The Connected Mom

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling and guest Rachael Groll discuss the importance of hearing God's voice in parenting. They explore how to discern God's voice through scripture and the Holy Spirit, the significance of trusting God during painful experiences, and practical ways to teach children to listen for God's voice. Rachael shares her personal journey, including her experience with a failed adoption, and emphasizes the need for a personal relationship with God for both parents and children.https://www.rachaelgroll.comRachael's Book : Hearing Jesus: 365 Day Devotional

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling engages in a heartfelt conversation with Blair Linne about the struggles of anxiety and worry, particularly in children and mothers. They explore Blair's personal journey with anxiety, the impact of social media, and practical strategies for parents to help their children cope with anxiety. The discussion also highlights the importance of prayer, scripture, and the therapeutic power of spoken word poetry. Blair shares insights from her book, Yara the Brave and the Swirling Worry,' which addresses children's fears and emphasizes God's presence in their lives.Blair’s book: Yara the Brave and the Swirling Worry

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling and guest Sheryl Giesbrecht Turner discuss the feelings of invisibility that many mothers experience, the importance of seeking help through counseling, and the comfort found in knowing that God sees and cares for us. They explore the challenges of motherhood, the significance of small tasks, and the need for intentional communication and boundaries in relationships with adult children. The conversation emphasizes the power of prayer and the importance of community support.https://sherylgt.com

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling and guest Mandy Horne discuss the challenges of the different seasons of raising children. Mandy's Resources: https://www.wellspringoflifecoaches.com/team-1

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling speaks with author Janel Breitenstein about the challenges of motherhood, particularly focusing on the theme of anger. They discuss the societal and religious pressures that lead mothers to feel guilty about their anger, and how understanding and managing this emotion can lead to healthier parenting. Janel shares practical tips for recognizing triggers, the importance of self-awareness, and how to approach anger in a way that reflects God's love and grace. The conversation emphasizes the need for mothers to be kind to themselves and to seek God's help in their parenting journey.Janel’s Book - How to Stop Yelling up the Stairs: Keeping Your Cool While Raising Your Kids

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, Becky Harling and Laine Lawson Craft discuss the significance of genuine friendships, especially during challenging times. They explore the transition from parenting to writing children's literature, emphasizing the foundational truths every child should hear. The conversation highlights the importance of prayer in parenting and the mission behind Laine's new book, 'The Beginning of You,' which aims to support mothers who choose life for their children.Laine’s Book: The Beginning of You

Many believers feel torn between loving others and protecting their hearts. We’re taught to include everyone, forgive quickly, and keep our doors open—but Scripture also calls us to wisdom and discernment in who we allow to shape our thinking, emotions, and spiritual direction.In this conversation, we explore the difference between loving people and trusting them equally—and why healthy boundaries aren’t unloving, but deeply biblical.Author Becky Harling joins us to unpack what emotionally healthy, Christ-centered friendships look like, how to recognize unsafe relational patterns, and how to heal when relationships wound us. Together, we examine how grounding our identity in Jesus frees us to love generously without becoming drained, resentful, or spiritually pulled off course.This episode provides clarity on:why loving everyone doesn’t mean giving everyone equal access to your hearthow to identify safe, reciprocal friendshipswarning signs of codependency, control, gossip, and emotional imbalancehow prayer shapes wise relational decisionswhat loyalty and long-term friendship look like in a Christ-centered lifehow to set boundaries without becoming guarded or cynicalsteps toward healing after relational hurtResource referenced: Friend-Wise: Practical Ideas for Richer Relationships

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, Becky Harling and Erin Davis engage in a heartfelt discussion about the concept of over-functioning in parenting and friendships. They explore the challenges of wanting to do too much for others, the importance of allowing children and friends to experience their own struggles, and the necessity of finding identity and affirmation in Christ rather than in performance. The conversation also touches on the biblical story of Joseph as a lens for understanding family dysfunction and the redemptive work of God in our lives.Erin's book: The Story of Joseph

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling and her friend Carol Kent discuss the vital role of friendship in our lives. They explore themes of intentionality, affirmation, and support in friendships, as well as the challenges of competition and comparison. Carol shares her insights on setting boundaries and the importance of prayer and connection, especially during difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the need for grace in relationships and the strength that comes from having a supportive community.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, Becky Harling and her friend Judy Dunagan discuss the vital role of friendship in motherhood. They explore themes of intentionality, prayer, vulnerability, affirmation, and the challenges of competition and comparison among friends. Through their personal stories, they highlight how deep friendships can provide support, encouragement, and a sense of community, ultimately enriching the journey of motherhood. The conversation emphasizes the importance of nurturing friendships and being proactive in seeking connections with others.

