SWM 080 – Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer?

<p>Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer? Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-080-is-premature-orgasm-a-thing-for-women-how-do-you-last-longer/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.</p><p>The question we're answering today is:</p><p><em>Hi Jay,</em></p><p><em>I have a question for you / your podcast.</em></p><p><em>So my husband and I have been married for about 8 months now. It seems like every time he gives me oral sex, I end up orgasming within just a few minutes. Now, as great as orgasming is, I feel like after I orgasm so quickly, I am not as stimulated by penetration. Also, I really enjoy oral sex and I wish the experience could last longer. My husband and I waited until marriage to have sex. But before I was following Christ and before I met my husband, I was sexually active, including oral sex, and this never happened. So my questions are: 1) is this normal? is "premature ejaculation" a thing in women? 2) are there any ways to fix this and/or last longer? and 3) in women, if you orgasm once, is there a "come down" period? How is it possible to have multiple orgasms in one "sex session"?</em></p><p><em>Sorry for all of the questions! I still feel like we are so new to having sex and we have a lot to learn. I appreciate any and all input. Thanks!</em></p><p>This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/intimacy-advent-calendar/">Check it out here.</a></p><p>Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/how-to-make-it-easier-to-orgasm-during-sex/">How to make it easier to orgasm during sex</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/making-it-easier-to-orgasm-a-guide-for-christian-wives/">Making it easier to orgasm - a guide for Christian wives</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/introduction-talking-dirty/">Introduction to talking dirty</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/oral-sex-survey-results/">Oral sex survey</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/christians-anal-sex-anal-play/">Christians, anal sex and anal play</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-vs-spontaneous-desire/">Responsive desire vs. spontaneous desire</a></li><li><a href="https://minnalife.com/products/limon">Limon by Minna (use coupon code UIBLACKFRIDAY for $50 off)</a></li></ul><p>Follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/UncoveringIntimacy/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/uncoveringintimacy/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/uncoveringlove">Twitter</a></p><p>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.</p><p>Thank you to all our faithful champions!</p><p>If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference! Plus, supporters this month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free!</p><p>Lastly, if you like our podcast, <a href="https://lovethepodcast.com/uncoveringintimacy">click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review</a>. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.</p>