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Ep 200Unhurried Grace - Finding Meaning in the Mundane (Podcast 196)

The other day my grown daughter who is a mom of little ones was sharing with me how hard it is to continue to do the same, seemingly mundane things every single day and feel like what she is doing is actually important...that it matters. This is a common struggle for moms. Today we are going to read through a passage of scripture that is so encouraging as it reveals God's goodness in taking what seems meaningless to the world and use it for His glory! (Please check out my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart, available on Amazon!)

Feb 26, 202110 min

Ep 199Homeschooling - Simple Ways to Avoid Being Overwhelmed (Podcast 195)

When it comes to homeschooling, sometimes we get lost in the day-to-day and find ourselves easily overwhelmed. Today I'm sharing some simple ways to stay intentional in your homeschool days. We want to enjoy this time as much as possible while making sure that our priorities are being lived out so we can raise strong, godly, responsible adults! Podcasts mentioned: There's Freedom in Simplicity Simplifying Your Homeschooling Ditching the Comparison Trap Finding Satisfaction in the Life You Have Are you Being Led or Driven? (The Unhurried Homeschooler, a simple, mercifully short book on homeschooling, available on Amazon!)

Feb 22, 202132 min

Ep 198Unhurried Grace - Looking Like Fools (Podcast 194)

As moms, all of us have been plagued by the thought that what we are doing and how we are doing it simply isn't adequate, but God turns that kind of thinking on its head. Listen in to this short devotional on "Looking Like Fools"! (Be sure to check out my devotional: Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart available on Amazon!)

Feb 19, 20219 min

Ep 197One the Porch with Leslie from Teach Them Diligently (Podcast 193)

Welcome to this new episode of On the Porch! Many of you have told me that you wish you could just sit for a while with me on my porch, so this series was created to get as close to that as we can! Sometimes I invite others to join me on the porch and share their hearts with us. Today Leslie Nunnery from Teach Them Diligently is here to encourage us! Leslie and her husband David founded Teach Them Diligently, the nation’s premier source for gospel-centered homeschool events and resources. With over 10 years of homeschooling experience from preschool-high school (and beyond) and a passion to encourage and equip homeschool families! Listen in as Leslie and I talk about the benefits of homeschooling and specifically the opportunities we have to disciple our kids! Resources mentioned in the podcast: Teach Them Diligently events--https://teachthemdiligently.net/homeschool-convention-locations/ Heart School-- https://teachthemdiligently.snappages.site/heart-school Teach Them Diligently 365-- https://teachthemdiligently.net/resources/ttd-365-membership/ Teach Them Diligently Book-- https://teachthemdiligently.net/resources/teach-them-diligently-discipleship-book

Feb 15, 202125 min

Ep 194Unhurried Grace - No Worries (Podcast 192)

Anxiety has become an epidemic in our society, and for moms, the battle seems to multiply exponentially. How in the world could Paul say in Philippians, not to worry about anything? Let's take a few minutes in this short devotional to tackle the topic of worry! (Please check out my devotional, Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart available on Amazon!)

Feb 12, 20216 min

Ep 195Homeschooling - How to Deal with Opposition From Others (Podcast 191)

Opposition. It's something we face from the time we begin making decisions for our children and intensifies when we decide to homeschool. Opposition can come at the most inopportune times and sometimes makes us feel as though we have been broadsided. Often it can make us feel inadequate. This is why it's imperative that we keep some very important principles at the forefront of our minds. Expecting opposition and positioning yourself to respond well will help grow your confidence and show your kids that homeschooling is a great choice for your family! (Please check out my simple, mercifully short book on homeschooling: The Unhurried Homeschooler available on Amazon!)

Feb 8, 202129 min

Ep 193Unhurried Grace - Wisdom for Everything (Podcast 190)

If you've been a mom for more than 10 minutes, you've felt it-the blaring realization that you really don't know what you're doing. It's one thing to watch other people parent, but when the responsibility of raising and caring for children falls directly on your shoulders, the weight can feel almost unbearable at times. Welcome to Unhurried Grace, a series of short devotionals created to get right to the point of our struggles and apply God's Word to them. I hope that you are encouraged today! Be sure to check out my devotional for moms: Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart found on Amazon!