In this episode of The Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling discusses the vital role of friendship in women's lives, particularly for mothers. She reflects on her personal journey through cancer, emphasizing the importance of nurturing relationships and being intentional in friendships. Harling warns against complacency and encourages listeners to treasure their friends, take initiative, and engage meaningfully in their lives. The episode sets the stage for a series focused on deepening friendships and supporting one another through life's challenges.Becky's book:Friend-wise: Practical Ideas for Richer Relationships

In this episode of The Connected Mom, Becky Harling and therapist Kenza Haddock delve into the complexities of mother wounds, particularly focusing on the impact of borderline personality disorder in mothers. They discuss the emotional turmoil faced by children of borderline mothers, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of forgiveness in the healing process. The conversation emphasizes the significance of therapy, self-awareness, and the power of God's healing in overcoming generational patterns of emotional distress.Kenza's Book: Unmasking Narcissism: Exposing and Breaking Free From Hidden Patterns of Abuse

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, Becky Harling and therapist Kenza Haddock delve into the complex topic of mother wounds, particularly focusing on the impact of narcissistic mothers. They discuss the emotional scars left by such relationships, the difficulty of forgiveness, and the importance of setting boundaries for healing. Kenza emphasizes the need for self-compassion and the role of spiritual mothering in the healing process. The conversation also highlights the significance of prayer and seeking support from healthy relationships as part of the journey towards recovery.Kenza's book: Unmasking Narcissism: Exposing and Breaking Free From Hidden Patterns of Abuse

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the challenges of letting go as a parent, especially when children grow up and pursue their own paths. Featuring Jennifer Dukes Lee, the conversation explores themes of faith, the importance of prayer, and the emotional journey of parenting. Jennifer shares her experiences with her daughters, their educational pursuits, and the role of prayer in navigating the challenges of parenting. The episode emphasizes the significance of trusting God's plan for our children and the power of scripture in providing comfort and guidance.Jennifer’s book: It's All Under Control:

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling and counselor Michelle Nietert discuss the emotional challenges of letting go as parents, particularly when sending children off to college. They explore the importance of understanding the Father heart of God, navigating the complexities of college life, and the dual responsibilities of caring for aging parents while raising children. Michelle shares practical tips for moms in the sandwich generation, emphasizing the need for community support, self-care, and the acceptance of grief during transitions. Michelle book: Strong and Secure

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling and guest Peggy Sue Wells discuss the complexities of motherhood during the holiday season, particularly focusing on the challenges of navigating relationships with adult children. They explore the emotional dynamics of family gatherings, the impact of high conflict divorce on holiday celebrations, and the importance of clear communication. The conversation emphasizes the need for mothers to transition from traditional parenting roles to friendships with their adult children, while also highlighting the significance of gratitude and emotional health in maintaining these relationships. PeggySue Wells is an award-winning USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestselling author, writing coach, and independent publishing strategist who inspires readers and writers alike with nearly 50 captivating books and practical guides. Peggys book: The Ten Best Decisions A Single Mom Can Make

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling welcomes actress and author Jen Lilley, who shares her journey of motherhood, faith, and her new devotional, 'Wake Up Your Faith.' Jen discusses the challenges of balancing her acting career with raising four children, the importance of prayer in decision-making, and her personal struggles with an eating disorder. The conversation emphasizes the need for daily encounters with Jesus and the role of faith in navigating life's challenges. In this conversation, Jen Lilley shares her personal journey of overcoming bulimia and the importance of trusting God in the healing process. She discusses the role of counseling, the balance between boldness and gentleness in faith, and the significance of living out love in daily life. Jen emphasizes the need for holistic approaches to health and the importance of support systems for those struggling with eating disorders. She encourages listeners to focus on Jesus as the standard for love and boldness in their lives.Jen’s book: Wake Up Your Faith

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling welcomes author Julie Lavender to discuss her journey in writing children's books, including her latest works focused on Advent. Julie shares her experiences as a writer, the joy of collaborating with her husband, and the importance of creating meaningful connections through literature. The conversation highlights the significance of instilling a love for reading in children and the role of faith in their upbringing. Julie's books aim to engage young readers and encourage family traditions, making them valuable resources for parents.Julie’s Book: Children’s Advent Stories For Bedtimehttps://mitchelllanepub.com/https://thecreativecompany.us/

