Sons of Patriarchy

Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Tia's Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Tia-Levings/author/B08QDXBRBV?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1775134817&sr=1-1&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Summary In this engaging conversation, Tia Levings and Sarah explore the journey from survivor to advocate, discussing trauma, activism, and the power of storytelling. They share insights on navigating exposure, supporting survivors, and envisioning a future of change. Takeaways - Journey from survivor to advocate - Trauma and recovery strategies - The role of storytelling in activism Keywords survivor advocacy, trauma recovery, storytelling, religious trauma, activism, social justice, patriarchy, survivor stories, mental health, community support

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] Book: https://www.amazon.com/Wronged-Dangerous-Masculinity-Populist-Pandemic/dp/1529221404 Summary In this conversation, Dr. Karen Lee Ashcraft discusses the concept of viral masculinities, exploring the rise of the Manosphere and the feelings of grievance that characterize contemporary masculinity. She delves into the historical context of masculinity in crisis, the role of communication in spreading these ideas, and the influence of key figures in the Manosphere. The discussion highlights the irony of aggrieved manhood and the attention economy that drives the success of these movements, ultimately questioning the future of masculinity in society. In this conversation, Peter Bell and Karen Lee Ashcraft explore the complex dynamics of masculinity, communication, and the impact of social media on societal perceptions of manhood. They discuss the psychological underpinnings of masculinity, the rise of communicative capitalism, and the erosion of trust in traditional institutions. The conversation delves into the phenomenon of viral masculinity, the role of language in the manosphere, and the importance of understanding feelings in communication. They also address the crisis of masculinity, the influence of subcultures, and the need for a nuanced approach to addressing men's issues in contemporary society. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Viral Masculinities 03:14 The Evolution of Masculinities in Society 06:02 The Manosphere and Its Impact 09:03 Understanding Viral Masculinity 11:59 The Role of Aggrieved Manhood 15:03 Intentionality in the Spread of Masculinity 18:00 The Irony of Masculinity and Feeling 31:32 Understanding the Manosphere's Attention Economy 34:12 The Irony of Self-Containment in the Manosphere 36:35 The Great Projection: Identity and Victimhood 39:33 Countercultural Reversal in the Manosphere 47:06 Communication Tactics in the Manosphere 51:08 The Role of Feeling in Post-Truth Communication 56:26 The Impact of Journalism on the Manosphere's Narrative 01:01:19 The Power of Language in Communication 01:02:18 Understanding Content and Its Emotional Impact 01:03:12 Interrupting Polarization: Engaging at the Feeling Level 01:05:34 Subcultures and Specialized Vocabulary 01:06:41 Tracing Networks of Influence 01:09:20 The Dynamics of Movement Spread 01:10:29 Shifting from Individual to Collective Feelings 01:12:56 The Role of Media in Shaping Perceptions 01:14:17 Exploring Grieved Manhood and Its Realness 01:16:29 The Complexity of Masculinity in Modern Society 01:18:15 Addressing the Limitations of Identity Politics 01:21:12 Navigating the Shifts in Masculine Identity 01:24:43 Final Thoughts on Gender and Social Dynamics Keywords viral masculinity, Manosphere, aggrieved manhood, masculinity crisis, online rhetoric, gender studies, red pill ideology, communication, identity politics, attention economy, masculinity, psychology, communication, social media, affective polarization, post-truth, viral masculinity, media representation, grieved manhood, identity politics

Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary In this conversation, Sarah Bader and Margaret discuss the complexities of sharing personal stories as survivors of trauma. They explore the emotional challenges, the role of media in amplifying their voices, and the importance of community support. The discussion highlights the nuances of public exposure, the responsibility felt by survivors to speak out, and the potential consequences of their narratives. Through their experiences, they emphasize the need for careful storytelling and the impact it can have on both individuals and communities. In this conversation, Sarah Bader and Margaret discuss the complexities of personal identity, the challenges of advocacy, and the emotional toll of navigating public and private life. They explore themes of authenticity, the weight of responsibility in their work, and the importance of community support. The dialogue highlights the struggles of trauma, the search for self amidst chaos, and the need for collective action against spiritual abuse and societal injustices. Ultimately, they emphasize the power of vulnerability and the necessity of seeking help in their ongoing fight for change. Takeaways Discussing personal stories can be both empowering and daunting. Survivors often face scrutiny when sharing their experiences publicly. Working with trusted organizations can help survivors tell their stories safely. The media can amplify survivor voices but also misrepresent them. Navigating public exposure requires mental health considerations. Survivors often feel a sense of responsibility to speak out for others. The journey of telling one's story can lead to unexpected opportunities. Community support is crucial for survivors during their healing process. The impact of sharing stories can ripple through communities. Survivors must prepare for both positive and negative reactions to their stories. Authenticity is a journey of self-acceptance. Navigating public life can be overwhelming and isolating. The weight of responsibility can lead to anxiety and fear. Connections with others can be both a source of strength and vulnerability. Trauma can complicate personal identity and relationships. Vulnerability is a powerful tool for connection and healing. Support from the community is essential for advocacy work. The cost of doing the right thing can be high. It's important to recognize the emotional toll of advocacy. Collective action is necessary to combat systemic issues. Keywords advocacy, survivor stories, media exposure, personal narratives, trauma, church abuse, public speaking, mental health, storytelling, community support, authenticity, personal growth, advocacy, trauma, identity, support, community, spiritual abuse, mental health, empowerment

