The Carlos Whittaker Podcast

This one. PHEW MAMA! My friend Yves Dushime's mother was 8 months pregnant when she had to run for her life after watching her family get killed by their neighbors during the Rwandan genocide in 1994. That baby in her belly was Yves. And today on the show, he shows us how to find hope and how we can get the peace we have been looking for even in the midst of the most traumatic situation we have ever encountered. I'm ready to bust down a brick wall. Please share this episode! Love you fam... Los Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

PREACHER CARLOS IS BACK!!!! Today we dive into 3 ways to make our HOPE limitless when it seems like Hope is the last thing available these days… Learn how we limit God by not accessing the faith that we need to believe the impossible— but we can also limit the hope God can give us by placing our hope on things here on earth. Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Thanks to our sponsors… BetterHelp www.betterhelp.com/humanhoope United Faith Mortgage https://bit.ly/TSFNUnitedFaithMortgage The Chosen https://bit.ly/TSFNTheChosen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I first met Blaine Hogan when he was playing Cherry on the hit show Prison Break in 2006. Well, I didn't actually meet him. I just was addicted to that show and he was on it. And then one day I bumped into him on an elevator... For real. And a friendship was born. And then I watched Blaine fight for his marriage, career, and life. And I watched him win. And Blaine is gonna help you win too. Today's episode is for anyone that wants to break free from something that is holding them back. And that's all of us... Pick up Blaine's book at www.exitthecavebook.com And thanks to our sponsors... Butcher Box www.butcherbox.com/HUMANHOPE and use code "HUMANHOPE" to get one 10 to 14-pound turkey FREE in your first box. United Faith Mortgage https://bit.ly/TSFNUnitedFaithMortgage Athletic Greens www.athleticgreens.com/humanhope Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

MIDTERMS ARE HEEEEERRRREEEEE. Can you tell? :) Is your Aunt Glenda getting a little more aggressive with her Facebook reposts? Is your mom posting things that you tell her not to? Does every single conversation you have with your sibling turn into a conversation about politics? Well if the answer to any of these questions is yes… I’ve got you. Today we move from Know-Assume-Defend To Ask-Seek-Knock And I promise you it’s gonna help… Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Thanks to our sponsors… BetterHelp www.betterhelp.com/humanhoope United Faith Mortgage https://bit.ly/TSFNUnitedFaithMortgage The Chosen https://bit.ly/TSFNTheChosen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Worry. Not anxiety… Worry. They are different. Today we dive into 3 steps to take when worry shows up and how to show it out… These steps I LITERALLY USE EVERYDAY. They have proven SO HELPFUL for me because I’m prone to worry… Please share if you find it helpful! Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Thanks to our sponsor… United Faith Mortgage https://bit.ly/TSFNUnitedFaithMortgage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I get on a few SOAP BOXES. Like I literally climb on one, yell, get off it, climb on another, yell, get off it, and do it again. This one is raw y’all. I’m feeling feisty today. From spitting about wanting to support Brandon Phyllis and Josh BEYOND giving them money, to the lack of financial resources even available to them… To my wanting you to stop caring so much about what people think of you… to my love of Angela Lansbury, to my plea for us to stop canceling people… I WAS ALL OVER THE PLACE TODAY!!! I hope you enjoy… Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Thanks to our sponsor… BetterHelp - https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp United Faith Mortgage https://bit.ly/TSFNUnitedFaithMortgage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Instafamilia is at it again. Last night I decided to SEE some of the food court workers in ATL Airport Terminal A. Give them a big Instafamilia Tip… It started at $12,000 and has grown to almost $80,000. Today you get to dive into the stories of our new family members Brandon, Josh, And Phyllis… Enjoy… And remember… Humans are good… Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever begged God for something only to fall into deep disillusionment when He fails to come through for you? Maybe you have been begging God for healing over sickness… Maybe you have been waiting for a miracle that hasn’t happened in your relationships yet… Maybe you have asked God for help financially and you are BROKE… We all have felt disappointment when coming to God with stuff but what is the real reason why our suffering is happening and is God allowing all this bad stuff to happen? Today I went to an amazing friend for his thoughts on this. Wes Pickering is the online pastor t my church and one of the more trusted voices of faith in my life. I love that Wes doesn’t avoid the tough stuff. I also love that Wes walks what he talks. He was in the thick of our battle during our month at Vanderbilt Children’s Hospital 2 years ago with Sohaila. And today I think he is going to give you words that finally make you go… AHHHAAAAAA!!!!!! So enjoy this conversation with my dear friend Wes and