Sluts and Scholars

This week I am joined by sex educator, speaker, and coach Marla Renee Stewart. We talk about her new book An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color. We also talk about her amazing events including Sex Down South and Dick Fest, as well as ways to heal through acts of self love. Ads: - Go to GETQUIP.com/SANDS RIGHT NOW and on top of their holiday savings, you'll get your first refill FREE. - Check out YourParade.com/sands and use code sands to get 20 % off your first order - 10% off and free shipping when you use my code sands at UberLube.com Marla Renee Stewart: https://www.velvetlipssexed.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode talks about a recent controversy in the news regarding Dr. Allyn Walker's research on minor attraction and childhood sexual abuse. I first share the importance of this topic and its nuanced complexities, then I interview a non-offending minor attracted person named Richard Kramer, who discusses what it is like to live with these highly stigmatized desires. Other topics covered: abuse prevention, academic freedom, and stigma related stress. Ads: - 10% off and free shipping at uberlube.com with code sands - 30% off any Satisfyer https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H - 30 day free extended trial dipseastories.com/sands Jezebel article: https://jezebel.com/professor-on-leave-after-comments-about-people-attracte-1848089269 B4U-Act: https://www.b4uact.org/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

If you watched the recent Goop series Sex, Love, & Goop, you may know a bit about Sexological Bodywork; tune in to learn even more. Educators Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose, aka the Pleasure Mechanics, join in for a conversation about body work, the importance of touch, how to savor more and increase your pleasure in life and sex, erotic massage, and more! Ads: - YourParade.com/sands and use code sands to get twenty percent off your first order - Everlywell.com/sands for 20% off your at-home lab test - Go to GETQUIP.com/SANDS and get your first refill FREE - Pleasure Mechanics: The Erotic Essentials free online course, rich with resources and freebies: https://pleasuremechanics.teachable.com/p/the-erotic-essentials/?affcode=160539_guqx01pi Pleasure Mechanics: https://pleasuremechanics.teachable.com/?affcode=160539_guqx01pi FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by The Funny Dom. He is a kink content creator spreading BDSM positivity from his home in Melbourne, Australia. We talk about Gomez and Morticia Addams (aka the dream couple), humor in BDSM, 24/7 kinky arrangements, and how to differentiate a toxic misogynist from a Dom or Daddy. Ads: - Everlywell.com/sands for 20% off your at-home lab test - 30% off any Satisfyer at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H The Funny Dom: https://www.instagram.com/thefunnydom FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by Tamar Samuels of Culina Health. Tamar is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and we talk about PCOS (Polycystic ovary syndrome), how gut health affects our whole body (sexuality included), and nutrition in relation to sexual health. Ads: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code "Sands" at UberLube.com 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Goddess KoCo Meow is a Professional Dominatrix at Atlanta Dungeon and a Fetish Esthetician/Lead Instructor at Atlanta Sissy Feminization Academy. Her signature is infusing spa treatments with BDSM & Kink. We talk about how this works, why people do it, and ways to love your body more. Ads: Satisfyer 30% off: https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H Dipsea extended 30 day free trial: dipseastories.com/sands KoCo Meow: https://www.kocomeow.net/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features urologist Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, M.D., who is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of sexual dysfunctions. We talk about everything from hormone management, to low libido, "blue balls," and even how to ejaculate more (and why people want to!). Discounts! - Everlywell: 20% off an at-home lab test at everlywell.com/sands - Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. - Like a Kitten: 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, M.D.: https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This special episode turns the tables and I get interviewed by Michelle L'amour on her podcast Look Down There. We talk about how to decrease sexual and body shame as well as offer some hands on tools and steps to explore yourself more. Discounts/ Ads: 30% off Satisfyer at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H Michelle L'amour: https://michellelamour.com/links/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode tackles premature ejaculation, or as I prefer to say "finishing before you want to." I chat with Jeff Abraham of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, makers of sexual wellness supplies including Promescent- a delay spray that helps people with penises "make love longer." I challenge Jeff about this complex product and talk about why, how, and when folks can use it. Ads: - 20% off and free shipping at www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Extended 30 day FREE trial at dipseastories.com/sands - 10% off and free shipping using code "sands" at uberlube.com Promescent: https://www.promescent.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features M.D. Dr. Josephine McNary of CalPsychiatry. We talk about when to visit a psychiatrist, how the process works, some misnomers about medication, as well as what to do if your meds cause sexual side effects. Discounts/ ads: - Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com. - 30% off of Satisfyer using code sands30 at this link https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.google.com/url?q%3Dhttps://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source%253DPodcast%2526utm_medium%253DSANDS%2526utm_campaign%253D2H%26amp;sa%3DD%26amp;source%3Deditors%26amp;ust%3D1631745828543000%26amp;usg%3DAOvVaw2PhKPDCcgK6IqX6TTm9P37&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1631745828565000&usg=AOvVaw0_rpyx4PzUZ77aGbnUtrpM CalPsychiatry: https://calpsychiatry.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week's episode features sex scholar and writer Nadège, founder of Pleasure Science. We talk about sexual empowerment, self esteem, how to communicate boundaries and needs before, during, and after sex, as well as the intersection of science and pleasure. Discounts/ ads: Satisfyer 30 % off at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H UberLube 10% off and free shipping when you use code SandS at U-B-E-R-LUBE.com Nadege: https://pleasurescience.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Welcome back to another season of Sluts and Scholars! This first episode talks about a new animated, educational show called Welcome to Kinkyville- which aims to help folks engage in Kink and BDSM in a safer, more informed way. We talk about how to find a Dom, how to explore BDSM for the first time, unicorn "hunting", and more. Donate and help Welcome to Kinkyville become a reality: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pewpewpewproductions/welcome-to-kinkyville Discounts Manscaped: Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com. Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Like a Kitten: 20% off and free shipping at www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Nicoletta welcomes back newly minted author Lucie Fielding to talk about her new book- Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments. Ads: UberLube- 10% and free shipping when you use code sands at uberlube.com Dipsea- Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS Manscaped: Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com. Lucie Fielding: https://luciefielding.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Join in a conversation with "Rick," the founder and creator of ASMR Daddy, an audio porn outlet and community for appreciators of all things Daddy. Ads: Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping! Just use code SandS Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Pour Moi: https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ ASMR DADDY https://www.pornhub.com/model/asmr-daddy FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode helps to break down the nervous system and explains how it affects our relationships and sex lives. Jennifer provides tools for stabilizing the nervous system and finding our inherent resiliency when we are under stress or triggered by traumatic events. This is a must listen for anyone with a body! Ads: - UberLube 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. - Feeld https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Jennifer: www.jenniferburtonmft.com Trauma Resource Institute: https://www.traumaresourceinstitute.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Dr. Zhana is a relationship scientist, writer, and consultant. This episode talks about ways to be more prepared when opening up your relationship- the do's, don'ts, and things to think about! Check out Zhana's course on opening smarter: https://www.drzhana.com/open-smarter Ads/ sponsors Manscaped: 20% off and free shipping with the code: [sands] at manscaped.com. Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS Pour Moi: $25 off of Intensity https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Von uses her own orgasm to make music. Remember the Lioness vibrator from episode 126? Von hacked her Lioness to change the way we talk about sex- and to create songs. Tune in to hear how this works, tips for working through sexual shame, and how to deal with rejection. Ads: Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code "sands" at checkout Manscaped: Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code "sands" at Manscaped.com. Von: https://www.vondomlabs.com/ Lioness: https://lioness.io/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode discusses mental health needs and progress in the adult industry. It includes: how to be a sex worker informed therapist, barriers to care, stigma, and more. In honor of the late Dr. Amie Harwick's birthday. You are missed and your contribution to Pineapple and so many other lives will never be forgotten. Ads: Dipsea: 30 days of full access for free at dipseastories.com/sands Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use code "SandS" at uberlube.com Pineapple: https://pineapplesupport.org/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Ellie is an asexual sex worker who joins me for a conversation around sexual spectrums, types of desires, aphantasia, and fetishes. She helps correct misconceptions about the asexuality spectrum and shares some personal ways that she helps clients combat sexual shame. Ads/ discounts: Satisfyer: 40% off and free shipping for all app-enabled devices with discount code SandS40 Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Download the Feeld app for free AND support our show by using the link. Even better...when you use our link in the description, you'll get 50% off the first three months of Feeld's Majestic membership Ellie: https://allmylinks.com/ellienextdoor1 FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Spanish-English bilingual therapist Rafael Cortina joins me for a conversation about trauma and addiction. We talk about the nervous system and how trauma affects the road to recovery. Ads/ discounts: Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code "SandS" at UberLube.com. OhMyG: 30% off at https://www.iobatoys.com/discount/SandS Rafael: https://www.in-sighttherapygroup.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

AM Davies is a veteran stripper, a sex worker activist, a new amputee, and the creator and host of Yes A Stripper Podcast. We talk about life as an amputee- both physically and emotionally, how to be kinder to ourselves, devotees, strip club safety, and healing. Ad Discounts: Pour Moi: $25 off on top of all ongoing promotions at https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features clinical psychologist and equine (horse and donkey) assisted psychotherapist Dr. Natasha Filippides. We talk about what equine therapy is, how it works, and how it can help you take your therapy and mental health work to the next level! Ads: Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code sands Stand InBalance: https://standinbalance.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features Maria Dominique Lopez of Ascending Arts. We talk about boundaries and how to make and keep them, shadow work, Reiki, decolonization, mindfulness, and spirituality. Ad/ discounts: 30% off of OhMyG https://www.iobatoys.com/discount/SandS Maria: https://www.instagram.com/ascendingarts/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week features Gila Zak, certified hypnotherapist and biofeedback specialist. We talk about everything from handwriting analysis (spoiler: I get my handwriting analyzed), to sexual freedom hypnosis, as well as why we choose incompatible partners and what to do about it! Ads/ DISCOUNTS: - Satisfyer: 40% off and free shipping on all app-enabled devices, just use code "SANDS40" at satisfyer.com - Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code "SandS" at UberLube.com. - Dipsea: 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS Gila: https://quantumwaveshypnotherapy.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week features Jordan Wolan, a Certified Hypnotherapist and Reiki Master. Jordan helps clients break through unconscious blocks to remove unwanted thoughts and behaviors and create positive changes. We talk about why people use hypnosis and what it can address, how Jordan helped me eat less Taco Bell, Neuro-linguistic programming, erotic and BDSM hypnosis, pet play, and having an orgasm through suggestion! Ad: 30% off when you go to https://www.iobatoys.com/discount/SandS Jordan: https://jordanwolan.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features therapist, educator, and founder of The Sexual Health Alliance Heather McPherson. We talk about common issues that partners face, how to get into the field of sexuality, and how to find a sex-informed therapist. Discounts! Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code "SandS" at UberLube.com Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Heather: Respark https://respark.co/ Sexual Health Alliance https://sexualhealthalliance.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Today I am talking with Danny Santos. Danny specializes in Astrological Birth Chart Readings, Tarot Readings, and Couples Sex/Love/Relationship/Intimacy Astrology. We discuss how to use astrology to spice up your sex life, how astrology and tarot can highlight aspects of yourself and your relationship, sexual liberation, tantric practice, plant medicine, and more. In my practice, I often help folks incorporate their spiritual practices if it is something that is important to them, even if I don't always align with their beliefs. I invite you to stay open and see what resonates with you. Danny: https://www.instagram.com/santoscrystalvisions Ads and Discounts: Special sponsor segment by Satisfyer: Satisfyer is offering listeners 40% off and free shipping for all app-enabled devices when you go to Satisfyer.com and enter code SandS40 at checkout. Sakara: Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/SANDS or enter code SANDS at checkout Dipsea: Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode is like five coaching and education sessions in one hour on pleasure, lingerie, kink and BDSM, sex ed, and sex toys. It features Burlesque performer and educator Michelle L'amour, sexologist and sex therapist Dr. Shannon Chavez, professional dominatrix Isabella Sinclaire, sex educator Dirty Lola, and the "Lingerie Addict" Cora Harrington. We talk about how to pick underwear and lingerie for whatever body you have, how to pick a sex toy for you, how to maximize your pleasure, how to navigate a shy partner in BDSM, arousal versus desire, and so much more. They are going to be doing an all star event coming up on March 20th and you can get involved at intopleasure.com. Sponsors and discounts: - Uberlube is offering 10% off and free shipping when you use my code "SandS" at UberLube.com. - OhMyG OhMyG is offering our listeners 30% off at https://www.iobatoys.com/discount/SandS Event: https://intopleasure.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

I hope you love this episode as much as I do featuring the fantastic Lola Jean- sex educator, instructor, coach, and Pro Domme. We talk about building confidence, awakening desire and libido, squirting, wrestling fetishes, and what to do if you like things that your partner does not. Discount and Ads: - Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/SANDS Lola Jean: https://lolajean.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week's guest is Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti. She is a poet, public speaker, panelist, singer, photographer, and performance artist. She is also a breast cancer survivor who has Autism. She talks about what it is like to live in the intersection of being Black, autistic, polyamorous, and kinky, and how to navigate complex relationships in a neurotypical world. Episode sponsored by UberLube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. Support Gloria: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GloriaJacksonNefertiti Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gloriajacksonnefertiti/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/gloriajn Website: notgloriajean.net Gloria's "Thriving Life Fund" (GoFundMe Campaign): https://gf.me/u/ynqfuf FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode welcomes back author, director, and porn performer extraordinaire Joanna Angel as we celebrate her new book Club 42- a choose your own erotic fantasy where you get to decide what newfound stripper Naomi does next. We also talk about Joanna's creative process, her relationship and literary inspirations, some sexy tidbits from the book, and her idea of a dirty good time. Discounts: Like A Kitten Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping at www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS UberLube: 10% off and free shipping when you use code "SandS" at uberlube.com. Pre order Joanna's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08PH8K4GW/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Welcome back to a new season! Jennifer Litner, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexuality Educator, kicks us off with an episode about differing desires in a relationship (desire discrepancy), dealing with sexual disappointment, how to talk to children about sex in an age "appropriate" way, and how to keep things spicy in a long-term partnership. Also- why is sex like ice cream? Discounts and ads: Building Ease online course with Jennifer Litner: Listeners can save 20% off at buildingease.embracesexualwellness.com using the promo code SLUTSANDSCHOLARS at checkout, valid thru 2/28/2021 Sakara plant-based meal delivery: Sakara is offering listeners 20% off their first order at sakara.com/sands Dipsea sexy story audios: Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial dipseastories.com/sands Like a Kitten Couple's Box: 20 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media. Loving Disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a sex positive, shame-free, educational podcast where we try to help you talk smart and fuck smarter. While we love to give advice and resources, please note that any podcast or email from us is not intended to be therapy or a replacement for therapy. If you need emergency mental health help, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency center. Thanks for tuning in and we hope you enjoy!

This episode features millennial sexpert and sex eductaor Javay da BAE. Javay and Nicoletta cover a lot from racism in sex work to how to keep your long term relationship sexually connected. But also- the crygasm! Sponsors/ discounts: Pour Moi: https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Dipsea: Dipseastories.com/sands Sakara: www.sakara.com/SANDS Javay: https://www.javaydabae.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

With the election on top of all the other 2020 madness, burnout this year feels more real than ever. Using their own experiences as therapists, Moushumi Ghose joins Nicoletta for a very real conversation about feeling burnt out. Some topics: what to look for during burnout, what to do about burnout, and how to avoid it in the first place. Moushumi: https://www.losangelessextherapy.com/ Other Resources: - Book by the Nagoski sisters https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/592377/burnout-by-emily-nagoski-phd-and-amelia-nagoski-dma/ - Talk with Brene Brown https://brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-with-emily-and-amelia-nagoski-on-burnout-and-how-to-complete-the-stress-cycle/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This special episode features some past guests' submissions featuring real sexual health horror stories. Join Nicoletta as she welcomes back Dirty Lola, Mistress Justine Cross, Isabella Frappier, and Dr. Laurie Mintz. From debunking condom myths, to butt plugs gone wrong, health care horror, and systemic -isms, this episode is not for the faint of heart and is sure to leave you reeling. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea. For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Featured Guests: Dirty Lola: https://dirtylola.wordpress.com/ Mistress Justine Cross: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/ Isabella Frappier: http://www.isabellafrappier.com/ Dr. Laurie Mintz: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Burlesque icon Michelle L'Amour joins Nicoletta for a conversation about genital confidence. They also delve into beauty standards, Alopecia, and vulnerability- as well as Butthoven. Sponsors: Right now, Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. $25 off of the Intensity by Pour Moi https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Michelle L'Amour: https://michellelamour.com/ Resources mentioned: Book: Tipping the Velvet https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004JHY6EG/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 Andy Warhol video (which is still on YT, while Michelle's female version was blocked): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAjmD1SIsrk Butthoven: https://vimeo.com/31398940 FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features sexologist and soon-to-be therapist Emily L. Depasse. Emily and Nicoletta talk about all things Herpes from stigma, to sex education, policy, and personal stories. Have you ever wondered how to tell a new or ongoing partner that you have Herpes? Tune in to find out how to navigate this very common virus. Sponsors/ discounts: Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code SandS at checkout. You can use this code along with any other discount code on their website https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Trivia Star: Trivia star-is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. Emily: https://www.emilydepasse.com/ Resources mentioned in the episode: - Ella Dawson's TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcIl-hclrLI - Something Positive for Positive People: Access to therapy/nonprofit/podcast https://www.spfpp.org - American Sexual Health Organization: "Herpes (oral & genital) cannot be spread through inanimate objects such as spoons, glasses, razors, towels, bed sheets, etc. Herpes can only be passed through direct skin-to-skin contact with the infected area such as kissing, oral sex, genital-to-genital rubbing, vaginal, and anal sex." https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/five-things-you-should-know-about-herpes/ - Planned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/can-herpes-be-spread-through-sharing-food-and-drinks Community: FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week Nicoletta is joined by classmate and colleague Nicole Belmonte- who is also a therapist and sexologist. They talk about what it is like dating when you are a sex therapist, how to deal with being single, and what exactly a sex therapist can help you with. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea and Trivia Star! Dipsea: Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Trivia Star: Trivia star-is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. Nicole Belmonte: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicole-e-belmonte-schaumburg-il/384837 https://real-talk-therapy.com/ Article from the episode: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202005/my-therapist-the-porn-star FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week's episode features stripper, FemDom, sex educator, columnist, and slut Andre Shakti. Nicoletta and Andre go deep into wrestling as a fetish, navigating non-monogamy, racism in sex work, and even loving problematic shows like Law and Order SVU (sigh, Benson and Stabler). This episode is sponsored by Pour Moi- use this link AND take advantage of their sale (make sure to use both) to get up to $65 off https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Andre: https://twitter.com/andreshakti Andre's non-monogamy blog: https://www.iampoly.net/ Sanctuary virtual strip club: https://sanctuarytheclub.