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Sarah Van Cleve is a somatic practitioner, facilitator, death doula, mother, gardener, devoted life-lover, and future ancestor. She is the founder of Soul House Wellness, where she weaves together yoga, sound healing, somatic practice, and leadership development to support people in reconnecting with their bodies and their truth. A self-described Black radical and professional agitator, Sarah’s work is rooted in a deep commitment to social justice, accessibility, and the kind of healing that tells the truth. Through her work, she creates spaces where people can find safety within themselves, tend to what is honest, and practice more courageous ways of being in community. In this conversation, Sarah shares how her early life experiences shaped her understanding of identity, belonging, and community. Adopted and raised as a biracial child in a loving white family and predominantly white environment, she reflects on the complexities of navigating identity, proximity to whiteness, and the ways those experiences and micro aggression shaped her path toward embodied healing and justice-centered wellness work. Sarah also speaks about the importance of creating intentional spaces for people of color in wellness, including her work with Return (formerly Yoga for People of Color), and why race, power, and community must be part of the conversation if healing spaces are to be truly inclusive. Together, we explore what wellness spaces often miss, the ongoing practice of unlearning, and what it means to build communities that are brave enough to tell the truth. In this episode we discuss: How adoption shaped Sarah’s understanding of identity, belonging, loss, and connection Growing up biracial in a predominantly white family and community Her reunion with her 8 biological siblings The difference between safety and belonging in wellness spaces Why Sarah created healing spaces specifically for people of color What wellness culture often misses when it ignores race, community, and power The role of somatic practice in healing and embodied leadership What Sarah, Betsy and Kate are currently unlearning in their lives and work This conversation invites us to consider how healing is not only personal, but collective—and how creating spaces rooted in honesty, embodiment, and justice can open the door to deeper belonging for all. Where listeners can find Sarah @soulhouse_wellness www.soulhousewellnessllc.com Breathing Room Yoga- weekly classes Return (Yoga for POC) monthly in both Cedar Rapids and soon Des Moines Register for her upcoming workshop at Heartland Yoga on April 12th https://heartlandyoga.com/radical-wellness-august-16th-1130/ Episode 188 Lotus, Liberation, and Expanding Masculinity Episode 187 Love and Solidarity: Stories from Minneapolis Episode 163 Rage as Teacher Episode 124 Shadow Work Episode 131 Life Quakes. Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 11-18 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you connect with your inner healer using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and creativity? At this retreat, broadway director Kristin Hanggi is joining to lead on the power of creativity to move us through our collective and personal anxiety. All the details here! Source

We sit down today with return guest Sasha Boros to talk about her newly inspired collaboration with women called The Water Bearer Collective. When we last spoke to Sasha in Episode 29, she was leaving a marriage and adjusting to all the transformational shifts in her life this ending brought. She spoke of a dream she had back in 2020 about women, empowerment, and the importance of women being healthy so they can be the change the world needs. Today we talked about the manifestation of Sasha’s dream. What We Cover in This Episode: Sasha’s adjustment period post divorce. The seeding of a dream to bring women together and the 5 years that passed until she was ready to birth it thanks to a nudge from Kate. The women who make up the Water Bearer Collective and the gifts each of them bring. The vision for this collective and their desire to empower women. The first event that the Water Bearer Collective offered and how it sold it! An upcoming event that the Water Bearer Collective is co-hosting with the Tend Her Wild podcast called Seasoned Wisdom on April 1. Seasoned Wisdom: Date: April 1st, 11am – 1pm Come soak up the wisdom that only comes from age…A signature event of the Water Bearer Collective in partnership with the Tend HER Wild Podcast. Join the Water Bearer Collective in partnership with Tend HER Wild Podcast hosts Dr. Betsy Rippentrop and Kate Moreland, for a special live podcast event, “Seasoned Wisdom.” This intimate and powerful conversation will feature 4 legendary older women who are overflowing with unapologetic authenticity, hard-won insight, and deep self-trust and wisdom that only comes with age. Event Details: This event will be held at the James Theatre, Iowa City on April 1st from 11am – 1pm. A light lunch will be served and time to network will follow the recording. REGISTER HERE Water Bearer Collective: https://waterbearercollective.com Other Episodes You Might Like About Female Empowerment: Episode 29: How to Champion Ourselves: A Conversation with UI Tennis Coach Sasha Schmid Episode 65: Suzi Lula: Permission to Thrive Episode 103: Lyz Lenz: This American Ex-Wife Episode 107: Jocelyn Davis: Insubordinate Episode 129: Dr Sharon Blackie: Hagitude Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 11-18 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you connect with your inner healer using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and creativity? At this retreat, broadway director Kristin Hanggi is joining to lead on the power of creativity to move us through our collective and personal anxiety. All the details here! Source

