how to recognize an avoidant woman and respond without losing your confidence or emotional stability. Apollonia Ponti explores the subtle behaviors that often signal avoidant attachment, including mixed signals, emotional distance, and inconsistency. She explains how independence can sometimes be confused with emotional unavailability, and why many men end up chasing harder when they feel a woman pulling away. This episode breaks down the common mistakes men make when dealing with avoidant behavior, why over-pursuing creates more distance, and how a grounded man maintains boundaries while staying calm and self-assured. Apollonia also discusses the importance of emotional pacing, recognizing red flags early, and understanding when to lean in versus when to step back. The conversation offers a balanced perspective on navigating avoidant dynamics, encouraging men to stay centered, communicate clearly, and build healthier connections instead of reacting emotionally to uncertainty. Key points in this episode! 0:33 — Why High Standards Are Attractive. How strong standards signal confidence and self-respect. 1:25 — What High Standards Look Like. A quick example of standards in behavior and boundaries. 2:07 — Why Some Women Act Above You. Apollonia explains the psychology behind this perception. 3:14 — The Misuse of Content. How online content consumption hurts your dating mindset. 4:41 — Weaponizing Status and Money. Why leading with money or status backfires. 6:11 — The Hard Truth Men Need to Hear. A direct message about growth and responsibility Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
Men Are Being Lied To About Women! "The Advice Making Men Bitter (Not Better)"
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Men Are Being Lied To About Women! "The Advice Making Men Bitter (Not Better)" In this podcast episode, we dive into a conversation that's gaining attention: are men actually improving themselves, or are they being misled by dating advice that's making them more bitter instead of better? Apollonia Ponti explores the contradictions men hear when trying to level up and how unrealistic examples can create confusion, frustration, and resentment. From the belief that money automatically improves dating outcomes to the pressure to gain endless experience, many men are following advice that doesn't lead to healthier relationships. This episode breaks down the flawed logic behind misleading dating narratives, why some men online feel increasingly angry toward women, and whether relationship experience truly matters. Apollonia also discusses how abundance can become addictive, why financial success alone doesn't guarantee connection, and why feelings don't always follow agreement. The conversation offers a more balanced perspective on modern dating, encouraging men to rethink what growth actually looks like and how to build better relationship mindsets — not just chase surface-level improvements. Key points in this episode! 0:33 — This segment is for men focused on leveling up and improving themselves. 1:28 — One of the biggest contradictions men hear in dating, and an explanation of what it really means. 2:15 — What happens when men take advice from false or unrealistic examples. 3:02 — The key idea men need to understand about relationships. 4:23 — The logic behind misleading dating advice. 5:01 — The "money piece": why financial success doesn't automatically lead to better relationship outcomes 6:08 — Why many men online seem frustrated or angry toward women. 7:08 — Whether relationship experience is actually important. 8:44 — How abundance can lead to addiction-like behavior. 9:41 — Why feelings don't always follow agreement. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
Why Men Don't Feel Safe to Love Women Anymore. Men Aren't Cold… They're Guarded!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Why Men Don't Feel Safe to Love Women Anymore. Men Aren't Cold… They're Guarded! In this episode, we dive into a conversation that's becoming more common but rarely discussed openly: why many men say they no longer feel safe to love. Are men becoming cold, or have they simply become more guarded? Apollonia Pont will explore how modern dating culture, emotional vulnerability, and the pressure to perform in relationships have shaped how men approach love today. From the fear of weaponized vulnerability to the "option mindset" created by dating apps and social media, many men feel that opening up emotionally can backfire. This episode breaks down why some men hold back, how good men can become guarded over time, and what it really means when a man says he doesn't feel emotionally safe. More importantly, we talk about what healthy vulnerability and stronger mindsets can look like in modern relationships. Men aren't cold — they're protecting themselves. Let's talk about why! Key points in this episode! 0:34 — Are men really afraid of love? Let's talk about what's actually going on. 1:08 — When a man says "I don't feel safe," here's what he might really mean. 2:10 — Weaponized vulnerability: what it is and how it shows up in relationships. 4:01 — Why modern dating can start to feel like a performance. 5:13 — The "option mindset" and how it's changing the dating scene. 6:11 — Why good men sometimes become guarded over time. 7:22 — What men can do to build a stronger mindset in dating and relationships. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