make sure you follow him for an infusion of faith in your life… @wespickering Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Thanks to our sponsor… BetterHelp - https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I announced my newest book titled How To Human which will release January of 2023. And that announcement triggered all sorts of DEEP feelings inside of my soul. One being my love for the first book I wrote… Moment Maker. Which I quickly realized that I HAVE NEVER SHARED ABOUT ON THIS PODCAST! So today is the day. I’m excited to take you back to 2014 Carlos’ mind as I share with you how to create, receive, and rescue moments on a daily basis… Preorder How To Human here! http://www.how2humanbook.com Thanks to our sponsor… Indeed - https://bit.ly/IndeedHH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’ve known Jon for 14 years… 14 years of dreaming and hustling and swinging and missing… Today he unpacks exactly how it is that you can not only shift the soundtracks that rob you from your full potential… But help your kids and friends change theirs too… This is one of my fav convos I’ve had Ono the show… And omg he makes me laugh… Pick up a copy of “Your New Playlist” wherever books are sold… Or click this link… https://acuff.me/playlist/ Thanks to our sponsors… Butcher Box - http://www.butcherbox.com/HUMANHOPE and use code HUMANHOPE Better Help - http://www.betterhelp.coom/humanhope Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If there is one thing I have done while I have been off of social media and my phone the last 6 weeks… it’s been READING… I’ve read, and read, and read, and read some more… I’ve read novels that are thrillers. I read one that was a romance…(you’re welcome babe) I’ve read self help books. I’ve read spiritual discipline books. I’ve read a book filled with Etty Hillesum’s WWII diary entries that changed the way I look at humanity as a whole… I’ve read so much AND TODAY I SHARE THEM WITH YOU! Too if you are in the market for a good book… I’ve got 10 options for you… I hope you enjoy! OH!!! And please go subscribe to the BRAND NEW Human Hope Youtube Channel! That’s right. We are testing video over there… http://www.humanhopevideo.com Just make sure you stay subscribed here and while your at it get your grandma too subscribe as well!!! And thanks to our sponsor ZocDoc http://www.zocdoc.com/humanhope Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I thought I was going to be off social media for 3 weeks... Then it turned into 4 weeks... Now it's past 5 weeks... Why am I taking so long to come back? What am I learning? Will I come back? Today is a very, and I mean very, Carlosish episode of rabbit trails and deep thoughts that lead to shallow thoughts that trail back to ridiculous thoughts that I hope you will find somewhat insightful and helpful as you navigate a world that demands we share everything about everything... Maybe, just maybe we can do it better... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m so glad I stopped by the piano bar in the Atlanta airport that day and saw your infectious grin. I was exhausted from 3 days of airplanes and hotels and you looked happier than humanly possible. Nobody was paying attention and they had no idea they were missing the concert of their lifetime. All I wanted to do was let you see me…see you… But as fate would have it that 30-minute conversation would change more than my life… but the lives of so many others… You were and will always be the Instafamilia Godfather… The media thought we changed your life… Little did they know it was the other way around… As I told you on the phone this morning as I said goodbye... Enjoy playing hymns for The Almighty @toneepianoman … We will miss you ferociously and wait in anticipation of seeing you again on the other side of the veil… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The most downloaded episode of 2021 was “Amish Love Stories Aren’t Supposed To Be This Scandalous” Episode 19… You all fell in love with the story of the young girl and Amish boy who ran off and eloped… Well… Today you get to hear from the other half of Lee Ann Miller… Her husband Daryl joins us to tell his side of the story and the pros and cons of growing up Amish… Follow Lee Ann Miller @leeannmiller on Instagram and give her that Human Hope love!!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a first… I normally like to keep Podcast Carlos and Preacher Carlos on different planets… But today they meet each other and can I tell you… I’M EXCITED FOR YOU! Why? Because I invited preacher Carlos on here to deliver to you a message soon how to leave a mild faith and actually believe the crazy stuff we have been saying we believe for a long time. I used to think 60% living was good enough… Nope. Not anymore. Life to the full means getting to 100% and I think I can help you get there today… Thanks to our sponsors… https://bit.ly/HHButcherBox https://bit.ly/HHGiveDirectly https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The last two years have divided us more than ever... And I think I have found a way forward, not being polite with those we disagree with, but actually being intertwined with them. In a really healthy way. This week I take you on a journey from hesitation to restoration when it comes to othose we are in relationsuo[ with that we don't see eye to eye with. It's not gonna be easy... But it's gonna be worth it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People ask me all the time when I'm going to write a parenting book. My answer is NEVER because David already has. II have devoured every single thing this man has written and said about parenting as well as trusted him with the heart of our youngest for years through the counseling program at Daystar where David Thomas is the head of family couonseling. In today's epidsode David TAKES US TO SCHOOL on how the old fashioned ways of raising boys may need some course correction. Trust me you are goonna love it... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This one is LIFE CHANGING YA'LL!!! No hype. Everything can change if you put what Tim teaches us into action. I've watched Tim work alongside my friend Don Miller for the last decade. I've watched him be the #2 at that company. And I've watched him redefine what it means to be successful... To be successful, we think we have to step into the spotlight or climb the ladder. "The Secret Society of Success" introduces a new way to define success that’s counter to what culture is selling. And when you learn to live in this new way, you’ll start to enjoy your work and life again. Pick up a copy of The Secret Society Of Success wherever you buy books... https://www.harpercollinschristian.com/9781400229420/the-secret-society-of-success/ Also thanks to our sponsors... https://bit.ly/IndeedHH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From that time he bailed me out of jail, to raising our babies together… Today's episode Heather and I have our best friends, Brian and Jacinda Hale on the show to talk about relationships, parenting, and chasing your dreams in your 40’s… Today we invite you to pull up a chair to our table and get inspired by this conversation with our people… Thanks to our sponsors… Express VPN https://bit.ly/HHExpressVPN Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From the pandemic, to racial injustice, to political violence, to mass shootings… The past 2 years have been TOO MUCH. In today’s conversation, one of my mentors John Eldredge gives us practical skills and tools to bring our souls back to life. “I’ve laid out the book in the form of a survival guide because in this hour we don’t need inspiration and cute stories; we need skills and tools to strengthen heart and soul,” writes Eldredge. And in today’s episode… he gives us just that… Thanks to our sponsors… Green Chef https://bit.ly/HHGreenChef130 Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Now the last time Heather was on the podcast, she swore to never come on again. :) That’s because there were SOME HEAVY OPINIONS on how we handle hot topic disagreements… But alas I convinced her to come back and we tackle some hot and not-so-hot topics today… We asked my Instagram audience for their questions and we got SO MANY GOOD ONES… Like… What is our take on the Jan 6th hearings… (Heather has a SPICY ONE!) How to walk with people who you severely disagree with… Our roles at home and do we wish they were different… Sock Sock Shoe Shoe? Or Sock Shoe Sock Shoe? How my family handles my constant social media recording… Our one pick-me-up song… How we argue and who typically wins… And probably 20 more of your questions… This one isn’t so heavy and I know we all need some deep breaths… Heather brings them… Trust me she is as candid as she’s ever been on this one… Thanks for listening!!! Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I learned SO MUCH from my Ugandan friends over the last 2 weeks. I learned that THEY are really good at knowing what THEY need. I learned that asking what they need is more important than telling them what they need. I learned that serving them as a Christian IS NOT the same thing as colonizing their land as a Christian. I learned tons about the history of Christianity and its African roots. I learned that Ugandans don’t need Americans to “rescue” them. I learned that it’s important to have these conversations… So in today’s episode, I spend some time unpacking these thoughts the first 1/2 of the show, and then the second 1/2 I interview the producer of the new documentary “Unspoken” - An in-depth look into the Christian heritage of Africa and people of African descent, intended to dispel the notion of Christianity being an exclusively white man’s religion. It is SUCH A GOOD DOCUMENTARY. http://www.unspokenmovie.com Lisa is one of the world’s most sought-after Christian apologists, combining her passion for biblical literacy with her heart for sharing God’s love with all those she meets. This is one of those episodes that you will come back to over and over again… Hopefully, this is helpful! Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Babbel - https://www.babbel.com/humanhopeI learned SO MUCH from my Ugandan friends the last 2 weeks. I learned that THEY are really good at knowing what THEY need. I learned that asking what they need is more important than telling them what they need. I learned that serving them as a Christian IS NOT the same thing as colonizing their land as a Christian. I learned tons about the history of Christianity and it’s African roots. I learned that Ugandans don’t need American’s to “rescue” them. I learned that it’s important to have these conversations… So in today’s episode I spend sometime unpacking these thoughts the first 1/2 of the show and then the second 1/2 I interview the producer of the new documentary “Unspoken” - An in-depth look into the Christian heritage of Africa and people of African descent, intended to dispel the notion of Christianity being an exclusively white man’s religion. It is SUCH A GOOD DOCUMENTARY. Lisa is one of the world’s most sought-after Christian apologist, combines her passion for biblical literacy with her heart for sharing God’s love to all those she meets. This is one of those episodes that you will come back to over and over again… Hopefully, this is helpful! Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Babbel - https://www.babbel.com/humanhope Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Father's Day from That Sounds Fun Network & Human Hope! Today we have a special bonus episode to share with you celebrating dads & all we love about them. In this episode, hosts from all different That Sounds Fun Network shows -- including me -- share what we love about our dads/and advice about being a dad. ALSO! Our friends over at Storyworth are giving away TWO free subscriptions for our TSF Network listeners! To enter: visit thatsoundsfunnetwork.com & enter your email in the pop-up. That's it! Good luck & Happy Father's Day! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When we landed in Uganda, fresh off of 30 hours of travel, we were picked up by the most joyful human I’ve encountered in a long time. Her name was Lillian and she was going to be our personal guide the next few days… For 2 days I assumed she was filled with joy because she had an incredible job, a healthy baby at home, and was relatively well off… But then she told me of her orphaned childhood… filled with homelessness, begging, abuse, suicide attempts, and then how a few letters from across the ocean actually saved her life… This is an unbelievable story of tragedy and triumph and one you won’t want to miss… You can sponsor a child and join the 750 who sponsored this week by clicking this link… http://www.compassion.com/whittaker Thank you Lillian for bravely sharing your story of hope… Thanks to our sponsors… Indeed https://bit.ly/IndeedHH ExpressVPN https://bit.ly/HHExpressVPN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As I’m typing this… I’m coming out of a 10-day battle royal with depression. This isn’t the first time it has come calling my name. But it has been a long time since I have had to pull out my tool belt and get to work. Since the summer of 2020, I’ve been depression-free. And I had begun walking with a little bit of a swagger. Like “Look at me! I don’t struggle with depression anymo%@%#$%$#%$#%$” Oooops. Waaaaay back on the 6th episode of this podcast, I titled it “When Anxiety Shows Up, Here's How To Show It Out…” Well, today is the same... but different. Anxiety and depression are cousins but the tools to get through a season have looked a little different for me. So today I literally let you in on how I have worked through the last ten days and give you 9 tools that I think could help you or a loved one out of a season of depression as well. Also, know that I’m not a doctor or therapist… these are just tools that have helped me. I hope you enjoy today and let it serve as a reminder that you can and will get through this… If you are thinking of taking your own life… Please dial 800-273-8255 right now and someone can help you immediately. We need you here. You are loved. Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I was joking on Instagram this week how I was coming out of retirement to lead worship at my good friend Larry’s celebration of life service. Joking because I needed to find something to laugh about or I would cry and also joking because I was slightly terrified I may have forgotten how to do it. I mean I was leading worship on the same stage at Mack Brock, Chris Brown, Brandon Lake, John Mark McMillain, and so many other incredible worship leaders. But then something surprised me. It surprised me that so many people didn’t know that I ever did that. Like that was my main source of income for over a decade! And second, so many people wanted to know why I stopped. As I was going back through my story with a friend I realized that there are a lot of little nuggets that I think many of you that are feeling stuck in a job, or career, or maybe even a past calling, could use… Like I wish I knew someone that risked quitting something they were really good at to find success in something they didn’t know they would be good at WHEN I WAS QUITTING WORSHIP LEADING! So todays episode is simply my story of why I quit, and why I think maybe you need to quit something you are good at too! I hope you enjoy… Thanks to our sponsors… Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Chime https://bit.ly/HHChime Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People ask us all the time how we raised such awesome kids… Without skipping a beat we always say… “Sissy Goff” Sissy has been our daughters' personal counselor from their elementary years through their high school years. She has single handily changed the direction of our family's lives and we are forever grateful. Sissy is the director of child and adolescent counseling at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville TN and is one of the most sought-after voices in helping our kids overcome anxiety in their lives. Today she gives us 4 very sticky tools to use when helping our kids navigate these national tragedies as well as gives us 3 ways to help with our kids and any other anxiety they may be dealing with. Today's episode is rich with goodness and practical help. Please let sissy know how much you appreciate her @sissygoff on Instagram. Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Canopy https://bit.ly/HHCanopy StoryWorth https://bit.ly/HHStoryWorth Babbel http://www.babbel.com (code: humanhope) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jeanne has poured her soul into this message that is going to transform so many of your lives… It’s not the state of the world. It’s not your particular circumstances. It’s not even your turbulent relationships. When it comes down to it, what keeps us from experiencing peace is either living in the past or living for the future. When we obsess over what’s already happened or put all of our efforts into creating a picture-perfect tomorrow, we miss what is for us here and now. The result is regret over what we can’t change and anxiety over what we feel we must change. Today everything changes… Pick up What’s Here Now? By clicking this link… Thanks to our partner Indeed! Claim your SEVENTY-FIVE DOLLAR CREDIT now at www.Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I realized something a few years ago. That my life was living me instead of me living my life. I was satisfied with watching other people living their adventures while simply existing day by day. And then I heard a friend say “Carlos, you can live your life or your life will live you…” And everything changed… So in today's episode, I give you 5 ways that you can start living the adventure you were created to live. 5 steps. You can do this… You got this… Ready? Set? Adventure… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I’m trying something different. I asked YOU what you wanted answers to and I got over 1,000 replies. So today I’m answering YOUR questions… And boy did you have some good ones… Like… What are my thoughts on the Roe vs. Wade story? How do I deal with Compassion Fatigue? Should you make your teens go to church? Beat Fit Pro vs AirPod Pro What happens when I begin doubting my faith? (Which does happen!) How to have tough convos on hot topics Best 8-week-old puppy tips! And so many more!!! I loved this one and hope you do too… Here is the Roe Vs Wade video I talked about... https://youtu.be/RvWD7ykNjCc Thanks to our sponsors… Now What Book https://bit.ly/HHNowWhatBook Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Chime https://bit.ly/HHChime Family Camp Movie https://bit.ly/TSFNFamilyCampMovie Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If there is something I’m asked about ALL THE TIME in my DMs it’s how we manage our teens dating. And I normally avoid this question because it’s so nuanced per kid. But today Heather and I decided to bring the TEEN COUPLES on the podcast and ask THEM. We ask them… What rules do Heather and I have for our kids dating? What can parents do to set up a healthy dating culture in the home? How we fold the boyfriends into our family unit? How the younger sibling feels about his sisters having guys around all the time? I ASK MY MOM ABOUT MY TEEN DATING DAYS… I honestly think today is going to be helpful for relationships no matter if it’s with your kids, or friends, or other family members… So much gold. Thanks to our sponsors… Now What Book https://bit.ly/HHNowWhatBook Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Canopy https://bit.ly/HHCanopy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’ve created lots of content helping people struggling with anxiety get through it. But I’ve never made something specifically for people who are walking alongside loved ones battling with anxiety. So I made this for you. Today we talk about three major steps we can take in building the support someone we love needs while walking through a season of anxiety. I give practical tools and phrases that can open them up to see you as an ally in their battle and will allow you to help them get better faster. I hope this helps… Thanks to our sponsors… Indeed https://bit.ly/IndeedHH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Jen Pratt is a pediatric physician that is caring for children in the very same hospital where she was treated. Her story has come full circle, back to where her life was transformed. Dr. Pratt is now able to help improve the lives of other children battling critical illnesses with the gift of a wish referral and personally share in the transformation that comes with her patients’ wish experiences. Make-A-Wish aims to bring the power of wishing to every child with a critical illness because wish experiences can help improve emotional and physical health. Since 1980, Make-A-Wish has granted more than 520,000 wishes worldwide; more than 350,000 wishes in the U.S. and its territories alone. Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Canopy https://bit.ly/HHCanopy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the summer of 2019 I was stricken with massive panic, anxiety, and generally felt horrible every single day. That is until I met a robin in my front yard. Today we take a dive into something that many of you didn’t even know you needed to know. How the nature in our own backyards can bring you breath you didn’t know you were missing. We talk to backyard bird and monarch butterfly expert Katie Walsh and she gives us mind blowing facts about monarch butterfly migration that will leave your mouth hanging open. She also gives us all the tips on how to attract and become the Snow White of our own hoods as we become one with the birds in our yards. This episode will blow your mind and heal your soul… Thanks to our sponsors… Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Chime https://bit.ly/HHChime Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The slap heard round the world. When we went to bed after seeing Will Smith slap Chris Rock and all the convo on twitter was about assault and bad jokes… When we woke up the convo had shifted to black woman… and staying in your lane… So what happened? Was this really about race? Was this another moment to be quiet and just listen to black women? Well instead of just wondering about it, I called on the aunties. Sarah, Melinda, and Sharon are three of my good friends here in Nashville TN who are grace filled and fire filled. They have loads of patience as I’ve watched them over the last few years help many in the white community understand what they have been through. And so they came over and we talked about it all. Toxic Masculinity in black culture. Or is it really toxic? Should Will Smith have slapped Chris Rock? Teach us about the drama you have had to endure with your hair in the white space. But most importantly… They come to us with laughter and grace in a conversation about race like we have never had before. You are about to fall in love… Welcome to The Black Auntie Show… Thanks to our sponsors… Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Canopy https://bit.ly/HHCanopy You Happier www.youhappier.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The world is throwing so much bad news at us on a daily basis… Our kids are addicted to video games… Our aunts are swallowed up by conspiracy theories… WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO?!!!! On today's episode our new favorite psychologist, Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein, CALMS US THE HECK DOWN. First of all she is the CHEIF WELLNESS OFFICER for Misfits Gaming… One of the largest Esports gaming teams in the world and flips the script on what we have been told about video games and our kids mental health. Her research and data is going to give many of you parents of video game loving kids such much-needed breath in your lungs… We also dive into how to control the content we consume so that we aren’t jeopardizing our mental health. We dive into why some people are never going to be satisfied by simple truth and have to dig to always find deeper truth which can lead to unhealthy rhythms, or conspiracy addiction… And we go all in on many other topics having to do with our minds. I’m so grateful to have stumbled upon her work and I know you will fall in love with her as well. Please follow her on Instagram and thank her for her time on the show @carolynrubenstein and her website is www.carolynrubenstein.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The last 2 years have been difficult for many church-going Christians in America. The reasons are many but a few contributing factors could be linked to A PANDEMIC, RACIAL TENSIONS, AND PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION ALL MIXED UP IN ONE. :) So much hurt over the past 2 years and many church-loving Christians now feel homeless… This episode isn’t one to give you answers as much as it is to let you know where and how I’ve been hurt and how I have approached my own healing. It’s not about convincing anyone to go to church. I just want you to be seen. To have hope that just maybe you can heal… Because I believe you can. Love you fam… Thanks to your show sponsors as well!!! Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Canopy https://bit.ly/HHCanopy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I can’t believe it happened. All 5 of us on one episode. It’s never happened. And all it took was having my kids locked inside a car with their mom and dad for 30 minutes driving through the tiny streets of a small town in Italy. Today on the podcast we talk about our trip to Italy and then answer your questions on current international travel and what it’s like. I hope you enjoy this lighthearted episode! Thanks to your show sponsors as well!!! Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Chime https://bit.ly/HHChime Green Chef https://bit.ly/HHGreenChef130 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Every so often I feel like I’m getting things done. Like I’m accomplishing things in life. And then I meet a mayor of a city of 300,000 at 26 years old. OK. OK. Yes I’m getting things done… but Michael D. Tubbs is making me feel all sorts of lazy! In all seriousness Michael’s journey from nothing to everything is truly inspiring and I think you are going to love this convo with him. At the age of 26, Michael D. Tubbs became the youngest Mayor of any major city in American history. As Mayor, Tubbs was lauded for his leadership and innovation. Under his stewardship, Stockton was named an “All-America City” in 2017 and 2018, saw a 40% drop in homicides in 2018 and 2019, led the state of California in the decline of