Show overview
Swapping Secrets has been publishing since 2020, and across the 6 years since has built a catalogue of 123 episodes. That works out to roughly 95 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a fortnightly cadence, with the show now in its 6th season.
Episodes typically run thirty-five to sixty minutes — most land between 37 min and 56 min — though episode length varies meaningfully from one episode to the next. None of the episodes are flagged explicit by the publisher. It is catalogued as a EN-AU-language Health & Fitness show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed yesterday, with 10 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2023, with 25 episodes published. Published by Our Secret Spot.
From the publisher
Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released biweekly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
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Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky behaviour, poor communication, ignoring boundaries, and unsafe sex practices, to the difference between dating vs the lifestyle, this episode dives deep into the psychology of desire and decision-making. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and Schoolgirl Chaos | Wild Swingers Club Stories
Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories reveal what actually happens inside a swingers club. From a school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction… to a hilariously mismatched dungeon scene where one guy looked completely bored while the other was having the time of his life — this episode is full of unforgettable moments from behind the scenes at Our Secret Spot. What Really Happens Inside a Swingers Club? Lifestyle clubs are often misunderstood. While movies portray them as chaotic or purely sexual environments, the reality is usually far more social, respectful, and community-driven. At Our Secret Spot, every night brings unexpected moments — from hilarious misunderstandings to unforgettable connections. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack several real swingers club stories including: – A school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction – A dungeon scene where one participant was wildly enthusiastic and the other looked completely bored – A five-person shower scene in the orgy room – An influencer couple who seemed to turn their night into a performance These swingers club stories are just a small glimpse into the unexpected moments that happen behind the scenes at lifestyle venues like Our Secret Spot. If you enjoy real, uncensored conversations about relationships, sexuality, and community, Swapping Secrets delivers stories you won’t hear anywhere else. The post Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and Schoolgirl Chaos | Wild Swingers Club Stories appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve LeJeune)
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content https://www.patreon.com/SwappingSecretsPodcast Genevieve’s link: Website Instagram (Skirt Club) Instagram (Genevieve) Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve LeJeune) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?
In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. We unpack: • What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex• How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy• Tips for anal and DP (double penetration) done safely• The biggest regrets (if any) about joining the lifestyle• Parenting while owning a sex club• Managing jealousy, reputation and daycare drop-offs• Working with your ex while building a lifestyle business Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space. This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered — but always rooted in consent, communication and curiosity. If you’re exploring non-monogamy, swinging, open relationships, or just curious about how real people navigate sex-positive spaces — this one’s for you. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship? appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up?
What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self? In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, this conversation dives into the grey areas between empowerment, regret, growth, and self-awareness. They explore how desire evolves, the difference between fantasy and reality, and why some experiences leave us feeling more confused than fulfilled — especially when communication, emotional readiness, or self-understanding lag behind sexual exploration. This is an honest, nuanced look at what desire can unlock… and what it can quietly undo. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up? appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)
Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — a powerful phase where confidence deepens, communication sharpens, and pleasure expands in ways younger generations rarely expect. Together, they explore how desire actually evolves with age, why libido isn’t meant to be constant, and how understanding arousal as a ladder (not a switch) changes everything. Susan breaks down the science behind expanding orgasmic capacity, the role of blood flow, hormones, and nervous system health, and why many people report the best sex of their lives in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. Susan Bratton Links Website: https://betterlover.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

The Sexiest thing YOU can do is Set a Boundary
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Bradford and Angela from the By The By Podcast to unpack the emotional mechanics of jealousy, envy, fear of missing out, and the boundaries that keep open relationships healthy, sexy, and sustainable. Together, they explore why jealousy often has more to do with insecurity than possession, how unmet needs amplify emotional reactions, and why clear boundaries don’t restrict freedom — they protect connection. From real-world club experiences to long-term lessons learned across 15 years of ethical non-monogamy, this episode dives into how communication, emotional awareness, and post-play check-ins can transform conflict into growth. The conversation also tackles the crucial difference between rules and boundaries, why boundaries should never be renegotiated mid-moment, and how to communicate limits without shame, control, or killing the vibe. Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or deeply experienced, this episode is a masterclass in emotional resilience, consent-driven communication, and why boundaries might just be the sexiest skill you can learn. Bradford & Angela’s links: Website: https://www.bythebi.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/bythebipodcast FB: https://www.facebook.com/bythebipodcast/ Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post The Sexiest thing YOU can do is Set a Boundary appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Naughty Christmas Special: Listener Gifts, Wild Stories and OSS Holiday Chaos