Masculine vs Feminine Energy! (Why this is So Important to get the Woman You Want!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti In this podcast episode, we explore the deeper truth behind why so many modern relationships struggle to last. Apollonia ponti will break down the hidden dynamic that often goes unnoticed: the loss of balance between masculine and feminine energy. You'll learn how modern dating culture, emotional safety, and the "option mindset" can slowly erode trust, connection, and attraction. We also discuss why many good men become guarded over time, why relationships today can feel more like a performance, and how mismatched expectations between partners create distance rather than intimacy. Most importantly, we uncover the #1 reason modern relationships fail—and what both partners can do to restore polarity, emotional security, and genuine connection. If you've ever wondered why dating feels more complicated today, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and practical perspective for building a stronger, more conscious partnership. Key points in this episode! 0:34 — Why Men Aren't Actually Afraid of Love 1:11 — What It Really Means When a Man Says He Doesn't Feel Safe 2:07 — The Biggest Reasons Men Don't Feel Emotionally Safe With Women 3:21 — Coach Call Advertisement: Book a Call with Apollonia 4:05 — How Modern Dating Has Turned Into a Performance 5:16 — The "Option Mindset" and How It Affects Relationships 6:40 — Why Good Men Become Guarded Over Time (And How to Unlearn It) 7:03 — Why Looking for the Right Traits in a Partner Matters Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
#1 Reason Why Modern Relationships FAIL! (Don't Let this happen to You!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti #1 Reason Why Modern Relationships FAIL! (Don't Let this happen to You!) In this episode, we explore the deeper truth behind why so many modern relationships struggle to last. Inspired by the teachings of Apollonia Ponti, we break down the hidden dynamic that often goes unnoticed: the loss of masculine vs. feminine energy polarity. You'll learn how shifting social roles, emotional disconnection, and mismatched life vision can quietly weaken attraction and connection over time. Most importantly, we uncover the #1 reason modern relationships fail—and what both partners can do to restore balance, chemistry, and emotional harmony. If you've ever wondered why relationships feel different today, or how to bring back natural attraction and alignment, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and practical perspective for building a stronger, more conscious partnership! Key points in this episode! 0:00 – Introduction 0:35 – Why Modern Relationships Are Failing 1:11 – What Happens When Polarity Disappears 2:01 – Why Many Women Feel Pushed Into the Masculine Role 3:15 – Masculine vs. Feminine Energy Explained 4:10 – Common Misunderstandings About Polarity 5:12 – How to Restore Polarity in a Relationship 6:04 – The Power of Sharing the Same Life Vision 6:50 – Closing Reflection Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
5 Reasons Why Men Are Happy Single In 2026!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 5 Reasons Why Men Are Happy Single In 2026! In this podcast episode, we dive into a powerful conversation about modern dating, independence, and why more men are choosing—and thriving—while staying single in 2026. We explore the deeper psychology behind this shift, including how men are prioritizing mental health, peace, and self-respect over traditional relationship expectations. From the realities of dating apps to the growing expectancy gap, this episode breaks down what's driving men to step back from dating—and why it's not about bitterness, but clarity. We also unpack the new "mode" men are entering, where personal fulfillment, boundaries, and intentional living take center stage. This conversation sheds light on how modern dynamics are changing and what it really means to be happy, grounded, and fulfilled without forcing relationships! Key points in this episode! 0:30 – Why men are choosing to stay single in 2026? 1:17 – The five reasons men want to stay single! 2:12 – Reason #2: Men's mental health and protecting their peace! 3:48 – Reason #3: The dating app reality? 4:44 – Reason #4: The expectancy gap? 6:01 – The mode men are entering into? Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
When To Walk Away! (This will Lead you to the Right Woman!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti When To Walk Away! (This will lead you to the Right Woman!) In this podcast episode of the Elevated Man Podcast, Apollonia Ponti dives into a powerful conversation around attraction, communication, and masculine leadership in modern dating. Apollonia explores the deeper psychology behind how women respond emotionally, why intention and direction matter in communication, and how men often lose attraction without realizing it. She breaks down common mistakes, explains what creates emotional engagement, and shares practical insights on how to show up confidently without forcing outcomes or playing games. This episode is for men who want clarity, confidence, and a grounded understanding of how attraction actually works—so conversations flow naturally and connection feels effortless! Key points in this episode! 0:00 — Episode introduction & setting the context 1:10 — Why most men misunderstand attraction and communication 2:45 — The psychology behind emotional engagement 4:20 — Common communication mistakes that lower attraction 6:05 — How intention and leadership change the dynamic 8:10 — Creating confidence without chasing or forcing outcomes 10:00 — Key takeaways and final thoughts Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