officer involved shootings in 2019, was named the second most fiscally healthy city in California and one of the top most fiscally healthy cities in the nation. Check out his work at www.mtubbs.com Thanks to your show sponsors as well!!! Athletic Greens https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Better Help https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Before I was Derek’s friend… I was Derek’s fan. I WAS INFATUATED WITH CAEDMON’S CALL and was certain they would ask me to be a member of their ever-growing band one day. The day never came BUT the day did come when Derek and I would end up being friends. I’ve walked alongside Derek in various levels as he has walked a really public deconstruction of what he believes about Jesus, God, and Christendom. This is a conversation between a friend who is a bible believing, Holy Spirit-filled, Jesus-following, church-going Christian, and a friend who isn’t most of those things. This isn’t a conversation where we try and convince each other of our things. This is a conversation where I ask Derek to help 2 groups of people. Help those who are deconstructing feel less alone… And help those of us who are not feel less afraid. This conversation is so so helpful. And what I’m even more excited about is how you will fall in love with my friend Derek. Support Derek and his new record at https://www.derekwebb.com/ And follow Derek on instagram and twitter @derekwebb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1,000,000 Downloads!!! We did it familia! No, you did it! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for joining me on this little experiment called “Let’s see if Carlos actually does this podcast thing longer than 3 weeks in a row” I think the experiment worked! So to celebrate, I’M GONNA GIVE ONE OF YOU $500!!! All you have to do is email [email protected] a screenshot of you sharing the podcast (social media, text message, billboard, airplane skywriting) or/and leaving a review on apple podcasts or Spotify! Also, we have the most remarkable Jessica Jackley on the show talking about how and why giving feels so good and how giving could be the way out of this rage-filled society we find ourselves in… Here is where you can find Jessica’s new Altruist project! https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Thanks to our sponsors! https://bit.ly/HHBetterHelp https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The other week I asked my wife Heather on my Instastory…”Hey babe! What are some things that we disagree on???” She answered without thinking… “Politics, Parenting, and the Vaccine…” And kept cooking dinner without skipping a beat. I kept on with the Instastory without skipping a beat. A few minutes later the DMs were FLOODED with my people asking how it was possible... And so today we answer that question... along with a few others you asked like… How did you talk to your teen daughters & their boyfriends about sex? How do we develop close relationships with our kids? How do we handle disagreeing on parenting issues? How do we manage our finances? What does it look like to invite God into our marriage? And so many more questions… But we spend a bulk of this on how to navigate these deep divisions people are walking through in their relationships when it comes to politics ect… I think it’s gonna be really helpful and hopeful for you!!! Thanks to our sponsors! https://bit.ly/HHGreenChef130 https://bit.ly/HHChime http://www.thatsoundsfunnetwork.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My dad has advance stage dementia. He can’t carry on a conversation with you for longer than 5 seconds. He no longer knows my wife. He no longer knows his grandchildren. He no longer really remembers anything about his life… But you know what? He is still… Him. I catch glimpses of who he is. There are tiny cracks into his soul that show up like magic every once and a while. But I totally had forgotten about this treasure of a recording I had. When I started noticing his memory problem… I called him and recorded his story. This conversation is 4 years old… And it’s mind blowing how he could never have this conversation now. But I’m so glad I had it with him then. So please enjoy this conversation that may be the most inspiring conversation you have heard in a long time… From my dad, who has dementia… But dementia doesn’t have him… Thanks to our sponsors! https://bit.ly/HHGreenChef130 https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens https://bit.ly/HHChime http://www.betterhelp.com/humanhope https://bit.ly/HHAnnieFDowns Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you follow me on instagram you see that we are in a season where our tiny house is constantly filled with teenagers we know and love as well as teenagers we don’t know. :) It’s a zoo around here and we love it. Heather and I hoped and prayed that our home would be “The House”. You know the one? The house that all the kids would hang out at? And here we have found ourselves as THE HOUSE. We don’t have a big house. We don’t have a fancy house. But in todays episode we ask the kids, why our house? That’s right. The teenagers that take over our home on a nightly basis sit down with me and spill some good nuggets… What has made this house the house that is at the center of their friend group universe? This is such an insightful and timely