Feb 4, 20216 min

Ep 196On the Porch - 6 Discipline Mistakes Parents Make (Podcast 189)

Then we’re glad you’re joining us today as Ginger reveals 6 Discipline Mistakes Parents Make and encourages us to take a more biblical, heart-oriented approach to training our children. www.GingerHubbard.com IG - @ginger.hubbard FB - @OfficalGingerHubbard Parenting with Ginger Hubbard Podcast Another podcast on parenting mentioned: How to Have Patience When Your Child is Misbehaving

Feb 1, 202138 min

Ep 192Mentoring Moments - Simplifying Your Homeschool (Podcast 188)

Have you noticed that it’s far easier to complicate things than it is to simplify? Albert Einstein said, “The definition of genius is taking the complex and making it simple.” Simplifying our homeschooling can be incredibly beneficial and today I'm talking about why along with some practical ways we can do it! Please check out my simple, mercifully short book on homeschooling, The Unhurried Homeschooler (Amazon)

Jan 29, 202141 min

Ep 191Mentoring Moments - How to Have Patience When My Kids are Misbehaving (Podcast 187)

Welcome to a new episode of Mentoring Moments! In this podcast series, I share my 30 years of experience as a mom and 25+ experience homeschooling! When people found out I had eight kids they would often say “You must have a lot of patience” as if having children automatically makes you a patient person. We all know how untrue that is! However, I have learned much over the last 3 decades of parenting, and today I'm sharing from that experience to help equip you to be able to enjoy these years with your kids! Be sure to check out my simple, mercifully short book on homeschooling, The Unhurried Homeschooler (available on Amazon)

Jan 24, 202141 min

Ep 190A Call to Trust the Lord and Not Fear (Audio Version)

This short audiobook is now available in a beautiful ebook version that is available for free if you subscribe to my website! (durendawilson.com) There has been so much going on in the world around us over the last 10 months and especially the last 2 months. It's been overwhelming for many of us and I have spent hours and hours seeking the Lord and asking him to give me a sustainable posture, in other words, a solid place where I can plant my feet and stay at peace. In that process, God has revealed places in my heart where I've built my house on rock...and places where I have built it on sand. My guess is that you can relate to this as well. In the meantime, we are still trying to be the wives and moms that God has called us to be. This creates an inner conflict because we have constantly been fed the lie that we have to be perfect moms and have everything together (or at least mostly together) or we will mess up our kids. Our desire to be good moms, more importantly, godly moms, is from the Lord, but the enemy twists that and uses it against us as he tries to make us believe that we have to have everything figured out. I think I can safely say that at this point we have far more questions than answers. But we serve a faithful loving God who sets our feet on solid ground! Listen in as you heed the call to trust and not fear! (Please visit this post at my site to view the playlist mentioned)

Jan 19, 202123 min

Ep 189The Homeschool Life - Why You Don't Need to Know Everything to Give Your Kids a Great Education (Podcast 186)

There seems to be a common myth that parents need to know everything (or almost everything) in order to give their kids a great home education. At the very least, they need to know as much as a trained teacher. That simply isn't true. Over our 25+ years of homeschooling 8 kids I've learned there are far more important factors that determine the quality of our kids' education. If you're feeling unqualified, please listen in and discover some very simple truths that will help you move forward in your homeschooling journey with more confidence and joy! Checkout The Unhurried Homeschooler, a Simple Mercifully Short Book on Homeschooling (Amazon) Podcasts mentioned: Chores: Why They are Essential Nurturing Sibling Relationships Series Homeschooling Boys Series

Jan 13, 202136 min

Ep 187Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - If Not, He is Still Good (Podcast 184)

Not that long ago, many of us didn’t really know all that was going on in the world. The internet brought unprecedented awareness and with the burden of knowledge. As we see the wickedness that takes place all around us, we are forced to answer certain questions: Why does God allow injustice? Why does He tolerate evil? These are hard questions…. We all have areas in our lives that are hard–things that happened beyond our control, things we feared would happen. There are no easy answers to the hardest questions of life, but as believers, we have solid reasons to exercise our faith and trust in our very powerful, very good God! Be encouraged as you listen to this short podcast from my devotional Unhurried Grace For a Mom’s Heart available on Amazon!

Jan 7, 20218 min

Ep 188On The Porch - Finding Hope in the Midst of the Storm (Podcast 185)

I’ve been praying about how to best address the issues that are facing us right now as moms. Although I will be talking about some of those specific concerns in upcoming podcasts, I have found that unless we start with the posture of our hearts, in other words, our spiritual state of heart and mind, all other counsel is a temporary fix at best. I have been spending copious amounts of time slowing down my heart and mind so I can hear from the Lord. It has literally been ongoing warfare. I have found anxiety to be a hedge that God has used in my life. What I mean by that is that God often puts boundaries on us physically, mentally, emotionally, even spiritually to keep us where He wants us because there is very important eternal work He wants to do in us. As humans, we bristle against boundaries, but David said in Psalm 16 “The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places, surely I have a delightful inheritance.” Though His boundaries may not feel pleasant, they are most certainly for our good. My anxiety is ignited when....(listen in to hear the podcast or go to durendawilson.com to read the full transcript!)

