Sexy Marriage Radio

<p>What are some thoughts that will help us as we begin our married life? Specifically, sex. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/honeymoon-sex/">Episode 95: Honeymoon Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Women do initiate sex, it’s just that many times her attempts go unnoticed by her husband. So head’s up husbands, be on the lookout for her attempts. There might be more there than you first thought. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/feminines-initiation-for-sex/">Episode 94: The feminine’s initiation for sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A popular marriage tip is to be sure you set aside time for date nights. Often this is thought of as once a month, or once a week. But why not every night? That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/date-night/">Episode 93: Every night is date night</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Pornography can mess up lives and relationships. And this is beyond just a moral or ethical issue. Gary Wilson runs the website YourBrainOnPorn.com and is here to discuss the facts about pornography and how it affects your brain. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The result of high-speed Internet porn Rebooting What a spouse […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/your-brain-and-porn/">Episode 92: Your Brain and Porn</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>What are you afraid of? It’s a common question, but not often deeply explored. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What’s underneath fear How to overcome fear __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/fear/">Episode 91: What’s your fear?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Too many men are Nice Guys. And it’s damaging sex and marriage. But women are not immune as well as there are many Nice Girls out there as well. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The Nice Guy, Nice Girl Ideas to teach your kids about this __________ Got a question? Email […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/nice-guy/">Episode 90: The Nice Guy/Nice Girl</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many sexless marriages today. Plus there are lots of people with major trauma in their past, specifically sexual trauma. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Sexless marriages Past abuse The importance of seeking help __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sexless-marriage/">Episode 89: Sexless marriages, past trauma, and more</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Many times, the only thing in our way to creating what we really want in life, marriage, and sex is ourselves. More specifically, our beliefs. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Self limiting beliefs What’s true Tips to overcome our beliefs that hurt us __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/self-limiting-beliefs/">Episode 88: Self limiting beliefs</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Kissing is a big part of physical intimacy, for many people. But not everyone. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Gridlock Speaking up even if it hurts __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/spouse-doesnt-like-to-kiss/">Episode 87: My spouse doesn’t like to kiss</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A system is something that is co-created. And our role in the creation of things can be something we don’t easily notice. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What happens in relationship is co-created What’s your contribution Taking responsibility for yourself __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/your-role/">Episode 86: Your role</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A popular book in the marriage world is Dr. Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages. While it’s helped a lot of people, we have a slightly different take. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What are the love languages What else is going on? __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/love-languages/">Episode 85: Love Languages</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Our self-image really does affect our life. Especially our sex life. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Shame How the spouse can help Re-write your story __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/body-image-and-shame/">Episode 84: Body image and shame</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>For some, sex is over too fast. For others it’s too slow. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: It’s a relational issue Let go of attachment Your identity __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/too-fast-or-too-slow/">Episode 83: Too fast or too slow</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Oral sex. One of our more popular topics on Sexy Marriage Radio. But not everyone is interested in it, and there are some hurdles that get in the way of personal preferences when it comes to enjoying it. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Smell and taste Grooming How to bring this […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/grooming-and-others-issues-with-oral-sex/">Episode 82: Grooming and others issues with oral sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We’ve made the comment before that our belief is 100% of your sexual energy needs to be directed toward your marriage. What if you’re married to someone with a different belief? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Triggers and behaviors Intimacy in real-time Growing up your “self” __________ Got a question? Email […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/leaking-sexual-energy/">Episode 81: Leaking sexual energy</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many things in life that we do … and sometimes we do them simply because we’re supposed to. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Self-soothing Reframing what we do Being present __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/having-sex-because-youre-supposed-to/">Episode 80: Having sex because you’re supposed to</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There’s a high desire and a low desire in every relationship. Usually the high desire is responsible for initiating most, but not always. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The devil’s pact Be yourself Self-soothing __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/how-do-you-initiate/">Episode 79: How do you initiate?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Setting the mood. Ruining the mood. Sometimes there’s a fine line between the two. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Music Environment Moves __________ Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/do-this-not-this/">Episode 78: Do this, Not this</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Every one of us gets rejected at times. Some times a lot. So how do you deal with this better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Rejection anxiety Instigate Isolate Escalate __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/rejection-anxiety/">Episode 77: Dealing with rejection anxiety</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Are intimacy and sex the same thing? Can you have intimacy without sex? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Following the connection Separateness vs. Togetherness Foreplay and sex __________ Got a question? Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/intimacy-and-sex/">Episode 76: Intimacy and Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are lots of marriages where the man is the high desire partner for sex. BUT, this isn’t always the case. Being the high desire is not gender specific. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Listener emails Making meaning Be clear about what you’re seeking __________ Got a question? Email us at […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/high-and-low/">Episode 75: High and low isn’t gender specific</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Many of our shows are aimed at those experiencing issues or struggles in marriage. Not today. Today we’re talking about what it takes to move a good marriage in to a great one. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Both have to be interested Claim the time and boundaries Shared vision __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/good-to-great/">Episode 74: Going from good to great</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Whenever there’s a crisis in marriage, it’s common that one spouse becomes an orbiter of the other. While this is an understandable reaction, it’s not beneficial. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What is an orbiter How men and women do this How to break free __________ Got a question? Email us […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/orbiters-in-crisis/">Episode 73: Orbiters in Crisis</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Relationships evolve slowly over time. They ebb and they flow. But what about when you want things to get better? Do they get worse before they get better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The value of sticking with it Perspective Growing up both as a person and a couple __________ Got […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/worse-before-better/">Episode 72: Worse before better</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>What do I do when my spouse won’t accept my compliments or statements about how good I think they look? Then their rejections squash my desire. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Who is your spouse’s happiness committee? Being congruent and authentic in word and action Following your passions __________ Got a question? Let […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/happiness-committee/">Episode 71: My Spouse’s Happiness Committee</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Help, my wife has an aversion to sex so there’s little to no sex happening. And during the times in between, she thinks everything I do is about sex so she feels pressured all the time. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The role you play in this as a man Pursue […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/pressure-leads-to-aversion/">Episode 70: When pressure leads to aversion</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Several years ago research showed the importance of equality in marriage. That housework and roles to make a relationship work should be equal. Now research shows that our sexuality doesn’t follow this same script. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Friendship and roles we play in marriage Masculinity and femininity Playing to your strengths […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/all-things-being-equal/">Episode 69: All Things Being Equal</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are times in married life where one spouse wants to address an issue or problem in the marriage and the other isn’t interested. This can be frustrating for both spouses. In this episode Gina and I cover the various ways to address this situation. Show topics: The process of relationships Living according to what […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-when-my-spouse-isnt-interested/">Episode 68: Help when my spouse isn’t interested</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Expectations can ruin sex. In this episode Gina and I cover the differences between genders and our expectations for sex. Show topics: Differences between men and women Types of sexual encounters Stages of sex for married people __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/stages-of-sex/">Episode 67: The Stages of Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many times in married life when you are too close to your spouse for too long. The saying is, “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” And it’s true. The space between you and your spouse is important. So what do you do when life throws a curve and you’re space is limited? That’s […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/give-me-some-space/">Episode 66: Give Me Some Space</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Life is struggle. Stress, tragedy, and illness are bound to occur. And when it does, it impacts almost all areas of life. So what are some way to address illness and its impact on sex? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Chronic illness Temporary illness Convient illness __________ Got a question? Let […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-and-chronic-illness/">Episode 65: Sex and Chronic Illness</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Expectations run rampant in marriage. Whether that be in roles, schedules, responsibilities or sex. Expectations really can ruin things. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Following your desires Being the high desire, or the low desire spouse __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/expectations/">Episode 64: Dealing with expectations</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I want to spice up our routine sex life. It’s good, and it’s gets the job done, but I want to add something else. How do I speak up about this when there’s the fear my spouse may think I’m a pervert? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Language Eroticism The importance […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/my-spouse-may-think-im-perverted/">Episode 63: My spouse may think I’m perverted</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Anxiety is all around us. It also gets in the way of many things both in and out of the bedroom. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Focus on the journey Breathe in and out __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/getting-in-the-zone-for-lovers/">Episode 62: Getting in the zone for lovers</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are times when one of you is turned on and raring to go … and at the exact same time your spouse is so far from that place. What can you do during these times? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: High desire, low desire Be you in your relationship __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/raring-to-go-shes-not/">Episode 61: I’m raring to go, she’s not</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Help! I don’t find my spouse physically attractive. Can I bring up the idea of plastic surgery for them? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: What you control Upping your own attraction Use the power of the system __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/physical-attraction-issues/">Episode 60: Physical Attraction Issues</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Sex is a topic filled with anxiety, especially when you’re talking about it with your kids. But, it’s vital that parents talk about it with them. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: It’s important to be calm It’s an ongoing conversation – not just one “talk” How to offer up your values […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/talk-to-your-kids-about-sex/">Episode 59: How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>What happens when you do all the “right” things for your marriage (and spouse) yet the results you’re looking for don’t follow? It’s enough to make you crazy. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Information paralyzation Operating from the best in yourself Let go of attachment to an outcome __________ Got a question? […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/am-i-crazy/">Episode 58: Am I crazy?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Eroticism is something some people fear. At the very least, it carries with it some levels of discomfort … that’s what makes it erotic. So how can you up the eroticism in your life? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being present Taking risks Sex On Sundays __________ Got a question? Let […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/thoughts-for-erotically-challenged/">Episode 57: Thoughts For The Erotically Challenged</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We’ve done shows where we discuss high desire and low desire differences. But what about when one spouse simply can’t get in to sex and that puts the other spouse in the state of having to do “work” to make sex happen? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: High and Low desire […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/when-sex-is-work/">Episode 56: When sex is work</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Pain from out past can easily impact our present. Especially in sex. Sexual pain, shame, guilt and frustration can dramatically decrease our present encounters with the one we love. But there’s hope – you can retroactively take care of the past – in the present. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Reframing […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/past-pain-impacting-present-pleasure/">Episode 55: Past pain impacting present pleasure</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Ever had times when worry and anxiety derailed your sex life? What about when worry destroys any hope of reaching climax or even the ability to perform? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Simple steps to be present Self soothing Reframing what’s happening between you __________ Got a question? Let us know […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/performance-anxiety/">Episode 54: Performance anxiety</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I’m struggling in my marriage, should I give up? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Be honest Speak up Fight for it! __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-for-those-hurting/">Episode 53: Help for those hurting</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are both givers and takers in life. And sex. Sometimes, it’s the same person. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being a giver or taker Honesty Authenticity __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/givers-and-takers/">Episode 52: Givers and takers</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The basic question is this: Can men and women be friends? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Importance of boundaries Differences between men and women __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/can-men-and-women-be-friends/">Episode 51: Can men and women be friends</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Is there any advice you guys have for those who are engaged or dating? What about the other end of the spectrum and thoughts for those of us experiencing sexual issue due to aging? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: How far is too far? Connecting more than physically The elegance of […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/thoughts-for-young-and-old/">Episode 50: Thoughts for the young and old</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Our inbox filled up over the past couple of weeks. In this episode it’s all about answering your questions. Show topics: How can I get my spouse to listen to the show? How to up the frequency Arousal disorders __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/potpourri/">Episode 49: Q&A Potpourri</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Stress. It’s everywhere. What impact does stress have on sex? Marriage? And how can we stay connected in the midst of chronic stress? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/stress-and-sex/">Episode 48: Stress and sex</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There are many passionate people. There are also many sexually frustrated people. What happens when this is the same person? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at [email protected]. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/passionate-but-sexually-frustrated/">Episode 47: Passionate, but sexually frustrated</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There will always be a high desire and a low desire when it comes to sex (actually with every topic). Typically, the high desire spouse is the husband while the low desire spouse is the wife. But what about when this is reversed? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Is there something […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/high-desire-wife-low-desire-husband/">Episode 46: High desire wife, low desire husband</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>