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That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

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S4 Ep 15090 10 ways to last longer in bed

This episode gives you 10 different tips to last longer during sex. Emily discusses: How long the average penis owner and vulva owner can take to orgasm How to delay orgasm for both penis owners and hula owners. 10 different tips to delay orgasm FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 3, 202317 min

S4 Ep 14089 BDSM, fire play and 24/7 dom/sub relationships with Eric Weinstein

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This episode features Eric Weinstein from 69 Whiskey Podcast. Emily and Eric discuss kinks and BDSM. Topics include: Eric’s wildest/funniest sex story Eric’s experience in the kink community Fire play What are high protocol relationships? What do Eric’s high protocol relationships look? Tips for navigating a high protocol relationship Importance of boundaries How to begin exploring BDSM FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.com 69 Whiskey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/69whiskeypodcast/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 26, 202351 min

S4 Ep 13088 Body image and sex with Psychologist Laura Lee

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This episode features Laura Lee a Psychologist based in Geelong. Laura has her own private practice Blue Space Psychology. Emily and Laura discuss body image and sex. Topics include: What are the current conversations around body image? What contributes to our perception of our bodies? What is good body image? How to begin to rewrite the relationship we have with our bodies. How body image impacts sex. How to enjoy sex more without being concerned about our bodies. Using sex for validation. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.com Blue Space Psychology Website: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/ Blue Space Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluespacepsychology/ Google Drive link for Compassionate Hand exercise: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1OfFZA5Hj3Gvps_XgEC2uL6yi6z49HxCF?usp=sharing See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 19, 20231h 1m

S4 Ep 12087 Can you masturbate too much?

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This episode answers the question ‘can you masturbate too much?’ Emily discusses: How much masturbation is too much masturbation Can vibrators desensitise your clitoris Impacts of masturbating excessively FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 12, 202312 min

S4 Ep 11086 Bachelor & Spinster Balls - the country sex party

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The latest episode is all about Bachelor and Spinster Balls (BNS) AKA country sex parties. Emily discusses what a BNS is, the history of BNS balls and what to expect when attending one. Emily also shares listeners’ stories who have attended a BNS. BNS video link Emily mentions is below: https://video.vice.com/en_au/video/tits-tinnies-and-true-love/564cb3309e64b9ce7b03505c FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 5, 202321 min

S4 Ep 10085 How to have a threesome

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This episode is all about threesomes. Emily discusses what threesomes are and how to have them. Emily discusses: What to do first if you want to have a threesome How to find people to have a threesome with How to discuss your desire to have a threesome with your partner What you need to communicate before, during and after a threesome Threesome tips FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 22, 202324 min

S4 Ep 9084 Is it anti-feminist to like giving blowjobs? with Indi Gage

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This episode features Indi Gage the co-host of Hot Girls Theory. Indi has a Bachelor of Arts in Gender, Sexuality and Diversity studies. In this episode, Emily and Indi discuss Feminism and sex. Topics include: What is feminism? How does feminism interact with sex? Performative sex, is it ok to do? Is it anti-feminist to like blow jobs? Condoms during oral sex What condoms are good to use for blowjobs Will sex ever not revolve around penetration? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.com Listen to Hot Girls Theory: https://www.hotgirlstheory.com/ Hot Girls Theory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotgirlstheory/ Indi's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fueledbyindi/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 15, 202349 min

S4 Ep 8083 Autism Spectrum Disorder and sex with Kate Duncan

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This episode features Kate Duncan an Occupational Therapist who works with children and adults on the autism spectrum. Trigger warning this episode does discuss sexual abuse. In this episode, Emily and Kate discuss ASD and sex. Topics include: How ASD can interact with sex Navigating overstimulation Ableism and sex Navigating sexual relationship with ASD or dating somebody living on the spectrum Abuse (TRIGGER WARNING) How can we better support those living with ASD FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 8, 202345 min

S4 Ep 7082 How to find self-love with Marisa Jayne

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This episode features Marisa Jayne the host of the podcast Selfish Sesh. Emily and Marisa talk all about self-love in this episode. Emily and Marisa discuss: What is self-love? What has Marisa’s journey with self-love been like? Maintaining self-love while dating Marisa’s experience stopping the use of dating apps How to begin your self-love journey Toxic positivity Building confidence FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Marisa’s website: https://www.selfishsesh.com/ Selfish Sesh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selfishsesh/ Selfish Sesh Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7kikdRI9g4zYkGPVjU6KpN?si=Drd2pg9wTyiS57p7lVIB1g&nd=1See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 1, 202345 min

S4 Ep 6081 How to date in your 20s with Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox

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This episode features Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox. Jess is a writer and dating & relationship expert. Jess has over 8 years of experience as a writer focusing on love, dating, sex and relationships. Over the years Jess has used her insights and observations to help educate men and women about how to navigate the ups and downs of dating. Jess coaches clients in a 1:1 capacity, regularly features on podcasts and contributes to various media pieces about the complexities of the modern dating world. Emily and Jess discuss: How to date in your 20's What questions to ask somebody to determine their values Is chemistry something we can grow? What are the benefits of modern-day dating in Western culture How to date organically without dating apps Partner privileges How to navigate fuck boys FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ The Boy Detox website: https://www.theboydetox.com/ The Boy Detox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theboydetox/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 22, 202337 min

S4 Ep 5080 How to squirt

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In this episode Emily discusses squirting and how to do it. Emily also discusses how to try and avoid squirting if you don’t want to. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 15, 202316 min

S4 Ep 4079 23 things I have learnt about sex

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In this episode, Emily celebrates her 23rd birthday by sharing 23 things she has learned in her 23 years of life. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 8, 202315 min

S4 Ep 3078 Penis owners, you have a pelvic floor too with Chloe Burger

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This episode features Chloe burger a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. Emily and Chloe discuss penis owners’ pelvic health Emily and Chloe discuss: What is a pelvic floor? Pelvic floor conditions penis owners experience Incontinence and how to treat it Prostate cancer surgery and incontinence Dyssynergic defecation Stress and your pelvic floor Pelvic pain Erectile difficulties When should you see a pelvic floor physio What to expect when seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Chloe’s Website: https://www.theladyphysioandpilates.com/ Chloe’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.lady.physio/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 1, 202346 min

S4 Ep 2077 Foot fetishes and choking with Talisin Switch

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Trigger Warning this episode discusses strangulation and choking. This episode features Talisin Switch. Emily and Talisin discuss: What is the difference between a kink and a fetish The most common fetishes Talisin sees as a sex worker How do feet fetishes form? What is choking/strangulation? How to practice choking more safely (there’s no safe way) The issues with choking during sex How to protect yourself if you are being choked when you don’t want to be Why you may experience chest pain after choking during sex FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Talisin’s Website: https://talisinswitch.com/ Queering sex workshop Melbourne: https://events.humanitix.com/queering-sex-and-how-we-think-about-it?_ga=2.16114230.1006150461.1670455159-1710799895.1670222071 Talisin’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talisinswitch/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 25, 202330 min

S4 Ep 1076 Exploring Queer identity and sexuality through sex work with Talisin Switch

This episode features Talisin Switch a BDSM facilitator, kink and sexuality educator, and sex worker who specialises in queer exploration. Talisin considers themselves an academic practitioner and informs their work and teaching in both evidence-based practice and lived experience. Emily and Talisin discuss: How did Talisin get into sex work How people can explore their queer identity with sex workers Benefits of seeing a sex worker for exploring your sexuality Exploring sex with gender dysphoria to affirm gender What to expect in your first session with a sex worker Tips for people searching for a queer sex worker FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Talisin’s Website: https://talisinswitch.com/ Queering sex workshop Melbourne: https://events.humanitix.com/queering-sex-and-how-we-think-about-it?_ga=2.16114230.1006150461.1670455159-1710799895.1670222071 Talisin’s Instagram and Twitter: @talisinswitchSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 18, 202334 min

S3 Ep 32075 The worst first date...ever

The final episode of season 3. Emily discusses a personal story of her worst first date...ever. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 21, 202223 min

S3 Ep 31074 Navigating your sex life as a Malaysian Indian woman with Natasha

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This episode features Natasha AKA Lama who is a Malaysian-Indian sex-positive content creator. Emily and Lama discuss: What the sexual culture is like in Malaysia Lama’s experience as a Malaysian Indian woman in Australia navigating sex and sexuality Encouraging penis owners to use sex toys for their own pleasure Exploring pleasure with sex toys Internalised shame and colourism Advice for those with a similar cultural background who want to further step into their sexuality How Lama got into creating sex-positive content Assumptions of Lama as a sex-positive creator FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Natasha’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/browngirl.sexology/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 14, 202256 min

S3 Ep 30073 How do I know if I have orgasmed?

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In this episode, Emily discusses the signs to know if you have orgasmed. This episode does have a focus on vulva owner orgasms. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Emily Duncan Sexology: www.emilyduncansexology.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 7, 202213 min

S3 Ep 29072 Eiffel towers, fish hooks and shame with Sarah Lajeunesse

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This episode features Sarah Lajeunesse, a certified and award-winning coach, speaker and shame healer who helps humans heal the areas of shame in their lives that prevent them from experiencing a greater and richer quality of life that's possible. Emily and Sarah discuss: Effiel towers Shame and sex Fish hooks What contributes the most to shame Having conversations about how you want to be respected in a relationship Being supported by others in moments of embarrassment and how that experience can contribute to future shame How to recognise shame before it overwhelms you Taking responsibility for the harm you may cause in a relationship The discomfort of the unknown in sex and dating How Sarah works with shame FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Instagram: sarah.lajeunesse Facebook: sarah.lajeunesse.coaching Website: www.sarahlajeunesse.com VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 30, 202254 min

S3 Ep 28071 An introduction to sex clubs with Our Secret Spot

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This episode features Jess and Lawerence the founders of Our Secret Spot, a sex club in Sydney. Emily, Jess and Lawerence discuss: How they entered the swinging lifestyle and the experiences they have had What you can expect when you visit a sex club Are there more couples or singles? Why they are seeing more single women at these events What is the typical age at a sex club? How sex clubs can build your confidence in practising consent Their favourite experiences in sex clubs/parties Advice for single males wanting to attend a sex club FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Our Secret Club website: https://oursecretspot.com.au/ Our Secret Club Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oursecretspot/ VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 16, 202250 min

S3 Ep 27070 5 things I have learned from 2 years of podcasting

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In this episode, Emily celebrates the podcast’s 2 year anniversary. Emily discusses 5 things she has learned from 2 years of podcasting. These 5 things include: Consistency is key Be passionate You may outgrow your content and that’s ok Networking is key Centring your podcast around your audience is great but centring it around what you want to know is even better FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 13, 202218 min

S3 Ep 26069 Harnessing the power of your period with Gem Campbell

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This episode features Sexologist, Nutritionist, Dietitian and Menstrual Blood Witch Gem Campbell (they/them). We discuss periods and how you can tap into your period's power. Topics discussed: Prominent issues surrounding periods within society What power do periods hold How we can tap into that power Healing your relationship with your period How your period can allow you to tap into your inner slut What needs to change in society to support those who menstruate The programs Gem offers Free Blood Ritual Resource: https://iamawildgem.com/menstrual-blood-ritual Period Self-Care Guide: https://iamawildgem.com/shop Blood Magik Discount Code for 30% off at checkout: thatsorgasmic Book a 1:1 Sex Coaching: https://iamawildgem.com/sex-coaching Book a 1:1 Nutrition Coaching: https://iamawildgem.com/nutrition-coaching Website: https://www.iamawildgem.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebloodslut/ For any inquires, email us: [email protected] VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 9, 20221h 13m

S3 Ep 25068 Bonus episode: Get comfortable being uncomfortable

This episode is a recording from another podcast 'Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable' that Emily was a guest on. We discuss: • Being sexually expressed • How your sexual upbringing influences how you show up in sex • Shame & guilt around sex • Tips around feeling more confident in sex • How to empower yourself • Our take on cancel culture Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable podcast link: https://open.spotify.com/show/4JtGyUSUSDJfzqYcjdxg1i?si=n_tt98EpTQKZjCr1W5cX_A See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 6, 202257 min

S3 Ep 24067 Pansexuality and living with Herpes as a Queer woman with Alysha

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Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode. Emily and Alysha discuss: Pansexuality, what is it and what does it mean to Alysha? Bisexuality vs Pansexuality vs Queer Alysha’s journey with her sexuality Internalised homophobia Am I queer enough? Queer sexual and relationship scripts Advice for those wanting to explore their sexuality Alysha’s experience being HSV+ Sexual health in vulva and vulva sex Herpes testing process FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Alysha’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sexiselfcare_/ Here to F*ck Spiders Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/heretofckspiderspodcast/ Here to F*ck Spiders Podcast Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/show/33qarnMRAs4QJL55ub7JUl?si=-aWKTvosTB6WqVgsDA45KQ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 2, 202258 min

S3 Ep 23066 Stepping into your power after a breakup

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This episode is about stepping into your power after a relationship to thrive. Key points: Emily shares a personal experience Questions to ask yourself if you don’t think your relationship is serving you How you can step into your power FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 31, 202220 min

S3 Ep 22065 Supporting sexuality through Occupational Therapy with Alysha

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Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode. Emily and Alysha discuss Occupational Therapy, disability and sexual health. Topics discussed: How Occupational Therapists can support an individual’s sexuality The importance of people living with disabilities to be educated on sex, sexual health and sexuality What work still needs to be done within Occupational Therapy and sexual health Assumptions healthcare professionals make Being a token Queer in the workplace FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Alysha’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sexiselfcare_/ Here to F*ck Spiders Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/heretofckspiderspodcast/ Here to F*ck Spiders Podcast Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/show/33qarnMRAs4QJL55ub7JUl?si=-aWKTvosTB6WqVgsDA45KQ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 26, 202233 min

S3 Ep 21064 Business launch: Emily Duncan Sexology

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In this episode, Emily shares all the details of her new business Emily Duncan Sexology launching the 22/11/22. Emily discusses: Being sexual and professional What services are offered What to expect in a session The prices Another exciting announcement FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 21, 202213 min

S3 Ep 20063 Dating with Vaginismus with Zoe

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This episode features Zoe a woman in her 20s living with Vaginismus. Emily and Zoe discuss: What is Vaginismus? Zoe's experience with getting diagnosed Tips for getting a diagnosis Zoe's treatment experience How has Vaginismus impacted dating for Zoe Casual sex and vaginismus Tips for those who want to date casually with Vaginismus FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 19, 202243 min

S3 Ep 19062 The development of sexuality industry and letting go of your ego with Victoria Redbard

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This episode features Victoria Redbard the founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy. Emily and Victoria discuss: How the sexuality industry is developing When trauma-informed practice meets the cutting edge Letting go of your ego Clinical Sexology compared to the Self-Pleasure Certification FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy website: https://newparadigmintimacy.com/ Victoria’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaredbard/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 12, 202245 min

S3 Ep 18061 Starting a sex toy company with Lanchi

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This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing starting her own sex toy company. Emily and Lanchi discuss: Why Lanchi decided to create her own sex toys The process of designing sex toys How the people around Lanchi responded to creating her company What is something that is Orgasmic to Lanchi? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Lanchi's Website: https://buzzselflove.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 5, 202223 min

S3 Ep 17060 How to choose a sex toy with Lanchi

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This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing how to choose your first sex toy. Emily and Lanchi discuss: What makes a good sex toy? Looking at how you use your hand to masturbate to choose a sex toy Popular first-time sex toys How to clean your sex toy How to store your sex toy FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Lanchi's website: https://buzzselflove.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 28, 202224 min

S3 Ep 16059 Masturbation for penis owners

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This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with a Penis. Emily discusses: Reflecting on how you masturbate How you can change your masturbation practice Different techniques Lube Sex toys Don’t focus on an erection Continuing to pleasure yourself after ejaculation FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 21, 202218 min

S3 Ep 15058 Tips and tricks for vulva masturbation

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This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with vulvas. Emily discusses: Breathing Pleasure mapping Tips if you like the highest setting on your vibrator How to use masturbation if you struggle to orgasm with a partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 14, 202218 min

S3 Ep 14057 A beginner's guide to masturbation for vulva owners

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This episode is a beginner’s guide to Masturbation for vulva owners. Emily discusses: Benefits of masturbation Unpacking the shame attached to masturbation How to get horny Techniques to touch your vulva What sex toy to first use Resources discussed: Dipsea (audio porn): https://www.dipseastories.com/ Bellesa (visual porn): https://www.bellesa.co/ OMG Yes! (Masturbation techniques for vulvas) : https://www.omgyes.com/ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 31, 202222 min

S3 Ep 13056 How orgasms affect your body

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This episode is all about orgasms. Emily discusses: What orgasms are How orgasms affect the brain and neurotransmitters Post-nut clarity Are there different types of orgasms? Crying after orgasm Orgasm facts See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 17, 202221 min

S3 Ep 12055 Help! My libido doesn't match my partners

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This episode discusses the libido gap and what to do if your sex drive doesn't match your partner's. Emily discusses: What is your libido Questions to ask yourself if your libido is different to your partners Spontaneous and responsive desire How to try and match your libidos FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 3, 202216 min

S3 Ep 11054 Situationships with Lily

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This episode is on situationships. Emily and Lily discuss their experiences in situationships: The pros and cons of a situationship Tips and tricks for navigating a situationship FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 20, 202246 min

