Hotline Calls: Rough Sex & Rim Jobs

<p>It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?</p><br><p>Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at <a href="https://sexwithemily.com/askemily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sexwithemily.com/askemily</a>.</p><br><p>See the full show notes at <a href="https://bit.ly/3sivGYt" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sexwithemily.com</a></p><br><p><strong>Show Notes:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://sexwithemily.com/5-libido-boosting-aphrodisiacs-to-try-in-and-out-of-the-bedroom/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the Bedroom</a></li><li><a href="https://sexwithemily.com/is-my-penis-normal/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Is My Penis Normal?</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">SHOP WITH EMILY!</a> (free shipping on orders over $69)</li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3sgagLr" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">System JO Flavored Lube</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3QHYx2e" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">System JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Limited Edition</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3YBEPHz" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">System JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Neapolitan</a></li><li><em>Polysecure, Jessica Fern: </em><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/polysecure-attachment-trauma-and-consensual-nonmonogamy-jessica-fern/14490932" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Bookshop</em></a><em> | </em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08F5L14MY/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Amazon</em></a></li><li><em>Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: </em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/157344295X/ref=as_sl_pc_as_ss_li_til?creativeASIN=157344295X&linkCode=w00&linkId=a9fb7b78452ec60ba4ba56e9d9fc9209&tag=polyaweekl-20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Amazon</em></a><em> | </em><a href="https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/opening-up-tristan-taormino/1100393812" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Barnes & Noble</em></a></li><li><em>Open Deeply, Kate Loree: </em><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/open-deeply-a-guide-to-building-conscious-compassionate-open-relationships-kate-loree/18240085" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Bookshop</em></a><em> | </em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Open-Deeply-Building-Conscious-Compassionate-Open-Relationships/dp/B09XPFY3KB/ref=sr_1_1?crid=NSUF5H3MBX7U&keywords=open+deeply+kate+loree&qid=1692235066&s=books&sprefix=open+deep%2Cstripbooks%2C237&sr=1-1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Amazon</em></a></li><li><a href="https://consciouspolyamory.org/2016/02/04/challenges-of-being-a-secondary/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">“The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory</a></li><li><a href="https://www.multiamory.com/podcast/93-secondary-partners" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">“Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory</a></li><li><a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/4tXovZ6HGDOHCE5Ywssm3u?si=4f93e8f3effa480f" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Polyamory in BLACK!</a></li></ul><br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

Sex With Emily · Dr. Emily Morse