3 Texting Formulas To Make Her Chase You Version!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 3 Texting Formulas To Make Her Chase You Version! In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down 3 Texting Formulas To Make Her Chase You and explains why most men unknowingly text in ways that lower attraction. Apollonia reveals what's really happening psychologically when you send her a message—and why her responses are never random. We explore why texting is a formula, how specific messages influence her emotional engagement, and what a callback text is and why it works so powerfully. Apollonia also explains advanced variation, how to avoid predictable texting patterns, and why leading in conversation creates confidence, direction, and desire. If you've ever felt stuck overthinking your texts, confused by mixed signals, or frustrated when conversations fade, this episode gives you clarity and proven strategies to text with confidence—without chasing, forcing attraction, or playing games. Key points in this episode! 0:33 — What it means when you send her a text and she responds this way 1:03 — Why texting follows a formula — Apollonia explains 2:11 — How these messages influence her response and attraction 3:34 — What a callback text is and why it works 5:00 — Advanced variation: what it is and how to use it 6:25 — How leading in texting impacts attraction — Apollonia breaks it down Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
Use this Method of Push and Pull to Get the Woman you WANT! (why this works!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Use this Method of Push and Pull to Get the Woman you WANT! (why this works!) In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what push and pull really means in dating and why this method works so powerfully when done correctly. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind push and pull and how emotional balance—not chasing or withdrawing—creates attraction. We explore the five upgraded formulas of high-value push and pull, how to properly compliment and disqualify a woman without lowering your value, and why many men fail by focusing on words instead of energy. Apollonia also explains what happens when push and pull is missing, and how that leads to loss of attraction and emotional disconnection. Finally, we discuss why push and pull is about emotional presence, confidence, and self-control rather than manipulation or games. Apollonia shares real-life examples you can apply immediately to create attraction naturally and consistently. If you've ever felt confused about when to lean in or pull back, this episode gives you clarity, confidence, and a healthier understanding of how attraction truly works. Key points in this episode! 0:43 — What really happens when you don't use push and pull in dating 1:42 — What is the push-and-pull dynamic? Apollonia breaks it down 2:35 — The five upgraded formulas of high-value push and pull 3:26 — How to properly compliment and disqualify her (without losing attraction) 5:00 — Real-life examples of how to apply push and pull correctly 6:35 — Why push and pull is about energy, not words — Apollonia explains Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!) In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what dark psychology really means in dating and how subtle psychological triggers influence attraction. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind emotional variability and why understanding these patterns can completely change the way women respond to you. We explore why men who have female friends and strong social circles often appear more attractive, how mixed-gender environments elevate perceived value, and the powerful role emotional variability plays in maintaining interest. Apollonia also contrasts healthy push-and-pull with flatline behavior, helping you recognize what builds attraction versus what quietly kills it. Finally, we discuss scarcity in dating, the Laws of Vision, and what actually happens when you become emotionally and energetically scarce in the right way. Apollonia shares how to apply these concepts without manipulation—so attraction grows naturally through confidence, clarity, and self-respect. If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure why attraction fades, this episode offers insight, strategy, and a deeper understanding of the psychology that drives modern dating! Key points in this episode! 1:15 – What is Dark Psychology? Apollonia breaks down the core psychological triggers. 2:17 – Why women are often more attracted to men who have female friends. 3:33 – How mixed-gender social groups positively influence men's perceived value. 4:17 – Emotional Variability: what it is and why it matters in attraction. 5:36 – A real client example of Emotional Variability in action. 6:48 – What healthy push-and-pull actually looks like. 7:21 – Emotional Variability vs. Flatline behavior: key differences explained. 8:22 – The scarcity mindset in dating—and how it affects attraction. 9:26 – The Laws of Vision: why this principle is so powerful. 10:37 – What really happens when you become scarce. 11:16 – How to apply scarcity the right way. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!) In this episode Apollonia Ponti , we break down the painful emotional experiences many men face in dating—and how to ensure it doesn't happen to you. Apollonia explains why women pull away and what's truly happening beneath the surface when emotional distance appears. We explore the difference between low-value and high-value responses, highlighting why chasing, overreacting, or losing focus often pushes women further away. You'll learn what a high-value man does when she pulls away, why keeping your purpose first is essential, and how emotional control strengthens attraction. Finally, we discuss what happens when a high-value man pulls away and later returns—and why this shift often leads to greater respect, confidence, and stronger connection. If you've ever felt confused or hurt when someone you care about suddenly becomes distant, this episode offers clarity, direction, and a healthier mindset for navigating modern dating. Key points in this episode! 0:33 - The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!) 