S3 Ep 10053 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 2

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Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault This is part 2 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook Emily and Vanessa discuss: How to feel safe in your body again after sexual assault Vanessa's experience with sex after sexual assault Dissociating during sex Tips for grounding yourself Holding shame in your body What needs to change in society FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 7, 202244 min

S3 Ep 9052 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 1

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Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault This is part 1 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook. Emily and Vanessa discuss: Vanessa’s experiences of sexual assault How a person's response to your experience can affect your processing How did sexual assault affect Vanessa's mental health and sexuality Accessing support after sexual assault How to support somebody after sexual assault FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 7, 202236 min

S3 Ep 8051 Explaining Roe VS Wade

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Emily discusses the Roe VS. Wade ruling being overturned. It is a quick overview of what this means for people who have a uterus. If you would like to help please donate to abortion organisations in America. Here is a link to one that will donate to 50 different abortion agencies: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/genzforchoice FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 25, 202212 min

S3 Ep 7050 Honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson

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This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia  Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner? Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 1, 202251 min

S3 Ep 6049 Using sex for validation

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This episode is all about using sex for validation.  Emily discusses her own experience using sex for validation and how it has impacted her and her relationships. Emily also discusses tips on how to address this issue (although she is only just starting this journey herself).  Tips include: Check in with yourself:  Why do you have sex? How does sex validate you? How does it make you feel? Is it the sex or other things that are attached to sex that make you feel validated? What keeps you in this position? What do you actually want from your relationships? How can you find validation from within yourself? Understand your boundaries and how you can implement them. What situations threaten your boundaries? FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 18, 202223 min

S3 Ep 5048 Children, sexuality and shame with Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club

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This episode features Steph from The Sexual Wellness Club. Emily and Steph discuss experiencing pleasure and exploring your sexuality before puberty.  Key points: Children exploring their bodies Finding porn as children Exploring our bodies and pleasure with friends Emily’s experience sexting at a young age Navigating sexuality with children FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Steph's Instagram: @sexualwellnessclubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 4, 202243 min

S3 Ep 4047 Fake it till you make it with Chiara French

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This episode features Chiara French discussing confidence.  Key points: What does confidence mean to Chiara What helped both Chiara and Emily become confident  Confidence in different environments such as the workplace Drug and alcohol use Dating and body confidence How to practice affirmations in the mirror See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 20, 202237 min

S3 Ep 3046 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 2

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This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care.  Emily and Laura discuss:  How to start working through sexual shame How to have the best casual sex of your life What to do if the sex in your relationship isn't what you want anymore FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Laura Ellen's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellen/ Laura Ellen's Website: https://laura-ellen.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 13, 202226 min

S3 Ep 2045 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 1

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This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care.  Emily and Laura discuss:  How women can have the best sex of their lives Pleasure based living and how we can implement it Sexy self-care FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Laura Ellen's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellen/ Laura Ellen's Website: https://laura-ellen.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 6, 202228 min

S3 Ep 1044 Third times a charm

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The third season is finally here!!! Emily delves into the hot and not so hot sex she has been having since the last season in December. Emily also discusses the STI Chlamydia, internalised shame surrounding a Chlamydia diagnosis and the issue with trying to blame somebody when contracting the STI. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 30, 202225 min

S2 Ep 16043 Heres to another year of shagging

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We are finishing off the year reflecting on how the past year has been. Emily discusses the Sex Resolutions she set in the first episode of 2021 and how they went. Emily also discusses her mental health and partying.  FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 22, 202120 min

S2 Ep 15042 How to care for your vulva with Dr. Nicole Williams

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This episode features Dr. Nicole Williams a Gynaecologist from Chicago. Emily and Dr. Williams talk all about how to care for your Vulva.  Emily and Dr. Williams discuss: Common myths and misconceptions attached to caring for your vulva Feminine Hygiene washes Douching Pubic Hair The 3 things you need to care for your Vulva What to look out for in case something isn’t quite right Dr. Williams Website: https://www.gynecologyinstitute.com/about-us Dr. Williams book: https://www.amazon.com/This-How-You-Vagina-Vajayjay/dp/1626348782 Dr. Willams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drnicolelife/ FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 15, 202126 min

S2 Ep 14041 A Transgender journey with Kai - Part 3

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Kai shares his journey of transitioning as a Transgender man. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for 1 year. Emily and Kai discuss: Physical changes since they last spoke Top Surgery  Violence as a man How he is now treated as a man compared to when presenting as a woman Bathrooms FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 8, 202138 min