Becky and Amanda Cleary Eastep continue the series on children’s books. AMANDA CLEARY EASTEP is an award-winning children’s author and a book editor. She works in a cabin in the mountains of North Carolina, but she has lived most of her life in the suburbs of Chicago, the home of the Tree Street Kids. Amanda and her husband, together, have eight grown children and a border collie named Annie who wakes Amanda up early every morning to write. Tree Street Kids Set

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling engages with Sue Schlesman, co-author of the Compassion Storybook Bible. They discuss the importance of teaching children about God's compassion, understanding sin and grace, and the role of empathy and peacemaking in family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional parenting and the significance of explaining spiritual concepts in a simple, relatable manner. They also touch on the idea of heaven and how to help children understand it without fear. The episode concludes with resources for parents to foster a compassionate and faith-filled environment for their children.Sue's book - The Compassion Storybook Bible

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky discusses the importance of cultivating a love of reading in children. Drawing from her own experiences, she shares strategies for parents and grandparents to encourage reading, including reading to children from a young age, understanding their interests, and modeling a love for books. The episode emphasizes the joy and connection that reading can bring to families, and invites listeners to join in the journey of fostering a love for reading in their children.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host discusses the often-taboo topics of mental health, particularly in the context of motherhood and the church. Guest Jennifer Renee Watson shares her personal journey with PTSD, self-advocacy, and the importance of emotional support. They explore the challenges of navigating toxic relationships, the impact of gaslighting, and the realities of seasonal depression. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care, the role of counseling, and the importance of breaking the cycle of shame surrounding mental health issues.Her book - What If You're Doing Better Than You Think? Finding Courage and Confidence When Life Gets Messy

In this heartfelt episode of The Connected Mom, host Becky engages in a profound conversation with Ash Ruddy, a mother who shares her incredible journey of faith and resilience after giving birth to a premature baby. They discuss the challenges faced in the NICU, the power of worship in bonding with her child, and the miraculous experiences that shaped their lives. Ash emphasizes the importance of surrendering control to God and recognizing the supernatural in everyday life, offering encouragement to mothers navigating their own difficult journeys.Ash’s book: Twenty-Four + One: A Mother’s Story of Faith, Love, and Miracles

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host discusses the journey of Shari Bailey, a mother of twin girls, one of whom has Jacobsen syndrome. Shari shares her experiences of caregiving, the challenges she faced, and how she found purpose in her journey. She talks about the creation of Laila's Gift, a nonprofit organization aimed at supporting families with special needs children, and the development of the Zigglebee's Imagination Book and an Infomate device to foster creativity and safety for children with special needs. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community, hope, and the unique gifts that special needs children bring to their families.Shari Bailey, co-founder of Zigglebee whose mission is to thoughtful tools for connection, creativity, and safety. https://zigglebee.com/about/our-story/

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky engages in a heartfelt conversation with Paul Gutacker about the journey of parenting, the importance of community, and the Brazos Fellows program. They discuss the challenges and joys of parenting, the significance of inviting others into family life, and how shared experiences can foster spiritual growth and connection. Paul emphasizes the need for grace in navigating different parenting styles within community and the value of commitment in relationships, especially in today's culture of opting out. In this conversation, Paul Gutacker discusses the importance of community life as exemplified by St. Benedict, the significance of stability in relationships, and how to engage children with the church calendar. He emphasizes the need for cultivating curiosity and wonder in kids, as well as the spiritual discipline of listening in parenting. The discussion highlights practical ways to incorporate these themes into family life and the importance of doing life together in a community.Paul’s book: Practicing Life Together: A Common Rule for Christian Growth

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the intersection of youth sports and Christian values with guests Brian Smith and Ed Usyznski. They explore the challenges parents face in navigating sports culture, the importance of mentorship, and how to disciple children through sports. The conversation emphasizes the need for balance in expectations, financial investments, and the emotional well-being of young athletes. The guests share personal stories and insights on fostering a healthy sports environment that aligns with Christian teachings.Book: Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth SportsSocial Media: Website: www.thechristianathlete.comTwitter: @BrianSmithAIAInstagram: @brianlinseySocial Media: Website: www.untanglingcrt.comTwitter: @uszynski32Facebook: @ed.uszynski.3

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling and guest Glenna Marshall explore the themes of motherhood, identity, and the profound love of God as expressed in Psalm 139. They discuss the challenges mothers face in feeling known and loved, the importance of understanding God's unconditional love, and how to apply these truths in parenting. The conversation emphasizes the significance of scripture memorization, prayer, and the need for honesty in our relationship with God. Glenna shares her personal journey through motherhood, including her experiences with adoption and the challenges of raising neurodivergent children. The episode concludes with encouragement for mothers to embrace their identity in Christ and to pray scripture over their children.Glenna's Book - Known & Loved

