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78. A Conversation About Firsts
In this week's episode, Michelle and Somer get an early start on celebrating Mother's Day as they talk through navigating the firsts we encounter as moms, such as: • the semi hot-take that over-preparation steals more joy from the moment than it actually prepares you • how the unknown gives us the opportunity for deeper dependence on the Lord • the connection between firsts and God's faithfulness • Bonus: Introducing a new segment - I Disagree With... - If you're not a mom and debating listening or not, here's our heart that we shared in our book: "If you're a woman and a believer, changes are that whether you have biological children or not, you will someday take on (if you haven't already) a maternal role in someone else's life. Maybe a teenager from your church you're discipling, a niece or nephew, or a young woman at work who has a strained relationship with her own family. So when we talk about motherhood here, it is not to exclude women without children, but to acknowledge, first of all, one of the grearest areas of contention in a working woman's life -- being a mom who works -- and second, to speak to our womanhood in a way much of culture is afraid to, as if it is offensive or degrading that a woman is seen as a nurturing or mothering individual. We will not participate in that narrative here because much of what the world sees as a weakness, we see as a God-given strength, as do the people in your life who depend on you for love and nurturing. But the bottom line is: when you read our stories of parenting, I pray that whether you are a mother in the traditional sense or in the spiritual sense, these stories will encourage and connect with you." - Want to keep reading? Get your copy of the SWHW book here. (https://amzn.to/3noeoad)
77. A Conversation About The Different Ways We Worship
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle talk about the different ways we worship, including: how to prevent going simply through the motions of worship the practice of making God bigger than brokenness the benefits of both corporate and personal worship Keep It/Toss It Links: Electric Water Kettle (Michelle's) Electric Water Kettle (Somer's) In the Lord, I Take Refuge by Dane Ortland
76. A Conversation About Distraction
This week, Michelle + Somer tackle distraction: why distraction can be dangerous (both practically + spiritually) how to identify what is distracting you when good things become distractions what Matthew 6:33, Hebrews 12:1-2, Colossians 3:2 and Revelation 2:4-5 remind us about living distracted Join the SWHW Network today!
75. A Conversation About Asking For Help
In this week's conversation, Somer and Michelle discuss: why it's hard to ask for help (and why that's no excuse) practical tips on asking for help from your husband + kids when to ask for help (hint: before you need it) the only time it's NOT okay to ask for help Join the SWHW Network Today!
Ep 7474. A Conversation About Understanding The Bible
In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer discuss understanding the Bible, how the Holy Spirit is the best Bible teacher the dynamics of studying God's Word alongside other believers incorporating resources in studying God's Word without relying on them completely One additional note: Michelle shares the story of how she ended up having "the talk" with her oldest son as he was reading through Genesis. In case you listen with small kids around, wanted to give you a heads up! Recommended Resources: ESV Study Bible Christian Beliefs: 20 Basics Every Christian Should KnowVisual Theology: Seeing and Understanding the Truth about GodA Visual Theology Guide to the Bible: Seeing and Knowing God's WordConversational Commentary on ActsConversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes Keep It/Toss It Links: EcoKind dog chews that actually last $12 Target Lamp
Ep 7373. A Conversation About The Different Categories Of Capacities
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have a candid conversation about capacity, including: how our capacities in different categories are unique (and that's a good thing!) asking the Lord to increase your capacity breaking down the differences between mental capacity, physical capacity + emotional capacity Keep It/Toss It Links: Michelle's New Favorite Pants (Use code FRIEND-WP3KKL7 to save $15 on your order!)Elta MD Tinted Moisturizer with Sunscreen
72. A Conversation about A Few Women in the Bible
This week (as Women's History month wraps up), Michelle & Somer have a conversation about: seeing others through the lens of compassion instead of judgment how one mother's faith + courage impacted an entire nation inviting someone into your friend circle before you attempt to correct their theology doing good quietly Read these women's stories: woman at the well - John 4 Moses' mom + sister - Exodus 2 Priscilla - Acts 18 generous widow - Luke 21:1-4/Mark 12:41-44 Keep It/Toss It Links: Meater Bluetooth Thermometer H+M men's t-shirt Loofah alternative option #1 Loofah alternative option #2 Join the SWHW network Donate to SWHW
71. A Conversation about Today
This week, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about: warning signs you're living stuck in the past the difference between remembering what God has done vs. what you have done when worry gets dressed up like productivity and control gets masked as planning 😳 the freedom that comes when you own today + are confident God owns tomorrow hope for the future = hope for heaven P.S. This week's episode was recorded while Michelle was experiencing some internet issues (that's what you get for living on a mountain) so please excuse the unusually abrupt ending. Sometimes technology isn't in our corner, but we hope you still love the conversation!
