Sex, Lies & DM Slides

It’s that time again, we help answer your big dating dilemmas. Can an open relationship REALLY work? Can you love two people at the same time? We also discuss what to do when your partner likes another girls thirst traps on Instagram, and whether you should end a relationship if you haven’t had sex for SEVEN years. As always, dilemmas have been kept completely anonymous and this is just our take on these, we are not experts! xo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sometimes you end up having a date that goes horribly wrong... but we keep telling ourselves it’s for the plot right?!? In this episode, you guys sent in your WORST ever dating stories that honestly had our jaws on the floor. Plus, we share our own worst dating stories! From someone demanding that their date paid for their train home, to a date that turned into a strange supermarket errand, to a guy wanting to keep a date on the DL. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this week’s bonus episode we’re exploring a little bit of a taboo topic (well it shouldn’t be in 2024)… one night stands! From what we really think about only sleeping with someone once and never seeing them again, to the insane double standard of men vs. women for one night stands, and what is actually the proper etiquette with ONS? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve been wanting to do this episode for such a loooong time and it’s finally here! Today, we’re giving alllll of our top tips on how to be a bad ass girl boss in 2024... Because we think we’ve learned a few things from working for ourselves over the years. Plus, we talk about what it’s really like to be an influencer (it’s not all glitz and glam!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Spring is FINALLY upon us, which got us thinking about all the things we’re absolutely obsessed with this season and how we're levelling up! From spring cleaning, to what is on our bucket list for hot girl summer, to Ana’s insane Coachella plans & Saff’s adventure in LA. Eeeekkkk we’re sooo excited! Love you guys! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You asked and we delivered! In today’s episode, we answer all of your MAJOR dating dilemmas like how to get back into dating pool after a break up, what to do if your ex starts seeing someone immediately after you break up and how to pluck up the courage to ask a guy out! Plus, Saff gives us a little update on how she’s been since becoming a single girlie again (*hint: she’s thriving*)! As always, these dating dilemma questions are anonymous and we aren’t dating experts, we are just giving you our take on your questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Something that seems to be a dating trend in 2024 is cross-generational relationships. So we thought we’d take a deep dive and ask the big questions.... like would we rather date someone older or younger than us? Does age REALLY matter when you’re dating someone and can age gap relationships really stand the test of time? Plus, we talk about the major differences when dating older vs. younger. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is for the girlies!! We don't know about you but female friendships have always been so important in our lives and in this episode, we thought we'd talk about all the amazing reasons why our female friendships are so special to us. Plus, we chat about the secret to long lasting friendships, the major differences between female friendships and male friendships and we ask: are our female friends really our soulmates?? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Everyone’s had a little crush in their life right? Well in today’s bonus episode, we thought we’d explore the topic a little deeper and look at our own experiences of having a crush. We chat all about inappropriate crushes, silly things we’ve done to impress the crush and which silver fox do we fancy in Hollywood atm? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve been saying for aaaages that we wanted to get a dating expert on and we finally have! In today’s episode, we are joined by the dating expert to the stars, Anna Williamson, to answer all of our (and your) burning questions! Please note all of these will remain anonymous. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this week’s bonus episode, we look at well-known dating etiquette and traditions from over the years and whether these are still relevant in 2024 or outdated and need to go. We discuss things like calling vs texting, whether a guy should pick up a girl for a first date, and waiting 'til the third date to seal the deal. Love you guys! Xoxox Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This is honestly one of our fave episodes to date! We take a look at some common dreams and what they REALLY mean - from dreaming about being naked to falling and flying. Plus, we share some crazy dreams we've been having recently - honestly your jaws will be on the floor after hearing these stories! Please note: we are NOT dream experts so these are all down to interpretation and can generate multiple meanings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are so many unspoken rules especially when it comes to what you supposedly should and shouldn’t do in early stages of dating vs in an established relationship. From when should you be comfortable enough to go to bathroom (particularly going for a number two), to when should you start leaving stuff at your partners house to doing “wifey s***” like booking appointments for them - we look at all the scenarios!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve been watching the hit Netflix reality dating series Love is Blind and it really got us thinking about what are the most important things in a relationship... *especially* when it comes to physical vs emotional attraction. We also have a little chat on whether love really IS blind... and do the little things actually matter when you are dating someone?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There’s so much dating advice out there - so we’d thought we’d get two cents from the real professionals! In today’s bonus episode we are looking at tips from dating coaches and decide whether any of them are useful or simply outdated in 2024. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So much has changed in the last few years it’s absolutely wild! So we thought we would look back on our teenage years vs. now: our early twenties and the major lessons we’ve learned along the way! From relationships to dating dos & don’t, body image advice we wished we'd told our younger selves (remember you are ALL GORGEOUS) and more! You won’t want to miss this episode! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dating is not for the weak - especially when it comes to dealing with ghosting & relationships ending. But sometimes people give the absolute weirdest reasons as to why they do it… So we’d thought it’d be a perfect opportunity to look at the craziest reasons why people have ghosted, broke up with someone or rescheduled a date and we debate whether they were valid reasons or just absolute rubbish! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are so many questions and rumours around sex and intimacy so we’d thought we’d debunk some myths once and for all! We tackle myths like can you actually get pregnant when you’re on your period to questions around contraception and more! And honestly we also learned a thing or two as well! And remember if you have any further questions - please don’t hesitate to contact your gynaecologist or GP as they are the best medical professionals to ask! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is dedicated to all the girlies out there, as we bond over all the wild & insane things women do that they never tell men about! From giving secret code names to boys girls are dating, to everything shower and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Love is in the air so you know what that means…. we fill you guys in on our romantic and not so romantic Valentine’s/ Galentine’s plans. And we ask the all important question is Valentine’s Day still a thing in 2024? Plus we fill you guys in our Valentine’s day & Galentines day plans this year and Ana reveals the actual insane dating rejection story- honestly the audacity of men sometimes!!!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve ALL made mistakes when it comes to dating and finding a romantic partner. In this week’s episode we asked you guys what are the most important dating lessons you’ve learned along the way and we’ve got some very fun and serious ones! You won’t want to miss this ep girlies! Xxx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Saff’s man is chasing his dreams in America atm which means Saff is in a long distance relationship (again!!!). So we’d thought this is the perfect episode to chat about how to navigate and *keep* the romance alive when your partner lives far away. We also chat about pros & cons of being in a long distance relationships (we promise there’s deffo more pros than cons)! And you know what they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder…. Plus Saff reveals if is she'll move to America to be closer to Louis and Ana spills the tea on if her and blind date boy are *officially exclusive*!!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As we’re leaving January blues behind and looking ahead to the rest of the year, we thought we’d dive into the top predicted dating trends for 2024. From polyamory, to age-gap dating and is this the year where men will share more emotional side in their dating lives?? Watch now to find out! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Everyone has been delulu in some point of their lives and in this episode we dive into what people can be delusional about especially when it comes to dating and relationships! Because come on girls don’t lie, we know we’ve alllll been there! From chatting about unrealistically planning your wedding in your head after a first date with a guy, to grand gestures to show your love for someone and we ask the important questions like are men or women more delusional when it comes to relationships? Plus Saff spills the tea on her very traumatic ski trip, her boyfriend chasing his dreams in America and Ana gives a lil update on her dating life - is 2024 the year of the boyfriend??? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We always love answering your questions and this episode, we answer everything your have been dyinggggg to know! From when our next girl trip is, to advise on figuring out your twenties, and what do we see each other doing in ten years. It’s giving major girl boss energy (in a good way!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week’s episode you’re in for a real treat! We dive into astrology and we ask the hard hitting question like, does astrology actually make a difference in someone’s dating life? Is zodiac sign compatibility really a thing? We even do a little chart reading and learn if it’s written in the stars that Saff & her BF are the perfect match that will stand the test of time. Plus, are Saff & Ana destined to be BFF’s for life? The future could be in our charts…. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are many new terms and words in the dating world right now that we can’t keep track! So we’d thought we’d put our dating skills to the test and guess what each dating slang means. Honestly some of the words will have your jaws on the floor! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this week’s episode we chat about all the little secrets we do in order to feel more confident/ desirable when going to a night out on the town. From positive pep talks, to what perfume our outfits we’d deffo wear to make us feel our best, and body language to give the boys a hint to strike a convo. And remember ladies, the most important thing is you want to make yourself feed good and being desirable for YOURSELF. Self love is sexy and it’s alll about the female gaze, no male gaze over here! Plus Ana spills the tea on if she’s going on a second date with the January boy… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We've seen a lot of people sharing their 2024 ins & outs and thought it was time to get in on the action, so Saf & Ana are sharing theirs for the year in this week's bonus ep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