Jan 6, 202110 min

Ep 186Applying Romans 13 to the Here and Now (Podcast 183)

Most churches have been shut down for months now. Christians are being told that their voice doesn't matter and to make things even worse, many church leaders and members are using Romans 13 as an argument to remain silent and submissive. This is causing many believers(myself included) to question what our role is when it comes to politics and specifically the rights and duties of citizenship as it aligns with scripture. I wasn’t confident that I could share a solid, biblical position using Romans 13, so I decided to invite someone I trust implicitly to faithfully handle this text and deliver it to you with clarity and precision. Today I have invited Pastor Wes (my pastor) to walk us through this very relevant and very important passage. Wes is married to Heather, they have 3 daughters and another little one on the way. They also homeschool their kids! I think you are going to be very encouraged!

Dec 18, 202044 min

Ep 185Unhurried Christmas Grace - The Government Rests on Jesus' Shoulders (Podcast 182)

As we wrestle with the challenges we are currently experiencing, many of us are asking questions like these: Can God rescue us from the problems we face? Can He save us from oppressive world powers? Can He break the power of our sin and help us deal with its consequences? These are pressing questions that every generation of Christians has asked and today we are going to find out how we can steer clear of panic/despair and anger and move toward joyfully engaging in the battle (that we will win) and delighting in our obedience to Christ! (Don't miss the next podcast where we will dive into Romans 13 and find out what our part is in living out our civic responsibilities as believers!)

Dec 14, 202024 min

Ep 184Unhurried Christmas Grace - Advent, the Humble Posture of Waiting (Podcast 181)

Welcome to Unhurried Christmas Grace, a short podcast series I am doing during the month of December to help us keep our eyes on Jesus during this Christmas season. Today we are reading from Luke 1:39-55. This is the interaction between Mary and Elizabeth and it has some wonderful application to our lives! Please listen as we find out more about taking a humble posture of waiting during this Christmas season!

Dec 11, 202016 min

Ep 182Unhurried Christmas Grace - When God Flips Your Plan (Podcast 180)

Welcome to this week's Christmas devotional! We all enjoy being able to make plans and see them unfold, but what about when God flips the plan? What then? How do we respond? I'm pretty sure that Mary's dream was not to live out a story that seemed impossible to believe and yet, when God revealed His plan to her, her response was one of humble obedience. All of us have experienced and will experience defining moments when God changes the trajectory of our lives. Let's look more closely at Mary's example in order to glean truths that can help us respond when God flips the plan.

Dec 7, 202025 min

Ep 181The Gathering Place (Podcast 179)

Between Pinterest and other social media, it's easy to think that hospitality has to be executed perfectly in order to be meaningful, but nothing could be further from the truth. When we understand and embrace the whys of hospitality and how powerful it really can be, it’s a game-changer. In fact, it can actually be life-changing in so many ways for you and those you connect with. Now more than ever, we need each other! I continually encourage women to slow down and simplify. It's not just to relieve stress, it's a way to open up space in our lives so we engage more fully with those around us! It's a chance to be the hands and feet of Jesus! The Gathering Table. (https://www.theginghamapron.com/the-gathering-table-book/) PLEASE LISTEN IN TO ENTER A FEE COPY OF THE GATHERING TABLE! (A WINNER WILL BE CHOSEN BY DECEMBER 15) Scripture Lullabies Albums are available on the website to send as gifts as physical CDs and digital downloads. You can purchase the digital downloads and gift them that way. Also, the Black Friday sale launches on November 27th and runs through December 11th. Use code THANKFUL30 to save 30% off our music on the website: scripture-lullabies.com

Dec 4, 202045 min

Ep 179Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Shining Like Starts (Podcast 178)

I love how God's word speaks directly to the challenges we face in everyday life. How about complaining? We really hate it when our kids complain, but how often do we complain under the guise of "venting"? Even science has proven that choosing gratitude over complaining has countless benefits physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Even more importantly, avoiding a complaining spirit deeply affects our testimony as believers! Find out why by listening to this short devotional from by book Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart-31 Days in God's Word (available on Amazon)!