70. A Conversation About Closed Doors
In this week's conversation, Michelle and Somer discuss: when God closes doors we don't understand God's goodness in closed doors moving past overwhelm when too many doors are open when God closes the door for you so you can hold the door for someone else Want to dig deep into Bible study and be equipped to be doers of the Word? As we shared in this episode, we are studying Philippians right now, and it's not too late for you to join us! Join here: http://sheworkshisway.com/network.
69. A Conversation about our Unpopular Opinions
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about their unpopular opinions (on a range of silly to serious) including: food pairings and seltzer water earning the right to speak truth into someone the negative effect of trying to increase your influence/audience high-pressure female friendships the tension between willingness to do anything while unable to do everything books vs. movies ....and a few more! Join the SWHW Network
68. A Conversation about Failure
In this episode, Michelle and Somer have a conversation about: their husbands testimonies that are shockingly similar) the difference between how the world defines failure and how God defines failure what gets revealed when we're devastated by worldly failures the pitfall of people pleasing Scripture mentioned: Luke 10:5 John 14:1-21 Links mentioned: Early bird rate ends February 28 - get your Narrow 2023 ticket! Partner with us as a SWHW donor Join the SWHW Network A Year of Slowing Down by Alan Fadling
67. A Conversation about Resentment
In this episode, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about: - how resentment is the cheapest form of anger (yikes but true) - the difference between righteous anger and resentment - what God's Word says about resentment - the reality of bitterness - truth we can cling to in the midst of injustice Scripture mentioned: - Matthew 5:38-48 - Ruth 1 Links mentioned: Join the SWHW Network Join us for Annapolis Narrow on April 21-22 Donate to the SWHW ministry (to make conversations like this one possible!)
66. A Conversation about Husband and Wife Stuff
In this episode, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about: - how growing in the Lord is the best way to grow in your marriage - how the issue of expectations evolve the longer you're married - prioritizing making adulthood/marriage look appealing to our kids - the importance of having fun with your spouse - the most importance marriage reminder they've received Scripture mentioned: - Ecclesiastes 9:9 - Genesis 2:18 Links mentioned: Adopt a Square to donate to She Works His Way. Get your early bird ticket to Narrow. Your Marriage Needs Work - an article Michelle wrote for The Gospel Coalition The blanket Michelle bought Somer with foot pockets
65: A Conversation About Leadership
In this episode, Michelle and Somer have a conversation about: - two titles that help us lead well (and two that do not) - what leadership is not - how being led > leading others - how to actually know if you're a leader - how to grow as a leader Scripture mentioned: - Matthew 23:1-12 Links mentioned: Join the SWHW Network. Narrow 2023 She Works His Way: A Practical Guide for Doing What Matters Most in a Get Things Done World Conversational Commentary on Acts: Gospel Mission Then and Now Conversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes: Wisdom to Live for Heaven While on Earth
64. A Conversation About Finding the Right Church
In this episode, we're talking about finding the right church for you to call home. We believe the local church is God's Plan A for believers living in community. So when you're looking for a church home, what matters most? Listen as Somer and Michelle discuss what to look for and what you can do while you look. Have you ever been reading the Bible and thought, "I wish I could have a conversation right now about what I'm thinking as I read, or what God is teaching me", then let us introduce you to the Conversational Commentary. Check out the collection here! Looking to have more conversations like these with a community of women who instantly get you? Join the SWHW Network here!