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] Links: Website: https://www.drmatthewdtaylor.com Substack: https://matthewdtaylor.substack.com Books: https://tinyurl.com/2jcmutzv Twitter/X: https://x.com/TaylorMatthewD Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/matthewdtaylor.bsky.social Threads: https://www.threads.com/@drmatthewdtaylor Summary This episode features Dr. Matthew Taylor discussing the influence of Christian nationalism, the New Apostolic Reformation, and their impact on American politics and society. We explore the theological roots, political strategies, and future implications of these movements. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the New Apostolic Reformation 05:35 The Evolution of Evangelicalism and Charismatic Influence 12:25 The Rise of Charismatic Leaders in Politics 21:26 Understanding the New Apostolic Reformation 27:18 Theological Justifications for Political Power 35:31 The Shift in Evangelical Support for Trump 38:48 The Rise of NAR and Charismatic Theology 41:21 Eschatology and the Vision for the Future 45:41 Influencer Culture and Charismatic Messaging 50:35 The Civil War Among Christian Nationalist Camps 58:54 Global Ambitions of Charismatic Christianity Takeaways Christian nationalism and its influence on American politics The origins and beliefs of the New Apostolic Reformation (NAR) The role of prophecy and spiritual warfare in supporting political figures like Donald Trump Keywords Christian nationalism, New Apostolic Reformation, Trump, evangelicalism, spiritual warfare, prophecy, religious influence, democracy, political theology

Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary In this conversation, Sarah Bader and Margaret discuss the complexities of sharing personal stories as survivors of trauma. They explore the emotional challenges, the role of media in amplifying their voices, and the importance of community support. The discussion highlights the nuances of public exposure, the responsibility felt by survivors to speak out, and the potential consequences of their narratives. Through their experiences, they emphasize the need for careful storytelling and the impact it can have on both individuals and communities. In this conversation, Sarah Bader and Margaret discuss the complexities of personal identity, the challenges of advocacy, and the emotional toll of navigating public and private life. They explore themes of authenticity, the weight of responsibility in their work, and the importance of community support. The dialogue highlights the struggles of trauma, the search for self amidst chaos, and the need for collective action against spiritual abuse and societal injustices. Ultimately, they emphasize the power of vulnerability and the necessity of seeking help in their ongoing fight for change. Takeaways Discussing personal stories can be both empowering and daunting. Survivors often face scrutiny when sharing their experiences publicly. Working with trusted organizations can help survivors tell their stories safely. The media can amplify survivor voices but also misrepresent them. Navigating public exposure requires mental health considerations. Survivors often feel a sense of responsibility to speak out for others. The journey of telling one's story can lead to unexpected opportunities. Community support is crucial for survivors during their healing process. The impact of sharing stories can ripple through communities. Survivors must prepare for both positive and negative reactions to their stories. Authenticity is a journey of self-acceptance. Navigating public life can be overwhelming and isolating. The weight of responsibility can lead to anxiety and fear. Connections with others can be both a source of strength and vulnerability. Trauma can complicate personal identity and relationships. Vulnerability is a powerful tool for connection and healing. Support from the community is essential for advocacy work. The cost of doing the right thing can be high. It's important to recognize the emotional toll of advocacy. Collective action is necessary to combat systemic issues. Keywords advocacy, survivor stories, media exposure, personal narratives, trauma, church abuse, public speaking, mental health, storytelling, community support, authenticity, personal growth, advocacy, trauma, identity, support, community, spiritual abuse, mental health, empowerment

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] Links: Culture Study on Patreon Instagram Twitter/X Books Summary In this episode, we explore the rise of tradwivery, its social media presence, religious and cultural underpinnings, and what it reveals about contemporary gender roles and anxieties. Anne Helen Petersen, with her background in media studies and cultural analysis, offers insights into why this phenomenon proliferates and what it signals for the broader society. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and the cultural significance of tradwives 02:07 - The popularization of tradwife imagery on media outlets and entertainment 03:50 - Personal interest in identity performance and gender presentation 05:56 - The taxonomy and diversity of tradwife communities 08:22 - Social media as spectacle versus genuine lifestyle 11:28 - The spectacle of large families and social media engagement strategies 13:14 - Younger generation of tradwives and their digital fluency 15:04 - Different religious and cultural variants of tradwives 18:45 - The history and mythic narratives invoked by the "traditional" label 21:25 - Intersectionality and the complex history behind supposed traditionalism 24:26 - The social and political motivations behind the tradwife phenomenon 27:16 - The rise of religious-centered communities in rural and small-town America 30:47 - The promises of tradwifery: flourishing or dependency? 34:35 - The connection between social media personas and real-world beliefs 37:01 - The role of algorithmic promotion and cultural overstatement 39:43 - Women's consumption patterns: aspiration, spectacle, or ideological agreement 42:30 - Men's consumption and red pill dynamics 44:57 - Religious figures and pastors following tradwife influencers 54:59 - The subtle influence of tradwife messaging on voting and political attitudes 58:42 - Authentic belief versus performative content in tradwivory 62:40 - Living a week as a trad wife: challenges and realizations 66:38 - The personal impact of traditionalist ideals and fears of dependency 68:36 - Final thoughts: the broader implications of tradwifery on society Takeaways The historical background of tradwives and their recent resurgence How social media amplifies tradwife aesthetics and ideologies Variations and tracks within tradwife communities (religious, secular, influencer-driven) The relationship between tradwives and Christian nationalism, patriarchy, and politics The symbolic role of tradwiveness as performative identity and social signal The motivations of women consuming tradwife content: aspiration, spectacle, or agreement How communities organize around religious institutions and the impact on societal norms The strategic marketing and algorithmic promotion of tradwife content The potential risks, including dependency, loss of agency, and social control Keywords Tradwives, Social Media, Cultural Dynamics, Gender Roles, Christian Nationalism, Identity Performance, Algorithmic Promotion, Religious Communities, Traditionalism, Patriarchy

Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary This episode explores the complex dynamics of cult deconstruction, the role of fear and control in religious and political systems, and the importance of empathy and self-love in healing from cultic influence. Margaret and Sarah delve into how beliefs are manipulated, the dehumanization process, and pathways to genuine connection and liberation. Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Occult in Deconstruction 02:10 The Spectrum of Cult Experiences 05:07 The Role of Compassion in Deconstruction 08:03 Personal Journeys of Deconstruction 10:52 Navigating Political and Religious Nuances 13:42 The Influence of Cult Dynamics on Society 16:53 The Underlying Beliefs of Christian Nationalism 25:29 Welfare and Community Care 28:12 Empathy and Societal Learning 31:03 The Role of Systems in Human Behavior 34:32 The Impact of Childhood Conditioning 37:47 The Dynamics of Gender and Control 42:33 Dehumanization and Its Consequences 47:29 Humanism vs. Christian Nationalism 52:51 The Importance of Empathy in Dialogue 56:04 Reaching Beyond the Digital Divide 57:19 Dehumanization and Its Impact 59:38 The Character of God and Evangelicalism 01:01:23 Christianity's Shift Towards Cult-like Behavior 01:03:56 The Role of Fear in Christian Nationalism 01:07:52 The Loss of Privilege and Its Consequences 01:09:43 Self-Love and the Christian Experience 01:24:47 Connecting with Peer Support and Advocacy Takeaways The spectrum of cult experiences and early indoctrination Nervous system wounds versus intellectual understanding The role of fear and control in Christian nationalism Dehumanization and its impact on marginalized groups Pathways to self-love and compassion as resistance Keywords cult deconstruction, Christian nationalism, empathy, self-love, dehumanization, religious control, political manipulation, healing from cults, faith and doubt, community resilience

NEWS - CNN will be airing a special, "The Rise of Christian Nationalism," find out more here: https://cnnpressroom.blogs.cnn.com/2026/02/17/cnns-pamela-brown-reports-in-the-rise-of-christian-nationalism-for-the-whole-story-with-anderson-cooper/ Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] Dr. Boedy's books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B07F16GPYF Summary This episode features Dr. Matthew Boedy discussing the influence of Christian nationalism, the Seven Mountains Mandate, and the rise of religious political organizations like Turning Point. We explore their origins, rhetoric, and impact on American culture and democracy. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Christian Nationalism and Its Influencers 02:40 The Seven Mountains Mandate Explained 05:34 Rhetoric and the Evolution of Christian Nationalism 07:58 Public Education and the Concept of Evil 10:49 The Influence of the Seven Mountains Mandate 13:32 Christian Influence vs. Christian Mandate 16:08 The Role of Charlie Kirk and Turning Point USA 24:37 The Seven Mountains Mandate and Political Influence 27:34 The Shift from Small to Big Government 29:15 The Concept of the Christian Prince 35:10 Future Vision of the Seven Mountains Mandate 36:49 Misunderstandings about Turning Point USA 40:59 The Future of Turning Point USA Key Topics - Origins of the Seven Mountains Mandate - Rhetoric and language used in Christian nationalism - Impact of organizations like Turning Point on American culture and politics Keywords Christian nationalism, Seven Mountains Mandate, Charlie Kirk, Turning Point, religious influence, political organizations, rhetoric, democracy, culture war

Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary In this conversation, Sarah Bader and Margaret discuss their experiences with trauma, healing, and empowerment as survivors. They delve into the anticipation and anxiety surrounding a CNN interview, the importance of building a support network, and the challenges of securing funding for survivor resources. The dialogue highlights the emotional toll of advocacy work, the vision for creating safe pathways for survivors, and the collective journey towards success beyond individualism. Chapters 00:00 Culinary Cravings: Indian and Thai Delights 00:28 The Anticipation of a Major Interview 03:18 Empowering Survivors: The Journey to CNN 06:31 Behind the Scenes: Filming with CNN 09:38 The Emotional Toll of Sharing Stories 12:17 Family Dynamics and Personal Growth 15:41 The Impact of Survivor Voices 18:27 Preparing for the Documentary Premiere 19:14 Preparing for the Online Backlash 23:06 The Journey of Healing and Support 24:18 Challenges Faced in Survivor Support 31:27 Navigating Organizational Growth and Funding 43:02 Building Connections and Overcoming Rejection 50:47 The Weight of Responsibility and Future Hope 52:37 Stepping into the Light 53:48 The Weight of Responsibility 56:03 Navigating the Past 58:00 The Need for Support 58:59 A Vision for Change 01:01:00 Building a Safe Pathway 01:03:14 Funding the Future 01:05:16 Shared Mission and Collective Success Takeaways Sarah and Margaret share their sensitivity to alcohol and its effects. They bond over their favorite Indian and Thai dishes, highlighting cultural connections. Margaret discusses the anxiety surrounding her upcoming CNN interview. The conversation shifts to the importance of survivor stories and empowerment. Margaret reflects on the emotional impact of trauma and healing processes. They discuss the challenges of public exposure and its effects on survivors. Building a support network is crucial for survivors navigating their journeys. Margaret emphasizes the need for funding and resources to support survivors. The vision for the future includes creating safe pathways for those leaving harmful environments. The conversation concludes with a focus on hope and resilience in the face of adversity. Keywords survivor stories, trauma healing, CNN interview, empowerment, support network, funding resources, advocacy, emotional toll, Pamela Brown, personal growth