In this deeply honest and expansive conversation, Megan shares her journey from a highly sensitive child who learned to shut parts of herself down—to a therapist helping others reconnect with their inner intelligence for healing. We explore how early life experiences shaped her path, the moment yoga reawakened her sensitivity, and how her work has evolved to include innovative therapeutic modalities like ketamine-assisted psychotherapy. This episode offers a grounded, nuanced look at both the promise and responsibility of working with ketamine in mental health care—along with powerful reflections on healing, integration, and the wisdom within. What We Cover in This Episode: Megan’s early years as a highly sensitive child—and how she learned to suppress parts of herself Her role as a “conflict manager” in childhood and early signs of becoming a therapist How yoga, years ago, reawakened her emotional and intuitive sensitivity Her path into becoming a therapist and how her practice has evolved The integration of ketamine into her psychotherapeutic work Ketamine & Mental Health: How ketamine is used therapeutically to treat depression and other mental health challenges The science behind ketamine—how it opens new neural pathways in the brain Its historical use as an anesthetic, particularly in reducing anxiety and suppressing memory Megan’s personal experience using ketamine as part of her own healing and spiritual exploration A Thoughtful Approach to Ketamine Therapy: Why psychotherapy-led ketamine work is essential (vs. clinic-only experiences) The importance of support, intention, and integration in the healing process How ketamine can help people reconnect with their inner intelligence Important Considerations & Risks: The dangers of unmonitored or improperly guided ketamine use Who may not be a good candidate (including those with high blood pressure or a family history of bipolar disorder due to potential manic activation) Why ketamine is not a “magic bullet,” but one tool within a broader healing journey Healing doesn’t come from outside of us—it comes from reconnecting with what’s already within. With the right support, intention, and care, powerful tools like ketamine can help illuminate that path. Other Episodes: Hypnosis episode (Ep. 72) Unraveling to Heal (Ep. 164 Are You Dysregulated? (Ep. 177) Contact information: https://www.innatepathway.com https://www.instagram.com/carnahan_counseling/ Resources: “How to Change your Mind” Michael Pollan Seasoned Wisdom: Date: April 1st, 11am – 1pm Come soak up the wisdom that only comes from age…A signature event of the Water Bearer Collective in partnership with the Tend HER Wild Podcast. Join the Water Bearer Collective in partnership with Tend HER Wild Podcast hosts Dr. Betsy Rippentrop and Kate Moreland, for a special live podcast event, “Seasoned Wisdom.” This intimate and powerful conversation will feature 4 legendary older women who are overflowing with unapologetic authenticity, hard-won insight, and deep self-trust and wisdom that only comes with age. Event Details: This event will be held at the James Theatre, Iowa City on April 1st from 11am – 1pm. A light lunch will be served and time to network will follow the recording. REGISTER HERE Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 11-18 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you connect with your inner healer using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and creativity? At this retreat, broadway director Kristin Hanggi is joining to lead on the power of creativity to move us through our collective and personal anxiety. All the details here! Source

Today is an update on 2 of our brilliant guests and the powerful art they are putting out into the world. In episode 128 we interviewed Kristin Marrs and Anne Marie Nest about a theatre/dance piece they created called Chalk, which is about both of their journeys through miscarriage and infertility. These amazing women have been busy in the last year because they developed the piece into a full length show that opened in Denver last weekend, and will open in Iowa City for 4 shows at the James next weekend, March 21-24. Tickets can be found at http://www.thejamesic.com. In today’s episode we: Hear about how Anne Marie & Kristin met during their challenges with infertility and multiple miscarriages, and how this eventually led to creative collaboration and birthing of a new piece of art. The process of creating this piece, and the magic of how it all came together when they set the intention of “this can be easy”. Ancestral patterning, and stories of women that came before Anne Marie and Kristin that had challenges with child bearing. The infertility journey that both women experienced, including all the ups and downs, the limits of the medical system, and the deep, hidden grief and shame. Why the topic of infertility and miscarriage has been so “silenced” in our culture. Why we need these stories more than ever in our current political arena when so many women are having challenges receiving the health care they need. Bios: Iowa native Kristin Marrs is a dancer, choreographer, and movement teacher. She is an Associate Professor of Instruction and Director of Graduate Studies at the University of Iowa Department of Dance, where she teaches a wide variety of courses across the dance and somatic curriculum. She is also a certified Alexander Technique teacher, and has a private studio in Iowa City where she works with students of all ages and abilities in improving alignment, breathing, postural tone, and ease of movement. She is a proud mama of two kids. www.kristinmarrs.com Anne Marie Nest-Pinero met Kristin at the University of Iowa while she was