Nov 30, 20207 min

Ep 175Working From Home While Homeschooling - Is It Possible? (Podcast 177)

Many moms are finding themselves in the position of homeschooling AND working from home. Whether your kids were in school and you never expected to be homeschooling OR you were homeschooling and are now finding the need for a second income, you are likely facing challenges and could use some encouragement! Today I am having a great conversation with another homeschool mom who works from home and shares some practical ways to keep perspective so we can steward our time well. Dr. Jenn Murff has been named among the top 100 Influential Evangelical Leaders you Ought to Know in the country for her work and research on the Millennial generation. She has numerous credentials, but the ones she is most proud of are being a wife to Justin and mommy to their four precious girls!

Nov 23, 202056 min

Ep 178Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Contentment (Podcast 176)

Welcome to another episode in my devotional series, Grace for a Mom's Heart! These are short podcasts (less than 10 minutes) created to help moms stay in the Word of God, especially on those days where quiet time may simply not have happened! Hands can stay busy while hearts meditate on Him! In a culture of consumerism, contentment is not a popular topic, but oh the joy and peace that comes with the heart that finds it! (Please check out my devotional on Amazon: Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart)

Nov 20, 20207 min

Ep 177On The Porch - Hope to Anchor Our Souls (Podcast 175)

Welcome to my On the Porch podcast series! God put this on my heart to record BEFORE the elections. This is not a political post, but God often uses such circumstances to reveal Himself to us. In a world where truth seems to be elusive and hope can quickly give way to fear, God gives us everything we need for life and godliness! We CAN remain stable in spite of the storms surging all around us! I hope that as you listen, you find encouragement and hope that anchors your soul as you walk the journey that God has you on.

Nov 13, 202045 min

Ep 176Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Loneliness (Podcast 174)

Welcome to my devotional podcast series created just for busy moms like you! Today's topic is loneliness and it must be one that needs to be heard because I had all kinds of obstacles trying to get it recorded! I love these little devotionals because there is so much packed in a less than 10 podcast! Don't forget to check out the hard copy or Kindle version of Unhurried Grace on Amazon so you can have all 31 devotionals at your fingertips!

Nov 9, 20207 min

Ep 174On The Porch - My Story (Podcast 175)

Welcome to my new podcast series: On the Porch! So many moms have told me that they would love to have a chat on my front porch, so I decided to start a series that would look as much like that as possible! It's a place where I can share my heart on a variety of topics that are on your heart. I love talking about motherhood and homeschooling, but God often lays other things on my heart and I want the freedom to be able to speak on those topics that are time-sensitive or that God is compelling me to talk about sooner than later and may have very little to do with homeschooling or motherhood. Stories are powerful. They often invoke more change in our thinking than if someone simply makes statements. My prayer is that as I share my stores and heart, that God will cause faith and hope to rise up in your heart for your own story. Today is what I would call the "pilot' episode as I give a brief overview of my life story so that you can have a peek into my background and the perspective I am coming from. I did forget to mention 2 very defining and important parts of my life and those were the loss of our first grandson unexpectedly to stillbirth and coming within a razor's edge of losing our youngest at birth. These are stories I will share along the way as the Lord leads. Welcome to my porch!

Nov 6, 202056 min

Ep 173Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Building Alters (Podcast 172)

Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom's Heart! (Couldn't we all use a little more grace?) As humans, we are fickle. We forget-often and quickly. But it's the remembering that breathes fresh life into our faith! When we can so our hearts down, close our eyes, and think about what we felt when God met us at the place of our deepest need, we begin to sense something rising up within us that moves us toward trusting Him again for our current needs. Listen in to this short podcast and find encouragement for your soul!

Nov 2, 202011 min

Ep 172Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Mom Care (Podcast 171)

Having eight kids in 13 years, I often found it difficult to pay too much attention to the area of mom care. I often felt guilty about not putting everyone else first, but what I discovered was that taking care of myself was an investment in more than just me. Listen in to this short devotional from my book Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart (Amazon) as we look at the deeper reason it's so important to take care of ourselves!

Oct 28, 202014 min

Ep 1695 Easy Ways to Incorporate Scripture into Your Homeschool Day (Podcast 170)

I'm talking with Eryn Lynum, a homeschooling mama of four. When she’s not teaching her kiddoes, she works as the content creator and publicist for Scripture Lullabies, a company producing high-quality, powerfully peaceful music inspired by the Word of God. Eryn is also author of the book 936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of Intentional Parenting! Here are the resources mentioned in the podcast: The Unhurried Homeschooler (Amazon) Our Website: www.Scripture-Lullabies.com Streaming: https://scripture-lullabies.com/stream Free “Peace Indescribable” Pack: https://scripture-lullabies.com/devotional Eryn Lynum’s website: www.ErynLynum.com 936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of Intentional Parenting: https://www.amazon.com/936-Pennies-Discovering-Intentional-Parenting/dp/0764219782 Free God of Wonders Devotional: http://erynlynum.com/god-of-wonders-devotional/ Literature with Biblical truths for ages 0-5: I Love You Just Because, I Love You Even When, and I Love You All the Same by Donna Keith You Are: Speaking God’s Word over Your Children and Tonight: A Book of God’s Bedtime Promises by Generation Claimed Literature with Biblical truths for ages 5+ Pilgrim’s Progress by John Bunyan Hinds Feet on High Places by Hannah Hurnard Case for a Creator, Lee Strobel Indescribable: 100 Devotions for Kids About God and Science by Louis Giglio Parables From Nature by Mrs. Margaret Gatty The Ology and Wonderfull by Marty Machowski Songs for Bedtime: Take No Thought For Tomorrow Let Not Your Heart Be Troubled Wonderfully Made I Am Here “Baby Sleep Time” Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/12YIUBRBRcWLoZ9zdjX2Ws?si=6OeJoBWTTTuAeb1YwJBBvQ “No More Nightmares” Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1dAoa1BkKHEjJSXhcVeaXo?si=y_DVC30zS56tRbaDQ1Cb_w

Oct 27, 202048 min

Ep 167Morning Baskets with Pam Barnhill (Podcast 168)

Over our 25 years of homeschooling, getting a good start in the mornings has been key to remaining intentional throughout the day. However, what do we want that good start to look like? Homeschooling offers a unique opportunity to build relationships and relationships are key to everything else that happens in the family unit, including education. You may have heard the term "morning basket" and wondered what it was, how it works, and why SO many moms are choosing to use it? Pam Barnhill is a homeschooling mom and former secondary teacher. She's the host of Your Morning Basket podcast and today, she is sharing the specifics of this very simple and effective tool to help bring your family together as you start your homeschool day! Resources mentioned in the podcast: Your Morning Basket Podcast: https://pambarnhill.com/basket/ Better Together: https://pambarnhill.com/better-together/ The Carl Azuz (CNN-10) podcast will be: https://pambarnhill.com/ymb82 The funny voices cards can be downloaded here: https://pambarnhill.com/ultimate-guide-memory-work/ A video I made about using the memory work cards plus two other fun games we played when my kids where little: https://youtu.be/fmxdrWRksHI A free set of Morning Time plans to try: https://pambarnhill.com/month-of-morning-time/ The shop: https://plus.pambarnhill.com/ (CHECK OUT MY SIMPLE, MERCIFULLY SHORT BOOK ON HOMESCHOOLING ON AMAZON!)

Oct 23, 202046 min

Ep 171Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Wait Patiently for Him (Podcast 167)

Welcome to my short devotional, Grace for a Mom's Heart, read from my devotional, Unhurried Grace for Mom's Heart-31 Days in God's Word (available on Amazon)! Today we are talking about waiting patiently for HIm. We are constantly being told that we must be self-reliant, independent, and self-made, but we were never meant to work independently from God. God's design is so much better. Listen in and have your heart encouraged! Resource mentioned in the podcast: https://scripture-lullabies.com/

Oct 19, 20209 min

Ep 170Homeschooling - Am I Ruining My Kids (Podcast 166)

Whether or not you are new to homeschooling or not, it’s quite possible that you may be wondering if you’re ruining your child. I’ve got news for you, you’re not the first homeschool mom to have those thoughts and you certainly won’t be the last! I talk to homeschool moms who have a Ph.D. and moms who dropped out of high school and every one of them struggles with this at one time or another! Today I’m going to be having a conversation with my good friend, Sherri Seligson. We have spoken at several of the same conferences over the last few years and I’ve had the opportunity to hear her speak on this topic. I love her heart and what she has to say about this common misconception, so I wanted her to come and bring that same encouragement to you! You’ll be SO glad you listened in! (For the record, between the two of us, Sherri and I have 12 kids, over 50 years of motherhood, and over 40 years of homeschooling experience!)

Oct 15, 202054 min

Ep 168The Cultural Attack on Children and Why We Must Protect Them (Podcast 165)

In all the blustering on the news and social media, I hear very little about how the many things happening around us are affecting our children. I have to ask myself WHY? Why are the children being ignored? Homeschooling may allow our kids to be protected from a certain amount that’s going on, but I care about other people’s children as well and so do other homeschoolers that I know. I’ve been a mom for over 29 years (8 kids) and I am appalled at what is being taken away from the next generation. Who is speaking on their behalf? Certainly not most politicians or the media. In fact, I’m going to be bold and say that even many church leaders are not thinking about the next generation. So what message are we sending to our children? Are we willing to risk traumatizing them all for the sake of “safety and security”? I don’t know about you, but I am not willing to do that. Whether it’s educational decisions, physical decisions, spiritual decisions, mental and emotional decisions, there are many who would say that, as a parent, we don’t have the right to make the final decision for our kids. We are continually being sent a clear message that we don’t know what’s best and that we are being irresponsible by not forcing something that some feel is necessary or vice versa. NOTHING could be further from the truth. As Believers, we are called to obey God as the ultimate authority and according to His Word, parents are the ones who are called to raise their children. They are called to protect them and make the decisions that they believe are best for them. (Read in full here: https://durendawilson.com/the-cultural-attack-on-children-and-why-we-must-protect-them-podcast-165/)

Oct 14, 202018 min

Ep 165Let's Talk About Bullying (Podcast 164)

Bullying. It's real and yes, it happens even amongst homeschoolers. It can happen in co-ops, at church, with friends and online. It's imperative that we equip our kids (and ourselves) for these inevitable situations. Let's face it, our kids are not growing up in a kind world. Quite possibly, bullying might be one of the main reasons you pulled your kids out of public school and now you're wondering how to walk alongside your child in the path to healing. Whatever the reason is that you are here, I’m excited to have Candice Duggar from Bullied/Broken/Redeemed here today! Link to Candice's website which has all of her resources www.bulliedbrokenredeemed.com Here is the link to Candice's book on Amazon- Bullied Broken Redeemed: Expanded Edition Including Study Guide(*aff link) Bullied Broken Redeemed Parent Workbook(*aff link) Bullied Broken Redeemed Journal (*aff link) Luke The Lionhearted(*aff link) Luke The Lionhearted Workbook(*aff link) Photo by Timothy Eberly on Unsplash

Oct 7, 202054 min

Ep 166The Homeschool Life - Tomato Staking: A Relationship Based Parenting Tool (Podcast 163)

Welcome to another episode in my series, The Homeschool LIfe where I tackle commonly asked questions or frequent concerns parents have about the homeschool life! Today I'm sharing one of the most effective parenting tools I have used over my almost 30 years as a mom to eight kids! I often say that homeschooling is an extension of parenting. I also encourage moms to be parent FIRST (teacher second) because the nurturing nature of a mom is what is most tuned into the whole child. Listening to our mom instincts will often be the most reliable and effective way to parent AND homeschool our kids. When it comes to our homeschool journey, the safety and security of consistent boundaries make the homeschooling life so MUCH more peaceful (not to be confused with perfect). In other words, keeping a healthy relationship with our child makes us more effective parents AND teachers. (Just a side note: I think it's important for you to know that after graduating 7 kids so far, my husband and I STILL have great relationships with ALL of our kids!) (Check out my simple, mercifully short book on homeschooling: The Unhurried Homeschooler on Amazon!)

Oct 5, 202030 min

Ep 164Managing our Kids' Screen Time (Podcast 162)

I'm pretty sure that I am not the only mom out there who has found managing screentime with my kids incredibly frustrating at times! Many moms have reached out to me on this topic. I can share my own experience and how our family handled it, but I decided it was time to bring in an expert that could bring even more clarity! Leah Neiman is that expert! We all know that technology is here to stay and today's conversation is both refreshing and encouraging as Leah shares how to take a positive approach with our kids when it comes to screen time! She shares some awesome resources and great tips toward a more intentional relationship between us, our kids and technology! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: The Homeschool LIfe: When Life is Messy The Homeschool LIfe: The Priceless Gift of Childhood The Homeschool Life: Am I Qualified? Protecting Our Kids from Pornography Resources mentioned in the podcast: Freedom https://freedom.to/why My article on How to Host a Virtual Game Night has 15 Game Apps that You Can Play with Friends and Family https://leahnieman.com/how-to-have-a-virtual-game-night/ Here's a link to Leah's podcast page https://leahnieman.com/podcasts/ Free from Leah: Tech Talk for Parents Conversation Cards Five Great Search Engines for Kids Sign up for Leah'sTech Talk for Parents Newsletter Photo by Thomas Park on Unsplash

Sep 30, 202047 min

Ep 163The Homeschool Life - Finding Rhythm in Your Homeschool Days (Podcast 161)

Welcome to my series called The Homeschool Life where I tackle one topic or commonly asked question per week based on my 25 years of homeschooling experience with 8 kids. Today I'm talking about finding rhythm in your homeschool day because it really does matter. It can mean the difference between feeling stressed and actually enjoying these years with your kids. Finding rhythm help tremendously in building a strong family and homeschool life! Today I define what rhythm is, why it's important, and how to find it! For more details on our homeschooling and taking a more unhurried approach, please check out my book on Amazon: The Unhurried Homeschooler: A Simple, Mercifully Short Book on Homeschooling! (aff link)

Sep 25, 202025 min

Ep 162Protecting Your Kids From Pornography (Podcast 160)

Pornography is essentially a hijacking of God's design. Unfortunately, it's a very real struggle for 70% of men and 33% of women, even those who attend church. 56% of divorces list pornography as one of the causes. The average age that a child is exposed to pornography for the first time is 8-13 years old. So how do we protect our kids while still preserving their innocence? Today I am having a great conversation with Sam Black from Covenant Eyes as he shares effective tools to remove ignorance so our kids can assist us in protecting their innocence. (Listen in for several free resources at the end of the podcast!) Resources mentioned in the podcast: Covenant Eyes Website Focus on the Family resources on sex education BARK (Parental control best for ages 3-7) Good Pictures Bad Pictures (age-appropriate book for ages 10-12) Good Pictures Bad Picture Junior (age-appropriate book for ages 4-10) Boundaries by Henry Cloud The Talk: 7 Lessons to Introduce Your Child to Biblical Sexuality Unwanted by Jay Stringer Here are links with the HEAV code embedded. Direct signup link for 30 days free with the HEAV code embedded. https://covenanteyes.sjv.io/c/1143342/387466/5624?u=covenanteyes.com/signup-v2/ Connected, a free ebook shows how strong family relationships lead to internet-safe kids. https://covenanteyes.sjv.io/c/1143342/387466/5624?u=learn.covenanteyes.com/connected/ Confident: Helping Parents Navigate Online Exposure. This free ebook is a step-by-step guide for Christian parents to provide help when a child or teen has been exposed to or is looking at pornography. https://covenanteyes.sjv.io/c/1143342/387466/5624?u=covenanteyes.com/when-your-child-is-looking-at-porn/ Link to the SHE Virtual Recovery Summit - https://shesummit.heysummit.com/ To reach Sam Black via email

Sep 24, 202059 min

Ep 161The Homeschool Life - Am I Qualified? (Podcast 159)

I talk to moms all the time and the most frequent concern/misconception is that they are not "qualified" to teach their children. It doesn't seem to matter if they have a degree or dropped out of high school, they share this same fear. Today I'm going to help dispel that myth so you can homeschool with more confidence! This is the third in my new series called The Homeschool Life! Each week I address one commonly asked question or topic on homeschooling based on 25 years experience homeschooling 8 kids from the beginning (7 are graduated so far)! These podcasts will be shorter in length, perfect for busy moms! (Check out The Unhurried Homeschooler on Amazon today!) Podcasts mentioned: The Homeschool Life: The Powerful Gift of Childhood How to Start a Small Co-op Because every parent wonders if they are going to ruin their kids, here is our adult kids' perspective on homeschooling: Podcast #'s 60, 62, 63, 64, 66, 68 (Each podcast number is linked to that particular post)

Sep 21, 202031 min

Ep 160The Homeschool Life - The Powerful Gift of Childhood (Podcast 158)

I'm excited to be offering a new podcast series called The Homeschool Life! Each week I will spend 15-30 minutes tackling ONE specific question or topic related to homeschooling and/or living the homeschool life. Experience from 25 years of homeschooling eight kids shared in short podcasts...perfect for moms! Too many adults have forgotten the crucial role that childhood plays in our kids' development. Children deserve a childhood. It is a gift from God, but one that only WE can give them! Listen in to find out how giving your kids a childhood not only benefits them during childhood but lays a foundation for higher learning!

Sep 16, 202014 min

Ep 159Homeschool Bravely with Jamie Erickson (Podcast 157)

When we decide to homeschool, it's because we really want to do right by our kids, but often we are filled with fear and trepidation. What if I told you that it's possible to learn to walk this journey with courage! Jamie Erickson, homeschooling mom of 5 and author of Homeschool Bravely is sharing her heart today answering questions like: Why is it necessary and healthy for homeschooling moms to acknowledge their limitations? Why is there so much fear surrounding the choice to homeschool and is that fear valid? What are some of the typical lies parents who homeschool can be tempted to believe? With a child who can be particularly difficult, why consider homeschooling when getting them out of the house seems like such a win-win? And more!!!! Listen in to find out how to win a free copy of Homeschool Bravely! Ways to connect with Jamie: Homeschool Bravely: (https://www.homeschoolbravely.com/) Facebook Friends: (https://www.facebook.com/TheUnlikelyHomeschool) Blog Instagram: (https://www.instagram.com/unlikely_homeschool/) Mom to Mom Podcast Instagram: (https://www.instagram.com/momtomompodcast/) Pinterest: (https://www.pinterest.com/tuhomeschool/) Blog: (https://www.theunlikelyhomeschool.com/

Sep 14, 202045 min

Ep 158The Homeschool Life - When Life is Messy (Podcast 156)

I'm really excited to be starting a new podcast series called The Homeschool Life! Each week I will be addressing one commonly asked question or topic on homeschooling based on my 25 years experience homeschooling 8 kids from the beginning! These podcasts will be shorter in length, perfect for busy moms! Today I am talking about when life gets messy. How do we reconcile that with living the homeschool life? Are we short-changing our kids because things feel chaotic? How might the messiness of life actually give our kids a better education? (Check out my book The Unhurried Homeschooler on Amazon!)

Sep 8, 202035 min

Ep 156Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Freedom From People Pleasing (Podcast 155)

What do you do when a friend, relative, or stranger hassles you about the decisions you've made for your children? Today we are talking about why you can walk in freedom from people-pleasing! Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Aug 26, 20208 min

Ep 155Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - He is Good (Podcast 154)

We all long for peace, but where can peace be consistently found? Today we are talking about finding peace by trusting in the goodness of God! Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Aug 24, 20206 min

Ep 157Unhurried Grace for a Mom's heart - Power over Fear (Podcast 153)

It's not uncommon to feel powerless in many situations and relationships. So what should we do when we feel powerless? Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer

Aug 19, 20207 min

Ep 154Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Whole Hearted Trust (Podcast 152)

Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! What can we do when we feel powerless? Today we are digging into Proverbs 3:1-6 and talking about power over fear! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Aug 17, 20205 min

Ep 153Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Cross Centered (Podcast 151)

Have you ever wondered how in the world God can redeem even the worst days and how we can best walk out our faith with our kids? Join me today as we focus on the simple yet profound impact of being cross-centered. Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Aug 12, 20207 min

Ep 152Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - The Only Opinion That Matters (Podcast 150)

Have you ever been completely thrown off by other people's opinions when it comes to raising or homeschool your kids? Join me today for a word of encouragement from God's heart to yours! Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Aug 10, 20207 min

Ep 151Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Working from a Place of Rest (Podcast 149)

As moms, we are busy, but is busyness where we find our identity? Listen in as we are reminded what it looks like to work from a place of rest Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I ’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Aug 4, 20205 min

Ep 150Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart - Dealing with Limitations (Podcast 148)

Do you ever wonder if you have what it takes to raise your kids to adulthood, much less homeschool them? Listen in to be reminded of God’s perspective on our limitations! Welcome to my devotional, Grace for a Mom’s Heart! In the weeks ahead, I will be reading from my devotional Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart-31 Days in God’s Word (available on Amazon *aff link)) Each devotional is less than 10 minutes long. I’ll start by reading a short scripture passage and then share some thoughts from my own heart as written in my devotional. I will ask some questions at the end to help you dig deeper and then end in prayer.

Jul 30, 20206 min

Ep 148Homeschooling for the Right Reasons (Podcast 147)

Homeschooling can feel daunting at first, but as a homeschooling mom to 8 kids (7 graduated so far), I want to bring you some simple encouragement that will help you keep a clear head and heart so you can actually ENJOY these years with your kids! It's imperative that we know our WHYS for homeschooling. It's the only way we can prioritize and then hone in on how we want to approach this journey. You really don't have to spend 8 hours a day schooling your kids because homeschooling is both effective and efficient! In this podcast, I will share a bit of our family's experience along with our whys and then give you action steps to take so you can homeschool for the reasons that are relevant to your family life! The Unhurried Homeschooler (Amazon aff link) Grace for a Mom's Heart Devotional (Amazon aff link) The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course

Jul 28, 202049 min