Summer of Me

If you're looking for information about any of the following phrases: aura, ball knowledge, chopped, rage bait, and unc, this episode is for you. This week, Kendra sits down with her two oldest kids, Baylor and Bellamy, to chat about life as teenagers, what's in, and what the hell they're saying. Who is the favorite child? What kind of clothing is in style right now? What hidden talents do they have? Baylor and Bellamy compare rules at mom's and dad's houses, and give advice for kids going back and forth between homes. Don't miss all the vocabulary in this important episode of The Summer of Me. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Baylor and Bellamy Return 00:58 Teen Slang Catch Up 02:15 Aura, Unc and Chopped 03:52 Household Chaos Q&A 05:30 Who Will Be Famous 06:54 What's Cringe and What's Cool? 07:56 Co-Parenting House Rules 09:04 Custody Swap Advice 09:39 Middle School Rapid Fire 11:06 Dream Life at 30 12:26 Kids on Parents Dating 13:22 Life Advice and Style 14:30 Kids Interview Mom 14:45 Why We Moved Nashville 16:44 Gen Z Lingo Rage Bait 17:47 Wrap Up and Sign Off LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

In this episode of Summer of Me, Kendra shares her vulnerable word of the year – discipline. After observing that many successful people rely on organization and routine, she is practicing doing small "annoying" tasks immediately to close loops and reduce mental stress. She also commits to daily check-ins on finances, goals, calendars, deadlines, and energy/money leaks, arguing that "how you do one thing is how you do everything." What's your word of the year? Leave it in the comments. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction, Word of the Year 02:08 Why Discipline Matters 05:17 Morning Routine Reset 07:06 Annoying Tasks Win 09:45 Comfort Addiction 10:59 Motivation vs Habits 13:05 Identity-Based Discipline 16:04 Clean Mom Breakfast 18:44 Daily Discipline Checklist 22:04 How You Do Everything 23:37 Final Challenge 24:16 Outro and Where to Listen LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

In this powerful episode of "The Summer of Me," we explore the intricate process of how to get over a breakup . It's often not the person we miss, but the identity and personal growth, and opportunities we experienced within that relationship. Drawing on her personal experiences after divorce, she explains how fantasy, hope, and a focus on potential can keep someone attached to unhealthy dynamics. This discussion offers essential breakup advice, guiding you through the grieving process towards significant personal growth and self development. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction 00:29 My Post-Divorce Relationship 01:22 Dating Potential 02:54 Hope as a Drug 05:13 Why Breakups Hurt 07:12 Identity After a Breakup 08:00 The Breakup Reframe 09:32 How to 'Metabolize the Grief' (Step-by-Step) 10:53 Rebuild Self-Expansion 12:26 Takeaways + Homework 14:18 Closing: You Were Always the Magic LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

In this episode, Kendra opens up about her personal journey with being "easy to love" and how this mindset impacted her relationships. She discusses the importance of self-improvement and personal growth, encouraging listeners to prioritize their own self-worth. Kendra's insights aim to foster a deeper understanding of self-love and self-esteem, moving beyond external validation. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Being Easy to Love 00:48 The Cost of Being Easy to Love 01:01 Personal Experiences and Marriage 01:52 Childhood Conditioning and Identity 03:53 The Turning Point: Choosing Myself 09:23 The Trap of Self-Silencing 12:13 The Price of Likability Over Respect 13:41 Confusing Peace with Connection 16:58 Self-Reflection and Overcoming the Fear of Needs 18:49 Conclusion: Seeking Connection Over Convenience LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

This week, Kendra is talking about companionship, reflecting on her personal journey from loneliness to finding solace and connection beyond romantic partners. She emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and the significance of fostering deep relationships with friends and family. Kendra talks about overcoming fears of loneliness, the necessity of facing it head-on, and the growth that comes from embracing solitude. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction to Companionship 00:15 The Struggle with Loneliness 01:22 Finding Solace in Being Alone 02:38 Beyond Romantic Relationships 04:48 The Importance of Community 06:36 Redefining Companionship 10:22 Practical Tips for Overcoming Loneliness 13:45 Final Thoughts and Takeaways LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