NEWS - CNN will be airing a special, "The Rise of Christian Nationalism," find out more here: https://cnnpressroom.blogs.cnn.com/2026/02/17/cnns-pamela-brown-reports-in-the-rise-of-christian-nationalism-for-the-whole-story-with-anderson-cooper/ Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] Dr. Miller-Idriss's books: https://www.cynthiamilleridriss.com/books Extremism Lab: https://perilresearch.com Summary In this conversation, Cynthia Miller-Idriss discusses her unexpected journey into researching far-right ideologies and radicalization. She explores the evolution of these movements, the intersection of misogyny and gender dynamics, and the impact of online culture on young men. The discussion highlights the complexities of masculinity, the appeal of far-right communities, and the role of women within these spaces. Cynthia emphasizes the importance of understanding the motivations behind far-right beliefs, the influence of meme culture, and the urgent need for tools to combat extremism in society. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Cynthia Miller-Idriss 01:25 Cynthia's Journey into Far-Right Ideologies 04:25 The Evolution of Far-Right Movements 07:53 Understanding Misogyny in Far-Right Contexts 11:40 The Intersection of Misogyny and Far-Right Ideologies 14:02 Defining Extremism in Modern Politics 16:49 Perceived Threats and the Far-Right Mindset 21:11 Historical Precedents for Replacement Fears 24:28 The Obsession with Anti-Semitism 27:57 Holocaust Narratives in White Supremacy 30:56 The Shift in Propaganda and Meme Culture 33:10 The Evolution of Meme Culture and Its Impact 34:34 The Rise of the Boogaloo Movement 36:46 Weaponization of Youth Culture 38:39 Understanding the Intent Behind Extremist Messaging 40:34 The Policing of Masculinity and Its Effects 44:53 The Allure of Traditional Gender Roles 49:32 Loneliness and Online Radicalization 52:25 Women in Misogynistic Communities 58:37 The Pathways to Extremism 01:02:22 Misconceptions About the Far Right Takeaways Cynthia Miller-Idriss's journey into researching far-right ideologies began unexpectedly during her studies in Germany. The rise of far-right movements has shifted from fringe to mainstream, with ideologies becoming more visible in political discourse. Misogyny is deeply intertwined with far-right ideologies, often manifesting in the policing of gender norms. The online radicalization of individuals often leads to real-world violence, with many attacks being carried out by individuals rather than organized groups. The fear of replacement is a significant motivator for far-right ideologies, often rooted in historical precedents and conspiracy theories. Anti-Semitism remains a central theme in far-right propaganda, often framed as a conspiracy against white populations. Meme culture has transformed the way far-right ideologies are disseminated, making them more accessible and relatable to younger audiences. The appeal of far-right communities often lies in the sense of belonging and brotherhood they provide to disaffected young men. Women in far-right communities may be drawn to traditional gender roles as a response to economic pressures and societal expectations. Loneliness and isolation among young men are exacerbated by online culture, leading to harmful scapegoating of women and minorities. Keywords far-right ideologies, radicalization, misogyny, masculinity, extremism, online communities, anti-Semitism, meme culture, gender dynamics, political discourse

Special comes out March 22 at 8pm EST on CNN TV, and will stream beginning March 23: https://cnnpressroom.blogs.cnn.com/2026/02/17/cnns-pamela-brown-reports-in-the-rise-of-christian-nationalism-for-the-whole-story-with-anderson-cooper/ Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary In this conversation, Sarah Bader and Margaret Bronson discuss their experiences with trauma, the anticipation surrounding an upcoming documentary with CNN, and the emotional impact of recent events on survivors. They explore the importance of retreats, the challenges of navigating public reactions, and the complexities of addressing criticism while fostering community support. The dialogue highlights the resilience of survivors and the significance of hope amidst adversity. Takeaways Retreats are a vital part of healing and community building. The emotional toll of recent events can feel overwhelming. Survivors often experience a deep sense of hope and disillusionment. Public support can empower survivors to share their stories. Anticipating criticism is part of preparing for public exposure. The impact of trauma can manifest in physical symptoms. Community support is crucial for mental health and resilience. Survivors are often conditioned to be hopeful, leading to deep disappointment. Online comments can significantly affect mental well-being. Planning for the future involves addressing potential backlash. Keywords retreats, Pacific Northwest, trauma, survivors, documentary, public reactions, criticism, mental health, community support, personal growth

Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary In this conversation, Sarah Bader (of Sons of Patriarchy) and Margaret Bronson (of Deconstruction Doulas and CNN's "The Situation Room") delve into the complexities of cult dynamics, exploring personal experiences and the broader implications of high-control groups. They discuss the importance of language in defining cults, the various forms of control exerted by these groups, and the societal impact of cult-like behavior, particularly in relation to Christian nationalism. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness and understanding of these dynamics to foster healing and deconstruction from harmful belief systems. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes 00:20 The Cult Discussion Begins 03:09 Understanding the Term 'Cult' 06:17 The Importance of Language and Accountability 09:14 Defining Cults: The BITE Model 12:29 Behavior Control in Cults 13:25 Information Control and Its Implications 15:12 Thinking Control and Its Consequences 18:16 Emotional Control and Repression 20:23 The Journey of Deconstruction and Healing 29:35 Deconstructing Beliefs and Emotional Responses 32:44 The Impact of Cults on Human Development 36:17 Christian Nationalism and Religious Colonization 39:59 Language as a Tool of Control 44:30 The Role of Women in Cult Dynamics 49:45 The Intersection of Cults and Self-Improvement 54:26 Caste Systems and Hierarchies in Cults Takeaways The term 'cult' can evoke strong reactions, but it's essential for accountability. Cults often manipulate language to control narratives and perceptions. Behavior control is a significant aspect of cult dynamics, dictating personal choices. Information control limits access to diverse perspectives, reinforcing cult beliefs. Thinking control restricts individual thought, creating a false sense of agency. Emotional control leads to repression of feelings, hindering personal growth. Women in cults often face unique challenges and roles that reinforce patriarchal structures. Cults operate on hierarchical systems, creating a caste-like structure among members. The intersection of cult dynamics and nationalism is increasingly relevant in today's society. Deconstructing harmful beliefs requires understanding the mechanisms of control within cults. Keywords cult, deconstruction, high control groups, emotional control, behavior control, information control, thinking control, Christian nationalism, language manipulation, women's roles

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] The first hour of "The Boy Crisis" is FREE here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWD-UyD6Spo Jordan Peterson Academy: https://petersonacademy.com The Boy Crisis: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1942952716/ Summary In this conversation, Peter Bell and Dr. Warren Farrell (Jordan Peterson Academy lecturer and bestselling author) explore the complexities of masculinity in contemporary society, discussing the historical context, the evolving roles of men, and the impact of societal expectations on mental health. They delve into the challenges men face in education, the importance of fatherhood, and the need for better communication in relationships. Dr. Farrell emphasizes the significance of understanding one's value and the necessity for both genders to progress together in a supportive environment. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Masculinity and Crisis 01:37 Warren Farrell's Journey into Masculinity 06:38 The Sacrifices of Men for Family 11:01 The Impact of Patriarchy on Men's Choices 15:01 Changes in Fatherhood and Family Dynamics 19:05 Historical Context of Masculinity 22:11 The Shift in Gender Roles and Responsibilities 25:53 Earnings Disparity and Career Choices 30:00 The Nurturer Connector vs. Provider Protector 33:13 Education and Gender Dynamics in Society 34:35 The Educational Landscape for Boys 39:52 Understanding Male Psychological Pressures 41:45 The Communication Gap Among Men 48:57 The Male Crisis: Factors and Solutions 54:29 Guidance for Parents and Educators 01:05:50 The Future of Masculinity Takeaways Men are often seen as oppressors, but they also make sacrifices for their families. The narrative around masculinity has shifted, with many men feeling lost in their roles. Education systems may not cater to the unique needs of boys, impacting their success. Father involvement is crucial for children's development and well-being. Men's mental health is significantly affected by societal pressures and expectations. Communication skills are essential for healthy relationships and family dynamics. Women are increasingly earning more, but this can complicate traditional gender roles. The importance of nurturing and caring roles for men is often overlooked. Men need to find purpose and value beyond traditional expectations. The future of masculinity involves mutual respect and understanding between genders. Keywords masculinity, crisis, education, fatherhood, mental health, societal pressures, Warren Farrell, gender roles, communication, relationships

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse Summary In this conversation, Dr. Jessie Daniels discusses the interconnectedness of Christian nationalism, white supremacy, and misogyny, exploring how these ideologies have evolved over time, particularly with the rise of the internet. She emphasizes the importance of intersectionality in understanding these issues and highlights the emotional landscape of whiteness. The discussion also delves into the role of women in white supremacist movements and the challenges of addressing these ideologies in contemporary society. Dr. Daniels encourages listeners to engage with these topics through reading and community discussions to foster understanding and change. Dr. Daniels's books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jessie-Daniels/author/B001IU2TVY?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1770995865&sr=8-1&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Takeaways - Christian nationalism and white supremacy are interrelated issues. - Intersectionality is crucial for understanding race, gender, and class dynamics. - The internet has transformed how white supremacists spread their ideologies. - Recruitment into white supremacist groups often relies on social connections rather than overt persuasion. - Emotional regulation is essential for addressing feelings of guilt and shame related to whiteness. - Women in white supremacist movements often seek safety in whiteness despite being marginalized within these groups. - The far-right exploits feelings of aggrievement among white individuals. - Young people today are more adept at recognizing propaganda and misinformation. - Understanding one's own family history is vital in combating white supremacy. - Community engagement and reading are key to fostering understanding and resistance against extremist ideologies. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Christian Nationalism and Intersectionality 05:59 The Evolution of White Supremacist Rhetoric 12:33 The Role of the Internet in Spreading Ideologies 19:17 Understanding Recruitment in White Supremacist Groups 26:21 The Emotional Landscape of Whiteness 32:37 The Complexity of Women in White Supremacist Movements 39:56 The Future of Far-Right Rhetoric and Strategies Keywords Christian nationalism, white supremacy, misogyny, racism, intersectionality, far-right, internet, propaganda, emotional regulation, women in extremism

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Summary In this conversation, Peter Bell and David French discuss the relaunch of the Sons of Patriarchy podcast, focusing on the evolving landscape of American politics, particularly the rise of Christian nationalism and the ideological shifts within the Republican Party. They explore the increasing partisanship, the role of government, and the impact of hatred as a driving force in political movements. French emphasizes the need for internal reflection within the church and the importance of civility and decency in political discourse. Chapters 01:40 Relaunching Sons of Patriarchy 04:35 The Shift in American Politics 07:17 The Rise of Christian Nationalism 10:40 The Ideological Realignment of the Right 13:18 The Role of Decency in Political Discourse 16:40 The Evolution of Republican Identity 19:45 The Impact of Hatred on Political Engagement 26:11 Christian Nationalism and Its Implications 31:45 The Historical Context of Slavery and Christianity 36:29 The Current Political Landscape and Its Influences 43:48 Addressing Conservative Concerns and Values Takeaways - The relaunch of Sons of Patriarchy aims to address the crisis of masculinity and provide constructive solutions. - American politics has shifted significantly to the right, creating a new ideological landscape. - The traditional axes of political thought have been disrupted, leading to a realignment of values. - Hatred has become a central organizing principle for many political movements today. - Libertarian values are increasingly difficult to advocate in a polarized environment. - Christian nationalism is often rooted in a desire to return to an imagined past. - The Republican Party has seen a rise in extremism, overshadowing traditional conservative values. - Misinformation and distrust in institutions are rampant, complicating political discourse. - The future of the Republican Party is uncertain, with potential for change after Trump's influence wanes. - Internal reflection and accountability within the church are crucial for its credibility and mission. Keywords Sons of Patriarchy, David French, Christian nationalism, Republican Party, ideological realignment, libertarianism, political extremism, American politics, partisanship, cultural wars

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Jessica Jenkins takes us on a deep dive into all things Nancy Wilson, Rebekah Merkle, and Rachel Jankovic. What are they doing, how are they doing it, why are they doing it, and how can you respond? Jessica Jenkins We Who Thirst Podcast: wewhothirst.buzzsprout.com (available on Spotify, Apple, Amazon and wherever you like to listen) Eve in Exile book review & downloadable one-sheet: https://wewhothirst.com/eve-in-exile-book-review/ My Consulting web page: https://wewhothirst.com/consulting/ Article on Proverbs 31: https://www.cbeinternational.org/resource/mutuality-challenging-gender-norms/ Jessica Jenkins' Social Media Channels https://www.instagram.com/wewhothirst/ https://www.threads.com/@wewhothirst https://www.youtube.com/@wewhothirstpodcast

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: [email protected] They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Our NEW weekly series launches on February 16 with David French of The New York Times! They Called Her Bitter, another weekly series in the SoP universe, with Sarah Bader of Sons of Patriarchy and Margaret Bronson of Deconstruction Doulas, launches February 19! Gwen's Facebook post on her son Brooks and the Secretary of Defense, Pete Hegseth: https://www.facebook.com/gwen.k.harris/posts/pfbid02AqEszuyGSBV87XzhAezQoXwT3CQD6MoVPV6Z6mbpjZ8ryKN1SVNSGkGoarc4bd3Ql?rdid=FldGczPObipCBKph Summary In this special episode of Sons of Patriarchy, Peter Bell interviews Gwen Harris, the mother of Brooks Potteiger (recently appointed pastor of Christ Kirk D.C., where Pete Hegseth attends), a pastor influenced by Doug Wilson's teachings. Gwen shares her perspective on Brooks' transformation from a caring individual to someone who embodies patriarchal values, and the impact of these changes on their family dynamics. She discusses the troubling parenting styles she witnessed, the decision to report suspected abuse to Child Protective Services, and the challenges of navigating a divided family. Throughout the conversation, Gwen emphasizes the importance of prayer, truth, and the hope for redemption for her son and others caught in similar situations. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Special Episode 03:01 Gwen's Relationship with Brooks Potterger 06:13 Brooks' Transformation and Influence of Doug Wilson 08:54 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Children 12:06 Witnessing Abuse and the Decision to Report 14:59 The Emotional Toll of Reporting 17:57 Consequences of Reporting and Family Dynamics 33:05 Support from Law Enforcement 36:33 The Role of CPS in Family Dynamics 37:02 Advocating for Children in Crisis 39:32 Influence of Doug Wilson on Family Dynamics 43:56 The Impact of High-Profile Relationships (with Pete Hegseth) 48:57 A Mother's Plea for Redemption 54:53 Navigating Family Relationships in Crisis Keywords Doug Wilson, Brooks Potteiger, Gwen Harris, Pete Hegseth, Sons of Patriarchy, church abuse, parenting, Christian teachings, family dynamics, child protection, religious influence