professor of voice and speech in the Theater Department. Prior to her career in academia, Anne Marie was a professional actor, working primarily in regional theaters and Shakespeare Festivals. Anne Marie now works as an executive coach and communications consultant for the Fortune 500 and AM Law 200. She is an Associate Teacher of Fitzmaurice Voicework, trained mediator through Columbia University, and certified CTI coach. www.annemarienest.com Past Episodes You Might Like About Women’s Health, Medical Systems & Well-Being Episode 122: Nina Lohman: The Body Alone: A Lyrical Articulation of Pain Episode 105: Kate O’Donnell: Ayurveda for Women’s Health Episode 99: Cate Stillman: The Witch’s Cancer Journal Episode 88: Sam Ferm-LeClere: Healing with Chronic Illness Episode 37: Can We Trust Other Women and Their Bodily Autonomy Seasoned Wisdom Date: April 1st, 11am – 1pm Come soak up the wisdom that only comes from age…A signature event of the Water Bearer Collective in partnership with the Tend HER Wild Podcast. Join the Water Bearer Collective in partnership with Tend HER Wild Podcast hosts Dr. Betsy Rippentrop and Kate Moreland, for a special live podcast event, “Seasoned Wisdom.” This intimate and powerful conversation will feature 4 legendary older women who are overflowing with unapologetic authenticity, hard-won insight, and deep self-trust and wisdom that only comes with age. Event Details: This event will be held at the James Theatre, Iowa City on April 1st from 11am – 1pm. A light lunch will be served and time to network will follow the recording. REGISTER HERE Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 11-18 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you connect with your inner healer using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and creativity? At this retreat, broadway director Kristin Hanggi is joining to lead on the power of creativity to move us through our collective and personal anxiety. All the details here! Source

Words have a way of finding us exactly when we need them. In this episode, we share 22 quotes that have inspired, grounded, and guided us through different seasons of life. This conversation was sparked by a listener who asked us: What are the quotes you return to again and again? So we gathered the words that have stayed with us—and the meaning behind them. We’d love to know: what quotes have shaped your life? Quotes: “The women I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because shit worked out. They got that way because shit went wrong and they handled it. They handled it a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.” -Elizabeth Gilbert “The more scared we are of a work or calling , the more sure we can be that we have to do it. Resistance is experienced as fear. The degree of fear equates to the strength of resistance. Therefore the more fear we feel about a specific enterprise the more certain we can be that enterprise is important to us and the growth of our soul. “ Stephen Pressfield from “War of Art” “The wound is the place where the light enters you. “ Rumi “Love is the most powerful force in the world. If people tell you the opposite of love is fear, it is not so. Love just is. Love has no opposite, it’s the answer to everything, everything. Where there is disharmony, wherever there’s pain, whoever there’s hunger or wherever there is sorrow. Just send love. Not only to humanity, but to all of life. To the rivers, the oceans, the forest, to the animals the birds, the bees to air you breathe. To the whole cosmos because you are part of the one, we are all part of the one. There is no separation. “ -Delores Cannon “Let your heart break, so your spirit doesn’t.” – Andrea Gibson “Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act , just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love.” -Rainer Maria Rilke “Letters to a Young Poet” “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you do, but they will never forget the way you made them feel”. Maya Angelou “To strive for perfection is to kill love, because perfection does not recognize humanity.” -Marianne Woodman “How to do the thing you are afraid to do. Grab fears by the hand, grab hope by the hand and start walking.” -Cleo Wade “Nothing has as strong of influence psychologically on your environment, and especially on your children, than the un-lived life of the parent.” Carl Yung “Of course I’ve changed darling, I’ve grown.” -Cleo Wade “Aging is no accident. It is necessary to the human condition, intended by the soul. We become more characteristic of who we are simply by lasting into later years; the older we become, the more our true natures emerge. Thus the final years have a very important purpose: the fulfillment and confirmation of one’s character.” – James Hillman “You are the sky, everything else is the weather.” – Pema “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? And if I’m only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when? -Hillel “The best thing to hold onto in life, is each other.” – Audrey Hepburn “Your new life is going to cost you your old one. It’s going to cost you your comfort zone and your sense of direction. It’s going to cost you relationships and friends. It’s going to cost you being liked and understood. It doesn’t matter. The people who are meant for you are going to meet you on the other side. You’re going to build a new comfort zone around the things that actually move you forward. Instead of being liked, you’re going to be loved. Instead of being understood, you’re going to be seen. All you’re going to lose is what was built for a person you no longer are.” – Brianna Wiest “I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.” – Audrey Hepburn “She knows that she’ll get her butt kicked if she chooses aliveness , her light will blind others, her darkness will not let her fit in, her success will provoke conflict, her ways of healing will be judged, her enemies will want her to cower, and fear will do it’s best to take her down. So she draws a circle around herself and keeps opening up, because aliveness is freedom. She’s embracing the risk to bypass the ordinary and she’s exactly what the world needs right now.” -Tanya Markul She Book “Strong back, soft front, wild heart.” – Joan Hallifax / Brene’ Brown Past Episodes You Might Like with Kate & Betsy: Episode 100: The Upper Limit: Living In Your Full Potential Episode 80: Self Compassion: The Secret Sauce of Life Episode 153: Connecting to Soul as a Path to Abundance Episode 55: B