Today, Kendra is exploring the concept of microabandoning: the small, repeated decision to overlook your own needs. She explains how this can lead to full self-abandonment, causing significant emotional and physical stress. Kendra gives strategies for combating micro-abandonments, and encourages listeners to choose themselves by making small, intentional decisions to prioritize their own needs and well-being, aiming for a more fulfilling and balanced life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome to the Summer of Me 00:25 Introducing the Substack Community 01:08 Understanding Micro Abandonment 04:54 Defining Micro Abandonment 05:42 Self-Silencing Behaviors 09:45 Minimizing Your Feelings 12:07 Shrinking to Keep Others Comfortable 13:31 Embracing Uniqueness and Rejecting Conformity 14:34 The Trap of Over-Functioning 16:00 Listening to Your Body's Signals 17:35 Unmet Needs and Emotional Starvation 19:39 Psychological Drivers of Self-Abandonment 21:24 Micro Choosing Yourself: Steps to Self-Rediscovery 26:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

Feeling lost, but you aren't sure what steps to take to find yourself again? In this episode, Kendra shares some signs of self-abandonment and her best tips for getting back on track. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-worth, and identifying your desires, even if they differ from societal norms and expectations. Kendra encourages women to recognize their worth and establish anchors to realign and live a more fulfilling life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:50 Signs You've Disappeared 03:54 You Don't Know What You Want 06:44 Performing the Expected Version of Yourself 11:00 Feeling Numb or Just Fine 13:34 Outsourcing Your Self-Worth 17:31 Your Life Runs, but You Don't 19:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

In this episode of the Summer of Me, Kendra deep dives into the unexpected and often overlooked positive parts of divorce. From the freedom to eat and buy whatever you want, to having the bed to yourself, Kendra shares her personal silver linings and encourages listeners to embrace their new chapter. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction to the Silver Linings of Divorce 00:54 Underrated Freedoms 02:20 Sleeping 03:08 Home Cleanliness 04:28 Remote Control Freedom 05:13 Shopping 05:54 Decorating 06:13 Embracing Sadness 06:56 Conclusion: Embracing the Single Life LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

This week, Kendra is talking all about becoming magnetic and playing the main character role in your life. She explains the law of attraction and attachment theory, particularly in the context of dating. Kendra shares practical advice, like labeling emotional triggers, redirection responses, and maintaining your self-worth. This episode emphasizes the importance of centering yourself to attract healthier relationships. Kendra discusses how cognitive bias can influence our behaviors and provides valuable insights into self-love and self-prioritization, highlighting how they can transform your life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction to Magnetic Attraction 00:09 Understanding the Law of Attraction 00:29 Applying Attraction in Dating and Relationships 01:43 Dealing with Anxiety and Attachment 03:53 The Psychology Behind Attachment 08:30 Becoming the Main Character in Your Life 17:10 Practical Tips for Staying Grounded 20:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

Welcome back to The Summer of Me! In case you're new here, Kendra is diving deep into her personal journey, navigating through self-abandonment, divorce, and the realization that she needed to reclaim her own identity. Reflecting on her wake-up call, Kendra is here to encourage women to prioritize themselves and take small, intentional steps toward their true selves. Tune in for practical advice and the validation that it's never too late to choose yourself. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction 00:12 The Slow Loss of Identity 01:02 Personal Stories of Self-Abandonment 04:59 Realizations and Turning Points 11:37 The Summer of Me 15:46 Reinventing Myself 17:18 Encouragement and Conclusion LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson emphasizes the importance of maximizing the last 100 days of the year to create significant life changes. She discusses how one decision can alter the trajectory of your life, encouraging listeners to take immediate action rather than waiting for the new year. Kendra shares personal experiences and practical strategies for making impactful changes, highlighting the power of small, consistent decisions and the importance of setting clear goals. The episode serves as a motivational call to embrace transformation and take charge of one's life before the year ends. Takeaways You are one decision away from changing your life. Many people feel overwhelmed by the idea of change. You have 100 days to make a massive change. The first step is often the hardest part. 80% of people give up on their new year's resolutions by February. Decide on a non-negotiable goal to focus on. Improving just 1% every day can lead to significant change. Your habits can change the trajectory of your life. What is that one thing you want to change? You can be a different person if you make the decision to change.