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling engages with D’Lytha and Nathan Myers, a creative couple who have recently produced the film 'Aria Appleton Shines.' They discuss the challenges of parenting in the digital age, the importance of community support, and the themes of their film, which addresses issues like cyberbullying and self-identity. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication between parents and children, especially regarding the impact of technology on youth.To learn more about their ministry: https://www.ariaappleton.com/

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling engages in a heartfelt conversation with Jamie Erickson, author of 'Overwhelmed Mom.' They explore the universal feeling of overwhelm among mothers, discussing its causes, personal experiences, and practical strategies to manage it. Jamie shares insights on the importance of setting boundaries, living in the present season of motherhood, and fostering community among moms. The episode concludes with actionable tips for listeners to alleviate feelings of overwhelm in their daily lives.Jaime’s Book: Overwhelmed Mom

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling engages in a heartfelt conversation with Myshel Wilkins, a recording artist and author of 'Arise, Shine and Conquer.' They discuss the challenges of infertility, the importance of faith during difficult times, and the transformative power of worship. Myshel shares her personal journey through grief and loss, emphasizing the need for women to find their identity in God and to seek His presence in their struggles. The conversation is filled with encouragement for mothers navigating their own challenges, reminding them of God's promises and the strength found in worship.Myshel’s book: Arise, Shine and Conquer: 40 Days of Courage for WomenAbout Myshel:Originally from Frankfort, Kentucky, Myshel traveled with her missionary father and Ghanaian mother to various countries, speaking and leading worship from an early age.Myshel graduated with a degree in political science from Tennessee State University. She was crowned Miss TSU and named Miss National Black Hall of Fame. She later earned a master’s degree in organizational leadership from The Kings Seminary at The King’s University in Southlake, Texas.After graduating, she moved to Nashville, Tennessee, and became a Christian musician. Myshel and her husband, Michael, now live in Dallas, Texas, and currently attend Upper Room ministries.

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling welcomes Trisha Goyer, a prolific author and mother of ten, to discuss the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly during the preteen years. Trisha shares her experiences with homeschooling, the importance of reading the Bible, prayer, and engaging in meaningful conversations with children. She emphasizes the significance of serving others and building relationships based on shared interests. The conversation also highlights the vital role of family support, particularly from grandparents, in nurturing faith and character in children.Tricia's book: Faith That Sticks: 5 Real-Life Ways to Disciple Your PreteenTricia Goyer dared to follow her dream of writing books. She’s penned over seventy titles: fiction, non-fiction, books for children and teens, and teens, too. But more than that, Tricia strives to empower women to dream what’s possible, whether it’s in their families, their homes, or their work.

So. Much. Pressure. is out there to be an amazing mom. From the moment we find out we're pregnant, we start thinking about our child's needs...and all too often forget that we have real needs, too! Join us for a conversation that is sure to lighten the pressure and bring refreshment. We talk with author Alli Worthington about her newest book "Remaining You While Raising Them" and her insights are sheer gold!ABOUT OUR GUESTAlli Worthington's goal is to help women live the life they were created to live. She lives outside Nashville with her husband, Mark, their five sons, and the only golden retriever who refuses to retrieve. She's a popular Christian women's speaker who travels the country sharing her humor, practical advice, and encouragement. She hosts her top-rated weekly podcast, The Alli Worthington Show, and brings us friends she loves, experts to learn from, and coaches listeners in life, business, and faith.Alli built her business in 2008 after her family went bankrupt with $42, a broken laptop, and millions of Google searches. She is now a sought-after coach and consultant who has helped individuals, small business owners, and Fortune 500 companies be more successful. Alli's no-nonsense, guilt-free take on motherhood, parenting, and balance lead to appearances on The Today Show and Good Morning America. Alli spends way too much time on Instagram at @AlliWorthington and you can download free resources and gifts at AlliWorthington.comABOUT THE BOOK: REMAINING YOU WHILE RAISING THEMBestselling author, life and business coach, and mom of five boys Alli Worthington believes too many moms have neglected to take care of arguably the one person who matters most: themselves. In Remaining You While Raising Them, Alli shares guilt-free, often hilarious, empowering, and research-informed advice to help you:Intentionally care for yourself--spiritually, emotionally, and physically--amidst the demands of motherhoodDrop the "good mom" myths that have been stealing your happinessTake back your own identity by discovering the unique type of mom you areLet go of social pressure, conquer mom guilt, and stop toxic comparison once and for allDiscover easy tools for building your confidence and developing a healthy mom mindsetRaising children who are spiritually, emotionally, and physically healthy is essential, but to accomplish that heroic feat, mothers also need to be healthy in those areas. It's time to rediscover the beauty, the joy, and the sacred and secret art of confident motherhood together.

