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When You Put in the Work, You Will See the Benefits

When You Put in the Work, You Will See the Benefits

Sex, Love, and Addiction

January 19, 202327m 52s

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Show Notes

Dr. Rob and Tami talk about how betrayed spouses can take care of themselves, especially if their addict is not showing up in a way that they need to. They also answer a question from an emotional man, who has been in recovery for the last two years, and use it as a showcase on why recovery really does work when you put in the work. When you commit 100%, you will see the results. 

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[:45] My SA husband never wants to have sex. What gives?

[6:10] As a betrayed partner, you need to do self-healing work. Your partner has lied to you for over 2 decades. 

[7:20] It’s common for addicts to gaslight you and confuse you whenever you stand up for yourself.  

[10:25] My betrayed spouse doesn’t seem as invested in this recovery journey as I am. I am trying my best, what can I do? 

[13:10] I’m interested in taking the Out of the Doghouse course. When does it start?

[15:50] I’ve been in recovery for two years. I’m more emotional than ever, and my wife thinks this is strange. How can I help her understand what’s happening? 

[20:30] ADHD and addiction? Is there a connection? 

 

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss

Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss

Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss

Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss