Why Don’t I Ever Want Sex?

<p>Here’s the truth about getting turned on. It’s a thousand times easier to feel sexual with others, if you’re already in the habit of getting sexual with yourself. But what does that look like? On today’s show, I’m talking sexy self-care practices that I recommend to everyone of every age, every gender, every relationship status. We’ll go over sensory engagement, breath work and solo sex techniques and toys, so you can keep your pilot light lit and feel erotic all the time. Plus, I take your questions: the difference between internal and external orgasms, arousal ideas for vulva-owners, how to approach sex with a new partner when you’ve been out of the game for a while, and much more.</p><br><p><strong>Show Notes:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://sexwithemily.com/sex-positions-to-try-this-valentines-day/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine’s Day</a></li><li><a href="https://sexwithemily.com/5-last-minute-ultra-sexy-valentines-ideas/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5 Last-Minute, Ultra-Sexy Valentine’s Ideas</a></li><li>PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! <a href="https://sexwithemily.com/book/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure</em></a></li><li><a href="https://shrsl.com/3q6qj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HigherDOSE Sauna Blanket</a></li><li>Breathing App: <a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/the-breathing-app/id1285982210" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Apple</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.ayny.breathingapp&hl=en_US&gl=US" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Google Play</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3JP2jnl" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Je Joue</a>: <a href="https://bit.ly/3wMaLf8" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Vita</a> | <a href="https://bit.ly/3Rsmucu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amour</a> | <a href="https://bit.ly/3YgLd5s" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Duet</a> (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF)</li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3k7AYlf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand</a></li><li><a href="https://www.promescent.com/emily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Promescent.com/Emily</a> (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)</li><li><a href="https://bellesaplus.co/signup?via=bplus&affiliate=sexwithemily&clean=true&utm_source=sexwithemily&utm_medium=siteads&utm_campaign=swebanner2022" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Bellesa</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tryquinn.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TryQuinn</a></li><li><a href="https://xconfessions.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">XConfessions.com</a></li><li><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/jane/id1530801648" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">&Jane</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at <a href="https://betterhelp.com/sexwithemily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">betterhelp.com/sexwithemily</a> and get 10% off your first month.</p><br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

Sex With Emily · Dr. Emily Morse