Kate and Betsy speak with Elizabeth Marner, the founder and CEO of “The Be A Light Project” for brain health and suicide prevention for rural communities. Her nonprofit was born out of personal pain following her son’s suicide attempt and their frustrations getting the help he needed. In today’s Episode we discuss: Elizabeth’s experience of growing up and continuing to live in a rural small town. Elizabeth’s painful story of her son’s suicide attempt, and his struggle getting help in a rural community. Elizabeth’s own mental health journey. How her son Mason feels about her work. Her passion for rural communities, blue collar workers, and her deep desire to change the culture of how such communities view mental health. Elizabeth’s Book “EmpowerHER”. Podcast Elizabeth Recorded for the book: https://youtu.be/xiHuVKJ3tTI?si=nuXIXoSM4cEpMvg9 Elizabeth’s Nonprofit: https://www.bealightproject.org/our-mission Documentary that Elizabeth and her son Appear In: https://mtyc.co/zzxq0f Past Episodes about Mental Health that you Might Enjoy: Episode 177: Are You Dysregulated? Episode 170: Renee Zukin: Everyday I’m Brave Episode 167: Dr. Jackie Kamradt: Being A Mother is the Best Thing for my OCD Episode 164: Christina Woods: Unraveling to Heal Episode 161: Intergenerational Trauma Episode 133: Domestic Abuse: Wisdom From A Survivor, Dr. Lauren Welter Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 11-18 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you connect with your inner healer using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and creativity? At this retreat, broadway director Kristin Hanggi is joining to lead on the power of creativity to move us through our collective and personal anxiety. All the details here! Here is the episode with Kristin – 154. The Multi-Hyphenate Wonder that is Kristin Hanggi Source

Kate and Betsy dive into the topic of feminism after an article came out in the New York Times in November 2025 entitled “Are women ruining the workplace?”. In this episode we seek to understand the real meaning of feminism, the different waves it has gone through, and what the wild woman archetype says about these times. In today’s Episode we discuss: The fire that Kate felt after reading this article, and why we’ve gotten to a point where feminism has become a bad word. The actual definition of feminism, and the history of the feminist movement through 4 different waves. Wisdom from Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes in “Women Who Run with the Wolves” about feminism. Past Episodes that you Might Enjoy: Episode 179: The Heroine’s Journey: Descent to the Goddess Episode 163: Rage As Teacher Episode 148: Reflections on the Wild Woman Archetype and What She Can Teach us In These Divisive Times Episode 135: Mandy Fabian: Fiercely Feminine Film Director Episode 121: A New Feminine Energy is Rising Episode 114: Use Your Voice Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 11-18 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you connect with your inner healer using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and creativity? At this retreat, broadway director Kristin Hanggi is joining to lead on the power of creativity to move us through our collective and personal anxiety. All the details here! Here is the episode with Kristin – 154. The Multi-Hyphenate Wonder that is Kristin Hanggi Source

In this deeply moving and thoughtful conversation, Dr. Ren shares the personal, cultural, and professional journey that shaped his life and work. Origins & Identity Ren begins by telling the story of his first ten years growing up in Japan and the powerful meaning behind his name. Ren, which means “Lotus,” was intentionally chosen by his mother — a decision so unusual at the time that she had to seek special permission to have it officially recognized. She even had his name added to an approved registry so he would not be treated as a foreigner. Years later, the name would rise to become one of the most popular in Japan. A Childhood Rooted in Activism & Spirituality Ren reflects on the profound influence of his mother — a self-described “wild woman” and feminine activist — and a family culture steeped in both social justice and spirituality. As a child, he participated in nuclear peace marches and was even featured in the news as a baby alongside Buddhist monks. Raised in a bi-racial family in the Bay Area, Ren navigated a unique spiritual landscape: · A father who was a Christian minister · A mother who practiced Buddhism · Exposure to Japan’s polytheistic cultural traditions His parents fostered an environment of freedom, creativity, and deep acceptance. Masculinity, Culture, and Formation Ren shares how hockey culture played a significant role in shaping his early understanding of masculinity — including its strengths, pressures, and emotional limitations. These experiences ultimately led him to pursue psychology, where his multicultural upbringing and feminist influences deeply inform his clinical perspective. Understanding Men: Shame, Anger, and Social