conversation that I’m sure you will enjoy… Kids or no kids… It will help you create a culture of welcome in your home… Thanks to our sponsors! https://bit.ly/HHGreenChef130 https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens https://bit.ly/HHChime https://bit.ly/HHAnnieFDowns Please help support the show by checking out our sponsors! https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens http://www.betterhelp.com/humanhope Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I honestly can’t believe how fortunate we are to hear these life-changing words from my friend Donald Miller. This podcast episode literally has the potential to change so many lives out there. That is not clickbait. That is real. Don’s coaching us on how to live as the hero of our story today and leaves nothing on the cutting room floor. I have known Don for a long time and this may be his most important work yet. Please let him know how much this means to him and as always thank you for sharing the show! Thanks to our sponsors! https://bit.ly/HHGreenChef130 https://bit.ly/HHAthleticGreens https://bit.ly/HHChime https://bit.ly/HHAnnieFDowns Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s been a hot minute since it was just you and I. And I’ve missed you!!! Listen I LOVE our guests. I love learning from their POV, but every once in a while I love to just unload some learnings that the world has been showing me and today I unpack some learnings on how to truly be a better ally towards people groups that your heart aligns with. We go through 5 steps… Define and Embrace The Definition Make It Personal Lesson Up Lose The Comfort Get In The Game This isn’t an exhaustive list… But I thin kit will help get you on the right track to make 2022 a year that we see those who have been oppressed or ignored finally be given a runway towards true equality. And you are the key to unlocking that gift! Thanks to our sponsors! www.athleticgreens.com/humanhope www.betterhelp.com/humanhope www.ThistleFarms.org code humanhope www.stamps.com enter code HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a pen and paper podcast fam. Like seriously. Go grab it. The amount of nuggets and morals of wisdom that Dante Stewart drops for the human Hope Fam is ridiculous. Dante is a husband, father, football player, service member spouse, preacher, racial reconciliator (did I just make up a word?) But most importantly he is a hope dealer. He comes hard in this episode and gives us a lot to work on and a lot of hope when it comes to what it means to continue to fight for the equal treatment of everybody in America. Today's show will end up being a favorite for years to come. Keep up with Dante https://www.instagram.com/stewartdantec/ or linktr.ee/dantestewart Thanks to our sponsors! simplyearth.com/HUMANHOPE www.ThistleFarms.org code humanhope www.stamps.com enter code HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I know I have a lot of people who don’t see faith the same way I do and I love that. Today I introduce you to one of my most trusted and safe friends. Safe for wherever you are on your faith journey… Carey Nieuwhof is a pastor from north of Toronto, Canada who is one of those I would send the most skeptical of doubters to. Not because he will convince you not to be skeptical… But because he will simply love you for you. On today’s show Carey unpacks what it means to him to have Canadian pride, how he grew up in a post Christian environment and where he sees the deconstructing of American evangelicalism fitting into our story, and shares his story on burning out and helps us avoid those very same pitfalls… You can find out more about Carey at https://careynieuwhof.com/ and you can follow him on socials @careynieuwhof And no I’ve never been able to spell his name bu heart. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After a decade of indulging his darkest vices as a nightclub promoter, Scott declared spiritual, moral, and emotional bankruptcy. He spent two years on a hospital ship off the coast of Liberia, saw the effects of dirty water firsthand, and came back to New York City on a mission. He spent the next 15 years building one of the most impactful charities on the planet… And then covid hit… Here is how Scott and Charity Water are moving into this next season of their mission… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sharon McMahon is a former high school government and law teacher on a mission to combat political misinformation. She is also one of my closest “instafriends”. Se was on the premiere episode of Human Hope and now pops in again on episode 37 to fill us in on all sorts of good, old-fashioned American history. We talk about it all. From why Uranus is now pronounced differently, to why indigenous people in America need to be celebrated… From Andrew Jackson and the trail of tears to how we can simultaneously celebrate our past leaders and hold them accountable… This is an episode you don’t wanna miss… Follow Sharon on socials @sharonsaysso. Also thank you to our sponsors… https://www.getquip.com/humanhope (Get your first refill FREE bu clicking that link) Thisle Farms - Learn more about their mission and their products - at www.ThistleFarms.org. They have created a special code "humanhope" (all one word) that will give you 15% off. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices