Am I The Asshole? My Partner Doesn’t Like Oral Sex

<p>Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more.</p><br><p>In today’s episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies</li><li>How to work through ultimatums in relationships</li><li>Why your sex life should evolve over time</li></ul><p><br></p><p>See the full show notes at <a href="https://bit.ly/3s9b9pv" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sexwithemily.com</a>. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at <a href="https://sexwithemily.com/aita" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sexwithemily.com/aita</a>.</p><br><p><strong>Show Notes:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://sexwithemily.com/ages-stages-in-your-sex-life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Ages & Stages In Your Sex Life</a></li><li><a href="https://lelo.to/SWEPodNov1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soraya Beads from LELO</a> (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)</li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/40lDd5u" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Flavored Lubes</a></li><li><a href="https://sexwithemily.com/guides/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">SHOP WITH EMILY!</a> (free shipping on orders over $69)</li><li>The only sex book you’ll ever need: <a href="https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure</em></a></li><li>Want more? <a href="https://sexwithemily.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sex With Emily: Home</a></li><li>Let’s get social: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/sexwithemily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a> </li><li>Let’s text: <a href="https://sexwithemily.com/text" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sign Up Here</a></li><li>Want me to slide into your inbox? <a href="https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sign Up Here</a> for sex tips on the regular.</li></ul><br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

Sex With Emily · Dr. Emily Morse