This episode is one that you want to listen to more than once! Join Becky and Money Saving Mom Expert, Crystal Paine as they talk about money saving tips for back-to-school supplies and more. Join Crystal’s Money Saving Mom: Money Saving Mom. There are blogs, an eBook, and an e-course about Supermarket Savings! Crystal Paine, founder of Moneysavingmom.com is the blessed wife of Jesse and mom of six precious children: Kathrynne, Kaitlynn, Silas, Kierstyn, David and Micah. She is first and foremost a child of God. She is passionate about glorifying Him and making the most of her days on this earth. Crystal is also the host of The Crystal Paine Show.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the themes of loneliness, offense, and the importance of forgiveness in relationships. Drawing from the book 'Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World', the conversation emphasizes the need to reflect on personal feelings of offense and how they impact relationships. The host shares personal anecdotes and practical questions to help listeners navigate their feelings and foster healthier connections with others.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the themes of loneliness, offense, and the importance of forgiveness in relationships. Drawing from the book 'Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World', the conversation emphasizes the need to reflect on personal feelings of offense and how they impact relationships. The host shares personal anecdotes and practical questions to help listeners navigate their feelings and foster healthier connections with others.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the importance of hospitality in cultivating deeper connections in a lonely world. The conversation explores how hospitality has evolved, practical ways to practice it, and the role of the church in fostering a welcoming environment. The host encourages listeners to redefine hospitality beyond extravagant gatherings and to embrace simple acts of welcoming others into their homes.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the importance of cultivating deeper connections in a world filled with distractions. Drawing from personal anecdotes and biblical examples, the conversation emphasizes the need for attentiveness in relationships, practical steps to improve listening skills, and the significance of dedicating time to focus on loved ones. The episode encourages listeners to implement the '15-minute rule' to foster deeper connections and combat loneliness.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the importance of cultivating deeper connections in a world filled with distractions. Drawing from personal anecdotes and biblical examples, the conversation emphasizes the need for attentiveness in relationships, practical steps to improve listening skills, and the significance of dedicating time to focus on loved ones. The episode encourages listeners to implement the '15-minute rule' to foster deeper connections and combat loneliness.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the importance of cultivating deeper connections in a world filled with loneliness. The conversation focuses on the themes of envy and comparison, emphasizing the need to cheer for others rather than compare ourselves to them. The host shares personal anecdotes and biblical references to illustrate the detrimental effects of envy and offers practical steps to overcome it, including confession, fasting, and cultivating gratitude. The episode concludes with encouragement for group discussions on envy and gratitude.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling discusses the theme of loyalty as a vital component in building deeper connections in relationships. Drawing from personal anecdotes and biblical stories, she emphasizes the importance of staying committed through life's challenges, whether in marriages, friendships, or church communities. The conversation highlights the story of Ruth and Naomi as a powerful example of loyalty and the benefits of cultivating long-term relationships.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the importance of letting go of a critical spirit to foster deeper connections in relationships. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, the conversation emphasizes empathy, kindness, and grace as essential components for nurturing friendships and family ties. The host encourages listeners to reflect on their own behaviors and consider how they can offer more compassion instead of criticism.

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, the host discusses the themes of loneliness and the importance of humility in building deeper connections. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical teachings, the conversation emphasizes the need for vulnerability, active listening, and serving others to foster meaningful relationships. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their interactions and strive for mutual understanding and support in their friendships.

In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling introduces a new book club season focused on the book 'Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World.' She discusses the epidemic of loneliness, the importance of community, and how our internal narratives can hinder our ability to connect with others. The episode encourages listeners to take initiative in building relationships and to reflect on what keeps them from engaging with others.

In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carol McCracken, who shares her journey of parenting a special needs child. Carol discusses the challenges she faced, including her son's ADHD and Asperger's syndrome, and the impact these challenges had on her marriage. The conversation highlights the importance of community, authenticity, and seeking help during difficult times. Carol emphasizes that God has a purpose in our struggles and encourages parents to lean on their faith and support systems. The episode concludes with a message of hope and the reminder that no one is alone in their journey.Carol’s book: Wisdom: Where To Find It If You've Lost, Forgotten, Or Never Had It