63. A Conversation About Using Your Gifts In the Church
In this episode, Michelle and Somer discuss how spiritual gifts are different than skills. They also also dig into how God calls us to use the gifts He has given us. God has given each of us a gift. -- let's talk about it so we can make sure we're using what He offers us. Grab your SWHW Bible Journal here! Join the SWHW Network for just $3 in January!
62. A Conversation About Traditions in the Church
In this episode we're chatting about tradition in the church. Listen in as Michelle and Somer discuss both the good… and a bit of the not so good on the matter. The goal of this episode? That we begin to consider what honors God most when we're doing what we've always done. Looking for a church? Here are some of our favirote places to look: 9 Marks Church Search The Gospel Coalition Church Search Looking for the deep community Michelle spoke about? Join the Network here to become a part of a community of women coming alongside each other to intentionally grow toward the "more that matters" through trainings, Bible studies, brainstorming, connections with professionals in your field and other women in your same season. We can't wait to see you there!
61. A Conversation About the Middle
In this episode, Michelle and Somer discuss the complicated issue of nuance as a devoted follower of Christ. In a culture that prefers to constantly swing to the extremes, how does a believer avoid them? And more importantly, is the best place to honor God in the middle? Get ready folks, we're getting into all that messiness. ALSO! New year new segment! Listen in as Michelle and Somer share what they love and what they definitely don't love in their first ever, Keep It/Toss It! Happy New Year! Don't forget to grab your SWHW Bible Journal HERE! Interested in finding out more about the Network? Click HERE!
60. A Conversation About Letting Go of The Dream
We are so excited to share this very special episode with you. It was one that has only been released inside of our SWHW Network until now! Michelle gets really REAL and opens the door for you to be able to do the same. She and Somer can't wait to be back with you next week! In the meantime, we pray this one encourages you as much as it did us. After you listen you may just want to join the Network so you never miss a session like this again. We wouldn't blame you. If that's the case, you can join here now! Have questions? Our inboxes are always open! [email protected] or [email protected]
59. A Conversation About Unplugging
Ever tried to regulate your breathing walking up a hill so no one around would know that internally you're having a cardiac episode trying to get to the top of the hill? End of the year = top of the hill A few years ago, we noticed in this dead sprint to show up everywhere, engage everyone and do everything meant we couldn't take a deep breath. So, we gave ourselves permission to stop. Permission to breathe. And this episode is about how we do that, why we do that, and what we've learned in the quiet of taking the last two weeks of the year of.
58. A Conversation About Our Favorite Things
In this episode Michelle and Somer share their favorite things of 2022. They cover everything from skin care, to running shoes, to the best financial resources. If you haven't finished your Christmas shopping, we've got you covered. And if someone is asking for your list, feel free to just forward ours. For the entire list of direct links + a few discount codes for you to use when you shop, head here! SWHW Network members, no need to click above, you'll get the full list emailed directly to you so keep an eye on your inbox! Get of copy of our newly released Acts Conversational Commentary!
57. A Conversation About Humility (Part 2)
In this special episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her to continue last week's conversation on humility. But this week they're talking specifically about raising humble kids. And while we have you... if you listen and love the SWHW podcast will you take a quick sec to rate us and maybe even write a review? We'd be so grateful. Enjoy the show! Less than 4 weeks until the New Year! Let us help you go into 2023 feeling on top of things. Grab your 3 Step Planner HERE!
56. A Conversation About Humility
In todays episode, we talk about humility — more specifically, why humility can be a hard concept to grasp for humans. But don't worry, there's plenty of encouragement too. Turns out, humility happens when we are *actual* image bearers of our Creator… not when we necessarily strive for it. Does that make the topic feel a little less daunting? It did to us too. Listen in! Find us on social! Interested in finding out more about the Network? Click here! We just launched our 2023 3 Step Planner! We're a month away from 2023, let us help you get ready for your New Year!
55. A Conversation about Our Holiday Do's and Don'ts (Part 2)
It's here! Part 2 of Somer and Michelle's Holiday DO's and DONT'S! We hope this episode encourages you as you head into this Holiday season! Grab your comfy blanket and a hot tea/coffee and join us for today's conversation. Looking for a Holiday gift? Grab a copy or two of the SWHW Book here! Interested in having more conversations just like the ones we have on the podcast? Join the SWHW Network today.
54. A Conversation about Our Holiday Do's and Don'ts
This is a fun one! Join us for part 1 of Somer and Michelle's Holiday DO's and DONT'S! They laugh a lot, get really honest, and most importantly try to take the unnecessary pressure that the holidays can bring off of your shoulders. Grab a hot chocolate or a peppermint mocha and hangout for a bit. Interested in having more conversations like the ones we have on the podcast? Join the SWHW Network today. Looking for a weekly Bible Study or Discipleship Training? The SWHW Discipleship team meets virtually once a week to study God's Word together. Find out more here.
53. A Conversation About What We Care About
Join us for today's episode where we engage in a conversation about what it means to "Spiral Up". This week's episode is from Somer's session at Annapolis Narrow in April of 2022. Want to connect with us in person? Learn more about Narrow here! Interested in becoming a part of our Network? Check out all the perks here!
52. Workshop Q&A Invite!
Join us this Wednesday, November 2nd, at 1pm for our Q&A workshop! Not a Network member but interested in the perks that come with it? Find out more here!
51. A Conversation about the Good Kind of Filters
This week's episode is a very special episode that was recorded at the Narrow conference in Annapolis, Maryland last April. Michelle and Somer breakdown what we call the She Works His Way filter both biblically and practically! And we promise THIS filter is going to do a lot more than just cover up your wrinkles or whiten your teeth. (Although, to be clear, we're not anti white-teeth filters.) Listen in and you'll see! What's Narrow? Interested in finding out more about our Network? Click here!
50. A Conversation for Pastor's Wives
Join us as Somer and Michelle talk about the role of pastor's wives. Growing up as pastor's daughters and eventually marrying pastors, Somer and Michelle have learned a lot about this role and are here to encourage the women in it and also encourage you to pray for your pastor's wives! Want to reach out? Email Somer: [email protected] Email Michelle: [email protected] Join us in Asheville for Narrow 2022! Learn more here!
49. A Conversation About What Gospel Collaboration Looks Like
Join Somer and Michelle as they talk about the importance of Gospel collaboration and why we need it! Want to become part of our Network? Interested in joining us for Narrow this month?
48. A Conversation About Personality
In this special Q&A conversation, Michelle and Somer answer: How much should I factor in my personality vs when does catering to my personality become a problem? In a world that sends so many mixed signals regarding how much we should either study + embrace or ignore + disregard who we are, this conversation is both nuanced and eye opening. Links mentioned: Join the network or become a $7 supporter so you can join us for the hour long live Q&A this month!
47. A Conversation About Jealousy
In today's episode Michelle and Somer have a conversation about jealousy, which ended up being a great follow up to last weeks conversation about wanting more. (You'll want to go listen to it if you haven't yet!) Jealousy is an ugly word and an even uglier feeling to feel. Listen in as they get really honest, and challenge you to do the same.
46. A Conversation About Wanting More... In A Good Way
The more that you're craving... what if we told you God put it there to draw you back to Him? Listen to Michelle and Somer's conversation about the difference the gospel makes in how we define ambition and be reminded that God is always the more we crave. Resources Mentioned: Conversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes by Michelle Myers How to Ruin Your Life by Eric Geiger
45. A Conversation about Doing Laundry
Okay, so this conversation is really about a lot more -- but is there a better analogy for the monotonous and mundane parts of our lives than laundry?! We didn't think so either. Listen in as Somer and Michelle share some reminders we need so we won't subscribe to the "this too shall pass" mindset in certain tasks or seasons.
44. Workshop Q+A Invite + Explaining the New Changes!
Listen in for a preview of Wednesday's LIVE Q+A [September 6th at 1pm EST] with Somer + Michelle. We SO look forward to our monthly opportunity to talk with you face-to-face in the Zoom room - hope to see you there! No question or topic is off limits. For an invite to the Q+A, join here. You can also submit your questions to [email protected].
43. A Conversation About Burnout
Burnout. Whether you've been there before or you're there now, this one is for you. Somer and Michelle get to the root of burnout, chat about some warning signs that lead to burnout, get practical in how to heal after burnout -- and our personal favorite -- bust the myth that burnout is noble. You're invited to this week's AfterParty! Join Somer, Michelle and other SWHW women on Zoom to keep the conversation going in small group discussions. Join here! Resource Mentioned: Zeal Without Burnout by Christopher Ash
42. A Conversation About Discipleship, Part 2
As promised last week, this episode wraps up our two-part conversation on discipleship. (Go back and listen to Part 1 if you missed it!) In this convo, Somer and Michelle dive more into the how of discipleship, sticking with a Biblical foundation but also giving you as much freedom in your obedience as possible. Here are a few of the resources we mentioned: Follow @phyliciamasonheimer on Instagram - we love ya, Phy! Following Jesus in Threes by Soo-Inn Tan BIG changes coming to the podcast beginning next week with new ways for you to join in the conversation - can't wait to tell you more! If you aren't already getting our emails and want to know about the changes first, add yourself to our mailing list here.
41. A Conversation About Discipleship, Part 1
Last week, we took a took a poll on Instagram, asking if you were in a discipleship group. 59% of you responded, "No -- but I need one!" So in this two-part mini-series, Somer + Michelle are talking all things discipleship. In this episode, we focus on why discipleship matters and what you actually need to get started. Next week, we'll cover the how of discipleship -- without creating an unnecessary checklist. If you're looking for a resource for discipleship, that's exactly why we're creating the Conversational Commentary series. Get our first volume on the book of Ecclesiastes here.
40. Encouragement I Didn't Expect in Ecclesiastes
Ecclesiastes typically gets a bad rap for being pessimistic, gloomy and cynical -- but it really isn't! In these 12 chapters, Solomon basically takes the filter off the world, exposing it and all it offers compared to God and what He freely gives us. It's refreshingly honest -- like the three pieces of encouragement (straight from Ecclesiastes!) Michelle + Somer chat through in this episode. Want to study Ecclesiastes with us? Grab your copy of Conversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes: Wisdom to Live for Heaven While on Earth on Amazon - available now!
39. A Life Designed for Ministry
It's workshop week at SWHW!! Want to hear what we'll be talking about in our live workshop? (And also some really exciting news about what's coming to the SWHW Podcast + Network next month?!) Listen in! Join the Network here! Join our email list here!
38. Obedience When It Doesn't Make Sense, Part 2
In part 2 of Obedience When It Doesn't Make Sense, Somer talks to Aimee Pasquariello, one of her dear friends with a pretty inspiring story about finding God and diving head first in to the calling He has for us. Even when it doesn't make sense.
37. Obedience When It Doesn't Make Sense, Part 1
In this episode, Michelle shares how she went from pharmaceutical rep to seminary to network marketing to She Works His Way. Unconventional? Yes. Ordained by God? Also yes. Links mentioned in this episode: The Look that Kills: An Anorexic's Addiction to Control by Michelle Myers Join the SWHW Network
36. Chapter 1 Audio Book Preview!
In October 2021, we had the opportunity to put the mission of She Works His Way in book form -- and now, it's available as an audio book! This episode gives you a sneak peek by letting you listen to all of Chapter 1. Buy She Works His Way on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/She-Works-His-Way-Audiobook/B09PSNCYTZ - (or purchase anywhere you usually listen to books!) For a hard copy, head to sheworkshisway.com/book.
35. Learning to Be Content
In Philippians 4:11, Paul writes, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances." Contentment is not natural; it is learned. So how do we learn to be content? What lies hold us back from lasting contentment? Is it possible to silence circumstantial contentment once and for all? That's what Michelle will be covering in the network's July workshop, so listen in as she shares a little bit about what God has been stirring in her heart. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools -- like this workshop -- to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate.
34. Did God Actually Say...? with Veronica Hoddenbagh
Genesis 1-2 describe the beautiful world God created. Everything didn't just seem perfect; it was perfect. But in Genesis 3, everything changed when the serpent deceived Adam and Eve, and sin entered the world. Even though this may be a familiar story to you, we promise as she walks through this text, Veronica will speak truth over your heart that will usher in the kind of freedom only God can bring. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate. You can connect with Veronica further on Instagram at @veronicahoddenbagh or at https://veronicahoddenbagh.com. Want to join us for our next Narrow conference? Head here to get your ticket for Narrow Asheville on October 21-22, 2022.
33. Marriage: A Gift and Work with James + Michelle
Michelle's study in Ecclesiastes led to a great conversation with her husband, James, so we wanted to invite you + your spouse in! Open your Bible to Ecclesiastes 9 and listen for some encouragement and a little marriage Q+A time too. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate.
32. Starving the Fairytale with Emily Copeland
Emily Copeland, one of the original four friends that unknowingly started the SWHW ministry during weekly meetings at 5am on Google Hangout, gets real about the dead-end journey of self-discovery that our world makes it all too easy to get caught up in. In this episode, Michelle and Emily talk all about the message for women in her new book, Starving the Fairytale: A New Model for Self-Discovery. After you listen, don't forget to head to the network group and share your top takeaway from the episode to enter to win a copy for yourself! Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate. Get your copy of Starving the Fairytale here. You can also connect with her further on Instagram at @em.copeland.
BONUS EPISODE: Productivity Tips for a peaceful summer!
In this very special BONUS episode, Somer talks about one of her favorite things... how to have a full calendar and not get stressed by it. She also gets extremely transparent about why there's no reason she should be considered a productivity expert, but also why that makes her the gal for this job. You'll hear super practical tips in this episode that we think will make this summer your best yet. Whether you're a hot mess with your to-do list or the schedule stickler in your household, we think you'll be happy you listened.
31. Rest, Reset, Run with Caren Fehr
Get excited! If you couldn't make it to Annapolis Narrow back in April, we're bringing a piece of Narrow to you -- right here on the podcast. This episode contains the live audio from a session with Caren Fehr - doctor's wife, mom of a precious little boy, former licensed social worker and current wellness coach. With beautiful transparency, Caren shared about her unexpected, but super sweet season God has had in recently. We know her story of Rest, Reset, Run will encourage you! Want a prayer partner to pray with like Caren's session ended? We've got one waiting for you inside the SWHW network. Join here to get access to practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support of joining the network helps us get tools like this podcast into the hands of as many women as possible. You're invited! Get your ticket to the next Narrow conference in Asheville, NC on October 21-22, 2022. You can connect with Caren further on Instagram at @carenscorner.
30. Time for an Information Fast?
On this episode Somer's sharing the title of our Network June workshop and a little bit about why this topic needs our attention! Here's what we'll tell you, if you feel like you have all the answers but none of the peace, you need to listen in. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible - thank you!