In this empowering episode of "The Summer of Me," host Kendra Henderson delves into the concept of "Main Character Energy." Discover how to reclaim your identity and prioritize yourself amidst the demands of life. Kendra shares personal insights and practical tools to help you step back into your own spotlight, ensuring you don't lose yourself in the roles of caretaker, spouse, or parent. Tune in to learn how to assert your needs, embrace your individuality, and live life as the main character of your own story. #MainCharacterEnergy #SelfCare #IdentityResuscitation

In this episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra delves into the journey of unlearning survival mode and embracing peace and safety. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, Kendra explores the challenges of retraining the body and mind to recognize safety, offering practical tools and hope for those seeking to transition from a state of constant alertness to one of calm and security. Tune in to discover how to reclaim your peace and thrive beyond survival mode.

The episode delves into what the host, Kendra, terms "Hannah Montana Syndrome," exploring the duality of life as a single parent. Kendra shares personal experiences and insights into the challenges and emotional complexities of living two separate lives: one as a parent and the other as an individual with personal interests and relationships. She discusses the societal perceptions and misconceptions about single parenting, the feelings of loneliness and purposelessness when children are away, and the struggle to balance personal desires with parental responsibilities. The episode emphasizes the importance of finding a rhythm and giving oneself grace while navigating these dual roles. Kendra also reflects on the longing to merge these two worlds and the gratitude for the unique experiences that come with single parenting.

In this episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra shares her transformative journey from feeling lost in her identity to embracing empowerment and self-discovery. After navigating a life-changing divorce, Kendra realized the importance of prioritizing herself and created a blueprint to help other women do the same. Join her as she discusses the challenges and triumphs of reclaiming one's identity, the power of self-reflection, and the importance of supporting each other through life's ups and downs. Whether you're navigating motherhood, relationships, or personal growth, this episode offers insights and inspiration to help you find your true self. Tune in and discover how to walk yourself back home.

In this episode of 'The Summer of Me', Kendra discusses the societal pressures and guilt women often feel about wanting more in life beyond motherhood. She emphasizes that wanting more—whether it be in terms of career, personal growth, or self-identity—is not only acceptable but necessary for a fulfilling life. Kendra shares her personal experiences and insights on balancing motherhood with ambition, the importance of setting boundaries, and the generational guilt that often holds women back. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to embrace their desires for more and to model this expansion for future generations. takeaways Wanting more is not a dirty word. Women often feel guilty for wanting more in life. Balancing motherhood and personal ambitions is possible. Self-identity should not be solely defined by motherhood. Generational guilt affects women's ambitions. Settling for less leads to resentment. Guilt keeps women small and exhausted. Wanting more does not mean being ungrateful. Role modeling expansion is crucial for children. Embrace your desire for more, even if it's inconvenient.

In this episode, Kendra Henderson and Erica discuss the transformative journey of relationship coaching, focusing on parts work therapy, self-awareness, and emotional healing. They explore the importance of understanding one's relationship to self, the role of body movement in processing emotions, and practical tools for navigating breakups and new relationships. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-work in fostering healthy relationships and the dynamic nature of attachment styles. Connect with Erica @thewrighterica

In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson explores the concept of detachment, emphasizing the importance of letting go of expectations and outcomes to achieve greater happiness. She shares personal insights and practical techniques for practicing detachment, including visualization exercises, creating an alter ego, and embodying the emotions of abundance. Kendra encourages listeners to trust the process and believe that what is meant for them will come to fruition. takeaways Detachment from outcomes leads to greater happiness. Our thoughts can be controlled like choosing outfits. Visualization techniques can help in practicing detachment. Creating an alter ego can empower you to let go. Embodying the emotion of already having what you desire is powerful. Trusting the process is essential for personal growth. Releasing control can lead to a more fulfilling life. Practicing detachment takes intentionality and repetition. Your subconscious needs to be convinced of your desires. What is meant for you will find you.

In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson dives deep into the journey of self-discovery, encouraging listeners to explore their identities, passions, and personal values. She shares her own experiences of losing herself in relationships and the importance of returning to one's true self. Through various exercises, Kendra guides listeners to identify what they love, what they hate, their strengths, and their attachment styles, ultimately emphasizing the significance of self-worth and understanding one's motives in life.