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The Allender Center Podcast

The Allender Center Podcast

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Trauma, marriage, and the church

This week, Dan addresses the particular types of trauma that form in the context of marriage, including trauma that comes after death, divorce, and the betrayal of domestic violence.

Mar 14, 201521 min

Trauma and the church

On this week’s podcast, Dan introduces a series on the role of trauma in the context of the local church. He offers three overall categories for trauma, arguing that it is far more widespread than many acknowledge, then discusses the body’s telltale responses to traumatic events. What would it look like for our churches to exist as communities of priests, prophets, kings, and queens who are aware of the pervasive, devastating nature of trauma and who offer hospitality, healing, and the possibility of redemption? “Hospitality is the core of what the community of God brings,” says Dan—“inviting people to goodness, to a feast, to sustenance, to solace, to healing.”

Mar 7, 201521 min

Naming and reflecting the beauty of God in our stories

Dan invites us to see and to name the beauty in our lives, the parts of our stories that reflect the light and goodness of God. Knowing and telling our stories means finding the beauty and inviting others to share it. And we cannot talk about this without talking about worship, which is our response—in awe and gratitude—to the beauty and goodness of God.

Feb 28, 201522 min

Naming our wounds

On this week’s podcast, we are continuing our preview of the material explored in our To Be Told conferences. Dan discusses the necessity of looking at the wounds in our lives—the places in which we have experienced shame, loneliness, and betrayal. Evil entices us and hardens our hearts, naming us as orphans, strangers, and widows. But we are called to so much more.

Feb 21, 201520 min

Learning to bless our stories

For the next three weeks on the podcast, while Dan is on the road, we are excited to offer a preview of the material explored in our To Be Told conferences. In this week’s audio, Dan discusses the idea that God is the author of your life’s story, and we are all called to enter our stories in a way that reflects the character of God and reveals the nature of the Gospel.

Feb 14, 201513 min

The cost of rest

Feb 8, 201521 min

Sabbatical & Sabbath

Dr. Dan Allender talks about his hopes for his sabbatical and the imporatnace of Sabbath.

Jan 30, 201521 min

The first step in helping others

Jan 16, 201511 min

Our past and the role of attachment

Jan 2, 201511 min

Advent Joy: Rejoice & Lament

Dec 19, 201426 min

Engaging Our Story of Harm and Abuse.

Dec 12, 201410 min

Defining Trauma and Abuse

Dec 5, 201410 min

History of Harm

Nov 28, 201411 min

Why is sex important to God?

Nov 21, 201410 min

An Honest Conversation.

Dr. Dan Allender talks about his new book "God Loves Sex" in this honest conversation talking about sexual desires and holiness.

Nov 14, 201410 min

Writing "God Loves Sex"

Dan addresses some of the quesitions about his new book, "God Loves Sex." The question answered here is how did the writing process and collaboration work on this book.

Nov 7, 201410 min

How does my relationship with my family of origin impact my marriage?

Oct 31, 201410 min

How does past sexual experiences impact my marriage?

Oct 24, 201411 min

How can my spouse and I do better at resolving ongoing conflict?

Oct 17, 201410 min

How can I build greater intimacy with my spouse?

Oct 10, 20149 min