2024 has started with a bang and there is already so much to catch up on - hospital visits, New Year's chaos and a very promising first date amongst a lot of other bits Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's nearly the end of the year so Saff & Ana chat about their 2023 life lessons with a list of what they've learned, and what energy they're taking into 2024 with them. HNY everyone! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The girls are back on Boxing Day to chat about what they got up to on Christmas Day, the logistics of cooking a big roast and Elf on a Shelf. Saffron has a big NYE coming up, and Ana let us know what big gift she got her girls for Xmas! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tis the season girls! We’re getting allllll cosy and giving you a festive survival episode - we’re brainstorming Christmassy date ideas and talking setting fire to marshmallows, festive ex-stalking and situationship gift-giving…plus, what do you do when time with the fam leads to pressure to put a ring on it? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Christmas is less than a week away and what better way to get ready than with a round of festive dilemmas?! Ana and Saff rate roast dinners, chat about Xmas texts from your ex and whether or not your situationship deserves a gift. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We always love doing a little q&a so we thought why not do it again this week! We help answer your dating problems from what gifts to get your special someone (because honestly shopping for men can be so hard!) Plus will we be each other’s maids of honours one day?? And Ana admits to a quite an embarrassing twerking encounter with her mum! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s that time of year again…. And what better way to get into the holiday spirit then a little get ready with us! We spill all the tea on what our Christmas and NYE plans are this year (including Saff’s festive plans with her boo!). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ana gives us allllll the tea on what really happened on her recent Hinge date and it definitely gives us main character energy. Plus, will she see him again??? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You asked, we delivered! We answer all of your burning questions and dilemmas in today’s episode, which also features a little story of us potentially being faceapped by the same man a while back??!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yes Saff has left her single girl era and honestly, we love to see it. It is cuffing season, after all! But today's episode is an ode to singleness and Ana's positive perspective on embracing being uncoupled. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We saw the hard launch, we need to know the details. Grab a cup of tea, it's time to hear all about Saffron's new boyfriend... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Grab a drink girls, it's time to play snog, marry, avoid! We honestly couldn't keep it together in this episode - way too many hilarious combinations. Please tell us what your answers would have been?! (Goes without saying, this episode was filmed before Saffron's new relationship.) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

With all the travel we've both been doing recently, we recorded this episode a couple of weeks in advance (just before Saff dropped the hard launch). In this episode we deep dive into the chaotic world of flirting, discovering we both go for sarcasm and teasing over anything and that boys truly will say the weirdest shit to get your attention. (06:00) Americans and Brits flirt SO differently (10:45) Ana's best/worst flirting story (13:36) The Box is the wildest club?? (16:40) Flirting with *a certain* YouTuber (20:00) Different dates make flirting way easier (20:41) Eye contact is top tier flirting (23:39) You've still got to keep the spark going when you get into a relationship (26:25) It's so much easier to flirt with someone if you DON'T fancy them?? (29:00) When boys can't get the hint (29:50) "Shut up and kiss me" (33:55) Teasing and playfulness is such an easy in (38:00) The hall of shame (45:00) Ana's going to Paris for a first date then.. (50:00) Hearing from you guys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're delving into the DMs you guys have sent us today discussing all things "meet-the-parents" and you guys delivered!! From bumping into your boyfriends ex's parents at a restaurant, what you'd do if your boyfriend's mum didn't like you and our advice on what to do if your parents aren't keen on your new partner.. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

By now, Saff has revealed Mystery Man on IG - the hard launch none of us saw coming! In this episode recorded just before the big reveal, we talk about meeting the parents - why it can be such a stressful occasion and our mum's perspectives on it. See you Thursday for our bonus ep!! (03:07) Saff’s NYC debrief (07:22) ..and now she’s off to Monte Carlo with Mystery Man (10:00) How far off meeting the parents is she? (11:30) What made Ana feel nervous about introducing a boyfriend to her mum? (14:40) why Saff loves introducing people to her family (17:45) Julie’s voice note - her perspective on meeting the boyfriend (21:45) “What are your intentions with my daughter!!!” (22:36) Ana feels ready to move forward with someone new (25:05) Wendy’s Red flags (voicenote) (29:00) Wendy’s Green flags (voicenote) (31:00) Wendy’s opinion on when to meet Saff’s boyfriends (voicenote) (32:00) We hate to admit it, but parents are always right (35:30) Meeting before you’re official - just a waste of your parents time? (39:00) How soon is too soon? (40:00) Saff has told Mystery Man what engagement ring she wants???!! (40:42) Meeting the friends vs Meeting the family (43:24) How come Ana never met her ex’s family? (46:30) Would you be more nervous to meet the Mum or the Dad? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The saying goes that what goes around comes around and when it comes to boys screwing us over, we are firm believers. In today's episode we unpack the idea of karma and whether it's a more mature approach to wish people well and move on from situations.. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we’re talking about the return of the exes - they aaaaalways come crawling back and today we’re unpacking why we think that is. Also guys, for some reason we lost Saff’s camera footage for much of this episode :( next week you'll have her in full HD quality - sorry! See you on Thursday for our second episode of the week! (01:50) Ana’s trip to LA and Vegas debrief (11:09) Saff is heading to NYC (14:34) This year has been the year of partying and dating for Saff (16:50) All of Ana’s exes have come back into her DMs lately (22:15) If Saff said she was getting back with her ex, what would Ana say? (24:24) Why does it hurt more when situationships come to an end versus relationships? (29:00) Saff's exes... she sees you watching her stories... (30:35) Are they seeking closure or an excuse to see you again? (33:28) Are there any relationships or situationships that we feel we never got closure on? (40:43) Is there anyone from our dating history we're secretly hoping will get in touch with us again? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Is there ever a nice way to ghost someone? We always assume being ghosted is a brutal way of letting someone know you're no longer interested, but could there be a different perspective to consider? Let's dive in together... (0:00) - What you missed in the main episode (0:39) - Your experiences with ghosting (0:47) - Is ghosting always a bad thing? (1:55) - Asking you about ways to ghost someone (2:04) - What are the good reasons to ghost? (6:00) - No, there aren’t good reasons to ghost (7:36) - We’ve put our producer to work - why would his friends ghost someone? (9:52) - Are guys scared to get into relationships? (11:28) - Are there different forms of ghosting? (13:02) - Ghosting to make us want them more, it’s an ego thing (13:50) - When does ghosting hurt the most? (16:03) - Guys who ghost but still watch everything you do Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's halloween and we've got a pretty apt topic for this week's episode - ghosting. We chat about the times we have been ghosted and we didn't care, the times when it really hurt and the times we were the ones guilty of ghosting. (2:00) Ana has ghosted.. and she’s ashamed to admit it (4:48) The story of the guy who thought Ana was a catfish (10:00) When Saff got ghosted by the guy she actually really liked (16:01) The plot thickens… this is the same guy from episode 2 (18:38) Ana matched with all the boys in this friendship group which caused one of them to ghost her (24:15) Saff’s opinion on matching with your friendship group (28:28) Why do you actually think people ghost? (29:50) We can’t believe this guy used THIS excuse for ghosting… (33:34) In the DMs: the last messages between Ana and the guy she was ghosted by Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're feeling nostalgic and wanted to throw it back to the OG YouTuber trends with a friendship test. How well do we know each other, our dating history and preferences in boys? Watch on spotify and let us know in the Q&A box which other challenges you want to see from us! (01:43) Who, when and where was Ana's first kiss? (03:21) How old was Saff when she lost her virginity? (03:46) How old was Ana? (04:05) Who is the most famous person who has ever slid into Ana's DMs? (06:56) Lights on or off? (07:28) How many of the people Ana has got with has she blocked? (08:15) Who is Saff waiting for to become single? (08:45) Whats the highest number of people Ana has got with in one night? (09:45) What does Saff think is her best feature? (10:13) Something that gives Ana the ick (12:22) What's Saff's biggest turn on? (13:24) What kind of reality stars is Ana most likely to get with? (14:32) Ranking our love languages Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready for the summer debrief guys. We were both single this summer AND we went away together loads - a perfect combination for some very questionable decisions, kissing in the clubs and some below average dates.. (05:00) This was our first hot girl summer (05:37) Saff’s date in LA with the guy in the fluffy hat (15:00) Ana kissing the friend… just for the plot (21:10) Saff’s 48 hour whirlwind romance (27:47) What happened to Alan??? (28:58) The Cruise (33:45) Jerry, the sex addiction and the family blessing (39:08) How old is too old for a kiss? (41:31) The Ibiza Silver Fox (43:43) Who’s been in our DMs? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices