Sexy Marriage Radio

<p>There are many things in life that we do … and sometimes we do them simply because we’re supposed to. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Self-soothing Reframing what we do Being present __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/having-sex-because-youre-supposed-to/">Episode 80: Having sex because you’re supposed to</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There’s a high desire and a low desire in every relationship. Usually the high desire is responsible for initiating most, but not always. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The devil’s pact Be yourself Self-soothing __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/how-do-you-initiate/">Episode 79: How do you initiate?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Setting the mood. Ruining the mood. Sometimes there’s a fine line between the two. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Music Environment Moves __________ Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/do-this-not-this/">Episode 78: Do this, Not this</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Every one of us gets rejected at times. Some times a lot. So how do you deal with this better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Rejection anxiety Instigate Isolate Escalate __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/rejection-anxiety/">Episode 77: Dealing with rejection anxiety</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Are intimacy and sex the same thing? Can you have intimacy without sex? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Following the connection Separateness vs. Togetherness Foreplay and sex __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/intimacy-and-sex/">Episode 76: Intimacy and Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are lots of marriages where the man is the high desire partner for sex. BUT, this isn’t always the case. Being the high desire is not gender specific. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Listener emails Making meaning Be clear about what you’re seeking __________ Got a question? Email us at […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/high-and-low/">Episode 75: High and low isn’t gender specific</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Many of our shows are aimed at those experiencing issues or struggles in marriage. Not today. Today we’re talking about what it takes to move a good marriage in to a great one. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Both have to be interested Claim the time and boundaries Shared vision __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/good-to-great/">Episode 74: Going from good to great</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Whenever there’s a crisis in marriage, it’s common that one spouse becomes an orbiter of the other. While this is an understandable reaction, it’s not beneficial. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What is an orbiter How men and women do this How to break free __________ Got a question? Email us […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/orbiters-in-crisis/">Episode 73: Orbiters in Crisis</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Relationships evolve slowly over time. They ebb and they flow. But what about when you want things to get better? Do they get worse before they get better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The value of sticking with it Perspective Growing up both as a person and a couple __________ Got […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/worse-before-better/">Episode 72: Worse before better</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>What do I do when my spouse won’t accept my compliments or statements about how good I think they look? Then their rejections squash my desire. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Who is your spouse’s happiness committee? Being congruent and authentic in word and action Following your passions __________ Got a question? Let […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/happiness-committee/">Episode 71: My Spouse’s Happiness Committee</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Help, my wife has an aversion to sex so there’s little to no sex happening. And during the times in between, she thinks everything I do is about sex so she feels pressured all the time. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The role you play in this as a man Pursue […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/pressure-leads-to-aversion/">Episode 70: When pressure leads to aversion</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Several years ago research showed the importance of equality in marriage. That housework and roles to make a relationship work should be equal. Now research shows that our sexuality doesn’t follow this same script. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Friendship and roles we play in marriage Masculinity and femininity Playing to your strengths […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/all-things-being-equal/">Episode 69: All Things Being Equal</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are times in married life where one spouse wants to address an issue or problem in the marriage and the other isn’t interested. This can be frustrating for both spouses. In this episode Gina and I cover the various ways to address this situation. Show topics: The process of relationships Living according to what […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-when-my-spouse-isnt-interested/">Episode 68: Help when my spouse isn’t interested</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Expectations can ruin sex. In this episode Gina and I cover the differences between genders and our expectations for sex. Show topics: Differences between men and women Types of sexual encounters Stages of sex for married people __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/stages-of-sex/">Episode 67: The Stages of Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many times in married life when you are too close to your spouse for too long. The saying is, “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” And it’s true. The space between you and your spouse is important. So what do you do when life throws a curve and you’re space is limited? That’s […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/give-me-some-space/">Episode 66: Give Me Some Space</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Life is struggle. Stress, tragedy, and illness are bound to occur. And when it does, it impacts almost all areas of life. So what are some way to address illness and its impact on sex? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Chronic illness Temporary illness Convient illness __________ Got a question? Let […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-and-chronic-illness/">Episode 65: Sex and Chronic Illness</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Expectations run rampant in marriage. Whether that be in roles, schedules, responsibilities or sex. Expectations really can ruin things. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Following your desires Being the high desire, or the low desire spouse __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/expectations/">Episode 64: Dealing with expectations</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I want to spice up our routine sex life. It’s good, and it’s gets the job done, but I want to add something else. How do I speak up about this when there’s the fear my spouse may think I’m a pervert? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Language Eroticism The importance […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/my-spouse-may-think-im-perverted/">Episode 63: My spouse may think I’m perverted</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Anxiety is all around us. It also gets in the way of many things both in and out of the bedroom. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Focus on the journey Breathe in and out __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/getting-in-the-zone-for-lovers/">Episode 62: Getting in the zone for lovers</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are times when one of you is turned on and raring to go … and at the exact same time your spouse is so far from that place. What can you do during these times? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: High desire, low desire Be you in your relationship __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/raring-to-go-shes-not/">Episode 61: I’m raring to go, she’s not</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Help! I don’t find my spouse physically attractive. Can I bring up the idea of plastic surgery for them? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: What you control Upping your own attraction Use the power of the system __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/physical-attraction-issues/">Episode 60: Physical Attraction Issues</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Sex is a topic filled with anxiety, especially when you’re talking about it with your kids. But, it’s vital that parents talk about it with them. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: It’s important to be calm It’s an ongoing conversation – not just one “talk” How to offer up your values […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/talk-to-your-kids-about-sex/">Episode 59: How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>What happens when you do all the “right” things for your marriage (and spouse) yet the results you’re looking for don’t follow? It’s enough to make you crazy. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Information paralyzation Operating from the best in yourself Let go of attachment to an outcome __________ Got a question? […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/am-i-crazy/">Episode 58: Am I crazy?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Eroticism is something some people fear. At the very least, it carries with it some levels of discomfort … that’s what makes it erotic. So how can you up the eroticism in your life? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being present Taking risks Sex On Sundays __________ Got a question? Let […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/thoughts-for-erotically-challenged/">Episode 57: Thoughts For The Erotically Challenged</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We’ve done shows where we discuss high desire and low desire differences. But what about when one spouse simply can’t get in to sex and that puts the other spouse in the state of having to do “work” to make sex happen? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: High and Low desire […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/when-sex-is-work/">Episode 56: When sex is work</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Pain from out past can easily impact our present. Especially in sex. Sexual pain, shame, guilt and frustration can dramatically decrease our present encounters with the one we love. But there’s hope – you can retroactively take care of the past – in the present. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Reframing […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/past-pain-impacting-present-pleasure/">Episode 55: Past pain impacting present pleasure</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Ever had times when worry and anxiety derailed your sex life? What about when worry destroys any hope of reaching climax or even the ability to perform? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Simple steps to be present Self soothing Reframing what’s happening between you __________ Got a question? Let us know […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/performance-anxiety/">Episode 54: Performance anxiety</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I’m struggling in my marriage, should I give up? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Be honest Speak up Fight for it! __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-for-those-hurting/">Episode 53: Help for those hurting</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are both givers and takers in life. And sex. Sometimes, it’s the same person. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being a giver or taker Honesty Authenticity __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/givers-and-takers/">Episode 52: Givers and takers</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The basic question is this: Can men and women be friends? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Importance of boundaries Differences between men and women __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/can-men-and-women-be-friends/">Episode 51: Can men and women be friends</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Is there any advice you guys have for those who are engaged or dating? What about the other end of the spectrum and thoughts for those of us experiencing sexual issue due to aging? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: How far is too far? Connecting more than physically The elegance of […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/thoughts-for-young-and-old/">Episode 50: Thoughts for the young and old</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Our inbox filled up over the past couple of weeks. In this episode it’s all about answering your questions. Show topics: How can I get my spouse to listen to the show? How to up the frequency Arousal disorders __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/potpourri/">Episode 49: Q&A Potpourri</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Stress. It’s everywhere. What impact does stress have on sex? Marriage? And how can we stay connected in the midst of chronic stress? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/stress-and-sex/">Episode 48: Stress and sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many passionate people. There are also many sexually frustrated people. What happens when this is the same person? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/passionate-but-sexually-frustrated/">Episode 47: Passionate, but sexually frustrated</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There will always be a high desire and a low desire when it comes to sex (actually with every topic). Typically, the high desire spouse is the husband while the low desire spouse is the wife. But what about when this is reversed? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Is there something […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/high-desire-wife-low-desire-husband/">Episode 46: High desire wife, low desire husband</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Life involves change. And no where does change impact us more than in our body image/self image. So how do you handle it when you’ve added a few pounds or gravity has taken over and your image takes a hit in your own mind? And what about when this happens to your spouse? That’s what […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/self-image-and-sex/">Episode 45: Self Image and Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Oral sex. It can be a great part of foreplay, or even the main event. But what about when one spouse wants it and the other doesn’t? Or when you’re repulsed by the idea or act? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Challenge your assumptions Change is a slow process Power __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/going-down/">Episode 44: When Your Spouse Won’t Go Down</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Editor’s Note: There’s an issue with the master audio of this show – the last couple of minutes are missing. Sorry for this issue. Our last show discussed the idea of changing things up in order to create some spice – but does that mean if you have a functional routine in sex (and life) […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/does-routine-mean-boring/">Episode 43: Does routine mean boring?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We all fall into routines. And many people struggle with the do what worked last time philosophy. But what do you do when all of this combines into being boring in bed? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: The importance of changing things Make a move If you’re boring in bed, you’re likely […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/my-spouse-says-im-boring/">Episode 42: Help, my spouse says I’m boring</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There is one thing that drives all our lives. One thing that draws lines in the sand and boundaries for what we’ll tolerate. Integrity. Put another way, living according to “what you hold dear.” That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: The value of values How integrity and sex fit together Passion __________ Got a […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/integrity-and-sex/">Episode 41: How Integrity Can Improve Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are inevitable ebbs and flows in marriage. It is also possible that the relationship can evolve to where you’re more like roommates than lovers. So how do you move from roommates to lovers again? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: High desire and low desire The role of masculinity and femininity __________ Got […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/roommates-to-lovers-again/">Episode 40: Moving From Roommates to Lovers Again</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>In this episode we answer a listener email. How do you address lingering guilt feelings regarding sex. Plus, masturbation – right or wrong? Enjoy. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/dealing-with-guilt/">Episode 39: Dealing with guilt about sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Many people long for unconditional love and believe it’s part of what makes a marriage great. But is it possible? Is it even realistic? Or is it really a myth? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Conditions Promises Commitments __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/unconditional-love/">Episode 38: Is Unconditional Love in Marriage a Myth?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Some things in life you can’t really know about until you experience them. Marriage and sex both fit in this category. So, after having now experienced marriage and sex, what have you learned? What do you wish you knew beforehand? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Surprises Wisdom Experience __________ Got a […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/what-i-wish-i-knew-about-sex-and-marriage-beforehand/">Episode 37: What I wish I knew about sex and marriage beforehand</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many people who don’t consider themselves outgoing or adventurous when it comes to sex and eroticism. These aren’t those with very little to no desire for sex. These are more the husband who’s the nice guy or the wife who’s shy. In this episode we talk about tips to try for your sex […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-tips-for-the-shy-wife-and-the-nice-guy/">Episode 36: Sex Tips for the Shy Wife and the Nice Guy</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Everyone knows that a result of sex can be children, at least I hope everyone knows this. If not, we need to talk. What do you do when the subject of kids is a source of disagreement in marriage? Things like when? How many? Sex for procreation vs. recreation? This is what we talk about […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-and-kids/">Episode 35: Sex and kids</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Every one of us have some sort of expectations. But do these expectations really help us? Or our relationships? And, every one of us is selfish in some regard. But is this really all that bad? This is what we talk about in this episode. Show topics: Expectations are planned disappointments Selfishness is important __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/expectations-and-selfishness/">Episode 34: Expectations and selfishness</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Confidence is one of the best predictors of great sex. Even great lives. But not all of us are born feeling confident about ourselves, our abilities, or even our sexuality. So how can you increase your sexual confidence? This is what we tackle in this episode. Show topics: The importance of health Exercise Speaking up __________ Got […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/how-to-increase-sexual-confidence/">Episode 33: How to increase your sexual confidence</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We’ve covered many topics on sex thus far – desire differences, fantasies, female orgasms, arousal, being sexy, and on and on. Sex is something many people work for to have as part of their life. You set the mood, pursue, think about and plan for it. But sometimes, it’s over way too fast. This is […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-sex-is-over-too-fast/">Episode 32: Help! Sex is over too fast</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The main difference between a marriage relationship and all our other relationships is sex. But the other side of this topic, just because you’re married, is sex expected? This is what we tackle in this episode. Show topics: High desire spouse Low desire spouse Making a big move __________ Got a question? Let us know […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/expecting-sex-simply-because-youre-married/">Episode 31: Expecting sex simply because you’re married</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>