Shailey & Katie's Lemonade Stand: Design Moms Finding the Happy Balance as Creative Entrepreneurs

If kids come with stuff… what do we actually do with all of it? In this episode, Shailey and Katie break down how to create kids’ spaces that actually work—for real life, not Pinterest. We’re talking functional layouts, calming environments, and systems that help kids take ownership of their space (without you becoming the full-time cleanup crew). We get into the balance every parent is navigating: creating a home that feels good and letting kids be kids. That means normalizing mess, designing for independence, and letting go of perfection in favor of something way more sustainable. You’ll walk away with practical ways to simplify clutter, rethink how kids’ rooms are set up, and build systems that grow with your child—while also making peace with the fact that childhood is a little loud, a little chaotic… and that’s not a problem to solve. TAKEAWAYS • A kids’ room should function first—and look cute second • Design for who your kid is now (and who they’re becoming) • Skip overly themed rooms—think flexible, livable spaces • Calm environments support better sleep and regulation • Create simple “zones” (sleep, play, get ready) • Choose furniture that can grow and shift over time • Visibility + accessibility = kids actually using the system • “Clean your room” is a learned skill—teach it specifically • Kids are more invested when they help design their space • Independence grows when kids manage their own stuff • Mess isn’t a failure—it’s part of childhood • Expect clutter, then build systems that can handle it • Fewer items = easier maintenance (for everyone) • Regular toy edits > one big overwhelming purge • Your home can be functional and still feel fun • This phase is temporary—design for sustainability, not perfection SOUND BITES • “Kids come with stuff. That’s not the problem—the system is.” • “We’re not designing for Pinterest. We’re designing for Tuesday afternoon.” • “Clean isn’t intuitive. It’s taught.” • “Mess is expected—not a personal failure.” • “If they can’t see it, they won’t use it.” • “The goal isn’t less mess. It’s manageable mess.” • “Let them have ownership—even if it’s not your aesthetic.” • “Childhood is loud. Your house can handle it.” • “Fewer things = fewer decisions = less overwhelm.” • “You’re not behind. You just need a better system.” CHAPTERS 00:00 Breakfast banter + real life check-in 03:40 Why kids’ rooms feel so overwhelming 04:40 Function first: designing spaces that work 12:10 Why we’re rethinking “cute” kids’ rooms 20:40 Creating calm (without making it boring) 23:20 Simple zones that make a big difference 25:30 Furniture that grows with your kid 28:00 Storage that kids will actually use 29:00 Teaching kids what “clean” means 32:20 Managing new stuff coming into the house 35:00 Building independence (without power struggles) 40:00 Expected mess vs problem mess 44:45 Creative, realistic solutions for real homes 52:50 How to actually purge toys (without drama) 57:00 Designing spaces kids want to use 01:08:30 Parenting reflections + what actually matters shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

In this episode, Shailey climbs up on her living room soapbox — and honestly, it’s a hill she’s willing to die on. The living room is the most used, most judged, and most confusing room in the house… and somehow we’ve all been convinced it’s supposed to look like a catalog instead of a place where people actually live. We talk about why so many living rooms feel “off,” the biggest mistakes people make (your rug is probably too small), and why furniture scale, lighting, and layout matter way more than buying new stuff. Shailey shares how she transformed an awkward, underused room in her own house into the family’s favorite gathering space — cats, kids, chaos and all. From anchor pieces and conversation-friendly layouts to the power of lamps (overhead lighting slander included), this episode is full of practical tweaks that can make a room feel better immediately — often without spending a dollar. We also end with a living room audit challenge and a rapid-fire round of product opinions, including Shailey’s unfiltered thoughts on Lovesac couches and the mysterious purpose of decorative trays. If your living room feels slightly awkward… slightly unfinished… or like no one actually wants to sit in it, this episode will help you see it with fresh eyes. Takeaways A living room should reflect your life, not a catalog. Don't let the pressure of perfection steal your energy. Identify what works in your living room and enhance it. Scale of furniture is crucial for a comfortable living room. An anchor piece can define and enhance your space. Lighting should be warm and ambient, not harsh and clinical. Rearranging furniture can dramatically improve a room's feel. Every seating area should have a place for drinks to enhance comfort Sound bites "A living room should work for you." "Don't let that steal your ability to get started." "Designing for real life, we have cats, we have kids." "Is the scale of this furniture right?" "One anchor piece can help define the space." "Your rug is too small if no furniture is touching it." Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the Lemonade Stand 02:29 The Importance of the Living Room 05:42 Creating a Functional Space 09:23 Identifying Pain Points 15:53 Designing for Real Life 20:15 Creating Zones for Comfort 23:45 Finding the Right Scale for Your Furniture 25:19 Creating an Anchor Piece in Your Living Room 27:54 Lighting: The Key to Ambiance 30:09 Common Living Room Mistakes 32:15 Rearranging for Functionality 34:06 Listener Challenge: Living Room Audit 39:07 Product Reviews: What to Keep and What to Toss shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Intentional living, home organization, and why winter has us suddenly side-eyeing every drawer in the house. We dig into the emotional side of decluttering, not just the “get rid of stuff” part, but the identity, guilt, and nostalgia wrapped up in it. Shailey shares what actually stuck with her from the KonMari method, especially the idea that letting something go can be an act of gratitude, not failure. Katie brings the real-life perspective of how homes refill themselves mysteriously and why alignment matters more than aesthetic perfection. Practical, very doable strategies for creating a home that feels calming and functional without turning your life into one big organizing project. Shailey talks travel routines (including why expired hotel skincare needs to go) and shares her love for a visual timer as a game-changer for time awareness and productivity. The conversation wraps with a lighthearted look at sentimental clutter and the surprisingly deep emotions tied to “random” household items. If you’ve ever wanted your home to feel better without needing to become a minimalist or buy matching bins, this one’s for you. --- **Key Takeaways** * Decluttering is emotional, not just physical, and that’s normal* You can thank items for what they taught you instead of keeping them out of guilt* Home organization works best when it aligns with your actual lifestyle* Small, gentle wins beat all-or-nothing clean-out marathons* Visual timers can create structure without pressure* Your home is an ongoing relationship, not a one-time project --- **Notable Quotes** “I think putting Christmas away jump starts the cleaning in my mind.”“You can say thank you for teaching me what doesn’t suit me.”“It’s a dance with the home; it helps you come to peace instead of feeling overwhelmed.”“You set your own schedule one room at a time.”“I want to feel like my most luxurious and best on vacation.”“Visual timer, A-plus, order!”“The next right step is a gentle journey.” shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

In this episode, Katie gets honest about her dopamine detox era — what kicked it off, what surprised her, and what actually changed on the other side. Addiction, sober-curious, codependency and learning to save her own life. We talk about how modern life quietly trains our brains to chase constant stimulation, why numbing behaviors can increase anxiety instead of reducing it, and what happens when you remove the crutches long enough to hear yourself think again. From sobriety and self-trust to creativity, confidence, and joy that doesn’t require a reward button — this conversation is equal parts reflective, practical, and encouraging.If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re actually tired or just overstimulated… this one will land.What we cover:What a dopamine detox really is (and what it isn’t)How numbing behaviors can increase anxiety and disconnectionBeing "addicted" to validation from others, codependencyWhy sobriety can unlock creativity and clarityLetting go of patterns that quietly sabotage mental healthBuilding confidence without substances or external rewardsWhy a detox period can lead to healthier moderation laterThe power of self-discovery in personal growthCreating a “sober bucket list” that actually feels funFinding joy that doesn’t depend on anything outside of youResources mentioned:Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembkehttps://www.amazon.com/Dopamine-Nation-Finding-Balance-Indulgence/dp/152474672XKatie’s current offers & completely unhinged sale https://ohkatieday.com/sale shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

One-Size-Does NOT-Fit-All! Ever wonder why some people thrive with strict rules… while others immediately want to do the opposite the second a rule exists? In this episode, Katie and Shailey dig into why motivation isn’t one-size-fits-all—and why so many wellness plans fail simply because they ignore personality.Register for Katie's habit workshop: Habits That Stick at ohkatieday.com/workshopWe explore three powerful frameworks that explain how and why people take action:-The Four Tendencies-Abstainers vs. Moderators (do you need clear lines or flexible lanes?)-The Enneagram as a lens for understanding values, motivations, and internal drivers This conversation is all about permission—permission to stop forcing yourself into systems that don’t fit, to design habits that align with how your brain actually works, and to realize that needing fun, freedom, or structure isn’t a flaw… it’s data.If you’ve ever thought, “Why is this so easy for other people but so hard for me?”—this episode is for you. What You’ll LearnWhy Upholders meet expectations easily—and why Rebels instinctively push backHow Obligers can reduce resentment by understanding the why behind a taskWhy Abstainers love clear, black-and-white rules (and Moderators… don’t)How the Enneagram reveals deeper motivations—not just surface behaviorWhy customization is essential for sustainable habits and wellnessHow autonomy and choice increase follow-through (especially for Rebels)How pre-deciding rules can dramatically reduce decision fatigueWhy “fun” isn’t frivolous—it’s often a requirement for consistencyHow honoring personality differences leads to better adherence and less shame shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

In this episode, we’re talking about The Artist’s Way—what it actually is, why it keeps coming back into culture, and how to approach creativity without turning it into another self-improvement pressure cooker.We explore curiosity over productivity, rebuilding trust with yourself, and how small creative habits can quietly change everything. Plus, Katie shares an absolutely unhinged prism story that turns into one of those “wait… WHAT?” moments—and if you stick to the end, she shares big, life-hanging news that’s been quietly unfolding behind the scenes. What We Cover in This Episode• What The Artist’s Way really is (and what it’s not)• Why creativity shuts down under pressure and perfectionism• How habits can support creativity instead of suffocating it• Morning Pages: what they’re for, how to do them imperfectly, and why “doing them wrong” still works• Artist Dates as curiosity practice, not performance• The difference between discipline and devotion• Letting creativity be data, not identity• Why rest, play, and boredom are essential creative inputs• A wild prism moment that feels straight out of The Artist’s Way• Staying curious when something big is shifting in your life Key Takeaways• Creativity doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to safety• You don’t need to be “good” at creativity to benefit from it• Small, consistent practices beat intense, sporadic effort• Curiosity is a more sustainable motivator than discipline• You’re allowed to make art quietly, privately, and imperfectly If You’re Feeling Stuck… This episode is for you if:• You feel creatively blocked or burned out• You’ve tried The Artist’s Way before and bounced off• You want more creativity but less pressure• You suspect something is shifting, but you’re not ready to name it yet Gentle Next Step (Optional, Not Homework) If this episode sparked something, try one small experiment this week:• Write one page instead of three• Take a solo walk without your phone• Follow one moment of curiosity without needing a result No rules. No gold stars. Just noticing. Mentioned in This Episode• The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron• Morning Pages• Artist Dates shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Style That Feels Like Home. We dive into the empowering relationship between clothes, confidence, and the bodies we live in. We explore what it actually means to feel “at home” in your own skin—and your own style—without chasing trends, shrinking yourself, or trying to dress like someone you’re not.The conversation moves through body neutrality, signature style, and why comfort matters just as much as aesthetics. From color choices to fit to outerwear as a confidence tool, we reframe fashion as a form of self-trust rather than self-criticism. At its core, this episode is an invitation to stop settling—for uncomfortable clothes, outdated rules, or someone else’s version of what looks “right”—and start choosing what actually feels good. Key TakeawaysBody neutrality is a powerful and accessible starting point.Personal style should feel like home—not a costume.The most confident outfits come from self-trust, not trends.Comfort and confidence are directly connected.Every body has styles that support it—no fixing required.Trends are optional. Personal style is lasting.Great outerwear can change everything.Experimentation is how clarity is built.Self-acceptance always comes before self-expression. Sound Bites“Your style should feel like home.”“There is no bad body.”“We don’t SETTLE anymore.”“If it’s not comfortable, it’s not confidence.” Chapters00:00 – Style, Body Image, and Why This Conversation Matters02:47 – Comfort, Clothes, and Self-Trust05:52 – Body Types Without the Shame09:06 – What a Signature Style Really Is12:08 – Letting Yourself Experiment14:49 – Color, Patterns, and Personality18:09 – Style for Real Life and Real Movement21:01 – Why Outerwear Is a Power Move23:45 – Pulling the Whole Look Together27:25 – Seeing Beauty Without Conditions30:05 – Body Positivity vs. Body Neutrality34:29 – Finding What Actually Feels Like You35:54 – Trends: Use Them or Ignore Them40:45 – Navigating Fashion Without Losing Yourself46:31 – Laughing at Past Fashion Choices49:24 – Growth, Coaching, and Owning the Next Chapter shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

This week on Shailey & Katie’s Lemonade Stand, get ready for Black Friday we’re spilling our go-to gift ideas—the ones we actually give, actually love, and actually hope show up on our doorstep. We’re talking: Gifts that don’t cost a lot but feel thoughtful Gifts that are technically “a splurge,” but perfect for going-in-together with family or friends Gifts for creatives, moms, homebodies, entrepreneurs, and your spouse who “doesn’t need anything”. Whether you need a last-minute Amazon idea, a meaningful DIY, or a “treat yourself because you deserve it” moment, this episode has you covered. Pour your hot lemon...wassail? Peppermint mocha? and let’s make your Christmas shopping delightfully easy. In this episode, we share our favorite Christmas gift ideas for 2025, including:Affordable gift ideasCreative gift ideas for womenGifts for moms, entrepreneurs, and creativesExperience giftsSentimental gifts that feel personalBig splurge gifts you can go in on as a groupClutter-free gift ideas for minimalistsLast-minute Christmas gifts you can order fastYou’ll hear our real recommendations (not sponsored):The gifts we secretly want someone to give usThe inexpensive gift that feels luxeThe “holy grail” splurge gifts worth every pennyA few creative experience gifts that support more connection, more joy, and less stuffPerfect for:Anyone searching for Christmas gifts, simple gift ideas, holiday gifts for women, best gifts for moms, stocking stuffers, budget gifts, group gifts, and creative Christmas ideas. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

In this episode, Shailey and Katie dive into the real, practical side of gratitude — the kind that actually rewires your brain, improves your relationships, and helps you show up as a calmer, less-reactive human (science says so). They unpack how neuroplasticity works, why your brain loves repetition, and why gratitude isn’t about ignoring hard things — it’s about training your mind to notice more than just the problems.Katie jumps in with research on gratitude, self-awareness, and why “toxic positivity” isn’t the goal — acknowledging the real stuff is part of the healing.Together, they introduce a simple experiment to help listeners practice gratitude in a way that feels doable, not delusional. The Practical Gratitude Challenge Pick a trigger category — a person or area that normally sparks frustration — and choose your challenge level: Light:Do a one-time brain dump of everything good or redeemable about that challenging area/person. Medium:Write one genuine gratitude each day for two weeks. Intense:Write three specific gratitudes daily plus one “first-person goal” (a sentence you want to be true about you, written as if it already is). shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

“People pleasing is actually about controlling others.”Wait—what? Rude! But it’s true. When we’re trying to make everyone happy, what we’re really trying to do is control how people see us. This week, we’re unpacking that sneaky truth and learning how to say no (without turning into a soulless- boundary-monster). People pleasing. From apologizing for existing 😆 to saying yes when your soul is screaming no, they get real about why we do it, how it sneaks into everyday moments, and what it looks like to finally break free.They share cringe-worthy personal stories (we’ve all been there), and dig into how to set boundaries without burning bridges. You’ll hear about the power of pausing before reacting, assuming positive intent (even when it’s hard), and how curiosity can diffuse 90% of awkward human moments.And because we love a good game, the episode includes a “Boundary Blitz” — a rapid-fire roleplay where Shailey gets to practice saying no.You’ll walk away with practical ways to stop over-explaining, start communicating clearly, and actually feel confident when you say no — without the shame spiral. TakeawaysPeople pleasing usually starts from wanting to be liked — not evil, just outdated programming.Assuming good intent changes how you see people and how you talk to them.Curiosity beats judgment every time.Confidence is a muscle — and boundaries are your gym.A thoughtful pause is your secret weapon in any tough moment.Clear is kind. Vague is confusing.Saying no doesn’t make you mean — it makes you honest.Boundaries protect your peace and your relationships.You don’t owe everyone an essay-length explanation.Celebrate every time you choose growth over guilt. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Travel Hacks! The art of traveling — with kids, with friends, or with whoever’s part of your current adventure crew. ✈️We’re sharing our favorite tips to make trips enjoyable and (mostly) stress-free — from setting expectations before we even leave the driveway to giving everyone small “travel jobs” that build independence and teamwork. We talk about how we balance adventure days with real rest, budget for souvenirs that actually mean something, and use simple games to keep long travel days fun.We also get into creative destination ideas, building a family (or friend group) bucket list, and why having a transition day after getting home might be the most important part of the trip.Most of all, we want this episode to remind you that you don’t have to wait for the perfect season to travel. You can weave adventure and connection into the life you already have — chaos, car seats, or carry-ons included.TakeawaysTravel can be joyful with the right mindset and simple systems.Setting expectations upfront keeps everyone grounded.Creativity with destinations leads to unforgettable memories.Giving kids (or fellow travelers) responsibility builds confidence.Quality time always matters more than expensive outings.A shared bucket list makes sure everyone feels seen and heard.Budgeting for souvenirs can be a fun lesson in value.Turn travel days into games to keep spirits high.Capture your memories intentionally — photo books, voice notes, or videos.Build in a transition day when you get home. It’s not lazy; it’s wise.Quotes🧳 “Traveling is a habit.”🪣 “One bucket list item per person.”🌿 “A rest day is an investment.” shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Katie's talking about how to fall back in love with your everyday life — the ordinary, in-between moments that usually fly under the radar.Because somewhere between unloading the dishwasher and answering another email, we forget that this is our life. And it’s happening right now.How to romanticize the routine — not by pretending everything’s perfect, but by slowing down enough to notice the magic that’s already there. From making your morning coffee feel sacred to turning carpool into your favorite thinking time, they share small mindset shifts that turn the mundane into something meaningful.It’s about showing up fully awake to your own story — and realizing it’s already beautiful. Takeaways Adopt a 'main character energy' mindset.Elevate mundane tasks with small changes.Use sensory upgrades to enhance daily life.Create a personal soundtrack for your day.Name and celebrate everyday routines.Incorporate gratitude into daily practice.Find joy in small, intentional actions.Transform chores into enjoyable activities.Embrace creativity in daily life.Appreciate the present moment. Title Options Romanticizing Everyday LifeMain Character Energy: Elevate Your DayTransform Mundane Tasks into MagicThe Art of Living CinematicallyShailey and Katie's Guide to a Meaningful LifeEveryday Magic: Finding Joy in the OrdinaryMindset Shifts for a Cinematic LifeGratitude and the Art of LivingCreating a Life Full of WonderThe Power of Intentional Living shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Shailey spills her interior design secrets — the little things that make your home look effortlessly styled (without it feeling like a museum where no one’s allowed to sit on the couch).She walks Katie through her favorite hidden design tricks — like how to use coffee table books as instant personality injections, why stacks of three just feel right, and how trays are basically the emotional support system of home decor.They also get real about the struggle of folding fitted sheets (spoiler: Shailey has thoughts) and how to mix colors, textures, and personal items so your space actually feels like you. Expect laughs, stories, and a few moments of deep design wisdom that will have you eyeing your living room differently.TakeawaysCoffee table books = instant personality and visual interest.Stack in odd numbers for balance (3 is the magic number).Add personal items — no one else has your memories, so show them off.Trays make everything look intentional (even your clutter).Mix colors and textures for cozy depth.Books are more than decor — they’re conversation starters.Thrift stores are gold mines for unique finds.Swap out seasonal books for a quick refresh.Your personal stories should guide your design choices.Intentional design makes a home feel cohesive, not cookie-cutter. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

This week on Shailey & Katie’s Lemonade Stand, Katie attempts the impossible: convincing die-hard night owl Shailey that mornings don’t have to be miserable.Katie shares how she went from dragging herself out of bed at the last possible second to actually looking forward to mornings (shocking, we know). She’s walking Shailey through seven practical, totally doable hacks to transform mornings—without becoming that person who wakes up at 4:30 a.m. to journal by candlelight and run a marathon.They dive into why dopamine is the secret sauce for motivation, how to beat decision fatigue before it ruins your day, and why a tiny burst of “activation energy” is all you need to get moving. Plus, Katie explains why your mornings actually start the night before and how to “play offense” with your day instead of just reacting to it.By the end, Shailey is almost convinced—and you might be, too.TakeawaysMorning routines don’t have to be complicated to change everything.Hacking dopamine —it’s the key to motivation.Simplify your choices to fight decision fatigue.Harness a quick burst of activation energy to kickstart your day.Create before you consume.Step away from the snooze button—it’s a trap.Stop playing defense with your time and start playing offense.Expect new habits to feel awkward at first.A good morning starts the night before.Prioritize sleep quality over sleep quantity. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

This week, Shailey catches us up on everything she’s been up to — from interior design projects to video production gigs, big life lessons, a few epic trips, and her new secret anti-aging routine (minus two spots on her neck). We talk about the tricky art of saying no (even when you really want to be a “yes” person), why family time feels so sweet right now, and how she committed to keeping a fitness routine going after bailing on Katie at the gym.Plus, we debate the most ridiculous excuses for skipping a workout (spoiler: they’re good) and share some honest reflections on regrets, growth, and what we’ve learned since our last season.Pour yourself a lemonade and let’s catch up with Shailey — and if you missed last week's episode, go back and catch up with Katie! shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

We’re back for Season 11 (after just a quick… four-year break 🤷‍♀️) and kicking things off with Katie’s comeback story. From navigating trauma and anxiety to ditching numbing habits (yep, even the Prosecco), Katie shares what it looked like to trade shame for curiosity and rebuild her life one habit at a time. She’s talking midlife crisis, coaching, The Habit Lab, and why curiosity became her superpower.Plus—because we never take ourselves too seriously—this episode is brought to you by weighted vests (you’ll see) and features our very first new-season segment: Old Timey Photos: How to Save Money with Shailey.ohkatieday.com/habitlabshaileymurphy.comshaileyandkatie.com"What if I just position this as an experiment?""I did go ahead and put in my notice.""You're going to be me one day.""I feel like I finished, not quitting.""I'm an alcohol-free life coach.""I made myself a sober bucket list.""I am certified to practice hypnotherapy.""Old timey photos people, man, they go hard.""I loved it. My family kind of wants to go back.""It's a good exercise in self-control." shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Season 10 and a half: A Very Merry Inbetween-isode!We’re popping in to give you a quick life update, some GOALS we’ve been crushing, and our top 3 gifts to give yourself this holiday season. Katie has a longevity, anti-aging regimen she’s dying to share with you and a VERY CRINGEY massage story gone so wrong she allllmost couldn’t get through the re-telling. Oh and Shailey has become a renovation real estate mogul!Products mentioned:Atomic Habits by James ClearDuckfeet shoesVital Proteins Collagen supplementFree Assembly - WalmartFollow us on instagram to hear when we release “The Joy Workshop” video masterclassinstagram.com/shaileyandkatie shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

We’re walking you through The New Habit Formula, exploring What are Atomic Habits? AND we’re checking in on the goals we set 12 weeks ago and making new goals for next season premier! Did Shailey ever bodypump with Katie? Did Opal cut her Disney-princess hair? Did Katie stay sober curious? What about reducing screentime and carving out more intentional time with kids? TUNE IN! shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Daily Dewy 5-step Makeup Routine with Emily Edgar, pro makeup artist, NYC via Springfield, MO. She’s back with her 5-step make-up routine that ANY of us can do. She empowers us not to just repeat exactly what works for someone else, but choose the feature you love the most and spend your time there. And she answers YOUR LISTENER QUESTIONS! And what does Emily keep TWENTY of in her purse 100% of the time? Bonus, Shailey reveals the one makeup product she’d take with her if she was stranded on a desert island and Katie weighs in with a 15- second hack that gives you Botox-results.ALL PRODUCTS MENTIONED LINKED HEREhttps://www.amazon.com/shop/emilyedgarWhere to find Emily Edgar:Emily’s websitehttps://www.emilyedgarmakeup.com/Emily’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/emilyedgar/?hl=en shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Simplified skincare routine with Emily Edgar! Skincare for busy gals who are aging (and hot take: aging isn’t bad!) What you should NEVER skip and what you can ditch! She’s boiling it down to 4 simple steps.We’ve got Emily Edgar, educator and pro makeup artist from NYC, and the author of The Brides Guide to beauty, online masterclass intended for brides. Coming soon. January 2022! Where to find Emily Edgar:Emily’s website: https://www.emilyedgarmakeup.com/Emily’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyedgar/?hl=en Products Mentioned:https://www.amazon.com/shop/emilyedgarBeauty Influencers:Caroline HironsPaula Begoun of beautypedia shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Our go-to gifts for friends, family and co-workers. It doesn’t have to cost a lot to mean a lot! shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Our fixer Uppers! We both recently renovated old houses and we’re bringing you our 5 favorite things we included in our renos, the things we scrimped on and don’t regret and Katie's ONE REALLY BIG regret that she can’t undo and is simply stuck with for all time. (It’s juicy. Shailey gets uncomfy. Stay tuned.) shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Vintage Rugs: what on earth are all these dirty old rugs and why is everyone so obsessed? Where to start, what to look for, where to put them. What if you have wall-to-wall carpet? What is the difference between Persian and Turkish. CAN I JUST GO TO TARGET INSTEAD? It's a rugucation. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Walking for Creativity: the surprising benefits of walking both physical and mental health. Geniuses throughout history who incorporated a daily walk and how YOU can get more steps in your day. Is walking better for you than running? (WHAT? HOT TAKE!? Stay tuned.) Bonus: you’ll get to hear Shailey cat-call her neighborhood construction workers which took us STRAIGHT to regret time.)Resources Mentioned:Rest by Alex Soojung-Kim Pang shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

GROCERY SHOPPING HACKS. The products we love and are not being paid to talk about. (but we would take money for it. Just to be clear.) We will each tell you our go-to items at our grocery store of choice! What items we love and why. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Wow. Katie is like...weirdly excited to bring you some low-maintenance parenting quality-time hacks!!! Starting with Family Movie Night: THE NEXT LEVEL. Listen up for some simple ideas to start your family traditions and the WHY behind what makes it so intentional and special. And if you stay to the end, you'll get to hear Shailey take a movie trivia quiz you WONT want to miss. Let's just say....Nobody puts Shailey in a corner. shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Thrifting: How to know where to go and what to look for!This episode is brought to you by: Your Grandma! - You knew what was up.Shailey's Top 5 things she looks for when she thrifts and why she loves it! Make it fun. It’s not about finding something every time, but looking and finding unique items for your space and friends------RESOURCE LIST / VISUALS----Opal’s fairy garden: https://abeautifulmess.com/a-fairy-garden-tour/See: instagram.com/shaileyandkatieFor visuals of:Tiny european cottagesGlass dog collectionBasket muralEurope paint by numbers shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Decorating with your roommate when you don't have the same taste! We’ll be talking about how to compromise with a roommate or spouse and then at the end expert interior designer Shailey Murphy will be solving YOUR listener roommate challenges you submitted on instagram. (spoiler: they are HILARIOUS.)Resources Mentioned:@metacolmenJosef Frank wallpaper shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

We’re back!!! In this episode, Where have we been for... like... 2 years?Well, we’ve been off-audio REAL friends going through a pandemic! Haha! We’ll catch you up on our missing two-year timeline, our current goals, and a segment you won’t want to miss called “Making Covid lemons into (room temperature) lemonade!” (Subtitle: Covid is very serious and this is just a joke and it’s nothing to make light of, disclaimer, disclaimer, obviously covid is serious. nothing is funny we love you k bye.)Links mentioned:Where Katie got to pretend to live:https://abeautifulmess.com/category/holiday-house/Where Katie works now:thevirtualsavvy.comShailey’s home feature on “A Beautiful Mess” blog:https://abeautifulmess.com/before-after-living-spaces-tour-with-shailey-murphy/https://abeautifulmess.com/before-after-bed-and-bath-tours-with-shailey-murphy/Shailey’s IGTV tour of her home:https://www.instagram.com/shaileymurphy/?hl=en shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up with Kathryn Kelly certified KonMarie organizer by Marie Kondo Part 1. Simplify & Organize. “Life begins when you put your home in order!”Create a simple, tidy home you love to be in. What is your vision for you home? For Kathryn Kelly (Refresh Organizing) it was a cozy cottage in Napa Valley that had very few items but all of them were absolutely lovely. She went through the rigorous certification process by (our queen!) Marie Kondo herself and is now one of the very select few licensed Konmari organizers. She walks us through the process and how we can all put our house (and lives!) In order. Topics discussed: organizing by category instead of by room, having a clear “why” and “vision” for your home and how you can EVEN “konmarie” your schedule. (We are GEEKING OUT over this episode! What a wealth of knowledge Katy is!!!)Hire Kathryn Kelly:Refresh organizing.comhttps://www.instagram.com/refresh_organizing/Our Supporters:Freshbooks.com/skto make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section”gusto.com/skfor BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonadefor your free starter kit and checklist on making big bucks as a virtual assistant working from home! shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Create a simple, tidy home you love to be in. What is your vision for you home? For Kathryn Kelly (Refresh Organizing) it was a cozy cottage in Napa Valley that had very few items but all of them were absolutely lovely. She went through the rigorous certification process by (our queen!) Marie Kondo herself and is now one of the very select few licensed Konmari organizers. She walks us through the process and how we can all put our house (and lives!) In order. Topics discussed: organizing by category instead of by room, having a clear “why” and “vision” for your home and how you can EVEN “konmari” your schedule. (We are GEEKING OUT over this episode! What a wealth of knowledge Katy is!!!)Hire Kathryn Kelly: Refreshorganizing.comhttps://www.instagram.com/refresh_organizing/Our Supporters:Freshbooks.com/skto make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section”gusto.com/skfor BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonadefor your free starter kit and checklist on making big bucks as a virtual assistant working from home! shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

(Yikes, was that some click bait or what?) Here we go again talking about Katie’s body. This time she lost 90 pounds with her fourth child. Topics include: paleo, keto, strength training, her wrist injury, how she healed it, anti-inflamation, calories-in calories-out myth. Also: Katie is not a doctor. Please consult a doctor. She’s just a mom of four with a microphone and 90 fewer pounds on her body. Oh, and 90% more energy. Also she likes herself. She liked herself before she lost the weight and still likes herself now. Body positive. Go bodies. (Phew. Got those disclaimers in. Let’s begin.)Books discussed:Body Love by Kelly LeVequeFood Freedom Forever by Melissa Hartwig Our Supporters:Freshbooks.com/skto make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section”gusto.com/skfor BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonadefor your free starter kit and checklist shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Janae Hardy, photographer, interior design guru, A Beautiful Mess contributor, mother of 3, on JOMO - The Joy of Missing Out: When you choose to miss out for the sake of your values. Why she quit the hustle and how it created margin in her life to optimize joy and rest.If curating a PERFECT instagram feed were a contest, she would win…except for…wait... where is she on instagram? She gone. She’s probably taking a nap or looking out a window listening to classical music or reading a book about the brain. Sources she mentions:Brain Book:https://www.amazon.com/Switch-Your-Brain-Happiness-Thinking/dp/0801015707 Podcast about the Sabbath:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rest-for-your-soul/id84246334?i=1000427206727 Freshbooks.com/skto make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section”gusto.com/skfor BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonadefor your free starter kit and checklist shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Managing a creative team and managing your family! How regular check-ins, asking for input, and owning your mistakes can work in business AND home! Topics include: how to create a positive brainstorm environment vs how to crush a soul. And a new segment that JUST might get Katie called down to HR... Freshbooks.com/sk to make your business accounting LEGIT .Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section” gusto.com/sk for BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonade for your free starter kit and checklist shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Productivity and procrastination. Anxiety and Perfectionism. It’s all connected. Katie procrastinated and made herself MISERABLE over a project she actually TRULY WANTED TO DO. Then she read a book about procrastination and it was a GAME CHANGER. Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play: The Now Habit by Neil Fiore. Freshbooks.com/skto make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section” gusto.com/skfor BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonadefor your free starter kit and checklist shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

The enneagram: typology of nine interconnected personality types. How knowing yourself can help you crush your goals and improve your marriage and relationships.Freshbooks.com/sk to make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section” gusto.com/sk for BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonade for your free starter kit and checklist shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Shailey created a new baby AND created a new house. Katie destroyed a house AND destroyed her weight loss goals. (Up top! Gutted her house, lost her gut. Amiright?) Also one of these self-employed girls went and got herself EMPLOYED. Tune in to hear the shenanigans, what’s coming up on this season, AND a brand new segment you WILL NOT WANT TO MISS! ( I mean…it’s a doozy, you guys. Buckle up.) Freshbooks.com/skto make your business accounting LEGIT . Enter SHAILEY AND KATIE in the “How did you hear about us? Section” gusto.com/skfor BOMB payroll management thevirtualsavvy.com/lemonadefor your free starter kit and checklist shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Making all kinds of lemonade today! Topics addressed: feeling “left out”, FOMO-fear of missing out, marriage fights, realizing your life isn’t what you “dreamed”, what about when you are mourning? Or going through something really hard? Digging deep today! (Bonus topic: Is the person you are worrying about actually just a Garbage Person?) “Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.” -Francesca Reigler “You don’t have a right to the cards you believe you should have been dealt with. You have an obligation to play the hell out of the ones you’re holding.” -Cheryl Strayed “Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” -Steve Maraboli shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Vulnerability alert! Intimate topic alert! NSFW! The girls share some intimate stuff and they’re SO glad they did. There are so many things we put off a s”normal” that we. Do . not. Have. To live. With! Melissa is a pelvic health physical therapist. And talks us through everything peeing to sex. Grab your earbuds, Shailey’s about to get uncomfortable! www.mommyberries.com CODE: SK 10% off shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

From the ground level of a home renovation from a pregnant mom of a toddler, Shailey gives us an update on her home status. Her plan at the beginning was aggressive, even for an interior designer. So naturally, they made it more complicated as they went! BUT IT’S ALMOST DONE! (And it’s beautiful!) shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

STOP COMPARING with Michelle Knight! Overcoming comparision-itis and perfectionism! Self-acceptance, purposeful living and storytelling when it comes to entrepreneurship and motherhood. https://www.brandmerry.com/ shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

If you want to write a book, then write it! Kelsey Baldwin tells us why and how she wrote it and the (easier than you think) way she got it on amazon and into hundreds of women’s hands.Topics include: self-disciple tips, keeping yourself accountable, deadlines, writer’s retreats, and batch productivity. paperandoats.com instagram.com/paperandoats https://www.amazon.com/Strong-Girl-Brave-reconciling-between/dp/1732627908 shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Katie Day, (photographer, actor, business-owner, mom of four) hasn’t used in childcare in her 8 years of being a mom. In fact, she even homeschooled. So why did she decide to experiment and put her 2 oldest in public school and her 2 youngest in preschool? She discusses her reasoning, fears, and the changes she’s seen in her mental health, household harmony, marriage, and finances. She also bawls her eyes out about why this is working mom thing is such a tricky puzzle to try and solve. Vulnerability alert! Buckle up! shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

The year to TAKE CONTROL of your home! Modern Home management with Kendra Hennessy. She helps us become a little more “homemaker-ish” by sharing systems, routines and mindset shifts that simplify life and put the fun back into being a mom. Including: Setting realistic goals for yourself; Creating systems and routines to minimize mile-long to-do lists; Batching work for home and work life; and How to leverage the power of momentum instead of motivation to get stuff done! Kendra has all kinds of amazing courses and information on her site!!! Check out the links to connect more with her. Find Kendra's Blog / Podcast here: Mother Like a Boss! Kendra's Instagram!!! Shailey and Katie's Lemonade Stand shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

100 EPISODES!!! How we met! When Katie met Shailey! (And when Shailey met Katie! And was that the same day? Spoiler: it was not.) Also: Intentional Friendship tips, Community over Competition, Be the friend you want to have! Reach out to a girl crush! Encouragement: Think nice things then say those things out loud! Do you struggle with competition? Are you someone who has difficulty hitting that “heart” on someone else’s photo? Fake sponsored: Newsboy Hats™️: Remember those!? shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Pivot from Surviving to Thriving with Jessica Turner (author Stretched Too Thin!) She addresses the key pain points of working moms - everything from guilt to marriage to work boundaries to self care to outsourcing - and gives practical advice on how to pivot from surviving to thriving. Lots of great advice you can put into practice TODAY. Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Stretched-Too-Thin-Working-Smarter/dp/080072349X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1545150692&sr=8-1&keywords=stretched+too+thin shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com

Season 8 Premier! We’re back and we’re making houses and babies! We’ve been home-renovating, world-traveling, business-strategy-changing, mental health-improving. Tune in to where have we been and where are we going this season on Shailey and Katie’s Lemonade Stand. Brought to you by Daylight Saving: I can’t! TM Do you guys pronounce it Daylight Saving or Daylight Savings? Bonus Question: What does UV stand for in UV rays. (Spoiler: we both got it wrong.) shaileymurphy.comohkatieday.com