Expectations Ren discusses his work in homeless shelters, his research on masculinity and economics, and how systemic pressures shape men’s emotional lives. He explains: · Why anger is often more socially acceptable for men than shame · How economic expectations and social norms intensify male distress · The hidden emotional costs of trying to live up to an impossible masculine image Changing Rape Culture & Supporting Men’s Healing As the first male staff member at a women’s resource center, Ren facilitated men’s groups focused on sexual assault prevention and accountability. He shares insights about: · How patriarchal systems harm men as well as women · The “man box” exercise he uses to help men examine rigid gender expectations · How younger generations are showing greater emotional openness Expanding Masculinity (Not Redefining It) Rather than replacing masculinity, Ren advocates for expanding it — pushing the edges outward so men can live more fully and authentically. He speaks about: · The importance of permission-giving among men · Modeling vulnerability and emotional honesty · Supporting men to step outside restrictive norms The Role of Feminist Psychotherapy Ren highlights how feminist therapy frameworks help men develop self-compassion by understanding systemic influences rather than internalizing blame. This is especially vital for men who have experienced trauma or violence. Harnessing Justified Anger for Change A powerful theme of the episode is how justified anger can become a force for healing and social transformation when channeled constructively. Hope for the Future Ren closes by sharing what keeps him hopeful: his direct connection to people’s real lives and stories. He reminds us that healing — individually and collectively — requires a return to genuine human connection and conversation. Check out Dr Ren’s Upcoming Workshops at Heartland Yoga (and online) Check out Dr. Ren’s Therapy Practice Today’s Episode sponsored by: Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! Source

Season 4 of Tend Her Wild opens with a refusal to play small. In this episode, we bear witness to what is unfolding in Minneapolis—and across our country—through the lens of the Wild Woman archetype. This conversation is about courage in real time, love under pressure, and what it looks like when women choose presence over paralysis. We ask the question Clarissa Pinkola Estés reminds us of how a culture heals, and we explore what happens when a community becomes “a family within a family,” tending one another through fear, grief, and fierce love. This episode holds pain and power, heartbreak and humanity, and a deep reminder that the wild woman rises precisely in times like these. What the Wild Woman Is Teaching Us Right Now What it means to not play small in moments of cultural rupture How the wild woman archetype shows up as truth-telling, action, and solidarity Why these times are calling women to step forward—even when scared Guest 1: A Minnesota Neighbor & Artist — Bearing Witness Through Action Our first guest is a local neighbor and artist from Minnesota who shares what it is like to live inside the unfolding events in Minneapolis. She reminds us that this is not the time to be quiet, even when fear is present—and that fear is not a reason to disengage. Key reflections from her story: The unique strength and resilience of Minnesotans The truth that we are all immigrants—and how civil liberties are being threatened What it means to live where you cannot step outside without witnessing history How COVID quietly prepared communities by strengthening relationships Neighbors delivering food, showing up, and caring for one another Using personal gifts—art, presence, nourishment—as acts of resistance The power of art as a kind of spell cast outward, carrying love and truth She speaks honestly about the emotional roller coaster of these days, while holding faith that this community is modeling something vital for the rest of the country. Guest 2: An Immigrant’s Perspective from Downtown Minneapolis Our second guest is an immigrant who has lived in the United States for nearly 30 years and currently resides in downtown Minneapolis. She shares the disorientation of desolate streets, the fear of leaving home, and the haunting familiarity of carrying papers—echoing memories of wartime survival. Her reflections include: Living with heightened vigilance and fear Recognizing that acts of oppression often stem from fear How community connection becomes harder when people are afraid to be seen The grief of reliving the past Why generosity cannot be taught—but must be practiced “Stay safe” becoming the new greeting She reminds us that anything rooted in fear, greed, or selfishness cannot last—and that when justice is destroyed, it will be reborn. We hold deep gratitude for these two women who chose to bear witness, sharing their stories with honesty and heart. They embody both courage and pain, reminding us that the wild woman does not numb—she stays present, rooted in love, and committed to life. Follow Tend Her Wild https://www.instagram.com/tendherwild/?hl=en If this episode moved you: Share it with someone who needs to remember they are not alone. Leave a review to help these stories reach further. And ask yourself: How am I being called to show up, with what I have, right now? Link to Sabrina Video How to help Minnesotans Rent and utilities are a priority right now, as many people cannot leave their homes to go to work. Phillips neighborhood has been hardest hit in the whole city of Minneapolis Powderhorn Rent Relief, covers rent and household bills for folks sheltering in place in powderhorn neighborhood. venmo @SouthsideNeeds directly to support buying and delivering food and basic needs items to families in Powderhorn and Phillips Childhood Families in Columbia Heights MN Somali run org in Saint cloud Latinx run org in Saint Cloud Past Episodes You Might Like with Kate & Betsy: Episode 163: Rage As Teacher Episode 131: Life Quakes Episode 124: Shadow WorkEpisode 98: Shake if Off: Facing the Criticism and Embracing Your Light Episode 76: Women Finding Their Voice Today’s Episode sponsored by: Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! Source

In today’s episode we review this past year and all that unfolded in the podcast and in our personal lives. We talk about the highs and lows, the practices that sustained us, and we reveal our theme for Season 4 that begins February 2026. In today’s episode we explore: Reflections on the year of the snake, 2025, and all the shedding that we did. The guests we interviewed in this last year that really made an impact. How the wild woman archetype worked with each of us in the last year, and our realization that reawakening our inner wild is a process that takes us deeper into our soul. The highs and lows we personally endured (death, divorce, loss, grief) and how the highs and lows seem so entwined. The practices that have helped us this last year. Our excitement for Season 4, and our theme “No More Playing Small”. Past Episodes from Season 3 that We Mentioned: 180. Ginette Biro: A Near Death Experience & Divine Connection to the Other Side 173. Maddie Corman: Accidentally Brave 172. Reverend Sarah Goettsch: Unapologetic 170. Renee Zukin: Every Day, I’m Brave 165. Hope for the Future: Meet The Sons Jack Moreland & Pieter Rippentrop 163. Rage as Teacher 154. The Multi-Hyphenate Wonder that is Kristin Hanggi Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub (https://thelocalhub-ic.com/) Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Join Kate in person at the Winter Gathering at the Well on Sunday, January 11th from 1-5pm Find Registration info here Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! To join the Tend Her 4.0 Course on Hope (It’s Free!), visit here: https://dryogamomma.com/tend-her-4-0-hope/ Source

Medium Dani Worrell returns for an incredible live podcast event recorded at Revival’s pop-up studio in downtown Iowa City, where she offers intuitive readings for the audience. In this episode, we explore: Dani’s recent personal intuitive reading with her mentor, where her grandmother came through—a powerful figure who once encouraged Dani to shut down her gifts, now returning with guidance and affirmation. The importance of signs and synchronicities from the universe and from loved ones who have passed, and how we can learn to recognize and trust them. How the connection with loved ones doesn’t end when they leave this earth, and how tuning into these signs keeps the door open. Several live intuitive readings Dani performs for audience members, offering profound messages from the other side. A collective reading for the entire room, including Dani’s message that women will be stepping more fully into their power in 2026—the Year of the Horse—claiming what they truly deserve. Details on Dani’s holiday reading special, which you can access by reaching out through her website. Past Episodes You Might Like with Kate & Betsy: Epsode 171: Dani Worrell: The Power of Practical Alignment Episode 164 : Christina Woods: Unraveling the Heal Episode 111: Rod Stryker: Your Soul’s Purpose Episode 100: The Upper Limit: Living In Your Full Potential Episode 80: Self Compassion: The Secret Sauce of Life Episode 72: The Power of Hypnosis: Debunking Myths & Understanding How it Works Episode 66: Therapy Anyone? Episode 57: Dharma: Why are we all here? Find Dani here: https://www.practical-alignment.com Email Dani at: [email protected] Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! Source

Today’s interview kept us laughing nearly the entire time, and yet was deeply poignant as our guest shared her story of scars. Ophira is a stand-up comedian, author, and story teller who has been lauded as one of the “top 10 comics that funny people find funny”. Our attention was rapt as we listened to her many physical and emotional scars and how she has been able to create art, humor, and even happy endings from her life experiences. In today’s episode we explore: Ophira’s early days as the youngest of six children in Alberta, Canada in a family where telling jokes was their love language. She speaks of two major events (one with a meat grinder) before the age of 10 that created deep scars on her body, and the ripples that these experiences had in her life. When she realized she was funny and decided to pursue a life as stand up comedian. She shares the challenges of this career and the humanizing power of it which is what keeps her going. How her work doesn’t avoid showing her own vulnerability and talking about hard things, but why in the end she prefers to write the happy endings. Her most recent show “Scars” (which Kate saw live) and how the audience participation has become her favorite part. The diagnosis of breast cancer and how it brought more scars which was devastating because she thought she was done with scars on her body. Her future projects, the liminal space, and how she views life as a year to year sublet. Bio: Ophira Eisenberg is a Canadian-born standup comedian, writer, and host. She hosted NPR’s comedy trivia show Ask Me Another for 9-years. She can be seen live, regularly headlining across the United States, Canada, and Europe delivering her unique blend of standup and storytelling to a loyal fan base of smart, irreverent comedy lovers. She has appeared on Comedy Central, This Week at The Comedy Cellar, Kevin Hart’s LOL Network, HBO’s Girls, Gotham Live, The Late Late Show, The Today Show, and VH-1. The New York Times called her a skilled comedian and storyteller with “bleakly stylish” humor. She was also selected as one of New York Magazine’s “Top 10 Comics that Funny People Find Funny,” and hailed by Forbes.com as one of the most engaging comics working today. Ophira is a regular host and teller with The Moth and her stories have been featured on The Moth Radio Hour and in two of The Moth’s best-selling collections, including the most recent New York Times Bestseller: How To Tell A Story: The Essential Guide to Memorable Storytelling from The Moth. She now lives in Brooklyn, NY where she is a fixture at New York City’s comedy clubs. She resides with her husband and son where she can regularly be seen drinking a ton of coffee. Follow her at www.ophiraeisenberg.com. Past Episodes You Might Like with Kate & Betsy That Make You Laugh: Episode 172: Reverend Sarah Goettsch: Unapologetic Episode 159: Cara Flynn: From Control Top Pantyhose to Mountain Climbing Episode 135: Mandy Fabian: Fiercely Feminine Director Episode 103: Lyz Lenz: This American Ex-Wife Episode 77: Barbie: Getting Out of the Box Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! To join the Tend Her 4.0 Course on Hope (It’s Free!), visit here: https://dryogamomma.com/tend-her-4-0-hope/ Source

In today’s joyful episode, we dig into our “magic bags” and surprise each other with our current favorite things. We share our top 10 unique items, shows, apps, and little delights we’re loving right now. As the holiday season begins, we’re also reflecting on the power of our dollars and the importance of spending with intention. In honor of Small Business Saturday, we highlight some of our favorite local businesses—many of them women-owned—and invite you to join us in supporting small businesses (especially women owned), local makers and entrepreneurs this year. Kate’s List: 1.The book “The Mountain is You” by Brianna West (Cielo Iowa City) 2.Brandi Carlisle’s album “Returning to Myself” 3.Le Bon girlfriend socks from Revival 4.Hu Ha underwear 5.Heather Cox Richardson Letters 6.Colorscience tinted moisturizer 7.Elise Loehnen’s “Pulling the Thread” podcast 8.Cold Foam from Trader Joe’s 9.The show “The Diplomat” on Netflix 10.Bergamot scented deodorant cremo Betsy’s List: 1.Kusmi Tea – Tea from France 2.Trevor Hall song “Blue Sky Mind” 3.Jones Road Miracle Balm 4.Ego Battery Powered Leaf Blower and Lawn Mower 5.Ozlo sleep pods 6.Trip sparkling drink 7.Time Shifter App 8.Spoon Flower Wall Paper 9.Netflix Show “Nobody Wants This” 10.Tiny Flower bouquet from Willow and Stock Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to do your own Heroine’s Journey with Dr. Betsy? Consider joining Reclaim: A Heroine’s Journey with Betsy. This 13-week online course takes you on a journey “in and down” (the feminine path) to reclaim your lost feminine parts, heal your wounded masculine parts, receive initiation from the Goddess, and return a changed person. This course runs during the darkest days of the year, which tends to be the best time for depth work according to Dr. Betsy. This course begins November 2025. For all the upcoming details visits https://dryogamomma.com/reclaim-heroines-journey-of-transformation Join Kate at this local event January 11th Winter Gathering at the Well with Water Bearer Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! To join the Tend Her 4.0 Course on Hope (It’s Free!), visit here: https://dryogamomma.com/tend-her-4-0-hope/ Local Businesses that we love! Thank you for your partnership at events and for being so amazing! https://downtowniowacity.com/retail/ @cielogoods @revivaliowacity @amadecommunity @theagendaperiod @glowhydrationllc Dr. Jane Lucie Petersen @kittycornersocialclub @deluxeiowa @sidekickcoffeeandbooks @willowandstock @heartland_yoga @pureluxeapothecary @ravenandmagnolia @omgiftsiowa @mosaic_iowacity @littlelightsonthelane @_terrahartley_ @yotopiafroyo @rapidcreekrdfarmstand @catherinesboutique @littlescratchcofee Source

“There is an aspect that women need to master if you’re going to be a wild woman and that is dealing with what can only be called women’s rage. The release of that rage is required. Once women remember the origins of their rage they feel they may never stop grinding their teeth. Ironically, we also feel very anxious to disperse our rage for it feels distressing and anxious. We wish to hurry up and do away with it. But, repressing it will not work.” —Clarissa Pinkola Estes in Women Who Run with the Wolves In this episode we explore: -How anger is often considered a “bad” emotion, but that it is truly useful information and can offer us energy to sort through the complexities of life -How perfectionism and the need to be nice can repress anger early in life -How Kate found anger and rage as young women in spaces (law, politics, human rights) where appropriate anger could be acknowledged and accepted -How Betsy, whose training was to be good, nice and likable, held anger back until later in life -How women often repress anger, which then can manifest in the body as depression, heart problems, digestive issues -Heathy ways to express anger and how to figure out what message anger is trying to give us A Finnish study that mapped emotions onto where they are felt in the body https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1321664111 Past Episodes You Might Like with Kate & Betsy: Episode 163: Rage As Teacher Episode 131: Life Quakes Episode 124: Shadow Work Episode 98: Shake if Off: Facing the Criticism and Embracing Your Light Episode 76: Women Finding Their Voice Episode 55: Boundaries & Self Sabotage Episode 42: Midlife Awakening: Rise from the Ashes Episode 33: Anxiety: Surrender with Gratitude Episode 30: Grief: It’s Complicated Today’s Episode sponsored by: Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to do your own Heroine’s Journey with Dr. Betsy? Consider joining Reclaim: A Heroine’s Journey with Betsy. This 13-week online course takes you on a journey “in and down” (the feminine path) to reclaim your lost feminine parts, heal your wounded masculine parts, receive initiation from the Goddess, and return a changed person. This course runs during the darkest days of the year, which tends to be the best time for depth work according to Dr. Betsy. This course begins November 2025. For all the upcoming details visits https://dryogamomma.com/reclaim-heroines-journey-of-transformation Want to check out the Waterbearer event on January 11, 2026 in Iowa City visit: Winter Gathering 2026 waterbearercollective.com Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! To join the Tend Her 4.0 Course on Hope (It’s Free!), visit here: https://dryogamomma.com/tend-her-4-0-hope/ Source