1:22 - Why do women pull away? Apollonia explains why. 2:12 - How most men respond to these situations. Low vs High value men. 3:03 - What high-value man does when she pulls away? 4:27 - They keep their purpose first. 5:16 - Why happens when a high-value man pulls away and comes back? Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED Texting)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED texting) In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down five subtle phrases that instantly kill attraction, even when your intentions are good. From comments that create pressure to lines that reveal hidden insecurity, these phrases explain why women pull back, act distant, or stop responding altogether. Apollonia helps you understand how certain words shift the dynamic, signal neediness, and lower a woman's interest without you realizing it. Apollonia explains why each phrase damages the connection, what it triggers emotionally in women, and how small adjustments in communication can completely change the way women respond to you. With clear guidance and real-world examples, this episode shows you how to communicate from a place of confidence, value, and grounded masculine energy. If you want women to respect you more, stay attracted, and feel safe leaning into their feminine energy—rather than pulling away—this episode is for you! Key points in this episode! 0:31 - She passes the soft no test, but you texted her, and she stops texting. What happened?! 1:08 - Why specific phrases kill attraction for women! Apollonia will break down which ones 1:31 - The first phrase. 2:22 - The second phrase 3:47 - The third phrase 4:22 - The fourth phase. 5:15 - The fifth phase. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
7 Questions That Unlock Her TRUE FEELINGS Instantly!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 7 Questions That Unlock Her TRUE FEELINGS Instantly! In this episode, Apollonia Ponti walks you through seven essential questions that can uncover emotional maturity, genuine attraction, and the dynamics of a healthy relationship. From understanding how you both feel during periods of silence, to recognizing lessons from past relationships, these questions help you see beyond surface-level interactions and get to the heart of emotional connection. Apollonia explains why each question matters, what it reveals about both partners, and how your responses can strengthen trust, intimacy, and mutual respect. With practical guidance and real-world examples, this podcast equips you with the tools to navigate relationships with clarity, confidence, and authenticity. If you want to understand your partner—or potential partner—on a deeper level, recognize subtle signals of attraction, and build a relationship based on respect rather than guessing games, this episode is for you! Key points in this episode! 0:48 – The seven essential questions for emotional maturity 1:19 – A key question to ask: "How would we feel if we didn't communicate for several days?" 2:08 – What does a healthy relationship look like to you? 3:11 – A question that reveals genuine attraction 4:30 – How do you respond when someone says no or requests space? 6:07 – What did your last relationship teach you about yourself? Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
"How to Know If She's Really Interested in 10 Seconds" (The Soft No Test)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti "How to Know If She's Really Interested in 10 Seconds" (The Soft No Test) In this episode, we dive into the subtle but powerful "Soft No Test" that many women use—often without even realizing it—to gauge a man's confidence and emotional stability. Apollonia Ponti will explain why this gentle form of pushback matters, what it reveals about your boundaries, and how your response determines whether she sees you as grounded and high-value or as insecure and needy. With clear guidance and real-world examples, this podcast gives men a practical roadmap for recognizing the test, handling it with calm certainty, and building genuine attraction based on respect—not pressure or chasing. If you're ready to understand women's boundary-testing on a deeper level and show up with authentic confidence, this episode is for you! Key points in this episode! 0:33 — Why She Gives You "Soft No's" 1:23 — What the Soft No Test Really Is! 1:50 — Example: When She Makes an Excuse Not to See You 2:46 — Example: When She's Actually Interested 3:54 — Interested vs. Uninterested Behavior 4:18 — What to Do When She Keeps Declining 4:31 — How the Soft No Test Works Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
8 Ways Women Build Respect For A Man!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 8 Ways Women Build Respect For A Man! In this episode, Apollonia Ponti explores the real qualities that make a woman genuinely respect a man. She breaks down why purpose, self-awareness, emotional strength, and a well-built life matter far more than looks or charm. Apollonia explains how a man's habits, relationships, and personal vision naturally shape the respect he receives—and why women sometimes challenge men as part of building trust. With clarity and honesty, she offers a grounded roadmap for men who want deeper connection and authentic admiration. If you're ready to grow into the kind of man women respect effortlessly, this episode is for you! Key points in this episode! 0:40 — Respect Comes From Who You Are, Not What You Demand 1:30 — Stop Hiding Online and Build a Real Life 1:48 — Get Clear on the Type of Woman You Want 3:00 — Know Your Strengths and Weaknesses 3:50 — Build Your Health and Wealth 4:29 — Create a Strong, High-Value Network 4:43 — How the "Two-Way Woman" Tests a Man's Strength 5:50 — Why She Challenges Your Opinions Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here! "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching