The Divorce Social

"I really struggle with losing my sense of self in a relationship" - Kit GirouxSewing Bee's Kit Giroux joins Samantha Baines to talk queer love, sense of self and wearing a flowing skirt on the London underground. Kit describes what it is like going through a break-up whilst being in a sewing competition on TV, the support they received on the show and the dating dilemma. The two compare marriages to limited companies and even talk sexy maths! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"about year ten of my marriage I started thinking this is not what I signed up for" - Natalie BurtonAuthor Natalie Burton joins Samantha Baines to talk about her twenty three year marriage and divorce. Natalie describes her seven year plan of getting out her marriage and sticking to the plan, sleeping with her car keys under her pillow and taking secret calls. Top tips for finding bots on dating sites too! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"I can feel it now, just thinking about it... the pain" - Georgina FullerJournalist and mum of 3, Georgina Fuller talks about her parents divorce and the impact it had on her at the time as well as heartbreak and cheating. Samantha and Georgina bond over their ADHD, sort out a misunderstanding and discuss shame as well as the fear of failure. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“I thought that I would never be that person who got divorced” - Jessica Frew Jessica Frew (with flower wall) joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, religion and reimagining divorce. Jessica opens up about her partner coming out as gay and having an affair with a man and the aftermath. Do you wear your divorce as a badge of honour? Maybe you will one day, one step at a time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“The finances showed an unwillingness to compromise” - Brad NelsonFinancial coach, Brad joins Samantha Baines to chat about his divorce is his early thirties. Brad talks about having to foreclose on the family house and the aftermath of that. The two have a frank discussion about money, credit scores, different approaches to money in a relationship and top money tips.Please do your own financial research as well as taking advice. This podcast is made for entertainment and should not be used as financial advice from an expert. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"I felt more shame when my marriage was really bad"- LibbyWine consultant and columnist Libby Brodie to talk divorce, motherhood and wine. Sam and Libby share love languages and talk about prioritising friendships, going out and finances. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sam is back to say hello, sorry and help her dog is eating her pants - true story.New series incoming... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"The biggest thing I'm learning on the journey is loving myself, and maybe that loving myself is not what I thought it was."This week we are joined by Michele Traina, the creator of the Divorce Diaries. Michele shares her experience of parenting and dating post-divorce, and we have a podcast first! Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"When I divorced I was scared, but I knew something had to change. I just knew it".This week Samantha is joined by Elainea Emmott. A lady with many strings to her bow, amongst other things she is a photographer, TV chef, artist and fashion designer. The pair discuss Elainea's experience of getting married at age 19, her decision to relocate post-separation and raising a young son whilst balancing her varied career. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"I immediately joined a dating app, and then I saw my ex on the dating app".This week Samantha is joined by Lynn Beattie A.K.A @MrsMummyPenny. They chat about managing finances through divorce and Lynn gives some useful tips of what to be mindful of. The pair also discuss how to make new friends and dating post-separation.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Just going and making the decision to choose you and start this new life, that's the hard thing to do. So well done. Everything after this is going to be varying levels of a battle, but you took that first step".This week Samantha is joined by Sophia Bianchi. Entrepreneur, Executive Coach and host of The Story Goes podcast. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"I do think children pick things up.. you're a role model of happiness, and living a happy life and that you're allowed to be happy".Samantha is joined by Estella Newbold-Brown, a children's author, mother of twins, and family law partner. Estella shares the effect her parents divorce had on her body, and how her work now helps parents to discuss the topic of divorce with their own children. The pair also discuss the importance of diverse representation in children's books.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: domestic abuse, gaslighting, self harm.'If I'm focusing on the past, I'm depressed because I'm focusing on what has been. If I'm focusing on the future then I'm anxious because I'm trying to get somewhere. Both are an inability to be present".Samantha is joined by Vanessa Louise, an emotional health coach. The two discuss the process of leaving an unhealthy relationship, the power of love and 'unlovely' choices. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Look, divorce isn't a picnic. It's not fun times...But the chances are the reason that you're finding it tough is that it's bringing up stuff from your past that you haven't fully dealt with".This week Sam is joined by Divorce Coach Fiona Kimbell. She shares her experience of navigating a lengthy divorce and the feeling of liberation after the initial stages of heartbreak. We also hear how she now supports other women through their own separations.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"We went the whole of that 10 years with me not knowing I was ADHD, and him knowing but not telling me he was autistic."Author and ADHD Campaigner Sarah Templeton joins Samantha to talk about the effects ADHD has on relationships, and how it impacted her own marriage. They also discuss the prevalence of ADHD within the criminal justice system and how to go about getting a diagnosis. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"With shadow work we shine a light on the unconscious mind. The programming that's running in the back of your head that's having you self-sabotage, or doubt yourself, or not even be able to dream."This week Samantha is joined by author and Global Love Mentor Junie Moon. Junie shares her experience of ending her 20 year marriage, explains what Shadow Work is and why we can all benefit from it.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Divorce Social is back for Season 12!"I stayed in the house we had together, but I bought him out. Then I had this weird thing with all these memories in the house, and now it's mine. So I redecorated to reclaim the space."To kick us off, Samantha is joined by the writer and comedian, Amy Mason. The pair discuss Amy's experience of divorcing during the COVID pandemic, the importance of decent friendships and bond over their mutual love of Farrow & Ball paint.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comWe love hearing from you! Email: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To conclude season 11, Sam is joined by the brilliant actress, comedian and writer, Arabella Weir.Arabella is very honest about her experience of divorce, becoming great friends with her ex-husband and all the sadness that happened in-between. She also hilariously shares how, when spending time with men, she now draws the line at dinner and some nice wine.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comEmail: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Don't sacrifice your needs, believing that's what you should do in order to be loved and validated."Tonya Carter, Marriage & Relationship Exit Strategist, joins Sam from the US. Tonya shares her insights on how small changes can make a big impact and the value in asking yourself hard questions. The two also discuss some of the toughest moments of their divorce journeys.https://www.tonyacarter.comFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesTranscripts and merch: www.thedivorcesocial.comEmail: [email protected] the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.