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Ignoring The Limits

Ignoring The Limits

Tell Me About Your Kids

May 12, 202243m 43s

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Show Notes

Anna has been trying to get her 7 year old to accept her safety and screentime limits she believes are absolutely appropriate and understood. So when Maddie continually ignores them, Anna sees a defiant child who is not listening—a button-pusher. Bonnie helps Anna see that the reason a limit is not followed is not because her daughter is belligerent or dismissive. It’s because the limits are not logical to Maddie, her Integrity child. If time and time again a limit is disregarded, it’s time to question the limit not the child.

 

Articles:

9 Signs Your Defiant Kid is Actually an Integrity Child - https://bonnieharris.com/9-signs-your-defiant-kid-is-actually-an-integrity-child/

6 Warning Signs You Need to Empower Your Harmony Child - https://bonnieharris.com/6-warning-signs-you-need-to-empower-your-harmony-child/

 
Bonnie Harris, MS.Ed., director of Connective Parenting, 30+ years of coaching, teaching, and writing for parents. 


https://linktr.ee/bonnieharrisparenting

Website: bonnieharris.com 

Email: [email protected]

Produced, mixed, and scored by Echo Finch

 www.echofinch.com






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