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Urologist Dr. Gabal joins Nicoletta for a conversation about all things sexual medicine. From erectile and ejaculation struggles, to vaginal pain and dryness, and even some debates on vaginal tightness and tone, genital reconstructive surgery (for medical and aesthetic purposes), and cell regeneration. This episode is sponsored by Pour Moi's Intensity. Get $25 of your order at https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Resources: - Dr. Gabal: https://www.drgabal.com/ - Gainswave: https://gainswave.com/ - Femiwave: https://femiwave.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Welcome back to a new season of Sluts and Scholars! This first episode welcomes back Zoë Ligon, the Dildo Duchess of Spectrum Boutique. We talk about her new sex ed book Carnal Knowledge (coming out next week!), using sex toys (aka tools) with partners, sex education, and WAPs. Sponsor Discount: Dipseastories.com/sands Zoë's book: https://spectrumboutique.com/collections/sex-sexuality-books Article about vibrators: https://journal.spectrumboutique.com/article/what-is-your-vibrator-really-doing-to-your-body/ Crashpad: https://crashpadseries.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

In this season's finale, Nicoletta welcomes UK's Florence and Reed of the YouTube hit channel Come Curious. They talk about penis size (does size matter?!), oral sex tips, body image, and foreskin. Thanks for another great season slutty scholars! Come Curious: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIRoo9Lsz1DOXRIvEo-UARQ Erika Lust collab: https://xconfessions.com/collaborators/directors/florence-barkway-reed-amber FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Join sexpert, therapist, educator, and academic Dr. Juliana to learn about how we create our own sexual stories and narratives and how to use these to reclaim and empower ourselves. Also included: struggling to have orgasms, masturbation retreats, and Betty Dodson. - Sponsor/ discount!! For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code sands50 - Dr. Juliana www.dr-juliana.com Insta: drjulianahauser - Bodysex https://dodsonandross.com/bodysex FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Erotic massages are not just for penises! Sofiya and Courtney of the comedy sex travel podcast Private Parts Unknown tell the tale of their multi-orgasmic massages in Tokyo. Also included: sex tourism- exploitation or consesnual and fabulous? Tune in for a hilarious chat about why it's OK to pay for sex...AKA health. https://privatepartsunknown.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Dr. Sherine Aubert talks all about pelvic health and how the pelvis influences many aspects of life on a deeply rooted level- mentally, physically and emotionally. Tune in for a chat about pelvic floor therapy for all bodies. Old episode with Kayna Cassard on Pelvic Pain: https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/101-is-a-tight-vagina-a-thing-pelvic-pain-with-kayna-cassard Dr. Sherine: https://www.pelvichealing.com/team/sherine Restored Physique: https://www.restoredphysique.com/meet-the-team FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

What is embodiment? How does being in our body lead to better sex? How does trauma impact pleasure? All of this and more on this week's episode with therapist, sexologist, educator, and podcaster Dr. Cat Meyer. Dr. Cat http://catmeyer.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week's episode features sex eductaor, blogger, and blexApp rep Tatyannah King. Tatyannah talks about what it means to be demisexual, the importantce of Black community resources, racial stereotypes and sexuality, as well as the new blexApp, which is dedicated to strengthening melanated sex, intimacy and relationships. Resources mentioned: Tatyannah https://www.instagram.com/taty_k_king/ blexApp https://blexapp.com/ OMGYes https://www.omgyes.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Comedian Nicky Paris joins Nicoletta to talk about all things gay and comedy such his dreams of being an Amish jam seller, no reason boners (NRBs), blue balls, intimacy struggles, and heterosexism. FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week Nicoletta welcomes one of her favorite authors and sex scholars Emily Nagoski, PhD. Emily is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life. They talk about how to create sex worth having. Resources: Emily: https://www.emilynagoski.com Peggy Kleinplatz: https://med.uottawa.ca/epidemiology/people/kleinplatz-peggy-j FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode is a crucial resource. A resource about beauty standards and creativity, about gender non-conformity, and about survival and gender-based violence. This episode is about human rights. Want to help? Donate to ALOK's book drive for LGBTQ youth by June 9th: https://www.alokvmenon.com/store/ally If you would like to make a major gift or donation for this campaign contact [email protected] FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: [email protected] Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.