In today’s episode, we dive into a rich and inspiring conversation with yoga teacher Uma Subramaniam. Uma shares her journey from growing up in India—where yoga was a natural part of daily life—to her years in the U.S. financial industry, and ultimately, to rediscovering her calling as a lifelong student and teacher of yoga. Through her story, Uma beautifully illustrates how yoga is not just a practice, but a way of being—one that guides her understanding of purpose, balance, and self-awareness. In this episode, we explore: Roots in India: Uma’s early exposure to yoga through her father and how morning practices by the sea taught her stillness, breath, and focus. A Spirited Beginning: How she describes her young self as a “Tasmanian devil,” and how yoga offered her a grounding foundation even as a child. Life Choices and Transitions: The story of her arranged marriage, her studies in international business, and her move to the United States. Returning Home: Her family’s decision to move back to India—to care for her parents and reconnect their children with their heritage and culture. A New Chapter: Uma’s choice to leave the corporate world and return to yoga as a path to healing and wholeness—ultimately earning her master’s degree in yoga and opening six yoga studios. Yoga as a Way of Life: Uma’s belief that yoga is life itself—that its true purpose is to help us understand who we are and why we are here. What’s Next: Her excitement about the upcoming Yoga Teacher Training with Betsy and Kimberly, launching in Iowa City in January 2026.Bio: Uma’s early experiences with yoga started at the age of 10 with her father, and strictly adhered to traditional yogic principles that included practicing before sunrise on an empty stomach. An Arts graduate with a specialization in English Literature, she later went on to pursue an associate degree in International Business. She worked as an Internal Auditor for one of the top banks in the US and lived in the US for over a decade. When she moved back to India in 2008, she turned back to yoga for personal practice and soon decided to teach. She has a Master’s Degree in Yogic Sciences, a Master’s degree in Vedanta (philosophy) and is a Yoga Alliance Registered ERYT500 Teacher, RCYT(Children’s Yoga) and RPYT(Prenatal Yoga) certified teacher from the Yoga Academy. Uma designs her classes to work slowly into classical practices beginning with awareness to spine, breath and the mind space. “I like my students to experience transformation with even a simple 30 minute practice”. She considers herself still a student, a teacher and therapist, a believer in yoga, naturopathy, ayurveda and natural, holistic and wholesome treatment of the human body and mind. Her happiness and satisfaction lies in her students improving steadily and in having strengthened their interest and belief in yoga, and holistic treatment of their body and mind. She is happiest when she is also able to encourage them to inculcate this new-found way of living among their family and friends. With experiential knowledge of different schools of yoga (Sivananda, Satyananda, Iyengar, Ashtanga, Yin and hot yoga), and having watched the yoga industry bloom around the world and particularly in Bangalore, Uma helps lead your way to the many options and offerings yoga has for the discerning seeker. Heartland Yoga Teacher Training: January 2026 This hatha training, co-taught by 3 experienced teachers, will prepare you to not only teach yoga but will introduce you to scientific research in psychology, neuroscience, and mindfulness to offer trauma informed practices to support mental health and healing. Link for more information: https://dryogamomma.com/heartland-ytt-2026/ Past Episodes You Might Like with Kate & Betsy About Yoga and Embodiment: Dharma: Why are we all here? The Heroine’s Journey: Reclamation of the Feminine Meditation: The Royal Road to Self Episode 90: Michala Boehm: The Wild Woman’s Way to Embodiment Today’s Episode sponsored by: The Local Hub Kate Moreland Coaching Dr Yoga Momma Heartland Yoga Want to do your own Heroine’s Journey with Dr. Betsy? Consider joining Reclaim: A Heroine’s Journey with Betsy. This 10-week online course takes you on a journey “in and down” (the feminine path) to reclaim your lost feminine parts, heal your wounded masculine parts, receive initiation from the Goddess, and return a changed person. This course runs during the darkest days of the year, which tends to be the best time for depth work according to Dr. Betsy. This course begins November 2025. For all the upcoming detils visits https://dryogamomma.com/reclaim-heroines-journey-of-transformation Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Costa Rica in May 2026 at her favorite retreat center to help you reorganize your inner space using yoga, meditation, energy medicine, and hypnosis? All the details here! To join the Tend Her 4.0 Course on Hope (It’s Free!), visit here: https://dryogamomma.com/tend-her-4-0-hope/ So