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Join us as we talk with Sarah Stankorb, Kristin Kobes Du Mez, and Russell Moore about abuse in the church, MAGA, the politicization of theology, racism, and everything else we've learned over the past few months and what the future looks like for the White Evangelical Church. Find Sarah Stankorb: https://sarahstankorb.substack.com Purchase Sarah's book: https://tinyurl.com/jyrzapy2 Find Kristin Kobes Du Mez: https://kristindumez.substack.com Purchase Kristin's book: https://tinyurl.com/556v6dek Find Russell Moore: https://www.christianitytoday.com/writers/russell-moore/ Purchase Russell's book: https://tinyurl.com/35rs8rmx Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy In this episode I spoke with an anonymous woman, her son, a former leader at Christ Church Santa Clarita, and Ray Davis (a retired pastor and trauma-informed counselor) about everything that happened at this CREC. This episode is not for the faint of heart, and the first 10 minutes makes that clear. There are no shepherds there. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy If you're in Australia and need help with a DV situation please call: 1800RESPECT A conversation on Doug Wilson's pernicious and pervasive influence in Canada and Australia with Wes Bredenhof, who has pastored Reformed churches in Canada and Australia, and Camille de Vos, who was born and raised in the Free Reformed Churches of Australia. We have episodes upcoming on the influence of Doug, Christian Nationalism, abuse in the church, and more, across Europe, Africa, South America, and parts of Asia. May the global church take notice. The Good: https://tinyurl.com/53btkpvb The Bad: https://tinyurl.com/49zfbp6r The Ugly: https://tinyurl.com/yrwfzv5a Camille's practice: https://tinyurl.com/4re2h6xz Camille's Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/mrp66bec Camille's Substack: https://tinyurl.com/mrycwa6e Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Our scheduled episode for tomorrow has to be pushed back to next week (the reason why will be apparent when you listen), so I pulled this one out of the hopper! I spoke with Caleb Campbell of Disarming Leviathan and Pastor of Desert Springs Bible Church in Phoenix, Arizona. Need some sanity in this age of extreme political unrest, the takeover of our government, self-professed Christ Nationalists climbing the political ladder, all the while you're trying to figure out your friend or family member who seems to be enamored with it all? This is the conversation you need. Buy Disarming Leviathan here: https://tinyurl.com/5xbpvvzy Follow Disarming Leviathan's work here: https://tinyurl.com/3vvkb3zr Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy In this last episode of Season 1, I spoke with Dr. Karen Roudkovski, a Licensed Professional Counselor with her own practice, and an expert on trauma and abuse, with her own story of the same. Karen ties in every theme of Sons of Patriarchy Season 1, gives language to those searching and hurting, a listening ear to those who want to speak out, and the compassion to speak into those lives who have been destroyed by leaders of the church. May the end of Season 1 give you hope, peace, understanding, and the courage to move forward in the grace of the Savior. Because Jesus himself understands what you went through, are going through, and will go through. A sympathetic redeemer who heals you. Find Karen here: https://tinyurl.com/38knuc7h Buy Understanding Spiritual Abuse here: https://tinyurl.com/2wcyxab2 Buy Spiritual Abuse Assessment here: https://tinyurl.com/2pp2cu3e Buy Spiritual Abuse Recovery Workbook here: https://tinyurl.com/yvre52ua Buy Counseling Through the Storm here: https://tinyurl.com/35u2cyv3 Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Find Mountain City Christian Counseling here: https://tinyurl.com/3rjb6vra Sign up for an upcoming Mountain City Christian Counseling retreat here: https://tinyurl.com/59tuu6ra Are you in the PCA, and need help navigating your situation? Contact: https://tinyurl.com/56sb2c3b Free live workshops of the PCA Book of Church Order (BCO): https://tinyurl.com/bdcs7xrt Read and discuss the PCA report on Domestic Abuse and Sexual Assault: https://tinyurl.com/4cx9n538 Donate to Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew: https://tinyurl.com/ms6ba2ky In this episode I spoke with Colleen McConnell, former member of St. Paul's Presbyterian Church (PCA) in Orlando, Florida, and Megan Owen, founder of Mountain City Christian Counseling, who was formerly counseled by Jim Wilson, Doug Wilson's late father. Colleen's story shares similarities with every story we have profiled save one difference, she won her case in the PCA. So we look into when women "win," what that means for their relationship with the church and its leadership, as well as their marriages (or former marriages). Megan (and her family) were horrifically abused by her ex-husband, and you'll hear what kind of counsel came from the mouth of Jim, which then starts making more sense of Doug. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Because for these men and leaders, a woman who's too opinionated needs to be put her in place. Below them. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy I had the opportunity to sit down with Tia Levings to talk about her 2024 memoir, A Well-Trained Wife, her journey through the Patirarchy. Our second-to-last episode of Season 1, Tia's story weaves through every theme we have covered in this series. She made stops in the IBLP, Gothard, SBC, PCA, and CREC circles. She was controlled, manipulated, silenced, abused, and more. She was nearly sacrificed to the Patriarchy, on the altar of the cult. But she got out. May her story help you too. Buy Tia's book, A Well-Trained Wife here: https://tinyurl.com/aw2ynk5r Follow Tia on Substack here: https://tinyurl.com/ypfm6h2h Find Tia's website here: https://tinyurl.com/y6v38dt3 Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Join Peter in this special episode as he talks with producers (and survivors) Amy Nordhues and Jennifer Kramer about their upcoming documentary, #TherapyToo. They need your help! Website: https://amynordhues.com Trailer: https://www.therapytoofilm.com/watch Documentary: https://amynordhues.com/therapy-abuse-documentary/ Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Find all the documents here: https://www.facebook.com/patriarchysons Are you in the OPC and need help? Contact the Presbyterian Advocacy Coalition: https://www.presbyterianadvocacycoalition.org Caroline Garcia Osborne and an anonymous woman share their stories of grooming, spiritual abuse, and sexual battery at the hands of Boyd Miller of Covenant OPC in La Grange, Georgia. If you listened to Theresa Garcia Robertson's story, these are the women she referred to at the end of her episode. When this episode goes live head over to the Sons of Patriarchy Facebook page. There you find hundreds of pages of documents: Facebook messages, timelines, presbytery reports, everything. Theresa, Caroline, and the anonymous woman have given us access to everything. Let's do something about this. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy In this episode we spoke with Sheila Wray Gregoire, founder of Bare Marriage and the author of many books, and Marissa Burt, author of the upcoming Brazos book "The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families." Dominion theology begets dominating over families. Sex becomes a conquering act, not the beautiful union of a man and a woman who love one another. Women are receptacles for the pleasure of men, marriage a plan for taking over the world, and spanking kids the key to obedience and warriors in the quiver of the father. Mothers required only because they're needed for the birth, not because they contribute anything, but because men can't do it on their own. Sex is beautiful, families are beautiful, and children are beautiful. But none of these are ultimate. All of these are wonderful blessings of God. But none are tools for our gain. The Savior came not to be served, but to serve, and give his life a ransom for many. The King who came not to rule, but to give. Buy Sheila's book The Marriage You Want here: https://tinyurl.com/5y6rjdxh Buy Sheila's book She Deserves Better here: https://tinyurl.com/5n8afrsw Buy Sheila's book The Great Sex Rescue here: https://tinyurl.com/4t4yna7b Buy Marissa's book The Myth of Good Christian Parenting here: https://tinyurl.com/my89we6j Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Are you in the PCA, and need help navigating your situation? Contact: https://tinyurl.com/56sb2c3b Free live workshops of the PCA Book of Church Order (BCO): https://tinyurl.com/bdcs7xrt Read and discuss the PCA report on Domestic Abuse and Sexual Assault: https://tinyurl.com/4cx9n538 Donate to Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew: https://tinyurl.com/ms6ba2ky Here's Joyce's interview on Bare Marriage: https://tinyurl.com/36zcp3ya Find Donna Westcott's blogg here: https://tinyurl.com/862jbvyb Meet Joyce Rohe, former member of Rio Vista Community Church (PCA) in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, Lynna Sutherland, the founder of Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew (and a PCA member herself), and Donna Westcott, a licensed professional counselor (and critic of "Biblical" counseling). What happens when you go against your church elders' wishes by divorcing your abusive and absent husband? They skirt the "process" and discipline you without trial. What happens when you try to navigate that very system? They use it against you. What happens when you try to seek "biblical" counseling for all the pain this causes you? They convince you it's your fault, that there's sin residing in you. In short, you're excommunicated. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy The counterpart to Episode 13, It's Only a Matter of Rank. This time we have Beth Allison Barr (James Vardaman Professor of History at Baylor University, and author of numerous books), Sheila Wray Gregoire (founder of Bare Marriage, and author of numerous books), Cait West (yes, again!), and Hannah Oliver. The men are trained as leaders, and the women, as followers. The virtuous woman *only* stays at home, homeschools her children, satisfies her husband, and makes sure there's no ugliness in her. They are to stay silent, unless, of course, they've been approved to teacher other women to... stay silent. You can speak, as long as you tell other women not to. At the same time women are more liable to deceit than their male counterparts they also hold the power to cause their brothers to stumble. It's a whiplash, a system wherein you're told to be feminine, but not too feminine, smart, but not too smart, put together, but not independent. In summary, it's impossible. A standard you can never live up to. But there's another way, the way of Jesus. He who gladly took a rank below his, to give you a rank above yours. Buy Beth's book Becoming the Pastor's Wife here: https://tinyurl.com/53bepjff Buy Beth's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood here: https://tinyurl.com/yc7336tk Buy Sheila's book The Marriage You Want here: https://tinyurl.com/5y6rjdxh Buy Sheila's book She Deserves Better here: https://tinyurl.com/5n8afrsw Buy Sheila's book The Great Sex Rescue here: https://tinyurl.com/4t4yna7b Buy Cait's book Rift here: https://tinyurl.com/y7j85csy Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Are you in the OPC and need help? Contact the Presbyterian Advocacy Coalition: https://www.presbyterianadvocacycoalition.org Meet Theresa Garcia Robertson, Zach LeReaux, and Caroline McKuen. Theresa is a former member of Covenant OPC in La Grange, Georgia, pastored by Boyd Miller. Zach is Ali's husband (from Let's Get Spiritual), and will shed light on how men should engage with and respond to those who've been abused. Caroline McKuen is the director and founder of the Presbyterian Advocacy Coalition. For too long these cases and stories have been covered up, whether that be for "lack of evidence," or "sinful, but not criminal," or "undue gossip." Women have been silenced (as have some men), men have been coerced (as have some women), presbyteries have turned a blind eye, and the "good" men in authority, and the churches they pastor do nothing while people suffer. We've got something to say about that. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Read about the woman's story at FBC Beggs here: https://tinyurl.com/5x7w6ddj In this episode I spoke with repeat guest Cait West, a woman whose marriage and church (FBC Beggs in Beggs, Oklahoma, led by pastor Chris Gore) was taken over by the patriarchy, and Zach Wagner (author of "Non-Toxic Masculinity") about the Patriarchy. Patriarchy is not only toxic for the women subjugated under it, it's an impossible system for the men to exercise. It's a reaction to the perceived feminization of the church, of culture, and of society. It's an ideology wherein it's not enough to *be* a man, you must *do* manly things to prove it. And therein lies the problem, an identity wrapped up in performance rather than the gospel. Buy Cait's book here: https://tinyurl.com/27nvt34h Buy Zach's book here: https://tinyurl.com/6pt73vsb Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Meet Rachel Curtiss, former member of Cities Church in St. Paul, Minnesota, and Cait West, former member of the PCA, RPCNA, and OPC in Pennsylvania and Colorado. Rachel was publicly excommunicated by Joe Rigney (now at Christ Church Moscow) because she left an abusive marriage and church without their blessing. Cait West, author of the book Rift, was entrenched in the "stay-at-home-daughter" movement, and managed to escape. They have both found their voice. Get Cait West's book here: https://tinyurl.com/ycynkhnd Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Join us as we talk with repeat guest Jeff Moss, a former CREC Minister, who has over a decade of experience "in the system." The Trinity is the bedrock of the Christian faith: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. The Father is God, the Son is God, and the Holy Spirit is God. But what happens when you've entered into a culture war? The perceived "feminization" of the Evangelical church presents to you a problem: how do we fight this? Enter the old heresy of the Father as "authority" and the Son as "submission." The man in the marriage mirrors God the Father's role, while the wife is subjugated to that of the Son. What better to keep women under control than to tell them to "suffer like Jesus." The Trinity then becomes the foundation for gender roles. Let's fix this. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Both stories are coming on anonymously. The first is a couple who attended a CREC in the Southeast, and the second is a woman who grew up at Harvest OPC, near Grand Rapids, Michigan. The first story is about spiritual abuse and gaslighting, the second story is the outworking of Nancy Wilson's disgusting quip, "of course a husband is never trespassing his own garden" in this woman's life. We can do better. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Join Dr. R. Scott Clark and I as we discuss Federal Vision, it's various off-shoots and internecine debates, amber ale and oatmeal stout "versions," engage with clips from Douglas Wilson, Richard Lusk (among other CREC ministers who have blocked us), and look at the original statements and lectures from Auburn Avenue in 2002. This is our most theologically dense episode of the series. It's a beatdown of "Federal Vision," a works-based Christianity. We end by describing how this system of doctrine necessarily leads to abuse and obedience that is "cloaked" in submission. Let's make the gospel scandalous, not scandalized. That which leads to human flourishing, not fear. R. Scott Clark's faculty page: https://tinyurl.com/yc3pjz5c R. Scott Clark's podcast: https://tinyurl.com/ycxaruw2 R. Scott Clark's blog: https://tinyurl.com/4sb35au7 Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy A special episode profiling the allegations brought by survivors against Vision of Hope at Faith Lafayette. Resources: Website: https://hoperestoredcommunity.wordpress.com Contact: https://hoperestoredcommunity.wordpress.com/connect/ Recovery Facebook Group: https://tinyurl.com/csk5xhzp Community Facebook Group: https://tinyurl.com/msbs74fy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hoperestored.community/ Public Facebook Page: https://tinyurl.com/m282nc7b Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy Meet Aimee Byrd (a former member of the OPC in the Northeast and prolific author), Ali LeReaux (a former member of the OPC in the Southeast), and Heather Nadreau (a former member of Christ Church Spokane, CREC). Spiritual abuse so often gets short shrift, but it upends everything you think about the gospel, the church, Jesus, and the pastors who are commanded to shepherd your soul. The gospel ceases being a salve in favor for a rod. It ceases building you up, by beating you down. Aimee's books mentioned in the episode: Saving Face: https://tinyurl.com/5n7jwvmd The Hope in Our Scars: https://tinyurl.com/3wywurb4 The Sexual Reformation: https://tinyurl.com/y5jh2e28 Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: https://tinyurl.com/29y5he2z Why Can't We Be Friends: https://tinyurl.com/22vpsy9e No Little Women: https://tinyurl.com/4r5b988r Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.