Naughty Christmas swinger stories are the unofficial love language of the holidays — and OSS has plenty to unwrap. In this extra-spicy Christmas special, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into naughty Christmas swinger stories sent in by the community, opening listener gifts, reading filthy confessions, and reliving the most outrageous festive moments of the year. From toy reveals and cheeky fan letters to edible lube taste tests and full-blown holiday chaos, this episode is equal parts heartfelt and unhinged. They also reflect on the growth of the club, the evolution of the podcast, and the wild experiences that defined 2025 — capped off with a present swap that absolutely should’ve stayed off HR’s radar. If you’ve ever wondered what the holidays look like inside a swingers club, these naughty Christmas swinger stories deliver everything you hoped for… and then some. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Naughty Christmas Special: Listener Gifts, Wild Stories and OSS Holiday Chaos appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees
Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful masturbation, and the quiet revolution happening in bedrooms everywhere. Rosie opens up about the origins of Yoni Pleasure Palace, how crystal and glass toys are reshaping internal pleasure, and why slowing down can unlock deeper, more connected, more embodied orgasms. They explore the healing power of self-touch, why shame still lingers around solo pleasure, and how early “be quick, be quiet” conditioning shapes adult sexuality. Rosie also unpacks the creation of Splash Blanket, the booming global culture around squirting, and why having permission to “make a mess” can be the key to letting go. From myth-busting and toy talk to navigating pleasure in relationships and reconnecting with your sensual body, this episode is equal parts grounding, expansive, and joyfully liberating. If you’ve ever wanted to explore sensuality, pleasure, body confidence, or inner connection without shame — this is your invitation. Rosie’s Links:FREE 7-Day Self Pleasure Course: https://yoni-pleasure-palace.teachable.com/p/7-day-self-pleasure-trainingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosie.reesYoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.comSplash Blanket: https://splashblanket.com (use promo code: secretspot)Women’s Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yonipalace Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut
Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues, the awkward pauses, or the moments you only realise after the fact that something felt… off? In this episode, Lawrence, and our guest Prue, dive into the real-world grey areas of consent — the ones that don’t show up in manuals but absolutely show up in bedrooms, clubs, and parties. Drawing from lived experiences and stories from the community, they explore how misunderstandings happen, how to slow things down without killing the vibe, and how to handle “oops, that didn’t feel right” with accountability and compassion. They unpack why consent is more than “no means no,” how power dynamics and group situations complicate things, and why emotional readiness is just as important as physical willingness. This is an honest, nuanced conversation about communication, boundaries, repair, and self-awareness — because great s*x isn’t just about enthusiasm, it’s about empathy. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex
Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy. From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embracing fun, intimacy, and freedom. With real stories from parents in the community (and a few cheeky confessions of their own), they unpack how families make it work without letting love or lust take a back seat. Inside this episode: How parents in the lifestyle juggle childcare, sex lives, and relationship time. Why scheduling and planning ahead is the secret weapon for sexy parents. Dealing with stigma at daycare, the school gate, and in the wider community. Why keeping connection alive as partners makes you better parents. PLUS — in this week’s Just the Tip segment, Jess & Lawrence play a hilarious game of Parenting or Sex Toy? with items from their very own survival kit. Spoiler: not everything is as innocent as it looks… Whether you’re a parent curious about the lifestyle or a listener who just loves real talk about sex, stigma, and balance — this episode proves that with creativity (and the right babysitter), you really can have it all. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy
Get your Safer Sex Checklist Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to stay safe, healthy, and confident in open and non-monogamous relationships. From STI checks to mental health, condoms to communication, this episode busts myths and flips stigma on its head with real talk and real tools. Because it’s not about being “dirty swingers” — it’s about being sexy, safe swingers. Inside this episode: Why “flying the lifestyle plane” is safer than most people think. How to normalize the safe sex talk — and why it can actually turn you on. The must-have health check routine that keeps you and your community safe. Why mental health is just as important as physical health in the lifestyle. The ultimate “go bag” essentials every sexy adventurer should pack. PLUS — Jess & Lawrence build their very own Safer Sex Checklist (with a cheeky demo of dental dams you won’t want to miss). Whether you’re a newbie, a seasoned swinger, or just curious, this episode shows why communication, safety, and self-care are the hottest turn-ons of all. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post 6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2)
No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) Jess and Lawrence are back with Part 2 of the New Relationship Revolution, joined by special guest Lucy Banks — PR powerhouse, CEO of the Australian Adult Industry Choice Awards, and marketing lead for Sxhibition. This episode goes deeper into how people are rewriting the rulebook of love and intimacy in 2025, balancing personal choice, communication, and freedom in their relationships. From relationship anarchy to ethical non-monogamy, from spicy industry trends to raising kids with open conversations — this episode is packed with real stories, fresh insights, and a candid look at how conscious choices are reshaping love today. Why every relationship is unique — and why that’s a good thing. How the adult industry is reflecting (and shaping) new-age love. Talking to kids about sex, love, and relationship choices without shame. Behind the scenes of the rebranded Adult Industry Choice Awards & Sxhibition. PLUS — our “Just the Tip” segment with Lucy explores how boundaries, conscious decisions, and communication aren’t just buzzwords — they’re the foundations of happy, sexy, sustainable relationships. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) “Sxhibition” https://sxhibition.com (use promo code: SECRETS10) “Adult Choice Awards” https://adultchoiceawards.com.au (use promo code: SECRETS10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.
No Rules, Just Love: The New Relationship Revolution (Part 1)
Jess and Lawrence return with Part 1 of a two-part special exploring the new relationship revolution. In this episode, they dive into how younger generations are rethinking love, intimacy, and commitment — moving beyond traditional models and embracing non-traditional paths like swinging, polyamory, and relationship anarchy. From peer-reviewed studies to app data from Bumble, Feeld, and OkCupid, the hosts unpack what’s driving this cultural shift — autonomy, authenticity, diversity in needs, and community connection. Why are younger people rejecting traditional relationship rules? What the research actually says about consensual non-monogamy in Australia and worldwide. Why LGBTQ+ communities are leading the way. How dating apps are fueling the rise of non-monogamy. Just the Tip: Jess & Lawrence play their “Out of the Jar” game, defining modern relationship terms — with hilarious and eye-opening results. This episode is packed with insights, cheeky laughs, and real-world takeaways for anyone curious about how love and sex are evolving in 2025. Sponsors: “Flirt” www.flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post No Rules, Just Love: The New Relationship Revolution (Part 1) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

First-Time Stories, Sexy Starters and Club Newbie Tips
Welcome to the brand-new Swapping Secrets podcast — the revamped show from inside Our Secret Spot. Jess and Lawrence are back with cameras, lights, and plenty of cheeky stories to kick off the new era. In this episode, we dive into first time swingers club stories — the funny, the awkward, and the oh-so-sexy moments of starting out in the lifestyle. From taking that nerve-wracking step into the swingers’ club, to experimenting with toys, lingerie shopping, and even trying the infamous sex swing. What’s it like prepping for your very first club visit? Why a lingerie shopping date could be the perfect warm-up. How to set the mood before you arrive (yes, cocktails included). Which toys and cheeky accessories are worth bringing (and which ones to leave at home). Just the Tip: What to wear when you’re dressing sexy for the club. With personal anecdotes, listener-inspired stories, and plenty of laughter, this episode is the perfect starter for anyone curious about swinging, non-monogamy, or simply spicing up their play. So, grab a drink, slip into something sexy, and join us for the very first Swapping Secrets. Sponsored by “Flirt” www.flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post First-Time Stories, Sexy Starters and Club Newbie Tips appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

OSS Presents: Our Wildest Secrets and Stories (so far)
It’s not Episode 101 just yet, but we couldn’t resist bringing you a mid-season treat — the juiciest, funniest, and most outrageous moments from the pod so far. In this special “Best Of” edition, Jess and Lawrence revisit the stories that had us laughing, blushing, and fanning ourselves, plus a few that made us stop and reflect. Expect to hear: Listener confessions that still make us giggle Sexy secrets shared by our community Unfiltered moments from behind the mic Those “did-they-really-just-say-that?!” stories From spicy hookups to heartfelt confessions, this episode is a snapshot of everything that makes the pod what it is: playful, raw, and unapologetically real. Whether you’re a long-time listener or just finding us now, it’s the perfect sampler of the OSS vibe. So grab your headphones, get comfy, and relive the moments that made us (and you) sweat, smile, and swoon. New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram Facebook X TikTok Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post OSS Presents: Our Wildest Secrets and Stories (so far) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

OSS Presents: Seductive Stories & Erotic Novels — With Natasha Rose
It’s not Episode 101 (yet), but we’re keeping your earbuds warm with a juicy mid-season treat. In this special in-between-isode, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Our Secret Spot’s own literary temptress — Natasha Rose — to talk all things erotica, imagination, and the powerful role of storytelling in sexuality. What turns us on in a story? How do erotic novels differ from visual porn? What fantasies have YOU heard in audio form that stayed with you? From the very first page, Natasha Rose draws us into her sensual world — one where words spark desire, and fantasy knows no bounds. In this intimate bonus episode, we explore her journey as an erotic writer: how she gets inspired, what her creative process looks like, and why fiction can be just as powerful (if not more so) than visual porn. Moreover, we dive into the growing popularity of audio erotica, and why some fantasies are best experienced through headphones and a vivid imagination. We also share a few cheeky excerpts, favourite tropes, and personal reflections on the kinds of stories that linger long after the final chapter. So, whether you’re a book lover, a sensual soul, or just erotica-curious — light a candle, pour yourself a glass of something delicious, and indulge with us. New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100 spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram Facebook X TikTok Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post OSS Presents: Seductive Stories & Erotic Novels — With Natasha Rose appeared first on Our Secret Spot.